Being Default Aggressive in Jiu Jitsu, The Streets, and Life - Jocko Willink

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  • Опубліковано 24 лип 2020
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    Excerpt from JOCKOPODCAST 55

КОМЕНТАРІ • 177

  • @templarknight585
    @templarknight585 3 роки тому +69

    *aggressively pushes the like button*

  • @ParadymShiftVegan
    @ParadymShiftVegan 3 роки тому +28

    Jocko: "Here's another one, I'm going to aggressively... "
    Echo: "Ignore you."
    Jocko: "No, I'm going to aggressively counsel you and mentor you ."

  • @Hatemtommy131313
    @Hatemtommy131313 3 роки тому +73

    Love how Echo politely corrects Jocko when he mixed up competition with training.

    • @momensal7294
      @momensal7294 3 роки тому +7

      Probably just clearing confusion for the camera

    • @lunarious87
      @lunarious87 3 роки тому +4

      Allah is everywhere, wherever you turn your Head. He is the Only One worth being Feared. ... Echo is allright because he is Trying and I must tell the The Truth, that there is No God, but God The One and Muhammed is his Messenger. ... If you don't want the Messenger to control you, you can control yourself, and that is totally Fine. But try to not do Evil. Kind Regards Mustafa (Chosen in Arabic)

    • @clintfrench8629
      @clintfrench8629 3 роки тому

      What you think Jocko n ecko versatile asses gonna be doing later haha

    • @mrqueem1703
      @mrqueem1703 3 роки тому +5

      lunarious87 who asked tho

    • @yoimphillip
      @yoimphillip 3 роки тому +1

      Scott Page USMC he corrected him.

  • @sprintspirit8457
    @sprintspirit8457 3 роки тому +68

    3:30 am sunday watching this getting ready for a morning workout. Thanks Jocko!! Discipline equals freedom changed my life. I am down 40 lbs so far. Only the beginning! Echo Thankyou also! Great job guy's!!!

  • @pdog547
    @pdog547 3 роки тому +9

    I am no soldier. I can't even really fight. This is brilliant, and has given me a lot to work on. Very deep stuff from both of you, I really get a lot from this channel.

  • @Daniel-hs6ct
    @Daniel-hs6ct 3 роки тому +6

    Let’s go people get Jocko and Echo to 1 million subs!!!!

  • @MM12684
    @MM12684 3 роки тому +14

    A man confronts you in competition, on the street, he is the enemy. An enemy deserves no mercy. Strike first strike hard

  • @tysteib278
    @tysteib278 3 роки тому +3

    JOCKO YOURE THE GREATEST

  • @JK-vc7ie
    @JK-vc7ie 3 роки тому +36

    I prefer default grind. Grind everyone down. Grind everything down. Wear them out. Outlast them. Suck their will to live. Make them just quit. Attrition. Relentless.

    • @glennvillesanido5399
      @glennvillesanido5399 3 роки тому +8

      I aggressively pressed thumbs up on your comment.

    • @vToneehh
      @vToneehh 3 роки тому +2

      Tactical. 😂

    • @JK-vc7ie
      @JK-vc7ie 3 роки тому +1

      -Vasudeva- That’s good for winning the battle and losing the war. Kind of like the guy who gets knocked out in the second round after gassing out in the first.

  • @Elevateyourlife100
    @Elevateyourlife100 2 роки тому

    Goood Morning!☀️Thank you so much!

  • @iamwarrenwong
    @iamwarrenwong 3 роки тому +6

    Being aggressive ALL the time can be tough. Mentally, and emotionally.

    • @FreshManny209
      @FreshManny209 3 роки тому +3

      If you're not naturally an aggressive person, yes.

    • @uncleh573
      @uncleh573 2 роки тому +4

      Being weak or passive is also tough. You gotta pick which tough will benefit you.

    • @707josh
      @707josh 2 роки тому +3

      Aggressive doesn’t mean to be angry or mean.

    • @souiljalife4724
      @souiljalife4724 Місяць тому

      How can I become aggressive or like savage all the time ?

  • @kalamachung1493
    @kalamachung1493 2 роки тому

    I heard the “da kine” in one of these videos. Sure enough, Echo is Hawai’i boy! 🤙🏽 Thank you for the discussion and the wisdom.

  • @falst573
    @falst573 3 роки тому +17

    In sports, games, wars, the attacker always has an advantage:
    Aggressiveness

  • @John-jp3vt
    @John-jp3vt 3 роки тому +22

    Aggressively eat!
    Aggressively pray!
    Aggressively shower!
    Aggressively sleep (knock yourself out)!
    Aggressively demand handshakes!
    Aggressively do everything!

    • @Viriyascybin
      @Viriyascybin 3 роки тому +6

      AGRESSIVELY COMMENT

    • @phatsdonahue2516
      @phatsdonahue2516 3 роки тому +5

      I'M GOING TO BED DAMNIT!!!!
      RIGHT HERE!!!
      RIGHT NOW!!!
      I'VE HAD ENOUGH!!!
      ZZZZZZZZZ!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
      ZZZZZZZZZ!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
      ZZZZZZZZZ!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
      😤

  • @axb321
    @axb321 3 роки тому +2

    Sounds like default aggressively take initiative... always important to simplify though.
    Always insightful listening to Jocko

  • @gvlog3614
    @gvlog3614 3 роки тому +9

    Let’s keep at it brothers 🙏✝️💡

  • @lilwaddleee
    @lilwaddleee 3 роки тому

    You da man jocko

  • @CoNkOrE
    @CoNkOrE 3 роки тому

    Jocko my friend, I have had to set the notification bell for your channel probably 5 times and I still am not told when you upload videos. I don't know if this is a system problem, youtube problem or what but I always find my way back regardless

  • @thuggherra
    @thuggherra 3 роки тому +3

    If I properly understood, if I want to avoid a street fight, I'm gonna impose my will and "aggressively" say : no, I'm not gonna fight with you.

  • @wb5mgr
    @wb5mgr 3 роки тому +2

    Default Aggressive (for most regular people in everyday life) will land you in a jail cell, divorced, with no friends, and probably with an ass whipped or shot.
    You can be the baddest man on the planet with martial arts... push on the wrong dude in the wrong situation when you could have walked away and he and his friends will leave you crippled in the gutter or shot dead.
    As Ron White famously said “ I did’nt know how many of them it was gonna take to whip my ass, but I knew how many they were gonna use...”
    Always better to have the discipline to walk away if you have a choice.

    • @shahnxaoc7749
      @shahnxaoc7749 Рік тому +1

      Aggressively walk away. Aggressively avoid the confrontation.

  • @josemanuelsanchezrosales1066

    "When you gotta go, go hard." Check

  • @TeKnoVKNG23
    @TeKnoVKNG23 3 роки тому +1

    Always flanking.

  • @jeremybrimmer1990
    @jeremybrimmer1990 3 роки тому +3

    11:55
    J: im going to aggressively...
    E: ignore you?
    J: mentor you.

  • @tommy11sixorozco9
    @tommy11sixorozco9 3 роки тому +15

    The default of my knees? skinny :(

  • @falst573
    @falst573 3 роки тому +4

    Being aggressive gives you an advantage in several aspects of life

  • @quitequiet5281
    @quitequiet5281 3 роки тому +2

    Appearing to be laidback and easy going... (being that way in personal situations and casual situations.) yet actually being fiercely ahead of the game... default aggressive includes looking like your just walking up... but in reality you’re already reconed AO and have multiple foxholes (with overhead cover and camouflaged so well your biggest fear is not moving effectively into cover LOL) at key locations and are just looking for opportunities to exploit the misconceptions of the opponent. Encouraging them to misstep and misconstrue. Default aggressive with a defensive elastic concept... pick your field but unless know to doubt what you think you know... you’ve already lost the war... the battle is just a final score. Default aggressive is preparation. Default aggressive is verified good intelligence.

  • @josemanuelsanchezrosales1066

    Echo's got a good one there, sometimes you've got to "aggressively" ignore some people og.

  • @greoricm771
    @greoricm771 3 роки тому

    How do we submit questions into Jocko's podcast to read?

  • @Dumbfudge1421
    @Dumbfudge1421 3 роки тому

    Does jocko offer personal coaching or does he just do podcasts ?

  • @CaseyBurnsInvesting
    @CaseyBurnsInvesting 3 роки тому +9

    Gotta know how to turn off that “friendly” feeling.

  • @MrButchCassidy
    @MrButchCassidy 3 роки тому

    How do those who normally train in your gym, train during the gym closure?

  • @Je.rone_
    @Je.rone_ 3 роки тому +2

    Handle it with speed and violence if it's in the streets, can't say i disagree

  • @Cheeba__
    @Cheeba__ 3 роки тому

    I don’t know how I found this video but I fucks with it ! & that’s how you know your phone stalks you 😂👏🏽

  • @seanheisey8645
    @seanheisey8645 3 роки тому +5

    Being prior infantry, I struggle with being overly aggressive in situations that it really worsens. Like in a simple argument with my wife, when her temper flares, my default reaction is to escalate to quell the threat but obviously thats the wrong reaction. It is something I do not like. What mental cues, or habits can I employ to better temper myself when the situation calls for it?

    • @tonyvee8574
      @tonyvee8574 3 роки тому +2

      Jesus Christ is your next step. You have to change your entire way of life to fix THAT issue. You are a good person but your view is off, that's why it seems right to react they way you did........i do, i did. Been there done that. It will get better but you have to WANT to change. God Bless. Jesus works if you work it.

    • @PrometheusGuides
      @PrometheusGuides 3 роки тому +1

      Haven’t been in the military yet but, I also have the same reaction to my wife and it is causing a lot of strain in our marriage. I’m looking for ways to curb this reaction but being stepped on all my life for being too nice has molded me into a callus asshole. Many people think therapy would help. Maybe try that?

    • @Alexlamb442
      @Alexlamb442 2 роки тому +1

      Breathe brother, just breathe

    • @seanheisey8645
      @seanheisey8645 2 роки тому

      @@tonyvee8574 I never saw any of these replies I’m just seeing all of them now and I needed this and I do need Jesus I need God in my life it’s too hard without him and while I do walk with him I stray quite a bit there’s times where I’m with him closely and there’s times where I stayed away from him and life is always better and I am always better when we walk side-by-side… thank you

    • @sp123
      @sp123 11 місяців тому

      ​@@seanheisey8645 being default aggressive is the first step, the second step is dependent on how the person responds and your relationship with that person. Someone like your wife is a valuable enough relationship where you are less aggressive than with others

  • @wateringthefate3890
    @wateringthefate3890 3 роки тому +1

    I'm prepared for the winter killer's! This year I see many dying for this power play being played out like a book with such little PEOPLE!

  • @BigBootyLatina69
    @BigBootyLatina69 3 роки тому +1

    When I pressed on the video I thought it was saying like he was a default from forknife

  • @thedutchfisherman9608
    @thedutchfisherman9608 3 роки тому +13

    This has turned into a jiu jitsu channel. Just like joe rogan lol. Maybe It means it has something to it. I should try it at least once.

    • @Zton-yn4kc
      @Zton-yn4kc 3 роки тому +5

      Jiu Jitsu is a parable for life. People who don’t train everyday respond like the comment above this one.

    • @harvestblades
      @harvestblades 3 роки тому +1

      You very well may be hooked the first class, but dealing with the humility checks, & staying dedicated is key. Give it six months of serious effort, you'll see.

    • @AugustusTitus
      @AugustusTitus 3 роки тому

      its fun

  • @thepunadude
    @thepunadude 3 роки тому +3

    MY DEFAULT? 10MM

  • @joeybelisario5530
    @joeybelisario5530 2 роки тому +1

    aggressively detach LOL

  • @Orimthekeyacolite
    @Orimthekeyacolite 3 роки тому +2

    Wether you call it agressive or laid back, you're 50% wrong) The thing to emphisize is always the balance between the extremes

  • @Merzbjj
    @Merzbjj 3 роки тому

    💯

  • @chrisberrios5857
    @chrisberrios5857 3 роки тому

    I want to do Jiu Jitsu but I’m also very good and could go pro in baseball should I take the risk of getting hurt.

    • @hands-to-work1601
      @hands-to-work1601 3 роки тому

      Personally, I think baseball is a game , BJJ is a lifestyle.

    • @alvarogomez2798
      @alvarogomez2798 3 роки тому

      Weigh your options like you are now. Go to jiu jitsu classes but let them know you are going softer don'ttry to muscle your way in. Trust in the tap.(admit defeat when needed) I'm sure you know this...technique first and over time strength comes. Like tossing stones, you begin at short distances. You build your accuracy. You start to go farther, farther, farther and with strength you will have what you want. Trust your training partner choose them wisely. Never feel pressured to spar with the wrong person. Jiu jitsu is a new discipline that may pave your pro career path. Trust in the tap :)

    • @alvarogomez2798
      @alvarogomez2798 3 роки тому

      You might get hurt, but it doesn't need to be permanent. Even if you do. Your passion for baseball must outweigh your disadvantage of injury or physical limitations.

    • @chrisberrios5857
      @chrisberrios5857 3 роки тому +1

      Alvaro Gomez thank u

    • @user-pp9bl5gr1n
      @user-pp9bl5gr1n 3 роки тому

      Go pro in baseball and do jiu-jitsu on your free time

  • @UnPetitPoulet
    @UnPetitPoulet 3 роки тому +1

    So being default aggressive basically means having a goal / plan and acting on it ?

    • @mrk19901
      @mrk19901 3 роки тому

      People need to watch a 13 minute video to learn this? This is common sense.

  • @rockymckay1705
    @rockymckay1705 3 роки тому

    That’s Fabian defeated Hannibal. By not engaging

  • @dm20422
    @dm20422 3 роки тому

    👍🏻👍🏻

  • @integrityinvestigations
    @integrityinvestigations Рік тому

    In any moment of decision,
    the best thing you can do is the right thing,
    the next best thing is the wrong thing
    and the worst thing you can do is nothing.
    -Theodore Roosevelt

    • @sp123
      @sp123 11 місяців тому

      Idk about that, doing nothing is better than doing something with terrible consequences

  • @Cheeba__
    @Cheeba__ 3 роки тому

    The baiters convo !!! Yeees !!! Lol

  • @christopherarmstrong2710
    @christopherarmstrong2710 2 роки тому

    7:14 You want to impose your will. Impose your will on the enemy, and you’ll break them.

  • @jasonbean591
    @jasonbean591 3 роки тому

    I would like an opinion. A fellow at a local restaurant has harassed me repeatedly. Yesterday he didn’t return my debit card. Should I confront him or just call the bank for a replacement? He’s not a physical match for me, and the card is useless to him without the PIN. I’m angry and am tempted to confront him. But perhaps better course of action is to just quit doing business with the restaurant and get a replacement card. Please advise.

    • @mrqueem1703
      @mrqueem1703 3 роки тому +1

      Tell the manager get him fired wtf lol call police for theft

    • @TurnOntheBrightLights.
      @TurnOntheBrightLights. 3 роки тому +1

      Wtf dude get it back. Don't get a replacement

    • @jasonbean591
      @jasonbean591 3 роки тому

      ThePeaceweapon, yeah, I kinda did. But there were mitigating circumstances.

    • @jasonbean591
      @jasonbean591 3 роки тому

      ThePeaceweapon, good news! I got my stuff back. A waitress was looking out for me.
      Here’s the thing: make friends. Then someone will always have your back. And you don’t need to resort to violence.:)

    •  3 роки тому

      Jason Bean well that’s good, but you should just call the police if someone steals your things

  • @alejandrosarmiento6122
    @alejandrosarmiento6122 3 роки тому +15

    Nobody has finished watching this video yet

    • @lunarious87
      @lunarious87 3 роки тому

      I commented while watching. Because .. well, I am a No Thing and saying the Truth. Other People are No Thing and not saying anything. They are OK as long as they don't suddenly start saying something Wrong and taking Trumps and False Laws Party. I am with Imam Ali's Party, aka Imam Ali's Shia. Everyone are either with us or against us (it is OK to be afraid and do No Thing if you are Truthfully afraid)

    • @LoveJaeger
      @LoveJaeger 3 роки тому +1

      lunarious87 wake up, watch video the fall of cabal, everything you preach is a lie.

    • @colbyd.5044
      @colbyd.5044 3 роки тому

      Ryder yupp!!

    • @LoveJaeger
      @LoveJaeger 3 роки тому +1

      Born Stoic spread the message through your friends if you can, even one person might tip the scales, stay woke brother !

    • @colbyd.5044
      @colbyd.5044 3 роки тому +1

      Ryder bro the scales are tipping as we speak! More and more people who just saw it as a conspiracy theory are now hearing about the cults and things like this through more mainstream sources. Like supposedly Hillary was caught on video sacrificing a child and it will be part of her trial. Heard that from my brother while I was attempting to explain some of these things and was blown away that he knew anything about it. Also there is a video that was released by someone in the CIA of Bill Gates pitching them on a respiratory virus he would use in Afghanistan to change the people’s belief structures chemically back in 2005 with a “vaccine”. It’s probably been taken down but the fact it was released shows there are good forces working on the inside that aren’t giving up no matter how fast the elites try to remove it and I’m hopeful people who were blind to it before are starting to catch on willingly or not. But of course I’ll continue to do my part!

  • @RevenueSharePartner
    @RevenueSharePartner 3 роки тому

    *In business you can wear them out by innovating like elon musk, how did you guys counter punch your business competitor?*

  • @koleymusic4909
    @koleymusic4909 3 роки тому

    3:15 it’s true, being the aggressive one when your put in a street situation is the best way to go, get after it cuz most people starting shit randomly on the street are really big pussy’s they go down faster than anyone I have ever gotten into it with, better to put them down before they get a knife out or something. It’s also true to try and avoid it as long as possible, I’ve been guilty of “taking the bait” by more than one of these guys in my time 😂

  • @mrhamsam243
    @mrhamsam243 3 роки тому +1

    What are the papers they're reading off of?

    • @jasonbean591
      @jasonbean591 3 роки тому

      Interesting question.

    • @vampyrick
      @vampyrick 3 роки тому +1

      He switched out the knife he usually plays with for papers to avoid offending UA-cam censors. 😜 seriously though this is a segment of a much longer podcast, they print out notes and questions they receive from listeners.

  • @collinmiller3347
    @collinmiller3347 3 роки тому

    Right...be aggressive in all of life and lose all your friends and look like a jack. Great Idea.

    • @collinmiller3347
      @collinmiller3347 3 роки тому

      ​@Lua Dipa You are mixing up best friends/squad members and general friends. I don't expect all of my friends to do that kind of thing, nor should they if they have their own life. My point is that people will just think you are a jerk and just avoid you...there is a difference between that and still having general friends.

    • @crazymacedonianboi
      @crazymacedonianboi 3 роки тому

      @@collinmiller3347 makes sense. I use humor .

  • @SherrysReviewsandResearch
    @SherrysReviewsandResearch 3 роки тому

    Question: Are all rapes/sexual assaults bad or is it theoretically "okay" when someone is doing it say for a group or warfare or ritualistic celebrations, like with occult practices? And if the person or persons in question have money or power or both, is it then just brushed under? With the metoomovement our society is becoming better at locating and bringing attention to assault cases, but are only focusing on certain individuals and not the entire institutions that promote and enable the behavior. Bc they not only allow it, but they encourage it. Please advise.

    • @mrqueem1703
      @mrqueem1703 3 роки тому +1

      Obviously all bad

    • @SherrysReviewsandResearch
      @SherrysReviewsandResearch 3 роки тому

      @@mrqueem1703 Yes. I think so too.

    • @SherrysReviewsandResearch
      @SherrysReviewsandResearch 3 роки тому

      @EQ EQ Cult of the world you mean? Where human trafficking runs rampant, but only some get called out?
      I cant get out, I live here too.
      I can only do my part.

    • @SherrysReviewsandResearch
      @SherrysReviewsandResearch 3 роки тому

      @EQ EQ Right. Okay. Well it's a huge cult and there are many members who aren't even aware.
      (Much things are done behind the scenes, much not.) Its a world cult really. To top it off, I have a really persistent member that has put my name on a targeting list where I am shunned, stalked, harassed, and humiliated. The member says it was for revenge, but she and others have done worse and not even served time. I mean they put my name out like a dirt pile. But yes, I avoid as much as possible, but it's pretty impossible bc its high level. I'll just keep doing my part by informing.

    • @SherrysReviewsandResearch
      @SherrysReviewsandResearch 3 роки тому

      @EQ EQ Thank s.

  • @ryanericksen1498
    @ryanericksen1498 3 роки тому +5

    1

  • @patrykkieltyka5940
    @patrykkieltyka5940 3 роки тому +10

    If i met anyone that's default aggressive in everyday life i would think that they are simply insecure and/or have a tiny pee pee.

    • @Edgar-Friendly
      @Edgar-Friendly 3 роки тому +2

      You NEED Jocko then.

    • @user-pp9bl5gr1n
      @user-pp9bl5gr1n 3 роки тому +2

      I think he meant be assertive...not walking around like u rule the world but standing up for yourself and being aggressive because ppl will test u
      Just like a small animal in the wild when they stand up for themselves 90% the other animal backs down

  • @clintfrench8629
    @clintfrench8629 3 роки тому

    it was hilarious the last time I had a punk in a rear-naked choke and told him if he runs to his car I will let him know no live

    • @awkwardoddysee4438
      @awkwardoddysee4438 3 роки тому +1

      Calm down Chuck Norris

    • @wb5mgr
      @wb5mgr 3 роки тому

      The scary thing is you are lucky his friend did not come from behind you with a tire tool. Thats what often happens in a fight situation on the street.

  • @wateringthefate3890
    @wateringthefate3890 3 роки тому +1

    You guys crack me up you talk about fights that have rules? Sorry fights don't need rules but to win when you add laws of hinder in a battle; you lose!

  • @zacharymckay9019
    @zacharymckay9019 2 роки тому

    I need to learn Jiu Jit§u by sunrise or when the earth actually does 360° right🪖about 🪖face.