I've personally ghosted people before but at least I didn't fuck with their peace(as much lol). I had this dude ghost me then he talked to me months later and ghosted me again and then looked for me again. Fortunately, I found you here on UA-cam and learn to set boundaries. Lo Mande a la chingada. I refuse to let anyone disrespect me like that ever again.
Stacey, I watch you and I can literally see your change, I can hear your growth and evolution. I know you’ve mentioned becoming a motivational speaker- which I look forward to- and I am wondering if you’ve ever considered becoming licensed in counseling? I have a bachelors in education with a focus in human development and family relations, and I think you would love this sector of education. One theory that resonated with my own evolution is Bronfenbrenner’s ecological systems theory. If you enjoy reading on family research theory, “the ecology of human development” by Urie Bronfenbrenner is a great read.
I definitely needed this! Thank you so much for this video. My 7 year relationship made me feel I wasn’t worth it. So many things went down. I’m still healing after a year of being single. I was numb for this whole year and now I’m letting myself feel all of it.
Loved it ! What about learning to give your partner and yourself space once you move in . We tend to feel like we have to spend every minute with our partner and feel guilty when we ourselves do our thing. We need to set up a comfortable boundaries where we can do us and they can do them without feeling guilty .
Yes yes yes! I read this and would love to hear a talk on this topic. Have you already done this? I feel like as latinas the expectations are so different from our Other cultural counterparts. Sometimes we dive in not knowing how to cohabit with our partners... this happened to me and it was terrible. I met an ugly side of myself and my partner and it was a really damaging time.
Hi Stacey! Could you make a video sharing tips or ways to make ourselves feel confident/empowered in workplace environments? I love how you teach self worth and respect in relationships and I’m wondering if you can share how we can apply that to work/business relationships? Thank you for these amazing videos 💕
Lol 😂 Ive only ghosted ppl who are not nice, don’t respect my boundaries, and ppl who use the victim mentality. Pero my sister me regano lol and now I never do that bout to go apologize to a guy I ghosted. Everyday im glad I learn more to communicate by your example so thank you Stacey!♥️
This happened to me last summer, I dated a guy for 2 months and he ghosted me. I was hurt but I never reached out to him. He started dating someone right after too. 🤷🏻♀️
Oufff I loved this video soooo much!! As someone who has been ghosted and ghosted others, I really needed to watch this video. Thank you, Stacey D!! Like, for real, for real.
i was in a relationship for 8 months and all of a sudden he ghosted me, and he also started dating someone right after. I loved this video and all the advice you give, thank you for taking your time to post, i will definitely subscribe and will be looking forward for more videos
I ghosted two guys, one of them left me 300+ texts and I ignored them all 😐 the other guy made different IG accounts to try to reach me since I changed my number and I blocked him on all accounts. They didn’t hurt me at all, I was just a bitch who was scared of feelings so I did that to them. Now I’m happily married and I see that was soooo wrong of me to do. I hope the universe is nice to me and my husband don’t end up ghosting me LMAOO
I ghosted people before which is why I said yes. I’ve also grown and realized that was immature and communicating is better which is why I said, it’s not healthy. We all live and learn :)
yesss!! A guy that’s likes you will go to you ! When me and my husband were dating I drove 45 mins to him twice the first time dating The next time meeting up Even I was the only one with a car he would take the Amtrak to me every Friday and stay the weekend. Until he moved to my city and that’s when I knew he was different than the rest. 7 years strong. I would always be the one paying or driving with others 😅
🙋🏻♀️ Subscribing because ❤️🤎 your other channel. Not interested in advice on relationship been w/ hubby for 24yrs. I’ll jump in to give advice/comment on what has worked for me though! FEED THAT PLANT BEHIND YOU - LOL!
Bish this video couldn't have come at a better time! I got ghosted a few months ago and it really hurt. One day we were fine and vibing with them and then they vanished with no explanation. It was such a weird feeling that I had never experienced before. I strongly related to how you explained things ❤❤❤
Great job on the video and topic!! Life lessons at the time are painful but learning from them is what protects us and teaches us how not to repeat the past! You are wise beyond your years! Keep echándole ganas 🥰🙏
OMG ok so im not done watching the video... but I was ghosted the exact same way! I left on a girls trip for my friends bday to Louisiana... we were texting the whole way (we drove)... as soon as I got there he never replied... blocked me and everything! Not gonna lie, he ruined my trip but of course he came back a week later apologizing and I said no baby boy BYE!
Omg everything you say makes so much sense! I love you girl ❤️ you make me realize so much I wish I realized when I was younger... 😫 I wish you were around sooner!
Agreed with u Stacy! With them driving to us! My ex used to fly from Chicago 3 times a month for the weekend and would get a rental ! Para que llo no manejara . Unfortunately it didn’t work 😅 lol
So this one time I was dating this guy and we went out with his mother and she was just sooo rude to me, when they drop me off to my house his mom was like y el beso y nomas dije, "YO Noo le voy a dar nada a el" and slamed the car door and when in my house, and after that I never texted him again neither did he, until after 8 years later he sended me a friend request on facebook and of course I denied it and bloked him
i feel bad /: i ghosted a guy, but he just gave me a lot of red flags. Hes a good person but there was things that left me thinking i didnt want anything to progress
When I click off your videos lol I feel like I’m being rude , like I just cut you off and walked away lol , so I only watch if I have the time to hear you out fully lol !!!!
OMG I love these videos!!! Can you do one on dating a man who has a baby (when you dont have one). I know you did a tik tok on this, but I would love to hear more about your perspective! My boyfriend has a 2-year-old and I love her. Plus he's an amazing dad and to me that is so attractive, because I know he would be so good to our future kids.
Can you please share with us Daiting empowerment videos when Daiting men ? I need to get better with noticing red flags (face palm) Thank you Stacy I just discovered your channel and you have a lot of tips !:)
I had just gotten out of 5 year relationship and started dating again and the first guy I met invited me to a. Baile and we went to eat after he payed for everything and drove like 2 hrs to my town . And then at the end of the great date he ask me to borrow $200. Lmao I was dead😂 I was like este pendejo que !! And I just. Said I’m pretty sure you know someone else more than me to ask for money , said thank you for the date had fun and that it . After that he continue to msg me explaining why and I just smell bullshit . And ghosted him but he got another facebook and continue msg me but i just blocked him .
Do you think that maybe it could also be because they are afraid of commitment? Cause I’ve been in a situation where I have gone out with someone multiple times and then I get ghosted but they always end up coming back? Like I’m just confused as to why and I feel like they’re probably running alway from their emotions because they’re not ready for any type of commitment
NOTIFICATION GANG WYA 👀❤️😍
I love the headband and the earrings, your whole vibe 😍
I've personally ghosted people before but at least I didn't fuck with their peace(as much lol). I had this dude ghost me then he talked to me months later and ghosted me again and then looked for me again. Fortunately, I found you here on UA-cam and learn to set boundaries. Lo Mande a la chingada. I refuse to let anyone disrespect me like that ever again.
I love this Stacy! You’re teaching us on emotional inteligente and self worth. 🤍
That growing Lady Dior collection though 😍
Emotional intelligence - the ability to recognize your emotions and communicate them 🤓
Stacey, I watch you and I can literally see your change, I can hear your growth and evolution. I know you’ve mentioned becoming a motivational speaker- which I look forward to- and I am wondering if you’ve ever considered becoming licensed in counseling? I have a bachelors in education with a focus in human development and family relations, and I think you would love this sector of education. One theory that resonated with my own evolution is Bronfenbrenner’s ecological systems theory. If you enjoy reading on family research theory, “the ecology of human development” by Urie Bronfenbrenner is a great read.
I definitely needed this! Thank you so much for this video. My 7 year relationship made me feel I wasn’t worth it. So many things went down. I’m still healing after a year of being single. I was numb for this whole year and now I’m letting myself feel all of it.
Loved it ! What about learning to give your partner and yourself space once you move in . We tend to feel like we have to spend every minute with our partner and feel guilty when we ourselves do our thing. We need to set up a comfortable boundaries where we can do us and they can do them without feeling guilty .
Yes yes yes! I read this and would love to hear a talk on this topic. Have you already done this? I feel like as latinas the expectations are so different from our Other cultural counterparts. Sometimes we dive in not knowing how to cohabit with our partners... this happened to me and it was terrible. I met an ugly side of myself and my partner and it was a really damaging time.
Hi Stacey! Could you make a video sharing tips or ways to make ourselves feel confident/empowered in workplace environments? I love how you teach self worth and respect in relationships and I’m wondering if you can share how we can apply that to work/business relationships? Thank you for these amazing videos 💕
Lol 😂 Ive only ghosted ppl who are not nice, don’t respect my boundaries, and ppl who use the victim mentality. Pero my sister me regano lol and now I never do that bout to go apologize to a guy I ghosted. Everyday im glad I learn more to communicate by your example so thank you Stacey!♥️
This happened to me last summer, I dated a guy for 2 months and he ghosted me. I was hurt but I never reached out to him. He started dating someone right after too. 🤷🏻♀️
Oufff I loved this video soooo much!! As someone who has been ghosted and ghosted others, I really needed to watch this video. Thank you, Stacey D!! Like, for real, for real.
i was in a relationship for 8 months and all of a sudden he ghosted me, and he also started dating someone right after.
I loved this video and all the advice you give, thank you for taking your time to post, i will definitely subscribe and will be looking forward for more videos
I ghosted two guys, one of them left me 300+ texts and I ignored them all 😐 the other guy made different IG accounts to try to reach me since I changed my number and I blocked him on all accounts. They didn’t hurt me at all, I was just a bitch who was scared of feelings so I did that to them. Now I’m happily married and I see that was soooo wrong of me to do. I hope the universe is nice to me and my husband don’t end up ghosting me LMAOO
I started watching you a year ago and honestly I have seen so much growth from me and from you also ❤️ . Keep these videos up ☺️
I ghosted people before which is why I said yes. I’ve also grown and realized that was immature and communicating is better which is why I said, it’s not healthy. We all live and learn :)
yesss!! A guy that’s likes you will go to you ! When me and my husband were dating I drove 45 mins to him twice the first time dating The next time meeting up Even I was the only one with a car he would take the Amtrak to me every Friday and stay the weekend. Until he moved to my city and that’s when I knew he was different than the rest. 7 years strong. I would always be the one paying or driving with others 😅
Girllllll I was ghosted by my middle school crush. Then his ass TRIED comin' back talkin' bout "Sorry my phone effd up" after 2 weeks! Boy Bye!!! Lol
One random Tuesday at 12pm 😂😂 love you ❤️
🙋🏻♀️ Subscribing because ❤️🤎 your other channel. Not interested in advice on relationship been w/ hubby for 24yrs. I’ll jump in to give advice/comment on what has worked for me though! FEED THAT PLANT BEHIND YOU - LOL!
Bish this video couldn't have come at a better time! I got ghosted a few months ago and it really hurt. One day we were fine and vibing with them and then they vanished with no explanation. It was such a weird feeling that I had never experienced before. I strongly related to how you explained things ❤❤❤
I must choose between this and the podcast like why? I want to watch both! Ugh 🤦🏻♀️ life choices 🤣
Yo what podcast?
@@Luna-ky3jl i listen to the Díaz sisters new episode on Spotify and I called it a podcast
@@AdDrIaNniThA it probably is a podcast if it's just talking about a topic of the sort
Didn’t realize how much I needed this video. Thanks Stace!
Binge Watching Both of your Channels! :P
Girl you look good asf 💕 & I love these can they be longer
i love videos like this cause it feels like a real girl talk!!! i love you so much stacey!!!❤️
Great job on the video and topic!! Life lessons at the time are painful but learning from them is what protects us and teaches us how not to repeat the past! You are wise beyond your years! Keep echándole ganas 🥰🙏
OMG ok so im not done watching the video... but I was ghosted the exact same way! I left on a girls trip for my friends bday to Louisiana... we were texting the whole way (we drove)... as soon as I got there he never replied... blocked me and everything! Not gonna lie, he ruined my trip but of course he came back a week later apologizing and I said no baby boy BYE!
Its crazy i searched to find her first account and i couldn't!!
You are glowing Doll 👑💕
#stayBLESSED
Omg everything you say makes so much sense! I love you girl ❤️ you make me realize so much I wish I realized when I was younger... 😫 I wish you were around sooner!
Agreed with u Stacy! With them driving to us! My ex used to fly from Chicago 3 times a month for the weekend and would get a rental ! Para que llo no manejara . Unfortunately it didn’t work 😅 lol
i love your videos stacey 💖 you inspired me to start my channel
I miss your vlogs !! Especially with the girls and Deni
SUBBED💖☀️
Girl your bag collection is growing and glowing 💕💕💕 goals
OH NOOOO!! What happened to your elephant ear plant? D:
Good to know I wasn’t the only one thinking that 😞
Love the analogy for emotional intelligence.
What camera do you use? The quality is so good! :)
Woo hoo!!! Video!!!!
Hey Stacey. Never ghosted someone or been ghosted myself. I would just tell the person flat out what it is and be done with it. 🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤
So this one time I was dating this guy and we went out with his mother and she was just sooo rude to me, when they drop me off to my house his mom was like y el beso y nomas dije, "YO Noo le voy a dar nada a el" and slamed the car door and when in my house, and after that I never texted him again neither did he, until after 8 years later he sended me a friend request on facebook and of course I denied it and bloked him
Omg girl! They always come back 😭😭
I need mi esposo to watch this video 😂 he needs to stop putting his worth in how others perceive him. Good talk Stacey! 💜
Yes!!! You are doing so good! I'm so proud of you. ❤
i feel bad /: i ghosted a guy, but he just gave me a lot of red flags. Hes a good person but there was things that left me thinking i didnt want anything to progress
When I click off your videos lol I feel like I’m being rude , like I just cut you off and walked away lol , so I only watch if I have the time to hear you out fully lol !!!!
THANK YOU!!! I LOVE YOUR WORDS STACEY!!!!
Stacey! I need more of your videos 😭😭
Just here supporting. I cannot relate on the topic but I find it interesting.
Emotional intelligence. Thank you for this video.
OMG I love these videos!!! Can you do one on dating a man who has a baby (when you dont have one). I know you did a tik tok on this, but I would love to hear more about your perspective! My boyfriend has a 2-year-old and I love her. Plus he's an amazing dad and to me that is so attractive, because I know he would be so good to our future kids.
Can you please share with us Daiting empowerment videos when Daiting men ? I need to get better with noticing red flags (face palm) Thank you Stacy I just discovered your channel and you have a lot of tips !:)
Been there but there alot times after couple weeks it just cold I leave it there
Siempre me ayudas demasiado ❤️
A new subbing here
Thank you I love this advice ❤
I've been ghosted by friends but I've done it too. 😳
Watching while eating takis ♥️
On that note imma pick up a bag of flaming hot Cheetos on the way home haha
This really made my day
Please make a video about moving on after a break up ❤️ love your videos
I was ghosted by a roommate in 2018 lol. He was so shady tho, I'm better off without him, he ended up dating my ex girlfriend a year late like wut xD
Ok I loved the video but I need to know where you got the shelf at? Please!!
I'm loving this look 😍
just realized stacey d talks sounds like stacey detox 😂 we are cleansing our energies here!
You look beautiful!! Great video!
omg i never realized this but i’m currently being ghosted by a friend, didn’t think that was possible. it sucks but I did my part reaching out!
this is a friend from HS btw...her & I were friends for 8+ years & I haven’t heard from her since last year!
@@dianamg9640 I'm currently going through the same thing, it's so sad this happens. Hoping nothing but the best of luck & good energy to you!
everything you had to say was on point 🤍
Love this Stacey!!!! 🥰
I had just gotten out of 5 year relationship and started dating again and the first guy I met invited me to a. Baile and we went to eat after he payed for everything and drove like 2 hrs to my town . And then at the end of the great date he ask me to borrow $200. Lmao I was dead😂 I was like este pendejo que !! And I just. Said I’m pretty sure you know someone else more than me to ask for money , said thank you for the date had fun and that it . After that he continue to msg me explaining why and I just smell bullshit . And ghosted him but he got another facebook and continue msg me but i just blocked him .
Yasssss Queen
Love this beautiful ♥️
I loooove your lip color! Is it dulce de labios??
Do you think that maybe it could also be because they are afraid of commitment? Cause I’ve been in a situation where I have gone out with someone multiple times and then I get ghosted but they always end up coming back? Like I’m just confused as to why and I feel like they’re probably running alway from their emotions because they’re not ready for any type of commitment
You inspire me sm 🥺💗
I love you stacey!!!❤️
You look so beautiful!
Te mando muchas bendiciones 🙏🏻💖
You’re my favorite 🤩
Should a guy get a valentines gift? What if it’s only been 6 months dating (not gf) but I know I’m getting a gift?
If you know you’re getting one then yes. But either way I think something small but thoughtful is the way to go.