What It Feels Like To Be Married For 50 Years | Kingsley & Mildred Okonkwo and Dr. Emerson Eggrichs

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  • @chigoziriwodu7094
    @chigoziriwodu7094 9 місяців тому +19

    “She saw me trusting Christ, and then she could trust me”

  • @fabianokeke6366
    @fabianokeke6366 9 місяців тому +43

    Put plainly, if you’re not in Christ, you won’t make it in marriage👌
    Thank you for sharing Dr Emerson.
    Most young folks today don’t want Christ but want to get married.
    In my opinion, Christ is all. If you don’t find Christ in your single years, you will struggle in marriage.
    Christ cuts across every single season of life. So if you leave Him out in your teen/youth, you’d have troubles in your adult/marriage/old ages
    Thank you Pastor Kingsley for always dishing out value

  • @Vivthedocpreneur
    @Vivthedocpreneur 9 місяців тому +48

    This man's admiration, inclusion and respect for his wife?!! 😍😍 no wonder it's been 50 years ❤

    • @No-way-oneway
      @No-way-oneway 9 місяців тому

      That's a lie!! They have NOT been married 50 years. What's wrong with your eyes?!

    • @Vivthedocpreneur
      @Vivthedocpreneur 9 місяців тому +5

      @@No-way-oneway hope you know that I wasn't referring to PK & PM yea?

    • @abiolaolatoye7269
      @abiolaolatoye7269 7 місяців тому +1

      ​@@No-way-onewayeven if one had made an erroneous comment. Could you not have found a more wholesome way to communicate that??
      Lose the bitterness, get more civil in expressing yourself.
      FYI, the statement was directed to Dr Emerson and his wife. Listening/watching the video would have revealed that. Shalom

  • @AmbassadorJude
    @AmbassadorJude 9 місяців тому +4

    If you must last in this world of today when it comes to marriage, you need the holy Spirit and lots of wisdom to guide you both

  • @jessyjonas4988
    @jessyjonas4988 9 місяців тому +6

    Initiation-The essence of masculinity
    Response- The essence of femininity

  • @josephcookey7992
    @josephcookey7992 9 місяців тому +2

    When we sneeze, our kids needs to get the disease.
    My opinion of the above statement:
    Our kids will copy what they see us do/Our lives can be a model for our kids/What we put out is what they will receive and act on.

  • @11Dreams
    @11Dreams 9 місяців тому +4

    “The commitment upfront makes us ready to do marriage”.

  • @jessyjonas4988
    @jessyjonas4988 9 місяців тому +8

    Pastor Mildred
    Loving your natural element sister

  • @chiemeziemakpagu8021
    @chiemeziemakpagu8021 8 місяців тому +3

    I wonder why this hasnt gotten more views. This interview is so rich and filled with wisdom. The Okonkwos were great with their questions and good listening, and Dr Emerson did great as well. Awesome time spent

  • @folasadeayeni5452
    @folasadeayeni5452 7 місяців тому

    Wow!! this is a free counselling session. Even Pastor K and M got carried away. He's so intelligent and he understands the dynamics of marriage perfectly.
    He's got a good sense of humour also. I learnt so much from this video

  • @remithefirst
    @remithefirst 9 місяців тому +4

    See how Pastor Mildred is fine 😍

  • @IdowuObadeyi
    @IdowuObadeyi 9 місяців тому +3

    Wow! 82mins of therapeutic, humble counsel for marriages/relationships at any stage. God bless you pastor Kingsley (& pastor Mildred) for blessing the church of Jesus Christ with your work.

  • @Winifred_247
    @Winifred_247 9 місяців тому +2

    When i sneeze my children must catch the disease. "Contagious Godly Character"

  • @emmanuelkehinde2503
    @emmanuelkehinde2503 9 місяців тому +3

    Rationalized = "Rational Lies"
    Hollywood = "Holy Wood"
    "Honest Misunderstandings"
    Thank you so much Sir and Ma for sharing this. This is a rare gem! Trusting that this video will amass more views that runs into hundreds of thousands. I strongly believed it will change lives and perspectives especially in this part of the world where divorce happens almost every other day.

  • @11Dreams
    @11Dreams 9 місяців тому +2

    Make sure you live your life in a way that you have no major regrets.

  • @Nicosielove
    @Nicosielove 8 місяців тому +1

    I am currently reading the book Love and Respect by Dr Emerson Eggerich.

  • @josephcookey7992
    @josephcookey7992 9 місяців тому +1

    The days go by slowly, the years go by quickly.. This is true about life.

  • @FunmiOdedoyin
    @FunmiOdedoyin 9 місяців тому

    A woman doesn’t really want to be right, she wants to be reconciled
    Assume the misunderstanding is a genuine misunderstanding
    So good

  • @macDonalduzor
    @macDonalduzor 9 місяців тому +2

    It's the commitment upfront that enables you to figure out how to do marriage.

  • @maggienduta8617
    @maggienduta8617 9 місяців тому +2

    When you sneeze ,your kids need to catch the disease..amazing!

  • @FunmiOdedoyin
    @FunmiOdedoyin 9 місяців тому

    “This is not a complaint, it’s a compliment… she needs you” 👏🏽
    So good

  • @malingosenkunika6623
    @malingosenkunika6623 8 місяців тому

    This tune is too heavy for a light hearted conversation like this one

  • @ShaddaiandRejoice
    @ShaddaiandRejoice 9 місяців тому +13

    Wow . Am so honored to hear such great wisdom. God bless the okwonwo's and Dr Emerson

  • @ozichukwuamaka
    @ozichukwuamaka 9 місяців тому +5

    I'm overwhelmed by the much lessons I've learned in this one video.
    Thank you Pastors for all you do for God and Humanity.

  • @josephcookey7992
    @josephcookey7992 9 місяців тому

    The essence of masculinity is INITIATION and the essence of femininity is RESPONSE.

  • @TaiwoPeterOdeh
    @TaiwoPeterOdeh 9 місяців тому +11

    Wow! I read his book; Love & Respect some years back 🙏🏾 absolute blessing!!! I celebrate you Sir and Ma'am

  • @minister_awesome
    @minister_awesome 9 місяців тому +6

    I have learnt not disregard other people opinions but Instead hear them out & respect their perspective (Adaptivity)
    Powerful ❤

  • @biancaneumbo
    @biancaneumbo 9 місяців тому +4

    Absolutely love the advice Dr. gave PK and PM 💯
    Sounds like the one Jethro gave Moses 👏🏾

  • @josephadunola37
    @josephadunola37 9 місяців тому +2

    Thank you Dr Emerson, PK and PM. This is power-packed.
    I wish all believers can listen to this. Wisdom posed with honesty and very timely.
    God bless you sirs and ma 🙏 for this wonderful message, for allowing God to use you and blessing our generation. I love you
    My marriage will bring glory to God affecting the present and generations unborn, raising nations that stand tall for the gospel of Christ.

  • @macDonalduzor
    @macDonalduzor 9 місяців тому +3

    Knowledge and skill is key in marriage.

  • @josephcookey7992
    @josephcookey7992 9 місяців тому

    The commitment upfront makes the difference.
    Why should I buy the cow if I can get the milk for free?
    This is profound.

  • @maryndahangwapo354
    @maryndahangwapo354 9 місяців тому +7

    This is gold. I absolutely love it. So much wisdom and treasure

  • @oluchiaso3844
    @oluchiaso3844 9 місяців тому +3

    Listening from Rhode Island 🇺🇸. Learned so much Godly marriage/relashionship wisdom. First time hearing about Dr Emerson. Thank you Pastor K & M

  • @The_Names_of_God
    @The_Names_of_God 9 місяців тому +1

    This video is an absolute gift to marriages and intending couples

  • @josephcookey7992
    @josephcookey7992 9 місяців тому +1

    Honest misunderstanding: the results of not knowing how to decode what your partner is saying.

  • @temitopeogunnupebi8906
    @temitopeogunnupebi8906 9 місяців тому +4

    This is a great gift. Really grateful for this wisdom. It's so timely. God bless you Pst K & M for having this interview with Dr Emerson.

  • @encouragedtosparkle
    @encouragedtosparkle 9 місяців тому +4

    This is so timely, my husband and I needed to hear this, our generation needs this ... Thank you PK & PM and Dr. Eggrichs for this wisdom filled conversation. May God continue to bless your ministry 🙏😇🙌

  • @noraia2111
    @noraia2111 8 місяців тому

    Beautiful conversation. The essence of masculinity is initiation, and the essence of femininity is response. This blessed me deeply. The fact that his marriage has lasted this long despite his parents shortcomings in their marriage, says to me that regardless of where you're coming from, your marriage can work if both parties are intentional.

  • @IniWrites
    @IniWrites 9 місяців тому +2

    Amen! Thank you so much, Psts Kingsley and Mildred Okonkwo for this gift. Thank you very much, Dr. Eggerich for granting the interview and for this insightful discussion. Much love to you and your dear wife for staying together these fifty years and for doing it right.

  • @BerthilaAdejoh-sz1gv
    @BerthilaAdejoh-sz1gv 9 місяців тому +6

    This will be in archives forever. Thank you PK , PM and Dr Emerson for this was power packed,informative and so relative.
    God bless you all❤

  • @josephcookey7992
    @josephcookey7992 9 місяців тому +1

    As a parent, be the real deal.
    If you err, apologize.

  • @andrearonaldo11
    @andrearonaldo11 9 місяців тому +4

    Wow! You were in my state for this interview!! God bless both couples!!❤️🎉🙏🏾

  • @vuyokazindungane4270
    @vuyokazindungane4270 8 місяців тому

    One of the best interviews and discussions on christianity and marriage. Dr Emmerson is such a wise and knowledgeable man with a calm spirit. Thank you Pastor K Sir and Pastor M Ma for bringing us such informative sessions. It's a preparation for people like us who are in the process of getting married. You are such a blessing to us all ❤❤

  • @nanaabenawiredu-koranteng3033
    @nanaabenawiredu-koranteng3033 9 місяців тому +2

    Wow…I love all the people in this video. Lots of Wisdom in one place .

  • @88niteowl88
    @88niteowl88 9 місяців тому +4

    Phenomenal!!! Jam packed with wisdom!!! I had to come back and watch this a second time!!! ❤

  • @Its_rosychy
    @Its_rosychy 9 місяців тому +2

    Wow!........ This is amazing ❤
    I'm so honored to be watching this right now.

  • @michaeloyadeyi6281
    @michaeloyadeyi6281 9 місяців тому +1

    Is it possible not to play this music in the background it takes away from the message. It’s distracting

  • @abigailoppong-twum5051
    @abigailoppong-twum5051 9 місяців тому

    It's interesting how I thought it was a relative of Billy Graham when I saw his picture. I was quite surprised when he started mentioning his name😊. Great interview❤

  • @olamidemorolapeakinalabi5933
    @olamidemorolapeakinalabi5933 9 місяців тому

    Thank you PK and PM for giving us this opportunity to learn from Dr. Eggrichs.

  • @umezvictor
    @umezvictor 9 місяців тому

    Profound words of wisdom from Dr Emerson. God bless Pastor Kingsley and Mildred for making this available to us to learn from.

  • @Ellaceeceebee
    @Ellaceeceebee 9 місяців тому

    God's generals in the aspect of marriage and relationships! ❤

  • @ogeanazia3230
    @ogeanazia3230 9 місяців тому +2

    I love Emerson. I have attended his love and respect conference❤

  • @GHsoji
    @GHsoji 9 місяців тому

    Thanks Psts Milfred and Kingsley for doing this. ....I could see and hear more about marriage from the interview....and Following you has really helped my marriage and ministry. Kudos to you two.

  • @yewyoshodi
    @yewyoshodi 9 місяців тому

    Thanks Pastor Kingsley and Pastor Mildred. The book by Dr Emerson has blessed so many marriages and this interview will definitely bless many more marriages

  • @francisarthur2983
    @francisarthur2983 9 місяців тому

    Wooooooow!!! 50 years of Godly union. God bless you Pastor K and Dr. Emerson.

  • @loureenabuka1942
    @loureenabuka1942 6 місяців тому

    Very educative thank you so much🇰🇪🇰🇪

  • @Ayomideoyekale
    @Ayomideoyekale 9 місяців тому +3

    people have the hollywood view not the 'holy word view' of marriage.

  • @catherinealade5807
    @catherinealade5807 9 місяців тому

    Thank you for posting this awesome interview. The background music is too loud and very distracting. Please reduce the volume of the background music/sound.

  • @okaforcynthia5166
    @okaforcynthia5166 9 місяців тому +1

    I have just added to my knowledge about Marriage,. Thank you PK and PM and Dr Emerson

  • @rehemachiona
    @rehemachiona 9 місяців тому +1

    I really love the questions the Okonkwos are asking👏👏👏👏🔥 very relevant

    • @11Dreams
      @11Dreams 9 місяців тому

      I didn’t really “get” the answers though.

  • @oluwafunmilayoolutimehin9500
    @oluwafunmilayoolutimehin9500 9 місяців тому

    The book Love and Respect on my mind. That book has been of tremendous blessing t9 me and all the people I have shared it with

  • @TaleAlimi
    @TaleAlimi 9 місяців тому +3

    Such an inspiring interview!

  • @ipelengpali7644
    @ipelengpali7644 9 місяців тому

    Thank you very much 🙏 to both The Okonkwos and The Eggrichs couples for leading by example, for advocating and portraying Kingdom marriages.
    You make marriage fashionable in this year's superficial gratification.
    May The Lord keep you as you answer the call of service.
    We love you ❤❤❤

  • @FunmiOdedoyin
    @FunmiOdedoyin 9 місяців тому

    This conversation was beautiful, amazing and completely enriching!
    Thank you Pastors Kingsley and Mildred and thank you DR EMERSON!! Gosh 👏🏽

  • @pharmclare
    @pharmclare 9 місяців тому

    Amazing information. May God bless marriages and help us with the crazy cycle of marriage.

  • @ikechukwuenekwe330
    @ikechukwuenekwe330 9 місяців тому

    This content gave me fresh perspective about certain things

  • @okaformary
    @okaformary 8 місяців тому

    This really worth all the time

  • @solacecooper
    @solacecooper 9 місяців тому

    PM with the questions!! 😂😂😂 Yes!!! We love it!!
    And God bless Dr Emerson! Learnt a lot!

  • @DorisDare-Sunday
    @DorisDare-Sunday 9 місяців тому

    Humble transparency

  • @charissa_Hub
    @charissa_Hub 9 місяців тому

    Woaaaaaaaaa I actually did watched till the end
    Amennnnnnn to all of the prayers
    Thank you so much Sir for putting this out here

  • @Nisile_116
    @Nisile_116 9 місяців тому +1

    PK AND PM ♥️♥️♥️
    This was amazing 🤩
    Words fail me.

  • @davidonyekachi8167
    @davidonyekachi8167 9 місяців тому

    This is awesome.
    It's absolutely necessary for a growing couple who wants to have such a glorious marriage.
    Thank you sir PK and PM

  • @varietycollections7787
    @varietycollections7787 9 місяців тому

    This is powerful, educational, and honestly deep stuff. Real talk

  • @cynthiahoyi3925
    @cynthiahoyi3925 9 місяців тому

    What a powerful and inspiring interview. You asked all the right questions. I loved when he spoke on marriage, but I was particularly touched by what he said on parenting. Thank you so much for sharing this wisdom with us

  • @11Dreams
    @11Dreams 9 місяців тому

    PMS is a thing and the mood swings are very real but awareness helps.

  • @FunmiOdedoyin
    @FunmiOdedoyin 9 місяців тому

    Dr Emerson is hilarious as well!

  • @faithchibvongodze9616
    @faithchibvongodze9616 9 місяців тому

    A truly amazing session. So much to learn from you all. We are beneficiaries of your staying the course. May God continue to give you strength and authenticity.

  • @dionakovieobuh2099
    @dionakovieobuh2099 9 місяців тому +1

    I'm so glad I came across this video.❤

  • @fg_okeke
    @fg_okeke 9 місяців тому

    This is a gold mine.

  • @kanunkaybangura5287
    @kanunkaybangura5287 9 місяців тому

    I am super blessed. Thank you PK and PM for this interview.This knowledge I will never forget

  • @jollynansubuga7796
    @jollynansubuga7796 9 місяців тому +1

    glory be to God and, a big applause to 3 ov u.

  • @tee4ChristJ
    @tee4ChristJ 9 місяців тому

    Oooh, wow.... this was greeeeat. I watched the whole video, and it was worth it 🎉🎉.
    And to the prayers, i say aaaamen 🙏🏾.
    May God keep our marriages.

  • @agnesyalley3126
    @agnesyalley3126 9 місяців тому

    So much wisdom here! Such a blessing 🎉

  • @telemahalliday8880
    @telemahalliday8880 8 місяців тому

    This is just amazing and such a teachable moment. Thank you

  • @tryde_d
    @tryde_d 9 місяців тому

    This video is gold. Thank you ma and sirs❤❤

  • @abigailtsekpo5776
    @abigailtsekpo5776 8 місяців тому

    Very insightful video

  • @Paomelle
    @Paomelle 9 місяців тому

    What an amazing discussions. Thank you PK and PM for sitting down with Dr Emerson. Such great revelations❤❤❤❤

  • @hildasingeh2555
    @hildasingeh2555 9 місяців тому

    Great interview, I learnt so much. I wish Dr. Sarah was part of it.

    • @11Dreams
      @11Dreams 9 місяців тому

      Yes. It would have made the interview even better.

  • @phoebeSuomie
    @phoebeSuomie 9 місяців тому

    Wow... Thank you Jesus for such a knowledge. Thank you Dr.

  • @graceorahachiehusani4316
    @graceorahachiehusani4316 9 місяців тому +1

    This was worth every minute. Thank you Sir and Ma for making this happen 🙏

  • @semogbonse3782
    @semogbonse3782 9 місяців тому

    Can I get the dissertation on parenthood by Emerson! Great video.

  • @annabelsogbesan1114
    @annabelsogbesan1114 9 місяців тому

    Fabulous interview, very insightful.

  • @hugs2mama425
    @hugs2mama425 9 місяців тому +1

    Insightful conversation

  • @starmimi77
    @starmimi77 9 місяців тому

    Deeply blessed.
    Thanks for this wonderful video
    God bless you all

  • @Olivia_W
    @Olivia_W 9 місяців тому

    Watching from Grand Rapids, downtown.

  • @dokedensiuya1559
    @dokedensiuya1559 9 місяців тому

    Amazing insights. God bless you sir. Thank you PK and PM.🙏

  • @aoshantel
    @aoshantel 9 місяців тому

    Very refreshing!! Thank you PK & PM

  • @Qatmpendwa
    @Qatmpendwa 5 місяців тому

    Lovely❤❤❤❤ Thank you

  • @emmanuelledankwa5068
    @emmanuelledankwa5068 9 місяців тому +1

    So good and godly ❤

  • @lanrekupoluyi2688
    @lanrekupoluyi2688 9 місяців тому

    Thanks for sharing this great interview!