Hey girl, I have a baby girl that’s almost 16 months old. I was so scared of having a baby too. But everything worked out and I learned a lot along the way. It does get easier!! ❤
I wonder if you could be more in touch with your Ethiopian heritage? It doesn't seem like you have much of an ethnic community in your life to help you stay grounded in your cultural identity. Our raw and organic Ethiopian culture would help to dispell all of these unnecessary 'fears and worries' that are plagueing you, we're very much naturally instinctive when it comes to child bearing and raising and we're very good with taking things as they come, not getting ahead of ourselves and going with the flow, while having immense faith and reliance on our creator. We can only ever do the best with what we know and what we're given, as parents so there's no need to overthink and analyse so much - I feel like that is such a white people thing to do/the Caucasian influence on you operating right there. Consider connecting with more habesha people, I think this would really serve both you and your children moving forward xx
I’ve gotten my BA in business administration and have owned 3 successful businesses at the age of 23. I think I’ll be ok. There’s nothing wrong for women to slow down and chose to be a mom if that’s what they desire 😊 doesn’t mean there won’t be a season in life for them to go back to “work” although if you ask me I’d say being a mother is a full time job.
“All I know is that God had better start blessing me with some patience.” Right there with you. 😅 Prayer is our biggest asset.
Hey girl, I have a baby girl that’s almost 16 months old. I was so scared of having a baby too. But everything worked out and I learned a lot along the way. It does get easier!! ❤
baby you have every thought I’m currently having. I just found out myself-- first time mom at 30 & I’m scared 😂
God Bless You and your family always ❤️💕🙏🙏
Your glowing gal ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Beautiful girl!
I wonder if you could be more in touch with your Ethiopian heritage? It doesn't seem like you have much of an ethnic community in your life to help you stay grounded in your cultural identity. Our raw and organic Ethiopian culture would help to dispell all of these unnecessary 'fears and worries' that are plagueing you, we're very much naturally instinctive when it comes to child bearing and raising and we're very good with taking things as they come, not getting ahead of ourselves and going with the flow, while having immense faith and reliance on our creator. We can only ever do the best with what we know and what we're given, as parents so there's no need to overthink and analyse so much - I feel like that is such a white people thing to do/the Caucasian influence on you operating right there. Consider connecting with more habesha people, I think this would really serve both you and your children moving forward xx
Let the Bible be your guidance & wisdom than man.
be independent please go school and be something. To be a mother is a blesding but you are more than that.
I’ve gotten my BA in business administration and have owned 3 successful businesses at the age of 23. I think I’ll be ok. There’s nothing wrong for women to slow down and chose to be a mom if that’s what they desire 😊 doesn’t mean there won’t be a season in life for them to go back to “work” although if you ask me I’d say being a mother is a full time job.
@@Karisbell Good Job!! I gave you that advice from my experience keep up the good work and i am ethiopian.
Who are you to say that? Being a mother is the most important and special thing she will ever do.