This is about the pig farm issue. I grew up on a farm, not as large as the ones out in the Midwest, but we still always woke up before 5 am. The reason why they were most likely upset about the music in the car at 9pm was that most likely many of them had already gone to bed. Working on a farm is not like a regular job. There are NO scheduled days off. It's kinda like raising children, except that you know what they will be doing when they become old enough. Next many people who live there have most likely been living there since the 19th century and are simply used to a certain level of respect from the younger generation, but when you get people who are not used to that particular type of lifestyle, it can be an eye opener. Also I believe that there is more to this than what OP is mentioning here, because even farmers tend to be very accepting people.
Not to mention that OP sounds like a typical teen-aged snot with an attitude. "I never apologize." I'm guessing that what went unspoken of in the story is OP projecting her attitude more often than she mentions. OP might not even realize it herself.
Story 5: what did OP expect living next to farmers, of course the farmers are going to wake up/ start work earlier around 4am and don't want any noise after 8pm.
Exactly. I live in a rural area, and it's rude AF to play loud music in your house, car, shed, anywhere after 8pm unless you've expressly let your neighbours know ahead of time ie; parties, family reunions, etc. Also, animals have a mind of their own especially farm animals, and often things like fences are of little consequence to them, so if it's not a genuine barrier like an electric, or solid timber fence, of course they'll go over, under, or through it to graze on the other side. I understand she's from a completely different community and adjusting can take time when going from a town/city/suburbs to a rural setting, but it's not that hard to be polite and see that your being a knob to your neighbours will hurt you more in the long run than it will them. After all, they're already a solid community, she and her family are the odd ones out in this equation.
Story 4: That relationship is over, OP needs to just move on. The second your partner starts talking about sleeping with other people just leave, its not worth it imo.
I know just how the OP in the second story feels. My former best friend that I knew for 22 years ghosted me in one of the worst ways. I did so much for him. Right down to even letting him live with me for two years when he lost his apartment. He rewarded this by ghosting me a couple of months after he moved out. I've got a long list of his problems and the things he's done. But the short of it is what he did was just plain wrong, and now he's even starting to lose the mutual friend he kept in contact with.
I actually feel like she was in Love with her. The friend has been there and been loving and caring for OP, and isn’t really worried about it when the relationship doesn’t seem serious but is angry and rejects OP when it is serious.
As a suggestion for the final story you could buy a couple industrial fans and put them up against a wall facing facing the pig Barn that should help keep some of the smell back and we'll make a statement
@@Azulakayesyou're pathetic. op literally gave the guy a dirty look while trying to get his cow back and f****** disrespected him that way. As someone who lives in the South you do not disrespect Farmers they are the ones that feed us you ingrate
@@ColourWithChris That's hilarious coming from a guy who probably hasn't farmed before or know-how to work the fields, or raise livestock. Bunch of privileged A-holes who don't know anything about being a farmer. Also don't disrespect Farmers they're the ones that feed Us you ingrate
Typically I agree with the idea of “hey some cultures are bad” but I think this is the case of adapting to the environment. OP refused to adapt to the environment. Now their parents will suffer monetarily. In some cases, like this, it is best to just conform to the majority if the culture is not causing harm, which it was not.
To the kid in the last story, and anybody else who might read this and be thinking about moving into a small rural community, listen up because you need to know this. You and all your family will be considered outsiders for as long as you live until you either marry someone else in the community or have kids after moving, and even though everybody will treat you kindly for the most part, they don't like outsiders in their communities and it really doesn't take much to make them want you to leave and go back where you came from. Remember, in a small rural town or county, everyone knows everyone else, and outsiders coming in and forcing themselves into that tight knit community isn't appreciated. Especially if they just try and keep to themselves. That just makes you look either rude or suspicious.
Tbh sleeping before 9pm is common because cows need to be milked in the morning and her making noise is really annoying when you need to sleep. So I think the op really needs to ask for forgiveness and try to make peace with the guy(who is really reasonable)
If i ever move to a town like that i really wouldnt care how people see me, hell idec what my family thinks about me, but i wouldnt intentionally be mean or anything
Story 2: people are saying that the friend did what they did because of OP's venting to her over 3 relationships, and that maybe its because OP keeps going on with destructive habits. OP should probably be single for a while to grow herself.
It depends. If this relationship is going much better than before, then why been mad. Of course i understand why the friend wants to keep away just in case that happen because it maybe fed up with the previous situations... BUT on other hand i find it a little odd because the "oh! and my cousin is blocking you" is telling me something else is going on.
@@SenseiRaisen If this person is close with their cousin and shares that they are done cleaning up the messes from the failed relationships and have cut contact, it isn't hard to see why their cousin would block the OP as well even without being told to.
@@kayschut9327 YEAH! i guess so.. that is another possibility too and i won't deny if the cousin is also closer to this OP then i believe that could be very solid possibility for block her as well.
Yeah I had a friend like that, They never get help, they love the hurt and destructive habits. Learned my lesson as well, never think you can fix or help someone. addiction is too strong.
Story 5: I do not believe OP's story that they are totally blameless. OP is leaving a lot of information out to give me cause why a person would want to install a hog farm to get rid of their neighbors. I want to hear from the neighbor's side of the story. I bet the OP was doing far more things than they claimed they did in the story.
Story 1: I think it would be poetic revengance if the OP did the same thing her mother was doing to her. Barge into her house, take something that she probably needs (but not have it be vital) or leave something that she doesn't need or want.
The last story No way that farmer did that just for her rude attitude come on😳 so much more to the story... Farmers deal with a lot of different people. Moving in a small town neighbor's help each other out. Its a very close bond and She doesn't want to be there, now she has hurt her parents.
@@ked49 she admitted giving the guy a dirty look when he was trying to get his cow back. I'm not thin skin, but you know what if I'm a farmer, I'm working the fields all day, tending to the animals at damn near triple digit degrees outside, I too would be that petty.
Story 5: they moved into an area zoned agricultural. There will be farm animals and smells. And likely the right to increase the number of livestock they have. Reminds me of some city people who bought some land near where we used to live. She complained when the wind blew from the south because she could smell the dairy farm that was a couple miles away. And then when they expanded the business and got a permit for another 400 cows, city slicker was ticked. LOL! Do your research on an area before you move there. OP sounds like she expects everyone to change their lives to accommodate her. How about she changes her attitude to fit in to the new environment? Could be worse, though. They could have been raising Turkeys. I swear those smell worse than any other livestock!
Change their lives to accommodate her? How? By minding their own business when she plays music and keeping their livestock off of her property? Oh no. Such unreasonable demands. If it were like midnight and she's out blasting music, I'd be more inclined to think she was the AH. But 9 pm is not late, not even for a farming community.
She's mad because her backup simp found someone. Now, if the current BF bounces, she'll be alone. Seem this type of situation many times. Been in it plenty, too. But I still have my balls and tell them I know what they're doing and to cut it the fuq out.
In university I had a roommate whose mother would just stop by and try taking over so the other roommates and I got together and told her if she tries to take over again we would put her daughter out so we wouldn't have to deal with her. When my former roommate turned best friend graduated and got her own place she broke her mother of treating it like her place by getting her to pay the bills even though she was a psychologist, after 6 months she finally accepted my friend was an adult.
The best friend story oddly reminds me of the friend I left. We had been friend's since high school and our families were close. They got really sick with complications from their PCOS and was stubborn about getting treatment. I had to drag her to the hospital on multiple occasions. I told her to stop talking to this guy cause he was a Narcissistic abuser. She would not listen to me. She insulted my husband after this man hurt me and everyone around us. She wouldn't listen though so I and my family blocker her on social media. I am still worried about her because I care about her. But she won't listen to me and I can't let him hurt everyone around me. So I had to let them go.
If someone says they want to take a break because they dont want to miss out and then follow it up with anything about sex and shit like that then it isnt even worth the effort or time to try and stay in the relationship
Don't give her your address ... Or anyone that knows her It worked for my mom (she would come over without warning and get mad if I wasn't home...) We might be moving to a different city soon and I'm honestly looking forward to it since my mom doesn't drive
For the first story the OP should have scolded her significant other for letting her mother into her home, I bet he was the one who gave her his house key to copy it
Last story. Playing loud music at 9 in their car. This IS bad. Farmers are up before the sun sometimes depending on the actual farm. 9pm is probably half way through their sleep cycle.
Yeah, I'm not a farmer, but anywhere I move or am new I'm going to read the room, and go out of my way to me courteous even if things don't make sense to me yet. That is the relevant principle here, learning the ethic and customs of the existing community.
I moved across the country and got an apartment. Dad followed and because it was the desert, I made the huge mistake of giving him the key. I didn't know he would decorate my place even when I told him not to. He stopped asking me because I would just say no. I would get home from work and he would be in the living room watching TV, explaining the new piece of furniture I told him not to bring me. He ordered cable TV in my name because "You can afford it" (not really).
I said this a while back, but I told my parents to never come into my room without my permission or I'll bust their kneecaps. They tried taking Chad my baseball bat away from me. let's just say I still have it, don't worry nobody's kneecaps were busted that day. Let's just say we both respect each other's boundaries now.
Story 5: Farmers are all about “early to bed and early to rise”. The OP needs to take that into consideration. Easy to see why some farm boys (and probably now some farmer’s daughters) join the military and/or why some veterans take farming as a post-military/post-war career (the latter goes as far back as the Roman Empire).
Last story: The OP in the story has probably left out a lot of details, as well as the frequency with which they are being loud in the evenings. Considering they moved into a FARMING community, 21:00 is late because these people probably get up before the sun is out every single day. If you don't want to be miserable, don't bring city habits to these kinds of places.
The last story about the farmers. I live in the midwest and 1. Farmers get up at the break of dawn and go to bed as soon as the sun sets so at 9 the farmer was most likely in bed barring an emergency. 2. Farmer should’ve asked permission for the cow to graze there unless cow broke free on their own somehow and decided op’s grass tasted better than their own. In that case a polite thing to do would be to let farmer know so he can retrieve cow. Or just let farmer know that op can mow their own grass and doesn’t need cow’s help. 3. A pig anything is one of the ways to get rid of unwanted neighbors and having lived around farmers i can kinda see why they would want to.
To the OP of the invasive mother story: put a restraining order on her if she comes by again. At this point nothing else is likely to work but going to jail when she inevitably breaks the restraining order
You don't, "let," a cow into a neighbor's yard. You FIND the cow in your neighbor's yard because they're living animals and have their own ingenious ways to get what they want.
It feels like OPs friend in the second story either loved the dude she was dating or loved OP. Well maybe live isn’t the right word, it felt like a sort of entitlement to them as a person which is creepy af. Idk, maybe OPs bf did something to her bff and she just didn’t tell her? No idea, it could be anything. Third story: wow, talk about being toxic. Complaining about smthn and then ignoring your friend when they are trying their best to fix it!
Story 2 seems like the female friend is in love with the person who posted that and after all she went through cant handle it that another person went into the life that she will never be able to get.
I don't think it's that the OP 'went into the life that she will never be able to get', I would rather say that over the course of 14 years they have been cleaning up the emotional mess left behind by the failed relationships. On top of that the OP probably went to them for advice all the time as well. It's mentally exhausting to deal with that for such a long time, especially if there are feelings there. Probably cut contact for the sake of her own sanity.
Last story: sounds like the new pig farmers need random and spontaneous loud music for brief moments throughout the night. And any other inconveniences that no one can prove if the neighbors are gonna cause trouble over trivial things.
you should havnd over every vegetable and dairy product over if you think they were overreacting to disturbances they were dealing with when they need to rest to work
@@aaron75fy oh no. someone playing music at 9 pm. what is the world coming to? it's truly the downfall of society. apparently the farming community is so fragile that some music can absolutely destroy it. they would all just die if they had to live in a city, i guess, where there's all kinds of noise at all hours of the night.
@@alias-majik as I said to someone else, you tone suggests you plan on throwing away every vegetable you have since you don't wish to respect the hard work it took to grow and pick them
As somebody who's lived with the farming community, seeing new people is always awesome since people get sitting in their ways a disturbance. It's not always bad but if you're waking up at 5 AM to start your day with the rest of the nature, wake up that early you're going to sleep early at night so hearing the boom boom boom and somebody's car because base does travel is disturbing. A lot of these communities grew up on generations and generations of respect in the young girl clearly didn't respect anybody all she had to do is say sorry it's not hard so why don't you guys just get a bunch of pigs like he got pigs when he's not looking but the pig shit from your pigpen in his pigpen so he has more shit to cleanlol
Girl moves into a farm and doesn’t know how differently agricultural communities are. You’re not in the city anymore. Time works differently. Farm work is extremely hard work. You have to wake up before dawn. 9pm in a farm is probably like midnight in the city. Warming up the tractor at 5 or 6 am, is standard practice. Animals are awake, you need to feed them, being in the field under 2pm scorching sun is not fun, so you want to do it early, before the sun is high up and makes everything harder. It’s loud, and you can’t make it quieter. The neighbor was trying to get the animal back, op could’ve tried to help or at least get out of the way. Cows don’t know what private property is. And yes, maybe the neighbor was being careless or even testing her manners, but it is more likely, he was just having a heck crazy morning, and was not planning on chasing an animal on top of all the work he had to do and OP just made it all worse. Also, respect towards older people is considered basic manners. If the neighbors is her parents age and she gave them dirty looks, she might have as well have flipped him one. I’m not saying this mind set is good, or healthy, or that kids shouldn’t be able to enjoy music in their cars. It’s simply a very different way to live. Farming communities are close knit because neighbors grew up together and trust they can count on each other. You might have a bad year, or you might break a bone and suddenly isn’t able to harvest all the sweet you put into the field. At this point your neighbors or the church folk kids will come and help. You’re wife is in the hospital and the kind are studying a thousand miles away, the neighbors are bringing you food, and visiting your wife, and cheering you up. That’s partly why they don’t like outsiders. This close mindedness is what happens when outside people who don’t understand you just think you’re dumb and refuse to respect your culture try to change everything about your community without knowing why thing are the way they are. Again, this might be close mindedness and lead to a bunch of inexcusable actions. But getting there and not knowing how different the culture is and basic manners are, is what makes OP kinda the jerk. Neighbors could definitely have been kinder and more patient. But in his eyes, she was acting as an entitled brat and her parents didn’t help. So OP’s lack of knowledge might just have made life extremely hard for her parents and herself.
I agree with everything but, the “respect your elders” I don’t think you should treat strangers any higher then you because they’re older, but other then that I agree.
I live in a semi-rural area (bunch of farmland around here) and there are people that gun their cars down the road anywhere between 2-4 am. It doesn't happen all the time, but often enough that it can be annoying. The first 5-6 years of my life I lived in a suburb, but then I've lived in a smallish town with a lot of farmland around. If the loud music was played as loud as the cars were at 2-4 am around 10-midnight on more than one occasion, I'd say the op was being an ah.
Story 2: Bestfriend was totally in love with OP. After having her feelings ignored for so long she decided to give a ultimatum. Me or them. After getting clarity that OP won't even value their friendship of 14 years over someone she kinda likes, that she'd never look at her romantically. So she cut her out completely.
I lived in Texas for most of my life and want to move back eventually. The last story isn't something I experienced but I have been near pigs before. With someone who has a sense of smell like a hound dog, they aren't fun. But they're more tolerable than maybe if you lived in the city for years. The ones building the farm are absolutely pathetic, if the story is how it goes. To go so far over something so small is the kind of dickless thing I'd expect from someone who never learned boundaries. Personally, there would have been signs up on my property. "Trespassers will be shot". You don't need to shoot someone either. A rack of a pump is usually enough to stop anyone. As someone from the south, I don't care one way or another about something as minor as an animal in my yard, but I do care about people coming onto my property like it's their own. I understand them having to come get the cow, but they really should've put a fence up or something to keep them contained and off other properties.
Nicest thing mother could do would be to bugger off out of her daughter's life In the immortal words of Groucho Marx "go, and never darken my towels again"
Uumm, that last story, what did y'all expect moving into a small farming community?? I mean, even keeping to yourself, but being rude while doing it will have you messed up legally!!!!!😂
Story #1 For godsake change your locks! As someone that has a very loving yet overbearing control freak mother I can absolutely relate. For reference I am 42 years old and I have been married to my wife for over 18 years. My mother will still try to correct my speech if i swear and will just walk into our home when she visits. Once in a blue moon I will get junk mail sent to her p.o box since I used the same p.o box for a time in my early 20's and she will call asking if i want her to open my mail, which I have told her explicitly that she is to NEVER open my mail. I haven't lived under her roof since I was 16 years old. My mother does things out of love and I know that but it took me getting some distance from my parents for a few years and maturing during that time that taught me that my mother loves me very much and does things out of love but that I must keep clear boundaries and remind her of those boundaries to keep our relationship healthy. My wife is also a force to be reckoned with and is a strong outspoken woman just like my mother. So they butt heads but my wife will give my mother that bitch I'll cut you look and my mom stops arguing. Always remember one day your parents will die and you would give anything just to have them barge in on you or annoy you one last time. My mother and stepfather are in their 70's so this is a reoccurring thought for mine. My father died of cancer when I was 16 years old but was essentially raised by a single mother from my parents divorce until I moved out since my stepfather and I never bonded when I was a child and I refused to view him as a disciplinary figure. I have a great relationship with him now. All I can say is set clear boundaries, reinforce those boundaries and cherish the time you have with your parents while you still have time.
For the last story, if I was in their shoes and I had really not done anything wrong, not only would I keep living there out of spite I would begin to play the game too, doing everything I could to annoy them specifically without breaking any rules, I would stop if they offered to take the pig barn down.
I have decided to remove one of my friends from my life, which has led to a complete halt in our communication. Despite having known him for 31 years and considering him a "brother," his decision to exclude me from his wedding made me feel unappreciated. Consequently, I blocked him, and his failure to inquire about my choice indicates that he likely understood my reasoning. Additionally, I was not invited to his bachelor party, an event I would have greatly enjoyed attending, while he opted to invite a colleague he had known for only four months and his neighbor. It is important to note that I was in town, and he was aware of this. As a side note, we have never had any conflicts or arguments, which makes the situation even more painful and unexpected.
So before my father in law passed we were told by my mother in law that we didnt need to knock because we are "family" i have never felt comfortable just walking into a house i didnt live at or was staying at. I will never understand people who do it or allow people to do it to them. that is your space this is my space the furthest into any home you should go uninvited is maybe the attached garage if you know they dont use the front door unless its a welfare check and no one is answering doors or phones for a concerning amount of time.
Story 1 - STOP giving her a key. She Never should've had one to begin with. Story 2 - Do nothing. You're better off now without them due to their stupid behavior. Story 3 - You both messed things up but the friend started it by bailing on the apartment at the last minute because her boyfriend couldn't visit her. My opinion her boyfriend's got no business being there anyway. When they want to see eachother she can go to his place. And then she gets mad because you're spending time with your new roommate. So what do you do? Nothing. Leave all the BS where it is and move on with your life. Story 4 - No. There is no breaking up for a short time and then you potentially see other people or something and then come back. Forget it. If you leave, you're gone, it's over. Story 5 - The neighbors are garbage. I'd be heavily inclined (but maybe wouldn't) to torch the barn before it was fully built. And if their livestock is allowed to trespass on my property, I'd be having a big barbecue of them.
Id torch the barn, too. I'd wait for a pretty bad thunderstorm so It could be blamed on a lightning strike. The rain would wash away any accelerant residue too.
I would buy 1-2 dogs and then make the dogs bark at night Apparently pigs are afraid of barking dogs so with enough barks they can start squealing thus destroying their sleep
A lot of you guys are idiots for story 5. Y'all keep saying that he let the animals onto their property, but some of y'all don't seem to stop and realize that sometimes animals escape their pens, it happens. I'm not a farmer, but from living in the South for damn near ten years, I understand that sometimes a cow get spooked and breaks down fencing and ends up in the middle of the road or in someone else's property. That's why they're branded, that's why they got tags. It's not just to deter thieves, but so farmers can be contacted if they're animals escaped their property. It has happened, I have seen it. You guys are all idiots and you don't know anything about farming and it seems a hell of a lot less than I do
Last story: I am pretty sure the OP has likely done more than what was mentioned. I have lived in farming communities most of my life and they don't usually go that far unless you really pissed them off.
I think in story 2, we need a bit more context about the boyfriend. I mean, maybe it was some ex of her friend's that OP didn't know about. There's just not enough to tell who is in the wrong.
*Story 1:* She shouldn't be allowed to just barge into your house for no apparent reason and rummage through your belongings like she lives there. If it's your house and not hers, you should be able to/allowed to tell her *"No! You may not do this!"* If she doesn't like it, DILLIGAF! It's *your* property, and *not* hers. You should not have to tolerate this under *any* circumstances.
Story 5: well, only option what op's family have now is also to become big farmers. They can move away but that old place of their is going to be biggest and smelliest big farm in the world, so big and smelly that even that farmer can't live there anymore.
Story 4: The narrator yet again showing a HUGE bias. Wanting to take a break to sleep with other guys is okay but in other stories wanting an open relationship is cheating with extra steps? Come on now.
@@Leosloth2011 When she specifies that she wants a break because he's the only guy she's ever been with beyond kissing, it's easy to see what she means by a break.
5th story sounds like the 23 old fiance/girlfriend wants to sleep around and not cheat on you so she is temporarily breaking it off. Use your own discretion on taking her back if she decides that's what she wants, but if this happens again, I would leave because she's most likely to continue this behavior.
For the last story my idea Is to publicly shame and humiliate them by just making a video explaining what's happend and showing them on camera, maybe even make a go fund me acc with a video of the pig pen and nabour, perhaps even make yourself look even more distressed then normal, and watch the Internet have they're way. ( I know this might be evil but that's how I naturally am )
You obviously don't live in the south. A lot of these people out here will make you disappear and no one will say anything about it because that's how closely tight-knit their community is.
This is about the pig farm issue.
I grew up on a farm, not as large as the ones out in the Midwest, but we still always woke up before 5 am. The reason why they were most likely upset about the music in the car at 9pm was that most likely many of them had already gone to bed.
Working on a farm is not like a regular job. There are NO scheduled days off. It's kinda like raising children, except that you know what they will be doing when they become old enough.
Next many people who live there have most likely been living there since the 19th century and are simply used to a certain level of respect from the younger generation, but when you get people who are not used to that particular type of lifestyle, it can be an eye opener.
Also I believe that there is more to this than what OP is mentioning here, because even farmers tend to be very accepting people.
Not to mention that OP sounds like a typical teen-aged snot with an attitude. "I never apologize." I'm guessing that what went unspoken of in the story is OP projecting her attitude more often than she mentions. OP might not even realize it herself.
Story 5: what did OP expect living next to farmers, of course the farmers are going to wake up/ start work earlier around 4am and don't want any noise after 8pm.
It never said the op went to the neighbor and complain to them it was to loud like are you sped in the head
@skittles damn why straight to insulting. Pretty sure they meant that ofc the neighbor doesn't want to hear OP playing loud music past 8
Exactly. I live in a rural area, and it's rude AF to play loud music in your house, car, shed, anywhere after 8pm unless you've expressly let your neighbours know ahead of time ie; parties, family reunions, etc. Also, animals have a mind of their own especially farm animals, and often things like fences are of little consequence to them, so if it's not a genuine barrier like an electric, or solid timber fence, of course they'll go over, under, or through it to graze on the other side. I understand she's from a completely different community and adjusting can take time when going from a town/city/suburbs to a rural setting, but it's not that hard to be polite and see that your being a knob to your neighbours will hurt you more in the long run than it will them. After all, they're already a solid community, she and her family are the odd ones out in this equation.
@@YourShadowKeeper true
@@supersaiyanbeluga6638 you are so dumb lmao. getfo of here, your limited knowledge and experience renders your retarded opinion as invalid.
Story 4: That relationship is over, OP needs to just move on. The second your partner starts talking about sleeping with other people just leave, its not worth it imo.
I know just how the OP in the second story feels. My former best friend that I knew for 22 years ghosted me in one of the worst ways. I did so much for him. Right down to even letting him live with me for two years when he lost his apartment. He rewarded this by ghosting me a couple of months after he moved out. I've got a long list of his problems and the things he's done. But the short of it is what he did was just plain wrong, and now he's even starting to lose the mutual friend he kept in contact with.
I actually feel like she was in Love with her. The friend has been there and been loving and caring for OP, and isn’t really worried about it when the relationship doesn’t seem serious but is angry and rejects OP when it is serious.
As a suggestion for the final story you could buy a couple industrial fans and put them up against a wall facing facing the pig Barn that should help keep some of the smell back and we'll make a statement
The last story is really telling that the VA has never lived in the country. It's the way things work out there.
Then it’s time y’all put your adult pants on and grew up
@@Azulakayesyou're pathetic. op literally gave the guy a dirty look while trying to get his cow back and f****** disrespected him that way. As someone who lives in the South you do not disrespect Farmers they are the ones that feed us you ingrate
@@ColourWithChris That's hilarious coming from a guy who probably hasn't farmed before or know-how to work the fields, or raise livestock. Bunch of privileged A-holes who don't know anything about being a farmer. Also don't disrespect Farmers they're the ones that feed Us you ingrate
Typically I agree with the idea of “hey some cultures are bad” but I think this is the case of adapting to the environment. OP refused to adapt to the environment. Now their parents will suffer monetarily. In some cases, like this, it is best to just conform to the majority if the culture is not causing harm, which it was not.
To the kid in the last story, and anybody else who might read this and be thinking about moving into a small rural community, listen up because you need to know this. You and all your family will be considered outsiders for as long as you live until you either marry someone else in the community or have kids after moving, and even though everybody will treat you kindly for the most part, they don't like outsiders in their communities and it really doesn't take much to make them want you to leave and go back where you came from. Remember, in a small rural town or county, everyone knows everyone else, and outsiders coming in and forcing themselves into that tight knit community isn't appreciated. Especially if they just try and keep to themselves. That just makes you look either rude or suspicious.
As someone who lives in the South i second this fact
@@AnimeGamer501st Me too. Tennessee, the greatest state in the land of the free.
Same, small village in Maine. We will be kind… but don’t push your way in our lives. It is easy to make us want you to leave.
Tbh sleeping before 9pm is common because cows need to be milked in the morning and her making noise is really annoying when you need to sleep. So I think the op really needs to ask for forgiveness and try to make peace with the guy(who is really reasonable)
If i ever move to a town like that i really wouldnt care how people see me, hell idec what my family thinks about me, but i wouldnt intentionally be mean or anything
Story 2: people are saying that the friend did what they did because of OP's venting to her over 3 relationships, and that maybe its because OP keeps going on with destructive habits. OP should probably be single for a while to grow herself.
It depends. If this relationship is going much better than before, then why been mad. Of course i understand why the friend wants to keep away just in case that happen because it maybe fed up with the previous situations... BUT on other hand i find it a little odd because the "oh! and my cousin is blocking you" is telling me something else is going on.
You didn’t have to cut me off
@@SenseiRaisen If this person is close with their cousin and shares that they are done cleaning up the messes from the failed relationships and have cut contact, it isn't hard to see why their cousin would block the OP as well even without being told to.
@@kayschut9327 YEAH! i guess so.. that is another possibility too and i won't deny if the cousin is also closer to this OP then i believe that could be very solid possibility for block her as well.
Yeah I had a friend like that, They never get help, they love the hurt and destructive habits. Learned my lesson as well, never think you can fix or help someone. addiction is too strong.
Story 1: Why was the OP giving her the key to the home so much?
They moved multiple times
Because people don't understand that sometimes you need to cut certain relatives out of your life in order to live a decent and happy life.
Good news about pig poop. You do eventually get used to the smell. It just takes quite awhile.
Story 1: Change the locks and don't ever let her in.
Story 5: I do not believe OP's story that they are totally blameless. OP is leaving a lot of information out to give me cause why a person would want to install a hog farm to get rid of their neighbors. I want to hear from the neighbor's side of the story. I bet the OP was doing far more things than they claimed they did in the story.
the way he speaks gives me the vibe of a petulant teenage, that "whatever" and "not my problem" attitude speaks a lot about his personality
EXACTLY what I was thinking too
@@DemetrioGC She
op didn't do nothing wrong the neighbors are horrible , letting their cow find the way to her and her father's house like they're overreacting.
The moment op said that the neighbors complaint about loud music at 9pm, that lost my support in op. Farms had to be awake before dawn.
Story 1: I think it would be poetic revengance if the OP did the same thing her mother was doing to her. Barge into her house, take something that she probably needs (but not have it be vital) or leave something that she doesn't need or want.
Simple, change the locks, move away and don't tell her where and cut ties.
First story: The mother's behavior is never going to change! If she ever shows up again, call the police and get her trespassed!
OP: Only I’m allowed to ghost you and be clingy
Love y’all’s content sm! I’m so happy y’all avoided the whole problems with the copyright! Stay awesome and have a great day!!!!
He avoided it? 🙏
@@DetElliottStabler I believe so!
@@Cough- omfg that's fucking amazing 🙏 thank you Jesus
@@DetElliottStabler IKR!! Im so glad!!!!
The last story No way that farmer did that just for her rude attitude come on😳 so much more to the story... Farmers deal with a lot of different people. Moving in a small town neighbor's help each other out. Its a very close bond and She doesn't want to be there, now she has hurt her parents.
Probably said something
@@ked49 she admitted giving the guy a dirty look when he was trying to get his cow back. I'm not thin skin, but you know what if I'm a farmer, I'm working the fields all day, tending to the animals at damn near triple digit degrees outside, I too would be that petty.
Story 5: they moved into an area zoned agricultural. There will be farm animals and smells. And likely the right to increase the number of livestock they have. Reminds me of some city people who bought some land near where we used to live. She complained when the wind blew from the south because she could smell the dairy farm that was a couple miles away. And then when they expanded the business and got a permit for another 400 cows, city slicker was ticked. LOL! Do your research on an area before you move there. OP sounds like she expects everyone to change their lives to accommodate her. How about she changes her attitude to fit in to the new environment?
Could be worse, though. They could have been raising Turkeys. I swear those smell worse than any other livestock!
Change their lives to accommodate her? How? By minding their own business when she plays music and keeping their livestock off of her property? Oh no. Such unreasonable demands. If it were like midnight and she's out blasting music, I'd be more inclined to think she was the AH. But 9 pm is not late, not even for a farming community.
It's Amazing to see you again I'm so HAPPY
I would call the police the minute she barge and go through my house and goes ballistic if I told her no. My house, my property, my rules.
Story 3 : OP needs to grow a back bone. Why try and preserve this friendship.
She's mad because her backup simp found someone. Now, if the current BF bounces, she'll be alone. Seem this type of situation many times. Been in it plenty, too. But I still have my balls and tell them I know what they're doing and to cut it the fuq out.
In university I had a roommate whose mother would just stop by and try taking over so the other roommates and I got together and told her if she tries to take over again we would put her daughter out so we wouldn't have to deal with her. When my former roommate turned best friend graduated and got her own place she broke her mother of treating it like her place by getting her to pay the bills even though she was a psychologist, after 6 months she finally accepted my friend was an adult.
The best friend story oddly reminds me of the friend I left. We had been friend's since high school and our families were close. They got really sick with complications from their PCOS and was stubborn about getting treatment. I had to drag her to the hospital on multiple occasions. I told her to stop talking to this guy cause he was a Narcissistic abuser. She would not listen to me. She insulted my husband after this man hurt me and everyone around us. She wouldn't listen though so I and my family blocker her on social media. I am still worried about her because I care about her. But she won't listen to me and I can't let him hurt everyone around me. So I had to let them go.
"you can contact me if stuff goes down"
proceeds to block them
Second one ….. what , that friend is well too needy and toxic
If someone says they want to take a break because they dont want to miss out and then follow it up with anything about sex and shit like that then it isnt even worth the effort or time to try and stay in the relationship
Neighbor gets pig barn buy a gun, they ain't keeping em in that barn. Couldn't even keep a cow on their property
When is the pain going to end
for story 1 op should have set traps like home alone whenever the mother would come into the house lol jk
Legos. Lots of Legos.
heh funny
@@LunaP1 Found Satan
Don't give her your address ... Or anyone that knows her
It worked for my mom (she would come over without warning and get mad if I wasn't home...)
We might be moving to a different city soon and I'm honestly looking forward to it since my mom doesn't drive
For the first story the OP should have scolded her significant other for letting her mother into her home, I bet he was the one who gave her his house key to copy it
Why the hell does she have access to the keys?
Isn't that the first stop?
Last story. Playing loud music at 9 in their car. This IS bad. Farmers are up before the sun sometimes depending on the actual farm. 9pm is probably half way through their sleep cycle.
Yeah, I'm not a farmer, but anywhere I move or am new I'm going to read the room, and go out of my way to me courteous even if things don't make sense to me yet. That is the relevant principle here, learning the ethic and customs of the existing community.
Story one: OP should seriously get a restraining order, just in case
I moved across the country and got an apartment. Dad followed and because it was the desert, I made the huge mistake of giving him the key. I didn't know he would decorate my place even when I told him not to. He stopped asking me because I would just say no. I would get home from work and he would be in the living room watching TV, explaining the new piece of furniture I told him not to bring me. He ordered cable TV in my name because "You can afford it" (not really).
I said this a while back, but I told my parents to never come into my room without my permission or I'll bust their kneecaps. They tried taking Chad my baseball bat away from me. let's just say I still have it, don't worry nobody's kneecaps were busted that day. Let's just say we both respect each other's boundaries now.
Story 5: Farmers are all about “early to bed and early to rise”. The OP needs to take that into consideration. Easy to see why some farm boys (and probably now some farmer’s daughters) join the military and/or why some veterans take farming as a post-military/post-war career (the latter goes as far back as the Roman Empire).
Story 4: She probably has eyes on some guy.
Last story: The OP in the story has probably left out a lot of details, as well as the frequency with which they are being loud in the evenings. Considering they moved into a FARMING community, 21:00 is late because these people probably get up before the sun is out every single day. If you don't want to be miserable, don't bring city habits to these kinds of places.
POV: mommy says no to four year old you:
Bruh
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I am...... greatly confused
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Story 1: couldn't op just get a restraining order against her mom
Better yet CHANGE YOUR LOCKS that's what my family did after my mother attacked my grandmother
Yep, also coulda gotten her arrested for criminal trespass...
@@KingKiwi5150 hell naw
@@artimator4714 what do you mean "hell naw"
@@KingKiwi5150 srry just who decides to attack family like that?
Why would she use myspace?
Im sick and everytime i cough i feel the need to puke
Im not ok.
This video was so good 😊 i love your videos
The last story about the farmers. I live in the midwest and 1. Farmers get up at the break of dawn and go to bed as soon as the sun sets so at 9 the farmer was most likely in bed barring an emergency. 2. Farmer should’ve asked permission for the cow to graze there unless cow broke free on their own somehow and decided op’s grass tasted better than their own. In that case a polite thing to do would be to let farmer know so he can retrieve cow. Or just let farmer know that op can mow their own grass and doesn’t need cow’s help. 3. A pig anything is one of the ways to get rid of unwanted neighbors and having lived around farmers i can kinda see why they would want to.
I DIDENT KNOW THERE WAS A FUCKING PIZZA HUT IN CRAZY TAXI
To the OP of the invasive mother story: put a restraining order on her if she comes by again. At this point nothing else is likely to work but going to jail when she inevitably breaks the restraining order
S1 get a restricting order cuz if my mom did all that day 1 it's over
Exactly. That psychopath is a major control freak. Having her arrested and changing the locks is also a must.
You don't, "let," a cow into a neighbor's yard. You FIND the cow in your neighbor's yard because they're living animals and have their own ingenious ways to get what they want.
It feels like OPs friend in the second story either loved the dude she was dating or loved OP. Well maybe live isn’t the right word, it felt like a sort of entitlement to them as a person which is creepy af.
Idk, maybe OPs bf did something to her bff and she just didn’t tell her? No idea, it could be anything.
Third story: wow, talk about being toxic. Complaining about smthn and then ignoring your friend when they are trying their best to fix it!
i think people who work in agriculture wakeup very early, so loud music at 9 would be an issue.
love the content keep it up
Story 2 seems like the female friend is in love with the person who posted that and after all she went through cant handle it that another person went into the life that she will never be able to get.
I don't think it's that the OP 'went into the life that she will never be able to get', I would rather say that over the course of 14 years they have been cleaning up the emotional mess left behind by the failed relationships. On top of that the OP probably went to them for advice all the time as well. It's mentally exhausting to deal with that for such a long time, especially if there are feelings there.
Probably cut contact for the sake of her own sanity.
Last story: sounds like the new pig farmers need random and spontaneous loud music for brief moments throughout the night. And any other inconveniences that no one can prove if the neighbors are gonna cause trouble over trivial things.
you should havnd over every vegetable and dairy product over if you think they were overreacting to disturbances they were dealing with when they need to rest to work
@@aaron75fy oh no. someone playing music at 9 pm. what is the world coming to? it's truly the downfall of society. apparently the farming community is so fragile that some music can absolutely destroy it. they would all just die if they had to live in a city, i guess, where there's all kinds of noise at all hours of the night.
@@alias-majik as I said to someone else, you tone suggests you plan on throwing away every vegetable you have since you don't wish to respect the hard work it took to grow and pick them
@@aaron75fy nice try, i grew up on a working farm. I know precisely how much hard work it is. It is not a free pass to be a bad person.
@@alias-majik I highly doubt it if you think it's unreasonable to be annoyed when you're woken up by loud music when you're trying to sleep
Cows have a mind of their own. They do what they want. It’s hard to keep a cow in line
As somebody who's lived with the farming community, seeing new people is always awesome since people get sitting in their ways a disturbance. It's not always bad but if you're waking up at 5 AM to start your day with the rest of the nature, wake up that early you're going to sleep early at night so hearing the boom boom boom and somebody's car because base does travel is disturbing. A lot of these communities grew up on generations and generations of respect in the young girl clearly didn't respect anybody all she had to do is say sorry it's not hard so why don't you guys just get a bunch of pigs like he got pigs when he's not looking but the pig shit from your pigpen in his pigpen so he has more shit to cleanlol
Girl moves into a farm and doesn’t know how differently agricultural communities are.
You’re not in the city anymore.
Time works differently. Farm work is extremely hard work. You have to wake up before dawn. 9pm in a farm is probably like midnight in the city.
Warming up the tractor at 5 or 6 am, is standard practice. Animals are awake, you need to feed them, being in the field under 2pm scorching sun is not fun, so you want to do it early, before the sun is high up and makes everything harder. It’s loud, and you can’t make it quieter.
The neighbor was trying to get the animal back, op could’ve tried to help or at least get out of the way. Cows don’t know what private property is. And yes, maybe the neighbor was being careless or even testing her manners, but it is more likely, he was just having a heck crazy morning, and was not planning on chasing an animal on top of all the work he had to do and OP just made it all worse.
Also, respect towards older people is considered basic manners. If the neighbors is her parents age and she gave them dirty looks, she might have as well have flipped him one.
I’m not saying this mind set is good, or healthy, or that kids shouldn’t be able to enjoy music in their cars. It’s simply a very different way to live.
Farming communities are close knit because neighbors grew up together and trust they can count on each other. You might have a bad year, or you might break a bone and suddenly isn’t able to harvest all the sweet you put into the field.
At this point your neighbors or the church folk kids will come and help. You’re wife is in the hospital and the kind are studying a thousand miles away, the neighbors are bringing you food, and visiting your wife, and cheering you up.
That’s partly why they don’t like outsiders.
This close mindedness is what happens when outside people who don’t understand you just think you’re dumb and refuse to respect your culture try to change everything about your community without knowing why thing are the way they are.
Again, this might be close mindedness and lead to a bunch of inexcusable actions.
But getting there and not knowing how different the culture is and basic manners are, is what makes OP kinda the jerk.
Neighbors could definitely have been kinder and more patient. But in his eyes, she was acting as an entitled brat and her parents didn’t help.
So OP’s lack of knowledge might just have made life extremely hard for her parents and herself.
I agree with everything but, the “respect your elders” I don’t think you should treat strangers any higher then you because they’re older, but other then that I agree.
Everything you just said is exactly what I have been saying.
Op should've changed the locks 2 house ago
And not given the new address
I live in a semi-rural area (bunch of farmland around here) and there are people that gun their cars down the road anywhere between 2-4 am. It doesn't happen all the time, but often enough that it can be annoying. The first 5-6 years of my life I lived in a suburb, but then I've lived in a smallish town with a lot of farmland around. If the loud music was played as loud as the cars were at 2-4 am around 10-midnight on more than one occasion, I'd say the op was being an ah.
1:24-1:29 the video game chracter guy runs like he's about to sh-- himself getting to the taxi
I played the game in the background at an arcade! It’s very fun also great stories
Story 2: Bestfriend was totally in love with OP. After having her feelings ignored for so long she decided to give a ultimatum. Me or them. After getting clarity that OP won't even value their friendship of 14 years over someone she kinda likes, that she'd never look at her romantically. So she cut her out completely.
I lived in Texas for most of my life and want to move back eventually. The last story isn't something I experienced but I have been near pigs before. With someone who has a sense of smell like a hound dog, they aren't fun. But they're more tolerable than maybe if you lived in the city for years. The ones building the farm are absolutely pathetic, if the story is how it goes. To go so far over something so small is the kind of dickless thing I'd expect from someone who never learned boundaries. Personally, there would have been signs up on my property. "Trespassers will be shot". You don't need to shoot someone either. A rack of a pump is usually enough to stop anyone. As someone from the south, I don't care one way or another about something as minor as an animal in my yard, but I do care about people coming onto my property like it's their own. I understand them having to come get the cow, but they really should've put a fence up or something to keep them contained and off other properties.
Nicest thing mother could do would be to bugger off out of her daughter's life
In the immortal words of Groucho Marx "go, and never darken my towels again"
Idk what this guy is talking about, I came for the crazy taxi gameplay. Takes me back lol
Hey am I the jerk I love your videos keep up the good work
I have two huge dogs and they don't tolerate anyone coming in unannounced.
Uumm, that last story, what did y'all expect moving into a small farming community?? I mean, even keeping to yourself, but being rude while doing it will have you messed up legally!!!!!😂
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Story #1 For godsake change your locks! As someone that has a very loving yet overbearing control freak mother I can absolutely relate. For reference I am 42 years old and I have been married to my wife for over 18 years. My mother will still try to correct my speech if i swear and will just walk into our home when she visits. Once in a blue moon I will get junk mail sent to her p.o box since I used the same p.o box for a time in my early 20's and she will call asking if i want her to open my mail, which I have told her explicitly that she is to NEVER open my mail. I haven't lived under her roof since I was 16 years old. My mother does things out of love and I know that but it took me getting some distance from my parents for a few years and maturing during that time that taught me that my mother loves me very much and does things out of love but that I must keep clear boundaries and remind her of those boundaries to keep our relationship healthy. My wife is also a force to be reckoned with and is a strong outspoken woman just like my mother. So they butt heads but my wife will give my mother that bitch I'll cut you look and my mom stops arguing. Always remember one day your parents will die and you would give anything just to have them barge in on you or annoy you one last time. My mother and stepfather are in their 70's so this is a reoccurring thought for mine. My father died of cancer when I was 16 years old but was essentially raised by a single mother from my parents divorce until I moved out since my stepfather and I never bonded when I was a child and I refused to view him as a disciplinary figure. I have a great relationship with him now. All I can say is set clear boundaries, reinforce those boundaries and cherish the time you have with your parents while you still have time.
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For the last story, if I was in their shoes and I had really not done anything wrong, not only would I keep living there out of spite I would begin to play the game too, doing everything I could to annoy them specifically without breaking any rules, I would stop if they offered to take the pig barn down.
I have decided to remove one of my friends from my life, which has led to a complete halt in our communication. Despite having known him for 31 years and considering him a "brother," his decision to exclude me from his wedding made me feel unappreciated. Consequently, I blocked him, and his failure to inquire about my choice indicates that he likely understood my reasoning. Additionally, I was not invited to his bachelor party, an event I would have greatly enjoyed attending, while he opted to invite a colleague he had known for only four months and his neighbor. It is important to note that I was in town, and he was aware of this. As a side note, we have never had any conflicts or arguments, which makes the situation even more painful and unexpected.
About the people that built the pig barn. They would have done that for any reason. I bet they were planning it the whole time.
To the guy dealing with a chick with the fakes sounding ptsd, leave. She will cause you nothing but trouble and heartache.
So before my father in law passed we were told by my mother in law that we didnt need to knock because we are "family" i have never felt comfortable just walking into a house i didnt live at or was staying at. I will never understand people who do it or allow people to do it to them. that is your space this is my space the furthest into any home you should go uninvited is maybe the attached garage if you know they dont use the front door unless its a welfare check and no one is answering doors or phones for a concerning amount of time.
The second one sounds like the friend of 14 years is jealous and actually in love with them.
Story 2: mabi the best friend and the boy friend have some beef that the OP doesn't know.
I want to submit a story, but I'm kinda too stupid to know how to. And I'm not the best at english-...
i do too because i got a story of my own.
@@viviennemorgan7217 I got 2,to be honest-
One asking what I should do in a friendship of mine, the other about my bratty siblings.
Just put it on their subreddit r/amithejerk
@@Leosloth2011 I don't have reddit- don't plan on getting it either.
@@brum....p4wz then sadly that seems to be the only way, maybe post it on
their next (full not in shorts) then people can help like that?
The crazy taxi background 🗿
Story 1 - STOP giving her a key. She Never should've had one to begin with.
Story 2 - Do nothing. You're better off now without them due to their stupid behavior.
Story 3 - You both messed things up but the friend started it by bailing on the apartment at the last minute because her boyfriend couldn't visit her. My opinion her boyfriend's got no business being there anyway. When they want to see eachother she can go to his place. And then she gets mad because you're spending time with your new roommate. So what do you do? Nothing. Leave all the BS where it is and move on with your life.
Story 4 - No. There is no breaking up for a short time and then you potentially see other people or something and then come back. Forget it. If you leave, you're gone, it's over.
Story 5 - The neighbors are garbage. I'd be heavily inclined (but maybe wouldn't) to torch the barn before it was fully built. And if their livestock is allowed to trespass on my property, I'd be having a big barbecue of them.
Id torch the barn, too. I'd wait for a pretty bad thunderstorm so It could be blamed on a lightning strike. The rain would wash away any accelerant residue too.
I would buy 1-2 dogs and then make the dogs bark at night
Apparently pigs are afraid of barking dogs so with enough barks they can start squealing thus destroying their sleep
how did the mother get the key in the first place?
A lot of you guys are idiots for story 5. Y'all keep saying that he let the animals onto their property, but some of y'all don't seem to stop and realize that sometimes animals escape their pens, it happens. I'm not a farmer, but from living in the South for damn near ten years, I understand that sometimes a cow get spooked and breaks down fencing and ends up in the middle of the road or in someone else's property. That's why they're branded, that's why they got tags. It's not just to deter thieves, but so farmers can be contacted if they're animals escaped their property. It has happened, I have seen it. You guys are all idiots and you don't know anything about farming and it seems a hell of a lot less than I do
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Last story: I am pretty sure the OP has likely done more than what was mentioned. I have lived in farming communities most of my life and they don't usually go that far unless you really pissed them off.
Story 1 op should have had a camera and call the cops for someone breaking into his house
Story one op should changed the locks after op's mother moved out
I think in story 2, we need a bit more context about the boyfriend. I mean, maybe it was some ex of her friend's that OP didn't know about. There's just not enough to tell who is in the wrong.
My dads mother never EVER respected boundaries.
... She still doesn't and acts like the mother in the first story.
story 1 Op should have told her mom to stop and not giver her a key from the start. Her mom is only doing what op let her get away with.
*Story 1:* She shouldn't be allowed to just barge into your house for no apparent reason and rummage through your belongings like she lives there. If it's your house and not hers, you should be able to/allowed to tell her *"No! You may not do this!"* If she doesn't like it, DILLIGAF! It's *your* property, and *not* hers. You should not have to tolerate this under *any* circumstances.
The pig barn is right up against the property? Would be a shame if something happened to the pigs. Like some fauly wiring or something...
How about I do the same thing to your parents or your kids or maybe just everybody you ever known and cared for.
As a general rule don't mess with farmers. They are the ones that put groceries and produce in your stores.
18:09: if you're 18, always second-guess yourself. You're still just a kid
Story 5: well, only option what op's family have now is also to become big farmers. They can move away but that old place of their is going to be biggest and smelliest big farm in the world, so big and smelly that even that farmer can't live there anymore.
Story 4: The narrator yet again showing a HUGE bias. Wanting to take a break to sleep with other guys is okay but in other stories wanting an open relationship is cheating with extra steps? Come on now.
Narrators are simps that's why
Breaks dont always mean that sometimes breaks are taken to deal with family issues or career issues
@@Leosloth2011 When she specifies that she wants a break because he's the only guy she's ever been with beyond kissing, it's easy to see what she means by a break.
@@KiinyoWest as in She wants another guy to break in that pelvis of hers lol
5th story sounds like the 23 old fiance/girlfriend wants to sleep around and not cheat on you so she is temporarily breaking it off. Use your own discretion on taking her back if she decides that's what she wants, but if this happens again, I would leave because she's most likely to continue this behavior.
Bro can you post more one very long stories
What mother does that
A bad one
Reminds me of my mother, i just bare it cause she's my mother
Story5: if they want to play it that way, I suggest getting some nice juicy bacon. And burn down the shed "accidentally"
For the last story my idea Is to publicly shame and humiliate them by just making a video explaining what's happend and showing them on camera, maybe even make a go fund me acc with a video of the pig pen and nabour, perhaps even make yourself look even more distressed then normal, and watch the Internet have they're way. ( I know this might be evil but that's how I naturally am )
You obviously don't live in the south. A lot of these people out here will make you disappear and no one will say anything about it because that's how closely tight-knit their community is.
What makes you think a bunch of farmers care what the hell the internet thinks?
the first story sounds like a greek fighting story