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  • @Therealnened
    @Therealnened 2 роки тому +889

    You are extremely strong Shalom. I am sooo sorry for your loss.

    • @kellygyrl0000
      @kellygyrl0000 2 роки тому +4

      My condolences i know how you feel i not too long lost my mother and her sister 2 years apart. They was my heart

    • @esmeraldaglastonbury7242
      @esmeraldaglastonbury7242 2 роки тому +2

      My condolences to you my dear, atay strong,she is now in a better place

    • @ihateomar9393
      @ihateomar9393 2 роки тому +1

      ً

  • @faithalexandria17
    @faithalexandria17 2 роки тому +326

    "They that sow in tears Shall reap in joy."
    - ‭‭Psalm‬ ‭126:5‬‬

  • @afton1955
    @afton1955 2 роки тому +180

    You and your sisters are truly angels for moving your mom to California, so that you all could take care of her during her cancer treatment. I'm 66 years old and have been undergoing treatment for Stage 3 lung cancer these past 11 months. It's not easy. I have two adult children my son lives in the same town and he seems begrudged when I ask him to do a chore or drive me to an appointment. My daughter lives in Georgia with her husband and rarely do I get a call with her saying hello mom, how you doing? I'm so damn tired of doing this alone. Especially during this holiday time. I see why some people give up or outright refuse treatment for their cancer.
    Currently been on immunotherapy for the past 8 months have four more to go. Really, the outcome is a dice roll. Whatever will be will be. Continue to smile down on me Lord. May the Lord be with you and your siblings be with you in this time of grief and forever. ✝️

    • @khadyndiaye5999
      @khadyndiaye5999 2 роки тому +12

      May Allah help you battle the cancer. Im so sorry that youre going through this, youre a strong woman. Get well soon

    • @afton1955
      @afton1955 2 роки тому +3

      @@khadyndiaye5999 , thank you!

    • @deniseyoung9391
      @deniseyoung9391 2 роки тому +9

      May God continue to bless you on this journey and comfort you and with his presence everyday. You’re a warrior and your children needs prayer to deal with whatever their fears are because it’s blocking them.

    • @TheSlaveOfAllah1992
      @TheSlaveOfAllah1992 2 роки тому

      Linda williams
      Im so sorry to hear that. May Allah guide you my friend. I Wonder how you treated your parents. The kids Will treat you in the same way as you treated your parents. You reap what you sow i guess. But may Allah make it Easy for you.

    • @khadyndiaye5999
      @khadyndiaye5999 2 роки тому +8

      @@TheSlaveOfAllah1992 Not always because it has to start somewhere. Maybe she was a good Mother but was unlucky

  • @carolinemccabe8297
    @carolinemccabe8297 2 роки тому +42

    Hi Shalom I lost my mum to cancer too. She was 50 and I was 23. My 17 year old son died by suicide last year. I'm broken but still here. Take one day at a time. Your mums an angel now. Love and strength 😇🥰🥰

    • @chizanasspots7255
      @chizanasspots7255 Рік тому +6

      Sending you hugs 🫂 dear, and I pray for total restoration and peace in your heart. Jesus, watch over your daughter.

    • @dextiemarie
      @dextiemarie Рік тому +4

      Keep your head up, May they both Rest In Peace 🥺🙏🏽💔 (i know im responding late so I hope you’re doing well)

    • @itsme-sd5cn
      @itsme-sd5cn Рік тому +1

      I amm soo sorry for your lost may she rest in peace 🥺💔.

    • @leesepoll6954
      @leesepoll6954 Рік тому

      GOD IS WOTH YOU

    • @tooprada606
      @tooprada606 10 місяців тому

      Sending hugs and prayers🙏🏽❤️

  • @SmartistaBeauty
    @SmartistaBeauty 2 роки тому +476

    I have no words. Sending my sincerest condolences Shalom. Grief is a really unexplainable experience. This video was incredibly vulnerable and we appreciate your honesty. Wishing you a healthy emotional healing journey

  • @OwamieEntertainment
    @OwamieEntertainment 2 роки тому +800

    I am so sorry for your loss mamma❤️❤️

  • @diannainkorea
    @diannainkorea 2 роки тому +212

    I'm so sorry for what you are going through. I cried along with you. This brought back so many memories from 2020 where I have lost so many members of my family and the pain is still with me today. Sending my condolences and prayers to you and your family.

    • @lakeishasexy40plus
      @lakeishasexy40plus 2 роки тому +3

      So sorry for your Lost! 🙏🏽🌹🌹

    • @missfleming5465
      @missfleming5465 2 роки тому

      Prayers, hugs, condolences to you and your family.🫂🫂🙏🏾🙏🏾😘😘❤❤

  • @NikkijBerryman
    @NikkijBerryman 2 роки тому +44

    You don’t owe anyone an explanation for how you have chosen to share your story. But thank you for giving to your community. Unfortunately, I have been where you are. It takes a long time to come to terms with everything and to grieve. And everyone handles grieving differently. You don’t ever have to “get over it”…that’s not the benchmark or the goal. She’s your mother. It’s your process and no one can experience it the way you feel it, not even your siblings. I type this to say be compassionate and easy with yourself. You don’t have to prove how strong you are. Everyone who knows you, experiences your strength and resilience. These are the moments to give yourself the time and space to heal, not only from the loss of her physical being but from the toll of caring so deeply and lovingly for her for a year. It all takes so much energy…beautiful, perfect energy. My heart is with you. I’m feeling your pain and praying that you find comfort and peace as soon as you need it…on demand. Thank the Creator for the awesome experience of being her baby and thank Her for loving you and being with you, guiding you, loving you and appreciating you like no other. They never leave us, Shalom. NEVER! There is such joy in knowing that they are right here…with us…FOREVER 💛

  • @julieluseni9246
    @julieluseni9246 2 роки тому +900

    No one truly knows how you and your siblings truly feel, but just know that our hearts are with you all, and watching this video made me cry with you. Especially seeing how close you and your mother were. I can only pray and that God guides you and your family, may he always watch over you and your family. I pray that you receive nothing but happiness, Good news, joy, peace and Gods blessings from here on out. Stay strong and never hold a tear in. It’s ok to cry. Love you. 😘 -A Fan from the Beginning.

    • @bxvs2732
      @bxvs2732 2 роки тому +15

      No one truly knows...How she feels unless they have lost their mom as well.

    • @merlelawis2414
      @merlelawis2414 2 роки тому +7

      I know exactly how she feels I lost my mother last year and the pain still hurts like if it was yesterday my prayer are with you and your family

    • @adibabs6960
      @adibabs6960 2 роки тому +2

      You’re absolutely right I lost my mom in Oct it’s not been easy…..prayers for their love ones and May their sweet soul rest in perfect peace ☮️

    • @DivasClub700
      @DivasClub700 2 роки тому +3

      First and foremost I would like to send out my deepest condolences to you and your family your siblings I too lost my mother a week after Mother's Day my words of encouragement is death that does not get easier you perhaps will never get over this already spinning same however take the time to grieve as best as you can whichever way you see fit many blessings to all of you one day at a time!

    • @melissaburrell4370
      @melissaburrell4370 2 роки тому +1

      I just saw it and I’m crying too

  • @sdjames2580
    @sdjames2580 2 роки тому +271

    "Do not be amazed, all those sleeping in the memorial tombs will hear his voice and come out."- John 5:28,29💔

    • @mayasevelen
      @mayasevelen 2 роки тому +9

      I was going to post Revelation 21: 3,4!

    • @SinnersavedbyGracewithoutdebt
      @SinnersavedbyGracewithoutdebt 2 роки тому +3

      As if you were in my mind with John 5:28,29 I lost my mom with cancer in 2020 after a long battle I do pray for God's grace to take you through this time I'm sorry for your loss.

    • @TeeNicole10
      @TeeNicole10 2 роки тому

      AMEN SISTER 🙌🙏🏼

    • @TeeNicole10
      @TeeNicole10 2 роки тому

      @@SinnersavedbyGracewithoutdebt same here my mama passed 3/16 of cancer💔 Sorry for your loss🙌🙏🏼

    • @demekonrn
      @demekonrn 2 роки тому +1

      The resurrection is real & this too shall come to fruition.

  • @chidelovesyou
    @chidelovesyou 2 роки тому +47

    May God comfort your family.❤ May your mum continue to rest in peace.

  • @Vonity_
    @Vonity_ 2 роки тому +50

    We don’t love you cause we pity you, we love you cause you’re beautiful inside and out mamas. My deepest condolences I hope God lifts the spirits of you and your family and touch all of y’all’s hearts ❤️

  • @awuraama1783
    @awuraama1783 2 роки тому +311

    I’m here to let you know your videos are not sad but rather inspiring and motivating.. We are proud of you Shalom

  • @vickyd9584
    @vickyd9584 2 роки тому +230

    Oh no!
    Accept my condolence
    Don’t apologise for crying dear.
    Crying is part of healing
    Sending you warm hugs from England

    • @elizabethletsoso2558
      @elizabethletsoso2558 2 роки тому +1

      So very true V crying is part of healing indeed sending a big hug to you Sharon 🙅🙅🙅💓

  • @esenamapasu4950
    @esenamapasu4950 2 роки тому +24

    I can so relate. Lost my mum in 1997 to breast cancer. Your mum has my mum as a big sister now in heaven.
    It is well 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @DoveliCreations
    @DoveliCreations 2 роки тому +68

    "A great soul serves everyone all the time. A great soul never dies. It brings us together again and again.”
    - Maya Angelou
    Prayers to you and your family🙏🏾

  • @Phoenix.s2l
    @Phoenix.s2l 2 роки тому +254

    Father, please watch over Shalom, keep her safe, comfort her through this hard time.May your love settle upon her, may she dwell in your acceptance and truth. Might she rest in your peace and find restoration in your care. My prayer for you dear Shalom is that the Lord will turn your weeping into dancing. He will give you a reason to not just smile but laugh again. The Lord will see you through this difficult situation and comfort you on all sides.

    • @janayh2817
      @janayh2817 2 роки тому +7

      Please Father God…embrace Shalom and provide her your everlasting comfort 🙏🏾

    • @dorcasnotaryservices7961
      @dorcasnotaryservices7961 2 роки тому +5

      AMEN

    • @itsmefredaa
      @itsmefredaa 2 роки тому +4

      Amen

    • @georgiadyer665
      @georgiadyer665 2 роки тому +1

      Amen, amen. Sending love from Jamaica. I lost my mom in 2018, so I can relate. Cry if you want to, tears is a language that God understands.

    • @elizabethletsoso2558
      @elizabethletsoso2558 2 роки тому +2

      Amen and Amen 🙏

  • @kjwest2047
    @kjwest2047 2 роки тому +258

    Don't apologize for your content, it's real life. Grief is a part of life too. Your strength and transparency are so vulnerable and beautiful. Sorry for yours and your family's loss!!

  • @rosebailey4008
    @rosebailey4008 2 роки тому +1

    Beautiful Mom 🥰🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @JAZZLlFE
    @JAZZLlFE 2 роки тому +60

    Remember, we never lose anyone; we only mourn their absence until we join them. Weeping endures for a night, but joy *always* comes in the morning.

  • @prissyp01
    @prissyp01 2 роки тому +258

    Oh no! I’m so sorry love ❤️
    Sending you prayers for comfort and love ❤️

    • @joseyagu7518
      @joseyagu7518 2 роки тому +5

      God will see you and your siblings through .Be strong for your mum 🥰🥰🙏🏽

  • @KingsandQueensEmpowerment
    @KingsandQueensEmpowerment 2 роки тому +180

    Shalom strength to you Queen during this time, may mommy transition peacefully and continue to be your beacon of light 🕊🕊🕊🕊

  • @ajalicious_
    @ajalicious_ 10 місяців тому +1

    My Queen Mumsy rest on home with God too, I have so much empathy and I was so Teary eyed watching your testament. Her spirit will always be with you. God bless us Dalu!

  • @jquinn8324
    @jquinn8324 2 роки тому +27

    I lost my dad 4 months ago and all I can say is that it hasn’t gotten any easier! Prayers to you and your family!

  • @sweet21blessings
    @sweet21blessings 2 роки тому +119

    As a daughter, who’s mommy is also in Heaven after battling stage 4, triple negative, breast cancer… I offer you lots of hugs and plenty of love 💕 My sincerest prayers and condolences to you and your family 🙏🏾💐

    • @Iamtendaizw
      @Iamtendaizw 2 роки тому +2

      Mhsripp 💜💜💜💜💜 🕊

    • @kadzo6614
      @kadzo6614 2 роки тому

      Normalize condoling people without involving your situation in the process. Please and thanks.

    • @ngoybohe
      @ngoybohe 2 роки тому +5

      @@kadzo6614 This comment is so far removed from reality. Humans can sympathize and tell their story in a way to let the person know that they share in their pain. Let's be positive, let's be kind, let's be human!

  • @nolaclarke253
    @nolaclarke253 2 роки тому +149

    I lost my mommy right after university and she passed away in my apartment. At the time my siblings and I didn't think we'd make it but we all felt surrounded by tremendous love and calm. I can't explain it but I feel as though she never left us. I know that you'll get through this my dear.

    • @Roxie76
      @Roxie76 2 роки тому

      🙏🏽❤❤❤

  • @Keekeembhele
    @Keekeembhele 2 роки тому +14

    How your mother waited for you guys is a blessing. I’m glad you guys got to see her before she rested eternally and I’m so sorry she had to deteriorate in front of you and you had to witness her so weak❤️ May you find comfort in each other as siblings and family.

  • @anla0795
    @anla0795 2 роки тому +6

    When you lose your parents, that’s a indescribable feeling of pain. First my dad at 16, and my mom at 25. I know how you’re feeling and thank you for sharing her story with us. I know that was extremely hard for you. She raised a very beautiful young lady❤️

  • @deedeedavis3766
    @deedeedavis3766 2 роки тому +148

    I’m so sorry for your loss!! It’s been 3 years since I’ve lost mine!! The tears are natural and it’s therapeutic. You don’t owe us any explanation. Cry when you need to, scream whatever makes you feel better, you do that. My prayers are with you and your family. May your mom’s beautiful soul Rest In Peace.. ✨❤️🙏🏾

    • @elizabethletsoso2558
      @elizabethletsoso2558 2 роки тому

      I know right 💔💔💔

    • @Mouna-s9c
      @Mouna-s9c 2 роки тому +1

      Lost mine 5 years ago the first 3 years were hard very hard. Still feel like yesterday. And still cry about it … but the pain get better by the time but you always cry in any major event happening in your life… so far my graduations dates were the hardest or when something sad happen, and when people that’s don’t know you ask and your mom … it’s hard

    • @delilah7818
      @delilah7818 2 роки тому

      🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @jessicaW21
    @jessicaW21 2 роки тому +55

    I'm so sorry to hear this. My mom passed on July 31, 2021. The hardest part for me was watching my mom deteriorate before my eyes an entire year. My mom was eager to transition. It hurts so bad. I was at every doctor's appointment and the day came. I talked and kissed her until she took her last breath and her heart stop.
    My advice to you is to take it one day at a time, go to grief counseling because you're going to feel lost and alone even though you have siblings. Absent from the body is present with the Lord. Stay strong Shalom. ❤️

    • @fiestyone
      @fiestyone 2 роки тому +2

      I’m so sorry 😢

    • @Cocoarunway
      @Cocoarunway 2 роки тому +1

      Sorry for you loss. My condolences to you and your family. I too lost my mother 4 years ago

    • @jessicaW21
      @jessicaW21 2 роки тому

      @@Cocoarunway thank you, when do the crying stop? 😔

    • @jessicaW21
      @jessicaW21 2 роки тому

      @@fiestyone thanks 🙏🏾.. it’s hard but I got to keep going through my good and bad day.

    • @LifeofKayHerbert
      @LifeofKayHerbert 2 роки тому

      My grandma as well

  • @nthabi_n3494
    @nthabi_n3494 2 роки тому +5

    Bbe never tell yourself that we will pity you , but we care about you , your emotional wellbeing , we are with you in your journey because you trusted us with sharing some parts of your journey, some of us really care and love you we dont get any money for choosing to support you watch your video's, the connection you have with your camera is actually a connection we have with you, we appreciate you for being a sister I never had to some of us , you inspire me with your strengths, weakness, craziness , hard work , kindness, generosity and love.
    Im so so sorry for your loss and i would like to appreciate your Mom and God for gifting us with you.
    We are her to listen , learn , support and comfort you any day Queen.
    And I believe you are who you are because your resting Angel ❤
    From: South Africa 🕯🕯🕯🕯

  • @sexysandyglams_
    @sexysandyglams_ 2 роки тому +2

    Who else cried like me 😢😢😢 this video made me cry so head , I lost my mum 2 years ago, I still can’t get over it, thank you for sharing your story sweetheart, God bless you 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼❤️❤️

  • @ebonylaflor2784
    @ebonylaflor2784 2 роки тому +90

    Be as vulnerable as you need to be in this time, Shalom. Grieve the way you need to so that you can heal. You are so much stronger than you know. You and your family are in my prayers, gorgeous. Sending so much love and healing 💗

  • @raejaes
    @raejaes 2 роки тому +116

    Please don’t apologize for being emotional queen May the heavenly father wrap you & yours tightly in his powerful embrace & give you strength & peace as you embark on your journey of healing . I & your youtube family have your back love always Rest easy mama 💕🕊

  • @467413876
    @467413876 2 роки тому +5

    OMG I’m in tears, I just want to give you a BIG HUG my Heart and Prayers goes out to you and your sisters. Your mother was a very beautiful woman. She’s gonna always be in y’all’s heart and spirit, remember all the good times you had with her 🌹🕊🙏🏾

  • @ThuliMaps
    @ThuliMaps 2 роки тому +7

    This is so heartbreaking. I'm actually tearing up watching this cause my mother is also going through Chemotherapy and it's the most painful experience.. I'm really sorry for your loss sis. This is a pain I'd never wish for anyone 💔

  • @Komnini
    @Komnini 2 роки тому +105

    There is nothing more painful than losing a parent. I lost my father at 12 years old, from a stroke. My mother passed away 3 years ago from complications of cancer. I can't express how painful that felt. I feel your pain down in my soul, I know that feeling of talking about it and it just tearing your soul each time you discussed what happened. I know your pain, your pain is deep and it is raw to the core. It feels like your own soul is being torn in two and all you can do is cry. Your tears for your loss, moved me to tears, as I can feel your pain as if it were my own. I wish I could shoulder this pain for you, for anyone, it is a disheartening pain that I wish nobody has to ever go through. I'm truly sorry for your loss Shalom, I can't express my heart enough. It does get easier, no we will never forget the pain just becomes more manageable over time. Just know you have me in your corner, among all these hundreds of thousands of people who view your channel. We are here, use our shoulders, and our love to get you through. ♥

    • @noxolosihoyiya7543
      @noxolosihoyiya7543 2 роки тому +5

      I’m crying too I lost my mom to cancer. I don’t even know what to say but I know exactly how you feel . I can’t even say it gets better it’s just unbearable really it hurts. All my love ♥️

    • @sanjeanbosslady359
      @sanjeanbosslady359 2 роки тому +3

      He/she who knows it feels it my mom pass when I was 28 from cancer I’m now 56 years old and still ache for my mom the pain never goes you just learn to live with it this young lady broke my heart my heart aches and break for motherless daughters stay prayed up and continue to cherish the memories they don’t leave carry our moms in our hearts ♥️

    • @multicici01
      @multicici01 2 роки тому +1

      Godbless you dear. Jesus is the way.

  • @JasonLee-wq8se
    @JasonLee-wq8se 2 роки тому +110

    Don't ever apologize for how you choose to cope with something so heartbreaking hun. You are a such a strong woman and you've been through enough! I'm so sorry for your loss. I pray for your healing with your family. May God bless you and cover you in this difficult time. Love you!

  • @sandralofton7986
    @sandralofton7986 Рік тому +1

    Stay blessed!awesome daughter!

  • @ivanaokor5140
    @ivanaokor5140 2 роки тому +5

    Please accept my condolences. I hope you and your family find peace in the memories she left behind. Your mum sounds like a wonderful person with a kind heart. Thank you for sharing this tough moment with us.

  • @mon6745
    @mon6745 2 роки тому +135

    You and your siblings did *everything* to support your mom during her illness - that's how she raised you all and you did such a good job. You did what was right and important, and most importantly you made she that she was loved and cared for and that you all had quality time together. ❤ It will take a while to understand the impact to what you and your siblings have to your mom- thag she could rely on you all, see the way you fought for her well being, just the way she fought for yours is so important. My condolences for you and your family for your loss. 🙏🏾 I'm so sorry that you've been exposed to negative comments. No one deserves that. People who have cancer live, and they experience life. Their families also need to live and experience life with them too. There's never been anything casual about how you've spoken about your mother's illness, its your shared reality, that's it, plain and simple. After my mother passed, it was so hard for me to talk about it, but when I did, it helped. Please also don't feel bad for discussing your experiences either- it's important for you to be speak your truthand sometimes it's painful. Even though it's not your responsibility to do so, it helps other people who are going through the same thing. 💛 I wish you comfort and love, and although the road ahead is sooo tough, we're all beside you and support you. Grieve how you grieve, and heal, how you heal. Bless ❤

    • @zulekhaabass6037
      @zulekhaabass6037 2 роки тому +1

      Inna Lillahi wa inna ilayhi raji'un...so sorry shalom....inshaAllah kheir

  • @ShaneiceCrystal
    @ShaneiceCrystal 2 роки тому +96

    I’m so sorry Shalom!!! 💔🥺

  • @cinta9814
    @cinta9814 2 роки тому +30

    May God wrap his arms around you and your family during your difficult times. I know how hard this is. My dad gained his wings on November 27th and my heart is completely broken. With God’s help he will provide strength so you can take it day by day. May you find peace in your healing process. You are amazing and strong. 🙏🏽

  • @quianajeffers3163
    @quianajeffers3163 Рік тому +1

    Don’t ever be afraid to cry.. after rain ( tears) comes sunshine( smiles) .. tears are not weakness they are human.. prayers always to u n urs

  • @priix08
    @priix08 2 роки тому +135

    I’m so sorry that you’re going through this, sending prayers to you and your family 🙏😢

  • @Nastassjaferjuste
    @Nastassjaferjuste 2 роки тому +99

    I am so sorry for your loss Queen, sending you love and light ❤️

  • @vickiemciver718
    @vickiemciver718 Рік тому

    I’m so sorry for your mom shalom! I too loss my mom I was 19. I’m from Virginia also. You are beautiful. Grief is hard and it’s okay to cry! Losing someone that close it’s something you never get over, but you just learn to cope in other words. Just hold onto the memories Shalom. Love you

  • @Angie-ci1lp
    @Angie-ci1lp 2 роки тому

    🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽💔🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽☹️Sending love and prayers your way.Sweet PEACE JESUS!

  • @mkayahlove6227
    @mkayahlove6227 2 роки тому +62

    May God wrap his loving arms around you during this difficult time. Praying for you and your family

  • @loveg1463
    @loveg1463 2 роки тому +40

    Dear Shalom, It's not easy losing your mom. I lost mine 2 years ago and still feel like an orphan. Like you said, your mom is at peace now and pain free. She sounds like a wonderful woman. Sending love & light to you and your family. take it one day at a time, and plz will you and your sisters go and get tested for the Braca gene.

  • @Buttas_369
    @Buttas_369 2 роки тому

    You not Alone … Sis ♥️🙏🏾… Stay Positive.. And let your Mum live trough YOU… Carry on 💋💋💋

  • @ritajarwee8659
    @ritajarwee8659 2 роки тому

    She is so beautiful her beautiful soul rest in peace

  • @Jilly6667
    @Jilly6667 2 роки тому +50

    Your mom passed while hearing you and your sisters laughing What a beautiful testament to her knowing you and your siblings would be ok.. and that it was ok for her to go

  • @diamonds377
    @diamonds377 2 роки тому +53

    I lost my Dad in February and …I am literally crying with you because it’s bringing up triggered moments with my Dad ..I want to tell you that everyday it gets better but it doesn’t you just get stronger …..God is the only one that help you through this …I thought I would never stop crying..My heart goes out to you and 🙏 for the family and for your peace …..

  • @sweetlilangelnursery7928
    @sweetlilangelnursery7928 2 роки тому

    Dont cry baby, God has your mom you are such the bravest person i know Shalom Sorry for your lost Stay Encourage Angel!!

  • @sandrabrianafrica3360
    @sandrabrianafrica3360 2 роки тому

    We love you shalom. I know mum is watching over you.. your videos are not sad.. the are so inspiring..

  • @renaesimmons835
    @renaesimmons835 2 роки тому +89

    My condolences to you and your family. It has been 20 years November 27th since my mother transitioned. It still feels like yesterday, something you never get over of. Just deal with it and as God gives strength, take it one day at a time. My heart felt condolences to you and your family. Love your love ones everyday take time to say I love you. I so miss my mom and still cry for her. There's no one or nothing like your Mother one one on this earth. 😟💔

    • @elizabethletsoso2558
      @elizabethletsoso2558 2 роки тому +1

      @@mercy_schmidt You're not alone hun may you find encourage and the strength from God

    • @patriciarobinson4546
      @patriciarobinson4546 2 роки тому +1

      I lost my mum one year ago and my tears are just flowing uncontrollably while watching this video. The pain of never seeing your mother again is unbearable but we must stay strong in their memory. I am sending you both healing energy.

  • @ravenanderson1695
    @ravenanderson1695 2 роки тому +34

    Omg Shalom, I’m so so sorry for your loss. My mother also passed from cancer so I get it. Both our moms are in Heaven free from illness & pain, I always try to remember that for some sort of comfort. Hearing you say how your mom would get up & go is so relatable and gave me a laugh 😂There’s nothing like the strength of our mothers. Grief is never ending, please give yourself grace especially on the really hard days. I love you sis 🤍

  • @Daniel.rmendez
    @Daniel.rmendez 2 роки тому +9

    I lost my grandmother two months ago who was like my mother to me. I’m gonna be honest. It’s been hard, but everyday I know she is in heaven, no longer in any sort of pain and she watches over me daily. I miss her so much and sometimes I do realize she’s gonna and it feels like day one again. But everyday you just go by. I can’t say I’d it gets easier or not. Maybe I still think she’s just coming home soon? Don’t know. But, just be strong honey. And spend this time with your loved ones ❤️. Sending my love and prayers for strength.

  • @karinafamilia6868
    @karinafamilia6868 2 роки тому +3

    Those photos at the end really showed how beautiful she was inside and out , something about her eyes and demeanor 🙌🏽💐 may she rest in paradise 🕊🤍🖤

  • @piptaps
    @piptaps 2 роки тому +11

    The way I cried with you 😭😭😭 I wanted to hug you so tight , and for the question you asked why your mum died on your birthday 🥳 .. you will celebrate her life and your life on the same time .. do not use that day to be said but to the thankful that you were blessed to have her as your mum ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @kidzrrelevant2593
    @kidzrrelevant2593 2 роки тому +14

    Shalom, your mother has "dear" daughters! I've been in your shoes...it's been 30 plus years. I didn't think I could get through it either babygirl. I removed my mom from the care of the doctors because there was nothing left but to give her to the God of our salvation. The connection between my mother and I during her last days are priceless, much like yours. To change her adult diapers; to serve her; to sleep next to her in her own bed; to hear her tell me anything she wanted to tell me; to love on her; and so many other confidential/private love time between us will always always be what I remember including her last breath. You and your sisters have honored your mother and because of that your days upon the earth that the Lord our God has given, will be long and prosperous! God bless you and your family! Thank you so much for sharing. One guarantee lovely; life will get better day by day by day! Ms. Tina

  • @DejaBabieJones
    @DejaBabieJones 2 роки тому +1

    I am so sorry for your loss never give up or loose faith your strong and beautiful

  • @the_chic_african414
    @the_chic_african414 2 роки тому +3

    Hi Shalom, I avoided this video because your story is similar to mine, even though it's been 10 years that I've lost my mother, it seems like yesterday and still hurts just as much. What I can say that helps me get through difficult times is to remember the good times, remember what she has instilled in you and your sisters, always talk about her. My birthday is also Aug 23rd and my mother passed on August 22nd. I am praying for your strength.

  • @ElectraDaniels
    @ElectraDaniels 2 роки тому +34

    Shalom, your story is EXACTLY mine! I lost my mom to cancer in October. I feel like crap and I haven't been able to film a video concerning this for my UA-cam because everytime I tried, I became a mess. My mom also has 3 daughters and I was really close to her. She also was a workaholic and didn't remember me at some point. I know exactly how you feel. Exactly how you feel. You should cry if you want to, laugh out loud, be indifferent. Everyone would want to tell you how to grieve. Just do what you feel like in the moment. But always remember, she'd want you to be happy. Seeing your video has given me strength to film one and talk about her in one piece. You're loved. ❣❣❣

    • @JoanneRomain
      @JoanneRomain 2 роки тому

      I am so sorry for your loss. My sincere condolences. May LORD and the ancestors bless you and confort you and your sisters 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @TheBeautygarden
    @TheBeautygarden 2 роки тому +33

    As soon as you started speaking the tears came to my eyes. There are no words, the world is a completely different place once our mother has gone. Take some comfort -- you are not alone, our thoughts are with you!

  • @jekka2223
    @jekka2223 2 роки тому +6

    You're allowed to cry all the tears your body and soul want to pour out. Always remember that. ❤ I'm sorry you lost your mom. She fought a strong battle. Endless blessings to you and your family.

  • @Angie-ci1lp
    @Angie-ci1lp 2 роки тому

    It’s ok to CRY Take time and miss love and honor her memory 😞 It’s such a great loss Cry!🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽❤️🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽❤️❤️. I loss my Mom years ago……it still hurts then I think positive and THANK GOD!

  • @SandraGboneme
    @SandraGboneme 2 роки тому +34

    I’m so sorry Shalom. I pray God gives you the strength to deal with this ❤️

  • @lneal2800
    @lneal2800 2 роки тому +51

    Oh my god! Sending all my prayers and condolences to you and your family praying for strength and healing!🙏🏽💜 love you sis!

  • @GytPatience
    @GytPatience 2 роки тому

    Baby girl you are strong ,love you so much .May God comfort you in your grief .sending my love to you

  • @Angi1028
    @Angi1028 2 роки тому

    I know. The feeling. Hang in there hunny its. Never. The end never. You're mum is. In. Better position. Shes. Free. God bless you 💕💕

  • @ericahill07
    @ericahill07 2 роки тому +25

    May God grant you and your family strength and comfort during this time ❤️

  • @tashima460
    @tashima460 2 роки тому +33

    Sister, take your time and grieve and heal ❤️ Psalm 147:3. He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds.❤️

  • @Inspiringshe2be
    @Inspiringshe2be 2 роки тому +4

    That was so beautiful! Thank you for sharing your mom with us 🙏🏼

  • @sonderson6363
    @sonderson6363 2 роки тому +12

    I lost my mom some years back when I was 17 it is the hardest thing to ever go through and really my heart goes out to you as well as my prayers ❤️ it does eventually get better

  • @bandmastertales338
    @bandmastertales338 2 роки тому +24

    I dread the day I lose my mum, your mum sounds exactly like mine. A strong, determined woman who always makes anything possible, no matter how tough. My thoughts go out to you and your family, we are all here for you. 💖

  • @minichic5135
    @minichic5135 2 роки тому +8

    This is literally heartbreaking she will always be in pain in her birthday instead of celebrating 🥺💔

  • @shemiibrahim817
    @shemiibrahim817 2 роки тому +1

    Oh Shalom …. :( I don’t even know what to say. I am so so sorry for your loss. I am so ashamed for just finding out now. I hate seeing you cry Shalom :( may your beautiful mum rest in perfect peace amin 🙏

  • @holmes1978
    @holmes1978 2 роки тому

    My Condolences Dear Heavenly Prayers Sincerely God Bless your Mommy !!! Respect.

  • @womeezee
    @womeezee 2 роки тому +23

    I saw you and your sisters at the airport after Thanksgiving. I hesitated to approach you because I wasn’t sure if you felt open to speaking with followers in the hustle and bustle of those moments. To find out that it was after you and your sisters laid your mom to rest makes me feel for you so much and is proof that you don’t know what anyone is going through. I pray for peace for your family as you continue to navigate next steps. I can’t imagine losing the matriarch of my family so I know it must be difficult. I admire your ability to be positive and take it day by day despite the questions you may have. We love you on this side ❤️❤️❤️

  • @NikiaHollywoood
    @NikiaHollywoood 2 роки тому +10

    The strength it had to take for you to speak so beautifully about you mom is heartwarming. Love you💜

  • @denisemac5412
    @denisemac5412 2 роки тому

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    God bless you remember no one can tell you how to feel or to grieve. Thank you for honoring us. We don"t deserve this kind of honor. this comment is late and by the time you would have read it you would have already have an angel watching over you. Thank you Shalom for all of your content. your a life saver

  • @chinazaonyenze9906
    @chinazaonyenze9906 2 роки тому +1

    I empathize with you and your family at this difficult time. This can not be easy, losing a parent. We appreciate you for this video🤎🤎

  • @angelahenderson4611
    @angelahenderson4611 2 роки тому +18

    This makes me extremely sad. Im so sorry. My mom passed unexpectedly in the beginning of last year. I couldn't speak, eat, sleep or NOT cry. And here you are making a whole video explaining your situation. My dear sweet sister i feel your pain and i will keep you in my prayers. A little bit of advice...its better to let it out than to keep it in ❤. My deepest condolences to you and your family.

  • @gyonia
    @gyonia 2 роки тому +21

    Man…..my prayers for strength and healing to you and your family Shalom. 🙏🏾 💚

  • @fatimaamali
    @fatimaamali 2 роки тому

    I'm so sorry for your loss Shalom. I lost my sister and dad to Cancer in the same way, and that hurt never goes away. You just learn to live with it.

  • @JesusChristandSonSoldier
    @JesusChristandSonSoldier 2 роки тому +4

    Heartfelt condolences... The peace and comfort of Jesus to you & your family...I understand...My Mom transitioned 12/2020...All I can say..nobody but JESUS!🙏🏽💕

  • @ijeeluvv
    @ijeeluvv 2 роки тому +38

    Express yourself how ever way you feel to. Take as much time as you need, this is your journey to go through and am so sorry you are going through this. Praying for strength and healing for you and your family. Rest well Mama ❤️

  • @awilson4718
    @awilson4718 2 роки тому +37

    Sending love and prayers to you and your family. My mom went to heaven 6 years ago. The pain doesn’t go away, it just lessens. Please take it one day at a time, give yourself all the time you need to grieve. Always, always remember the good times.

    • @fiestyone
      @fiestyone 2 роки тому

      I’m so sorry 😢

    • @awilson4718
      @awilson4718 2 роки тому

      @@fiestyone thank you 🙏🏽

  • @barbaraporter6573
    @barbaraporter6573 10 місяців тому

    My experience was exactly the same. The doctors try to spare us. They have compassion even when you dont think they do. I sat there like you when my son passed and I'm so happy he went peacefully. I sang to him and told him we would meet him there. They made sure he was not in pain and Lord knows I saw him in pain a few days before. RIP my Angel.

  • @siosworld4064
    @siosworld4064 2 роки тому

    I am sitting on work with my patient who is formed and I am truing to not cry but I don't think I can.. It's so, so, so sad.. May her soul rest in peace and may God gives you and your sibling strength where you all can bond together on love and unity and grieve in your own timing and personal space. Sending you lots of love from Humber River Hospital Toronto 😘😘😘❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @yolandamoore7635
    @yolandamoore7635 2 роки тому +13

    Your tears are beautiful they show the love you had and there is nothing like a mother’s love no matter how or when they have to leave us, I truly pray that God will send His comforting angels to wrap their loving arms around you and your family and you feel their warmth

  • @paulaomo1768
    @paulaomo1768 2 роки тому +5

    May her beautiful soul Rest In Peace ❤️

  • @MsBamBoomBang
    @MsBamBoomBang 2 роки тому

    Oh no, May God be with you and your loved ones during this difficult time. I’m praying for you beautiful.

  • @anneg3958
    @anneg3958 2 роки тому

    A big thank you. U are now a friend in my head. Your honesty is healing n empowerment. Now ur mom can truly be there 4 u & stronger- in spirit. Head up.

  • @marchi.fleming
    @marchi.fleming 2 роки тому +14

    May her memory be a blessing to you, sweet girl. You've been thru so much & are so strong, but it's ok not to be strong all the time. 💕

  • @TheJasminacovington
    @TheJasminacovington 2 роки тому

    My prayers to you and your family. I have followed you for years and you are so beautiful and kind....

  • @novvy25
    @novvy25 2 роки тому +1

    I don’t think there’s anything I can say that can make you feel better but I appreciate you sharing this with us 🙏🏾💐

  • @Cindy54504
    @Cindy54504 2 роки тому +18

    I remember your video when moved into an apartment to help your Mother during her cancer treatments. Talking about grief helps with the grieving process. It’s ok to cry, sorry it happened on your Birthday, maybe you can celebrate the life she lived and the life you are living in her honor. Grief counseling can be a very helpful tool to help you walk through the different stages of grief. My prayers are with you and your family during this very difficult time.🙏🏽