Healing after a Toxic Relationship: A Journey to Self - Love & Inner Peace ft WEST KISS HAIR
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- Опубліковано 10 чер 2023
- A lot of people find themselves in toxic relationships at some point in their lives. If you're hurting after a toxic relationship, don’t give up! I’m here to help you on your journey to self-love and inner peace.
In this video, I’m sharing with you my story of how I went from being in a toxic relationship to living a life of self-love and inner peace. I’ll walk you through the steps I took, and explain why it was so important for me to find my way out of the toxic relationship. If you're feeling stuck after a toxic relationship, listen to this video and I guarantee you'll find a way to heal yourself!
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Now this is how you make people watch a hair video!!!! I don't watch hair videos anymore cause its usually just me sbwling hair I can't afford but it's nice to get something out of it. Thanks Thandi
I’m glad you love this new take on hair content
Same Asisipho, I hardly watch hair videos mara this one? I did. 🎉
Same hey ❤
I also dnt watch hair videos but this one I enjoyed the way you went about it.
Same here. I don’t watch hair videos but know I’m getting something out of it definitely got me watching
I just came out a horrible 10-year relationship. He was so controlling; he didn't want me to spend time with my family & friends but wanted me to spend time with his family that didn't like me at all. He didn't want me to achieve anything good for myself he always put me down when I wanted to do new things. He was just so mean he would tell me he loves me, but I need to lose weight so he can marry me & that is why he cheats on me. It was just so toxic for me & my daughter. I had to look for a new place, because he would come to my place unannounced to check who I'm with. I'm now healing & raising my daughter & I'm so much at peace, happy & free. Thank you for this video it really is such an eye opener to most women who are going through such relationships! 💓🙏
I ended my 6 year toxic relationship 4months ago...... it was painful, I always thought I was crazy.... The Gaslighting,The Projection, The silent treatment and the Manipulation.....😢😢 Thanks Thandi this very much helpful...
Yes, all of this!
I’m glad you healed from this my love❤
Also, the thing with healing is YOU HAVE TO WANT TO HEAL. It's good to have a support system, but also work on your mental/emotional strength - find ways to handle the triggers better. Eventually, they won't set you back as easily/badly. It's not overnight, be patient with yourself, but do work on it...don't just sit in it.
The worst part is when your family and friends think you are the problem because abusive partners makes you have anger issues and I hated seeing happy couples
Yes the anger you exert towards your family
The hair 🔥.
Definitely the abusers love telling the story first so they can claim to be a victim 😩
The accuracy mtakabawo 😢
I never watch hair videos because I have dreadlocks but you talking about toxic relationships is what brought me here.
Narcissist do that, they damage your reputation and your self esteem at the same time. By the time you notice the damage is extensive.
Huh Tha, You don't know how i needed this, my ex treated me like i was a nobody, garbage, and if i had no self-esteem, i would've been broken. Am thankful to God for giving me the strength to walk away. Am still in the healing process and i must admit it has never been easy but God is faithful. Thank you for sharing your experience.
A pleasure
Who is cutting onions! 😢 you truly did not deserve all that babe. Proud of you for choosing yourself and Choosing to love yourself. I’m on a similar journey, I’ve completely neglected myself but it’s time I reclaim my power ❤
You can get your power back ❤️
Thank you Thandi... I won't lie. I didn't see that guy wasn't good for u. Stay strong in staying away from him... Toxic ppl are also emotionally abusive, even when one is out of the relationship
Am happy that you are healing and thank you for sharing your story with us. 3 years ago I prayed to God to show me what type of man my then boyfriend was...long story short my heart was broken, he was not what he made himself out to be. I thank God for saving me!
Amen to that girl 🙌🏾
Sans i got so emotional while watching this, I've been in a similar situation. I was walking on egg shells everyday, he hated that I have confidence to a point that he beat me up and locked me in his house for three days only because I uploaded my picture on my status and wrote ' I am such a beautiful hun', He lost it and said I want amadoda. Thank God I left the relationship and thats when i leant about narcissists
So glad you got out of that safely ❤️
Wow! I respect your courage to leave. You didn't think about what people will say and that I why you're not a bitter person. Thank you for opening up to us TG
I needed this 🥺
Thank you for this❤️
Thank you for sharing your story ❤️
Thank you mama needed to hear this❤
Girllll that hair is giving 🥰
Gosh! That hair is perfect!
I'm happy you are healed ❤
Needed to hear this.. Thanks TG Gang for the video❤
So glad you got out and forced your way into healing❤
The hair looks good on you. I’m sorry that you had to go through that. I am so happy for your healing. Lots of love ❤
The hair looks so nice love it..and thanks for sharing your story with us ❤🎉
So happy for your healing mammi. ❤️
Thank you for this sissy..Wishing you all the best ❤❤
I really enjoyed this hair video, love the different approach♥️
Thank you for sharing your story♥️
I’ve been in toxic relationships both with friends and romantically. I think as women we are very giving in nature, so those “red flags” don’t show up initially because we love those people. For me, even when I started seeing the signs of emotional abuse, I didn’t leave because “what am I going to do without this person in my life?” I’m an introverted, socially anxious person so it takes me months to warm up to people, so when I get attached, I’m afraid of losing them because I have to start over. After a while, I realised I had built bonds over my fear of being alone rather than genuine connections and it really got me into a lot of emotional trouble. For anyone going through what Thandi is speaking about, working on building your confidence really helps after the fact. That way, you know exactly what you want and don’t want, and can assert that confidently without feeling bad. That way, you waste less time. And it’s honestly okay to go through these downs, because what’s life without a good story? How you deal with it is what matters the most because you come out so much better than you were going in🫶🏽❤️
I couldn’t have said it better. True we hold on because of the fear of loosing someone.
Having gone through this is giving flash bcks but I'm glad I left Nd I'm still navigating life alone since the year started
So sorry you had to go through that but I really am happy that you Healed ❤
Thank you cc ❤
You look beautiful, love your hair ❤❤
Love the hair kesana 😍
Thank you for opening up and actually encouraging us to be our best selves🥺❤️ I love the hair on you🔥🔥
As a subscriber there is a level of respect one must maintain and boundaries that mustn’t be crossed,I remember watching your vlogs then and noticing a lot of change 🥺🥺that really hurt me I don’t wanna lie and I felt like you were not the Thandi I knew so I just stopped watching your vlogs and when you broke up I came back 🤦🏿♀️I didn’t want to make funny comments and be a mean girl I just gave you space and for me not to cringe every time I had to watch your videos 💔I came back nje ngo mqolo🤣(don’t know if I said it right)I for one I am happy you chose yourself,you loved yourself enough to see that you’re losing yourself and it wasn’t worth it 🫂brace yourself and I am proud of you Thandi my girl(not me calling you my girl time I am 23 years old🤣)😍☺️
I know exactly what you mean🫣 I also came back as soon as she got better 🫂🫂
So true... it's felt/shows even through the lense 😢😢😢 also took a break cause it was heavy to watch. Sending you love and hugs Thandz❤🤗
Same girl, I stopped watching and was so hurt because I loved her content so much.
This lace is it! The melt? In love ❤
Thank you for the words,I feel motivated ❤
I'm happy you have healed
I can relate to this
Sorry my gal its so sad that you going through but am glad that you are healed❤❤❤
May your next mjolo lead to marriage ❤ love will locate you
Thank you
The hair 👌🔥 thanks for sharing Ur story Tee❤️😍.
Ooohhh Thandi
Thank you ❤
Present Ma’am 🙋🏽♀️
Thandi you are just classy 💯🙌🏾, sorry you had to go through that, glad you in a better space & you now stronger. Love love the hair 🔥.
I know that type of situation i was once there..im so happy that u still as good as ever thank you so much for your advise 😍🌺
I needed to hear this so that I'm validated that I'm not going crazy😭the grieving part is always so hard but we get there
You’ve nailed it Thandi 🎉
This hair is perfect on you, love that its clueless. So happy that you have healed and moved on Thandi, thank you for sharing your story❤
I needed this ❤️
Thank you same thing happened to me .. And im just starting my healing phase.
Thanks for this talk though I’m not about hair, so the conversation kept me going😊
Short and informative, I love it ❤ The hair is really convenient for someone like me with two left hands😂
Now I haven't been here in a long time I'm so glad I did for myself today such interesting pointers and quite informative
Thank you so much for this talk babes. I was in a very toxic relationship for 10 years it took me that long to see it, but I eventually saw it. Mind you, I was now lobolad and have 2 princesses. Had to make the hardest decision to get out of that relationship. What was painful was that he knew I had on one to turn to have lost both my parents. But I took the decision I left I have forgiven myself and I have healed. We are doing ok my princess are now teenagers love them so much.
So happy to hear this, and I definitely think your story gives someone watching who’s afraid to comment hear or to speak on what their going through faith and hope ❤️
@Thandi Gama true love, we need to talk as woman. One thing that kills us is this bazothini abantu. As I am a happy free spirit return soldier. You know my younger sister said, "What will you tell the uncle now that you are a return soldier. I said my happiness comes first
Return soldier= Warrior that fought& returned safely to tell the tale💪💪 you are more than that wicked name ,you are alive & happy with your kids ❤❤
@Sindisiwe Njinji thanks love 😘 ❤️
@@SindisiweNjinji Amen to "Return soldier= Warrior that fought& returned safely to tell the tale" ❤❤
Thank you for sharing, you are an inspiration because we still find girls in toxic relationship, maybe when they see this volg
Maybe they can dump that guy ❤❤
Woow the wig is too nice. Thanks for sharing your healing journey...💛
I'm here first, plz dnt skip ads 💯💯💯
the hair closure is fire...
Thank you sooomuch for sharing that.i really enjoyed the hair vedio.i personally will never again share my previous experience with another man because it's like they just set out to do the same thing if not worse😢but that is me. Over all I really enjoyed the video 🥰🥰🥰🥰
This is so true...many of us do not heal and just jump into new situations. Spend sometime with yourself and reflect after wracking relation
Hei love what makes me happy is the fact that you're healed and thanks for sharing ❤️🌹🌹🌹
I picked up your low energy from the voice over videos. Glad you can talk about it to heal and move on.❤
The hair ❤❤❤
You are so wise and i really love your aura....you are genuine.....
Thank you ❤️
so sad that u had to go through this Thandi im glad you have found healing ❤
Thank you
Healing really is such a journey
💯 True my luv
Thank you Thandi, this was really helpful and assuring that it's okay to make a mistake when it comes to love, forgiving yourself it's really hard but everyday we try one step at time
Thank you
I can’t get over this beauty yooooo umhle I love you
Thank you so much ❤️
I am currently in my healing journey from a 5year toxi relationship😢and no one could have prepared me for this one, thank you for the video❤
A pleasure ❤️
After healing and forgiving yourself, you'll be amazed how happy you'll be. Wishing you all the best in your healing journey. Don't forget to invite God to carry 🙏 ❤️
@@jabulilengomane699 I am in tears I needed this message God is so faithful, thank you so much I appreciate this message so much, may God bless you and your beautiful heart
@Yakha Mabala am glad I could help love stay blessed 🙌💕
I also don't watch hair videos but I loved this story telling take
The loreal steam pod and THIS hair is a MuST, thanks again Thandi ❤❤❤
A pleasure
It takes a lot for a person to recognise that and also admit and acknowledge the toxicity in the relationship ❤ great video Thandi ❤❤
Thank you
Thank u so much for this video I have been doing research on this topic and how I have been feeling its been 6 months since the relationship ended I am 20 and his 29 based on research he was grooming me, now I am learning to love myself and not stay in this state of loss so its a long story but this is what I am comfortable sharing 😊
Glad you on your journey to healing ❤️
This hair is everything 😍😍😍😍 I don't like weaves but this one I want🤞.
You look so beautiful 😍
Thank you so much
My sweery❤️❤️❤️
Do you see how much of an all rounder you are?…there’s just so much more that God has invested in you through all your life experiences❤️thank you for opening up and sharing this🥰
I just love you so much
Thank you babe ❤️
Been in that situation for 3 years and last year I broke down. Thank God for my support otherwise I would not be here, typing this comment
So glad ❤️
I appreciate your creativity! You just made me watch a hair video lol 😆 I never watch those cos I’m not even a weave person! Well done Thandi ❤
So glad you were able to see things clearly and heal.
Hope you meet an amazing person, who compliments and embraces you as you are and as you evolve❤❤
Thank you
Same here ! I waited until they broke up and I came back .
Hello Bestie, firstly I am so sorry been away for so long and the only thing I could do was to download your videos and watch them when I'm free but I am now going to let them play behind as I work just so I can pour back into your cup. Thank you for such a beautiful family you have created and for always being yourself and consistent. Every video will play without skipping any adds today. I love and appreciate you.❤❤💐
Thank you so much
Thank u for the chat, Thandi. The hair ke my diye❤❤❤❤❤
You are kind. You are beautiful. You are important. Remember that ❤
✔ Liked ✔Watched Ads. Thank you for sharing 🎀
You said that 👏
The girl❤ Yoh hai💔 I am really sorry you had to go through that, being in a toxic relationship can really damage a person! I remember having to question myself if I am beautiful or not, having to think that he is cheating because I am ugly yoh being constantly body-shamed yhu which really took a toll on me mentally. I am in a better place now☺
Thandi looks so perfect here. If there has ever been a moment which captures her true beauty this should be it cos flawless
Thank you
Hi mama we love u so much ❤❤❤
You are beautiful. Love the hair.❤❤
Thank you so much ❤️
So sorry you had to go through that Thandi. It’s hard forgiving someone you has hurt you, currently in the process of forgiving someone who really hurt and wronged me.
The hair, gorgeous! ❤❤
Thank you ❤️
Forgiveness heals love and will be amazed by the power of forgiveness does in one's life. Just trust the process 🙏
I was in one 2 years ago, I put an end 3 months into it😁👍💪
Notification gang ❤❤❤
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Thank you for opening up to us, encouraging us to be the best version of ourselves.❤❤❤ The hair is giving ke sana ❤❤
Always a pleasure
Nice hair ❤❤❤
Sila inside in the house of TG gang gang ❤❤❤
This hair looks lovely on you Thandi
Thank you
Oh my Thandi, Im so sorry you had to go through this. Glad you're at a place where you can finally open up and speak on it, you might be helping another lady who's not aware that they are in a toxic relationship. Kudos to you for leaving.
That person is a disgusting human being. Using the medication effects against you? Im so sorry you had to go through that.
You look beautiful 😍
Firstly You Look Amazing(as per usual)
That hair🥵...That Hair On YOU😍🥵💥👌🏽Wow...
Im so sorry you went through such...You are a conqueror...You are amazing...Thank You for sharing and just those tips for some of us that might be going through such or maybe seeing the signs
God bless...To More Love, Happiness and Peace
Thank you ❤️
I'm screeeeaaming ,you replied🙈😅...🥰🥺😭😅😂❤❤You're most welcome Thandi
Beautiful inside out❤️❤️❤️thank you for sharing 🙏