Kingdom Marriage Vs Modern World Marriage | Gods True Design | Kingsley Okonkwo

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  • In a world where the institution of marriage is constantly attacked with lies, Christians must understand the important differences between Kingdom marriage and modern-world marriage. Join us in this enlightening discussion as we delve into the timeless principles rooted in God's Word that define a Kingdom marriage. Discover how Kingdom marriage transcends societal norms and fosters a deep spiritual connection between spouses, ultimately reflecting the divine love between Christ and His church. Whether married, engaged, or single, this video offers valuable insights and guidance for navigating relationships in today's culture while staying true to biblical principles. Don't miss out on unlocking the secrets to a fulfilling and purpose-driven marriage aligned with God's Kingdom agenda. Subscribe now and embark on the journey towards building a Kingdom marriage that stands the test of time!
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  • @thetaniart
    @thetaniart 3 місяці тому +147

    I'm a Muslim but have never regretted hearing this guys preaching concerning marriage. I totally agree with his stand point on marriage from the bible. A lot of people misquoting and even abusing the bible nowadays. Image that there are even gay pastors in church.
    May Allah keep this man and bless him with more wisdom at the same time guide him and his wife till the end of there days.
    I wish I knew this guy about 10 years ago but Allah is the best of planners, He alone knows why I met him few years back. At least it was before my marriage and I'm proud to say part of his teachings are what is holding my marriage.
    It's an honor knowing you sir 🙏❤.

    • @omowunmiolorunfemi7213
      @omowunmiolorunfemi7213 3 місяці тому +3

      God bless you!

    • @darlingtinanicholas2917
      @darlingtinanicholas2917 3 місяці тому +12

      Fortunately Allah isn't God almighty, Come to christ and experience the true meaning of who God is

    • @flourishorji6681
      @flourishorji6681 3 місяці тому +3

      Your good works and prayers won't get you to heaven as a Muslim. Repent and give your life to Christ dear one.

    • @user-ni2lo3sw5v
      @user-ni2lo3sw5v 3 місяці тому

      God is love. ​@@darlingtinanicholas2917

    • @Gracefulygraced
      @Gracefulygraced 3 місяці тому

      Thank God... More Blessings

  • @Mrs_VOW
    @Mrs_VOW 3 місяці тому +73

    Somehow I found myself attending marriage and relationship counselling programs long before i got married. It was like a social church outing for me once every month for over 6yrs 😅 Even after I met my husband and got married I’m glued to a few marriage teachers and pastor K&M is my go to atleast 2wice a week😁 God has blessed me with a kingdom marriage and I enjoy coming back to keep learning in order to sustain what God has given me. Maybe someday I will teach about this but until then let me sit at the feet of mentorship 🙌

  • @wigsclinic7479
    @wigsclinic7479 3 місяці тому +109

    My marriage will be a kingdom marriage. I am a kingdom person and I will marry a kingdom person.

  • @uyamaducharles1979
    @uyamaducharles1979 2 місяці тому +10

    Under God, I chose a kingdom marriage...a home where Jesus will daily be glorified!

  • @harmonyayoba5049
    @harmonyayoba5049 3 місяці тому +35

    The video script discusses the differences between traditional, contemporary, and kingdom marriages. It emphasizes the importance of running a kingdom marriage where both partners are equal and work together as one. The script also addresses misconceptions about gender roles and financial responsibilities in marriage, advocating for unity and mutual respect.
    Key moments:
    00:00 Marriage can be traditional, contemporary, or kingdom-based. Christians should aim for a kingdom marriage aligned with God's template for a beautiful and fulfilling union.
    -Different types of marriages: traditional, contemporary, and kingdom-based.
    -Many Christians run traditional or contemporary marriages, but few embrace kingdom marriages.
    -The importance of running a kingdom marriage aligned with God's template for a beautiful and fulfilling union.
    -The significance of understanding the context and details of biblical teachings, such as Jesus' response to the Pharisees regarding divorce.
    08:05 Marriage is intended to be between male and female as per the original design. Deviating from this design leads to confusion and challenges in relationships.
    -Marriage is between male and female as per the original design.
    -Challenges arise when individuals deviate from the original design.
    -The importance of maintaining the sanctity of marriage and not disrespecting the covenant.
    16:10 Maintain boundaries with exes to respect your current partner and prioritize your marriage. Husbands must be present and responsible for their homes, not neglecting their roles.
    -Respecting your partner by keeping boundaries with exes, avoiding unnecessary contact.
    -Prioritizing marriage by leaving parental influence and focusing on building a strong marital bond.
    -The importance of husbands being present and responsible for their homes, not neglecting their roles.
    24:17 Marriage signifies two individuals becoming one, not physical unity. Traditional marriages can perpetuate abuse and misinterpret scriptures, like promoting polygamy without context.
    -Traditional marriages can lead to abuse and misinterpretation of scriptures.
    -Polygamy advocates often cherry-pick verses without understanding the context.
    32:19 Misinterpretation of scriptures on leadership and submission in marriages leads to unbalanced dynamics. Understanding the context and not cherry-picking verses is crucial for healthy relationships.
    -Misinterpretation of scriptures can lead to unbalanced marriage dynamics.
    -Contrast between traditional and contemporary marriage dynamics.
    -Importance of understanding the context and not cherry-picking verses.
    40:23 Interpreting scripture requires considering the audience and context to avoid misapplication. Submission in marriage emphasizes unity and shared leadership, not dominance.
    -Contextual understanding of scripture is essential to prevent misinterpretation.
    -Submission in marriage signifies unity and shared leadership, not one-sided dominance.
    48:25 Submission in marriage is for unity, not superiority. Men and women have different roles for harmony. Misinterpretation of scripture leads to cultural biases affecting marriage dynamics.
    -Submission in marriage is for unity, not superiority.
    -Men and women have different roles for harmony.
    -Misinterpretation of scripture leads to cultural biases affecting marriage dynamics.
    56:30 Traditional marriage values mutual respect and understanding, while contemporary marriage can lead to gender role confusion. Both partners should appreciate and honor each other's contributions.
    -Traditional marriage emphasizes serving one another with respect and honor.
    -Contemporary marriage can lead to gender role confusion and emasculation of men.
    -The importance of appreciating and honoring each other's contributions in a marriage.
    -The scriptural context of respecting elders and treating family members with care and purity.
    1:04:39 In a Kingdom marriage, both partners are equal and work together. Traditional and contemporary marriage ideologies can lead to control and imbalance in relationships.
    -Traditional and contemporary marriage ideologies can create a sense of entitlement and control in relationships.
    -Men should not feel inferior if their wives earn more and should strive for equality in a marriage.

    • @KingsleyOkonkwo
      @KingsleyOkonkwo  3 місяці тому +11

      Great, how did you do this

    • @cynthiaappenteng
      @cynthiaappenteng 2 місяці тому +1

    • @lynnmothibeli325
      @lynnmothibeli325 2 місяці тому +1

      Thank you, Harmony🙏🏾❤❤.

    • @olufemitolowoetan2996
      @olufemitolowoetan2996 2 місяці тому

      @@KingsleyOkonkwo He used ChatGPT Sidebar. It is an extension for google chrome. Helps summarise every webpage you are on, even ones containing videos like youtube.

    • @gracephiloe5788
      @gracephiloe5788 Місяць тому +1

      You are a genius 😮, thanks

  • @chinyereilonze1953
    @chinyereilonze1953 3 місяці тому +22

    What a balanced teaching! I have never gotten bored listening to this couple.
    I love marriage cos I have had a beautiful one for 29yrs and pray the same for everyone

    • @swwkgudfurd9480
      @swwkgudfurd9480 Місяць тому

      What made your marriage beautiful?

    • @user-hh6qp8fp6l
      @user-hh6qp8fp6l Місяць тому

      My Marriage will be a kingdom Marriage. i will marry right and raise kingdom children in Jesus Name

  • @elizabethfrancis9342
    @elizabethfrancis9342 3 місяці тому +15

    My marriage will be a kingdom marriage, I am a kingdom lady and I will raise kingdom children in Jesus name 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @user-xi8jt8rp6o
    @user-xi8jt8rp6o 3 місяці тому +7

    My marriage will be a kingdom marriage.I will married a kingdom husband and raise kingdom children in Jesus Name

  • @temitopeadu8585
    @temitopeadu8585 3 місяці тому +7

    When you read the Bible, all details are important

  • @towdahsfleet3278
    @towdahsfleet3278 16 днів тому +1

    I will marry right
    My marriage is a kingdom marriage
    My marriage will fulfil God's purpose on earth
    My marriage will be beautiful and blissful
    I will enjoy my marriage...

  • @boswells1422
    @boswells1422 3 місяці тому +8

    I'm listening to this message for the 3rd time today, never heard it this balance before. God bless you Sir

  • @Joytotheworld01
    @Joytotheworld01 3 місяці тому +32

    Marriage is a Beautiful Thing
    My own marriage will be a kingdom marriage

    • @Ebahandle
      @Ebahandle 3 місяці тому

      can you put the works
      ?

  • @MarryOnChain
    @MarryOnChain 3 місяці тому +6

    Marriage is a sacred union between two individuals, a promise of love, commitment, and companionship. A wedding is a celebration of this bond, bringing families and friends together to witness and support the couple's journey forward. It marks the beginning of a new chapter filled with joy, challenges, and growth.

  • @KhaleedIbrahim-lk6nz
    @KhaleedIbrahim-lk6nz 5 днів тому +1

    I will have a Kingdom marriage in Jesus' name, Amen 🎉❤🎉
    I love you so much, PK and PM . God bless you big my couple crush 😍
    #long live the Kingzos ❤🎉❤

  • @EmeldahMachimba
    @EmeldahMachimba 3 місяці тому +5

    My marriage will be a kingdom marriage in Jesus mighty name

  • @nwosunneora2817
    @nwosunneora2817 3 місяці тому +5

    My marriage is a Kingdom marriage 🎉... God bless you sir.

  • @lynnmothibeli325
    @lynnmothibeli325 2 місяці тому +3

    Every single time I visit this channel, I never regret it!

  • @liz9664
    @liz9664 3 місяці тому +9

    My marriage is a kingdom marriage, hallelujah! ❤

  • @eugeniaoranekwulu95
    @eugeniaoranekwulu95 3 місяці тому +3

    My marriage will be a kingdom marriage in Jesus name🙏🏽❤️

  • @GreatestLuv
    @GreatestLuv 3 місяці тому +4

    God bless you Pastor Kingsley and Mrs. The world need and are waiting earnestly for kingdom people like you. All this madness about dishonoring the sacred of marriage most STOP. We need more kingdom marriage !!!

  • @zayasnaturalhairhaven3451
    @zayasnaturalhairhaven3451 3 місяці тому +7

    My marriage will be a kingdom marriage in Jesus name amen. Thank you pastor Kingsley Okonkwo the gay issue will be far from our children according to Isaiah 54:13 our children will be taught by the Lord. I will marry right. The issue of Hakimi the footballer that couldn't leave and cleave😅

  • @Elizabethomo
    @Elizabethomo 3 місяці тому +6

    We must run with God's template to have a beautiful marriage 😮, learnt something beautiful

  • @rosemaryifeyinwa7017
    @rosemaryifeyinwa7017 3 місяці тому +3

    This is so a powerful message. Thank you Papa for enlightening our understanding on Kingdom Marriage. 👌👏👏🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥✨️

  • @njabechristelle
    @njabechristelle 3 місяці тому +7

    My marriage will be a kingdom marriage

  • @ekeminijibsy2522
    @ekeminijibsy2522 2 місяці тому +1

    I will have a kingdom marriage in Jesus name.Amen!

  • @njokeraisa9609
    @njokeraisa9609 3 місяці тому +3

    My marriage will be a kingdom marriage in Jesus' name.

  • @Tuoyoede
    @Tuoyoede 3 місяці тому +3

    Pastor said "...and blender"😅🤣. Especially those Buchymix chefs😅.

  • @nadinembu3654
    @nadinembu3654 3 місяці тому +2

    Dear Lord, during this modern time grant us the grace to keep keeping your kingdom in our marriages IJN, Amen🙏🏾

  • @samichymes8745
    @samichymes8745 3 місяці тому

    Respect! Respect!! Respect!!!

  • @michaelaudioh4659
    @michaelaudioh4659 3 місяці тому +11

    Stray bullet touch buchymix blender 😂😂😂😂. I enjoy Pastor K teachings

  • @Pharez85
    @Pharez85 3 місяці тому

    What a WORD!!! #PK 👌🏽

  • @jennifermbonuifeoma
    @jennifermbonuifeoma 3 місяці тому +2

    My marriage would be a kingdom marriage. In Jesus name amen🎉

  • @NatashaShapolaMwamba-ny9vy
    @NatashaShapolaMwamba-ny9vy 3 місяці тому

    What a word. Thank you so much❤

  • @EmmanuelJosephOnyekachukwu
    @EmmanuelJosephOnyekachukwu 3 місяці тому

    Glory be to God ❤❤❤❤
    More and more

  • @victoirek.esther2641
    @victoirek.esther2641 3 місяці тому +1

    Such a blessing ❤

  • @chizzyorakwue2923
    @chizzyorakwue2923 3 місяці тому

    Scripture cannot be broken 💯

  • @preciousmulenga2230
    @preciousmulenga2230 2 місяці тому

    Poweful insight 💯

  • @Silicone_fx
    @Silicone_fx Місяць тому

    I will have a kingdom marriage. My home is built on Christ’s foundation. My marriage will work based on kingdom values and principles in Jesus name.

  • @ifechijoan9997
    @ifechijoan9997 3 місяці тому

    I Soo love this message sir. God bless you 🙏

  • @chisengachansa8499
    @chisengachansa8499 3 місяці тому

    High five to kingdom marriage

  • @peacedavid9446
    @peacedavid9446 3 місяці тому +1

    On time 😊

  • @chidumebiukaegbu722
    @chidumebiukaegbu722 3 місяці тому

    Yes I was blessed

  • @kwaparbwala1220
    @kwaparbwala1220 2 місяці тому +1

    My Marriage will be a kingdom marriage in Jesus name AMEN

  • @perpetuaakpulu3343
    @perpetuaakpulu3343 Місяць тому

    My marriage will be a kingdom Amen

  • @jessejuangwa854
    @jessejuangwa854 3 місяці тому

    Complete, balanced and expository!
    Thank you PK ❤

  • @ekezielucaschiamaka4911
    @ekezielucaschiamaka4911 3 місяці тому

    Sir we celebrate the grace in your life

  • @mawiezramusausiohen8246
    @mawiezramusausiohen8246 3 місяці тому +1

    I connect to this teaching GIDIGBA OOOOOO

  • @gabrina
    @gabrina Місяць тому

    My marriage will be a Kingdom marriage ❤

  • @chinyereotaka7517
    @chinyereotaka7517 2 місяці тому

    Wow! This is quite amazing. Thank you, sir.

  • @erimsnissi6228
    @erimsnissi6228 3 місяці тому +3

    Pst k balance it all, it all falls down to Kingdom marriage 🙌🏻🙌🏻

  • @ojooluwatominsin3935
    @ojooluwatominsin3935 3 місяці тому +1

    My marriage will be a kingdom marriage in Jesus name and we are rising kingdom children in Jesus name 🙏🙏

  • @olajideoluwabukolami2228
    @olajideoluwabukolami2228 3 місяці тому

    God richly bless Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo and his family.

  • @sumbomarcus
    @sumbomarcus 2 місяці тому

    God bless you for this

  • @estheremmanuel5937
    @estheremmanuel5937 3 місяці тому +2

    Kai pastor k your sense of humour is something else😂 more grace sir.

  • @harencedjofang7131
    @harencedjofang7131 3 місяці тому +2

    I declare and decree My marriage will be a kingdom marriage in the mighty name of Jesus 🙏❤️ I wait on you Lord

  • @augustineiheanacho9830
    @augustineiheanacho9830 3 місяці тому

    God bless you sir for this wonderful teaching

  • @osastech
    @osastech 3 місяці тому

    I love you sir for exposing truth and original too us ❤

  • @osadebamwenosaiyuwu1785
    @osadebamwenosaiyuwu1785 2 місяці тому

    I loved every bit of this, thank you very much MRS M

  • @anintasamuel5090
    @anintasamuel5090 3 місяці тому +1

    Yes sir

  • @samuellawrence9039
    @samuellawrence9039 3 місяці тому

    My marriage shall be a kingdom marriage Hallelujah

  • @princessnaomi5924
    @princessnaomi5924 2 місяці тому

    Thank you so much pastor k. I was blessed immensely

  • @itsfoda
    @itsfoda 3 місяці тому +1

    The word of God is complete ❤

  • @patiencesika-ameyeye4468
    @patiencesika-ameyeye4468 3 місяці тому +2

    Oh God I tap this anointing to be an active advocate of kingdom relationships in Jesus' name

  • @njemanzeugonna7041
    @njemanzeugonna7041 2 місяці тому +1

    Thanks

  • @GreatestLuv
    @GreatestLuv 3 місяці тому

    Balance!!!

  • @user-ii6kn6uo2p
    @user-ii6kn6uo2p 3 місяці тому +1

    ❤❤❤ Powerful

  • @masilelacalsile9056
    @masilelacalsile9056 2 місяці тому +1

    My Marriage will be a Kingdom Marriage.

  • @monicadiegboh9339
    @monicadiegboh9339 3 місяці тому +1

    I will never be wroungly join in marriage lord 🙏

  • @Belindahmuripu
    @Belindahmuripu 3 місяці тому +2

    I belong to the Kingdom marriage... thank you so much Sir, profound wisdom there.

  • @joyomo3809
    @joyomo3809 3 місяці тому +3

    Lord help me and my husband to do kingdom marriage Amen, tnk u so much pastor K u are such a blessing❤🤩

  • @stormship1647
    @stormship1647 3 місяці тому +2

    This beautiful brother is getting better

  • @janetinnocent870
    @janetinnocent870 3 місяці тому

    My marriage will be a Kingdom Marriage. Amen! 🙏

  • @YvetteBinda
    @YvetteBinda 2 місяці тому +1

    I pray God keeps inspiring you God bless you sir

  • @voksari6834
    @voksari6834 2 місяці тому

    God bless you Pastors K and M. The Word of God endures forever

  • @davojh6947
    @davojh6947 3 місяці тому +1

    My marriage will be a kingdom marriage.... I claimed it

  • @chidumebiukaegbu722
    @chidumebiukaegbu722 3 місяці тому

    I will have a Kingdom Marriage

  • @macDonalduzor
    @macDonalduzor 3 місяці тому

    The design of marriage is beautiful.

  • @margaret.etukudo
    @margaret.etukudo 3 місяці тому +1

    God bless you Sir! More grace in Jesus Name🙏🏾

  • @patriciaiyawe1202
    @patriciaiyawe1202 2 місяці тому

    Thank you Jesus Christ for your Spirit of Excellence in your son and servant, our man of God Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo and his amiable wife, a daughter of Zion. Jesus Christ is Lord Forever Amen and Amen

  • @margo4905
    @margo4905 3 місяці тому +1

    You are a blessing to humanity sir. Thank you for what you do ❤

  • @ESTHERFATUKASI
    @ESTHERFATUKASI 2 місяці тому

    I am indeed transformed after listening. God bless you sir

  • @user-td5ux2zq2t
    @user-td5ux2zq2t Місяць тому

    My marriage will be a Kingdom marriage in the name of Jesus Christ.Amen

  • @olaniranifeoluwa6978
    @olaniranifeoluwa6978 9 днів тому

    Wow..I enjoyed and learnt a lot…pls post the concluding part sir 🙏

  • @ashleydzemwa8812
    @ashleydzemwa8812 3 місяці тому

    My Marriage will be God centered, a kingdom Marriage

  • @nnemekaani7177
    @nnemekaani7177 3 місяці тому +4

    Good evening my Ferrari Pastor Sir. I love you personally

  • @drsiza
    @drsiza 2 місяці тому

    Thank you for this unbiased teaching Sir
    Will definitely come back to watch again

  • @maryclaretokonmah
    @maryclaretokonmah 3 місяці тому

    My marriage will be a kingdom marriage🙏🏼

  • @abayomitope5855
    @abayomitope5855 3 місяці тому

    God bless you for this teaching. More grace to you sir. Pastor Abayomi

  • @ninawaryaro9415
    @ninawaryaro9415 2 місяці тому

    Believing God for a kingdom marriage

  • @_JusTilly
    @_JusTilly 3 місяці тому +7

    I love listening to you and Pst Mildred. There is always so much to learn. 😊

  • @awasomthelma3380
    @awasomthelma3380 3 місяці тому +1

    My marriage is a kingdom marriage😍we are kingdom people

  • @obasiveronica1554
    @obasiveronica1554 2 місяці тому

    Man of God thanks and God bless you for impacting our world. Most of our problems is so many men find it difficult to listen to this kingdom teaching, they are not patient enough to listen. Always tag them

  • @ndivhuwotshivhase792
    @ndivhuwotshivhase792 3 місяці тому

    Everytime I listen to Pastor Kingsley it's always a blessing, thank you sir for doing the Lord's work

  • @estherasim
    @estherasim 3 місяці тому +7

    I dream for a kingdom marriage where God will be the centre of our home... I believe my marriage will be a true example of a kingdom marriage

  • @estherobidile8454
    @estherobidile8454 2 місяці тому

    Thank you dear Lord cause am certain that I will enjoy kingdom marriage.

  • @HildaWendyAkello
    @HildaWendyAkello 3 місяці тому

    My marriage will be a Kingdom marriage

  • @blessinggiadom7370
    @blessinggiadom7370 2 місяці тому

    Pst k I love u sir, with the love of God.

  • @Jayfavour
    @Jayfavour 2 місяці тому

    great message.I will run a kingdom marriages 💑. thank you Pr.K

  • @sheillahayre9474
    @sheillahayre9474 3 місяці тому +1

    My marriage will be a kingdom marriage❤

  • @barbarambidom1733
    @barbarambidom1733 2 місяці тому

    My marriage will be a Kingdom marriage. I am a Kingdom person,I will enjoy my kingdom marriage. Praise God