My parents divorced when I was 3 or 4. So there was no trauma in my father moving out. My father came over to visit regularly and sat down with my mother and other siblings. When I went to stay with him at vacation times he would say “does your mother let you do that?” And he would always respect my mother. My mother did the same. They were real adults who liked each other in spite of the divorce. I felt loved by each and was able to love both. I wish this for you and Don.
That's interesting. My dad moved out when I was 6 years old, and although my parents approached it in a thoughtful way, it still traumatized me completely. I blamed myself and my self esteem was totally shot. I also had major daddy issues in my 20s. In fact I STILL probably need therapy for it, haha. However my sister was 4 and didn't seem to affect her.
It’s a whole different situation when the parents actually respect each other and know how to properly co-parent. My parents divorced when I was 7 and although they were VERY different and at time couldn’t stand each other, they respected one another and got along for me. I have a step daughter who is now 9 and when her mother and my husband broke up (never were married) she was almost 3. Her mother is very difficult, unwilling to coparent or discuss issues regarding the child with my husband and we wish so much that we could just all get all but it just won’t happen. It helps SO much when the parents get along because the child absolutely feels it and knows what’s going on
I cried when CC asked about where Daddy went....Your explanation Jen made me shed more tears. I am a silent viewer, got heart broken when I watched your Life Update video. You are an inspiration. Such nice people. Good to know that you and Don are doing good. God bless you guys.
As a longtime subscriber I feel the need to say how proud I am of you. I know that’s weird coming from a stranger haha but there is a lightness in you and a self confidence in you that shines so bright even just through the camera. I can’t begin to imagine how hard this change must be for you but I have zero doubt in my mind that all will work out and you will land on your feet and be just fine.
Long time watcher and I rarely comment but some (most are supportive) of the comments are unnecessary. Particularly about Don and Jen. Whose at fault etc. Divorce isn't black and white, it's a lot of grey. Neither party needs to go into deep detail. Remember they both agreed to part. Thank you Jen for sharing what you feel comfortable with ❤
@@PrepperFam6408 Sure, but she was also very clear on what she would share. And absolutely no one has the right to demand that personal information from anyone if they are not willing to share. You only have the right to what they choose to post.
I've followed you for years and always had the greatest respect for your integrity and what you choose not to share. I really admire your standpoint on not sharing the details on your divorce.
Jen, it’s nobody’s business. Don’t over share. I totally agree and respect your privacy. I’ve been married 47 years and there are things I just don’t talk about. I get it. God.’s grace and blessings on you and your family. Don’t do anything too quickly. Take your time and make decisions as things are not so raw.
Jen your light just keeps shining a little brighter as each video continues on. I am so proud of you, and know through this all you will continue to shine. Be well and Peace
Thank you Jen, for bringing your gentleness, kindness and positivity to our lives. I have watched you since Elle Fowler shared your profile many years ago and I must say you are my favorite person to watch. You really set an amazing example how to handle difficult times with dignity and kindness and you inspire me and many others to be better!
Jen, I admire how you pour your heart out, you are a very genuine honest person and it totally reflects on your words and actions. Your heart is so brave yet very compassionate, your children are so lucky and blessed to have you as their mom. When they get older they would be so proud of you. xoxo
Several of us long time viewers have commented and noticed how much more relaxed and confident you seem to be in yourself. It’s really quite tremendous. Truly like a weight had been lifted. And not just recent changes I’m talking like years back. Makes me curious what was troubling you so all this time. I know it’s personal but maybe one day you will be willing and wanting to share more. This could help so many others that may be in a similar situation. Hugs to you and glad to see you happy! 💕
Jen, I’m a long time viewer, never commented before, just needed you to know that I am SO PROUD OF YOU. You are so strong. Keep breathing. The future is so bright. Lots of love xxx
From a child of divorce, thank you for keeping the kids the main priority. My parents went through a HORRIBLE divorce when I was 4 years old (I'm 38 now) and it marked me for life. I do not communicate with my dad at all now. It was nasty, they didn't get along, and we were thrown in the middle. My dad and then stepmom would take stabs at my mom any chance they got. And, when you are a small person, these things affect you tremendously. I am very open about it now in hopes of it helping others. You are in my thoughts and prayers daily.
The Gold Project Same experience and it does change how you look at relationships and how you interact with people in the future. My main goal in life after that experience was making sure any future children I had never had that same childhood.
The 20s question made me bawl. You are most definitely not alone. I’m 30, 12 brain surgeries in, and depression is kicking my butt. I think I’m most afraid of when I’m better, what will I do? The anticipation is killing me. My heart goes out to the person who asked. I love you Jen, I hope I get to meet you on one of your Utah trips ♥️
hi jen! I’ve been watching your videos since 2012 when I was in high school and you’ve always been an absolute inspiration to me. Even in high school I remember thinking “i want to be more like Jen” and that hasn’t changed over the years. I so appreciate you being open in this Q&A and for sharing your life with us for so long. I wanted to let you know I’m always behind you and championing you, from Disney half marathons to having kiddos to really tough life circumstances, you are loved and prayed for often💕
You handle everything with grace and class. Thank you for setting that example. Wishing you the best possible for this situation. Love to you and the kids
I’m a long time subscriber and will admit I was totally blown away that you and Don had separated... although I’d guessed before you announced it 😔 However... the difference in your personality, shall we say, is amazing... you seem so happy and more open now which seems an anomaly considering the situation. I’ve watched you long enough to know you will share only what you are comfortable with and I think these videos will help so many people and yourself too ❤️ It’s a new chapter and something many people go through... the future is yours to do what you want 😊
I am amazed at how you are processing this. I divorced my husband when my son was 15 months old. I can assure I wasn't this composed... even though I was the one that started the process. Kudos to you for handling it in this manner!
First, thankyou for looking at the camera. So many vloggers don’t. Second, I’m sad.....but I understand and look forward to still following you. I love how you respect your children’s feelings.
I appreciate how open and honest you are with us....on your terms. Thank you for trying to keep things amicable for the kids; as someone who grew up with divorced parents who were nasty with each other and basically used me as a "pawn" that makes things so hard on the child and I'm truly glad that your sweet kiddos will not have to face that. You will all be held in my heart for peace and smooth transitions for all the things to come.
Jen I have to say that you're looking wonderful! I was sad to hear about the break-up but we all have reasons for the things we do, they are personal and very private. I'm very glad to see you smile and talk with such confidence, it really does show that you and the kids are going to be fine, new adventures to come! Prayers and blessings for you all!
I wish you could feel my soul reaching out to hug you, and add to your incredible strength and depth of character. I am cheering you on in my prayers. You are going to thrive this year!
You are such a wonderful mother to put your children first. You have so much class to show Don the respect you are showing by not exposing your most private conversations. I hope and pray you inspire others who don't take your path. God bless you, your children and Don as you all find your new normal.
I have watched you for so many years and was just shaken when you told us about the separation. I applaud you for sharing this chapter of your life with your viewers as difficult as that is. Life isn't perfect despite what IG and UA-cam personalities put out there and I think only seeing perfect lives and homes and selfies does a disservice to young people who feel sad that they don't measure up to that. Good for you for keeping it real and I know happier times are on the horizon for all of you. Thank you for sharing whatever feels right to you.
The very most greatest gift you and Don can give your children is to be friendly and caring with one another. My parents went through a very bitter and painful divorce when I was 9 and it seriously put a distance between me and them.
Just want to send you some love and say you are doing great! You are handling a major life change with grace, thoughtfulness, and care. I am glad to hear everyone is adapting well, and looking forward to vlogs and office clean out videos!
Endings, even when they are mutually arrived at and amicable, are still endings. You are so courageous to speak about it so openly when it is undoubtedly a time of deep vulnerability and uncertainty. Onward Jennifer, we are wishing good things for you. Sending peace and prayers your way.
You are one of my favorite content creators. I do pray for you & your family. Divorce is tough even when it's amicable. You truly have a lot of ”friends” that do care. Have a wonderful weekend & Happy Valentine's Day 🍫
Hi Jenn, I really love how mature you and Don are with regard to your divorce. You seem so much more at peace somehow. I also love how your children are the focus and by not exposing the children to the details of your divorce. When my parents divorced, it was less than amicable, and I do appreciate how respectful you seem to be with regard to your new season of life. I do wish you all the very, very best. With hugs and much love. xo
My mom and dad divorced when I was young like your children. My mom and dad also were always kind to each other. Never nasty to each other. It was so easy for me when they still cared about each other but couldn't live together anymore. P.S. My mom remarried and had a 50 year marriage second time around.
I am shocked, I'm a long time sub of you and Don...I always thought this would never happen, I am truly at a loss for words. Blessings to you all going forward.
I don’t believe I’ve ever commented on one of your videos, but I’ve been a follower of yours since the beginning. You certainly seem the most calm and at peace during this phase than I have ever seen you before. Hang in there. You’re doing great. Praying for all of you!
Jen you have looked so happy and glowing these last few weeks. When Momma is happy the babies are happy. CC and Donnie will be just fine. I am a retired Kindergarten teacher and kids are so resilient especially if the separation is handled respectfully and loving. Wishing you so much love, happiness, and joy in the coming years!!!!
Jen, watching you for YEARS and this is absolutely the first time that I have seen you this happy and confident despite this life change. So happy for you and your family, because when you begin to heal yourself you heal your family. Congratulations! 💕
Just from watching this video, it is so obvious that this was a great decision for you!!!! You look so happy and confident. Glad you decided to do this for you and your family!!! Much love.
You look the most relaxed and content I think I’ve seen you in a long time here. Glad you’re doing what’s right for you and your family. You can breathe now ❤️
I think the way y’all told CC was perfect. I’m going through a divorce and the beginning was rough but I’m in such a good place. Our kids are well and I do know that timing is everything. You seem to be weathering this well. I’m praying for you all.
Don’t stop sharing , your helping a lot of people going thru the same struggle , myself included , be real , be yourself and be vulnerable when your not having a good day , you don’t always need to wear a smile if your not feeling it :) ❤️
I love that explanation you gave to CC about you and Don. I believe you guys are able to coparent so well because you have both been friends and despite this change you’ve consciously determined that you want to remain friends especially for your babies. You sound at peace with the change and that’s what’s so great. Yes, it hurts like hell but you’re at peace and bravely facing what you need to.
I have been watching for ages, and I have to say, Jen, you have grown so much. I am so proud of you for the way you are chasing to share at this time, I know it will help many! Wishing you all the best - you got this!!
Jen, I know life is challenging for you right now. I just wanted to say that you are handling everything well, especially with the kids. I'm really proud of you. Thank you for sharing, you've always been an inspiration to me. You're such a beautiful person inside and out. I wish you and your family all the best!
Divorce is not an easy thing to go through and you don’t find many UA-camrs that are willing to open up about it. I appreciate your willingness to be so open during this time in your life and hopefully people can understand that and be supportive. I pray that this year brings you many blessings 😊
I admire the way you handle your parenting and relationship with Don. Your children are blessed to have you both as their parents and it sounds like they will be very happy kids growing up. It's nice to hear that you all still have plans for Disney and are trying to keep some semblance of normalcy in their lives. I think that your sharing your journey through these changes will help a lot of woman who might be going through something similar (while still maintaining your needed privacy). I'm also excited to see your presence on UA-cam has been consistent lately. You make me smile and always give me something to look forward to when you post a new video. Wishing you and your family a blessed 2020!
You look like you are glowing! You seem so confident and grounded. Proud of your strength during this difficult season. Thinking of you, Don, and the kids as you all find your footing. 💗
I’m watching this on my lunch break at work. 😂 You give off such a calm energy no matter the video you make. Something I needed in the middle of this crazy Friday!
Excellent video and completely support that you keep what you want private. You have a lot of followers that have formed a personal bond with you but you have the right to choose your content ! I agree with keeping videos of your kids private since you don't know how they will feel when they become teenagers. Wish you the best and looking forward to future videos!!
Jen, I must admit. I was totally taken with your news. I felt sad for you, your children and Don. Sometimes life can throw a spanner in the works and you have to deal with it in the best way you can. Your children are the best gift in life. They will give you the lift you need to move in a new direction. They are very fortunate to have someone like you, and Don as parents. All the best for the future. Positive vibes from me here in New Zealand.
So happy to see you doing so well during this transitional time.❤️ I just purged my holiday decor 2 days ago. I’m sure I didn’t have nearly as much as you do but it went better than I anticipated. It felt SO GOOD when I was done. It’s been on my “to do” list for at least a year and when all was said and done it only took me about 3 hours.
I have watched you for years. Which means that I have also had a chance to watch you grow. You have grown so much!! Seems like your doing great with the life changes coming your way. Wishing you the best.
Jen, You have handled this with such grace. My niece went through a divorce and did so with grace too. (She has two children) About a year after her divorce friends suggested she meet this man as a friend/practice date. Well turns out they will be getting married and it has all worked out also with extended families. You are such a good role model for showing your viewers how to cope with change with thought and intelligence. Hugs to you from Southern California..
You are just glowing, serene, beautiful. Love all of the sentiments in this video, some subtle and some overt, about how to move through life’s challenges gracefully & maturely. Your children are so blessed to have this love and example, and will just thrive.
Jennifer, I have been a longtime viewer and I rarely comment. But just know that I will always be a supporter of yours. Just know that you are always in my prayer, and I love that you are such a very kind and caring person. I still love all of your planners etc.vidoes!!!
I'm glad you are all doing well. As a divorced woman myself I know it is difficult even under the best circumstances. Hang in there. Things do get better!
I have been following you about 2 yrs... You don’t need to apologize for anything...protect your family... What a great way to explain to your daughter... My divorce & explaining to my 2 kids was not handled as well... My kids were 3 & 4...(23 yrs. ago)... Take it slow with everything...you are still going to have all kinds of emotions for awhile...take care...
I am so happy you are doing okay. I know I wouldn't be doing as well! I feel like I am strong, but with such a big life change and uncertainty it can be very easy to be overwhelmed and grief stricken. As a stay at home mom for many years (I have now worked full time for a decade) I was always baffled on how I would every support myself when we were going through marriage issues. Thankfully we did work through them, but that along with my children were the biggest worries. You seem to have a handle on both those issues. Take care!
What beautiful growth you have displayed. Last months video, you can tell that it was hard to record that life update. You look like you are doing so much better. Keep your head up you are doing great!
I’ve followed your channel for quite some time and I just wanted to let you know you are handling this situation with such grace and strength. I am married and I am still inspired by your independence and self awareness. I will continue to support you and your channel through this time of growth and change. Hang in there!
Ever since UA-cam introduced the ability to change the speed of videos, I watch almost everyone at 1.5x speed.. except you. I make a cup of coffee, sit back, relax, and enjoy the time hanging out with a friend. :)
One if my best tips is for school children. When we divorced we told our son to continue making school projects and everything to mom and dad (like undivorced kids). And that we would share. We didn’t want him to have to make that choice. That was the best decision ever!
Just wanted to say that you seem so much happier (I don't know if that is the right word?) or more yourself since all of this ordeal. Thank you for always being yourself! Praying for you and your family during this time.
Hahaha the coffee table oh goodness, great video thank you for chatting with us I always love to listen and you seem really at peace that makes me so happy for you💜🙏
Jen, you are glowing and it's showing. Only you can handle divorce with this much grace and class. I remember listening to a song on Sesame Street explaining the process of parental separation called "Family Tree Sesame Street." I never had to deal with that but the thoughtfulness of the song brought warmth to my heart.
I went through a painful divorce when my daughter was 18 months old. I was strong and so are you. Take care of yourself Jen, and the kiddos . . . Life is good. 💕👍
Jen I'm glad you are doing well if fact I think you look relieved! Good for you for being so strong. I am also glad that you are considering moving. As someone that went through this the transition is tough but if you keep an open mind for change moving could be one of the best decisions. To wake up in my own home every morning feels so amazing and the kids were excited too. All the best to you! 💗
You really seem to be taking everything in stride in dealing with the current situation. I am sure you must have had and still do have those days where you have to smile in order to keep from crying and I can only imagine what you must have felt before going public with such life changing news! In my experience in dealing with challenging life situations, when a person finds the courage to say it out loud once, it suddenly seems to get easier to talk about. I sincerely wish the best for you and your family and hope your life's journey takes you on a positive course.
You are handling this difficult life change with such class and grace. It’s obvious this is the right decision because you look so well! I laughed so hard with the giant NO and also the “think of the organizing” comment LOL. Thank you for sharing and I can’t wait to watch future vlogging and organizing content! ❤️
Jen, I wanted to say that I think it is very admirable that you and Don have taken this decision. You have been together for a long period of time and sometimes people just grow into different directions. My husband and I just had our first son and I can see how when you have two little children it can make you very aware of how you are doing in your relationship, because you end up having very little time for each other. I know many kids (now adults) who’s parents stuck together because that was the done thing and it always ended in horribly traumatic situations. Well done for choosing your mental health!
It’s crazy how I felt such a loss as you, to me, were the epitome of a happy marriage and family unit. You are my mother hen even though we’re close in age 🥰 And I thought nothingggg would change for you. That’s not to say I’m not happy for you that you’ve chosen your happiness over an unhappy marriage, it’s not healthy for anyone.. I genuinely wish you so much happiness from the bottom of my heart, and I can’t believe how unbelievable you’re handling it all, and how you’ve both approached it to the kids Was amazing! From an outside perspective it’s being managed so well and I’m so proud of you! I’ve witnessed family units getting nasty as a result of separation, myself first hand and I have to say it unfortunately has damaged my own relationship with my parents XX
Hi Jen, just wanted to pop on to tell you how amazing I think you are!! I just love your optimism and POV even on the not so goo days you always seem to put your best foot forward for you and those beautiful kiddos. Keep it up mama, you are doing fantastic 👏☺️
Thanks for sharing. You don’t have to, and I just wanted you to know it has made a difference in my perception of my self and my life. All for the better, thanks to you. Stay strong and well.
My parents divorced when I was 3 or 4. So there was no trauma in my father moving out. My father came over to visit regularly and sat down with my mother and other siblings. When I went to stay with him at vacation times he would say “does your mother let you do that?” And he would always respect my mother. My mother did the same. They were real adults who liked each other in spite of the divorce. I felt loved by each and was able to love both. I wish this for you and Don.
That's interesting. My dad moved out when I was 6 years old, and although my parents approached it in a thoughtful way, it still traumatized me completely. I blamed myself and my self esteem was totally shot. I also had major daddy issues in my 20s. In fact I STILL probably need therapy for it, haha. However my sister was 4 and didn't seem to affect her.
@@TheSeedOfChange i think you're being snotty.
It’s a whole different situation when the parents actually respect each other and know how to properly co-parent. My parents divorced when I was 7 and although they were VERY different and at time couldn’t stand each other, they respected one another and got along for me. I have a step daughter who is now 9 and when her mother and my husband broke up (never were married) she was almost 3. Her mother is very difficult, unwilling to coparent or discuss issues regarding the child with my husband and we wish so much that we could just all get all but it just won’t happen. It helps SO much when the parents get along because the child absolutely feels it and knows what’s going on
You have a beautiful way of communicating about taboo subjects and taking the ugly out of them. Truly a class act! 🥰
I cried when CC asked about where Daddy went....Your explanation Jen made me shed more tears. I am a silent viewer, got heart broken when I watched your Life Update video. You are an inspiration. Such nice people. Good to know that you and Don are doing good. God bless you guys.
About moving: "think of the organizing!!" 🤣 That's the Jen we know and love ❤️
I agree totally! I know she will inspire her viewers!
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As a longtime subscriber I feel the need to say how proud I am of you. I know that’s weird coming from a stranger haha but there is a lightness in you and a self confidence in you that shines so bright even just through the camera. I can’t begin to imagine how hard this change must be for you but I have zero doubt in my mind that all will work out and you will land on your feet and be just fine.
Long time watcher and I rarely comment but some (most are supportive) of the comments are unnecessary. Particularly about Don and Jen. Whose at fault etc. Divorce isn't black and white, it's a lot of grey. Neither party needs to go into deep detail. Remember they both agreed to part. Thank you Jen for sharing what you feel comfortable with ❤
If one puts their live on UA-cam including personal things then one has to expect for people to comment.
@@PrepperFam6408 Sure, but she was also very clear on what she would share. And absolutely no one has the right to demand that personal information from anyone if they are not willing to share. You only have the right to what they choose to post.
I've followed you for years and always had the greatest respect for your integrity and what you choose not to share. I really admire your standpoint on not sharing the details on your divorce.
Jen, it’s nobody’s business. Don’t over share. I totally agree and respect your privacy. I’ve been married 47 years and there are things I just don’t talk about. I get it. God.’s grace and blessings on you and your family. Don’t do anything too quickly. Take your time and make decisions as things are not so raw.
You seem so much happier . I love the fact that you guys are still going to Disney world 🌎 best of luck . Looking forward to see you blossom 🍋
Jen your light just keeps shining a little brighter as each video continues on. I am so proud of you, and know through this all you will continue to shine. Be well and Peace
Thank you Jen, for bringing your gentleness, kindness and positivity to our lives. I have watched you since Elle Fowler shared your profile many years ago and I must say you are my favorite person to watch. You really set an amazing example how to handle difficult times with dignity and kindness and you inspire me and many others to be better!
I really respect that you minimize the amount you share of your kids on social media. I wish y'all the best in this time of transition.
Jen, I admire how you pour your heart out, you are a very genuine honest person and it totally reflects on your words and actions. Your heart is so brave yet very compassionate, your children are so lucky and blessed to have you as their mom. When they get older they would be so proud of you. xoxo
Several of us long time viewers have commented and noticed how much more relaxed and confident you seem to be in yourself. It’s really quite tremendous. Truly like a weight had been lifted. And not just recent changes I’m talking like years back. Makes me curious what was troubling you so all this time. I know it’s personal but maybe one day you will be willing and wanting to share more. This could help so many others that may be in a similar situation. Hugs to you and glad to see you happy! 💕
Jen, I’m a long time viewer, never commented before, just needed you to know that I am SO PROUD OF YOU. You are so strong. Keep breathing. The future is so bright. Lots of love xxx
Can I say how good you look, When a decision has been made and it is the correct decision for you then a sort of peace descends,,
You appear to be very much at peace about all of this. This makes me smile. Glad to know things are going okay.
From a child of divorce, thank you for keeping the kids the main priority. My parents went through a HORRIBLE divorce when I was 4 years old (I'm 38 now) and it marked me for life. I do not communicate with my dad at all now. It was nasty, they didn't get along, and we were thrown in the middle. My dad and then stepmom would take stabs at my mom any chance they got. And, when you are a small person, these things affect you tremendously. I am very open about it now in hopes of it helping others. You are in my thoughts and prayers daily.
Well said ! I'm sorry for everyone went trough 😢 but happy for every child, which grows Up without these experiences.
The Gold Project Same experience and it does change how you look at relationships and how you interact with people in the future. My main goal in life after that experience was making sure any future children I had never had that same childhood.
The 20s question made me bawl. You are most definitely not alone. I’m 30, 12 brain surgeries in, and depression is kicking my butt. I think I’m most afraid of when I’m better, what will I do? The anticipation is killing me. My heart goes out to the person who asked.
I love you Jen, I hope I get to meet you on one of your Utah trips ♥️
hi jen! I’ve been watching your videos since 2012 when I was in high school and you’ve always been an absolute inspiration to me. Even in high school I remember thinking “i want to be more like Jen” and that hasn’t changed over the years. I so appreciate you being open in this Q&A and for sharing your life with us for so long. I wanted to let you know I’m always behind you and championing you, from Disney half marathons to having kiddos to really tough life circumstances, you are loved and prayed for often💕
Such a nice comment
You handle everything with grace and class. Thank you for setting that example. Wishing you the best possible for this situation. Love to you and the kids
I’m a long time subscriber and will admit I was totally blown away that you and Don had separated... although I’d guessed before you announced it 😔 However... the difference in your personality, shall we say, is amazing... you seem so happy and more open now which seems an anomaly considering the situation. I’ve watched you long enough to know you will share only what you are comfortable with and I think these videos will help so many people and yourself too ❤️ It’s a new chapter and something many people go through... the future is yours to do what you want 😊
LilyButterfly1000 she seems excited. Im so happy ❤️❤️
I am amazed at how you are processing this. I divorced my husband when my son was 15 months old. I can assure I wasn't this composed... even though I was the one that started the process. Kudos to you for handling it in this manner!
First, thankyou for looking at the camera. So many vloggers don’t. Second, I’m sad.....but I understand and look forward to still following you. I love how you respect your children’s feelings.
I appreciate how open and honest you are with us....on your terms. Thank you for trying to keep things amicable for the kids; as someone who grew up with divorced parents who were nasty with each other and basically used me as a "pawn" that makes things so hard on the child and I'm truly glad that your sweet kiddos will not have to face that. You will all be held in my heart for peace and smooth transitions for all the things to come.
Jen I have to say that you're looking wonderful! I was sad to hear about the break-up but we all have reasons for the things we do, they are personal and very private. I'm very glad to see you smile and talk with such confidence, it really does show that you and the kids are going to be fine, new adventures to come! Prayers and blessings for you all!
You look so strong, calm, and at peace. You are truly glowing. You’ve got this, girl!❤️
I hope you take us along on the house hunt - that would be fun.
Your kids are so lucky to have a mother like you!!!
Staying in a marriage that’s not working is more damaging then divorcing. All the best.
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YEP! My parents stayed in a loveless marriage 'for the kids' and all it did was make family life a terrible experience for every single person.
I wish you could feel my soul reaching out to hug you, and add to your incredible strength and depth of character. I am cheering you on in my prayers. You are going to thrive this year!
You are such a wonderful mother to put your children first. You have so much class to show Don the respect you are showing by not exposing your most private conversations. I hope and pray you inspire others who don't take your path. God bless you, your children and Don as you all find your new normal.
I have watched you for so many years and was just shaken when you told us about the separation. I applaud you for sharing this chapter of your life with your viewers as difficult as that is. Life isn't perfect despite what IG and UA-cam personalities put out there and I think only seeing perfect lives and homes and selfies does a disservice to young people who feel sad that they don't measure up to that. Good for you for keeping it real and I know happier times are on the horizon for all of you. Thank you for sharing whatever feels right to you.
The very most greatest gift you and Don can give your children is to be friendly and caring with one another. My parents went through a very bitter and painful divorce when I was 9 and it seriously put a distance between me and them.
You’ve changed, you’re daring, you are different in the woods.
Your vibe has changed.
So glad you reiterated the good lawyer part. It’s so important in any divorce - even the most amicable.
Just want to send you some love and say you are doing great! You are handling a major life change with grace, thoughtfulness, and care. I am glad to hear everyone is adapting well, and looking forward to vlogs and office clean out videos!
Endings, even when they are mutually arrived at and amicable, are still endings. You are so courageous to speak about it so openly when it is undoubtedly a time of deep vulnerability and uncertainty. Onward Jennifer, we are wishing good things for you. Sending peace and prayers your way.
You are one of my favorite content creators. I do pray for you & your family. Divorce is tough even when it's amicable. You truly have a lot of ”friends” that do care. Have a wonderful weekend & Happy Valentine's Day 🍫
Hi Jenn, I really love how mature you and Don are with regard to your divorce. You seem so much more at peace somehow. I also love how your children are the focus and by not exposing the children to the details of your divorce. When my parents divorced, it was less than amicable, and I do appreciate how respectful you seem to be with regard to your new season of life. I do wish you all the very, very best. With hugs and much love. xo
My mom and dad divorced when I was young like your children. My mom and dad also were always kind to each other. Never nasty to each other. It was so easy for me when they still cared about each other but couldn't live together anymore. P.S. My mom remarried and had a 50 year marriage second time around.
I am shocked, I'm a long time sub of you and Don...I always thought this would never happen, I am truly at a loss for words. Blessings to you all going forward.
I don’t believe I’ve ever commented on one of your videos, but I’ve been a follower of yours since the beginning. You certainly seem the most calm and at peace during this phase than I have ever seen you before. Hang in there. You’re doing great. Praying for all of you!
Jen you have looked so happy and glowing these last few weeks. When Momma is happy the babies are happy. CC and Donnie will be just fine. I am a retired Kindergarten teacher and kids are so resilient especially if the separation is handled respectfully and loving. Wishing you so much love, happiness, and joy in the coming years!!!!
Jen, watching you for YEARS and this is absolutely the first time that I have seen you this happy and confident despite this life change. So happy for you and your family, because when you begin to heal yourself you heal your family. Congratulations! 💕
Just from watching this video, it is so obvious that this was a great decision for you!!!! You look so happy and confident. Glad you decided to do this for you and your family!!! Much love.
You look the most relaxed and content I think I’ve seen you in a long time here. Glad you’re doing what’s right for you and your family. You can breathe now ❤️
I was so happy to hear you have a good lawyer! All the other support is so important but a great lawyer is essential.
I think the way y’all told CC was perfect. I’m going through a divorce and the beginning was rough but I’m in such a good place. Our kids are well and I do know that timing is everything. You seem to be weathering this well. I’m praying for you all.
Don’t stop sharing , your helping a lot of people going thru the same struggle , myself included , be real , be yourself and be vulnerable when your not having a good day , you don’t always need to wear a smile if your not feeling it :) ❤️
I’ve watched you for awhile Jen, and wasn’t expecting this type of video. But I’m glad you’re setting boundaries with this type of video.
I love that explanation you gave to CC about you and Don. I believe you guys are able to coparent so well because you have both been friends and despite this change you’ve consciously determined that you want to remain friends especially for your babies. You sound at peace with the change and that’s what’s so great. Yes, it hurts like hell but you’re at peace and bravely facing what you need to.
I have been watching for ages, and I have to say, Jen, you have grown so much. I am so proud of you for the way you are chasing to share at this time, I know it will help many! Wishing you all the best - you got this!!
Jen,
I know life is challenging for you right now. I just wanted to say that you are handling everything well, especially with the kids. I'm really proud of you. Thank you for sharing, you've always been an inspiration to me. You're such a beautiful person inside and out. I wish you and your family all the best!
Divorce is not an easy thing to go through and you don’t find many UA-camrs that are willing to open up about it. I appreciate your willingness to be so open during this time in your life and hopefully people can understand that and be supportive. I pray that this year brings you many blessings 😊
I admire the way you handle your parenting and relationship with Don. Your children are blessed to have you both as their parents and it sounds like they will be very happy kids growing up. It's nice to hear that you all still have plans for Disney and are trying to keep some semblance of normalcy in their lives. I think that your sharing your journey through these changes will help a lot of woman who might be going through something similar (while still maintaining your needed privacy). I'm also excited to see your presence on UA-cam has been consistent lately. You make me smile and always give me something to look forward to when you post a new video. Wishing you and your family a blessed 2020!
You look like you are glowing! You seem so confident and grounded. Proud of your strength during this difficult season. Thinking of you, Don, and the kids as you all find your footing. 💗
I’m watching this on my lunch break at work. 😂 You give off such a calm energy no matter the video you make. Something I needed in the middle of this crazy Friday!
If you like Grace and Frankie, watch Schitt’s Creek! It’s the perfect pick-me-up, I swear.
glavvy ugh I LOVE Schitt’s Creek 😭 I am so sad it’s almost over!
Anna Morris Stidham Same 😢 I don’t know what’s going to replace it for me
glavvy my sister in law loves Atypical. I’m going to try that next!
Anna Morris Stidham atypical is awesome! Im obsessed you will love it!
I love Grace and Frankie too!! I really respect the boundaries you’ve set to protect your family.
I have been watching you for a long time, and I know you are an incredibly strong woman and a wonderful mother. Follow your gut - we support you!
Excellent video and completely support that you keep what you want private. You have a lot of followers that have formed a personal bond with you but you have the right to choose your content ! I agree with keeping videos of your kids private since you don't know how they will feel when they become teenagers. Wish you the best and looking forward to future videos!!
Jen, I must admit. I was totally taken with your news. I felt sad for you, your children and Don. Sometimes life can throw a spanner in the works and you have to deal with it in the best way you can. Your children are the best gift in life. They will give you the lift you need to move in a new direction. They are very fortunate to have someone like you, and Don as parents. All the best for the future. Positive vibes from me here in New Zealand.
So happy to see you doing so well during this transitional time.❤️ I just purged my holiday decor 2 days ago. I’m sure I didn’t have nearly as much as you do but it went better than I anticipated. It felt SO GOOD when I was done. It’s been on my “to do” list for at least a year and when all was said and done it only took me about 3 hours.
My son was three years old when I divorced. He doesn’t remember any of it. Your children will be just fine. You are so brave and so genuine. 😘
I have watched you for years. Which means that I have also had a chance to watch you grow. You have grown so much!! Seems like your doing great with the life changes coming your way. Wishing you the best.
You seem so much more relaxed. Like a weight has been lifted off of your shoulders.
Jen, You have handled this with such grace. My niece went through a divorce and did so with grace too. (She has two children) About a year after her divorce friends suggested she meet this man as a friend/practice date. Well turns out they will be getting married and it has all worked out also with extended families. You are such a good role model for showing your viewers how to cope with change with thought and intelligence. Hugs to you from Southern California..
You're a strong momma. Starting a new chapter in life is always scary but people are stronger than they think.
You are just glowing, serene, beautiful. Love all of the sentiments in this video, some subtle and some overt, about how to move through life’s challenges gracefully & maturely. Your children are so blessed to have this love and example, and will just thrive.
Jennifer, I have been a longtime viewer and I rarely comment. But just know that I will always be a supporter of yours. Just know that you are always in my prayer, and I love that you are such a very kind and caring person. I still love all of your planners etc.vidoes!!!
I love Grace and Frankie too! It’s such an amazing funny show. Perfect for when you really need the distraction!
Such an inspiration - always so classy and kind, even through difficult life-changing situations! :)
You’ve got such a lovely soothing voice 😊
I'm glad you are all doing well. As a divorced woman myself I know it is difficult even under the best circumstances. Hang in there. Things do get better!
I have been following you about 2 yrs...
You don’t need to apologize for anything...protect your family...
What a great way to explain to your daughter...
My divorce & explaining to my 2 kids was not handled as well...
My kids were 3 & 4...(23 yrs. ago)...
Take it slow with everything...you are still going to have all kinds of emotions for awhile...take care...
I am so happy you are doing okay. I know I wouldn't be doing as well! I feel like I am strong, but with such a big life change and uncertainty it can be very easy to be overwhelmed and grief stricken. As a stay at home mom for many years (I have now worked full time for a decade) I was always baffled on how I would every support myself when we were going through marriage issues. Thankfully we did work through them, but that along with my children were the biggest worries. You seem to have a handle on both those issues. Take care!
I have never clicked so fast 🤣 Excited to watch. Hope all is well!
RV same here 🤗
I clicked fast too and she didn't really tell us anything..everyone wants to know why thry are getting a divorce..
Leslie Graham I think she might share one day. Once everything is settled. Then again, she might not.
What beautiful growth you have displayed. Last months video, you can tell that it was hard to record that life update. You look like you are doing so much better. Keep your head up you are doing great!
I’ve followed your channel for quite some time and I just wanted to let you know you are handling this situation with such grace and strength. I am married and I am still inspired by your independence and self awareness. I will continue to support you and your channel through this time of growth and change. Hang in there!
Ever since UA-cam introduced the ability to change the speed of videos, I watch almost everyone at 1.5x speed.. except you. I make a cup of coffee, sit back, relax, and enjoy the time hanging out with a friend. :)
One if my best tips is for school children. When we divorced we told our son to continue making school projects and everything to mom and dad (like undivorced kids). And that we would share. We didn’t want him to have to make that choice. That was the best decision ever!
😜the ‘where did you get that glass coffee table’ question made me LOL! Too funny
Just wanted to say that you seem so much happier (I don't know if that is the right word?) or more yourself since all of this ordeal. Thank you for always being yourself! Praying for you and your family during this time.
Hahaha the coffee table oh goodness, great video thank you for chatting with us I always love to listen and you seem really at peace that makes me so happy for you💜🙏
Jen, you are glowing and it's showing. Only you can handle divorce with this much grace and class. I remember listening to a song on Sesame Street explaining the process of parental separation called "Family Tree Sesame Street." I never had to deal with that but the thoughtfulness of the song brought warmth to my heart.
Jen you are a ROCKSTAR!! May God bless you and watch over you and your babies. I’m so glad you are doing so well through these challenging times. ❤️
I went through a painful divorce when my daughter was 18 months old. I was strong and so are you. Take care of yourself Jen, and the kiddos . . . Life is good. 💕👍
You’re an inspiration to me. You were through your fertility journey and now your divorce journey!!! Thank you more than you know!!
Glad to hear you are doing well Jen. Hope things work out well for you, best wishes for the future ☀️
You have such a beautiful way of speaking about everything. Glad to see you are doing well and looking forward to the organizing!!
Im totally here for this new and improved Jen.
Jen I'm glad you are doing well if fact I think you look relieved! Good for you for being so strong. I am also glad that you are considering moving. As someone that went through this the transition is tough but if you keep an open mind for change moving could be one of the best decisions. To wake up in my own home every morning feels so amazing and the kids were excited too. All the best to you! 💗
You really seem to be taking everything in stride in dealing with the current situation. I am sure you must have had and still do have those days where you have to smile in order to keep from crying and I can only imagine what you must have felt before going public with such life changing news! In my experience in dealing with challenging life situations, when a person finds the courage to say it out loud once, it suddenly seems to get easier to talk about. I sincerely wish the best for you and your family and hope your life's journey takes you on a positive course.
You are handling this difficult life change with such class and grace. It’s obvious this is the right decision because you look so well! I laughed so hard with the giant NO and also the “think of the organizing” comment LOL. Thank you for sharing and I can’t wait to watch future vlogging and organizing content! ❤️
Jen, I wanted to say that I think it is very admirable that you and Don have taken this decision. You have been together for a long period of time and sometimes people just grow into different directions. My husband and I just had our first son and I can see how when you have two little children it can make you very aware of how you are doing in your relationship, because you end up having very little time for each other. I know many kids (now adults) who’s parents stuck together because that was the done thing and it always ended in horribly traumatic situations. Well done for choosing your mental health!
It’s crazy how I felt such a loss as you, to me, were the epitome of a happy marriage and family unit. You are my mother hen even though we’re close in age 🥰 And I thought nothingggg would change for you. That’s not to say I’m not happy for you that you’ve chosen your happiness over an unhappy marriage, it’s not healthy for anyone.. I genuinely wish you so much happiness from the bottom of my heart, and I can’t believe how unbelievable you’re handling it all, and how you’ve both approached it to the kids Was amazing! From an outside perspective it’s being managed so well and I’m so proud of you! I’ve witnessed family units getting nasty as a result of separation, myself first hand and I have to say it unfortunately has damaged my own relationship with my parents XX
Hi Jen, just wanted to pop on to tell you how amazing I think you are!! I just love your optimism and POV even on the not so goo days you always seem to put your best foot forward for you and those beautiful kiddos. Keep it up mama, you are doing fantastic 👏☺️
Thanks for sharing. You don’t have to, and I just wanted you to know it has made a difference in my perception of my self and my life. All for the better, thanks to you. Stay strong and well.
I’ve been watching you for probably 6 years and I am so incredibly proud of you! You’ve come such a long way 😍