Wyatt. I’ve been through this. I’ve felt this same pain. Jesus was the reason why I was able to fully let go of the woman I loved. She was the mother of my child
This is a massive improvement brother. You have seen things in a different light and now the light seems brighter. There are always things that were in the background that show themselves, eventually. Stay strong my man. This is what you need
My gf of 7 years left me for another guy in June. I went through all the same emotions as you. It’s important you face those emotions and find insight in what you feel.
You’re finding presence, the only thing that will ever help you. Awareness is within you which you’re already understanding. Control over another human is weakness disguised as strength. What the ego sees in another it also sees in itself.
yep, let em go, the better days are yet to come. We can't control ppl and their feelings, we can't force someone to love us , if they no longer wana be with us, if they wana explore their life and be with someone else there's no point in trying to get them back and hurting ourself over and over and ruining one's reputation, even if they eventually come back the realationship is just gona be toxic , i learnt this the hard way after my 7 years relationship was over, but that breakup taught me everything i needed in life and since then im the happiest i've ever been. Love yourself , believe in the Lord, pray and everything else will follow. "One day at a time". Do not overthink, just enjoy the journey . Cheers man!!
No idea where you get these amazing advice pieces from but they are incredible. Bro to bro, anyone would be lucky to have you as their life partner. You deserve so much more than her, and she'll realise that in time as you do bigger and better things in the world. My advise would be to try and move on from her completely and not leave the door open as that's when you'll get complete closure.
Appreciate you bro. I just got out of an 8 year relationship myself. Feels good when you realise you could be putting all that energy/love into yourself, eh?
I'm going through the end of a relationship at the moment, it's been months since I've been holding on to that person, but there's nothing I can do, I need to find a way to face this fear, the fear of being alone, what holds me back the most This is because I had an ideal of life with this person, which I no longer have, because I need to cover that ideal with a new ideal, and that is very difficult
thanks for sharing and being vulnerable. loved your content before, now it feels like you're growing with me. keep it up, we're (virtually) here for you. 💜
It’s hard to let go when it’s everything you wanted when it’s going well, even when it’s not going well you hold onto the hope that it can be good Ike that again. Walking away from an argument to maintain my own composure and to keep myself cool and rational so I wouldn’t say things I didn’t mean is why she wanted to file for divorce. Letting go when you remember how good it was when things were going well is super tough, it’s scary because she’s all I’ve ever wanted and I’m scared I won’t find it again. I’m trying to let go, holding on isn’t doing anything but making me bleed and keeping my wounds from healing, I’m just trying to let go of that last little bit of hope.
Thank you my brotha I needed this I'm. Sorry this is what alot of us are going through. It just feels like I will be a rude ignorant person. It feels selfish and lonely to be this way. Much love to all that are a light surrounded by darkness.
Wise words man! Take some time to heal, and if yoga and drumming seem like something you want to try and make an income out of why not try? Lets try the other sides of the in between😊 ❤
you cant force anyone to love you and i wouldn't want to be with someone whos not infatuated with me in love i will never chase anyone or friends it has to be 50/50 both party's want to be around each other and enjoy one another's company otherwise ones just taking and the others doing more to try to hold it all together like you said its going to fall apart eventually so better to just let them go.
I may start posting videos to help you cope and learn how to move on from the identity of desiring love from an external source. You are love Wyatt. My ex left me because she lost sight and hope in the potential of my financial situation. She attempted to replace me, I achieved that potential. Without her knowing, she did eventually send the "I miss you" text. Which validated me in my worth more than any money or time that I spent with her. The ability to devote and commit to me the way she did and just replace me is inconceivable. Word of advice. Forgive the ones who can't fathom the love you have to give, wish them well and preserve for the ones who match your light. Take time to yourself and illuminate yourself. Look into the dark night of the soul. I feel your headed in that phase of your life and I wish you the best.
i don't want to be rude but I'm not sure if a committed relationship should feel like a prison, I mean, there are things you must not do for sure but that's it. You have free will to get out if you want, at least in a healthy relationship.
Only partially true and your own viewpoint. I really don't like the terminology you use at all. Everyone is free to see these things from their own perspective and have their own unique experience. Just learn from it.
Wyatt, play some Elden Ring and Dark Souls with me!!! Drummers unite!! Once you get on souls, you'll never feel depression again haha. Seriously though my man, I'm proud of you. What you're saying right now makes so much sense. Love you buddy!!! You are such a bad ass drummer and a motivation to me
haha, I have heard so much good about Elden Ring. I have stepped away from my video game habits though. Taking a break from anything that takes me far out of the present. 🎁🙏🏻
@@LifeOfWyatt Dude, sometimes you need to escape the reality and just have some fun. Then you can maybe live in the present even more and/or perceive it more positively. Seems like you're too lost in yoga stuff. You just delved too deep. Anyway, wish you good luck.
@@LifeOfWyatt what takes who out of the present? I get what you say, but obviously, the present isn't something "you" can access or "get" in, nor "get" far away from. Don't believe your thoughts.
Let's let go together ❤🔥 I am afraid, I have doubts, I have second thoughts... But I am ready to trust and leap. Now is the time 🥹
I feel you man! Been through a similar thing and it’s still fresh! We let go to keep ahold of better things 🤘
Been through it to bro.. same thing, couldn't let the attachment go!
Hey bro you're one of my favorite Drummer man! If you ever need anything man don't be afraid to reach out! I've been in your shoes
Wyatt. I’ve been through this. I’ve felt this same pain. Jesus was the reason why I was able to fully let go of the woman I loved. She was the mother of my child
This is a massive improvement brother. You have seen things in a different light and now the light seems brighter. There are always things that were in the background that show themselves, eventually. Stay strong my man. This is what you need
Much love ❤🔥
My gf of 7 years left me for another guy in June. I went through all the same emotions as you. It’s important you face those emotions and find insight in what you feel.
You’re finding presence, the only thing that will ever help you. Awareness is within you which you’re already understanding. Control over another human is weakness disguised as strength. What the ego sees in another it also sees in itself.
Dude.. you are free!! You don’t need her! You don’t need anyone! You are talented and now you can do whatever you want !
yep, let em go, the better days are yet to come. We can't control ppl and their feelings, we can't force someone to love us , if they no longer wana be with us, if they wana explore their life and be with someone else there's no point in trying to get them back and hurting ourself over and over and ruining one's reputation, even if they eventually come back the realationship is just gona be toxic , i learnt this the hard way after my 7 years relationship was over, but that breakup taught me everything i needed in life and since then im the happiest i've ever been. Love yourself , believe in the Lord, pray and everything else will follow. "One day at a time". Do not overthink, just enjoy the journey . Cheers man!!
good stuff my friend! love from germany! cheers!
No idea where you get these amazing advice pieces from but they are incredible. Bro to bro, anyone would be lucky to have you as their life partner. You deserve so much more than her, and she'll realise that in time as you do bigger and better things in the world. My advise would be to try and move on from her completely and not leave the door open as that's when you'll get complete closure.
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Appreciate you bro. I just got out of an 8 year relationship myself. Feels good when you realise you could be putting all that energy/love into yourself, eh?
I'm going through the end of a relationship at the moment, it's been months since I've been holding on to that person, but there's nothing I can do, I need to find a way to face this fear, the fear of being alone, what holds me back the most This is because I had an ideal of life with this person, which I no longer have, because I need to cover that ideal with a new ideal, and that is very difficult
thanks for sharing and being vulnerable. loved your content before, now it feels like you're growing with me. keep it up, we're (virtually) here for you. 💜
Thank you ❤🔥
Great talk bro. Love you man.
It’s hard to let go when it’s everything you wanted when it’s going well, even when it’s not going well you hold onto the hope that it can be good Ike that again. Walking away from an argument to maintain my own composure and to keep myself cool and rational so I wouldn’t say things I didn’t mean is why she wanted to file for divorce. Letting go when you remember how good it was when things were going well is super tough, it’s scary because she’s all I’ve ever wanted and I’m scared I won’t find it again. I’m trying to let go, holding on isn’t doing anything but making me bleed and keeping my wounds from healing, I’m just trying to let go of that last little bit of hope.
Thank you my brotha I needed this I'm. Sorry this is what alot of us are going through. It just feels like I will be a rude ignorant person. It feels selfish and lonely to be this way. Much love to all that are a light surrounded by darkness.
Your words are profound!
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I love u man since first drum videos. Keep up with these. ❤🔥
Will do 🙏🏻❤🔥 Much love!
Wow this vixeo is awesome, such great advice and wisdom
Wonderful reflection 🙏🏻
Wise words man! Take some time to heal, and if yoga and drumming seem like something you want to try and make an income out of why not try? Lets try the other sides of the in between😊 ❤
Smart man, loved that analogy 👍. I know you have given up the kit, but do you still keep up with the metal scene?
I do not keep up with music at all, no 🙏🏻
After 5 years together My ex broke up with me less than 2 months ago, thank you for this video
good content Wyatt. thanks for sharing
Thanks for watching! ❤️🔥
Thanks so much brother
Did you quit/stop playing drums? Hope you're all good
Man your thumbs are freaking good! So the content
my thumbs? haha
@@LifeOfWyatt youtube thumbnails i mean haha
Why did you stop playing drums ?
you cant force anyone to love you and i wouldn't want to be with someone whos not infatuated with me in love i will never chase anyone or friends it has to be 50/50 both party's want to be around each other and enjoy one another's company otherwise ones just taking and the others doing more to try to hold it all together like you said its going to fall apart eventually so better to just let them go.
Let go and let god....or which ever higher power you believe in
Haven't posted in a couple days you good man?
In the last minute of video, you're falling back into the same trap by trying to control how your future will go
I may start posting videos to help you cope and learn how to move on from the identity of desiring love from an external source. You are love Wyatt. My ex left me because she lost sight and hope in the potential of my financial situation. She attempted to replace me, I achieved that potential. Without her knowing, she did eventually send the "I miss you" text. Which validated me in my worth more than any money or time that I spent with her. The ability to devote and commit to me the way she did and just replace me is inconceivable. Word of advice. Forgive the ones who can't fathom the love you have to give, wish them well and preserve for the ones who match your light. Take time to yourself and illuminate yourself. Look into the dark night of the soul. I feel your headed in that phase of your life and I wish you the best.
i don't want to be rude but I'm not sure if a committed relationship should feel like a prison, I mean, there are things you must not do for sure but that's it. You have free will to get out if you want, at least in a healthy relationship.
This poor guy
Why is it always the woman leaving the man. It’s insane someone can put so many years into each other and just poof want out. SMH.
Only partially true and your own viewpoint. I really don't like the terminology you use at all. Everyone is free to see these things from their own perspective and have their own unique experience. Just learn from it.
Adult man crying over relationship, man up, proccess and move on.
Wyatt, play some Elden Ring and Dark Souls with me!!! Drummers unite!! Once you get on souls, you'll never feel depression again haha. Seriously though my man, I'm proud of you. What you're saying right now makes so much sense. Love you buddy!!! You are such a bad ass drummer and a motivation to me
haha, I have heard so much good about Elden Ring. I have stepped away from my video game habits though. Taking a break from anything that takes me far out of the present. 🎁🙏🏻
@@LifeOfWyatt Dude, sometimes you need to escape the reality and just have some fun. Then you can maybe live in the present even more and/or perceive it more positively. Seems like you're too lost in yoga stuff. You just delved too deep. Anyway, wish you good luck.
@@LifeOfWyatt what takes who out of the present? I get what you say, but obviously, the present isn't something "you" can access or "get" in, nor "get" far away from. Don't believe your thoughts.
Regretting destroying your ear lobes yet?? 👂🏼👂🏼