If Your Life is Falling Apart Do These 15 Things (Powerful)

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  • @alux
    @alux  9 місяців тому +25

    Hello Aluxers, some of you are going through a shift, and we're here to help!
    Forget about everyone else and invest in yourself now: www.alux.com/app
    Depending on what you're dealing with, we built a framework to get you going: www.alux.org

  • @hip5748
    @hip5748 9 місяців тому +42

    Alux I’ve lost almost everything, my businesses, I had 2 businesses that I’ve lost, I lost my cars a sprinter & my bmw where I always listened to you in my bmx I miss my car 😔 I got my license suspended, I lost my mother the list goes on but some how I’m still excited about trying again on which I’m extremely grateful to God for bcuz it’s a huge blessing, might not b wat I was thinking but it can get me to where I wanna go, I can’t give up I have 2 daughters depending on me & have been having a hard time giving them wat they need, and that is eating alive, I beg that this is wat gets me to where I need to be, I am fearless I will give this my all so help me God 🙏🏽 I needed to get this off my chest, thank you Alux

    • @alux
      @alux  9 місяців тому +17

      We’re glad this got to you! Now turn your life around. We believe in you!

    • @CedricSmith-un6vm
      @CedricSmith-un6vm 8 місяців тому +3

      How did you lose everything?

    • @therealrodney8561
      @therealrodney8561 7 місяців тому +8

      So now you know that losing The closest things to you will not destroy you that is something most will never know in a lifetime because they are afraid to let go and find out. You did not have a choice, now do not hesitate to learn from your business failures and live the life you want truly. Something tells me your bliss is where your fortune is and is what your beautiful mother truly wanted for you. Her precious love is with you every minute of everyday uninhibited by time distance and space. Now go to your destiny Young Jedi. I believe in you!❤

    • @S0a0m0i0r
      @S0a0m0i0r 7 місяців тому +3

      Nice concept of channel that what we needed those days a little of feath from feary life 👍👍👍☺️☺️☺️

    • @dagimadamu2520
      @dagimadamu2520 7 місяців тому +6

      😢 you got this my man just keep trying

  • @Chaos1612mr
    @Chaos1612mr 9 місяців тому +108

    In 2022 I had lost my job, one month after, my girlfriend at the time gave me the "Im not happy" speech. Broke up with me and left.
    No job
    No girlfriend
    Left with an apartment with me now paying all the bills.
    It was tough but I got through this by going to the gym. I always had an gym membership which I renewal yearly. At the gym everyday helped my mind greatly.
    Loosing my job and my ex leaving me happened over 2 months. After those 2 months, I landed myself an new job earning 10K a year more than the job I was fired from :)
    It all turned out well in the end and still kept my health and fitness in check
    VICTORY!

    • @a1jones
      @a1jones 9 місяців тому +6

      Congrats ! 👏 you only going up from there

    • @ducarmelmoise1194
      @ducarmelmoise1194 9 місяців тому +9

      Interesting story
      Those are examples of the powerfulness of Alux
      Victory!

    • @steniorodrigo5590
      @steniorodrigo5590 9 місяців тому +7

      It is very common for woman to break up when the man has no job or money.
      I'm happy that you have turned things around.

    • @Chaos1612mr
      @Chaos1612mr 9 місяців тому

      @@steniorodrigo5590 Thanks, yeah that's true. That's why I found myself a new job within 6 weeks as I knew the clock was ticking but she never bothered to stay around to see me get back on my feet during the relationship.

    • @garylperkinsiii5140
      @garylperkinsiii5140 9 місяців тому +11

      I'm in a similar situation now. Thank you for sharing your story. It only motivates me to keep grinding, knowing it will all work out.

  • @juliek.2400
    @juliek.2400 9 місяців тому +16

    The voice in my head has been the “keep on going” voice 😊 I’ve had a few failures and one of them took 5 years of my life. I was upset but not unhappy. The thing is: I’ve learned to block all external factors/influence from affecting my happiness level.

  • @silkcherry1413
    @silkcherry1413 9 місяців тому +46

    Victory is the point where defeat is overcomed with consistency, acceptance, and rebirth of self.

  • @CloneTechDrones-619
    @CloneTechDrones-619 9 місяців тому +18

    So true about #13, alcohol does put the mind in peace, but when you overindulge, you end up wasting an entire day recovering from a hangover.

    • @SneakerBiscut
      @SneakerBiscut 9 місяців тому +2

      Alcohol prevents you from getting a decent nights sleep

  • @seethakowsalya8144
    @seethakowsalya8144 Місяць тому +1

    15 Things recommended here
    1) Health, fitness, rest - reset
    2) Get out of the house , sun on your face and put yourself in nature
    3) Stop digging
    4) Don't start anything new - focus on the essentials for the time being
    5) Start a daily routine that jogs your mind and keeps your life predictable
    6) Reach pot to your friends
    7) Have an honest conversation with yourself about what got you here
    8) Let go of the dead weight
    9) Revisit an old source of creative happiness
    10) Get Professional help
    11) Change the difficulty settings on your life
    12) Grieve, feel your feelings, allow them to exit the body (time doesn't heal anything, if you don't use time to work through it )
    13) Don't drown your sorrows into anything that would make it worse
    14) Zoom out (When stress or anxiety overwhelms someone, "zooming out" can help dislodge their mind from a cycle of catastrophizing )
    15) Use your setback as the Origin of story for who you are becoming

  • @skdarling_
    @skdarling_ 9 місяців тому +8

    Alux, I've subscribed to your channel for close to 4years and i must say, this video is for me. Not long ago, i felt like i need to start all over again after difficulty in business. This video is just right on time. Thank you!

    • @alux
      @alux  9 місяців тому +3

      You're not alone! We got you!

  • @r.alarcon784
    @r.alarcon784 9 місяців тому +8

    I'm here for the cussing. Why? I haven't heard it on this platform before and it's refreshing.

    • @alux
      @alux  9 місяців тому +6

      It’s real

  • @leadgenjay
    @leadgenjay 9 місяців тому +6

    Solid advice on not starting anything new and focusing on essentials. In times of stress, it's crucial to analyze your existing commitments and cut back on non-essential tasks that don't contribute to your immediate well-being or financial stability. This helps to clear mental clutter and prioritize actions that stabilize your situation.

  • @nicolasdelaet7881
    @nicolasdelaet7881 6 місяців тому +1

    I'm completely lost. I'm 38. No job. Feel like I failed everything I tried. Almost no social life. Only 2 or 3 friends and even with them I feel alone. Single. No children. Got my license suspended. I've been to several psychiatric hospitals which didn't really help. I live in a empty apartment in a city that I hate in a country that I hate. All I'm doing is taking medications and stay in bed all day. Lost interest in almost everything. Want to sleep all the time.
    I read a little bit to try to help finding a solution of what to do with my life. Feeling like it's too late.
    I know I need to make a massive change but I don't where to start. Any advices?

  • @menumlor9432
    @menumlor9432 9 місяців тому +24

    Unfortunately, this video came 1 week to late for my friend who committed suicide. In the last 3 years, his life was just falling apart. Lost his girlfriend, job, dui, family issue, financial issue, depression and etc.

    • @Mo.cherie
      @Mo.cherie 9 місяців тому +7

      I’m sorry.

    • @menumlor9432
      @menumlor9432 9 місяців тому +3

      @@Mo.cherie thank you. ❤️ 😍 💖

    • @alux
      @alux  9 місяців тому +9

      We're sorry for your loss and that it took us this long to make it.

    • @menumlor9432
      @menumlor9432 9 місяців тому +7

      @@alux thank you. And life happens. I just hope anybody that is currently going through what my friend went through see this video and fight their inner demons and win.

    • @CS-fz2iw
      @CS-fz2iw 9 місяців тому +3

      So sorry for your loss.

  • @TarotwithPeachez
    @TarotwithPeachez 9 місяців тому +1

    I have always struggled with eating healthy, primarily because of budget and also habbits taught when I was younger. So now I am at the brink of homelessness after getting scammed at a rent house. We have poor credit but there just so happens to be a gym on the same floor our room is on...I am going to start going at least 15 min a day

  • @Jubee12
    @Jubee12 9 місяців тому +3

    VICTORY! Thank you Alux for what you do

  • @crisgalang3852
    @crisgalang3852 7 місяців тому

    VICTORY! I'm currently going through many challenges in life then I saw this video. Thanks for this!

  • @belindaealy9141
    @belindaealy9141 9 місяців тому +9

    Best advice I’ve had this year, thanks Alux

  • @CrazyMagnificent
    @CrazyMagnificent 9 місяців тому +1

    VICTORY. Thank you so much. I needed this ❤.

  • @leadership4america
    @leadership4america 8 місяців тому +1

    Alux, your intent is to lift people up, not tear them down, and you're doing a very good job. However, today’s trend of casual foul language sabotages any positive atmosphere that may be present, and I hear you drop these words here and there. I ask that you please reconsider the words you use to not weaken your positive that we grow from.

  • @espanner97
    @espanner97 9 місяців тому +1

    The last one ia very accurate. I have been redundant for four months and I am taking the right actions. I just need to wait.

    • @barney9008
      @barney9008 8 місяців тому

      Being out of work suuuuuucks, but remember there are other things to better yourself and even help financially. E.g. learn to cook, you cant afford KFC anymore and pot noodles taste like shit. Learn to make some lasagne and eat it over 2 days, now your upskilling and saving money❤

    • @espanner97
      @espanner97 8 місяців тому

      @@barney9008 I have been cooking since I was eight

  • @whoopswhatever
    @whoopswhatever 9 місяців тому +1

    Great advice… 1/3: I would not hesitate to take good counsel from either a (qualified) priest or Rabbi as well as other therapists. 2/3: I have my own personal collection of over 184 axioms and words of wisdom that I rely on to keep winning and when I neglect or forget to follow them I get off track. 3/3: Don’t knock “butter” it makes almost everything better! Cheers! 😊
    Oh yeah… VICTORY !

  • @Chris-pt1bl
    @Chris-pt1bl 9 місяців тому +3

    Alux somehow tells you like it is but also gives so much encouragement and uplifting motivation 😊 basically stop procrastinating and get to it 😅

  • @masteryoflife3731
    @masteryoflife3731 9 місяців тому +8

    This was right on time! Thanks Alux
    VICTORY

    • @alux
      @alux  9 місяців тому

      We knew it would come in handy

  • @alemayehudestaye9806
    @alemayehudestaye9806 7 місяців тому

    Victory, I am currently passing in this way dear. sure I will overcome the challenge soon.

  • @mannmieetsingh8939
    @mannmieetsingh8939 9 місяців тому +2

    Victory only belongs to you, if take action and never give up

  • @mathogre
    @mathogre 9 місяців тому +1

    I'm starting a new life chapter, and this one involves exercise and weight loss. Rather than figuring I'll somehow find time for it, I just ripped apart my daily time budget to schedule the meditation and gym time. It's a great chance at securing VICTORY!

  • @imlv2614
    @imlv2614 9 місяців тому +3

    Alux, you are a lifesaver❤❤❤❤Truly, beyond grateful❤

  • @therealrodney8561
    @therealrodney8561 7 місяців тому

    VICTORY: I have to find a beautiful home for myself and my husband. One where we can be celebrated not just tolerated. I know that is what my higher power and inner being can commune with. I will return to Alux victorious and illuminate a path to home and communion for my fellow man!❤

  • @shirleyliggett776
    @shirleyliggett776 9 місяців тому +2

    This is such a great confirmation, I really needed to hear this. Thanks ❤❤❤

    • @alux
      @alux  9 місяців тому +1

      We're happy to be of service

  • @merch123456
    @merch123456 9 місяців тому +5

    Another thing- in Oct/Nov 2020 you removed your video on the US Election because you said it was a little biased towards one of the candidates. Is that video still available somewhere? Your true ALUX fans should be able to see it.

  • @lungelokhumalo1463
    @lungelokhumalo1463 9 місяців тому +5

    This is IT! THIS IS THAT ALUX MAGIC I WAS TALKING ABOUT! Bang on!!

    • @alux
      @alux  9 місяців тому +1

      The fact that you doubted us on the lowering status video...

    • @lungelokhumalo1463
      @lungelokhumalo1463 9 місяців тому

      Your'll cooked!

    • @lungelokhumalo1463
      @lungelokhumalo1463 9 місяців тому

      Please give us an Alux take on Monk Mode.

  • @camile358
    @camile358 9 місяців тому +2

    Victory ❤ thanks for wonderful video

  • @princenwaokike4687
    @princenwaokike4687 9 місяців тому +4

    Alux,this is the exact time I needed this help,am stucked and confused...
    Will use this as a guide

  • @Chandank007
    @Chandank007 9 місяців тому +2

    I usually watch alux and it does make sense. When I watch these videos when I'm really down, it hits differently.
    I am grateful to you alux❤

  • @gabrielsoto2245
    @gabrielsoto2245 9 місяців тому +3

    As always until the very end: VICTORY!

  • @AnnaEriksson-o2o
    @AnnaEriksson-o2o 9 місяців тому

    A really great video with excellent advice Alux.... I graduated last June and I´m still unemployed and struggling financially- but I will get through this!!!!!

  • @adayinthelife39
    @adayinthelife39 9 місяців тому

    Thank you, Alux! ❤️ VICTORY

  • @republiccan7138
    @republiccan7138 9 місяців тому

    Victory Thank You for modeling the best ideas 💡

  • @auro1986
    @auro1986 9 місяців тому +4

    narrator says do watch all 15 videos of alux channel daily before your life falls apart

  • @ErrorOptik
    @ErrorOptik Місяць тому

    Me: a guy who works outside, sunburned to the max with mosquito bites everywhere…”I can’t be outside anymore then I already am!”

  • @darrellmoncrief3681
    @darrellmoncrief3681 3 дні тому

    thanks Alux. Have a great day!!

  • @YanniBarnes
    @YanniBarnes 9 місяців тому +1

    Alux has helped me in my journey through adulthood more than my parents. Endless thank you's to this invaluable channel🤞🏾❤️

  • @somerandomfella
    @somerandomfella 9 місяців тому +3

    I might try using the Alux lady as the voice in my head when I think about doughnut or pizza 🍩🍕🤤

  • @primothegreat9022
    @primothegreat9022 9 місяців тому

    Thank you Alux for this golden advice

  • @denisemcdougal6445
    @denisemcdougal6445 2 місяці тому

    Amen !!!!! Thank you. When I finally understood my situation, I took action and accountability. I planned my work and worked my plan. Time and dedication, now I’m in a better position.

  • @Z3ro42
    @Z3ro42 9 місяців тому +2

    I thank you for this video

    • @alux
      @alux  9 місяців тому

      We thank you for watching it.

  • @Rodelaporte
    @Rodelaporte 9 місяців тому

    I liked the first half advices, the rest it felt just like to be happy with being poor and becoming a people pleaser

  • @amazingworld9574
    @amazingworld9574 9 місяців тому +4

    Alux you are not only creating future millionaires you are saving lifes.

  • @Mscocoapuffz
    @Mscocoapuffz 9 місяців тому +3

    Victory! I hope one day I can update this comment with how these videos changed my life❤

  • @waelfaraj6705
    @waelfaraj6705 9 місяців тому +3

    When the night gets dark ,
    And the sky offers a lightening spark ,
    It would nourish us with rain,
    To wash our face and transcend the pain...
    Love and peace we see again ...

  • @clementifangblog8583
    @clementifangblog8583 9 місяців тому

    ❤❤❤❤❤ thanks so much for always enlighten us in life.
    Victory.
    I missed you guys for a pass few days my best Class.

  • @sandrarekker585
    @sandrarekker585 9 місяців тому +2

    Alux, how did you become so wise!! Thanks for the proverbial reminders!

    • @alux
      @alux  9 місяців тому

      Through trial and error. We learned the hard way.

  • @charleswillis5680
    @charleswillis5680 9 місяців тому +1

    Victory. Thank you Alux, this is exactly what I needed today!!!!!!

  • @Laasyaslays
    @Laasyaslays 9 місяців тому +1

    Thanks so much for advice!
    VICTORY!!! 😊🎉

  • @charlieprothq9430
    @charlieprothq9430 Місяць тому

    I really resonate with all the ideas and perceptions that you guys have on life here. And how to handle these challenges in life. You know what I do find for myself is that managing my time or getting focused and pursuing that goal at the immediate moment that I need to I always doubt myself that it is not the right time and then when I do that I end up exceeding or not meeting deadlines if that makes any sense. I'm very good at starting things and then seeing them through in a timely fashion is what I struggle with. Being afraid or lacking motivation to follow through on the ideas that I know work.

  • @Thecoloringhermit
    @Thecoloringhermit 9 місяців тому +2

    VICTORY IS MINE!!!! Thank you Alux!

  • @Lore-Lore1
    @Lore-Lore1 9 місяців тому

    This is such a powerful video, thank you

  • @ecstaticabhi
    @ecstaticabhi 9 місяців тому

    Thanks you very much Alux team, this video is life saving for me❤

  • @juanital.5593
    @juanital.5593 9 місяців тому

    Victory! Thanks Alux for another great video. Have a nice Sunday everyone.

  • @k1652n
    @k1652n 8 місяців тому

    Thank you!

  • @jocelyneramos1584
    @jocelyneramos1584 9 місяців тому +2

    VICTORY. This video came just in time for Sure was God sent! God bless you 🙏 ❤️ 🙌 you are light into the darkness.

  • @Alex.R.O.P
    @Alex.R.O.P 9 місяців тому +3

    Thank you

  • @AfroSenpai
    @AfroSenpai 9 місяців тому

    Powerful indeed, When you're at the bottom it's the best time to rise

  • @bvmsr11
    @bvmsr11 9 місяців тому

    I’m watching this in a point where I really need it. To everyone out there in the same situation, we’ve got this. 💪🏻
    VICTORY

    • @alux
      @alux  9 місяців тому +1

      Go make it work

  • @user-sr4pp1gk1m
    @user-sr4pp1gk1m 9 місяців тому

    Amazing video ! Thank you 🎉

  • @Guilherme.Soares.96
    @Guilherme.Soares.96 9 місяців тому

    ALL FACTS But 16:23-16:32 ABSOLUTELY !

  • @leebishop7591
    @leebishop7591 9 місяців тому +4

    Every win comes with losses. Just bc u made "it" doesn't mean you'll avoid troubles. Just live the best as u can with respect and dignity.

  • @amberlee6239
    @amberlee6239 6 місяців тому

    Thank you 🙂

  • @Tha-Fyrefly.
    @Tha-Fyrefly. 9 місяців тому +1

    ✨ VICTORY! ✨🕊️

  • @samueldrake0123
    @samueldrake0123 9 місяців тому

    Amazing video actually... Nothing like the usual stuff which illiterates like me can't begin to comprehend..
    These are simple to complex steps to take to witness a change...
    Funny to understand I don't even do the first point in the list and wait for life to be kind to me.....Gotta Get out there to Get some...

  • @antwanthorogood4921
    @antwanthorogood4921 9 місяців тому

    This was a classic! Well done Alux

    • @alux
      @alux  9 місяців тому

      Thanks for showing up

  • @andersonstepper
    @andersonstepper 9 місяців тому +1

    A SUCCESS STORY.
    VICTORY

  • @sadiasultana8714
    @sadiasultana8714 9 місяців тому +2

    powerful sppeech

    • @alux
      @alux  9 місяців тому +1

      Powerful indeed!

  • @botortamas
    @botortamas 9 місяців тому

    Best video of the year so far 👍

    • @alux
      @alux  9 місяців тому

      Really glad you think so

  • @lonisamari
    @lonisamari 7 місяців тому

    Victory! I'll be back in 6 months!

  • @hotchpotchstudy6348
    @hotchpotchstudy6348 9 місяців тому

    Victory ,🎉 whatever the past was now present gonna be far more better than previous ..

  • @justinwilcox8357
    @justinwilcox8357 9 місяців тому +4

    Victory!!! I’ll be saving this video in my playlist.

  • @skdarling_
    @skdarling_ 9 місяців тому

    Zoom out! That's a point Alux!

  • @grahamwithinshaw5575
    @grahamwithinshaw5575 9 місяців тому

    Thank you my friend

  • @andrewoshobu4455
    @andrewoshobu4455 9 місяців тому +4

    VICTORY ✌️ 🎉

  • @kennycherry7684
    @kennycherry7684 9 місяців тому +1

    I will get to the finish line and claim victory i am willing to do the work take the losses and earn it

  • @k.6160
    @k.6160 8 місяців тому +1

    Victory!!!!🏆

  • @aayafina6007
    @aayafina6007 Місяць тому

    📌
    9:00

  • @ERealxlENT
    @ERealxlENT 7 місяців тому

    What advice for someone with a felony tho

  • @grahamwithinshaw5575
    @grahamwithinshaw5575 9 місяців тому

    We believe in you my friend

  • @azukaabrahamnduka5242
    @azukaabrahamnduka5242 9 місяців тому

    Very interesting narratives and insights

  • @fzyoutube
    @fzyoutube 9 місяців тому

    A Golden VICTORY is calling you now !

  • @Towanda-xq2xg
    @Towanda-xq2xg 9 місяців тому

    VICTORY! 💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯

  • @grahamwithinshaw5575
    @grahamwithinshaw5575 9 місяців тому +1

    Let it be

  • @sunnyphoenix5603
    @sunnyphoenix5603 8 місяців тому

    Victory is mine ❤

  • @1st-qt9ce
    @1st-qt9ce 9 місяців тому

    Agree……This is the start if my origin story.

  • @mrhypeone
    @mrhypeone 9 місяців тому

    VICTORY!

  • @charles8784
    @charles8784 9 місяців тому

    VICTORY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @luisduran2357
    @luisduran2357 9 місяців тому +1

    VICTORY ❤🎉 thanks ALUX

  • @benoequinox4799
    @benoequinox4799 9 місяців тому

    Victory!!!

  • @dawncopley5671
    @dawncopley5671 9 місяців тому

    Today I had a major VICTORY, yes!

  • @AndyPrimo1
    @AndyPrimo1 4 місяці тому

    VICTORY! ❤

  • @philipemekaorjiako5342
    @philipemekaorjiako5342 11 днів тому

    VICTORY I'm defeating this dragon one way or another!

  • @javaidak4204
    @javaidak4204 9 місяців тому +3

    🎉 very valuable content ❤❤❤

  • @Sarah-rx2wj
    @Sarah-rx2wj 9 місяців тому

    Victory awaits!

  • @dotnationja5617
    @dotnationja5617 9 місяців тому

    VICTORY ALL THE WAY