LOL: Dad Is DEVASTATED His Son Is "Traditionally Masculine"
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Stay-at-home dad is devastated that his son likes tractors. Is this article satire?
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he writes for Huff post. nuff said.
What is your take on kpop? They have an almost 50/50 masculine and feminine traits. Their fans can be weird but the actual "idols" seem to be awesome people that embrace both sides. Thoughts?
That soft hand to Nimi segue was flawless. I was in shock when I saw the photo at 5:50. I actually know a few stay-at-home dads, but he took the whole Stay-at-home dad thing a bit too far if all he watches is kids UA-cam. To each their own, but he saw Blippi on one of those particularly hard days and thought, "fashion icon."
I’m in love with you
You are gonna love this..
The mail man must be so proud that his son turned out normal, despite being raised by a fruit cake. Truly a miracle of life.
I can't- 💀
This comment is soooo underrated. 🤭
Well played sir OP!
Lmao.....
Well, Jeff goldblum in Jurassic park did say life will find a way...
I love how “rejecting gender stereotypes” has become “you can only like things the opposite gender likes”. Like as if that isn’t also promoting stereotypes lol
Underrated comment
Exactly lol
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Your brain on wokeism
@@aushshsushshsh5224 🥹 what???
"A gender fluid kid is like a vegan cat, you know damn well it was not his idea."
Well Said!
Gender fluid just means "mildly retarded with a poor sense of fashion" nowadays
hahaha dude that's so funny
Heh, reminds me the time my 6-year-old son told me he wanted to be vegetarian like his mom, next morning I made a full eggs and crispy bacon, hashbrowns and coleslaw salad breakfast, he came down "what's smells so good?", "Oh, it's bacon, you know, from pork, it smells delicious, doesn't it?" sat down with my plate, put the salad and the hashbrowns on his plate and began eating.
"I want bacon."
"You can't, It's not vegetarian."
"I'm not vegetarian."
"Oh, ok"
There.
Best analogy on this I've heard
My dad was a police officer so he was essentially a quasi-stay at home during the week when he was working the weekend shift. His involvement in our childhood, including coaching our softball team, created a bond that is stronger than most girls have with their dads.
It must be so weird having a son that's still a child yet more masculine than the father.
My baby boy is a bigger stud than his ol man!☝️
@Fenrir turns out the father was an in the closet tractor lover this whole time too.....the plot thickens...
Just proves you can't undo millions of year's of biology with 50 years of leftist idogly
The "father" sits down to pee.
So true, I laughed out loud
Leftists: "I want my kids to act and do whatever they want without criticism"
Kid: *Acts their gender*
Leftists: *Proceeds to criticize*
Yea, they're contradicting themselfes too often and they know they're talking bullshit yet they keep going
@@jxstadri Wow! you're saying leftoids are hypocrites, amazing observation!
@Nick Probably
Doomed Pepper - great comment
@doomed pepper so true!
I was about to call the dad a beta but then I realized that he actually cares about his kid to some degree
I don’t think I’ve ever met a young male child who wasn’t obsessed with big machines. Whenever I watch my friends kids it literally my go to. If a kid won’t nap, throw them in the truck, drive to a construction site and they will almost invariably fall asleep on the way home.
My husband is a heavy plant operator on construction sites, when he video calls me, all our 4 year old son wants to see is the machinery!
My daughter loved Hummer toy cars…except her hummers had little hummer families and talked to one another. She liked the “boy toys” but played with them like a little girl. Years later, after another baby girl, I had my son. He wanted a babydoll just like his big sisters. How did he play with it, he’d randomly yell “ball” and his baby would go flying through the air. I gave him the “girl toy” but he played with it like a little boy. 🤷🏻♀️
When I was a teenager my little brother (9 years younger than me) would play with our sister's (between us in age) barbie dolls. But he would angle the dolls into gun shapes and pretend he's shooting at the other dolls. Even at a young age, most healthy boys and girls are clearly different and that's natural and good.
This was literally how I played with me and my brothers Hot Wheels. I had a little family of cars with a rebellious teenager car caught in a Romeo and Juliet situation. And then there was my brother throwing his down the stairs. 😂
Kinda weird for me because I would play with my older brother's action figures with my little sister by doing family stuff and also battle scenes, so I played like a girl and a boy, I guess maybe we influenced each other
Lol!!! That is very decerning and hilarious!!!
As a male, I played with dolls and a dollhouse for a short while when I was very young, like pre-k age, and they were one big happy family. I don’t even know where that interest or phase came from, other than perhaps being a way for me to act out certain problems I was having relating with my dad. I did plenty of other boyish things ranging from playing soldiers to whatever sports my asthma would let me play. Never turned out gay, or even into a girly-man. I chased women when I got into high school and eventually settled down with a wife. We all grow up in different ways that help us discover ourselves and cope with our mental struggles, especially if you don’t connect very well or at all with family or other kids your age that you want to connect with, but don’t.
"I just want my kids to be able to be themselves"
"Dad i want a tractor shirt"
"NO! HERE IS YOUR DRESS, REMEMBER TO SIT WHEN YOU PEE!"
He seems like such an open minded person. Lol, it's just weird. "Kids can choose for themselves". Kid chooses something. "No, that's the wrong choice. Try again". This would be funny, but when there's kids involved in these shenanigans, then it just becomes sad.
Right?😂
LMAO it was a Masculine men that built this country that makes it possible for some men to be more like women than most women! Lol
I don't get what's feminine about sitting when you pee. I mean... yeah, women don't have a choice, but I DO have it as a choice. And yes, I choose to be comfortable when relieving myself, thankyouverymuch.
@@MidnightSt it’s just more effort to sit down and stand back up, for a 12 second piss tbh. Plus, who wants to sit on some nasty public toilet
It's scary how a parent being uncomfortable with a fundamental aspect of him or herself can lead to children being twisted into unrecognizable messes full of self-loathing and depression.
I'm glad this guy was able to let that go and let his son find happiness in things that he is uncomfortable with.
props to the dad for being so involved in his sons life and letting his son persue his natural interests and not taking them away to suit his own interests.
still a fucked up woke idiot. who knows what he´ll do in the future to his kid. and things u describe are (should b) the norm so why props for that. u know what, he changes his kids diapers too, probs to that too. im single dad myself and i just feel bad for the kid.
"I prided MYSELF..."
You must realize that the son continually felt his father's displeasure at his choices. I'm guessing when the kid has a family, Grandpa won't be a big part of their lives.
That "dad" had so many issues with his son being interested in boy things because the dad hates himself and was projecting that onto his son.
"Like me, love me" is all he wants his father to say, the dad.innthis situation, not the child
@@slanderman3296 this is so true. Had this man's dad just loved him a little more....
The dad seems like he's in the closet and hating himself.
That sounds like what I was thinking the kid sounds like an awesome lil kid
How did this stay at home “dad” even procreate to begin with????
“I pride myself on blurring gender lines”
Translation: “I pride myself on confusing innocent children for personal validation”
Its satire.
@@normatemp2071 no, it isn’t. It was written as an essay in Newsweek by Jay Deitcher, a freelance writer with contributions to HuffPost, Men’s Health and Esquire. He references his family often throughout these articles, none of them are parody or satire.
It took me 2 minutes of searching to contradict your claim of parody. Why are commenting on multiple threads with blatantly false information? What is the point?
@@12ozmouse99 its literally a parody.
@@normatemp2071 repeat the lie until it is believed true. Hate to be the bearer of bad news but y'all are going to lose again, v it's just a shame so many people will be needlessly hurt along the way
@@patrickmartin7692 no lies here. Just a bunch of conservatives so wound up in their own little culture that they can't even see a joke that is as plain as day.
Look, I am a father first...even though my youngest son is now 28. I loved the time I spent with my kids when I was off work and their mom was in law school. It was only a day or two a week, but, I never told anyone I was babysitting. I said I am with my kids today.
I still love cooking for them and doing nice things for them. I love them dearly.
However, I was always the guy working 6 to 7 days a week as well as having a second job at times. After my youngest was 4 I returned to active duty as an Infantryman in the US Army and stayed until I retired. After leaving the Army the first time and until I returned to active duty I was a corrections officer and served in a reconnaissance unit in the Army National Guard. I now coach high school football.
Even though I have done nothing but work construction, corrections or as a leader of men in a combat unit, I allowed my boys to have Disney princess dolls to go along with the male doll (prince charming and snow white, Aladdin and j
Jasmine...etc).
When they were toddlers they had a soft and squishy baby doll with a silky face and hands, don't know where their mom got them. I let them get dressed up by their sister and try to walk around in their mom's heels. Until they turned 5 or so. Then it was time to stop wearing girls clothing for their sister's amusement and though they were allowed to play with their action figure dolls until they outgrew them.
My son turned out fine and is now a wilderness firefighter heavy equipment operator here in California and also plays guitar in a band.
The only thing I would like to see is for him to start seriously dating again and get married and have his own babies so I can spoil them rotten.
My daughter absolutely loves helping me when I'm putting things together. I have countless pictures of her helping "drive screws" (she hasn't figured out righty tighty lefty loosey yet), and it makes me beam as her father. Soon I will be disassembling her crib and replacing it with a twin sized bed and I know she will be right in the middle of it giving me a helping hand.
"I spiralled into panic whenever I attempted manual labor."
If this is what he thinks femininity is, he probably needs to reevaluate his misogynyistic views and assess his male privilege.
I was thinking the same. Women do manual labor all the time. Yeah, they usualy dont cary a cement bag around, but they work in gardens, pick up fruit, paint walls, ect.
I haven't laughed so hard at a comment in a long time hahahaha I appreciate this one
@@alexforce9 so when is the last time you carried a cement bag around?
@@arminakhan4833 Two days ago, why?
@@alexforce9 that's amazing
"forcing gender norms on a child is wrong"
Also
"How dare my child not like the gender norms I assign!!?"
Exactly what is happening
If you think these are the pro trans people
@@thesquiddler they are...
Lol yep they're flat-out lying... Gender norms are wrong unless its THEIR ideas of gender norms. Incredibly two-faced.
@@RacingSnails64 never thought of it. That way...ur right !!!
FWIW: I was much like this little boy, except I was into AIRPLANES, and still am.
FORTUNATELY, my parents -- who were part of _"the greatest generation"_ -- had absolutely NO PROBLEM with this.
Before I was born, my Mom worked as a secretary at an airport. So I became this way partially through _osmosis._ 😊
I'm happy I induced my two daughters to play with construction sets, and although only the pricey Danish bricks found a way to their hearts, what they did with them was not what I expected, and I loved it. I just anticipated that early training was not to be overlooked, since sooner or later, they would have to do Math and 3D Geometry, Organic Chemistry and that sort of things, and that went very, very well and for the elder, still does! When they grew a bit older and had sufficiently "elongated" to get real bicycles, I insisted on showing them how to do basic maintenance. That failed miserably, and they weren't the least interested in the matter! I had no problem buying them the dolls they liked and getting the princess movies DVD's for them! I was also weirdly relieved that having no boys, I could entirely shirk the duty of building the required weaponry, bows, arrows, slings and suchlike. My late Dad had not done that for me and my brothers, but my Grandpa, who was quite the artist, naturally took the role of toy-armorer for us boys, and also taught us to play safe. At ages 3 to 5, I found out that the girls were as eager to hunt and herp as I was at that age, but they did a bit less tree-climbing and some more hiding than boys would have, although the difference was rather subtle. I showed them what to forage, and being girls, they really quickly got very good at it and there wasn't a Pitanga shrub or a Passion Fruit vine in the neighborhood they hadn't plucked bare!
I'm now deeply convinced that there are "gendered" preferences, inclinations and skills which are innate. I also know what isn't: irrational fear-driven bad behavior a.k.a. racism!
I'm eagerly waiting for the next batch and my promotion to the rank of Gramps!
"Blurring gender roles" means not caring what toys or clothes your kid has, and letting them just do whatever. What this man wants is for his son to be as effeminate and weak as he is so he can excuse his own laziness and lack of useful skills.
A good parent never pollutes their child with their own biases and fears let alone a narrative of such utterly batshit crazy stupidity, deceitfully manufactured solely to accommodate and conceal a parent's own significant personal deficiencies.
Yep.
Dddam son!
100000% this. The father knows he's a failure as a man. If his son grows up to be 'any' sort of man, it'll make him feel even worse than he already does so he has done his best to try to engender his son into feminine things, to essentially 'break' him of any possible masculinity. Thank god he failed, and the kid has his own identity.
Exactly.
"Felt ill when someone mentioned a wrench or another tool."
This dude isn't taking a stand against masculinity, he's just lazy and doesn't want to be called out on it. There's nothing "masculine" about a tool.
@@myria2834 I think its a genetic trait
Well, there's certainly nothing masculine about THAT tool, that's for sure.
@@myria2834 I honestly thought he sounded traumatized by his father or something, and wound up hating everything that represented him. Which... mental trauma would probably explain a lot of the gender identity cultists come to think of it.
Well we must stop all mechanics. It's the only way forward.
Certainly nothing masculine about THAT tool. He talks about buying a tractor shirt like he is about to commit seppuku.
It’s never to late to change!
3:37 wow you blended that ad in so well😄
My dad served in WW II. He also did dishes, cooked, and gardened roses. A man's man who didn't care about what others thought.
Way it should be.
Sounds like a real OG
I f*ucking love gardening lol
Makes me kinda choke up as my old man was the same!
Think we all been programmed and what a ‘man’ should be. I like to cook, am I going to stop because ‘its a woman job’ nope. Also like this guy, that rejects anything that is ‘manly’ many women rejected learning to cook at all and know many women that don't know how to.
Real men respect other mens craft. Even something as gardening roses.
"I pride myself on blurring gender lines"
That is so pathetic lol.
So is thinking that this is a legitimate article and not an opinion piece meant to target people just like in order to make you think this person actually exists.
@@epmcgee This is such a 2014 normie take, *_"These crazy woke kids in universities are nothing to worry about, once they get out into the real world, this will all go away"_* ...
And 8 years later the vast majority of cultural institutions in the West writ large, not just the USA, have been captured by these Leftist ideologues lol.
Just because you personally haven't met someone like this, doesn't mean they don't exist. But whatever, squeeze your normalcy bias to your bosom more tightly than you already seem to be. Revel in the relief that at least you won't have to worry about anyone calling you a "CoNsPiRaCy ThEoRiSt"...
Until you realize that you're the one insinuating that instead of assuming this person just believes what they're saying and they're just a radical Leftist...
*_No, it's ackshually a clever psy-op, designed for the express purpose of manufacturing dissenting opinions like mine, and I'm the fool for falling for it lmao._*
And logically speaking, *_even if what you're saying is true, (which it isn't) that would still prove that people who have the same motivations (blurring gender lines) as the person who wrote the article, do indeed exist._*
Cope harder, and be sure to nurse that terminal normalcy bias to the best of your ability.
Imagine priding yourself on turd.
The only notable thing this person ever achieved
@@epmcgee I've met these people irl, they 100% exist.
I was legit rolling on the floor from laughter. 😂 And then I absolutely lost it when your editor said "BETA!" It's sad the direction my generation (gen z) is going. But I'll be honest, some thing we do is so funny
Excellent video Brett 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
"Hard times create strong men, strong men create easy times, easy times create weak men, and weak men create hard times." Best quote ever
and very true from the look of things. With almost no real issues left to go on about, the manufacture ones and just like your eyes with each stronger pair of prescription glasses, they get weaker and weaker with each increasingly minor manufactured "problem"
And good women create "hard" men.
Idk why but u hate that quote it’s like a cave man made it up
@Chando I don’t dislike the message , just the syntax used in the quote ;it just needs to be structured better.
-Sucungus the 12th
Can you imagine his first memory being him playing with his tractors having a blast, looking over and seeing your dad watching you sobbing 🤣
Brings home a nice girlfriend
The dad: NO YOU WERE SUPPOSED TO BE A TRANS GAY WITH CRIPPLING ANXIETY! HOW CAN I SHOW YOU OFF TO MY WOKE FRIENDS NOW
@@ryanwood6754 Dude you know this world is slowly killing itself when comments like this sound too close to reality.
@@ryanwood6754 but he would still bring a girl then ?
If he'd be trans he'd identity as a woman a gay woman is a lesbian so ye anyway .
@@ryanwood6754 I JUST WANT TO PLAY FOOTBALL AND KISS GIRLS DAD! WHY CAN'T YOU JUST UNDERSTAND?! I DON'T WANT TO STAY HOME WHEN I GET OLDER, I WANT TO BE A MECHANIC!
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Testosterone levels nonexistent, I’m weak.
The plugs for the ads are unmatched 😂
When I read his quotes I feel as if I’m listening to a crazy person. Some shit out of always sunny in Philadelphia
His worldview of "gender is a social construct" got demolished when his own son remained manly, its hard to have to accept that something youve based your entire life is shown false.
And that is what The Left is trying to do to us by abolishing The Gender Binary because that is "false".
Exactly
Years of evolution ftw
It didn’t have to demolish it though that’s the thing that’s driving me nuts. The father had every popular to just shrug his shoulders and accept his kid likes boy things without thinking it means stereotypes are real all the time or whatever
He'll feed the kid soy and put him on hormone blockers guaranteed.
To be fair, finding out that my son was waxing a sports car in the sun would be horrifying for me too!
Stay away from waxing your car in direct sunlight, stay in the shade or do it on a cloudy day folks!
did that my first time :) took me a few washes to correct it
🤣😂🤣
Lmao thanks for the psa
They had us in the first half I'm not gonna lie
😂😂😂
"I imagined my son playing football and waxing his car and my mind spiraled into darkness"
Imagine being such a loser that having dreams of your son being a badass gives you an anxiety attack.
literally sounds like an episode of Frasier. I really loved that show.
Imagine being such a weak father.. I pray that kid grows up to be a strong willed man, nothing like his father.
Strong willed opposite of his father
Ameen
He won’t
He's the type of "man" that gets eaten first in a zombie apocalypse while his son leads the survivors.
Or gets others killed by screaming and needing to be saved
Somebody's gotta do it.
Bruhhh yes lmaoooo
Your comment deserves more likes.
😂😂😂
The first paragraph described me. When I was little I liked tractors, now I play football. And maybe in the future I can get a lambo
Subscribed, this was great and hilarious 😂
There's so much to unpack here:
- When he's describing the "scary" things he's imagining his son doing, his descriptions sound more like the start of his fantasies. Waxing a sports car? Charging through muscly men? These are common erotica.
- His son is clearly more masculine than he is. I hope he doesn't screw the kid up too bad before he's old enough to realize his dad's a panty-waist.
- He hates guys who wear plaid and drive American cars? Send me all your hate, brother.
- He doesn't "blur gender lines." He stands firmly on the other side of it.
- Won't hang a picture frame. That's not standing against gender norms. That's just being useless. The vast majority of people hang picture frames. Refusing to do so because your daddy was disappointed that he never had a son is just pathetic.
*Here's the thing:* I was a stay at home dad. Years of doing construction actually made me glad for a few years of _not_ beating up my joints every day. My wife had started making enough money that we could make it work, so I took a few years and focused on my two sons. I'm a handyman now (better money, working for myself, setting my own hours) and my boys are teenagers. They're both doing great in school, have good friends, and are doing some serious thinking about their futures. They both have impressive tool collections (that they can use properly,) they can hunt, fish, mountain bike, set a table properly (and use the correct utensils). They treat people respectfully and know how to look someone in the eye and give them a firm handshake.
If that's what it means to "ruin" a child with "toxic masculinity," then consider me a terrible parent because I did it twice over.
That sounds like a dream!
We need more men like this, and thank you for providing the world with not one but TWO of them!
God I wish you were my father by your description that’s all shit I taught myself Lmaoo but yeah count me in for toxic masculinity because my sons and daughters are doing all that shit
Good on you man! 👏
Well done, sir. Very well done.
Well said.
"My son fell in love with tractors!!"🤣🤣🤣 most little boys like cars and tractors
Damn right
And no one actually told little boys that. It's amazing!! Let the kids be kids.
Still do....
Exactly because they're cool to see. This guy is making a big deal out of nothing!
He’s disappointed that he had a son instead of a daughter.
Holy crap, insane transition into your ad read lol walked right into it.
That skincare ad transition was smooth as F***
Traditionally parents get blamed for ruining their kids lives. It's refreshing to see a parent go the extra mile to keep the tradition strong.
🤡🌍 you win the internet this month!
Amen
I thought the whole point of gender identity was to give the child the choice. He made his choice.
A nice compromise for his son would to get h a G. I. Joe action type toy.
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I am happy for Jay, because when his wife isn't around, his son can open jars for him.
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I don't know how old this kid is but I suspect by the time he's 10 years old he'll be able to beat the **** out of his miserable excuse of a dad I don't know
😂😂😂😂😂👌🏽👌🏽👌🏽
😂! Epic!
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this is a great channel Ive found, very informative and love that its conservative. i originally found it looking for mini cooper repair videos
Regarding the he digs holes in the yard....Please watch/check "Bisbetico Domato" part about ringing the bell and chopping firewood... xD
That kid doesn’t need his dad to be proud of him, because all of us are!
That kid has 2 moms and no dads
here here
Sounds like the kid has two mommies. 😂
This is a good comment
Maybe Dad will croak soon and Mom will find a real dude? I’ve seen it happen. 🤷🏼♀️
He's not a stay-at-home dad. He's a stayed-in-the-closet dad. I feel so bad for him. As for the son... he'll be just fine.
Hey now,
Dint insult the gays like that
Now now. How can the child possibly avoid the psychological damage having such a father will cause him.
Yeah this dude is deep in the closet. Lol
@@Ashbringer36 But the dude is straight outta the closet, even if he doesn't admit it.
@@Razor-gx2dq So deep he’s in the wall
I would be so embarrassed if this was my dad
I hope this kid grows up to be a mechanic. We need more of those....
His dad probably fixes a nice sandwich.
@@relaxingsounds1386 lmao
Yep. Less rich people and more important people
😂 this comment
I hope he goes all state in football or track, aces shop class, home economics, math and science, gets crowned prom king and marries a girl who's parents voted for Trump. And I hope I get to see his dad cope on the internet.
Rejecting gender stereotypes is just one of many examples of destroying something good by taking it to extremes. It's okay if boys like soft things and girls want to be rough and tumble. Stereotypes should not limit who we choose to be or what we choose to do. But limiting ourselves in an effort to spite stereotypes is itself an arbitrary limit.
yup pretty much. It's okay for dudes to cry, it is natural. But lets be real if you have a mental breakdown over the smallest things man you are not okay and your parents have failed you.
@@verbon47 Met a guy sometime ago that did my mom's hair. He wasn't gay, was married and with two kids and one on the way. His story was actually quite touching. His mom suffered from a debilitating condition that didn't allow her to take care of herself, so he learned to do her hair, and such just to keep her mood up. He discovered artistry for it. The dude is super manly lol, and works on his bike on his time off, but he likes to help women and even men as he does barber work too, in the way he helped his mom.
If he had been born in this age he probably would have been told he was trans or something.
Big facts
Tf is a "gender stereotype"?
@@raymorningstar7399 I get it. Traditionalism is a bitch sometimes, so you are completely in the right there. But a the same time, I think I find problems with your definition of gender by saying things like "gender roles".
But I think that you aren't the only one who does, don't you?
I wonder what happens when this guy needs to unclog the toilet...cut the grass...or God forbid, change a spare tire *shudders*
“This guy must hate Matt Walsh”. 😂😂🤣🤣
Matt even said, "How dare you" when he commented on this sad sack of a father.
@@danielseelye6005 wait did he?
I hope that’s the next thing his son asks for 🤣
Imagine my disappointment when I tried to find a plaid clad emoji man, but could not...
👨🏻🚒👨🏻🔧 Close enough 😂
@@NeetuSingh-gl1ue Check Matt Walsh's channel from a couple days ago. He did a video about this Schmuck.
If the dad is so afraid of his son liking tractors, just wait untill he finds out about planes, trains, trucks and racecars. That dad would have a heart attack 🤣
and then ... if he wants a Kyle Busch Shirt xd tractor is soft compared to nascar xd
Planes, trains and automobiles
He is not a dad, he is the mother here. I wonder if he was the one that got pregnant.
How about when he turns 18 and buys an AR-15 AND a motorcycle in the same day hahahaha 😆
It's odd that he says he's prided himself on blurring gender lines, then proceeds to list a bunch of "masculine" things.
The 'masculine boy' deserves a real father.
"I wasn't sure what to do" maybe love your son unconditionally no matter what they want to do?
My son was always drawn to the more masculine things, still is at 15 (he’s into black smithing and welding). Among my friends, he was the only boy born amid many girls. He played with these girls as he grew up. Dolls were not uncommon for him to be around. He’d play with his action figures with them. They also played with his cars and nerf guns together. One of his favorite cartoons was My Little Pony. He thought rainbow dash was cool. We never made a big deal about it. He now prefers the original Star Trek series. Let kids be kids.
Exactly!
My progression of favorite shows as a little boy was Mr. Rogers, Power Rangers, and then Dragon Ball Z starting at like age 6. My parents probably would have preferred me thinking a cartoon pony was neat, it would have saved them having to listen to me screaming trying to become a Super Saiyan.
screaming “FRIENDSHIP IS MAGIC” is cooler tho ngl
Idk to be honest as an 18 year old, I think Star Trek voyager is the best Star Trek series. I can’t say I respect liking the original series the most to be honest, but I think that it does have some pretty great moments as well.
This seems like it was framed to prove a point but unintentionally came out as far more of a " I think my kid is awesome and I'm proud of him" and that unintentional wholesomeness makes my day.
Or maybe I'm just jumping to conclusions.
That was a shockingly good ending- the dad actually had a revelation and learnt to think like a normal human being again. That gives me hope for humanity.
he did? I wasn't gonna watch the video but now I wanna see that
@@BusinessWolf1 Yeah! Starts off with him sounding like a typical person captured by woke ideology and ends up finding his way through the muck to the other side with some common sense. Actually quite a heartwarming story all in all.
Only a sliver though
If he can think like that and is that controlling over his kids life then he truly has something wrong with him. Yes it is good he came to realize that his child is its own person- i guess thats “good”
What a sad world... Where a father is ashamed to have a son.... How did it come to this?
In my mind, you obviously shouldn't judge your son if he turns out feminine or gay. He isn't your doll. Same goes with if he turns out masculine. It's just that, people want their children to reflect their values. That's the problem in my mind.
He didn’t say how his husband felt about all this 😂
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He didn’t say how his wife’s boyfriend felt about it.
@@marsrows2167 His wife's boyfriend is probably the only one with a son.
You mean his husband's boyfriend?
😂 seriously
“My body spiraled into panic any time I attempted manual labor” may be the saddest thing I’ve ever heard, and since when was hanging a picture frame manual labor😂 love the editors comment and the reactions to that
He is a comrade commie. The type to want to be on top telling the lower people what to do...
Beta!!
Seriously. I can smell the soy through the internet just listening to Brett reading what that guy wrote.
What does this guy think dishwashing, gardening, etc are??
I also don't do manual labor.
The ad transitions though 😂
Loved watching you crack up, especially during the "manual labor" part. Right with you, it's hilarious...yet sad at the same time.
So we're supposed to let kids grow up to be whatever they want (even if it means permanently sterilizing them), but when they decide they want to be normal, we're supposed to be ashamed of them?
that's the plan.. the complete destruction of normality and all standards.
Correct. They're outwardly ashamed of their kid when they like normal things and then claim their kid "chooses" to be trans or gay. No. That's just how they seek your approval.
This is a prime example of why people with mental disorders shouldn't be allowed kids. When will we stop "letting them be them" and actually force treatment on them as there's clearly something fucked.
Because they know if they fail the cult they're the ones on the chopping block, hence the panic
Notice how those most obsessed with being 'different' or 'non-conforming' end up rigidly conforming to the attitudes and presentation of particular groups? Like the goths/emos back in the day. They so desperately wanted to be different and unique that they all had to wear black and behave the same way.
It's funny to me that "blurring the gender lines" has become "you must only like the things that the other gender stereotypically likes". I was always a tomboy, I'd play in the mud, build things, play with my toy cars but I would still love playing with my dolls house!
Same. And I'm a dude.
Same here. I idolized my dad, played football, went with him on wiring gigs, became a vollie fireman. I didn’t find out until I was older that I actually have a little extra T. Build muscle like a guy, sing tenor like a guy, but still love hair and makeup. When did we go from humans are complex to stay in your lane again? I think I missed a step.
It's absurd. It's a primitive religion.
Some of the roughest tomboys that we played with before puberty turned into gorgeous sexy women. Winners both ways!
Yeah, it's not blurring, its asserting equal and opposite choices.
That was the smoothest ad read I've ever seen.
Wait, isn't the thumbnail "Slick Mahoney" from Turquois Jeep? LMAO
I'm sure his wife's boyfriend is very proud of this guy for taking a stand for his son.
Oh man hahahaha.
Lmao
I see what you did there... Lolol
That's funny.
Shit, he may have a boyfriend himself, too.
To that man - Falling into certain stereotypes doesn't have to be bad, and the nonsensical idea to reject everything that's stereotypical is absurd.
Well when society has told you that being a healthy man is "toxic" but being a beta is good...
@@Azraiel213 hence, ask them to define "toxic" specifically, and then proceed accordingly.
As for beta - if they acknowledge that, ask them to explain how that is "good", and then proceed accordingly as well.
@@JiraiyaSama86 but Male Beta Fish fight each other whenever in close proximity, might we make the assumption of beta males towards masculine men to be the same?
@@Xandarian16 dunno. Normally best not to assume. But also no harm in being prepared.
Well put.
I'm a 30 yr old Man and don't believe in "Toxic Masculinity".
Yet; I still don't like Mud, Insects, Arachnids, Playing Outside (unless Winter), and many other"Stereotypical Masculine" things.
Even as a little kid I disliked those things & preferred staying inside Reading Books or Playing Videogames/Board Games/Card Games/Dice Games.
As a kid I had chores & yard work responsibilities as well.
Anyhow, if I ever found the right Woman got married and had kids. I would prefer being a "Househusband" but can still handle & enjoy certain things like Woodworking.
Brett, your transitions to the promo are 😂😂
I'm a stay at home dad of a 3 and a half year old daughter. It wasn't something I planned on, but when my wife was pregnant, it was a mutual decision we came to cause we decided we didn't want our daughter raised by someone else. My wife is an engineer and I'm a graphic designer, so it was just easier for me to make the change. My daughter, now 3 and a half, plays dolls and plays video games. She loves dinosaurs, but also playing mommy to her pretend babies. We sing Frozen and Encanto songs together, but also pretend we're robots chasing each other. I've always encouraged her to be into whatever interested her regardless of what that was. My job is to care for her and to encourage her. Not to tell her she can't play with something just because I don't like it, or think it's too girly. And that's not all, I also did some manual labor in the yard this weekend, and I'm not afraid to hang a picture frame. Just sayin. Glad the dad in this article ended up where he did on the issue, but he really needs to calm down a bit. No one should be offended over flannel and picture frame hanging lol.
That’s exactly it!
There are traditionally girl stuff and traditional boy stuff.
But none of us fit completely into the traditional woman and man boxes.
Everyone is interested and behave in some things that are traditionally male and female. And we’re free to do so.
It’s not changing who we are, it’s not changing our genders.
You’re a good dad, and this is the genuine way of letting your child be themselves.
That is so sweet
@@retrojohnny1899 Let's not contribute to the devolution of language by using "hero" here. He's doing an amazing job by being a great dad, who encourages his child to live a life of her own design, but "hero" means something specific.
I've definitely known some stay at home dads who used the time to take their kids fishing and hunting.
Do your thing thing Pops. But as your child gets older you need to get back to work. (Strange advice from a stranger but hear me out). Women want to ultimately be taken care of, that's a big reason why they work so hard taking care of their family - so Mom can be taken care of. Your job will be to take care of her financially when she gets older. So she can stress less about bills, work politics, engineer stresses etc. You'll have to switch from taking care of your child, as well as you do, to taking care of your wife. Or else - she will leave you. Sounds nuts but go ahead and ask Future Wife: "Can I remain stay at home while you continue working even though our little ones are gone?" She's not going to like that plan. But hey, it's just some stranger advice so take it out leave it, it won't hurt my feelings.
As a woman, I want to know how on earth this man could be a stay at home dad while suffering from a severe phobia of manual labor. Like. ..how? How does he run a house without getting his hands dirty or breaking out the tools? There are some things I don't have the skills to do around the house and I know not everyone has the same chores to do, but....what?? How??
He's a beta
He’s lazy, there’s no phobia or w/e he’s just lazy.
He's now the exemplary manifestation of the "lazy housewife" stereotype. They are probably fairly affluent so they might be able to afford some sort of hired people who hang picture frames (if it's in the US, it's an illegal immigrant, most likely). He might actually be some sort of useless remote worker (programmer or so) who isn't afraid of labor but hates it and those who do it.
He probably just gets ripped off by plumbers.
He irons and bakes while his wife's boyfriend does the home maintenance.
This whole article sounds like "I'm Squidward, and I have to work for a living. Boohoohoohoohoo!"
The parents my of youngest granddaughter were like this with princess stuff. We watched no princess movies, did not buy the costumes or did I sew her any. This was too be continued until at least 5. More if we could get away with it. Somewhere between 18mths & 2 1/2years old we asked what she wanted for Christmas and she said PRINCESS DRESS! I said, it wasn’t me! Then I laughed and laughed & within a year I had made her every princess dress and fairy costume patterns I could find. She is 12 now and the best girlie girl ever,she loves glitter, long beautiful gowns I make for her, make up and hairdo’s! Kids are just who they are & their personalities will shine!
You have to respect him for letting his son be masculine. Even if he is completely batshit insane. The guy is quite literally scared of light manual labor, that has to be some diagnosable disorder.
Liberalism
"letting his son be masculine" the fact that was even said is a huge fucking problem in itself. What the fuck is going on with this world, our ancestors would be turning in their graves if they could see what we've become, what many of them endured hardships and died fighting for our freedoms etc for. This is NOT what they had in mind or were fighting for.
@@Superabound2 Careful, you'll be arrested for arson
@@Superabound2 got a laugh out of me with this
Laziness.
My son and I have "man day" Sometimes I teach him how to do useful stuff like change a tire... sometimes we chop a tree down just because it's there
I love that. Wish we thought if that when our boys were young!
Smooth ad transition. Almost as smooth as your hands, thanks to the Nimi skincare brand product you use.
That dude thinks that kid will grow up with his dad at home instead he ending up growing up with his mum at home and mum at work
This guy really said “I’m gonna commit to being the laziest, most worthless husband ever” 😂
That’s okay tho some men are disabled
@@anonymous-cx7ng even they are better dads
I'd wager you he's an ex husband.
@@anonymous-cx7ng emphasis on SOME. And very very little. So its not an excuse for all other guys
@@anonymous-cx7ng he’s obviously not disabled sthu
Friends of mine got twins, one boy and one girl. They were dead set on treating them equal, they believed in the idea of environment sculpting the personality... They bought two blue and two pink of every clothing, they bought two cars and two dolls - yeah, you get the picture. What happened? The boy made everything, including dolls, go Bruuuumm! Things smashed, crashed and was torned to pieces. The girl could sit and cuddle a car or a doll if one was still whole, mostly silent. The boy was loud and demanding. After a few years, the girl was talking - ALL THE TIME while the boy became silent. Was the parents idea of forming their kids into "equal" citizens successful? Nope, no, njet, nein, nicht, nej... This is only shows that these Marxist ideas of forming everyone into some "perfect" being, all being the same, all being equal, is not just stupid, it is moronically blind to the real world around you.
Well ... that sounds exactly like the "play studies" they did analyzing children in the 50s. Same result. Seriously. The exact same toys, same same results ... most little girls pampering their cars & little boys vrooooming around the dolls. Obviously society & environment DOES create learned behavior, but it's incredible the behaviors were also psychologically wired with. Amazing, in fact. ... Were not all identical ... but in general, some things never change over the decades & centuries. We're human. Male & female.
Bruh
When you said no nein niet
You remainded me of nickola tesla from record of Ragnarok
The parents could have saved a lot of money if they weren't ignorant about human nature.
Well we can all be equal without being the same, the 2 aren't mutually exclusive.
@@umokwhy2830 we are not all equal, we are all different, we grow up in different environments, some do not have the same opertunities in life, so can't strive the same, while being equal should mean that we all have the same advantage in life, this is not true for everyone, on a biological ground, men and women are not the same, so we are not equal, but that does not mean that one person is better than the other, or that one gender is better than the other, in an ideal world we would all be equel, but it is not an ideal world, your perspective on equality is flawed
Keep that man safe from strong winds.
3:50 this has to have been a secret Babylon Bee article 😂😂😂
Sounds like a great son…he will teach his father a lot!
When the kid hits 10 years old he will say, "Dad, someday you're going look at a girls and get funny feelings."
oof
When the son grows up and moves into a place of his own, he’ll say “don’t worry dad, you’re the man of the house now”.
when the kid discovers the cartoon handy-many his father will have a heart attack.
The Next Chuck Norris is Born
This happened to me in Melbourne when I worked at a toy shop. A man said about his daughter "we aren't raising her to be feminine." Sooo sad. And she wanted a doll.
That’s so sad. Poor kid. The thing is it will probably have the opposite effect to what that dad wants. He might be able to suppress her femininity while she’s young and under his control but as soon as she’s older and able to make decisions/choices for herself, she’ll probably go the other way and embrace her femininity to an extreme.
one of my former classmates was caucasian (georgia) and her parents raised her as a dude bc they wanted a son. i think i don't have to say that it backfired, lol (her parents are not sjws, it's just that some caucasian families are patriarchal)
The one in Florida or the one in Australia?
@@SpaceKitten88 or just make her a bitter unhappy person.
My mother was, and to this day still is, horrified that I love all things horror and creepy and gorey. She often jokes “where did I go wrong” with it but she’s not actually embarrassed or ashamed that I love these things. Even when I draw slightly morbid art, she will still compliment my skills even though she doesn’t like the content. My mother and father have always been very supportive of me being a more tomboy-ish girl and have always encouraged me to be myself. I can never thank them enough for that (which btw, the things you like to do and dress have nothing to do with your gender, not every aspect of your personality has to be connected to what’s between your legs🙄 it shocks me that ppl don’t realize that…)
Imagine him calling out a handyman and asking him to hang some pictures for him 🤦♂️
"Felt ill when someone mentioned a wrench or another tool."
This is one of the most privileged things I have ever heard anyone say. Almost as bad as "Let them eat cake."
@Meradianstar 42 Not to mention the entire world this disgusting pos inhabits is built with tools. How can he sleep at night knowing his house was built with tools? The roads he drives, the office, the chairs and desk, everything this man takes for granted is unbelievable.
I’m like 80% sure it’s a satire article
@@MrMagicMayonnaise She literally says at the beginning of the video that she thought it was satire and sadly it is in fact not. So maybe she's a liar, or maybe she's mistaken. But I don't care enough to investigate because I know that there is someone out there that thinks this way. Even if not as extreme, enough so that it doesn't matter if this isn't real. People are dumb and biggest critics of society take for granted all the luxury that is afforded to them by being born in the richest country and the richest period of history ever.
@@MrMagicMayonnaise it’s not. The guy has several articles where he references some of the things in this one. I only read 3 articles (they’re on his website) but he apparently really likes to talk about himself and his experiences, and what made him, him. Each article contains a portion that should be reserved for his therapist, this essay just combined them all into one big neurotic, existentialist crisis. No, unfortunately this was not satire. People really think this way.
Uh oh. As a woman I am now a traditionally masculine man.
We are devastated!
😂😂
🤦♂️😂🤣
Man that was the smoothest segue into a sponsorship I have ever seen.
The first three paragraphs sound exactly like an Onion article 😁
The ending of the article was actually pretty heart warming. Love how the dude allowed his son to be who he is despite his personal trauma with manual labor and tractors 😂😂😂
When this kid moves out he'll have to say 'dad you're the man of the house now'
That sentence is so incredibly condescending it makes me instantly think of murdering said person. Then I come back to reality, but still. Extremely aggrovating.
😂👍🏾
Good on the father for caring more about his son than his own agenda. It’s sad to have to say that but it’s where we’ve gotten.
The crazy thing is how some people say that it’s all about accepting who your children will become, but instead force their ideals upon them. He’s literally said do what appeases him or do what makes his child happy.
"I want my son to do whatever he wants and ignore stereotypes!"
"Wait but not that"
"So we're going to accept people for who they are?"
"Well yes, but actually no."