@faith1075 Thanks for the insult. YOU ARE NOT the one! You are the loser who don't deserve me. I am not moving on. YOU move on somewhere else. I am staying here. You are talking like the jerks deserve "The Ones".
Thanks for your comments. I met a guy on a dating site. He approached me and said he wants to meet me. After three weeks of daily interesting conversations, he vanished! I continued dating several men. I never asked him why. After several weeks, he reappeared and said, "hello beautiful," and he sent me a picture of himself. I ignored him. I'm still daring other men. I'm glad he's gone. Good riddance! I'm a sexy queen, not a pawn!
It's amazing the way you support. And no negativity towards men.. Just plain & simple tips which we women don't think when we are down or out with emotions.
It’s been a week since someone ghosted me and it’s the first time in my life. I didn’t know it stings this much although we have not met yet and we were talking for just about 2 months. Funny how someone could tell how much they love you and in a second they’re gone. When we started communicating and talked about cheating he said he’d never let someone go through the same thing as he knows how terrible it feels to be cheated on. He’s no different. Someday we will be loved equally by the right one.
You are spot on Alex, he ghosted me for almost 4 months. But I kept myself emothially strong and I diverted my attention in progressing myself. He was spying on my each activities on social media. Looking at my success and my ignorance towards him, he texted me with love message and now he wants me back. ❤️ 😊
Oh how I have grown since he ghosted me! My mindset has shifted and I find my life doing a 180°!! Im taking life by the horns!Next week I'm going white water, rafting, I've signed up to complete a Tough Mudder....my adventure has begun. Just wait til he gets a load of the new me!!°
The thing is ladies if he ghosted you in the first place why would you want some one like that back? Because you love him? Are you sure it's love? What does that say about his feelings towards you? Why not ghost you again if you let him back in? Make sure if you want to continue with him is not to make it easy for him because you don't need a Casper in your life you need a stable loving and healthy relationship where communication flows both ways. I wish you guys very loving and healthy fall 😇
It's been 5 days that he ghosted me and I'm so depressed that i do not want to come out of my bed.. After seeing your video I'm finding the courage to come out of it and start a fresh.. Thank you so much and some more advice from you would be very helpful 😇
A guy I was dating for 3 months all of a sudden one day ghosted me and blocked me....I haven't heard from him in 3 weeks....I was upset but I'm getting better....he's done this before to me and I took him back so I should have expected it...I'm not sure if he'll try to come back but I know I deserve much better it's just hard sometimes and it still hurts...I have some days where I cry a bit over him but I know he's not worth it...I wish I could get over him quicker....thank you Alex ❤
We dating around 3 months. He keep silent 3 weeks. I text to him to ask why. He said that He was very busy, he had trouble, he hoped me understand him. Then I ask him Did he want to break up by silent? He said No. He still love me.... After I keep silent also. I dont think he so busy so that he can not contact to me.
He is only playing games......same are played on me too...i.donT know about these ..by waTching these videos..first understanding things..nd trying to build myself....
Alex.. I have the control baby!!!!! This works!!! I left him alone and put distance between him and I . I was living my best life for day(s) and I did not take the first step. He called me, and asking me why I was not responding to him, and he was the one not calling or texting. I was positive and happy and was very casual when I responded the question and I told him I was busy and I had a lot on my plate. He was surprised and even scolded me about how I wasn't too busy to be on FB! (lol). I playing it cool.. and I am being a challenge, but most of all I am enjoying my life again apart from him, and this is wonderful! And you know what, my ghost is haunting me more than ever! Thank you Alex!!!! My goal is to be an inspiration to myself and when this guy sees how much I love me and my life, he would eventually will catch on and will be inspired and be chasing me too. You are the man Alex!!! You the man!!!!
Alex, I think you are very wise. I was ghosted and then told to find someone else last year. My ex goes out of his way to speak to me, flirts with me and acts very jealous when he sees me with other guys. I’ve healed a lot, focusing on me; very busy with work, socialising and going to the gym. Why is he jealous? He would have called like he said he would if he was genuinely interested. I’m dating others and not waiting for him,. I was very annoyed recently, when a guy I was out with sensed something when my ex was in the same club (not from me, as my focus was very much on my date!) I acknowledged my ex briefly. He looked furious!
He stopped texting me for 3 weeks. The moment I forgot about him he texted me! Ugh! "How have you been?" The door is closed! The audacity of him to think that I would be waiting for him.
This channel is awesome bc it’s such a positive place! It’s way different than other channels because it’s encouraging he doesn’t say it’s the women’s fault because she’s lacking so many things as I’ve seen on other channels. Reason why.... it’s because he’s French, and in Europe women are more respected. Also I’d like to say that I just watch it for fun lol but every since I started watching I can tell you that NOBODY can play me 😁
I have been ghosted and it really hurts. No explanation nothing he just diapered into thin air. I have been broken twice and it is not fair. I'm very kind and caring and trust people so easily thinking everyone is like me I know I know I'm wrong but its my personality that let other to take advantage because I'm so honest.
Aww I feel you girl. I’ve just been ghosted for about a week now. I also care and love so much and thought he felt the same. Someday we will find someone who can love us equally 💕
Actually this is what I am doing currently. Focusing on myself, not planning to meet them and surprise them with my transformation by sending a photo of the "new me." And I am giving myself 2-3weeks
I got ghosted 5 months ago; I was all over the place it was so hard! I didn't think it will get easier but here I'm now feeling happy.one thing l learn is never put up to our happens in a men!
3 guys have ghosted me after we were in an exclusive, committed relationship. 2 of them have apologized and asked to see me again. The 3rd one just happened. What I e learned is they all took me off the market but they were still looking/ talking to others. So painful
That's true. But I belive the fact that if someone is really interested in you, will found a way to make things work, no metter what. And if he/she does not... well you know the answer.
My crush pursued me at first. Then some things happened in his life and he backed off. I texted a few times and he responded, then would leave me on read. I waited almost 2 months, sent a text, had a few conversations then he ignored the messages again. Last message I sent he read but didnt reply and its been 8 weeks now. I have gotten into new and old activities trying to keep myself busy, focusing on me. I have gotten the urge to text a few times here and there, even pretended to text (typed it out then deleted), but didnt text him. I figure he will reach out when he is ready.
@@FrenchRelationshipExpert It's funny, cause he actually reached out last week after I watched this! I kept it light, fun and short. His birthday was a few days later, so I sent him a message and left it at that. He has to work for it. I am not reaching out anymore and keeping options open. :) Your channel has definitely helped me a lot especially with keeping calm!
I told him we don’t have to stay together and no strings attached. He suggested fixing everything then .. out of the blue he disappeared off the face of the earth!! it’s been almost 3 weeks and I don’t hate him for that but it hurt soooo much and I can’t put it into words, i feel like Idk this guy anymore in spite of how much I liked him I’m going in no-contact to save my dignity after trying everything with him and giving him every single excuse and chance to make up Thank you Alex I truly needed this 💜
Great advice, although my city is currently under covid lock-down for over 4 months now. Except for essentials, like food everything is closed, no gyms, no movies, no large gatherings, no beauty salons.
I am already doing all this things. And he knew. Also we had a lot of things in common. But he ghosted anyway!!! I am just going forward with my passions and dreams but still he ghosted me anyway. PS. An d I find ridicolous he doesnt even say a word. I also phoned him and didn't answer. It is absolutely ridicolous that from goodnight baby we passed to nothing. No he is not dead
He is married(again) still messages from time to time. Kicked him to the curb. No contact. Strange thing is I start to feel it makes me incredibly free. Life is mine and only mine.
I'm still healing and recovering from my ghosting experience. I'm reminded of it everyday and it's a pain that just keeps on jabbing at your side. I don't feel any grudges towards him and I know he'll never reach out to me again (not even to make amends or apologize) and that's okay. Building towards love and marriage requires consistency, dedication, communication, and transparency and it wasn't present here. So I'm okay with letting it go. It's been 1 month of No Contact and I've unblocked him (but kept him unfriended). It's my way of saying 'no hard feelings but you are now somebody who I used to know'. Time to work on myself and my relationship with God.
The thing is that you need not only self control, but a lot of money for doing all those new things weekly in order to show off it in your social media, and nowadays there are many people broken🤑 and doing this it's too complicated 😥😥😥
After being out of the dating scene for many years, life placed a real charmer in my path. I did not sleep with him and after one month of intense attention from him, he ghosted me. I was too proud to text or call him. He came to return some items and I was cold and this is what i said: you are a flake, I don’t trust you anymore, you don’t keep your word and never darken my doorstep again! He took this in silence and left. I am sad , he was so fun but I told him I had standards and that I don’t need this. Alex, will I ever hear from him again or not?
lAlex, no need to reply. After the tongue lashing he got from me, he texted and APOLOGIZED!!!!! I am still in no contact for 3 weeks. He said he missed our get togethers. I will never give up my power again. This stupid man will see what he stands to loose!
Good for you girl!!! I wish I would have been that brave years ago when my crush did that to me. Guess what though... two years later he texted me!! He is an immature guy unfortunately.
I was ghosted last night 🌙. I was supposed to have video call with him. He messaged me to postpone 30 minutes. Then he completely ghosted me. I feel you should tell people when they mistreat you, hold them accountable for wrong behavior. I will move on.
You're awesome! I love what you are doing for all women. Building the esteem that is lacking & society has been able to diminished as well. Your info is sooo 💯. Plus, your confidence, passion and experience is very transparent & great! 🔥And of course, your FRENCH accent 💕
It's not always the case for him to come back ,as it depends upon the situation, nomatter even if u apologise ,they don't care ,so best way is to move on.
This is a very interesting approach for the ladies to rise above their ghosters, showing how far beyond they've grown. What are the odds of EVER running into your ghoster & dazzling them, while knowing you've far outgrown them? I'd like to hear those stories & the aftermaths if those ghosters try to paddle upstream.
My ex ghosted me two weeks ago, i have no idea what happened :( I´m so hurt, down and depressed. I didn´t do anything wrong and i keep asking myself why he couldn´t just break up with me? It´s easy to say just forget about him but deep inside i really hope he will come back so i can take control. But how often does that happen..? Is there even a chance? Because someone who ghosts doesn´t care or has respect for his gf...so why would he come back :( I really hope your advice will work :(
Do you really wanna take back a ghost that will probably ghost you again in the future? If he does it once he will do it over and over again. Close the door on him so the right one will pass through! And most importantly, know your worth!! 😉
As sometimes a ghoster myself and dealing with a ghoster…it’s not so black and white of an answer. I ghost when I don’t know what to say, feel overwhelmed and can’t communicate my feelings properly. The man in my life for three years ghosts when he does not have plans that work out or he feels stressed out and just doesn’t want to have to explain it to me. Love takes a lot of patience, understanding and empathy to know what else a person may not be saying and afraid to admit. It’s not a one size fits all when it comes to men, or people in general why they ghost. I will say this, if you text a compassionate and understanding message to your ghoster and let them know you are going to respect their need for space as you sense something is going on they are not talking about, then let go and focus on your happiness….they will be back. If you want them back when they are ready to talk or see you, depends how much you really cared or loved them in the first place. If they don’t EVER come back, well it’s meant to happen for a reason then. Then you truly need to move on.
Sure control your mind & don't text etc. but develop your social media profile and get new photos for social media. Go and take a run and jump for yourself. No ladies, No. If he ghosts you back off so far, he goes out of veiw.
Alex you are too good..right time I caught you.Thank you so much..If i could not control my emotions I always start to watch yr video..n it make me strong n positive energy..n I control myself ..
Fair comment, it’s not nice to be treated that way so yes I agree with you but what about the good women who aren’t like that and who are genuine and who are looking for a serious relationship to be treated with no explanation ! To me when a man ghosts, he isn’t a man but a coward instead. I thought mature men would be more respectable and know what they want and be serious,you just wouldn’t expect they would ghost a woman without any explanation
That happened to me SOOOO many times! They disappeared without saying anything and months later they come back! Like we are going to pick up where we left it! They are fucking crazy!I have pride! I am French! I got an attitude on the top of it hahaha I don't take them back , NEVER ! Once you disappeared you disappeared forever dude! hasta la vista senor
Hello dear sir .u r on the top.i pinched myself coz this video has so much to teach n it's a reality .No words to describe u.sir u r so lovable . Carry on wid ur lessons as.always.wishing all the best for many more articles n videos to come .we really need u ,n thanks for being there . love n regards . smile please.
How to put brakes, to avoid ghosting? I mean, how not to get carried away with the charm, when you still have your power? I mean, sometimes he messed around with the chemistry, you know? Like, chemical reactions.
Women don't be too nice to Men they will take u granted.. Women... please behave like High Value Respectful ladies.. Most men are full of drama bullshit and games... Be less available for players don't be nurturer provider...tell him...to please you ..rules and guidelines...what u tolerate and what u wont Don't overcook, treat him like a baby, don't tell him he's Handsome,don't put him on pedestal sating..I can't live without you" you are everything" don't cry, don't beat up,dont be jealous of other females...around him...treat yourself like Queen...make him fear of losing you .. of yourselves,just tell him...they re plenty of men...who really want you....but ur still with him ..u care enough of him cuz his mother died.. He knows where to hurt you next Don't be Doormats Don't be emotional blame it on your female hormones and body chemistry
He ghosted me blocked me for no reason whatsoever. Hadnt met him yet either got on well really liked him had a lot in common. He wato meet me take me out fir a meal etc Just ghost me out of the blue . Very cowardly hurts.
*If a guy ghosts you, you ARE NOT the one!* move on ladies. You deserve better!
I deserve better
Thanks so much for your candour. ☺️❤️
@faith1075 Thanks for the insult. YOU ARE NOT the one! You are the loser who don't deserve me. I am not moving on. YOU move on somewhere else. I am staying here.
You are talking like the jerks deserve "The Ones".
Or rather he IS NOT THE ONE.
@@samtula5946Right!
My ghost came back after 9 months! He didn't even apologize. He just gave excuses! Goodbye Casper!
After 9 months 🤯🙄wtf men... players never brake up with you, they just put you on ice...his loss girl!
Wow that's a good call.
i'll do this when my ex comes back from her childish ghosting : "hey Casper!"
A man who really loves his woman will never ever leave her for so long for another man to enter her life. Nope.
No if a guy ghosts you he is not the one.
Thanks for your comments. I met a guy on a dating site. He approached me and said he wants to meet me. After three weeks of daily interesting conversations, he vanished! I continued dating several men. I never asked him why. After several weeks, he reappeared and said, "hello beautiful," and he sent me a picture of himself. I ignored him. I'm still daring other men. I'm glad he's gone. Good riddance! I'm a sexy queen, not a pawn!
Well done you, 100 % right, you are not only beautiful from the outside but inside to,a queen in your own right.
Hi!
Was his name Omar Malik? Curious.
Well done girl. He didn't deserve you!
Yess you are
Exactly what I'm going through...... Am closing the door soon. Idgaf 😂
It's amazing the way you support.
And no negativity towards men.. Just plain & simple tips which we women don't think when we are down or out with emotions.
We didn't even break up, he just ghosted me 🙄🤦♀️
Hope's J that just happened to me this weekend 😔
@@TeamKakashi7 i'm sorry. I didn't heart from him since then. He is a coward. Enjoy your life and be happy
Hope's J what is happening now?
same am so frustrated
Yup same even though a few weeks ago he said he wasn't ghosting. I called him out now am unfollowed on Insta and blocked on phone.
Why would you want someone back that ghosted you?
Sheer stupidity!
Ryt
He ghosted me for 10 days I was waiting without any contact....I blocked him. I am the one who puts the rules not him.
Good for you . I was without spine and being humiliated
Yesss👏👏
@Tender Agression you have a brain, use it
@Tender Agression meh.
Tender Agression like what issues would cause someone to ignore you?
It’s been a week since someone ghosted me and it’s the first time in my life. I didn’t know it stings this much although we have not met yet and we were talking for just about 2 months. Funny how someone could tell how much they love you and in a second they’re gone. When we started communicating and talked about cheating he said he’d never let someone go through the same thing as he knows how terrible it feels to be cheated on. He’s no different. Someday we will be loved equally by the right one.
How you doing now?
Mine vanished after 2 years of off and on dating. He has Always broke up with me before not just vanished
I got ghosted by a french man. Now I see french men differently
You are spot on Alex, he ghosted me for almost 4 months. But I kept myself emothially strong and I diverted my attention in progressing myself. He was spying on my each activities on social media. Looking at my success and my ignorance towards him, he texted me with love message and now he wants me back. ❤️ 😊
Oh how I have grown since he ghosted me! My mindset has shifted and I find my life doing a 180°!! Im taking life by the horns!Next week I'm going white water, rafting, I've signed up to complete a Tough Mudder....my adventure has begun. Just wait til he gets a load of the new me!!°
I love this mindset :-)
The thing is ladies if he ghosted you in the first place why would you want some one like that back? Because you love him? Are you sure it's love? What does that say about his feelings towards you? Why not ghost you again if you let him back in? Make sure if you want to continue with him is not to make it easy for him because you don't need a Casper in your life you need a stable loving and healthy relationship where communication flows both ways. I wish you guys very loving and healthy fall 😇
oh man, why lots of guys ghosted woman. why. I’m so sad that everyone here felt same feeling I have now. god damn it
This is my advise to ladies it's ok to love some one show him your cards but if he act like shit leave him don't waste your time
Hi Ben. Why do guys behave this way !
It’s nice to see another guy give his opinion and telling all ladies to not waste they time on men who aren’t sincere
Yeah.. i'm so Valuable..I live as usual without him ... I remain happy.. thanks alex..
❤️🙏🏽
Well said 👍😎
Thank you so much alex for supporting
It's been 5 days that he ghosted me and I'm so depressed that i do not want to come out of my bed.. After seeing your video I'm finding the courage to come out of it and start a fresh.. Thank you so much and some more advice from you would be very helpful 😇
You are important and you deserve a happy and healthy relationship.
@@FrenchRelationshipExpert Thank you so much 😊
I'm 5 days ghosted today😢💔
@@milagrosrodriguez4136 8 days today for me 😂 and yesterday he reacted to one of my Ig stories like what?? He's just so weird
A month for me.
I dated a man for a year and suddenly he ghosted me. My heart is burning right now. I think i am going mad
Hope you feel better now
Me too, almost 2 years together he made me communicate and I wasn’t even a communicator🤦🏽♀️it was literally so unlike him. It hurts so bad.
A guy I was dating for 3 months all of a sudden one day ghosted me and blocked me....I haven't heard from him in 3 weeks....I was upset but I'm getting better....he's done this before to me and I took him back so I should have expected it...I'm not sure if he'll try to come back but I know I deserve much better it's just hard sometimes and it still hurts...I have some days where I cry a bit over him but I know he's not worth it...I wish I could get over him quicker....thank you Alex ❤
Did he come back?
It is called abuse test.
We dating around 3 months. He keep silent 3 weeks. I text to him to ask why. He said that He was very busy, he had trouble, he hoped me understand him. Then I ask him Did he want to break up by silent? He said No. He still love me.... After I keep silent also.
I dont think he so busy so that he can not contact to me.
Luan Do are you still together?
He is only playing games......same are played on me too...i.donT know about these ..by waTching these videos..first understanding things..nd trying to build myself....
My man just did something simialr
Same but it was 8 months seeing each other.
The pedestul is for me damnit 😁😘 !! Ladies ...head high and adjust that 👸🏻
Alex.. I have the control baby!!!!! This works!!! I left him alone and put distance between him and I . I was living my best life for day(s) and I did not take the first step. He called me, and asking me why I was not responding to him, and he was the one not calling or texting.
I was positive and happy and was very casual when I responded the question and I told him I was busy and I had a lot on my plate. He was surprised and even scolded me about how I wasn't too busy to be on FB! (lol). I playing it cool.. and I am being a challenge, but most of all I am enjoying my life again apart from him, and this is wonderful! And you know what, my ghost is haunting me more than ever! Thank you Alex!!!!
My goal is to be an inspiration to myself and when this guy sees how much I love me and my life, he would eventually will catch on and will be inspired and be chasing me too. You are the man Alex!!! You the man!!!!
He ghosted and later he is back?.. ( please excuse my english)
Alex, I think you are very wise.
I was ghosted and then told to find someone else last year. My ex goes out of his way to speak to me, flirts with me and acts very jealous when he sees me with other guys. I’ve healed a lot, focusing on me; very busy with work, socialising and going to the gym. Why is he jealous? He would have called like he said he would if he was genuinely interested. I’m dating others and not waiting for him,. I was very annoyed recently, when a guy I was out with sensed something when my ex was in the same club (not from me, as my focus was very much on my date!) I acknowledged my ex briefly. He looked furious!
He stopped texting me for 3 weeks. The moment I forgot about him he texted me! Ugh! "How have you been?" The door is closed! The audacity of him to think that I would be waiting for him.
I blocked him in everything same thing as he did. And now it’s his decision if he going to stalk me or not.
MOVE ON GIRL HE HAS NO DECISION YOUR BOSS NOW AND ALWAYS THESE ARE STUPID LITTLE MEN BLOCK ALWAYS !!
Powerful! Thank you!
This channel is awesome bc it’s such a positive place! It’s way different than other channels because it’s encouraging he doesn’t say it’s the women’s fault because she’s lacking so many things as I’ve seen on other channels. Reason why.... it’s because he’s French, and in Europe women are more respected. Also I’d like to say that I just watch it for fun lol but every since I started watching I can tell you that NOBODY can play me 😁
Thank your your support, so appreciated.
I was ghosted by a French guy. I don't think culture has anything to do with it
I was also ghosted by a french guy. Maybe its a french men thing to ghost women
He ghosted me just a week ago 🙃 it hurts as hell
Same here! Did he contact you yet?
He always appear in my dreams and the ending is I get hurt.
Aw
I'm so upset.hes switched his phone off and he hasn't been touch in days.hes broke my heart
I have been ghosted and it really hurts. No explanation nothing he just diapered into thin air. I have been broken twice and it is not fair. I'm very kind and caring and trust people so easily thinking everyone is like me I know I know I'm wrong but its my personality that let other to take advantage because I'm so honest.
Aww I feel you girl. I’ve just been ghosted for about a week now. I also care and love so much and thought he felt the same. Someday we will find someone who can love us equally 💕
Actually this is what I am doing currently. Focusing on myself, not planning to meet them and surprise them with my transformation by sending a photo of the "new me." And I am giving myself 2-3weeks
Alex I'm so depressed I can barely function
Don't be afraid to get some professional help.
You are so wise. I feel really blessed to find you as my mentor. May God bless you & reward you for guiding so many people. Amen
Wow, thank you
What a vidieo top ot the top !!! Alex ur the best
Thank you so much Berry, I really appreciate!
I got ghosted 5 months ago; I was all over the place it was so hard! I didn't think it will get easier but here I'm now feeling happy.one thing l learn is never put up to our happens in a men!
Your happiness should always be the priority. Thank you for watching.
3 guys have ghosted me after we were in an exclusive, committed relationship. 2 of them have apologized and asked to see me again. The 3rd one just happened. What I e learned is they all took me off the market but they were still looking/ talking to others. So painful
That's true. But I belive the fact that if someone is really interested in you, will found a way to make things work, no metter what. And if he/she does not... well you know the answer.
My crush pursued me at first. Then some things happened in his life and he backed off. I texted a few times and he responded, then would leave me on read. I waited almost 2 months, sent a text, had a few conversations then he ignored the messages again. Last message I sent he read but didnt reply and its been 8 weeks now. I have gotten into new and old activities trying to keep myself busy, focusing on me. I have gotten the urge to text a few times here and there, even pretended to text (typed it out then deleted), but didnt text him. I figure he will reach out when he is ready.
Yes, he will reach out when he is ready. You stay strong and focused on yourself!
Why would you want a man that doesn't respect and want you?
@@FrenchRelationshipExpert It's funny, cause he actually reached out last week after I watched this! I kept it light, fun and short. His birthday was a few days later, so I sent him a message and left it at that. He has to work for it. I am not reaching out anymore and keeping options open. :) Your channel has definitely helped me a lot especially with keeping calm!
@@Jillyspups Happy for you.
You have so much patience! Any updates?
About 4 months passed now but I cannot feel that he regret anything or that he felt that he lost me
I ghosted him and now he did it back to me and it feels awful !!!
He ghosted you..?? Move on ... and remember- ghosts aren’t visible !!!
I told him we don’t have to stay together and no strings attached. He suggested fixing everything then .. out of the blue he disappeared off the face of the earth!!
it’s been almost 3 weeks and I don’t hate him for that but it hurt soooo much and I can’t put it into words, i feel like Idk this guy anymore in spite of how much I liked him
I’m going in no-contact to save my dignity after trying everything with him and giving him every single excuse and chance to make up
Thank you Alex I truly needed this 💜
May this work and can't wait to control!!!
My bf for almost 4 years ghosted on me. He told me that he was ignored by me when we were still together which is a total BS!
Same!!!
Great advice, although my city is currently under covid lock-down for over 4 months now. Except for essentials, like food everything is closed, no gyms, no movies, no large gatherings, no beauty salons.
I am already doing all this things. And he knew. Also we had a lot of things in common. But he ghosted anyway!!! I am just going forward with my passions and dreams but still he ghosted me anyway. PS. An d I find ridicolous he doesnt even say a word. I also phoned him and didn't answer. It is absolutely ridicolous that from goodnight baby we passed to nothing. No he is not dead
@Proteine Has he contacted you since that time?
I feel you girl,i've also been ghosted a few times and it sucks! Men like that are trash and you deserve waaay better.
He is married(again) still messages from time to time. Kicked him to the curb. No contact. Strange thing is I start to feel it makes me incredibly free. Life is mine and only mine.
really enjoy the tips and your accent!
Thank you so much Lindsey!
Your Accent is amazing 😍 its changed me thank you
I just love You Coach Alex The French Expert!!
I love you !! Thank you so much !! Really need this !!!
You're so welcome!
I'm still healing and recovering from my ghosting experience. I'm reminded of it everyday and it's a pain that just keeps on jabbing at your side. I don't feel any grudges towards him and I know he'll never reach out to me again (not even to make amends or apologize) and that's okay. Building towards love and marriage requires consistency, dedication, communication, and transparency and it wasn't present here. So I'm okay with letting it go. It's been 1 month of No Contact and I've unblocked him (but kept him unfriended). It's my way of saying 'no hard feelings but you are now somebody who I used to know'. Time to work on myself and my relationship with God.
That's really gives us motivation
I see your coaching videos all are full of motivation that's very very nice
Be blessed 👍
It's my pleasure
The thing is that you need not only self control, but a lot of money for doing all those new things weekly in order to show off it in your social media, and nowadays there are many people broken🤑 and doing this it's too complicated 😥😥😥
Thank you so much for this! Best advice ever❤️
Glad it was helpful!
Exactly Alex , I will show this man , what he has losted 😂
Stay positive!!
@@FrenchRelationshipExpert Thank you Coach Alex 😀
It helps when the weather where you live isn't so rainy 🙄🙄💫🌧️ , and cold , when you don't have a car or transport or a job , and live alone. . .
Sured I love ur french accent 👍🏻😍
Oh thank you :-)
After being out of the dating scene for many years, life placed a real charmer in my path. I did not sleep with him and after one month of intense attention from him, he ghosted me. I was too proud to text or call him. He came to return some items and I was cold and this is what i said: you are a flake, I don’t trust you anymore, you don’t keep your word and never darken my doorstep again! He took this in silence and left. I am sad , he was so fun but I told him I had standards and that I don’t need this. Alex, will I ever hear from him again or not?
lAlex, no need to reply. After the tongue lashing he got from me, he texted and APOLOGIZED!!!!! I am still in no contact for 3 weeks. He said he missed our get togethers. I will never give up my power again. This stupid man will see what he stands to loose!
Good for you girl!!! I wish I would have been that brave years ago when my crush did that to me. Guess what though... two years later he texted me!! He is an immature guy unfortunately.
@@ellenmorse8559 Glad to hear that!
Coach Alex, I watched most of your videos & very impressed! Thanks for sharing!
I was ghosted last night 🌙.
I was supposed to have video call with him. He messaged me to postpone 30 minutes. Then he completely ghosted me. I feel you should tell people when they mistreat you, hold them accountable for wrong behavior. I will move on.
You're awesome! I love what you are doing for all women. Building the esteem that is lacking & society has been able to diminished as well. Your info is sooo 💯. Plus, your confidence, passion and experience is very transparent & great! 🔥And of course, your FRENCH accent 💕
Awesome thanks Alex I love ur accent God bless u to help ladies 🙏🙏🙏
It's not always the case for him to come back ,as it depends upon the situation, nomatter even if u apologise ,they don't care ,so best way is to move on.
how to act after u gain the control?
This is a very interesting approach for the ladies to rise above their ghosters, showing how far beyond they've grown. What are the odds of EVER running into your ghoster & dazzling them, while knowing you've far outgrown them? I'd like to hear those stories & the aftermaths if those ghosters try to paddle upstream.
I'm sure there are many stories about this!
I really appreciate your advice. Love yourself first 😍❤️😇thank you Alex
Thank you alex
You're so welcome.
You are a genius Alex!
Thank you for the support, so greatly appreciated.
U r a beautiful man Alex!!! These are more than relationship tips these are tips to live by! Its improving my relationship with LIFE!
That's amazing to hear! I'm always happy to help!
It also has to do with aversion backup, most of the times they don't come back,as they r not bothered. It depends upon the situation to.
Great advice
Thank you!
Great video ,Alex u are awesome👍👍
Thank you Ann, I really appreciate your support :-)
Alex Cormont - The French Relationship Expert You are most welcome coach, i will contact u early than later.
My ex ghosted me two weeks ago, i have no idea what happened :( I´m so hurt, down and depressed. I didn´t do anything wrong and i keep asking myself why he couldn´t just break up with me? It´s easy to say just forget about him but deep inside i really hope he will come back so i can take control. But how often does that happen..? Is there even a chance? Because someone who ghosts doesn´t care or has respect for his gf...so why would he come back :( I really hope your advice will work :(
Please ignore. It's a power game.
This is my 5th day ghost n we didn't even argue I just don't understand😢
It’s not you it’s his stupid ass
@@impalanotaming ,Exactly!!
Do you really wanna take back a ghost that will probably ghost you again in the future? If he does it once he will do it over and over again. Close the door on him so the right one will pass through! And most importantly, know your worth!! 😉
I just really loveu for helping all women
Thank you so much! I'm always happy to help!
Thank you alex i will apply that on myself right now i love watching all your videos😀😀😀
Lots of love from India 🇮🇳
Thank you so much :-) Lot of love from Miami!
As sometimes a ghoster myself and dealing with a ghoster…it’s not so black and white of an answer.
I ghost when I don’t know what to say, feel overwhelmed and can’t communicate my feelings properly. The man in my life for three years ghosts when he does not have plans that work out or he feels stressed out and just doesn’t want to have to explain it to me.
Love takes a lot of patience, understanding and empathy to know what else a person may not be saying and afraid to admit.
It’s not a one size fits all when it comes to men, or people in general why they ghost.
I will say this, if you text a compassionate and understanding message to your ghoster and let them know you are going to respect their need for space as you sense something is going on they are not talking about, then let go and focus on your happiness….they will be back.
If you want them back when they are ready to talk or see you, depends how much you really cared or loved them in the first place.
If they don’t EVER come back, well it’s meant to happen for a reason then. Then you truly need to move on.
Love you !!!!!
If a guy ghosted you delete his number .
U have thaught me how to lead a life ..love u.
don't lose your french accent and thank you for your job. It is very helpful
I love you Alex 💕 will be waiting lol ghosters always come back??
Sure control your mind & don't text etc. but develop your social media profile and get new photos for social media. Go and take a run and jump for yourself. No ladies, No. If he ghosts you back off so far, he goes out of veiw.
Alex you are too good..right time I caught you.Thank you so much..If i could not control my emotions I always start to watch yr video..n it make me strong n positive energy..n I control myself ..
You are so welcome!
Are you free Alex😄love how you talk
I ghosted my ex gf because she got caught. That's all the closure I need. You're under no obligation to provide closure to someone who hurts you.
Fair comment, it’s not nice to be treated that way so yes I agree with you but what about the good women who aren’t like that and who are genuine and who are looking for a serious relationship to be treated with no explanation ! To me when a man ghosts, he isn’t a man but a coward instead. I thought mature men would be more respectable and know what they want and be serious,you just wouldn’t expect they would ghost a woman without any explanation
you could’ve atleast gave an explanation instead of ghosting. y’all childish af for that.
That happened to me SOOOO many times! They disappeared without saying anything and months later they come back! Like we are going to pick up where we left it! They are fucking crazy!I have pride! I am French! I got an attitude on the top of it hahaha I don't take them back , NEVER ! Once you disappeared you disappeared forever dude! hasta la vista senor
Exactly it happened so much, Take care for the future :-)
@@FrenchRelationshipExpert Trying haha
Lol :-)
Thank you every so much Alex yes photosvop mportant.
Thanx alex 🌹
You're welcome 😊
Thanks a lot
Happy to help
Hello dear sir .u r on the top.i pinched myself coz this video has so much to teach n it's a reality .No words to describe u.sir u r so lovable . Carry on wid ur lessons as.always.wishing all the best for many more articles n videos to come .we really need u ,n thanks for being there . love n regards . smile please.
My coach ever
Thank you Alex ❤
Thank you for your support.
How to put brakes, to avoid ghosting?
I mean, how not to get carried away with the charm, when you still have your power?
I mean, sometimes he messed around with the chemistry, you know? Like, chemical reactions.
Women don't be too nice to Men they will take u granted.. Women... please behave like High Value Respectful ladies..
Most men are full of drama bullshit and games...
Be less available for players
don't be nurturer provider...tell him...to please you ..rules and guidelines...what u tolerate and what u wont
Don't overcook, treat him like a baby, don't tell him he's Handsome,don't put him on pedestal sating..I can't live without you" you are everything" don't cry, don't beat up,dont be jealous of other females...around him...treat yourself like Queen...make him fear of losing you .. of yourselves,just tell him...they re plenty of men...who really want you....but ur still with him ..u care enough of him cuz his mother died..
He knows where to hurt you next
Don't be Doormats
Don't be emotional blame it on your female hormones and body chemistry
Thanku Alex
You are so welcome!
Fantastic!! I love u and your accent
Thanks so much :-)
He ghosted me blocked me for no reason whatsoever. Hadnt met him yet either got on well really liked him had a lot in common. He wato meet me take me out fir a meal etc
Just ghost me out of the blue . Very cowardly hurts.
Alex is the man!!!