Derek,I know she's doing the hardest work,but a hand to you as well.A wife who's time is coming for the birth,a boy who is weaning from his paci,and you are so even tempered and calm for them.Way to go both of you!
Derrick you are an amazing husband and father please give Sarah a hug from us. Will continually be praying for you and just think in just a short while you will hold your precious baby girl. My heart hurts for you not feeling good. My fourth child which we tried to get an ultrasound of and never knew it was a girl till she was born I had hyperemesis and had a PICC line. So my heart is really going out to you it's so hard to watch and no a mama is not feeling good and I just really pray that you have some good days before that little pink bundle is born. I'm sorry you're not feeling good Sarah
It doesn't matter how you handle pregnancy. Being a good mom is what really matters, Sarah. And you're a great mommy. Be kind and patient with yourself ❤️
I had 3 babies and I side with Sarah on this one. I too was miserable while pregnant. I NEVER understood women who said that they never felt better than when they were pregnant. 🤷 I was definitely NOT one of those women! Hang in there Sarah. You can do it!!! You look great!!
Same, I felt like absolute garbage. Non stop nausea, heartburn, backaches. Ya, I hated it. The minute I gave birth I was back to normal. You’ve got this Sarah!
I have 3 kids and while I love them all, I HATED being pregnant. To this day I still truly believe that people are either lying or delusional when they say they love being pregnant. I also think they should share whatever drugs they are on. 🤣🤣
I love that you are sharing the hard parts of pregnancy! So many people share the magical parts of pregnancy and not the hard parts so when people are struggling they feel very alone
Yeah, if I had had my girl first, she would be an only child. My boys pregnancy was an absolute breeze. My daughter was a thing of nightmares. From 8 weeks on, I threw up 4x a day until the end. My feet looked like they had been blown up like a balloon. I had TERRIBLE back pain and horrible acne. I wouldn't change it for the world, but definitely not fun and there was 0 "glow" lol.
Right? I heard it wasn't the easiest but now that I'm pregnant I'm like my life has been full of lies 😂 and it didn't help that my sister had a pain free pregnancy, horrible delivery and she had to bed rest for the baby, but she felt fine all the way to the end, I've been dying since 2 days after I found out, they thought I was gonna lose the baby for how much pain I was on already. I'm just living with it now and sleep the pain away as much as possible 🥲 as long as baby is ok I can suffer as much as I can though.
You’re doing a wonderful job Sarah, be proud and never apologize for how you feel emotionally, mentally or physically. Derek you’re so great with your support and understanding. Wonderful couple & parents.
I think she is just so graceful that she has this giving situation with her family and with her first child that the body expresses this with an extraordinary empathy. My favorite family healthy sincere and funny .. plus full of wisdom 🌱🌷🦋🍃
You don’t have to apologize girl, your human and pregnant. Sometimes it's hard on moms who are pregnant. Can't wait for you to have her. She going to be so beautiful.
*"You don't have to"* indeed, but it would be wiser as human if you know that *"Saying sorry/Apologize"* could make situation better. Especially for who you conversation with.
Awwww! Sarah! Tears are good, as you are frustrated by the pain you've been in during your pregnancy with Baby Girl! Sending prayers! Jack is precious and so very happy! You are wonderful parents! 😌💖💖💖💖
Sarah, I’ve never experienced the fullness of pregnancy to relate to what you’re going through right now. But, you never have to justify or qualify your pain with “other people have it worse.” While it may be true, you are allowed to express your pain, your discomfort, your disappointment, etc. You are human, with a full range of emotion. Expressing the hard stuff doesn’t make you a negative person nor ungrateful for having a less difficult experience than others. Love your family and I’m cheering you on from KY. One of millions looking forward to meeting your healthy and happy daughter when she arrives. ❤
oh my goodness!! look what an amazing husband you are! your acknowledgement of how she feels and gentle enough to provide the safety and space necessary for your wife to cry is just so heart warming ♥️
Jack’s reactions with you is all that’s needed to show how great a mom you are. Just take care of yourself and before you know it you will be holding your sweet baby girl.
Making a human is hard I have 4 kids it wasn't always the funnest, you are an amazing mom and you should definitely take time for yourself and not feel guilty about it. You need that mental break sometimes so you can be your best you. I will be praying for you that you can have some comfort. You got this.
I have a 2 year old who has a close bday to Jack, I am also pregnant with a little girl due on Dec 5th! Every step of the way, your videos have been on point with how I’ve felt this time around. It’s nice to know I am not alone in the morning sickness, pain, exhaustion and just being OVER this pregnancy. Solidarity girl ✊🏼 I am quite literally RIGht. There. With. you. on allllll of this!
I've had seven children and I can tell ya that the last leg of the race is so hard. When you get to see your baby the first time tho it's worth it. Not much longer to go mama. You got this!! ❤️
Thanks for bringing attention to the pelvic pain we go through when pregnant. I am currently 26 weeks with our second and have severe pelvic pain. Just ordered a belly band and it seems to be helping. I wanted to mention that I found going out and floating in a body of water helped take a lot of the weight off of my hips and helped with the pain I was having in my first pregnancy. I just wore a lifejacket and floated with a rope so my husband could pull me back to the boat. Hang in there mama you got this!!! You are doing amazing!!!
I did this in a pool when I was big and pregnant in the summer with 1 of my 3 and it felt amazing to take all that weight off!! Maybe Sarah will see this and they can figure something out. I also had to lay in our jetted tub every single night with a warm bath and epsom salt (mixed with a tiny bit of lavender oil- ob approved it) and it’s what saved me the last 8-10 weeks! I literally would stay in there so long the water would turn cold and I would let most out and refill with hot water. I was in soooo much pain. Plus I has restless leg syndrome the last couple weeks. Idk which was worse! But I went into labor at 38 weeks and had a beautiful healthy sweet baby.
I saw a TikTok where the toddler collected all her binkies. They took them out into the garden and ‘planted’ them. The little girl watered them and watered again at night. I think it was the next day when she came home from nursery that the binkies magically turned into bracelets and cake pops and candies and toys (or whatever the rewards were). The mother made a big deal out of everything and the little girl was really invested. SO cute!
Baby girl, lovely Sarah… your baby girl is a whole different beastie than your boy..😊 you ARE a rock star. And you are a wonderful wife, and a GOOD human. Lol … your lives , after a girl baby, will change dramatically. It’s girl babies, I tell ya. Lol I think the law should be girl babies FIRST, cuz being a boy mom does NOT prepare you for the adventures you’ll go on with your daughter 💃🏼💃🏼 And seriously, inquiring minds want to know…how on earth can you still look so perfectly lovely whilst crying!?
Sarah thanks for being so real & vulnerable with us. I started crying when you started crying because I’m pregnant too right now & have been honestly feeling miserable on so many levels. I haven’t left the house for weeks at a time either. I have a 2 year old so I get that too. Hate seeing you in pain but it’s refreshing to remember we aren’t alone 🥲
I live in chronic 24/7 pain (not from pregnancy) it’s so hard and along with the physical pain the emotional and mental toll it takes is so heavy. Hang in there Sarah. A good cry is nothing to be ashamed of. At the end of your pain is a beautiful baby girl.
I too live with chronic pain, it’s so hard to find people that can understand the way you feel each and every day. Luckily for her she will hopefully be relieved soon and that is the best part about this ❤because no one should have to live with pain every day.
@@maureenobrien9815 I’m sorry yeah it’s crazy how that happens but I do wish I didn’t live with it anymore. I’m always looking for folks to connect with that understand what I’m going through. Let me know if you two want to exchange SM or IM info?
And, me too, makes 4. Its been over 20 years. i get jealous when i see people doing the things i used to love to do, but as bad as it gets sometimes, I remind myself of exactly what Sarah said, some people have it worse. Much worse. That doesn't change the fact that I hurt, am exhausted without even doing anything, 0 energy, doesn't mean my pain isnt real. just that i need to keep pushing thru with the hope that ONE DAY..... Sarah, you are a beautiful, strong & loving person. You're right when you said you were doing what Moms do. We put aside our on discomfort bc our little ones need us, our family needs us. You are amazing. Don't feel bad for a few tears. Thats what pain &fatigue do. It is overwhelming to be in constant pain, so no more apologizing. You do what you need to do to get through. In a few weeks, as that little girl relocates from the inside to the outside, the pain will hopefully be put where it belongs, in the rearview mirror, while you & your hubby look forward at the miracle of your love for one another. Then those tears will be of joy & happiness. Take his advice and gift yourself with some me time. That is a golden idea. It will make you feel better emotionally, mentally & hopefully physically as well. Wishing these next few weeks travel on by. Looking forward to seeing those little pouty lips in living color. Ya'll take care & stay safe.
I just love how real you are Sarah! Your authenticity easily makes this my favourite channel. You got this… but thank you for not being one of those social media representatives that makes us feel like we should be sliding off rainbows every frickin day! Xx
Oh Sarah, I feel your pain. I had really, really hard pregnancies, but oh my it is so, so worth it. And once your kids get older, this will fade from memory, and every minute you have with you kiddos is a gift. You rock!
I had 3 girls and 2 boys. The girls are sooo much harder to carry. My girls were all high and out front. My back hurt, my entire body hurt constantly. I felt like I was carrying a huge bag of weights. My boys were low and more to the back, so my hips took most of the weight of the baby. Hang in there Sara, you're doing amazing! ❤
That's weird my first boy I carried very high very big and gain weight, my girl I carried very low round like a basketball she was sitting on my bladder couldn't move had to pee every minute,, just goes to show you you never know,,
I carried my girl low too but it was the worst of my 3 as far as pain and sickness.. I felt winded after 4 steps up the stairs 😅 I didn’t gain much weight.. probably from the puking and constant nausea.. and I felt like I had the flu the whole time. 😝
@@dianeilarson.loveyoutoohah8615 My girl was low on my bladder too! I carried my son high and he came out with no problem. Oh but not her. I was in labor with her for 18hrs!!!
I'm 32 weeks pregnant, baby measuring at 35 weeks- and I feel this fully Sarah. Even your facial expressions are exactly how I feel. I have always found pregnancy so so hard- even though I love babies and children. Last night getting ready for bed I burst into sobs infront of my husband and he was so confused- but it was genuinely just the thought of having to do this for another 7-8 weeks. Solidarity 👍
@@janmeyer3129 My first was so perfect the first 6wks, then colic showed up, and we tried EVERYTHING. You really have to be completely selfless to be a good mom... So, hats off to you and every mom for sacrificing so we could be here today! It's so worth it when you see that tiny one's first smile, step, soccer game- it makes every showerless, sleepless, bleak night _worth it._ God knows what He's doing when He sends down a little angel! 🙌 💕
The last part of pregnancy is so hard and it drags the worst because it's painful and uncomfortable. I was on bedrest or modified bedrest with all 3 of my kids. It started with 32 weeks with my oldest, 31 weeks with my second and 30 weeks with my youngest. Even if you're ABLE to do things, you may be so uncomfortable and exhausted that even a simple outing takes all your energy so don't be so hard on yourself Sarah. You are growing an entire human being. And you have honestly one of the most amazing, supportive husbands I've ever seen. I am blessed to have one as well and I'm so grateful for him every day. You both are doing a wonderful job with Jack and in just a few weeks your beautiful baby girl will join you.
I'm now 26 and when I was 23 I was pregnant. By the time I was 20 weeks pregnant with my daughter who will be 2 next month, it was the most insane,hard, exhausting, painful experience ever from then on but it's so worth it and you're doing so well ! Everything you're feeling is valid and you'll make it and be the best mama to baby girl that you already are to Jack 💕
One day at a time sweetie.... I felt so guilty for not 'loving' being pregnant. We're here for you. Try to let Derek help as much as possible. Take the breaks he offers. It'll help. ❤️
Acknowledging and accepting your complex emotions is not a meltdown; it is human. Do not feel bad for being human. Tbh you are handling this with a lot of grace. Do not downplay your experience just because “other people have it way worse.” Your feelings, emotions, experience, etc are all valid. 💛🙏🏻
Poor Sarah!! 🥺 I remember those days when it hurt to walk around and being over pregnancy. You're a strong woman Sarah, and not much longer and you'll feel better again and that sweet baby girl will be there to make you smile 😊🥰
Never apologize for honest to goodness emotions Sarah.❤ You and Derik are such brilliant people, so kind, supportive of each other, respectful and so committed to each other and making a beautiful life with Jack. You are rocking marriage, parenthood, and pregnancy. You take awesome care of yourselves and each other. BE GENTLE WITH YOURSELF SARAH. 💕You are carrying life inside you, cradling and safely harboring the newest Beeston to join the party 🎈 Girl, give yourself all the credit ( couldn’t have done it without Derik for sure!) I know your families are so over the moon proud of you both and just look at all your subs…. We just adore you three and a half!abundant blessings 🙏🏽🥰🤗🤗🤗🤗
Hang in there Sarah. It'll be over soon. You're doing a good job & you're a great Mom. It's ok to get a good cry. Sending good vibes & lots of love & support. 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
Totally with Sarah on this. I'm now 37 weeks, also expecting a girl (our first), and I've had really bad pelvic pain since I hit the 3rd trimester. I'm awake right now because my hips ache at night, and it HURTS to turn around onto my other side. No one ever tells you how painful pregnancy can be, and I'm so glad that he’s there for you ❤️
We have qi gong exercises and acupressure to relieve your pain and prepare you for delivery without affecting your baby. Search on Utube to have an idea but you need to see a real practitioner. A real one can really help you.
Having little Jack and trying to keep up with the videos and maintaining your sanity in the last few weeks is tough and laughing together is great medicine.
You both are beautiful parents and remember that every pregnancy, in itself, is a blessing and a trial. Your body is literally changing daily to nourish and foster her new life before she is even born. Give yourself moments, hours and even days to reconnect with your own body to understand what is happening and what is making your pain worse or better. Tiger Balm can help if your doc will ok it- it’s natural and topical! Love and all the best to You, Sarah. Honor yourself too! Tears are nothing to be sorry for. Pain is horrible and no l e can tell you otherwise! You are awesome! Thank you for being real, honest and loving. God bless and protect you all
I'm almost 32 weeks and my body is breaking. I literally don't have strength chasing after my 2 other kids 😭 gotta push through. It's worth it but so so hard.
I was one of those pregnant moms that had morning sickness, morning ,noon, and most of the night for the first 6-8 weeks. Ugh But then, I did great! Labor & delivery, less than 3 hours both times. I have a girl & a boy. Both are good responsible people & great parents themselves.❤
“Tears make people real” and we love you guys. Hang in there Sarah, it’s ok to feel all you feel right now. Carrying a child is not an easy thing. You’re beautiful and brave.
Oh Sarah, your feelings are VALID! Honey, do not ever apologize for expressing how difficult being a pregnant mommy can be. Kudos to daddy for his understanding and doing his part. Your children will thrive off of the loving vibes you share. Jack is already a beautiful example of that!! ❤
Never be sorry for tears. If you feel bad, you feel bad, and that's ok. Hang in there! You are loved and supported, and that's great. Best wishes to you and your family!
Saraahhhh don’t apologize for your tears! Just because other people may be going through worse doesn’t mean you should minimize what your dealing with. Your feelings and your struggles are valid. You don’t have to cry on camera if you don’t want to but still let yourself cry. Thank you for staying so strong for your baby girl the world is going to be better with her in it❤️
I was so glad to hear someone else doesn’t exactly like being pregnant! I’m now 73 years old and you are the only woman I’ve heard admitting being pregnant wasn’t your favorite way to be! Be brave, little Sara! The best is yet to come! God Bless the miracle you are carrying!🌹❤️🌹
Beautiful video as per usual! ♥ I love the authenticity of *real life* you guys always present. And the relationship skills you guys often reveal is always refreshing and idk comforting. ~ Honestly, the people you are to each other, has even been a topic of conversation in our home! With 4 dear girls of my own who are 11 and up.. we have little take note pauses: there are always perfect moments watching your videos: "See that? Did you hear how he speaks of her?" or, See how important it is to only consider a spouse who tenders you, and is compassionate & understanding? Imagine if she was going through all of this and her husband was self-centered or unkind? so just wanted to tell you guys We all love alllll the Beestons! It is however hard not to covet @ times ( lol ) you're allll ridiculously pretty ( yup-boys too ) and the lifestyle you all embrace, is just..so cool. Children deserve parents who are steady & sound; and, I love that by nurturing your own unique interests and passions, your kids will benefit and also emulate that. Our world NEEDS more healthy, well rounded, enthusiastic & positive parents such as yourselves♥ So, pleeease -- make time to have down time and self-care, Sarah! You can't pour from an empty pitcher!!! Love to you guys - You are doing a BANG UP job, Hang in there, this trial shall pass, sweet girl. ♥ Hugs and bestest wishes from Ohio... kelley
Sarah, you are doing GREAT! You are being compassionate toward other mothers even though you feel horrible. You are giving Jack PLENTY of attention, so don’t feel bad about how exhausted you are. Wish you could REST at least a couple hours a day. Derek, you are an incredibly supportive hubby and daddy! Keep up the good work. You are BOTH amazing parents, spouses, and PEOPLE! Love you all!
I’m right there with ya girl. I’m at the sameish stage. It’s constant pain and frustration, but I’m so grateful at the same time and can’t really complain. You made me tear up when you talked about it. You so got this 🙌🏼✨You’re both amazing and I wish your family all the good vibes and beautiful days ✨
You guys are amazing! You both support each other through everything, you really work together to help each other. You love your kids so much and each other. Derek is so understanding of Sarah and helps so much and is so understanding. He's like 1 in a million and Sarah really appreciates him, leans on him and stays strong because of him. She's a great mom and wife. I hope the delivery is quick so you can get back to fun! I wish the world had more people like you! And those kids are gonna be great people too. They are growing up surrounded by so much love!
Sarah you are such a trooper! Pregnancy not only involves physical exhaustion but also emotional. Your hormones are going all over the place and it is ok. Walking on the beach could be a great treat for you all. You are an amazing mamma, and know all will fall into place. 🌷💖
I've watched you two since Jack was born. I love how you support each other and are such wonderful parents to Jack. Sara, I know how you feel as I also know it will be over before you know it, and your baby girl will be chasing after her brother before your ready. Don't hide the tears. They help.
Sarah is absolutely stunning! She has such a gorgeous smile and always has such a glow all around her even when not pregnant! Thank you for sharing your amazing family and letting everyone enjoy your love for each other and those incredible babies! Jack is so sweet we all know he will be so protective over his princess!
You two are such a light to everyone that sees y'all. Don't ever apologize for tears. You let your emotions come. Your sincerity, and love are amazing. Xo
What a wonderful family. Derek is such a supportive and amazing dad. Sarah is like supermom! You are doing an incredible job. And Jack....well everyone knows he is the cutest little guy ever😍
Sending Sarah a "high five" with a huge dose of encouragement and love. Sweet girl, you're a "Warrior Mama" and the whole "troop" is rooting for you! Just focus on the beautiful little girl who will soon join your lovely family! ❤️💕❤️ from 🇨🇦
Pregnancy is hard, you're growing a whole,entire, other person. Treat yourself the way you would treat your sister or your bestie if they were having a difficult pregnancy. Big hugs! Hope you can get some relief from the pain soon.
That was me with my 3rd. I was READY. It's okay to feel the way you feel because it is hard. You are growing an entire human. I had a few different cries and meltdowns during my 3rd pregnancy. You got this girl!
I think this is my favourite of all your videos so far. ❤️ It's honest and unfiltered. Sarah, you're doing great! I know it can be so so tough sometimes, but you're doing it already. There's no 'I can't do this' - you *are* doing it. Prayers to you for some respite from the pain. Either way, there are only a few weeks left until baby girl is in the world and you can start being pain free again. Proud of you and your beauty and your strength, you goddess! Xxx
My heart goes out to you Sarah. I feel you. My second pregnancy was really rough and I was in a lot of pain throughout most of my pregnancy to the point that I could barely walk and throughout my whole pregnancy I couldn’t keep anything down and I had heartburn 24/7 and I couldn’t sleep amongst a million other things. Sending you love, hugs, healing and good vibes. You got this! You’re doing a great job.
I’m really glad you were able to be vulnerable and share your true feelings about your pregnancy. Mom guilt is a real thing and it starts early. It’s nice to hear I’m not the only one who has a hard time during pregnancy. My daughter is just a bit younger than Jack and we are pregnant with the second one and this pregnancy is just as tough as the first one so far and I can’t stop feeling guilty for not LOVING being pregnant and finding it hard when so many people seem to have the easiest pregnancy. It also helps to understand how different every pregnancy is and to not judge/compare. I told everyone my daughter would be born at 38 weeks and she was born at 38 weeks exactly. I’m sure it’s not how labour works whatsoever but it doesn’t cost anything to try… haha! You can do it Sarah. Almost there :)
You're not alone! Praying for your delivery too! You're body was designed for this! You're on the right track by showing yourself grace and mercy in all this change. One step at a time. You got this momma! 🥰
So sorry this pregnancy has been so tough, Sarah. Proud of you both for sharing your reality- you don’t have to apologize or hold back when you’re feeling bad- we know you’re grateful and awesome parents.
U are so amazing Sara! Don’t be sorry! Ur killing it! 6 weeks and will be sending u early labor vibes!!!! Thanks to Derrick for being such a support! Can’t wait for her to get here! Hang in there Sara! ❤❤❤
Get out there on the beach!! Don't apologize for tears. We love you guys. You guys are great parents and Derek is such a wonderful support. Great family. Almost there Sarah. Hang in there.
Sending you so much love, Sarah!!! I felt just like this my whole pregnancy. It was SO hard. You are amazing, strong and beautiful!!! Hang in there Mama!!💖💖💖
Sara you got this! Your glowing and that baby girl is so beautiful already, she just has to bake a lil bit longer. Your doing an amazing job with Jack too!!♥️♥️♥️♥️
I suffered with bad pain in my pregnancy 2nd time round. My husband had to give up work to look after me as I ended up on crutches at 3 months and wheelchair at 6 months when out if the house. I got ill after having him and have been in chronic pain since 2018 so I feel for you so much Sarah. Just remember there is only a few weeks to go and once you hold your daughter in your arms it will all be worth it. Derek you are an amazing dad and husband, looking after Sarah, Jack and the house is just as tiring. You are a beautiful family. Sending love and prayers to you all 🥰❤
Momma never compare your pain/pregnancy to anyone else's. You are allowed to experience this and understand how rough it is. Just because someone else has it worse does not mean that what you are going through is any less. You got this.
We are here for all four of you! Just remember what you said, Sarah...you are only pregnant for a very short part of your life. Once baby girl gets here, you'll take one look at her and know it was all worth it ❤️. Tears are perfectly OK. You're human carrying another human. I think you're entitled to tears. We love you guys! Now go to the beach! ⛱️
I loved how your home felt lived in,everyone on UA-cam have these spotless houses that don't look warm and inviting but your home made me want to come hold the baby and hang out and talk❤
Sara you are so lucky to have such an involved husband and father. I just gave birth to a baby girl 7 weeks ago and I literally do everything for her care on my own. I even did the birth on my own and I live with her father. You are blessed. I hope to one day be able to have the family you both have!!! #relationshipgoals
I second this ☝️It is so nice to see how much he loves his wife and children! My son is 18 months old and has never met his father. He ghosted me 4 months into my pregnancy and I haven't heard from him since. I pray one day I will be blessed with a family like this 🙏🏻 You got this Sara!! You are a strong and wonderful woman 🤗
Why do you live with the father why are you still with the father if he's not involved in the pregnancy he's not going to be involved with the child either and I know this from experience. Figure out a way to take that beautiful baby and go find love for just you and that baby you don't need a man
We’re only seeing what they want us to see… while he might be the best and most amazing, present father and husband, we really don’t know anything about that. I think many women can feel alone during pregnancy. Don’t judge the book by its cover and don’t compare your life with influencers ❤️❤️
Thank you so much for your vulnerability in this video. I'm pregnant with my 1st and your honesty makes me feel less alone. I'm so so grateful to be having our baby boy, but I'm also really struggling with how hard it is physically which impacts me mentally. It can be hard having such strong but opposite emotions at the same time.
Totally feel you, Sarah! I've had 3 girls and my last pregnancy was pretty difficult towards the end. She was also a pretty heavy baby, born weighing 9lbs 4oz (delivered her naturally in our home too after 2.5hrs of active labor) You've got this!! I went to the chiropractor weekly which was AMAZING, I felt really good afterwards but the time in between was rough. I felt so much weight in my hips and lower back. I'm sorry you've been struggling with pain as well, it will be over soon and then you'll have your sweet girl in your arms!
Sarah, you are not alone in feeling this way. I remember crying at the same point in my first pregnancy for the same reasons. I just wanted my body back all to myself. I felt angry at my child all the time because he would push his feet against me and it would hurt so bad. Don’t feel guilty, it’s ok to not like being pregnant because it’s not always easy. I became an OB nurse and then got to see how miserable some pregnancies can be. I later became a pediatric nurse and…..about the “bah”………If you want to get rid of the pacifier forever, a very quick and easy way to do that is to literally cut off the top of the rubber nipple and show him that it’s “broken” and tell him that he needs to throw it away. He’ll still put it in his mouth, but he won’t like it and believe it or not, he’ll be happy to throw it away. Worked like a charm for my daughter and I got the idea from others who did the same thing. He’ll find others later where he’s stashing them and you just say, “Let me see it.” And then you get a pair of scissors and cut it off again and he’ll throw that one away too. At night, if he’s looking for it, you remind him that it broke and he had to throw it away and he’ll be just fine. It sounds crazy, but it works! Good luck!
I'd be sitting on a bag of ice or in a cool tub for some relief. I had to sleep with a pillow between my legs with my third pregnancy. Sending you healing energy! You all are amazing!
Hunny...I was pregnant full-term 3 times & each pregnancy was different from the other. I also was in major pain my whole entire last pregnancy! I could barely keep my eyes open for the entire pregnancy cause the pain was so draining...it was awful! But once that beautiful child is born it makes all that suffering worth it. Just promise to take care of yourself once she is born. I focused on my children to the point of losing myself a bit & I ended up having a much longer recovery because of it. So because u have such a helpful husband please don't forget about urself. If u need to soak in a bath or eat something healthy please hand that baby over to him & do it when ur body tells u too. Hope this helps! Good luck...we know u guys got this!
Awe .. sorry about the pain 😢. Pregnancy .. woman are amazing. So happy for you two and Jack with building your new home in Utah !! It’ll now be close to grandma’s and grandpa’s. ♥️ They’ll love it … Thankfully you two have been able to take a few quick trips with friends and back to Utah to help the time go by a little quicker. Thank you for sharing the ultra sound with us. She looks absolutely beautiful … 💕
I'm currently 27 weeks pregnant on my first baby girl and I have to lay down almost all day because of a complication we found out at 21 weeks. What I've learned so far is that every woman and every pregnancy is different, so don't feel bad about your mental state, it is absolutely normal given the circumstances. I hope the best for your beautiful family!
I'm so sorry ❤️ I get your frustration... I have hyperemesis and I'm 20 weeks, that's totally different than being in pain 24/7, but the same type of struggle of being constantly sick or uncomfortable all day everyday, it really weighs on your mind. Hang in there, you are such a pleasure to watch! Thank you for sharing!
You both are a team and that’s so important and to give each other support. Sara bc you’re the one carrying your baby and Derick bc you’re the man and you’re expected to be strong. Praying for comfort. We all love you out here ❤️
I had hyperemosis and I can tell you pregnancy is amazing and beautiful for so many mothers, but others (like me) had so much trouble that I had to talk myself into living every day because of how sick and not me I was. I will pray for you and any other women going through this. I advocate so much for women going through a hard time when most seen so happy and how we all truly hope and want to feel like! The struggle is something you will overcome the day you hold that baby girl and fall in love. I thought my life was going to be that way forever in the moment. I was so scared that maybe it was me and not just the pregnancy- like I was sick somehow and what if it didn’t get better after having her. All those scary thoughts that something is much more wrong than hyperemisis. There is a stigma with any woman who doesn’t feel ok during the pregnancy not being ok in society’s eyes, but they just don’t understand until they’ve lived that. I’m so glad you’re baby is healthy and u have an amazing and supportive family during this difficult time. Keep your head up. 6 weeks is so short of a time in the grand scheme of life. Hell, 40 is, too! Stay strong. Sleep as much as you can to pass time and pray without ceasing for strength. 💚💚💚
Poor Sarah, I puked my entire pregnancy but never had any pain. Bless your heart darlin. I'm praying for you and your pregnancy as well as your family. Rest well
You're allowed to feel your feelings. It's hard not to compare to others who are worse off but you def deserve your own feelings. You're amazing Sarah 😍
I relate to Sarah so much on this! Please don’t feel bad for the tears. I’m 33 weeks pregnant (also with a girl and due in December) and I have super painful pelvic floor issues that I have to see a physical therapist for. I cry sometimes too because it can all just get really overwhelming! Pregnancy can be soooo tough physically and mentally, so feel all the feels girl! You got this
One thing I’ve learned having chronic health issues & pain is to NOT compare yourself to other’s similar situations and to NEVER mentally down play what you’re going through to yourself. 🫶 I get very sad & in a rut because I can no longer live the life I envisioned. Which then causes me to get down on myself & think “There are people going through much worse than what I am. I shouldn’t be upset or sad.” and then I get upset at myself for that. 😭 This is your life story 🫶 not Bob’s or Sally’s or whoever’s. 🥰 I’m prob gonna say this wrong but my husband once told me that “you can’t put your house fire out when you’re watching everybody else’s house burn”. And I absolutely L❤VE that cause it’s so true. Hugs, love & good vibes to you all from Arizona. ❤
Who raised this man!!! What an amazing father and husband. all the compassion.
Agreed!!!!!
I'm tellin you! What a great guy she found
Not to mention BEYOND "CUTE"
I absolutely agree! My wounded warrior is similar in so many ways (he was a navy doc) ! Yay good nurturing men!
Right!!! Mine just cussed me out for talking louder when he said *what?"..jeez
Derek,I know she's doing the hardest work,but a hand to you as well.A wife who's time is coming for the birth,a boy who is weaning from his paci,and you are so even tempered and calm for them.Way to go both of you!
Derrick you are wonderful. You are doing everything and never complain! Good guy
Derrick you are an amazing husband and father please give Sarah a hug from us. Will continually be praying for you and just think in just a short while you will hold your precious baby girl.
My heart hurts for you not feeling good. My fourth child which we tried to get an ultrasound of and never knew it was a girl till she was born I had hyperemesis and had a PICC line. So my heart is really going out to you it's so hard to watch and no a mama is not feeling good and I just really pray that you have some good days before that little pink bundle is born. I'm sorry you're not feeling good Sarah
It doesn't matter how you handle pregnancy. Being a good mom is what really matters, Sarah. And you're a great mommy. Be kind and patient with yourself ❤️
Pregnancy and child birth literally pushes the human body to it’s absolute maximum potential. You are amazing and doing wonderful
I had 3 babies and I side with Sarah on this one. I too was miserable while pregnant. I NEVER understood women who said that they never felt better than when they were pregnant. 🤷 I was definitely NOT one of those women! Hang in there Sarah. You can do it!!! You look great!!
Same, I felt like absolute garbage. Non stop nausea, heartburn, backaches. Ya, I hated it. The minute I gave birth I was back to normal. You’ve got this Sarah!
Me, neither.
Same here I was sick the while 9 months. Please do what is best for you Sarah.
I have 3 kids and while I love them all, I HATED being pregnant. To this day I still truly believe that people are either lying or delusional when they say they love being pregnant. I also think they should share whatever drugs they are on. 🤣🤣
I 100% agree with you! Hang in there Sarah ur doing a great job!!!
Meltdown is normal...😊
I love that you are sharing the hard parts of pregnancy! So many people share the magical parts of pregnancy and not the hard parts so when people are struggling they feel very alone
Yeah, if I had had my girl first, she would be an only child. My boys pregnancy was an absolute breeze. My daughter was a thing of nightmares. From 8 weeks on, I threw up 4x a day until the end. My feet looked like they had been blown up like a balloon. I had TERRIBLE back pain and horrible acne. I wouldn't change it for the world, but definitely not fun and there was 0 "glow" lol.
So true I never got all that support in all my ten pregnancies 7 kids 3 miscarriages
Right? I heard it wasn't the easiest but now that I'm pregnant I'm like my life has been full of lies 😂 and it didn't help that my sister had a pain free pregnancy, horrible delivery and she had to bed rest for the baby, but she felt fine all the way to the end, I've been dying since 2 days after I found out, they thought I was gonna lose the baby for how much pain I was on already. I'm just living with it now and sleep the pain away as much as possible 🥲 as long as baby is ok I can suffer as much as I can though.
You’re doing a wonderful job Sarah, be proud and never apologize for how you feel emotionally, mentally or physically. Derek you’re so great with your support and understanding. Wonderful couple & parents.
I think she is just so graceful that she has this giving situation with her family and with her first child that the body expresses this with an extraordinary empathy.
My favorite family healthy sincere and funny .. plus full of wisdom 🌱🌷🦋🍃
You don’t have to apologize girl, your human and pregnant. Sometimes it's hard on moms who are pregnant. Can't wait for you to have her. She going to be so beautiful.
*"You don't have to"* indeed, but it would be wiser as human if you know that *"Saying sorry/Apologize"* could make situation better. Especially for who you conversation with.
@@artdeeify pls shut up Karen
@@eatit6259 I'm a Karen?? What about you?? The worst Karen in this universe who can't see the differences between human and animal??😂
*SHAME ON YOU!*
Awwww! Sarah! Tears are good, as you are frustrated by the pain you've been in during your pregnancy with Baby Girl! Sending prayers! Jack is precious and so very happy! You are wonderful parents! 😌💖💖💖💖
Sarah, I’ve never experienced the fullness of pregnancy to relate to what you’re going through right now. But, you never have to justify or qualify your pain with “other people have it worse.” While it may be true, you are allowed to express your pain, your discomfort, your disappointment, etc. You are human, with a full range of emotion. Expressing the hard stuff doesn’t make you a negative person nor ungrateful for having a less difficult experience than others. Love your family and I’m cheering you on from KY. One of millions looking forward to meeting your healthy and happy daughter when she arrives. ❤
oh my goodness!! look what an amazing husband you are! your acknowledgement of how she feels and gentle enough to provide the safety and space necessary for your wife to cry is just so heart warming ♥️
What a great guy!!!! A great husband and the very best dad ever, what a wonderful little family!!!!!!!!
Jack’s reactions with you is all that’s needed to show how great a mom you are. Just take care of yourself and before you know it you will be holding your sweet baby girl.
Making a human is hard I have 4 kids it wasn't always the funnest, you are an amazing mom and you should definitely take time for yourself and not feel guilty about it. You need that mental break sometimes so you can be your best you. I will be praying for you that you can have some comfort. You got this.
I have a 2 year old who has a close bday to Jack, I am also pregnant with a little girl due on Dec 5th! Every step of the way, your videos have been on point with how I’ve felt this time around. It’s nice to know I am not alone in the morning sickness, pain, exhaustion and just being OVER this pregnancy. Solidarity girl ✊🏼 I am quite literally RIGht. There. With. you. on allllll of this!
Congratulations 🤗
😁
Congrats 👏👏🎉
Yay for dec 5th due date 🥰 ill be meeting my baby boy soon 💙
Her due date is on the birthday of sinterklaas
I've had seven children and I can tell ya that the last leg of the race is so hard. When you get to see your baby the first time tho it's worth it. Not much longer to go mama. You got this!! ❤️
Yay! We have 7 too!! Every time near the end, there are tears 😆
So doing your bit for the population explosion, then! Jeez! 😖🙄
You are absolutely right. We got 7 aswell
7 😳😳😳😳
Thanks for bringing attention to the pelvic pain we go through when pregnant. I am currently 26 weeks with our second and have severe pelvic pain. Just ordered a belly band and it seems to be helping. I wanted to mention that I found going out and floating in a body of water helped take a lot of the weight off of my hips and helped with the pain I was having in my first pregnancy. I just wore a lifejacket and floated with a rope so my husband could pull me back to the boat. Hang in there mama you got this!!! You are doing amazing!!!
I did this in a pool when I was big and pregnant in the summer with 1 of my 3 and it felt amazing to take all that weight off!! Maybe Sarah will see this and they can figure something out. I also had to lay in our jetted tub every single night with a warm bath and epsom salt (mixed with a tiny bit of lavender oil- ob approved it) and it’s what saved me the last 8-10 weeks! I literally would stay in there so long the water would turn cold and I would let most out and refill with hot water. I was in soooo much pain. Plus I has restless leg syndrome the last couple weeks. Idk which was worse! But I went into labor at 38 weeks and had a beautiful healthy sweet baby.
Ok wait I have pelvic pain when I’m on my period. And it hurts. Is that normal or should I see a doctor?
I saw a TikTok where the toddler collected all her binkies. They took them out into the garden and ‘planted’ them. The little girl watered them and watered again at night. I think it was the next day when she came home from nursery that the binkies magically turned into bracelets and cake pops and candies and toys (or whatever the rewards were). The mother made a big deal out of everything and the little girl was really invested. SO cute!
Love that
SUPER GREAT IDEA!!!!
That's an awesome idea!!!
Don’t forget,y’all… mum will get a flurry of energy soon now… and soon after that, baby girl meets the Worrrld
Baby girl, lovely Sarah… your baby girl is a whole different beastie than your boy..😊 you ARE a rock star. And you are a wonderful wife, and a GOOD human. Lol … your lives , after a girl baby, will change dramatically. It’s girl babies, I tell ya. Lol I think the law should be girl babies FIRST, cuz being a boy mom does NOT prepare you for the adventures you’ll go on with your daughter 💃🏼💃🏼
And seriously, inquiring minds want to know…how on earth can you still look so perfectly lovely whilst crying!?
Sarah thanks for being so real & vulnerable with us. I started crying when you started crying because I’m pregnant too right now & have been honestly feeling miserable on so many levels. I haven’t left the house for weeks at a time either. I have a 2 year old so I get that too. Hate seeing you in pain but it’s refreshing to remember we aren’t alone 🥲
I live in chronic 24/7 pain (not from pregnancy) it’s so hard and along with the physical pain the emotional and mental toll it takes is so heavy. Hang in there Sarah. A good cry is nothing to be ashamed of. At the end of your pain is a beautiful baby girl.
I too live with chronic pain, it’s so hard to find people that can understand the way you feel each and every day. Luckily for her she will hopefully be relieved soon and that is the best part about this ❤because no one should have to live with pain every day.
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Same here, Reece. I have forgotten what life without pain feels like...very weird.
@@maureenobrien9815 I’m sorry yeah it’s crazy how that happens but I do wish I didn’t live with it anymore. I’m always looking for folks to connect with that understand what I’m going through. Let me know if you two want to exchange SM or IM info?
And, me too, makes 4. Its been over 20 years. i get jealous when i see people doing the things i used to love to do, but as bad as it gets sometimes, I remind myself of exactly what Sarah said, some people have it worse. Much worse. That doesn't change the fact that I hurt, am exhausted without even doing anything, 0 energy, doesn't mean my pain isnt real. just that i need to keep pushing thru with the hope that ONE DAY..... Sarah, you are a beautiful, strong & loving person. You're right when you said you were doing what Moms do. We put aside our on discomfort bc our little ones need us, our family needs us. You are amazing. Don't feel bad for a few tears. Thats what pain &fatigue do. It is overwhelming to be in constant pain, so no more apologizing. You do what you need to do to get through. In a few weeks, as that little girl relocates from the inside to the outside, the pain will hopefully be put where it belongs, in the rearview mirror, while you & your hubby look forward at the miracle of your love for one another. Then those tears will be of joy & happiness. Take his advice and gift yourself with some me time. That is a golden idea. It will make you feel better emotionally, mentally & hopefully physically as well. Wishing these next few weeks travel on by. Looking forward to seeing those little pouty lips in living color. Ya'll take care & stay safe.
@@vanessawebster6717 I'm sorry for your pain Vanessa 😢
I just love how real you are Sarah! Your authenticity easily makes this my favourite channel. You got this… but thank you for not being one of those social media representatives that makes us feel like we should be sliding off rainbows every frickin day! Xx
Agree🎉❤
Oh Sarah, I feel your pain. I had really, really hard pregnancies, but oh my it is so, so worth it. And once your kids get older, this will fade from memory, and every minute you have with you kiddos is a gift. You rock!
I had 3 girls and 2 boys. The girls are sooo much harder to carry. My girls were all high and out front. My back hurt, my entire body hurt constantly. I felt like I was carrying a huge bag of weights. My boys were low and more to the back, so my hips took most of the weight of the baby. Hang in there Sara, you're doing amazing! ❤
I had 2 boys and 1 girl. You are spot on! Girls do carry high and more in the front. We all wish you a beautiful birth Sara 💗🙂🤗🎃🧡
That is true… girls are harder- and usually harder to raise too. lol
That's weird my first boy I carried very high very big and gain weight, my girl I carried very low round like a basketball she was sitting on my bladder couldn't move had to pee every minute,, just goes to show you you never know,,
I carried my girl low too but it was the worst of my 3 as far as pain and sickness.. I felt winded after 4 steps up the stairs 😅
I didn’t gain much weight.. probably from the puking and constant nausea.. and I felt like I had the flu the whole time. 😝
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My girl was low on my bladder too!
I carried my son high and he came out with no problem. Oh but not her. I was in labor with her for 18hrs!!!
I'm 32 weeks pregnant, baby measuring at 35 weeks- and I feel this fully Sarah. Even your facial expressions are exactly how I feel. I have always found pregnancy so so hard- even though I love babies and children. Last night getting ready for bed I burst into sobs infront of my husband and he was so confused- but it was genuinely just the thought of having to do this for another 7-8 weeks. Solidarity 👍
Loved the pregnancy, but the early baby bit was SO hard.
Hugs to you dear!!!! You got this ❤
Praying for a swift and easy delivery! You're in the final stretch momma! 💕
@@janmeyer3129 My first was so perfect the first 6wks, then colic showed up, and we tried EVERYTHING. You really have to be completely selfless to be a good mom... So, hats off to you and every mom for sacrificing so we could be here today! It's so worth it when you see that tiny one's first smile, step, soccer game- it makes every showerless, sleepless, bleak night _worth it._ God knows what He's doing when He sends down a little angel! 🙌 💕
The last part of pregnancy is so hard and it drags the worst because it's painful and uncomfortable. I was on bedrest or modified bedrest with all 3 of my kids. It started with 32 weeks with my oldest, 31 weeks with my second and 30 weeks with my youngest. Even if you're ABLE to do things, you may be so uncomfortable and exhausted that even a simple outing takes all your energy so don't be so hard on yourself Sarah. You are growing an entire human being. And you have honestly one of the most amazing, supportive husbands I've ever seen. I am blessed to have one as well and I'm so grateful for him every day. You both are doing a wonderful job with Jack and in just a few weeks your beautiful baby girl will join you.
I'm now 26 and when I was 23 I was pregnant. By the time I was 20 weeks pregnant with my daughter who will be 2 next month, it was the most insane,hard, exhausting, painful experience ever from then on but it's so worth it and you're doing so well ! Everything you're feeling is valid and you'll make it and be the best mama to baby girl that you already are to Jack 💕
One day at a time sweetie.... I felt so guilty for not 'loving' being pregnant. We're here for you. Try to let Derek help as much as possible. Take the breaks he offers. It'll help. ❤️
Acknowledging and accepting your complex emotions is not a meltdown; it is human. Do not feel bad for being human. Tbh you are handling this with a lot of grace. Do not downplay your experience just because “other people have it way worse.” Your feelings, emotions, experience, etc are all valid. 💛🙏🏻
Poor Sarah!! 🥺 I remember those days when it hurt to walk around and being over pregnancy. You're a strong woman Sarah, and not much longer and you'll feel better again and that sweet baby girl will be there to make you smile 😊🥰
Never apologize for honest to goodness emotions Sarah.❤ You and Derik are such brilliant people, so kind, supportive of each other, respectful and so committed to each other and making a beautiful life with Jack. You are rocking marriage, parenthood, and pregnancy. You take awesome care of yourselves and each other. BE GENTLE WITH YOURSELF SARAH. 💕You are carrying life inside you, cradling and safely harboring the newest Beeston to join the party 🎈 Girl, give yourself all the credit ( couldn’t have done it without Derik for sure!) I know your families are so over the moon proud of you both and just look at all your subs…. We just adore you three and a half!abundant blessings 🙏🏽🥰🤗🤗🤗🤗
Sarah you are beautiful tears and all. Just remember you're all most there
Yes, this comment is the best!💜
Hang in there Sarah. It'll be over soon. You're doing a good job & you're a great Mom. It's ok to get a good cry. Sending good vibes & lots of love & support. 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
Jack is so adorable, and he has evolved into a little small Ozzy. It's amazing how much he looks like his cousin! Love y'all 💞
Totally with Sarah on this. I'm now 37 weeks, also expecting a girl (our first), and I've had really bad pelvic pain since I hit the 3rd trimester. I'm awake right now because my hips ache at night, and it HURTS to turn around onto my other side. No one ever tells you how painful pregnancy can be, and I'm so glad that he’s there for you ❤️
Omg I never ever thought that it (pregnancy) would be painful, I always think about the BIRTH.
We have qi gong exercises and acupressure to relieve your pain and prepare you for delivery without affecting your baby. Search on Utube to have an idea but you need to see a real practitioner. A real one can really help you.
I’m 34 weeks right now with my 3rd and I’ve had pelvic pain since 20 weeks. When I was pregnant with my daughter it was the worst I could barely walk.
Oh Sara that is b
Have you explored an SI belt?.🤍🙏
Having little Jack and trying to keep up with the videos and maintaining your sanity in the last few weeks is tough and laughing together is great medicine.
You both are beautiful parents and remember that every pregnancy, in itself, is a blessing and a trial. Your body is literally changing daily to nourish and foster her new life before she is even born. Give yourself moments, hours and even days to reconnect with your own body to understand what is happening and what is making your pain worse or better. Tiger Balm can help if your doc will ok it- it’s natural and topical! Love and all the best to You, Sarah. Honor yourself too! Tears are nothing to be sorry for. Pain is horrible and no l e can tell you otherwise! You are awesome! Thank you for being real, honest and loving. God bless and protect you all
Tiger balm was great when I was lugging around my massive baby boy in the 3rd trimester! That and prayer kept me moving! Great recommendation!🥰
All my best wishes you are awsome
Currently about 33 weeks and it’s been ROUGH and i can’t imagine having a toddler to take care of right now so tons of respect to you! ❤❤
I'm almost 32 weeks and my body is breaking. I literally don't have strength chasing after my 2 other kids 😭 gotta push through. It's worth it but so so hard.
I had three boys under 3 when pregnant with 4th boy! I wonder now how I did it!
I was one of those pregnant moms that had morning sickness, morning ,noon, and most of the night for the first 6-8 weeks. Ugh
But then, I did great! Labor & delivery, less than 3 hours both times. I have a girl & a boy. Both are good responsible people & great parents themselves.❤
It’s not morning sickness. It’s all day sickness!!! 😩😩
“Tears make people real” and we love you guys. Hang in there Sarah, it’s ok to feel all you feel right now. Carrying a child is not an easy thing. You’re beautiful and brave.
Oh Sarah, your feelings are VALID! Honey, do not ever apologize for expressing how difficult being a pregnant mommy can be. Kudos to daddy for his understanding and doing his part. Your children will thrive off of the loving vibes you share. Jack is already a beautiful example of that!! ❤
Never be sorry for tears. If you feel bad, you feel bad, and that's ok. Hang in there! You are loved and supported, and that's great. Best wishes to you and your family!
Saraahhhh don’t apologize for your tears! Just because other people may be going through worse doesn’t mean you should minimize what your dealing with. Your feelings and your struggles are valid. You don’t have to cry on camera if you don’t want to but still let yourself cry. Thank you for staying so strong for your baby girl the world is going to be better with her in it❤️
I was so glad to hear someone else doesn’t exactly like being pregnant! I’m now 73 years old and you are the only woman I’ve heard admitting being pregnant wasn’t your favorite way to be! Be brave, little Sara! The best is yet to come! God Bless the miracle you are carrying!🌹❤️🌹
Wasn't my favorite either pregnancy sucks
I hated being pregnant.
I only loved baby kicks
Everything else about pregnancy sucks
Beautiful video as per usual! ♥ I love the authenticity of *real life* you guys always present. And the relationship skills you guys often reveal is always refreshing and idk comforting. ~ Honestly, the people you are to each other, has even been a topic of conversation in our home! With 4 dear girls of my own who are 11 and up.. we have little take note pauses: there are always perfect moments watching your videos: "See that? Did you hear how he speaks of her?" or, See how important it is to only consider a spouse who tenders you, and is compassionate & understanding? Imagine if she was going through all of this and her husband was self-centered or unkind?
so just wanted to tell you guys We all love alllll the Beestons! It is however hard not to covet @ times ( lol ) you're allll ridiculously pretty ( yup-boys too ) and the lifestyle you all embrace, is just..so cool. Children deserve parents who are steady & sound; and, I love that by nurturing your own unique interests and passions, your kids will benefit and also emulate that. Our world NEEDS more healthy, well rounded, enthusiastic & positive parents such as yourselves♥
So, pleeease -- make time to have down time and self-care, Sarah! You can't pour from an empty pitcher!!!
Love to you guys - You are doing a BANG UP job, Hang in there, this trial shall pass, sweet girl. ♥ Hugs and bestest wishes from Ohio... kelley
Sarah, you are doing GREAT! You are being compassionate toward other mothers even though you feel horrible. You are giving Jack PLENTY of attention, so don’t feel bad about how exhausted you are. Wish you could REST at least a couple hours a day. Derek, you are an incredibly supportive hubby and daddy! Keep up the good work. You are BOTH amazing parents, spouses, and PEOPLE! Love you all!
I’m right there with ya girl. I’m at the sameish stage. It’s constant pain and frustration, but I’m so grateful at the same time and can’t really complain. You made me tear up when you talked about it. You so got this 🙌🏼✨You’re both amazing and I wish your family all the good vibes and beautiful days ✨
You guys are amazing! You both support each other through everything, you really work together to help each other. You love your kids so much and each other. Derek is so understanding of Sarah and helps so much and is so understanding. He's like 1 in a million and Sarah really appreciates him, leans on him and stays strong because of him. She's a great mom and wife. I hope the delivery is quick so you can get back to fun! I wish the world had more people like you! And those kids are gonna be great people too. They are growing up surrounded by so much love!
Sarah you are such a trooper! Pregnancy not only involves physical exhaustion but also emotional. Your hormones are going all over the place and it is ok. Walking on the beach could be a great treat for you all. You are an amazing mamma, and know all will fall into place. 🌷💖
I have never before seen jack so lively. So much moving around in the house, playing and even talking a lot.
I've watched you two since Jack was born. I love how you support each other and are such wonderful parents to Jack. Sara, I know how you feel as I also know it will be over before you know it, and your baby girl will be chasing after her brother before your ready. Don't hide the tears. They help.
It's so cute watching him get excited with the baby bottles..
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Sarah is absolutely stunning! She has such a gorgeous smile and always has such a glow all around her even when not pregnant! Thank you for sharing your amazing family and letting everyone enjoy your love for each other and those incredible babies! Jack is so sweet we all know he will be so protective over his princess!
You two are such a light to everyone that sees y'all. Don't ever apologize for tears. You let your emotions come. Your sincerity, and love are amazing. Xo
What a wonderful family.
Derek is such a supportive and amazing dad.
Sarah is like supermom! You are doing an incredible job.
And Jack....well everyone knows he is the cutest little guy ever😍
Sending Sarah a "high five" with a huge dose of encouragement and love. Sweet girl, you're a "Warrior Mama" and the whole "troop" is rooting for you! Just focus on the beautiful little girl who will soon join your lovely family! ❤️💕❤️ from 🇨🇦
Pregnancy is hard, you're growing a whole,entire, other person. Treat yourself the way you would treat your sister or your bestie if they were having a difficult pregnancy. Big hugs! Hope you can get some relief from the pain soon.
I have never been pregnant but having bad period excludes you from life sometimes. Full respect for you growing the new baby girl. Keep strong 💪
That was me with my 3rd. I was READY. It's okay to feel the way you feel because it is hard. You are growing an entire human. I had a few different cries and meltdowns during my 3rd pregnancy. You got this girl!
Let the tears roll! It’s such a great release! You’re almost at the finish line!❤️you’re the sweetest couple ever❤️😘
I think this is my favourite of all your videos so far. ❤️ It's honest and unfiltered. Sarah, you're doing great! I know it can be so so tough sometimes, but you're doing it already. There's no 'I can't do this' - you *are* doing it. Prayers to you for some respite from the pain. Either way, there are only a few weeks left until baby girl is in the world and you can start being pain free again. Proud of you and your beauty and your strength, you goddess! Xxx
My heart goes out to you Sarah. I feel you. My second pregnancy was really rough and I was in a lot of pain throughout most of my pregnancy to the point that I could barely walk and throughout my whole pregnancy I couldn’t keep anything down and I had heartburn 24/7 and I couldn’t sleep amongst a million other things. Sending you love, hugs, healing and good vibes. You got this! You’re doing a great job.
I’m really glad you were able to be vulnerable and share your true feelings about your pregnancy. Mom guilt is a real thing and it starts early. It’s nice to hear I’m not the only one who has a hard time during pregnancy. My daughter is just a bit younger than Jack and we are pregnant with the second one and this pregnancy is just as tough as the first one so far and I can’t stop feeling guilty for not LOVING being pregnant and finding it hard when so many people seem to have the easiest pregnancy. It also helps to understand how different every pregnancy is and to not judge/compare.
I told everyone my daughter would be born at 38 weeks and she was born at 38 weeks exactly. I’m sure it’s not how labour works whatsoever but it doesn’t cost anything to try… haha!
You can do it Sarah. Almost there :)
You're not alone! Praying for your delivery too! You're body was designed for this! You're on the right track by showing yourself grace and mercy in all this change. One step at a time. You got this momma! 🥰
So sorry this pregnancy has been so tough, Sarah. Proud of you both for sharing your reality- you don’t have to apologize or hold back when you’re feeling bad- we know you’re grateful and awesome parents.
Never apologize for the tears. Pregnancy is HAAAAARRRRRDDDDD! 🤗 Sending love from Kansas 💖 YOU GOT THIS SARAH!
To be fair, literally everything about being a female is hard. NoFair!
Such a loving and supportive couple. Sara is beautiful even with the tears. I hope you feel better soon.
U are so amazing Sara! Don’t be sorry! Ur killing it! 6 weeks and will be sending u early labor vibes!!!! Thanks to Derrick for being such a support! Can’t wait for her to get here! Hang in there Sara! ❤❤❤
OMG I HAVE NEVER SEEN AN ULTRASOUND OF A BABY SO CLEAR. CONGRATULATIONS TO ALL ESPECIALLY JACK'S ❤️❤️❤️
Get out there on the beach!! Don't apologize for tears. We love you guys. You guys are great parents and Derek is such a wonderful support. Great family. Almost there Sarah. Hang in there.
It’s a wonderful thing you’re so supportive Derek. She is an awesome woman. Wife. Mother. Congrats you two
Thoughts and prayers for Sarah! You are a trooper, girl! It’s almost over, you can do it! ♥️
Sending you so much love, Sarah!!! I felt just like this my whole pregnancy. It was SO hard. You are amazing, strong and beautiful!!! Hang in there Mama!!💖💖💖
THANK YOU FOR SHARING YOUR LITTLE GIRL WITH US ALL❤
Sara you got this! Your glowing and that baby girl is so beautiful already, she just has to bake a lil bit longer. Your doing an amazing job with Jack too!!♥️♥️♥️♥️
You are such an amazing Momma Sara , baby girl will show you how grateful she is once shes here💗
I suffered with bad pain in my pregnancy 2nd time round. My husband had to give up work to look after me as I ended up on crutches at 3 months and wheelchair at 6 months when out if the house. I got ill after having him and have been in chronic pain since 2018 so I feel for you so much Sarah. Just remember there is only a few weeks to go and once you hold your daughter in your arms it will all be worth it. Derek you are an amazing dad and husband, looking after Sarah, Jack and the house is just as tiring. You are a beautiful family. Sending love and prayers to you all 🥰❤
Momma never compare your pain/pregnancy to anyone else's. You are allowed to experience this and understand how rough it is. Just because someone else has it worse does not mean that what you are going through is any less.
You got this.
We are here for all four of you! Just remember what you said, Sarah...you are only pregnant for a very short part of your life. Once baby girl gets here, you'll take one look at her and know it was all worth it ❤️. Tears are perfectly OK. You're human carrying another human. I think you're entitled to tears. We love you guys! Now go to the beach! ⛱️
I loved how your home felt lived in,everyone on UA-cam have these spotless houses that don't look warm and inviting but your home made me want to come hold the baby and hang out and talk❤
Showers of blessing to your growing family. Thumbs up. 👍
Sara you are so lucky to have such an involved husband and father. I just gave birth to a baby girl 7 weeks ago and I literally do everything for her care on my own. I even did the birth on my own and I live with her father. You are blessed. I hope to one day be able to have the family you both have!!! #relationshipgoals
I second this ☝️It is so nice to see how much he loves his wife and children! My son is 18 months old and has never met his father. He ghosted me 4 months into my pregnancy and I haven't heard from him since. I pray one day I will be blessed with a family like this 🙏🏻 You got this Sara!! You are a strong and wonderful woman 🤗
Why do you live with the father why are you still with the father if he's not involved in the pregnancy he's not going to be involved with the child either and I know this from experience. Figure out a way to take that beautiful baby and go find love for just you and that baby you don't need a man
We’re only seeing what they want us to see… while he might be the best and most amazing, present father and husband, we really don’t know anything about that. I think many women can feel alone during pregnancy. Don’t judge the book by its cover and don’t compare your life with influencers ❤️❤️
Thank you so much for your vulnerability in this video. I'm pregnant with my 1st and your honesty makes me feel less alone. I'm so so grateful to be having our baby boy, but I'm also really struggling with how hard it is physically which impacts me mentally. It can be hard having such strong but opposite emotions at the same time.
Totally feel you, Sarah! I've had 3 girls and my last pregnancy was pretty difficult towards the end. She was also a pretty heavy baby, born weighing 9lbs 4oz (delivered her naturally in our home too after 2.5hrs of active labor)
You've got this!! I went to the chiropractor weekly which was AMAZING, I felt really good afterwards but the time in between was rough. I felt so much weight in my hips and lower back. I'm sorry you've been struggling with pain as well, it will be over soon and then you'll have your sweet girl in your arms!
That little girl will be here so soon and you will be able to put this part behind you once she gets in your arms ❤
What a great Dad cleaning up the house!
God comfort mommy. And lift up daddy. You're at the breakthrough stay strong guys. Hugs!
You are amazing Sarah, unless you have ever experienced this, no one can imagine what it is like, So a big 👍👍👍👍 Blessings to you all 💖
Sarah, you are not alone in feeling this way. I remember crying at the same point in my first pregnancy for the same reasons. I just wanted my body back all to myself. I felt angry at my child all the time because he would push his feet against me and it would hurt so bad. Don’t feel guilty, it’s ok to not like being pregnant because it’s not always easy. I became an OB nurse and then got to see how miserable some pregnancies can be. I later became a pediatric nurse and…..about the “bah”………If you want to get rid of the pacifier forever, a very quick and easy way to do that is to literally cut off the top of the rubber nipple and show him that it’s “broken” and tell him that he needs to throw it away. He’ll still put it in his mouth, but he won’t like it and believe it or not, he’ll be happy to throw it away. Worked like a charm for my daughter and I got the idea from others who did the same thing. He’ll find others later where he’s stashing them and you just say, “Let me see it.” And then you get a pair of scissors and cut it off again and he’ll throw that one away too. At night, if he’s looking for it, you remind him that it broke and he had to throw it away and he’ll be just fine. It sounds crazy, but it works! Good luck!
I have to say how amazing this man is with his family it's so cute to see how excited he is for his little girl
I'd be sitting on a bag of ice or in a cool tub for some relief. I had to sleep with a pillow between my legs with my third pregnancy. Sending you healing energy! You all are amazing!
Chiropractic care (weekly) and pelvic floor therapy were a MUST in all 3 of my pregnancies!!! Made a world of difference.
Hunny...I was pregnant full-term 3 times & each pregnancy was different from the other. I also was in major pain my whole entire last pregnancy! I could barely keep my eyes open for the entire pregnancy cause the pain was so draining...it was awful! But once that beautiful child is born it makes all that suffering worth it. Just promise to take care of yourself once she is born. I focused on my children to the point of losing myself a bit & I ended up having a much longer recovery because of it. So because u have such a helpful husband please don't forget about urself. If u need to soak in a bath or eat something healthy please hand that baby over to him & do it when ur body tells u too. Hope this helps! Good luck...we know u guys got this!
Awe .. sorry about the pain 😢. Pregnancy .. woman are amazing.
So happy for you two and Jack with building your new home in Utah !!
It’ll now be close to grandma’s and grandpa’s. ♥️ They’ll love it …
Thankfully you two have been able to take a few quick trips with friends and back to Utah to help the time go by a little quicker. Thank you for sharing the ultra sound with us.
She looks absolutely beautiful … 💕
I'm currently 27 weeks pregnant on my first baby girl and I have to lay down almost all day because of a complication we found out at 21 weeks. What I've learned so far is that every woman and every pregnancy is different, so don't feel bad about your mental state, it is absolutely normal given the circumstances. I hope the best for your beautiful family!
I'm so sorry ❤️ I get your frustration... I have hyperemesis and I'm 20 weeks, that's totally different than being in pain 24/7, but the same type of struggle of being constantly sick or uncomfortable all day everyday, it really weighs on your mind. Hang in there, you are such a pleasure to watch! Thank you for sharing!
You both are a team and that’s so important and to give each other support. Sara bc you’re the one carrying your baby and Derick bc you’re the man and you’re expected to be strong. Praying for comfort. We all love you out here ❤️
Thank you Sara for being the best mom 💕
I had hyperemosis and I can tell you pregnancy is amazing and beautiful for so many mothers, but others (like me) had so much trouble that I had to talk myself into living every day because of how sick and not me I was. I will pray for you and any other women going through this. I advocate so much for women going through a hard time when most seen so happy and how we all truly hope and want to feel like! The struggle is something you will overcome the day you hold that baby girl and fall in love. I thought my life was going to be that way forever in the moment. I was so scared that maybe it was me and not just the pregnancy- like I was sick somehow and what if it didn’t get better after having her. All those scary thoughts that something is much more wrong than hyperemisis. There is a stigma with any woman who doesn’t feel ok during the pregnancy not being ok in society’s eyes, but they just don’t understand until they’ve lived that. I’m so glad you’re baby is healthy and u have an amazing and supportive family during this difficult time. Keep your head up. 6 weeks is so short of a time in the grand scheme of life. Hell, 40 is, too! Stay strong. Sleep as much as you can to pass time and pray without ceasing for strength. 💚💚💚
You are both very loving and supportive of each other. Praying the rest of the pregnancy and birth and recovery go well with no complications.
Poor Sarah, I puked my entire pregnancy but never had any pain. Bless your heart darlin. I'm praying for you and your pregnancy as well as your family. Rest well
That would suck to not be able to keep anything down.. was you able to still gain the weight needed and ECT.
You're allowed to feel your feelings. It's hard not to compare to others who are worse off but you def deserve your own feelings. You're amazing Sarah 😍
I relate to Sarah so much on this! Please don’t feel bad for the tears. I’m 33 weeks pregnant (also with a girl and due in December) and I have super painful pelvic floor issues that I have to see a physical therapist for. I cry sometimes too because it can all just get really overwhelming! Pregnancy can be soooo tough physically and mentally, so feel all the feels girl! You got this
Awe Sara you don't have to apologize for the tears I'm sorry you're in pain 😔 love you guys ❤️
One thing I’ve learned having chronic health issues & pain is to NOT compare yourself to other’s similar situations and to NEVER mentally down play what you’re going through to yourself. 🫶 I get very sad & in a rut because I can no longer live the life I envisioned. Which then causes me to get down on myself & think “There are people going through much worse than what I am. I shouldn’t be upset or sad.” and then I get upset at myself for that. 😭 This is your life story 🫶 not Bob’s or Sally’s or whoever’s. 🥰 I’m prob gonna say this wrong but my husband once told me that “you can’t put your house fire out when you’re watching everybody else’s house burn”. And I absolutely L❤VE that cause it’s so true. Hugs, love & good vibes to you all from Arizona. ❤