Julia Haart on How Strict Orthodox Community Ruined Her Former Marriage
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- Опубліковано 7 жов 2021
- Julia Haart is the star of Netflix’s “My Unorthodox Life” and CEO of Elite World Group. She is also the former Creative Director of La Perla and has her own fashion brand. While life is undeniably good for Julia presently, she once was a member of an ultra-Orthodox Jewish community before deciding to leave her old life behind. Now, with a hit-series on Netflix, Julia is detailing her former life in the fundamentalist community -an extremist version of Ultra-Orthodox Judaism.
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I’m religious and I don’t feel even close to what she felt! It’s sad that because of her specific experience she includes the whole community… there’s so many women who are successful, clothes brands, photographers, makeup artists and the list doesn’t end!
Wish her the best and that she’ll find her peace🙏🏻
I guess it depends on her experience, an I hope her the best and to stay safe. Shalom.
Me too
as much as Julia wants to portray herself as an emancipated woman, some things never change. She intrudes and never respect boundaries, to the exact same degree like the community she likes to disparage... The way she and her family jumped on Ben over jeans, when that conversation should have been just between Batsheba and Ben... Typical...
I was born secular and have found my true happiness in being an Orthodox Jew and I wear this crown for about 30 years. Trust me... if I experienced anything close to what she is exaggerating, I would have second thoughts in staying religious. Being Orthodox is the happiest move I have ever made !!! It brings the family together in such a pure way, kindness and charity to others is a huge focus, and respecting mom / dad, and being honesty and truthful. You become a better person by choice and that's a wonderful feeling. About the divorce, I have a close friend who lives in one of the most religious town in Israel who filed for divorce in Beit Din (Jewish Court) and she didn't ask him for his permission. Just to set the record straight, if a man wishes to divorce and the woman does not agree, she can, by Jewish law deny him this right. So it goes both ways. STOP LYING JULIA HAART !!! There are millions of Orthodox Jews in the world not because we are trapped, WE CHOOSE TO LIVE THIS WAY !!!! If you choose your new life to be a certain way, fine for you, but stop lying and exaggerating about the way we live - YOU ARE MAKING A BIG CHILUL HASHEM !!!! and for what???? MONEY AND FAME ??? You better sit down with yourself and re-think this .... you know the consequences of chilul H' !!!!!!!!
Just because you didn’t have this experience does not make hers invalid. That is her truth, if you feel threatened by her life experience so be it. There are different strands of Orthodox groups and what she is describing is true for many in that group.
In Orthodox religion there are laws and that don’t change with different people or marriage, law is a law, if you drive a car you past the red light you broke the law that don’t change, so how could two different stores come out of the same religion? Yours and hers?
@@lynebenoit5124 Agreed!!
@@mrsgev513 well answer the question, how could two different stores come out of the same religion?
Different families, different rabbis, different teachers; different things said to different people even by the same person; etc. etc. (Duh!)
I'm really confused as to why she feels the need to paint this misleading picture when it's so easy for everyone to just verify the facts..
as much as Julia wants to portray herself as an emancipated woman, some things never change. She intrudes and never respect boundaries, to the exact same degree like the community she likes to disparage... The way she and her family jumped on Ben over jeans, when that conversation should have been just between Batsheba and Ben... Typical...
@@sallieceelee5660omg how many times are you going to copy and paste? It makes it less believable every time you do!
I like what she said “ I am not responsible for men’s thoughts “ powerful statement
As of February 9, 2022, unorthodox, unmarried and unemployed.
as much as Julia wants to portray herself as an emancipated woman, some things never change. She intrudes and never respect boundaries, to the exact same degree like the community she likes to disparage... The way she and her family jumped on Ben over jeans, when that conversation should have been just between Batsheba and Ben... Typical...
Ha! Free, happy and living life on her terms with all the stupid out-dated laws of the Torah. Divorce happens to everyone on this planet and she's young and beautiful and not STUCK in the past with some Orthodox douch-bag controlling her life!
@@alina-ub4og She is broke and homeless without her billionaire sugar daddy. Season 1 blamed orthodox jewish men for her problems. Season 2 blames all men. I don’t think that there will be a Season 3.
She’s FOS Clearly as she is now divorced yet again. As is her daughter. She’s one of the shallowest people on our planet. GD will continue smacking them around. She not only ruined her own soul but she took her kids w her. Disgusting
as much as Julia wants to portray herself as an emancipated woman, some things never change. She intrudes and never respect boundaries, to the exact same degree like the community she likes to disparage... The way she and her family jumped on Ben over jeans, when that conversation should have been just between Batsheba and Ben... Typical...
I'm ultra-orthodox and this is an extreme exaggeration and in some cases flat-out lying. she should be ashamed that she's knowingly lying to advance her publicity and fame.
That was her experience. Who are you to sY she’s lying? She’s not the first to say this soooo… it is what it is. BH she is free of that oppressive fundamentalism.
@@therealaj5743 Update Julia Haart has shown much mental instability and I am glad that Sylvio is getting rid of her . Did sylvio oppress her ?
She is talking about the laws of the Orthodox religion not her personal experience or feelings, laws are facts they don’t change its like 4+4=8 it doesn’t matter how you see it or feel about it .
@@lynebenoit5124 That is not the law, the actual law is that the Jewish courts (Beth Din) can force a husband to give his wife a divorce just by her asking for it and she needs no reason at all. So she is clearly lying to shame a whole community and religion. Go to hell Julia!!!
AIMEN
she acts like she escaped lev tahor
as much as Julia wants to portray herself as an emancipated woman, some things never change. She intrudes and never respect boundaries, to the exact same degree like the community she likes to disparage... The way she and her family jumped on Ben over jeans, when that conversation should have been just between Batsheba and Ben... Typical...
Lev Tahor is worse than Monsey! I’ve never been, but I know Orthodox Jewish people who’ve had careers, who drove cars, etc. The Orthodox Jewish people I know are far from people from Lev Tahor. I validate Julia’s feelings, but I also don’t agree with the way she speaks about Orthodox Judaism
Julia wrecked her marriage to her daughter and son in
law . Shame on you
as much as Julia wants to portray herself as an emancipated woman, some things never change. She intrudes and never respect boundaries, to the exact same degree like the community she likes to disparage... The way she and her family jumped on Ben over jeans, when that conversation should have been just between Batsheba and Ben... Typical...
Oh shut up
Did I mishear or misunderstand when Tamron stated that women could not have their own bank accounts before the 1970s??? Anyone??
Yes that's true, women couldn't discuss sex openly, couldn't breastfeed openly, couldn't adopt a baby as a single woman and had to fight for the right to protest. There was plenty more...I did a project on this and it brings back memories! 😪
@@sorayae7415 yes true. Couldn't get their own credit card.
@@mariamd2243 The struggle is real, is still very real!
The thing is she lied about her past
I'm sorry- Julia just wants attention and she used Silvio to get it. They are divorcing now, he owns Elite , not her.
Did you hear for one second where she gave him ANY CREDIT? I hope her can recover from this unstable woman.
as much as Julia wants to portray herself as an emancipated woman, some things never change. She intrudes and never respect boundaries, to the exact same degree like the community she likes to disparage... The way she and her family jumped on Ben over jeans, when that conversation should have been just between Batsheba and Ben... Typical...
Did it ruin your current marriage too or are you just a sociopath?
I love this woman so much, I instantly connect with her and I'm a gay black man.
Glad she got fired!!!!
She can leave. Do what she wants. It's cool. But stop saying u were so sheltered. People know u weren't doing that.
as much as Julia wants to portray herself as an emancipated woman, some things never change. She intrudes and never respect boundaries, to the exact same degree like the community she likes to disparage... The way she and her family jumped on Ben over jeans, when that conversation should have been just between Batsheba and Ben... Typical...
It is not true. Men don't police their wives. Orthodox Jewish women are very outspoken. She is telling the truth about their divorce. .
as much as Julia wants to portray herself as an emancipated woman, some things never change. She intrudes and never respect boundaries, to the exact same degree like the community she likes to disparage... The way she and her family jumped on Ben over jeans, when that conversation should have been just between Batsheba and Ben... Typical...
I agree! I’ve known many Orthodox people, and they are far from what Julia is saying about religious Judaism.
I really enjoyed the show but I found myself wondering if a lot of these scenes are scripted because the young daughter (sorry forgot her name) was moving so fast, like she slept with that guy on the first date, that’s crazy. Plus she was like making out with every girl, I find it hard to believe her mom or dad approve of such behavior
Her dad disapproves because of their stsble religion and customs.julia suffered because her husband was religious, loving, successful, gave in to the familys needs, and julia did not want her sons to be religious good mentches at the same time and her daughter should be harlots and go to college and not be modest and raise another generation of degenerates.
Oh woe, oh woe and curse religion that put walls around them. Oh curse religion.
Seriously, me comes from a normal orthodox family (not near anywhere hasidic) and me embraces my religion and went to college at the same time, respects modesty, {really, me likes exposed women but not like her and her daughters}, wants to bring all jews together, this woman is so full of it. She went off the derech in the worst ways and brought her family down in the worst ways and her former husband was a sweet and chill man this woman is a total loser.
@@eatmyshorts7973 Agree
@@eatmyshorts7973 What college? Sounds like English was not taught there by your wording.
ALL “reality TV” is scripted.
Check out “Adam Ruins Everything” (on UA-cam) on this subject!
Spongebob has more shape than her🫣🥴🥴
Please show me such law? Not in our law
Is there a law that a woman must get a "GET" and permission from her husband in order to get a divorce? Please share your wisdom with everyone, Rabbi
Why does she see the need to lie
it's typical of her kind....
To make money and gain attention, LOLZ! It’s called the sympathy tactic.
BTW Stern college has a masters in Talmud and also a Bachelors program in Talmud
Jesus often confronted the work of the Jewish leaders and parishes because of their poor treatment toward orphans and widows and women in general. Very hypocritical among all things,things, were and It's very toxic and if you read the Talmud, you'll understand why alot of people feel trapped in that community or just have disdain for it..Not that all should be lumped as a whole but sometimes the majority makes life hard if they're making and "keeping " the rules.
You are not Jewish, and might know the Talmud superficially, but doubt you have enough depth of knowledge to reach such a conclusion of hypocrisy.
Thank you for bringing out the Word for this highly RELIGIOUS group. 👍🏾👌🏾
Jesus is the answer to all of human struggles, you search the scriptures but the scriptures point to Christ but you don’t want to come to him, in truth I say to you that Jesus Christ is the only truth the only life the way to God , God so loved the world that he gave us his only begotten son so who ever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life, God did not send his son to condemned the world but to save the world, but if you don’t believe in Jesus Christ then you are already condemned for not believing in the only son of God, Jesus Christ came down to earth born of a virgin rapt himself in flesh died and shad his blood on the cross so we could be forgiven of all our sins past, present and future sins, salvation is free gift from God not of any human efforts or following traditions so no one could boast, just confess with your mouth Jesus Christ is lord and believe in your heart that God raised him from the grave three days after and you will be saved 🥰
@@PrimalCharisma Can you explain the Torah teaching of Deuteronomy 22:28 where it describes a man raping a woman and then she is forced to marry him? Or the other bullshit laws that say a woman is "unclean" when she's on her menstrual cycle?
As an Orthodox Jew myself I can empathize with Julia for how she feels in relation to her experience, and at the same time I want to share that I and so many people I know have such different experiences. I am not even close to being governed by husband, if anything I’m the more controlling one (something I am working on ☺️). As for the religious divorce there are so many nuances that one needs to understand but the way it’s presented here doesn’t allow for that.
as much as Julia wants to portray herself as an emancipated woman, some things never change. She intrudes and never respect boundaries, to the exact same degree like the community she likes to disparage... The way she and her family jumped on Ben over jeans, when that conversation should have been just between Batsheba and Ben... Typical...
She could have left her community without defaming Jewish community. She's making money off a fraud. She has lost her position
at elite. Have Silvio on for the real Julia
I agree with you. I don’t invalidate her feelings, but there’s a better way to express those feelings without badmouthing the community
What is wrong about being orthodox
as much as Julia wants to portray herself as an emancipated woman, some things never change. She intrudes and never respect boundaries, to the exact same degree like the community she likes to disparage... The way she and her family jumped on Ben over jeans, when that conversation should have been just between Batsheba and Ben... Typical...
Nothing is wrong. She just doesn’t feel it’s the right lifestyle for her, but she could also respect that her son Aron is still happy living that life, and not nag him so much.
as much as Julia wants to portray herself as an emancipated woman, some things never change. She intrudes and never respect boundaries, to the exact same degree like the community she likes to disparage... The way she and her family jumped on Ben over jeans, when that conversation should have been just between Batsheba and Ben... Typical...
So you go extreme western ways???
More like degenerate.
as much as Julia wants to portray herself as an emancipated woman, some things never change. She intrudes and never respect boundaries, to the exact same degree like the community she likes to disparage... The way she and her family jumped on Ben over jeans, when that conversation should have been just between Batsheba and Ben... Typical...
Julia Haart is a woman who was born in Russia in 1970 to Mikhail and Lina Leibov. Her name at birth was Natalia Leibov.
Soon after, she immigrated with her parents to the United States. Her parents would go on to have eventually 7 more children.
About 1980, her parents embraced Orthodox Judaism and sent her to an Orthodox Jewish school. Her father became a wealthy businessman and she grew up in a million dollar McMansion at 11 Golar Drive, Monsey, New York.
In 1989, Julia married Yosef Hendler, age 24, an Orthodox young man whom she had known only briefly. They had four children: Batsheva 1993, Shlomo 1996, Miriam 2000, and Aron 2006. Batsheva is divorced without children and the other children are single. All except Aron have left Orthodoxy.
In 2013, Julia left her husband and left Judaism. She apparently left the marriage with some significant financial assets, which she says came from her income as a teacher and insurance salesperson. I would assume that she also received a share of the marital assets and child support as part of a divorce settlement. With that money, she produced demonstration pairs of shoes which she had designed and tried to sell the design to shoe manufacturers.
In 2015, she and her shoes were noticed by a billionaire Italian businessman, Silvio Scaglia. Scaglia was at the time 57 years old and married with three children. Haart was 45. Scaglia was so impressed with Haart that in 2016 he made her creative director of La Perla, a luxury lingerie company which he had purchased in 2013 for 69 million euros, allowing her to effectively run the company.
In 2017 Scaglia publicly announced that he intended to divorce his wife, Monica Aschei. The divorce was finalized in 2018.
In 2011 Scaglia acquired Elite World Group, the world’s largest model management network. In April 2019, Scaglia made Haart the CEO, creative director and co-owner of Elite World Group. In June 2019 Scaglia and Haart married.
In February 2020, Netflix filmed a 9 episode miniseries starring Haart. It went online in July 2021 titled “My Unorthodox Life”. In September 2021 Netflix announced that “My Unorthodox Life” was renewed for a second season.
In July 2021, Haart announced the upcoming publication of her memoir “Brazen: My Unorthodox Journey from Long Sleeves to Lingerie” scheduled for release in April 2022 by Penguin Random House.
In August 2021, Haart’s net worth was estimated at approximately US$600 million.
On December 14, 2021 the UK Daily Mail wrote that Haart and Scaglia had separated. The couple have not commented on this.
It would appear that Haart was an attractive, middle class, middle aged divorcee who has slept her way to the top and is now a vehement anti-Orthodox Judaism version of Kim Kardashian.
OK then....glad to hear that behind every successful man lays an ambitious woman. I have watched the show and not surprised about the daughter and SIL. You can tell she is a mama wanna be and he is still trying to find his way.The one I worry about if the youngest daughter who seems to be on the path to unseat her mother in the brazen area. She is pretty much out of control. The boys seem to still have something holding them close to their religious background.
@@ninjanana8730 Scaglia was a billionaire in the telecom industry and married long before meeting Haart the gold digger and home breaker.
@@JacobStein1960 Not sure I understand your reply.My comment agree's with you basically.I thought it was strange how she came to "accomplish" so much after leaving her community.She is ambitious for sure, but the help of a wealthy man did not hurt.
The last paragraph doesn’t follow logically from anything that went before.
It’s sheer libel.
@@terry9238 Well I’m sorry that the strict orthodox Jewish community ruined her former marriage. Which community ruined her current marriage? She’s now in the middle of a second divorce.
One hundred percent!!!!
I come from there.....
And there is more....she was gentle...
And when ever a religious jewish woman says that this is not true she denies.because it's almost impossible to leave,the point where you start realizing that the system is problematic is when you get married, and very quick you have children..
So who wants to be on the losing side, so you try to find all kind of explanations that it's ok,it's denying the reality .
That is complete bs. It's a matter of what u choose in life just like anything else. It's hard to leave not impossible only bec ur going against the stream and with everything and everyone going against the stream is hard. Look around u and open ur eyes instead of living in this one sided tunn
Her talk about divorce is bs are there agunas sure. But they have to ask permission as if she's a slave is Ludacris
If you feel like that and have this experience, you probably came from an abusive family and that can happen in any sector. For the vast majority, it's not like that and you know it !!
@@mrsgev513 This sister just spoke up and said I've been abused too. Why not show empathy, or compassion? Why not have kindness for a fellow sister, or at least patience?! Does your SUPERIOR, FAULTLESS religion give you any of that?! 😕 Yikes!
@@dinaabr You ask permission and you get denied. The end! 🙄
I saw a documentary about what women in the orthodox Jewish community have to go through. It was appalling. I had no idea.
Don't believe everything you see on you tube, or similar platforms
Depends on the community, I guess each is different.
@@NellieKAdaba My point is that just because one or two people had a bad experience that does not give them or any filmmaker a right to scapegoat the whole community.
@@isaacr3131 Now HOW could it be 1 or 2?? 🤨 And why such strong rejection of the possibility of truth? 🧐 You sound like some of those Jewish lawyers they shadowed.
@@StrongnBeautiful I don't think the actual figures matter 1, 2,3 or 4. The fact is they are a very small minority and there is no need to scapegoat a whole community.
She's so extra.
A woman that age should NOT be dressing like some 20-something year old pole dancer. And those shoes? Women who dress age inappropriate are inside insecure; they seek out the attention from as many men who would look at her.
I am 49 and look 35 due to good genes and taking care of my skin and body. I am a size 4 in pants and a 38C. My body is no way unattractive and never had a man tell me to lose weight. I believe a woman should only show her body off like that is when she is with her boyfriend/husband. Not for every tom, di*k and harry to gauke at. I personally don't want some gross, nasty looking man having sexual thoughts with my body.
That’s your opinion and you’re free to choose to dress as you like. She and her daughters fee differently and are free to dress how they want. Live and let live and stop being so judgemental and self righteous
Men are gonna have sexual thoughts. No matter what women wear-maybe even burkas, which I wouldn’t recommend. Most men will have sexual thoughts about any women whom they find at all attractive. As long as men control their own BEHAVIOR, there’s no problem.
I don’t even dress like Julia and I’m 25 years old. I don’t have to cover myself from head to toe, but I want to be modest enough to not have random men prey on me. Modesty for me means: blue jeans, t shirts/tops that aren’t too tight, low-cut or provocative, longer skirts (midi, knee length, etc), dresses that are midi, knee length, etc. (Not strapless or spaghetti strap, or mini dresses), leggings, tunics, etc. I don’t believe in selling my body, because I’m smarter than that, and I don’t want to reexperience what I’ve experienced in high school. Modesty is a personal thing and for me it means personal security.
Julia Haart! She's my hero...so brave, so intelligent and YES, the voice of so many women that are being silenced in this community. THANK YOU! Please continue your divine work!
Glad she is free!!!!
Glad she is getting divorced
I’m glad she’s happy doing what she loves
Jesus is your free gift to heaven when you believe in his death, burial and resurrection you are immediately saved.
What if I believe the death and burial parts, but I just can’t be sure about the resurrection? Do I get credit for two out of three?
@@terry9238 no you don’t!
So many bitter jealous jews in these comments 😂 THIS IS HER STORY
The thing is she lied about her past