Kingdom Marriage Vs Modern World Marriage | Gods True Design | Kingsley Okonkwo

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  • @thetaniart
    @thetaniart 10 місяців тому +171

    I'm a Muslim but have never regretted hearing this guys preaching concerning marriage. I totally agree with his stand point on marriage from the bible. A lot of people misquoting and even abusing the bible nowadays. Image that there are even gay pastors in church.
    May Allah keep this man and bless him with more wisdom at the same time guide him and his wife till the end of there days.
    I wish I knew this guy about 10 years ago but Allah is the best of planners, He alone knows why I met him few years back. At least it was before my marriage and I'm proud to say part of his teachings are what is holding my marriage.
    It's an honor knowing you sir 🙏❤.

    • @omowunmiolorunfemi7213
      @omowunmiolorunfemi7213 10 місяців тому +4

      God bless you!

    • @darlingtinanicholas2917
      @darlingtinanicholas2917 10 місяців тому +13

      Fortunately Allah isn't God almighty, Come to christ and experience the true meaning of who God is

    • @flourishorji6681
      @flourishorji6681 10 місяців тому +3

      Your good works and prayers won't get you to heaven as a Muslim. Repent and give your life to Christ dear one.

    • @AngelaJinadu
      @AngelaJinadu 9 місяців тому

      God is love. ​@@darlingtinanicholas2917

    • @Gracefulygraced
      @Gracefulygraced 9 місяців тому

      Thank God... More Blessings

  • @uyamaducharles1979
    @uyamaducharles1979 9 місяців тому +12

    Under God, I chose a kingdom marriage...a home where Jesus will daily be glorified!

  • @Mrs_VOW
    @Mrs_VOW 10 місяців тому +85

    Somehow I found myself attending marriage and relationship counselling programs long before i got married. It was like a social church outing for me once every month for over 6yrs 😅 Even after I met my husband and got married I’m glued to a few marriage teachers and pastor K&M is my go to atleast 2wice a week😁 God has blessed me with a kingdom marriage and I enjoy coming back to keep learning in order to sustain what God has given me. Maybe someday I will teach about this but until then let me sit at the feet of mentorship 🙌

  • @chinyereilonze1953
    @chinyereilonze1953 9 місяців тому +28

    What a balanced teaching! I have never gotten bored listening to this couple.
    I love marriage cos I have had a beautiful one for 29yrs and pray the same for everyone

    • @swwkgudfurd9480
      @swwkgudfurd9480 8 місяців тому

      What made your marriage beautiful?

    • @HannatuPapka
      @HannatuPapka 8 місяців тому

      My Marriage will be a kingdom Marriage. i will marry right and raise kingdom children in Jesus Name

  • @harmonyayoba5049
    @harmonyayoba5049 9 місяців тому +41

    The video script discusses the differences between traditional, contemporary, and kingdom marriages. It emphasizes the importance of running a kingdom marriage where both partners are equal and work together as one. The script also addresses misconceptions about gender roles and financial responsibilities in marriage, advocating for unity and mutual respect.
    Key moments:
    00:00 Marriage can be traditional, contemporary, or kingdom-based. Christians should aim for a kingdom marriage aligned with God's template for a beautiful and fulfilling union.
    -Different types of marriages: traditional, contemporary, and kingdom-based.
    -Many Christians run traditional or contemporary marriages, but few embrace kingdom marriages.
    -The importance of running a kingdom marriage aligned with God's template for a beautiful and fulfilling union.
    -The significance of understanding the context and details of biblical teachings, such as Jesus' response to the Pharisees regarding divorce.
    08:05 Marriage is intended to be between male and female as per the original design. Deviating from this design leads to confusion and challenges in relationships.
    -Marriage is between male and female as per the original design.
    -Challenges arise when individuals deviate from the original design.
    -The importance of maintaining the sanctity of marriage and not disrespecting the covenant.
    16:10 Maintain boundaries with exes to respect your current partner and prioritize your marriage. Husbands must be present and responsible for their homes, not neglecting their roles.
    -Respecting your partner by keeping boundaries with exes, avoiding unnecessary contact.
    -Prioritizing marriage by leaving parental influence and focusing on building a strong marital bond.
    -The importance of husbands being present and responsible for their homes, not neglecting their roles.
    24:17 Marriage signifies two individuals becoming one, not physical unity. Traditional marriages can perpetuate abuse and misinterpret scriptures, like promoting polygamy without context.
    -Traditional marriages can lead to abuse and misinterpretation of scriptures.
    -Polygamy advocates often cherry-pick verses without understanding the context.
    32:19 Misinterpretation of scriptures on leadership and submission in marriages leads to unbalanced dynamics. Understanding the context and not cherry-picking verses is crucial for healthy relationships.
    -Misinterpretation of scriptures can lead to unbalanced marriage dynamics.
    -Contrast between traditional and contemporary marriage dynamics.
    -Importance of understanding the context and not cherry-picking verses.
    40:23 Interpreting scripture requires considering the audience and context to avoid misapplication. Submission in marriage emphasizes unity and shared leadership, not dominance.
    -Contextual understanding of scripture is essential to prevent misinterpretation.
    -Submission in marriage signifies unity and shared leadership, not one-sided dominance.
    48:25 Submission in marriage is for unity, not superiority. Men and women have different roles for harmony. Misinterpretation of scripture leads to cultural biases affecting marriage dynamics.
    -Submission in marriage is for unity, not superiority.
    -Men and women have different roles for harmony.
    -Misinterpretation of scripture leads to cultural biases affecting marriage dynamics.
    56:30 Traditional marriage values mutual respect and understanding, while contemporary marriage can lead to gender role confusion. Both partners should appreciate and honor each other's contributions.
    -Traditional marriage emphasizes serving one another with respect and honor.
    -Contemporary marriage can lead to gender role confusion and emasculation of men.
    -The importance of appreciating and honoring each other's contributions in a marriage.
    -The scriptural context of respecting elders and treating family members with care and purity.
    1:04:39 In a Kingdom marriage, both partners are equal and work together. Traditional and contemporary marriage ideologies can lead to control and imbalance in relationships.
    -Traditional and contemporary marriage ideologies can create a sense of entitlement and control in relationships.
    -Men should not feel inferior if their wives earn more and should strive for equality in a marriage.

    • @KingsleyOkonkwo
      @KingsleyOkonkwo  9 місяців тому +12

      Great, how did you do this

    • @cynthiaappenteng
      @cynthiaappenteng 9 місяців тому +1

    • @lynnmothibeli325
      @lynnmothibeli325 9 місяців тому +1

      Thank you, Harmony🙏🏾❤❤.

    • @olufemitolowoetan2996
      @olufemitolowoetan2996 8 місяців тому

      @@KingsleyOkonkwo He used ChatGPT Sidebar. It is an extension for google chrome. Helps summarise every webpage you are on, even ones containing videos like youtube.

    • @graceacquah246
      @graceacquah246 8 місяців тому +1

      You are a genius 😮, thanks

  • @wigsclinic7479
    @wigsclinic7479 10 місяців тому +120

    My marriage will be a kingdom marriage. I am a kingdom person and I will marry a kingdom person.

  • @Silicone_fx
    @Silicone_fx 7 місяців тому +4

    I will have a kingdom marriage. My home is built on Christ’s foundation. My marriage will work based on kingdom values and principles in Jesus name.

  • @Joytotheworld01
    @Joytotheworld01 10 місяців тому +33

    Marriage is a Beautiful Thing
    My own marriage will be a kingdom marriage

    • @Ebahandle
      @Ebahandle 10 місяців тому

      can you put the works
      ?

  • @ImageCultureStudios
    @ImageCultureStudios 9 місяців тому +9

    I'm listening to this message for the 3rd time today, never heard it this balance before. God bless you Sir

  • @RolandMoi-w8q
    @RolandMoi-w8q 9 місяців тому +9

    My marriage will be a kingdom marriage.I will married a kingdom husband and raise kingdom children in Jesus Name

  • @elizabethfrancis9342
    @elizabethfrancis9342 9 місяців тому +15

    My marriage will be a kingdom marriage, I am a kingdom lady and I will raise kingdom children in Jesus name 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @nwosunneora2817
    @nwosunneora2817 9 місяців тому +6

    My marriage is a Kingdom marriage 🎉... God bless you sir.

  • @EmeldahMachimba
    @EmeldahMachimba 9 місяців тому +6

    My marriage will be a kingdom marriage in Jesus mighty name

  • @towdahsfleet3278
    @towdahsfleet3278 7 місяців тому +3

    I will marry right
    My marriage is a kingdom marriage
    My marriage will fulfil God's purpose on earth
    My marriage will be beautiful and blissful
    I will enjoy my marriage...

  • @MarryOnChain
    @MarryOnChain 9 місяців тому +6

    Marriage is a sacred union between two individuals, a promise of love, commitment, and companionship. A wedding is a celebration of this bond, bringing families and friends together to witness and support the couple's journey forward. It marks the beginning of a new chapter filled with joy, challenges, and growth.

  • @temitopeadu8585
    @temitopeadu8585 9 місяців тому +8

    When you read the Bible, all details are important

  • @lizzyfresh07
    @lizzyfresh07 10 місяців тому +10

    My marriage is a kingdom marriage, hallelujah! ❤

  • @Elizabethomo
    @Elizabethomo 10 місяців тому +6

    We must run with God's template to have a beautiful marriage 😮, learnt something beautiful

  • @GreatestLuv
    @GreatestLuv 10 місяців тому +4

    God bless you Pastor Kingsley and Mrs. The world need and are waiting earnestly for kingdom people like you. All this madness about dishonoring the sacred of marriage most STOP. We need more kingdom marriage !!!

  • @eugeniaoranekwulu95
    @eugeniaoranekwulu95 9 місяців тому +4

    My marriage will be a kingdom marriage in Jesus name🙏🏽❤️

  • @zayasnaturalhairhaven3451
    @zayasnaturalhairhaven3451 10 місяців тому +9

    My marriage will be a kingdom marriage in Jesus name amen. Thank you pastor Kingsley Okonkwo the gay issue will be far from our children according to Isaiah 54:13 our children will be taught by the Lord. I will marry right. The issue of Hakimi the footballer that couldn't leave and cleave😅

  • @njemanzeugonna7041
    @njemanzeugonna7041 8 місяців тому +1

    Thanks

  • @lynnmothibeli325
    @lynnmothibeli325 9 місяців тому +3

    Every single time I visit this channel, I never regret it!

  • @rosemaryifeyinwa7017
    @rosemaryifeyinwa7017 9 місяців тому +3

    This is so a powerful message. Thank you Papa for enlightening our understanding on Kingdom Marriage. 👌👏👏🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥✨️

  • @patiencesika-ameyeye4468
    @patiencesika-ameyeye4468 9 місяців тому +1

    I thank God for my marriage. I now know it's a pure Kingdom marriage. No wonder, we've been able to stand the test of time and still cherish each other. THANK YOU JESUS FOR DIVINE UNDERSTANDING OF MARRIAGE.

  • @estheremmanuel5937
    @estheremmanuel5937 10 місяців тому +2

    Kai pastor k your sense of humour is something else😂 more grace sir.

  • @KhaleedIbrahim-lk6nz
    @KhaleedIbrahim-lk6nz 6 місяців тому +1

    I will have a Kingdom marriage in Jesus' name, Amen 🎉❤🎉
    I love you so much, PK and PM . God bless you big my couple crush 😍
    #long live the Kingzos ❤🎉❤

  • @nadinembu3654
    @nadinembu3654 9 місяців тому +2

    Dear Lord, during this modern time grant us the grace to keep keeping your kingdom in our marriages IJN, Amen🙏🏾

  • @erimsnissi6228
    @erimsnissi6228 10 місяців тому +3

    Pst k balance it all, it all falls down to Kingdom marriage 🙌🏻🙌🏻

  • @njabechristelle
    @njabechristelle 10 місяців тому +7

    My marriage will be a kingdom marriage

  • @harencedjofang7131
    @harencedjofang7131 10 місяців тому +2

    I declare and decree My marriage will be a kingdom marriage in the mighty name of Jesus 🙏❤️ I wait on you Lord

  • @violettachikungu7975
    @violettachikungu7975 10 місяців тому +4

    We need more of these types of messages sir. This has changed my mindset alot.I was even doubting whether or not to get married because the traditional idea sounds like oppression.

  • @joyomo3809
    @joyomo3809 10 місяців тому +3

    Lord help me and my husband to do kingdom marriage Amen, tnk u so much pastor K u are such a blessing❤🤩

  • @Belindahmuripu
    @Belindahmuripu 10 місяців тому +2

    I belong to the Kingdom marriage... thank you so much Sir, profound wisdom there.

  • @njokeraisa9609
    @njokeraisa9609 9 місяців тому +3

    My marriage will be a kingdom marriage in Jesus' name.

  • @patiencesika-ameyeye4468
    @patiencesika-ameyeye4468 10 місяців тому +2

    Oh God I tap this anointing to be an active advocate of kingdom relationships in Jesus' name

  • @barbarambidom1733
    @barbarambidom1733 9 місяців тому

    My marriage will be a Kingdom marriage. I am a Kingdom person,I will enjoy my kingdom marriage. Praise God

  • @margo4905
    @margo4905 9 місяців тому +1

    You are a blessing to humanity sir. Thank you for what you do ❤

  • @ifeyinwanwabasili6329
    @ifeyinwanwabasili6329 9 місяців тому +2

    I receive my kingdom marriage.I will keep listening and studying God’s word only concerning marriage.

  • @bunjekelly3144
    @bunjekelly3144 8 місяців тому

    My marraige will be a Kingdom Marraige, God bless you pastor K

  • @obasiveronica1554
    @obasiveronica1554 9 місяців тому

    Man of God thanks and God bless you for impacting our world. Most of our problems is so many men find it difficult to listen to this kingdom teaching, they are not patient enough to listen. Always tag them

  • @masilelacalsile9056
    @masilelacalsile9056 9 місяців тому

    I'm intentional about having a Kingdom spouse and marriage.. learning and unlearning adopted traditional and contemporary template. When the time comes the Lord Himself will make it happen. Kingdom Marriage ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @jennifermbonuifeoma
    @jennifermbonuifeoma 10 місяців тому +2

    My marriage would be a kingdom marriage. In Jesus name amen🎉

  • @ojooluwatominsin3935
    @ojooluwatominsin3935 9 місяців тому +1

    My marriage will be a kingdom marriage in Jesus name and we are rising kingdom children in Jesus name 🙏🙏

  • @mamokgethiqueeneth9075
    @mamokgethiqueeneth9075 9 місяців тому

    How you taught about polygamy blew my mind 🙏🙏 Thank you for the teaching
    🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦

  • @YvetteBinda
    @YvetteBinda 9 місяців тому +1

    I pray God keeps inspiring you God bless you sir

  • @kwaparbwala1220
    @kwaparbwala1220 9 місяців тому +1

    My Marriage will be a kingdom marriage in Jesus name AMEN

  • @margaret.etukudo
    @margaret.etukudo 9 місяців тому +1

    God bless you Sir! More grace in Jesus Name🙏🏾

  • @estherasim
    @estherasim 10 місяців тому +7

    I dream for a kingdom marriage where God will be the centre of our home... I believe my marriage will be a true example of a kingdom marriage

  • @davojh6947
    @davojh6947 9 місяців тому +1

    My marriage will be a kingdom marriage.... I claimed it

  • @adelekemary5014
    @adelekemary5014 10 місяців тому +1

    My marriage is a Kingdom marriage am a kingdom daughter and produce kingdom children in Jesus name

  • @Tuoyoede
    @Tuoyoede 9 місяців тому +3

    Pastor said "...and blender"😅🤣. Especially those Buchymix chefs😅.

  • @judymutheu7471
    @judymutheu7471 6 місяців тому

    I claim a Kingdom marriage in Jesus mighty name 🙏

  • @michaelaudioh4659
    @michaelaudioh4659 9 місяців тому +11

    Stray bullet touch buchymix blender 😂😂😂😂. I enjoy Pastor K teachings

  • @ThandiKunene-h8z
    @ThandiKunene-h8z 8 місяців тому

    My marriage will be a Kingdom marriage in the name of Jesus Christ.Amen

  • @_JusTilly
    @_JusTilly 10 місяців тому +7

    I love listening to you and Pst Mildred. There is always so much to learn. 😊

  • @patriciaiyawe1202
    @patriciaiyawe1202 9 місяців тому

    Thank you Jesus Christ for your Spirit of Excellence in your son and servant, our man of God Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo and his amiable wife, a daughter of Zion. Jesus Christ is Lord Forever Amen and Amen

  • @adetonagraceiyanuoluwa7402
    @adetonagraceiyanuoluwa7402 9 місяців тому

    I was really blessed......I'm running a Christian marriage

  • @itsfoda
    @itsfoda 9 місяців тому +1

    The word of God is complete ❤

  • @christinemaina4819
    @christinemaina4819 9 місяців тому

    Wow!!! I am learning this bible reading criteria of picking bible verses selectively now,..and it's really blessing me,....I mean you cannot choose wat you want or what suits you.

  • @ESTHERFATUKASI
    @ESTHERFATUKASI 8 місяців тому

    I am indeed transformed after listening. God bless you sir

  • @berniceketorwoley6096
    @berniceketorwoley6096 9 місяців тому

    God bless you daddy, dear God help me have a kingdom marriage to the glorification of your name amen 🙏🙏🙏🧡

  • @nnemekaani7177
    @nnemekaani7177 10 місяців тому +4

    Good evening my Ferrari Pastor Sir. I love you personally

  • @awasomthelma3380
    @awasomthelma3380 10 місяців тому +1

    My marriage is a kingdom marriage😍we are kingdom people

  • @stormship1647
    @stormship1647 10 місяців тому +2

    This beautiful brother is getting better

  • @victoriapaul-ameh
    @victoriapaul-ameh 10 місяців тому

    My marriage will be a kingdom marriage in Jesus Name! Thank you Pastor K for this sound teaching

  • @udeigwegrace2272
    @udeigwegrace2272 10 місяців тому +1

    I had always talked about this and now Pst K is teaching on it....
    The Holyspirit is Awesome!!! Now I am Sure again that the Holyspirit Thought me.

  • @walterfoto4360
    @walterfoto4360 10 місяців тому +1

    Pastor King sir please I want to be your disciple... You really inspire me sir

  • @Gail285
    @Gail285 Місяць тому

    Waohhh.....Sir, you did justice to this. Thank you sir

  • @macDonalduzor
    @macDonalduzor 9 місяців тому

    The design of marriage is beautiful.

  • @masilelacalsile9056
    @masilelacalsile9056 9 місяців тому +1

    My Marriage will be a Kingdom Marriage.

  • @cynthiaohabuiro3869
    @cynthiaohabuiro3869 10 місяців тому +1

    My marriage will be blissful, kingdom-centered, and beautiful.

  • @voksari6834
    @voksari6834 9 місяців тому

    God bless you Pastors K and M. The Word of God endures forever

  • @Estherobidile
    @Estherobidile 9 місяців тому

    Thank you dear Lord cause am certain that I will enjoy kingdom marriage.

  • @Jayfavour
    @Jayfavour 9 місяців тому

    great message.I will run a kingdom marriages 💑. thank you Pr.K

  • @VeeNarh
    @VeeNarh 10 місяців тому +1

    Woow. I have learnt so much and keep learning a lot from Pastor Kingsley and Pastor Mildred, as a single lady from Ghana .
    God richly bless the two of you, with all that your heart desires! You are both blessings to our generation!

    • @ayanloladolapo
      @ayanloladolapo 10 місяців тому

      I WILL WORK ON MYSELF TO BE THE RIGHT PERSON AND GET MARRIED TO THE RIGHT PERSON AND OUR MARRIAGE SHALL BE A KINGDOM MARRIAGE BY GOD'S GRACE. THANK YOU PASTOR KAY ❤🎉. MORE GRACE AND ANOINTING

  • @abayomitope5855
    @abayomitope5855 9 місяців тому

    God bless you for this teaching. More grace to you sir. Pastor Abayomi

  • @janetinnocent870
    @janetinnocent870 10 місяців тому

    My marriage will be a Kingdom Marriage. Amen! 🙏

  • @ninawaryaro9415
    @ninawaryaro9415 9 місяців тому

    Believing God for a kingdom marriage

  • @Tmfoundationministry1212
    @Tmfoundationministry1212 9 місяців тому

    Pastor k 😮what in the wisdom of God is this 🫡🫡I was blessed with this . Thank you sir ❤❤ my marriage will be a kingdom marriage 🙏🙏

  • @samuellawrence9039
    @samuellawrence9039 10 місяців тому

    My marriage shall be a kingdom marriage Hallelujah

  • @attoaliceprim.843
    @attoaliceprim.843 9 місяців тому

    Well said Pr. K, listening in from Uganda, I'm praying for that sweet kingdom marriage, thanks for the foundational knowlege of marriage very beneficail for us singles.

  • @drsiza
    @drsiza 9 місяців тому

    Thank you for this unbiased teaching Sir
    Will definitely come back to watch again

  • @ndivhuwotshivhase792
    @ndivhuwotshivhase792 10 місяців тому

    Everytime I listen to Pastor Kingsley it's always a blessing, thank you sir for doing the Lord's work

  • @monicadiegboh9339
    @monicadiegboh9339 10 місяців тому +1

    I will never be wroungly join in marriage lord 🙏

  • @sheillahayre9474
    @sheillahayre9474 9 місяців тому +1

    My marriage will be a kingdom marriage❤

  • @nwagwetiruth
    @nwagwetiruth 10 місяців тому

    My marriage will be a kingdom marriage in Jesus name. Amen.

  • @osiaprosper2514
    @osiaprosper2514 8 місяців тому

    By God's grace my Marriage will be a kingdom marriage 👫 🙏🏿 bcoz i will marry right, my Marriage shall be Godly and lovely in Jesus name 🙏🏿

  • @victoriaagu5002
    @victoriaagu5002 10 місяців тому

    My marriage will be a kingdom marriage in Jesus name. Amen

  • @perpetuaakpulu3343
    @perpetuaakpulu3343 8 місяців тому

    My marriage will be a kingdom Amen

  • @olaniranifeoluwa6978
    @olaniranifeoluwa6978 6 місяців тому

    Wow..I enjoyed and learnt a lot…pls post the concluding part sir 🙏

  • @jessejuangwa854
    @jessejuangwa854 9 місяців тому

    Complete, balanced and expository!
    Thank you PK ❤

  • @chinyereotaka7517
    @chinyereotaka7517 8 місяців тому

    Wow! This is quite amazing. Thank you, sir.

  • @teey.fed.i
    @teey.fed.i 10 місяців тому

    Marriage within biblical context is the way to go.
    Every country has its unique dynamics. That it doesn’t resemble ours doesn’t mean they don’t practice biblical principles . As a matter of fact, they may be more in sync with Godly principles than we are.

  • @olajideoluwabukolami2228
    @olajideoluwabukolami2228 10 місяців тому

    God richly bless Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo and his family.

  • @princessnaomi5924
    @princessnaomi5924 9 місяців тому

    Thank you so much pastor k. I was blessed immensely

  • @chizzyorakwue2923
    @chizzyorakwue2923 9 місяців тому

    Scripture cannot be broken 💯

  • @ashleydzemwa8812
    @ashleydzemwa8812 9 місяців тому

    My Marriage will be God centered, a kingdom Marriage

  • @abikayministries8043
    @abikayministries8043 10 місяців тому

    My marriage will be a kingdom marriage in Jesus name

  • @osadebamwenosaiyuwu1785
    @osadebamwenosaiyuwu1785 9 місяців тому

    I loved every bit of this, thank you very much MRS M