K-pop Moments that make Me Uncomfortable and Upset!

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  • @nahyei
    @nahyei 2 місяці тому +87

    real for sunoo. i feel so sad for him especially in the recent "enhypen's dorm life" video where everybody is eating delicious meal while sunoo only get to eat corn!

    • @danihi1
      @danihi1 2 місяці тому +7

      Not a really good example. Sometimes u just crave one thing really bad and don’t want anything beside it 🤷‍♀️. Though he might have himself/ the company has him on a diet, but he said in that video he doesn’t rlly like rice anymore. A better example would be on that one live where they had cake and sunoo said he didn’t want any and asked the members if it was tasty, then the members insisted he gets a piece and he said I’ll just eat the strawberry

  • @jooniemoonie1531
    @jooniemoonie1531 2 місяці тому +132

    “put your hand down, you’re in freaking America” *respectfully sir- how about u shut ur mouth up*
    edit: gosh, that clip of BTS really got my blood boiled, who the hell does those paparazzi think they are, saying those words and mistreating BTS like that 😠

  • @hawtieracha
    @hawtieracha 2 місяці тому +139

    i love enhypen but when they body-shame sunoo i get so uncomfortable and it just makes me sad cause hes not even close to fat. And also liz, it breaks my heart to see her just sitting there and not even eating she must have been so hungry :(

    • @hellhelii
      @hellhelii 2 місяці тому +4

      its mostly jay and niki who r both my biases and it just breaks my heart. i feel so bad for sunoo.

    • @Jungwoninho
      @Jungwoninho 2 місяці тому +1

      They don’t do that anymore

    • @hawtieracha
      @hawtieracha 2 місяці тому +2

      @@Jungwoninho ik but its still sad they did it in the same place

    • @Jungwoninho
      @Jungwoninho 2 місяці тому +2

      @@hawtieracha agreed, but your comment makes it seems like they wake up every day and do a joke about sunoo’s weight. It’s been literally YEARS that they don’t joke with that and that sunoo made a live saying that “no one knows what happens behind the scenes, everything we need to solve, we do”. And I’m not defending, because joking with that is disgusting, but is just a fact that people makes mistakes and enhypen members are now grown ups and if they stopped joking that way, it’s obvious that they saw their mistake.

    • @hawtieracha
      @hawtieracha 2 місяці тому +1

      @@Jungwoninho okay well i didnt mean for my comment to sound like that sorry if it came out in a rude way

  • @maliam_
    @maliam_ 2 місяці тому +58

    If I could go back to BTS pre-debut days, I would send so many messages to J-Hope. If he blinked twice, twenty-five would pop up

  • @Leena_A
    @Leena_A 2 місяці тому +176

    I couldn’t watch the any of the BTS clips and also the sunoo one, it was just too sad and uncomfortable for me.
    Also Irene and jeongyeon crying was soo heartbreaking.

    • @Viaivy1
      @Viaivy1 2 місяці тому +1

      Same😢

    • @RoxanneLavender
      @RoxanneLavender 2 місяці тому +4

      Some photographer shouted at JHope to ''put your hand down, you're in freaking America!'', a bit triggered over here tbh.

  • @Nobody2060-lg2kl
    @Nobody2060-lg2kl 2 місяці тому +140

    The enha fat shaming one is real. Like how can engenes defend them. I'm sure that they(the fandom and the members) think it's normal, but it really isn't, esp when u consider that sunoo is one of the most, if not the most sensitive member of enhypen. I can't defend any of them because frankly all of them participate and no, sunoo can't call out the members in front of the camera....

    • @brennathecatlover4360
      @brennathecatlover4360 2 місяці тому +3

      U don’t even know how sunoo feels if he was upset he’s old enough to speak for himself

    • @Sunarin27
      @Sunarin27 2 місяці тому +29

      ​@@brennathecatlover4360 which still doesn't make it okay

    • @shwetapathak9274
      @shwetapathak9274 2 місяці тому +6

      There are many other clips where the members show him love and support they are just joking like every friends

    • @ladansemakabre
      @ladansemakabre 2 місяці тому +25

      @@brennathecatlover4360 you don't think he doesn't say anything bc they're on camera? i bet he just doesn't want to be a killjoy. but he definitely looks hurt and anyone would be if their "friends" constantly "joked" about their weight.

    • @dying_carat
      @dying_carat 2 місяці тому +23

      @@shwetapathak9274 jokes have their limit, and no one, including your friends, bandmates, even family have the rights to cross it, especially when it is about you

  • @Serendipityyyyy1
    @Serendipityyyyy1 2 місяці тому +69

    Enha fans always defend enha whenever someone accuses them of fat shaming . I feel really bad for sunoo he is continuously made fun of for his weight. Sunoo is my fav from enhypen 💗 niki is too arrogant and ignorant of others feeling at times

    • @Lalaliseven
      @Lalaliseven 2 місяці тому +6

      Jay as well

    • @Serendipityyyyy1
      @Serendipityyyyy1 2 місяці тому +4

      @@Lalaliseven yeah

    • @Hooneyyz
      @Hooneyyz 2 місяці тому +1

      Obviously there’s no excuse for there actions, but they where really young, leading them to be naive and there personalities are just kind of cold and they don’t know how to react to other peoples feelings. The whole situation has been resolved now so there’s no need to worry about Sunoo and the ENHYPEN members in the topic!

  • @Nsjdidj
    @Nsjdidj 2 місяці тому +82

    Fatshaming is disgustingly normal not just between fans or media but b/w idol group be it sunoo or changbin and many more , i just don't get it specially skz bcoz they've been in business more than enhypen . Like whats so funny about calling someone fat when they clearly are getting uncomfortable. This made me question there artistry as they sing about them being them and stuff , is this all fake

    • @Leena_A
      @Leena_A 2 місяці тому +3

      Exactly.

    • @JungmiKoru
      @JungmiKoru 2 місяці тому +10

      I don't have any idea of other groups cause I'm just an army, but is really this how those group body shame their own members, like being friendly and joking is fine but continuously saying something that hurt your member is wrong. Well if their fans aprove this then who am I to say my opinion but this hurt as human, like if your own group members will do it then what do you expect from haters.

    • @priyajimin-co1kr
      @priyajimin-co1kr 2 місяці тому

      @@JungmiKoru we have an example of jimin getting fatshamed by members . cuz of fatshame he got eating disorder . i m not saying that jimin just cuz of members . ofcourse company have also mocked him and fans included . but at time he needed someone to understand and what members did being ignorant and fatshaming all the time in front of camera by calling him pig . and that's how his hater started calling him pigmin and other slur . and now in present they are saying heis good looking in front of camera for what just show case .

    • @JungmiKoru
      @JungmiKoru 2 місяці тому +2

      @@priyajimin-co1kr i have been an army since 9 years never heard of members fat shaming jimin, haters more like other fandom who used to hate jimin and fat shame him. From start jimin is a cutie pie for his members like I know kook make friendly joke on his height but it was never too much to affect jimin, do you know anyone who would like to live with someone for 10+ years who have fat shame them. Why are u making fake things just because I am army and said about other groups. None of members have ever said anything about jimin weight or anything else, ok I'm sorry for saying about other groups when I'm an army, but I said it as a human nothing more but atleast don't make fake things about my boys please.

    • @Airmonke
      @Airmonke 2 місяці тому +4

      THIS like I know skz are super close and they're just playing around but its honestly so sad and uncomfortable to see them come for Changbin and literally watch his smile go from a genuinely happy smile to an uncomfortable fake smile. And let's be honest people would care more if it was a different member. Again I know for a fact that skz loves Changbin and I don't think i've seen them doing it lately so maybe they grew out of it, saw fans concerns, or maybe even just talked about it themselves.

  • @TheaVerca
    @TheaVerca 2 місяці тому +33

    It’s not just a K-pop problem. It’s a South Korea problem. Toxic hierarchy, male dominated society and racism. These exist everywhere but South Korea takes it on another level.

  • @bahngchanz
    @bahngchanz 2 місяці тому +65

    Crazy how people hate on bts for no damn reason. it’s not cause of their music,looks it’s cause they just do which is disgusting. the guy in the middle needs to get a f*cking life, it’s clear that’s it’s all just jealousy. and I agree with the other guy beside him say that having no reason is disgusting. he’s clearly racist, and the funny part is that bts couldn’t give a flying f*ck about what he’s saying or what he thinks of them. like why you hating for no reason??! just cause you can? No, that’s not how it works. you have to at-least one reason why you don’t like a person/group. also, saying that it’s china is so racist that it makes me mad. bts are also nothing absolutely nothing like sync. their music,style is nothing like sync. k-pop is literally pop but in just a different language and that’s something that people don’t understand. and the reason why we like bts/K-pop groups is not just because their very popular it’s cause we enjoy the music, the language and how damn talented they are. Like I just find it absolutely ridiculous and absurd. Like I really need an answer to why people hate bts so damn much or just K-pop in genuinely I just don’t see and understand the hate.

    • @thulasibai6136
      @thulasibai6136 2 місяці тому +3

      The worst thing is their own gender who are not koreans hating and trolling for their looks,beauty standards,shaving etc and comparing them with other celebrity men and calling themselves sigma.Also the hypergaysexualisation of maknae line.

    • @anjalina9279
      @anjalina9279 2 місяці тому

      ​@@thulasibai6136 not because how they look.. my brother hates every handsome male species.. whether they look masc or soft.. and call himself Sigma.. they're just insecure

  • @desertlinewll4724
    @desertlinewll4724 2 місяці тому +16

    If I could go back in time i would send Jhope a lot of fanletters with lots of love and make him feel happy he deserves everything...

  • @Nicor345
    @Nicor345 2 місяці тому +17

    I feel so bad for Sunoo mostly bc that happened to me with my family, they say that I was to fat and that I need to loose weight. So I started eating only one meal every day and doing exercise :(
    I still do that bc of the trauma

  • @sharonverdon4072
    @sharonverdon4072 2 місяці тому +33

    😢they deserve better they are so talented ❤to all idols especially my BTS from Melbourne Australia

  • @marcoryskyfall6382
    @marcoryskyfall6382 2 місяці тому +17

    The clips of the people disrespecting BTS are so heartbreaking to watch. Why was someone shouting "put your hand down, you are in freaking America"? They didn't do anything disrespectful, they made poses for the cameras just like every other artist there. Why treat them as such because of their nationality? No matter what, every artist should be respected and treated with humanity. If you can't do that, then ignore them and continue living your life. It's simple.

  • @princessm6832
    @princessm6832 2 місяці тому +6

    This video made me tear up esp at the enhypen body shaming sunoo part, like those are his own MEMBERS, they are supposed to care for him

  • @bleuet_ea
    @bleuet_ea 2 місяці тому +14

    Really moved for Sunoo, didn't deserves any comment of that kind. He is perfectly fit....I really don't like bullying wtf...

  • @Suxrosee
    @Suxrosee 2 місяці тому +7

    the way enhypen treated sunoo sometimes pissed me off like yeah i can be sarcastic with my friends but i never would body shame them tf

  • @keshyschronicles
    @keshyschronicles 2 місяці тому +40

    The clip of Jennie made me so sad i was so scared she was going to pass out i hope nothing like that happens again

  • @lilarose785
    @lilarose785 2 місяці тому +3

    "If you don't have a reason that's disgusting" PERIOD KING!!! The fact that the guy didn't want to say why he hated them says it ALL!!!! The silence in the room was more than enough to destroy his pride and project his insecurities. Then he tried to go into detail to 'clarify' himself, and still ended up using racist and stupid remarks. Major props to the guy to the right of him for sticking up for BTS and not dealing with his bullshit excuse.
    I personally, am not a huge fan of BTS, but it doesn't distract me from the fact that they are all talented, and deserve the recognition they get. Personally I just tend to enjoy girl group music more.
    There's a difference between not liking a band because you simply don't listen to them, or don't prefer their style of music,
    And not liking a band because they're 'too big' and especially because you're the jerk throwing them into a sadistic/racist stereotype because of their race and music genre.

    • @Lovedaze7
      @Lovedaze7 2 місяці тому

      Which interview was that can i know?

  • @Disneylover024
    @Disneylover024 2 місяці тому +11

    I wish I was a fan if BTS was earlier I would give JHope so many comments. He is my Bias.

  • @justjimin2fanfics
    @justjimin2fanfics 2 місяці тому +2

    bangtan endured a lot in their entire career. it breaks my heart everytime i reminisce the past 😔

  • @Lee_Jangjun_Wifeu_82
    @Lee_Jangjun_Wifeu_82 2 місяці тому +11

    *I DONT KNOW ABOUT OTHER ARTISTS BUT WHOEVER TALK SH-T ABOUT SUNOO ARE JUST USELESS*

  • @paulamendes9432
    @paulamendes9432 2 місяці тому +2

    AAAAAH the Tiffany one breaks my soul. For me, it's even more heartbreaking because her mother k*lled herself when she was just 12. She was a kid who had to try to understand why her mother did that to herself. I can't imagine what that must have been like for her.

  • @richbeauty877
    @richbeauty877 Місяць тому +1

    Jennie and bts always makes me cry. But the sunoo one, I lost it there! I'm so angry on them 😒

  • @rhiannn3416
    @rhiannn3416 2 місяці тому +8

    not an enhypen fan but the way they make fun of sunwoo is absolutely disgusting and toxic af. Def woll not be becoming sn enhypen fan amy time soon. What the actual fuck. Even as a joke, that is just too much.

  • @randiwilliams8360
    @randiwilliams8360 2 місяці тому +12

    This is my first time seeing that red velvet clip :(

  • @shetooprettytypeshi
    @shetooprettytypeshi 2 місяці тому +4

    I’m glad enhypen was educated.

  • @SevenAngelsss
    @SevenAngelsss 2 місяці тому +5

    I'm Army but Enhypen Bodyshaming sunoo just breaks my hearts I know they all are in one group and very close to each other but don't know why it made me uncomfortable😢 HE is all smiling but...

  • @ellislinva
    @ellislinva 2 місяці тому +1

    Dude i wasn't prepared to cry today-

  • @theodor_3907
    @theodor_3907 2 місяці тому +7

    Fatshaming sunoo was so wrong and I'm glad engene and other people called enha out for that but why can't we keep the same energy towards ALL groups who fatshame their members? I know like 5 other groups who do the same thing TO THIS DAY and I don't see nearly as much backlash as enha received 2 years ago

    • @Sonyeonstan
      @Sonyeonstan  2 місяці тому +9

      Yes, it's true. And i included SKZ doing the same to Changbin in one part and also NCT towards Haechan in another

    • @theodor_3907
      @theodor_3907 2 місяці тому +1

      @@Sonyeonstan exactly the groups that I had in mind also ateez calling that one member a pig etc.

    • @Sonyeonstan
      @Sonyeonstan  2 місяці тому +4

      @@theodor_3907 Yup, i also had that moment in a previous part

  • @Serendipityyyyy1
    @Serendipityyyyy1 2 місяці тому +7

    Liked the video even before watching the full video

  • @matchaeeeee
    @matchaeeeee 2 місяці тому +3

    I can’t watch any of the Twice ones. I started balling my eyes out. 😢

  • @ellislinva
    @ellislinva 2 місяці тому

    Dude I was not prepared to cry today

  • @Eleo-bq7
    @Eleo-bq7 2 місяці тому +3

    7:58 I hate when I see people who look me being ignorant and racist towards other races. I'm glad the other two guys spoke up but it's too normalized to let comments like that slide in my community but I'm seeing it being called out a lot more especially by younger Black people.
    2:11 This one broke my heart for her cause my grandmother passed before seeing me grow up and live my dreams too, I'm sure Jeongyeon grandmother would be very very proud of her if she saw how much she accomplished.
    10:09 I'm sure Tiffany's Mom is so proud of her for what's she's become and who she is as a person. She seem like a very strong person even after losing her mother.

  • @yrs04
    @yrs04 4 дні тому

    once when Taehyung's grandmother passed away , Blinks made fun of him and also mocked him and not only this but I saw many of the comments from blink on twitter saying "Taehyung ,why didn't you accompanied you grandma"," I will be more happy if Taehyung follows her grandma" and "why was he crying like a baby in the concert, it's just death of her grandma, it's a natural process of human cycle ''

  • @ladansemakabre
    @ladansemakabre 2 місяці тому +2

    tiffany's video is just devastating. poor girl

  • @mahamkhan6923
    @mahamkhan6923 2 місяці тому +1

    Idk why idols listen to haters they should know they perfect phsycially and mentally by self not by someone

  • @sanazamir8341
    @sanazamir8341 2 місяці тому +3

    8:02 hats of to this man for defending bts its true why would u make such racist remarks for no reason

  • @mclovinit2213
    @mclovinit2213 2 місяці тому +6

    the BTS clip :(

  • @khushbutalwar1982
    @khushbutalwar1982 2 місяці тому +3

    Hating bts when you're a hip hop fan is crazy

    • @Sonyeonstan
      @Sonyeonstan  2 місяці тому +7

      hating anyone without having a reason especially when they're artists who don't even know you and are half your age and 10x more successful is crazy

  • @diamonds_baby
    @diamonds_baby 2 місяці тому +1

    I know sunghoon and niki used to body shame sunoo but Jay??? I thought he was the best hyung!! Out of all the members only jungwon and heesung never body shamed him! I respect them so much and i respect sunoo for tolerating these. When jay kept going on i saw sunoo's face and i could see myself in the past trying so hard to smile right after they body shamed me. Lot's of love to enhypen but they used to disgust me sometimes

    • @Sonyeonstan
      @Sonyeonstan  2 місяці тому

      Nah the earthquake bit was so mean

  • @imjustherefortheks
    @imjustherefortheks 2 місяці тому +4

    1:59 Man... That was hard...
    4:13 Wendy is a fighter, no one can say otherwise...
    6:50 I don't listen to male artists, but I can imagine that the guy hating them must be an incredible artist, right? 😂😂
    8:17 Irene is THE QUEEN!!
    9:25 Man... Poor girl...

  • @minfiresmanyeah
    @minfiresmanyeah 2 місяці тому +5

    The Jennie clip looked like she had cramps or smth and was having a hard time standing 😢

  • @Viaivy1
    @Viaivy1 2 місяці тому +5

    3:19 Jennie having trouble breathing was the hardest for me too watch because you could see that physically something wasn’t right, she was trying to keep a smile on her face, but it was a little obvious something was wrong. Lisa trying to keep her company asking if she’s okay, Jisoo giving her water was so amazing because she saw something wrong. 3:47 the BTS one was very hard as well because they fact that because BTS is asian, the person who said “ Konichiwa” was just assuming their race and where they are from and because they are asian the person thinks they understand, this was very sad watching them trying to keep a smile, the guy was being stereotypical, and the “ put your and down, your in America”, that wasn’t okay. 4:52 “ he has a very similar body type as you”, that’s so sad, maybe Jay didn’t mean it but you could see that it Physically kind of upset Sunoo, Sunoo always usually smiles when he’s upset, or sad, I know Sunoo as a person and he doesn’t always visibly show signs of being sad, but sometimes he’s not so good at hiding it, 5:24 same for this one, maybe Ni-Ki didn’t mean it but, it looked like it this time physically upset Sunoo, he didn’t really laugh, while all the members did, 5:52 when Ni-ki said, it’s Kim Sunoo, it was teasing but Sunoo may have looked like he was laughing, but sometimes people have different mechanisms and reactions of showing sadness or emotions, 6:24 same for this one, it’s too many times though that he was teased about his weight and it’s a bit sad. And i don’t see Sunoo as fat, but in Korea they have specific beauty standards. 6:40 Fifty Fifty looked really tired and overworked, this makes me upset, and the idols health issues here were so heartbreaking, Sio struggles with a lot and it’s so sad, so did Aran, but oh my gosh, Saena lost a lot. 6:52 and the man hating on BTS.
    6:52 the man hating on BTS is so sad, and upsetting, I say this because first off, this guy doesn’t even have a reason and he’s saying upsetting offensive remarks, and rasict slurs, where did he get the nerve to say China from, that’s not even where they are from, this is stereotype. Even though he said Korea, I still find it disturbing. 9:32 Tiffany thanking her mother was so sad, I know how much it hurts, her story is so sad. And the last one😊.

    • @Classical-Fairy
      @Classical-Fairy 2 місяці тому +1

      u know Jennie is smoking, right? So how can she smoke if she has a breathing problem?

    • @Viaivy1
      @Viaivy1 2 місяці тому

      @@Classical-Fairy I heard she did smoke with an electronic cigarette, but I don’t know why she smokes if she has a breathing problem, I don’t know is she smokes or not.

    • @Classical-Fairy
      @Classical-Fairy 2 місяці тому +1

      @@Viaivy1 She said that she has breathing problems but she is smoking.
      believe me, she is just an attention-seeker

    • @Analou13
      @Analou13 17 днів тому

      @@Classical-Fairyshe was having a panic attack you are such a hater. an attention seeker? When has she ever tried to seek attention? Saying that was for attention is disgutsing ✋🏾💀

  • @Lovedaze7
    @Lovedaze7 2 місяці тому +1

    Can i know why were there cuts in the video??
    "bts facing racism again" and "tiffany thanking her late mother" were the parts cutted.

    • @Sonyeonstan
      @Sonyeonstan  2 місяці тому

      yes. Unfortunately those were copyrighted.

    • @Lovedaze7
      @Lovedaze7 2 місяці тому

      @@Sonyeonstan ohhh olay then can i know which podcast was it for bts facing racism again

    • @Lovedaze7
      @Lovedaze7 2 місяці тому

      @@Sonyeonstan you Indian right??(you can ignore it if you feel not to tell)

    • @Sonyeonstan
      @Sonyeonstan  Місяць тому

      I’m mixed but yes part Indian. It’s from Joe budden’s podcast

  • @Sanatizer_143
    @Sanatizer_143 2 місяці тому +1

    Didn't sunoo say that the members apologized to him (not 100% sure)

  • @Analou13
    @Analou13 17 днів тому

    3:19 this makes me mad bc there were people calling Nini dramatic like having a panic attack isnt being dramatic like atp these haters need a job 💀
    5:15 Bruh how can people even fatshame him hes not fat at all what distorted values is that?

  • @irakulkarni5445
    @irakulkarni5445 2 місяці тому +6

    Oh god jennie trying to smile through that was heartbreaking to see

  • @FrankiePacino
    @FrankiePacino 2 місяці тому +1

    what's the first song u used?

  • @starel11
    @starel11 2 місяці тому +1

    How sad

  • @Hooneyyz
    @Hooneyyz 2 місяці тому

    Obviously there’s no excuse for there actions, but Enhypen where really young, leading them to be naive and there personalities are just kind of cold and they don’t know how to react to other peoples feelings. The whole situation has been resolved now so there’s no need to worry about Sunoo and the ENHYPEN members in the topic!

  • @Serendipityyyyy1
    @Serendipityyyyy1 2 місяці тому +3

    First😂

  • @bourjoism3213
    @bourjoism3213 2 місяці тому +1

    Why not focus on good moments???? There are plenty..or its just for show!?

    • @Sonyeonstan
      @Sonyeonstan  2 місяці тому +5

      Here are some moments of K-pop idols standing up for themselves-
      ua-cam.com/video/tgTvKjZOjMQ/v-deo.html,

    • @roline.c
      @roline.c 2 місяці тому +11

      Just because there are good moments doesn't mean you should ignore the bad ones