Another View - Interracial Marriage

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  • Опубліковано 26 жов 2024

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  • @paulroberts7767
    @paulroberts7767 4 місяці тому +3

    This is so well done. The interviewer, the responses. Lovely. Thank you.

  • @AnaBadillo-i1s
    @AnaBadillo-i1s 5 місяців тому +2

    I thoroughly appreciate your interview, questions were honest but appropriate. In a perfect world, color shouldn’t matter. I’m an American born mexican woman taught to stay within my culture but my marriage to a Mexican man didn’t survive. I researched my ancestry and found that my family has African and European ancestry. I’m happy that these racial attitudes are continually changing in America and around the world. God has blessed us with the ability to love one another.

  • @godschild4988
    @godschild4988 3 роки тому +5

    I Loved This Interview. Keep Up The Great Work & The Comments Also.💕👍💕👍

  • @SMinor-wn3mp
    @SMinor-wn3mp 8 років тому +38

    I feel like people only touch on interracial relationships that is about Caucasian and African American. its always the biggest deal. what about Caucasian and Chinese or African American and Mexican what about India and Porto Rican. those are interracial relationships as well. I'm sure you have Chinese people that disapprove of their son or daughter dating someone who is Caucasian or Mexican, they don't like it either, its not only a debate that should only be talked about between black and white.

    • @hoodoowarrior7261
      @hoodoowarrior7261 8 років тому +4

      What you said is how you know its something suspect about it all

    • @stanleypowell2603
      @stanleypowell2603 6 років тому

      Agreed

    • @bustybrownnips3148
      @bustybrownnips3148 5 років тому +5

      😂😂😂 Other Races Dont Matter Fufu,😂 People have a Problem with it Because White Hates Black And Blacks Hate White PERIOD. LOLLLL Have you Ever Read A REAL BLACK History Book Before???????? My Husband is A Black Man That treats Me like A Queen🏆 It Does Something for The Culture, You know... Examples, Its About Setting Examples For the Race also the Children. It Also Looks 100xs Better. Growing up I would Always Hear my Father tell my 2 brothers including Myself Not to Bring An White person Into The Family Because you Would Pitty His and Our Worth As A Race.

    • @respjames590
      @respjames590 4 роки тому

      You're right.

    • @Juliaflo
      @Juliaflo 4 роки тому +2

      Obviously, someone never heard of 'South Pacific' or 'West Side Story'.

  • @similik101
    @similik101 12 років тому +6

    the black woman is so eloquent. i love it. she's honest too. no sugarcoating.

  • @michaelbelt8768
    @michaelbelt8768 4 роки тому +5

    My family has been mixed since the early 1900's. My paternal grandfather had married a mixed race woman, she was mixed with Iroqious Native Americans and AA from near the Canadian border. My father was born in 1931 and my mother was born in 1933 as a immigrant from Jamaica. I showed up in 1957 and had 20 years in the military, the 6th of 7 consecutive generations in uniform. I have 3 mixed children, 8 grandchildren and one ex wife. My oldest son adopted a a beautiful young lady with dark blonde hair. In my interviews with the girls she and her equally beautiful, velvety brown sisters. these girls just don't care about a person's color they care about character and completely dismiss race. This is the future. My 2nd oldest granddaughter is dating a little brown boy with a Filipino mother. Our family is how America looks.

  • @chrissyb2473
    @chrissyb2473 9 років тому +14

    Jerry Gary... THAT'S THE BEST NAME EVER
    his parents win at life hands down

  • @1mm-onemillionmillionaires414
    @1mm-onemillionmillionaires414 6 років тому +9

    the HOST 1000 times lovable i swear to GOD highly professional.....

  • @governorofthedeathstar1680
    @governorofthedeathstar1680 8 років тому +7

    What a wonderful couple, Jerry and Greta. I wish them both a long and blessed life.

  • @LRGJRG
    @LRGJRG 12 років тому +12

    Love IS love regardless of skin color:)

    • @Teho231
      @Teho231 Рік тому +1

      Love is love and it is something of a mystery sometimes. God bless their marriages.

  • @Glad2BGolden
    @Glad2BGolden 14 років тому +3

    Great interview, wish it were longer.

  • @susceotible
    @susceotible 11 років тому +9

    Honestly I find interracial marriages as sweet. I like people with different colours being a couple. I hope I will get one too someday

  • @PackCorey
    @PackCorey 11 років тому +2

    I once met this white girl in Texas a few years back and Damn she was fine! She looked like cross between Linda Blair (In the 80s) and Anna Paquin. She had it all-Pretty face, great body, nice legs, pretty feet, great personality, multi-talented, a gifted singer and a good cook. We dated for 19 months and she was good to me. she even wanted marry me and have my kids but I wasn't ready to make that commitment and I blew it. She got on that plane to San Francisco and never looked back.

  • @robertovaladez
    @robertovaladez 14 років тому +3

    I have been married for almost 15 years to a beautiful black woman and we have 2 sons. Love is color blind and I am of Mexican descent.

  • @IamOne153340
    @IamOne153340 11 років тому +11

    That black woman don't want her son to bring home a white woman. Talk about being a hypocrite.

    • @khalilwhispers2218
      @khalilwhispers2218 4 роки тому

      Not what she said. She doesn't want him putting white women on a pedestal as if they are the only women worthy of dating.

    • @IamOne153340
      @IamOne153340 4 роки тому +2

      @@khalilwhispers2218 If he likes white women then so be it; the parent can't legislate that. Noticed she didn't mention anything about dating black women, exclusively.

    • @khalilwhispers2218
      @khalilwhispers2218 4 роки тому +2

      @@IamOne153340 Why would she? Black women are viewed as the least desirable group in America. An affinity for Black women means he had not bought into the "White women are the epitome of feminity" nonsense. Sadly, many men can't show an appreciation for white women without denigrating black women. Not necessary.

  • @SamanthaClemons
    @SamanthaClemons 11 років тому +2

    i was an army brat, too! i think growing up in that environment can easily defend against prejudicial inclinations that someone might otherwise be susceptible to.

  • @PackCorey
    @PackCorey 11 років тому +2

    I'm telling this story to anybody who finds true love, don't let it slip because you may not get another chance and it will torment you for the rest of your life. When I look back on it, I realized I had a good woman. one of the few white girls from the south that wasn't racist. Whose family welcomed me with open arms at Thanksgiving. Whose ancestors help rescue & free slaves. I was black and she was white but she didn't care! She accepted me for who I was!

  • @PackCorey
    @PackCorey 11 років тому +2

    The last time I saw her, she at the airport ready to start her new job in San Francisco, we had a string of arguments before then about whether or not I was ready to marry her. Minutes before she boarded the plane, she asked me "Do you love me?" and I said " Yes" and then she said "Then marry me. Live a life with me. Have children with me." But for some reason, I couldn't. Then she gives me one last kiss and places her hand on my cheek and says " I love you" and I never saw her again.

  • @gracealexandre3381
    @gracealexandre3381 2 роки тому +3

    They are all from the same race -- THE HUMAN RACE!!

  • @icec64
    @icec64 12 років тому +4

    I was walking down the road, feeling in the mood to eat a hotdog. I walked down to the stand and saw an interracial couple. I got pissed ; They bought the last hot dog. I wasted my time.

  • @Volf99
    @Volf99 13 років тому +1

    @sillykatz for some of us, in order to survive as a people, dating outside "your group" could lead to "your group" no longer existing. Granted this is extreme and very rare, but all the same should not be ignored.

  • @karensanchezgomez9662
    @karensanchezgomez9662 Місяць тому

    El Sistema, musical system started in Venezuela is one of the best things that have been implemented to enrich the lives of children all over the nation.Truly effective & marvelous!

  • @dama_shares
    @dama_shares 11 років тому +1

    Brilliant Interview. Thank you.

  • @TheStonedPriestess
    @TheStonedPriestess 11 років тому +5

    Thanks I love myself too much to let ppl tell me how to live my life. How ppl react to how I live just tell em sometimes how real fucked up this world is that some people have to turn something so petty into a huge problem.

  • @sudoroman
    @sudoroman 12 років тому +1

    I am an African American male who dated numerous non African American females during my single years. Color was never an issue, however being raised in a household with (BW) it was what I saw so that is what I married. I ask myself sometimes, What If? I have a daughter who looks bi-racial, most peolpe think one of her parents is caucasian, but we are not. As I see her getting older, I see life will be easier for her in many aspects. She has never had a problem, and I doubt she ever will.

  • @OurPerez
    @OurPerez 12 років тому +1

    I don't make a big deal out of interracial relationships as who the next person is with is SO NOT my business.

  • @CaliforniaTribalChief
    @CaliforniaTribalChief 12 років тому

    Very well said. Thank you for clearing that up.

  • @susceotible
    @susceotible 12 років тому +5

    I always feels like interracial couple is so sweet.

  • @gurukid08
    @gurukid08 5 років тому +5

    I'm all for interracial dating/marriage. 😃

  • @MissMidoria
    @MissMidoria 12 років тому

    Really great show! Thanks!

  • @B3CKIP
    @B3CKIP 12 років тому +1

    My parents used to get called the Oreo couple in Philli.. but they stuck it out!!

  • @LinensNBlings
    @LinensNBlings 12 років тому +3

    Wow can't people love who they want to love, it's nobodys business but their own

  • @timothygeiss01
    @timothygeiss01 13 років тому +1

    Me personally, I'm attracted to white women but, I love black women. I think the dark skin tone is sexy. I actually ended marrying a black woman. Some are kinda put off because I'm a heavy metal musician and have a nerdy streak.

  • @punkin89ful
    @punkin89ful 11 років тому +3

    I think isn't that beautiful I have always been amazed and in awe of interracial marriage's i think it's great and i dont see a problem with it

  • @TheStonedPriestess
    @TheStonedPriestess 11 років тому +1

    THANK YOU!

  • @1adnanbhatti
    @1adnanbhatti 13 років тому +1

    best wishes from me u all interracial couples.

  • @MahaliaA
    @MahaliaA 14 років тому +1

    you know I feel bad for people that create barriers that werent there in the first place! Race has nothing to do with love at all and more ppl need to really understand that. Love has no color.

  • @TheStonedPriestess
    @TheStonedPriestess 11 років тому

    Interracial marriage is awesome. I wouldn't be here today if it never existed. Being mixed coming from a diverse family and raised to love and enjoy being mixed having friends who were also like me is a great experience. I feel so lucky to have a mom who doesn't care who I bring home or the fact I tend to date latin/white guys. My issue with race is being told how to live by others. Like I should be black and calling myself mixed is wrong. It isn't right or fair.

  • @azmildman
    @azmildman 13 років тому +4

    I am a WM who likes, dates, and would marry a BW so I study this a lot. People are getting used to it. It used to be so strange that they would look at an interracial couple and wonder where their partners were. WW and BM seem to think that everyone is supposed to be attracted to them primarily, because BW were the last to step outside their race, and they get confused when they see something different. It is improving.

  • @D.Salazar
    @D.Salazar 12 років тому

    How things should be. People should be able to sit down free of anger & hatred & talk about things from different views if they wish to be informed properly. Love truly doesn't know color.

  • @callmeservant
    @callmeservant 13 років тому +2

    I am 20 I'm in college and one day I was talking to this girl and she randomly told me that she was tired on how her boyfriends female friends would try to exclude her from being with him and would flirt with him right in front of her like she's not there. I asked her why on earth would they want to do that to her and she said it was because they didn't like that she was white and that they always tried to beat her up. I've never been more pissed in my life some people just need to grow up.

  • @TheStonedPriestess
    @TheStonedPriestess 11 років тому +3

    I'm only attracted to latin/white guys because I've never met a black guy with the kind of standards I'm looking for. Maybe I expect too much. Honestly I'm not worried about who my children end up with as long as thier happy. Who I'm attracted to shouldn't even be your problem.

    • @henrybrothers4012
      @henrybrothers4012 6 років тому

      RunnyBabbit what standards are you looking for🤔

  • @jsajdj
    @jsajdj 13 років тому +1

    i usually think "SWEET" everytime i see an interracial couple..

  • @Glad2BGolden
    @Glad2BGolden 14 років тому

    @zio5q No, she's saying that she doesn't want her son to have a mental problem. She wants him to not have a racial complex and be open to all races of women and look for love not a status symbol. I understood what she meant.

  • @MrBranmister
    @MrBranmister 12 років тому +1

    you just granted me a responce

  • @ImaniBarbie
    @ImaniBarbie 12 років тому +1

    that is soooo true!

  • @ninoshkahendricks8816
    @ninoshkahendricks8816 Рік тому

    This was great

    • @alking1088
      @alking1088 2 місяці тому

      I see now here in America we have begun to grow up

  • @KaylaChandler
    @KaylaChandler 11 років тому +5

    My thing is why is it always a big deal for blacks and whites.. No one makes a big deal about Hispanics and blacks or Asians and whites dating... Love has no discriminations if its real love

    • @karensanchezgomez9662
      @karensanchezgomez9662 Місяць тому

      Hispanic is an ethnicity, they are of all colors & the same problems arise with mixed marriages specially black & white. If its mixed with an asían the theme is more cultural than a matter of color.

  • @dammee
    @dammee 12 років тому +1

    @GurlCaa I don't think that is true, Actually I noticed that biracial people usually date the race of their opposite gender parent. So if the guy's mom is white he will date white women, and if the biracial girl's dad is black then she will date black men. People usually want someone like their parents, because that's what they are used to.

  • @aarondavis8344
    @aarondavis8344 11 років тому +1

    "Pure Breed Only?" Are we dogs & cats? lol I want to know what you mean by racial destruction. My mother is Nigerian & my father is creole (Black, Spanish, French, & Native American). I consider myself a mixed African-American. The girl I'm talking to is African-American & Latina. Color/race is the furthest thing from our minds. We both share similar interest & really like each other. Is that a problem??

    • @kninezbanks
      @kninezbanks 5 років тому

      lol...Even "pure breed" dogs were mixed into existence with a mixture of other dogs for certain traits at the "beginning" of their breed....most not too long ago.

  • @Chrisbit1
    @Chrisbit1 12 років тому

    my boyfriend is French (I live in France right now) and he is white and I am black, and when he saw this he thought "americans are really like this?"

  • @williambiondolillo6215
    @williambiondolillo6215 Рік тому

    have always had a strong attraction towards black womens goin back to when I was in junior high school and still do to this day .would marry a black women in a heartbeat

  • @tabithaedwards745
    @tabithaedwards745 Рік тому

    Coon Dogs(Hunting Dog's) is more than likely is what that festival was. I understand her perception but it's on a perception. People are stepping into another person's world you have to be open minded in life to be successful 🥰

  • @ShowMeTheMoneyGuy
    @ShowMeTheMoneyGuy 13 років тому

    @Volf99 - Maybe I should've been specific. I LIVE IN AMERICA. I DON'T LIVE ANYWHERE ELSE. ANYTHING I SAID WAS IN REFERENCE TO THAT!

  • @farmerjbird
    @farmerjbird 4 роки тому

    Love this!!♥️😊

  • @timothywells4027
    @timothywells4027 11 років тому +1

    Love who you love I meant.

  • @Hotlips4000isback
    @Hotlips4000isback 12 років тому

    Nice to meet you.... :)

  • @morena1022
    @morena1022 12 років тому +1

    In the case of the IR couple here (husband/wife), her White culture dominates their household and life. The fact that their kids prefer lighter skin and/or Whites in companionship and that their friends are mostly White means that he has folded on teaching his kids their other side and they prefer their White culture. In the case of the sister to the right, she seems to be the type who is married to a White man, but is still in tune with her Blackness, including what she said about her son.

  • @azmildman
    @azmildman 12 років тому +1

    @1adnanbhatti Actually, according to the United States Census Bureau, there were 354,000 White female/Black male and 196,000 Black female/White male marriages in March 2009, representing a ratio of 181:100. This traditional disparity has steadily declined over the last two decades, having seen its peak in 1981 with a ratio of 371:100. In 2007, 4.6% of all married Blacks in the United States were wed to a White partner, and 0.4% of all Whites were married to a Black partner.

  • @ItsAshleySwain1
    @ItsAshleySwain1 13 років тому +2

    I think its beautiful love goes beyond color

  • @MeeMee1000ify
    @MeeMee1000ify 12 років тому

    I feel like older people are the ones who discriminate against it the most.

  • @theforestero
    @theforestero 11 років тому

    this is very spiritual...but i thought being black or being chinese in japan was hard....but being mixed is going to be very hard...difficulties are going to be common for many of them growing up...if not all..

  • @98bigbutt
    @98bigbutt 14 років тому

    This beat sounds phat.No big deal.

  • @kristreed5896
    @kristreed5896 11 років тому +1

    Spoken like the beautiful woman you are.

  • @joechamp09
    @joechamp09 12 років тому

    They think that way, while they're still young. When they get older, it's no more thoughts of "colors shouldn't matter". I'm talking about the way black people thinks. When they become 30 and older, it's all about black on black unity love. That is the males & females.

  • @sillykatz
    @sillykatz 13 років тому

    the most progressive and open minded people are those who let people and themselves love who they love, no matter their race, religion, culture, or gender!

  • @tianitra
    @tianitra 12 років тому

    Ultimately its not anyone's business...this is a given. but the subject comes up

  • @02vanilla
    @02vanilla 13 років тому +1

    His name is Jerry Gary... wow lol.

  • @tropicallover19
    @tropicallover19 12 років тому +2

    It's no big deal to me, if you are happy with someone that is what matters. I'm an African American man and my wife is Italian. It's all about love not race.

  • @heartboy86
    @heartboy86 14 років тому +1

    it goes to show interracial dating can and will last

  • @theforestero
    @theforestero 11 років тому

    the internet should be a very progressive melting pot mixture, not just of race, but culture and art and history too..and international experience shared through technology..global wide, man

  • @NewWorldRob
    @NewWorldRob 12 років тому +1

    Many white females are kind and most are confident. They don't have much else over any other lady.

  • @BruceWayneWorld
    @BruceWayneWorld 12 років тому +1

    My first reaction is thats beautiful ! Nothing like being and feeling like a real human sharing life experiences ! You only live once so enjoy the ride cause worm food is what these black & white bodys will be whens its all over..... : )

  • @shapolfab
    @shapolfab 12 років тому +1

    @Chrisbit1 ah ah yes! I am black french and to be honest racism exists in France but there are so many bi-racial couples that the majority of people don't event think it can be an issue!

  • @number1lefty
    @number1lefty 11 років тому +3

    im half asian and half white. its funny, because my preference in guys is usually those who are black. diversity is a beautiful thing.

    • @jaym-bu3cr
      @jaym-bu3cr 7 років тому

      number1lefty a lot of Asians are mostly into whites more than black, have you ever dated white people before?

  • @annetteyoutube742
    @annetteyoutube742 5 років тому +1

    15:19
    This mother basically stated she wants her son to date all types of women, and not limit it to one race. If he ends up choosing to marry a white women, she'd accept it. But at least he'd have 'dated around'.

  • @98bigbutt
    @98bigbutt 14 років тому

    To me,it's no big deal.If they're not threatening me or my family,then what's the big deal?

  • @azmildman
    @azmildman 13 років тому

    @loulou5665 I am the same towards BW. One day I found myself more physically attracted to them. Also, Interracial couples are becoming more and more frequent. U.S. Census statistics for the divorce rate say that black woman / white man marriages are the lowest in divorces even compared to WM/WW marriages, while other interracial couplings have the higher divorce rates because of cultural differences. It also shows that WW get divorced more than anyone else, no matter who they are with.

  • @megabassman1981
    @megabassman1981 13 років тому +1

    @FrozenUtility
    All religion do not speak against interracial dating!

  • @goldennella
    @goldennella 12 років тому +1

    nice... if you live in the states, move in canada, interatial relationship is very common!! My fiance is white!!
    good luckk

  • @BlackDynamite1983
    @BlackDynamite1983 12 років тому

    Real Talk

  • @NewWorldRob
    @NewWorldRob 11 років тому

    Something's definitely the matter with your thinking

  • @emilylopez5290
    @emilylopez5290 12 років тому +1

    Color color why the hell should it matter ! If we weren't ment to mix then why did God put us all on the Same planet !

  • @spucy
    @spucy 13 років тому +1

    @mykole84 True. Out my 10 second cousins 7 of them are mixed.

  • @MusicMovesMe78
    @MusicMovesMe78 12 років тому

    Great job ... but there was one things that I did disagree with. Even though our country has a horrible past regarding the subject of racism, not ALL caucasians and/or african-americans have a deep-rooted issue with race. I was raised as a military brat and in our community and as I grew up into the woman I am today, I did not have any problem with race.

  • @otisdaniels4510
    @otisdaniels4510 12 років тому

    PREEECHHHHHH!!!!!!!

  • @redarrowhead2
    @redarrowhead2 12 років тому +1

    that's odd. My school was 10% black and they were rarely visible and unimportant. go figure.

  • @NewWorldRob
    @NewWorldRob 11 років тому

    ..White People always want you to offer realistic solutions to problems they've caused.
    And "most blacks already having white genes" has never spared one single black person from being either viewed or treated differently. So. I'm glad you're happy. I wish Happiness for all people. But I'm not persuaded to see anything oppositely from how I already do, where interracial relationships are concerned. Too much ongoing negativity & bias, to accept "that humankind" pitch. Thx for responding, Douglas

  • @Crusader-Ramos45
    @Crusader-Ramos45 11 років тому +1

    I don't see anything wrong with interracial marriage. After all, Hod made man in his image, regardless of race.

  • @mykole84
    @mykole84 13 років тому

    im from newport news, va and i will agree mixing is more accepted in hampton roads but this place is also very racist so its very complex. this is still the south albeit very mixed with military influence. the funny thing is the areas where people most mix are in the ghetto and middle class area.

    • @jamesbaggett7223
      @jamesbaggett7223 3 роки тому

      From NC just south of there: My wife is black (French Afro Caribbean)...what amazed and shocked her was the only people who verbalized an issue with us were African-Americans. If any white folks took issue they never said anything.

  • @azmildman
    @azmildman 12 років тому

    As of the census in 2008 it was recorded of all the interracial marriages in the United States that BW and WM marriages have an over 40 percent lower rate of divorce within ten years than any other and you are a troll. Troll = someone who posts inflammatory, extraneous, or off-topic messages in an online community, such as an online discussion forum, chat room, or blog, with the primary intent of provoking readers into an emotional response or of otherwise disrupting normal on-topic discussion.

  • @coleenramsay5657
    @coleenramsay5657 2 роки тому

    ❤💯

  • @cljbb08
    @cljbb08 12 років тому

    @misscamara12 she didn't say only black women she said both. and only because white is the dominant culture/ what is preferred, which you can tell shows with and hurts the black husband about his own kids.

  • @koolio123ify
    @koolio123ify 12 років тому

    @MeeMee1000ify that is so true.

  • @Volf99
    @Volf99 13 років тому

    @kittybookitty thats really prejudice to state that the only white people that are racist are those below the Mason Dixon line and are the stereotypical "hillbilly". I'm from Chicago and trust me as a white person, I hear racist comments "up north" as well.

  • @comecorrect1
    @comecorrect1 12 років тому

    I forgot to finish even it there was something like that in the bible who cares people will date whoever they want to. Who are you to judge someone because they choose to date another race. How would you feel about me? I am with someone that is of mixed race.

  • @TheManofTomorrow2013
    @TheManofTomorrow2013 12 років тому

    Standing Ovation for that statement. Color is nothing more than just a superficial biological trait. Now culture is what is important and even biculturalism is possible.

  • @NewWorldRob
    @NewWorldRob 11 років тому

    LOL. I noticed that and CTFU!

  • @SamanthaClemons
    @SamanthaClemons 11 років тому

    simply because eight people agree with you, you believe that gives your "reasoning" any sort of merit? and because they understood it, that makes it logical? i read your post a number of times and nowhere did you explain how their behaviors were derivative of their biracial backgrounds or choices in partner. what you (and those 8 people) don't understand is that MOST behavior is a product of one's environment which entails things like socioeconomic status and educational backgrounds of parents.

  • @aspieotaku3580
    @aspieotaku3580 11 років тому

    You should have gone to San Francisco with her and you two would have lived happily ever after. The SF Bay area although its expensive to live there is very open minded and much less racist than in Texas!