What I'm NOT Buying in 2025...and What I'm Buying Instead
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- I'm NOT buying these things in 2025! If you want to build a wardrobe that really works for you, you might want to make some decisions about what you're not buying either. I've linked what I'm wearing and the videos and blog posts I mentioned down below. ~ xxox, Kay
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I’m doing a “no-buy” year for anything new. I find the quality of almost all retailers has dropped significantly so I’m planning to shop my closet and find new, creative ways to style what I have.
I did a no buy year two years ago. It was the best thing I ever did. By the end of the year I had gotten rid of clothes I kept passing up. The next year I did a low buy year and only replaced essential items.
I'm wearing every single outfit in my closet at least once per season to take it out for a test drive.....it works! by the time I get back home, I know if I felt great or just okay.....the okay stuff goes in a donation pile
Great idea!
Yes, great idea!
Great idea, I’m going to try this too!
Excellent strategy!
I've been doing that too. I've just recently retired and I don't need business suits, formal wear, I'm getting a fresh 'I'm on holiday' look 😊😊
I’ve been diagnosed with a neurological disorder that has effected my fine motor and movement. So for me I’m not going buy pants with zippers. I never thought at 45 years old I would love elastic so much😂. Thank you Kay for all your uplifting videos.
I so agree on distressed jeans. It seems like so many companies think faded thighs are a good look. Not on me! Thanks, you’ve given me lots to think about.
When changing sizes, a good tip is to shop second hand! If you shop carefully, you can find wonderful, quality clothing in name brands that are often rarely worn. This way we can repurpose the clothing, and help the overconsumption of clothing in our country. You also don't feel guilty when you don't choose to wear it any longer because your size has changed.
I am not going to buy for my fantasy self. Stick with things that truly fit my current lifestyle.
(Melanie here) Interesting video. I guess I have a few things I've stopped buying, too. I never bought any distressed jeans or jeans with holes - it never seemed my style.
I totally agree about only buying clothes that fit your body as it is now, but I live in a rural area where there’s not many shops for women’s clothing where you can try on things. For most of my life I lived in a big city and used to live 5 minutes from a large shopping mall with Nordstrom, Macys etc. I miss being able to go and try on clothes, get bra fittings etc. I can & do order clothes online but always taking a chance as to whether the item will fit.
I totally agree about the distress and fading jeans. Good video.
Thanks so much for sharing! 😊
Judy I agree with your style favorites. My problem is that when I buy something I really like, I go out and buy more of the same. Don’t need all these clothes!!
I agree , but will buy a couple extras if it is a basic that I wear every day & is on sale .
Lovely video Kay thank you. For me it was loafers that looked lovely on other people but just were not right for me. I think it shows a maturity of mind when you can acknowledge that something is just not your style and leave it behind. I have just completed week one of the 75 challenge. Have you heard of it? Basically you challenge yourself for 75 days to do: 2 forms of exercise, 1 outside, 1 inside (mine is yoga or reformer pilates and walking), a diet (intermittent fasting for me), reading 10 pages, drinking a certain amount of water, and I am doing a no buy or low buy. Good luck with your body revamp ❤
I agree wholeheartedly, now I go and look and say to myself “ I don’t need any new clothes “ but I just admire them
Great video!This year I'm not buying clothes made in China, anything I don't absolutely love, and anything brand new if I can thrift it. Oh...and candy bars! 😆
Amen!
I lost 40+ lbs last year and dropped size from a “tight” size 12p to comfortable 6-8p. I foolishly(?) purchased a few items that fit on my way down the scale and now have a whole new pile of donations.😔 In November I removed everything from my walk-in closet and only put back what I could still wear. It was immensely gratifying to see all the empty space! In 2025 I’m looking for casual or dressier pants that are not jeans or joggers, as I’m trying to get away from wearing jeans every day and joggers have never looked great on me.
@@2CorgiMom I did the same thing.
I lost 30 pounds unintentionally and I haven’t given away all my clothes yet. I am struggling to find the best fit and styles in pants and jeans. I went from a tight 10 to a lose 6.
Ann Klein pants at Macy’s are on sale and they are well made casual pants you can dress up if you need to.
@ thanks for the great lead!
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This year I am trying to be more intentional in my spending about everything but especially clothing. I’m trying to only buy good quality clothing that fits my lifestyle. I’m also making an effort to consider what is already in my closet before I make a purchase.
That's a great plan! I'm trying to do the same. 😊
I'm not buying basics in my new SMALLER 😊 size, because I still have them from before I gained weight. Classics are timeless. I'll thrift a few reward pieces because I'm worth it ‼️😁💝
I thinned my wardrobe last year. Now I can really see what I have! I discovered this year I just don’t need as many clothes, I wasn’t really wearing them. I’ve been limiting my purchases to 3-4 new items per season. If I purchase something new , something leaves. It is difficult as there are so many beautiful things out there. Distressed jeans, barrel jeans and lady jackets just aren’t my thing. Excited to see your capsule wardrobe ideas!😊
Me too!
Yes, i did the same!! Went through my whole wardrobe (retired and have lost weight) all the work wear, out.... all the uncomfortable and high heels, out.... everything had to fit, go with at least one other outfit, with the shoes I had and I had to be able to say where I would wear it. It took me most of the day, as I tried everything on, went back over things, etc... in the end, I had 5 big boxes to donate!!! Over the next 6 months, I tried to wear everything at least once, bought a couple of new things, and did cull a couple more older things...then when the seasons changed from cold to hot weather, I went through what I kept again. Again I still got rid of a couple more things and treated myself to a couple of fresh new items. Now I have a wardrobe that's about 1/5 of what I used to have, but I live it all, no longer get depressed looking at all the stuff in there i didn't want to wear, and not being able to find what I would wear. It is liberating!!❤❤
I often buy things I like for “just in case I need it.” Not doing this. Only buying what I know I’ll wear. Today I got in the blue joggers from Athleta with the striped top you showed for Mimi Monday. OMG! I love it. Can’t wait to wear it. You show us so many nice things. Thank you for that.
I'm so happy to hear that! I love that you're making a change in your buying habits!
This has been really helpful, Kay! I am pear-shaped, so the shorter jackets look much better on me than longer (hip-length or longer) jackets or sweaters. I am not going to buy wide leg jeans - I am looking for something between slim, straight-leg jeans and wide leg jeans. I am 5'4" and wide leg jeans just aren't flattering. I agree with your views about distressed and whiskered jeans, but I need some medium--wash jeans and so many of them have those "wear marks"! I am really learning to be more selective about what I buy. Even if I really need to fill a hole in my wardrobe, the item must fit well and look good, or I won't be happy with it in the long run. You have reinforced my determination to be more selective!
It also saves on trips to the store or the post office for returns!
Wow! Right on Kay. I’m not buying another puffer jacket as I have four with two of them new. No turtle necks instead wear a scarf if cold. Wear the nice pieces I have in my closet for everyday like my beige unstructured wool coat. Change my clothes after gym workout instead of looking like I just did a workout all day. Besides sport bras are too tight for all day long. Not buying any more denim as I have everything I need in every style including corduroy in multiple colors. Yay. I’m with you Kay!
I'm so glad you enjoyed the video. It sounds like you've been thinking about this, too! 🩷
Last year, during and after losing weight, I found myself buying duplicates (in a couple of sizes) so I would still have that coordinating piece. But now I realize that new choices will come - I need to have faith in designers and stores. So I’m avoiding buying duplicates for the coming year. I love your videos, Kay! Thank you for your thoughtful, gracious, approach - I look forward to watching and being exposed to your ideas❤
Yes, I love my lady sweater, I'm short waisted and it looks just ok
Blazers are good for me. Thanks Kay😊
I think blazers are great for everyone!
I’m plan to stop buying clothes that are too big & get a few more things altered. Due to abdominal surgery about a decade ago, I stared purchasing larger sizes. I also lost 15 lbs during the pandemic. In photos I look frumpy. Thanks for the tips👍🏾❤️!
So fun! I now understand that I have the perfect shape for the lady jacket and that’s why I collect them. I’m short waisted and no defined waist!! I have that red JCrew jacket and the pink sweater jacket you modeled. It’s great to realize what works and why. Thanks for this video. I’m struggling finding the right jeans. I don’t like wide legs. I found the perfect fit in your Talbots straight leg but it had pronounced whiskering so I let it go. JCrew didn’t fit me right. I’ll keep looking.
I meant to comment at the time, but didn’t, and now you reminded me! Your video about defining your style DID rock my world 😉. It was the crossing out of the word”find” and replacing it with “define” . With find I felt like it was more a predetermined answer that I just needed to keep searching for. With define I feel like I have some input and control over that what it looks like.. It TOTALLY changed my perspective. You are amazing, girl! ❤
the pink sweater is gorgeous on you. agree with the list! I also finally got rid of clothes that just aren't comfortable, even if they technically fit me fine, some just aren't comfortable, and I am just too mature to deal with that nonsense anymore, so they were donated. Now I need to work on only buying quality items when it fills a true need.
It was neat that really,
the underlying core to your video/thinking started out by drawing a connection and giving an example about food choices.
If we connect the dots - though it was a nice, informative and fun video about clothing, style, and wise clothing purchases, it's also about drawing self boundaries in general.
I wasn't expecting that
- a double blessing today - thank you, Kay.
More self control in 2025 is a goal for me.
Always enjoy your videos 🙂
You're absolutely right. Maybe the reason I thought of sharing this video is because I've been drawing some other boundaries in my life recently...specifically in the areas of nutrition, exercise, sleep and work. Good call! 💛
You are so right about personal boundaries.
Hi, regarding jeans…Quince has a collection of jeans that are very nice, standard washes, minimal details, variety of cuts too. They look very current but classic.
Thanks for sharing! I really love Quince and their affordable clothing. They are definitely worth checking out!
@ Yes, I forgot to mention that they’re affordable . All jeans are $50, not too bad these days.
Just a quick suggestion: you always wear the prettiest lipsticks 👄! Would you list those too? Thank you.
Great video! I've cleaned my closet once but I think I'll do it again because there are some things that are nice but are not "me".
Great!
Try finding jeans that aren’t faded somewhere unless you pay a very high price. I would just like a stove pipe fit in a med to darker blue to wear out to dinner 😩😩😩😩😩😩
I agree with you. I never cared for faded and distressed jeans. Also, I find lady jackets very boxy looking. Love all your work and examples you present for us.
I have so many clothes that I have decided not to buy something just because I like it but to really think about whether I need it. I have never done that before.. thinking about other pieces that are similar I already have or not. I also try to make sure the item will go with at least 3 others in my closet and that I have the right shoes and don’t have to buy a pair just to wear with that piece. I liked your opening comments about fit and comfort. I’ve started getting rid of things that don’t fit the bill. Thanks Kay as always for your honesty!
That's so smart. I try to do that, too, but it is certainly hard. Thanks so much for sharing. 🥰
Hi Kay- I love the way you present your topics!
Hi Kay. I really enjoy watching your videos. You have a great sense of style and you make it look so easy as well. Thank you for sharing your expertise. 😊
Thank you for being here! I am so glad you enjoyed the video.
I have found my 3 style words that I have had trouble figuring out until now. I am going to buy within those style words. They are practical, sporty, and structured.
I lost 50 lbs over 2024. I didn't really start to buy new sizing until the fall and I bought my work pants with elastic in the back of the waistband and now those fit with little to no stretching of the waist line so they have transitioned with me to my new pant size. Next fall I'll add more 'tailored' pants in my new size if I need them.
That’s wonderful! Congratulations on your success. 😊 And it sounds like you navigated it with your wardrobe beautifully. Thanks so much for sharing.
Thank you Kay! I really enjoyed this video as with the others you mentioned. I never got into jeans and will give up the quest for a lady jacket that fits. Because of your series, I went through my closet at Christmas and hemmed all the midi dresses that didn’t look good on my short legged 5’4” body. No more midi’s for me unless a dressy hi-low hem for formal night on a cruise!
You really spoke to me when you mentioned the lady jacket!! I’ve tried on several in stores, and I want to like them! But I just don’t feel like me when I put them on!!
I enjoy Ann Taylor, loft, banana republic, j.crew, and gap clothing. But I often find these brands at thrift stores and online used stores and save a lot of money on quality pieces. However this year will be a very low buy year as I believe I have enough clothes for all of my different lifestyle needs. I agree with you on the lady jackets. I love how they look on others but just don’t suit me so I’ve bought and given away at least two so not doing that again!
Hello Kay! First, I love your channel and all of your great videos! I agree with everything you said regarding what you are not buying. I am 75 years old, a size 2 or 4 and weigh 109. Now I will admit my waist is a little thicker. Because I agree with you and dress classic and always have.....I hate shopping!!! I get so disgusted with how things fit and are made I usually go home empty handed!! I shop at all the same stores you do and call it a good day when I can come home with a pair of pants that fit well! Having said this.... come February I will start my hunt again! LOL! You offer such great advice, and I enjoy following you. Have a great week and I will see you in the next one! Hugs! :)
I do the same thing trying to find the "perfect" tshirt and end up buying more than I need and none are what I was hoping for. Like you said, "enough is enough." It's a good reminder.
Absolutely!
Great video Kay 🤗 I agree about the lady jackets they really don't suit me either as I'm an inverted triangle, although I've really tried to find one that does work 😢 in fact I'm giving up trying to find any blazer, they just don't work for me 😭. Instead I will be buying cardigans they do work much better and are also more comfortable😀. I wont be buying anything that needs to be dry cleaned or needs a lot of faffing about to get back in shape! Last year I found out that I'm allergic to polyester, so I've been through my wardrobe and thrown out all clothing with polyester / polyamide in, (lot's more than I thought there would be!) and I've been careful to check every clothing purchase, very time consuming and I needed a magnifying glass at times!! 🔍 It particularly blew my mind on finding polyester in jeans!!!🤯 Loved the video, let's see if we can stick to our guns going forward!!😉
Thanks for your honesty! I did question some of your choices like the stressed jeans, but you do you. For me, I would not pay good money for jeans with holes in them. So thanks for sharing.
Kay, you and I don't have the same style aesthetic but I so appreciate you sharing your thought processes. It's very helpful to me. I too have repeat pairs of those Talbots straight slim jeans but mine are curvy fit. I have multiples because they fit and it's so hard to find jeans that fit well. This year I am not going to buy any more of the tops that have giant puffy sleeves. They are everywhere here where I live in the Dallas, TX area. They are so cute but just too much for my body type...lesson learned the hard way...multiple times. :) Thanks for sharing this today.
Thanks so much for sharing your thoughts. It sounds like you've got a good grasp on what works for you and what doesn't. 😊
Kay, have you tried your lady jackets with a boot cut jean? I have struggled with them as well. My favorite jean is a slight crop with a slight width I find it so versatile in my wardrobe. 😊😊😊
Oh boy, you packed so much in one small video! I haven't made a conscious decision to stop buying "just because," but I'm going to now. I'm going to go try and figure out my fashion angles right now!
I’m not buying any more jeans that are too tight in the waist! I, too, need to lose 10. My concern in going down a size is what about the investment purchases that were supposed to last for years? Ugh!
I simply need to be a wiser shopper. Thanks for the reminders today.
I have a feeling my investment pieces will actually still fit me, only better. But if they are a little roomy I fully intend to go to a tailor and see what can be done. Thanks so much for sharing. 🩷
I'm having a "low buy" year in 2025 and only buying at most one high quality item of clothing per month. I bought a new ivory silk tank in January. I'm closing in on retirement and have enough clothes but still like to refine my personal style with a few new items.
Great video..at 73 you'd think I'd know better but I tend to buy cheap and cheerful- then quickly regret the purchase. So in 2025 I'm determined to buy less but better quality...i do believe quality shows ..
I found myself last year with 4 pairs of the same black jeggings! I don't know what whispering on jeans is? Not a term I've heard in the U.K.
Hi Kay! Thanks for your videos! I really love watching. I wonder if you would ever do some videos on your home décor style? Thanks! 🙂
Ahh, I’m really not very proficient in that area. I like what I’ve done with my home, but I tend to fix it one way and leave it that way for years and years. Hahaha!
I bought a pair of dark washed. Jeans ans wore them so much that I have started to develop whispering. What I notice is that whispering looks so different because it is exactly where it should be, no manufacturer can get it that perfect. Good luck on your weight journey. I am right there with you, already down a half size!
I totally agree with you that the lady jackets are not figure flattering! So tempting because they look good on some but absolutely make the waist disappear or blend right in with the hips.
I'm not buying much this year and I mean it this time. I love clothes and I keep buying things that I never wear or wear once and consign them. What a waste of money! I'm sick of the quality issues just like everyone else and I'm with you on buying great quality but much less. I actually find that I am more creative when I have less in my closet. I just purged a TON of items from my jewelry armoire too and that feels good. Making some big changes this year!
Thanks Kay for your informational videos! I’ve been paying attention to what past purchases aren’t serving me well, don’t look good, haven’t held up. I’m also trying as a whole to get things that will last, and suit my retired lifestyle better. I’ve purchased too many items just because they were on sale, then have a hard time finding things I have to wear with them. I need to follow your advice better about color and style choices.
Great Video, One thing I won't buy anymore is sneakers for anything other than active wear. I have a closet full of really cute low cut sneakers that I put on and take off because they' don't look or feel right, even though I wish they did. This was a major realization for me because I like them on others and I really did try! Sneakers make my already short legs look stubby. Besides, the cute ones are too flat for this 5 foot tall gal! No high heels for me, but flat is not comfortable either! Boots, comfy loafers, and sandals are good for me. Unless I see a "unicorn" of a pair of sneakers, they won't be on my 2025 shopping list!
Excellent, thought provoking video. In 2025, I will not be buying any more pullover sweaters. I’ve decided I have enough and would like to diversify into stylish separates. Thanks!😊
I loved this video and totally agree about the frustration of whiskering on jeans! I’m curvy enough and don’t need any more attention focused on my not so favorite parts!
Wonderful Video Kay! Now I need to go spend a couple of weeks in my closet!!😂 I tend to keep too much and I don’t go enough to wear it! Your video will help me scale back. I have a couple of sizes even but I am gonna get busy and provide a box or 2 for donations.Thank you & God Bless
Hello Kay, I love your channel, so informative. I am with you about lady jackets. As cute as they are on others, they make me look like a box. Also, the distressed jeans. Been there, done that. Actually, I agree with every point you made. I plan on keeping to a low buy plan this year, and instead, I’ll spend more time styling what I have, which is plenty. So keep up the good work, as I continue to refer to your channel for help.
I have a great collection of Pima cotton t shirts that are a step or more above the t shirt you find out in the department stores. They wash well, and they hold their shape. Another item that I don’t have to replace.
I need those plain white tee shirts.
If you don't mind my asking, where did you find your Pima cotton tees?
I’m retiring the end of May and one of my first projects after is cleaning out my closet. I’m not buying anything unless I love it.
I live in Australia and I only buy Australian made clothes. The quality is exceptional and they simply fit western women better with a waist and longer length. I also buy Australian made fabric when possible. There is a wonderful Viscose that is soft, washes and wears beautifully that I always look for. When I lived in the US I also tried to buy only US manufactured. I have towels that are US cotton and made in the USA that are 25 years old and still beautiful! I remember looking for the USA clothing and textile union label.
I live in the U.S. and clothes used to have the ILGWU label (International Ladies Garment Workers Union) when I was growing up and the quality was always fine - but that entity merged with a hotel employee union in 2004 and so little large-scale clothing manufacturing takes place in the U.S. now that it's pretty much a defunct organization when it comes to clothing.
@ that’s sad but we can hope it will be revived!? I kind of remember a women’s clothing union as well?
Thanks for sharing! I love hearing about those quality items that last. I am trying to do the same.
I love lady jackets! But I understand what you are saying. My hips are very slender so the lady jacket works great for me. This video was a great one to invoke thought before you buy!
Interesting how the lady jackets work for a variety of builds but not all. I am short waisted with wider hips and they work well on me.
You speak my language!You are the BEST!
Thank you for watching!😊
I am getting rid of distressed, ripped jeans, also, jeans I rolled up on the bottom, that need to be hemmed! Thanks for the encouragement!
Hi Kay and another great video! I've had a time finding jeans because for me whiskering, fraying or fading at the thighs is not flattering although it looks great on others. Glad there are so many choices and thanks for all you do! Best wishes on your weight loss journey!
Kay, I just love you ❤️. Thank you. Being real is soooooo encouraging, helpful, and kind. You are sweet and lovable. I enjoyed this video!
You are so kind. Thank you for being here!❤
Loving your hair Kay!
Excellent video. Agree, comfort is imperative. I actually thought you suited the cropped tweedy jackets!
Your explanation of why quality at our favorite stores in going downhill makes so much sense. And yes, quality matters more to me at this age than ever. I don't need as many clothes, and I do a capsule wardrobe, but all of my pieces need to be comfortable, polished and able to be used to multiple occasions. The feel of fabrics is one of the most important things to me, and I'm also finding that it is changing - and I won't buy something if it doesn't feel soft or doesn't move with my body. I'm giving up on trying to find a blazer - they are not right for my body type (short waisted) and the buttons are always in the wrong spots, and I'm also not. going to be buying anymore inexpensive cashmere. It pills quickly, is not as warm, and I could have bought one Scottish cashmere, instead of 4 of the popular brand, and it would last me the rest of my life!
@@fionafrazer8820
Sorry,I’m signed in on My Husband’s account,but thinking of Trying from a Newer line. Would you Please Elaborate on the popular brand?
@ Yes - I’m talking about Quince. Their cashmere sweaters are $50 - and yes, they are soft, but they are thin and they do pill. I understand they have a thicker version at a higher price, which I haven’t tried yet. I did buy a Charter Club one from Macys during a sale and it appears to be better quality.
Thanks so much for your transparency. Thanks a million for this video. I concur with so much of your plan for 2025. Last christmas season I cleared out my dresser and closet of MANY jeans of a variety of fashion styles. I’ve kept the ones that fit comfortably and flattering. As for the Lady Jackets. No, never. They remind me of a similar fashion from times ago. My opinion is they were not flattering then nor now. I am able to wear them as a slim and tall gal. Just don’t like them. Polished and elegant is a good choice for dressy occasions. For casual and comfort I am a jeans and flannel shirt gal. Nothing boring about that for fall and winter. Yes, I have , inadvertently, purchased duplicates. lol
Thanks again, this was fun. Blessings.😊
My intentions this year is to have a "NO BUY" year when it comes to clothes, shoes, and purses. I have a wonderful collection of clothes after spending a lot of money over the last few years. Nothing extravagant, nor did I ever go into debt. I continue to declutter items that no longer bring joy or do not fit. I agree that purchasing quality and having items that suit your lifestyle and figure are key and being comfortable and confident is of utmost importance. I do love lady sweaters. I have three. They suit my petite stature. Thank you for this video.
That's amazing! It sounds like you keep a tight wardrobe packed with intention. I love that.
Great advice and very helpful! Your comment about sometimes buying the same thing over and over really hit home. I have been in search of the perfect black pants (which I still haven't found). I think it's time for me to quit looking and say, I have enough!
Thanks for this reminder.
You’re welcome! 😊
What I have to not buy in 2025 is everything you model on your videos. Being blonde as you are and same taste in clothing I will see an outfit that looks especially nice with your coloring and think THAT would look good on me as well, lol Seriously I did have to make a decision to have self control and not think everything you show is something I need. Great, fun video. I always look forward to Wednesday .😊
Oh my gosh!!! I needed this video! I have made so many purchases on things that just weren’t me but because I saw someone else who looked great in the jeans or pants or sweaters etc and I bought them only to discover that style just didn’t work on me! So I have several things that don’t work for my personal style!
It’s amazing how we can get caught up in what other people are wearing.
This was a very timely video for me. Thanks for opening your heart. I will be making several decisions and changes this year.
Wonderful!😊
Great video Kay!!!
Glad you liked it!!
I just found your channel. Good info 😊 This year I will stop buying for the fantasy me. I work from home. I need comfortable classics. Nothing too dressy. And I’m trying to wear what I have. I’m making my way down the closet each day & when I wash & put it back, I turn the hanger backwards. In 6 months I’ll try to get rid of anything that wasn’t worn. Thanks for the inspiration
I am not buying any more black!!! I have too much of it and it deosn't suit me as well as I thought it did!! Great video!
Agree , so wearing more navy . Also , the tops that go w/ navy pants are a nice upgrade w/ jeans ( no whiskered , distressed or frayed edges !! ) .
I'm with you, Kay, on the lady jackets. I have a different body shape than you, but I just don't look good in short, boxy styles.😊
Thanks for sharing what you aren't buying and why. I do feel that you might have said that they were your things and not necessarily what others shouldn't buy. Personally I need some straight leg pants to wear with my sweaters. As much as I enjoy my wide leg pants I am so short waisted that tucking in a top isn't the best look on me unless I have a 3rd piece. And lady jackets work great on me because they are shorter so work well with those wide leg pants. For me I just need to buy less clothes! Lol!! You have a good day and thanks for reminding us that we need to be mindful of what we wear.
Absolutely this was just my list. Most of these items would still work beautifully for women with other body types or style aesthetics. Thanks for sharing!
I have an hour glass figure as well and love the lady jacket. I think it accentuates my figure more than a cardigan that lands at my hips. I do have a strong shoulder line that I think helps me pull off the lady jacket.
I’m not buying a lady jacket, Mary Jane shoes, anything with bows or unmatched stripes or plaids. I’m not buying uncomfortable or itchy clothes. I’m not buying unflattering colors. I’m not buying anything that doesn’t make me happy.
Love your videos Kay! What I am not buying this year is anything that is not my color. I am a “soft autumn “ and I am really trying to get only those colors and i refer to my colors when I shop. I am still going for classic staple pieces. I am also looking for new jeans as i have gained a few pounds and my old jeans are a bit too tight. Thanks!
It’s amazing how much more confident you can feel wearing colors that truly flatter you! 💛
I have a question. I'm wondering if linen is still going to be big?
I love the lady jackets, but I too struggle to find the right fit I really think that I needed in a petite. I feel like the ones with the collars especially swallow me. I really like that pink plaid one on you. I've heard you say that plaids are going to be in for spring and summer if you could show what kind of pads you're talking about that would be great. Thanks!
Great video! I’m not buying any more shoes! I’ve already got all I need. 😊
Thank you for a great video. Your style tips are great! I’m not buying animal prints, tops with raglan sleeves, and black tops this year 🌸
Second comment the best button shirts I have found come from With Nothing Underneath. I do plan to buy two more this year. And.. Lady Jackets do’t work for me either. I have a black and navy and never wear. I am not buying any sweaters or clothes that have dropped shoulders. Just not flattering. I prefer a more structured sweater. I am with you I love jeans with little distressing but so hard to find. My must worn pants this fall winter are some wide leg corduroys from JCrew.
I love lady jackets! But I can't find one that suits me. However, I did find a lady sweater that fits beautifully on clearance, and I am really, really enjoying it. I am trying to be content with this one item in this category. And ... I would have never found it without my daughter. She can still shop in the junior department, because she is slim and petite, and she tried this lady sweater in the dressing room. It didn't work for her, so it went in her reject pile, but I decided to give it a try and BAM! It's a winner. Maybe because it's a junior fit .... it's more fitted and stream lined. IDK. I only know it works and it makes me happy!
I like the way the "lady jacket" looks on you!
That’s a beautiful pink on you Kay.
Totally agree with you on the lady jackets. I keep buying them and they don't work for me. I am curvy hourglass and I think that's why. The hem sits on my hips and sometimes even bunches on my rear on back. ☺
Outstanding video...thank you.
Thank you for watching!😊
Great video Kay! I also am not purchasing too many of these things, especially the “jeans” you mentioned. I also have too many and am thinking of giving some away! That always feels good to do. Looking forward to seeing what’s “new” for Spring🌺🌞🌻.
Blessings,
I’m so glad you enjoyed the video. It sounds like you’ve got a similar approach! 😊
I have gone from a 12 to a 4 in the last 8 months. It has been a strange experience. But we have a wonderful place here that switches out my larger jeans for new ones that fit as we lose weight. You are correct about not buying things that you might get into in a few weeks....what if I don't? I only want things that fit me comfortably, and the same with my shoes. I loved heels but I refuse to fall off my heels and break my hip. Goodness, I just want comfort but stylish.
Love your ideas Kay,m really like Banana Republic too~
Thanks so much for watching. 😊
I love black pants & jeans & have entirely too many. I'm not buying any more in 2025. Like you I have an hour glass figure so no more lady jackets for me. Great video. Thanks ❤
Ugh, I couldn’t agree more with strategically faded jeans. The only problem is, it’s really hard to find jeans without it. I also agree with the “lady jackets” for the exact same reasons. The jacket hits in the wrong spot on the body for a lot of us plus (I know this will be a hated comment) they actually came into fashion for young women because it was a kind of twist on youth borrowing something your grandmother wore and thus making it cool because now a young person is wearing it. Similar to “mom jeans”. “Mom jeans” is actually a slam on their un-coolness but somehow suddenly hip with a young body wearing it.