Being a virgin at 23 is embarrassing

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  • @EzinneZara
    @EzinneZara  3 роки тому +569

    Hey guys! As some of you have noticed, there’s no AD showing on this video & that’s because this video contains and mentions sexual content. If you want to support me and this channel, please share this video so it blesses as many people as possible. God bless you. 🤍

    • @Kachi_Agu
      @Kachi_Agu 3 роки тому +4

      Definitely going to share this everywhere, it's too insightful.

    • @VisionBearer
      @VisionBearer 3 роки тому +5

      I was contemplating sharing this because of it's sensitivity, but after reading this; my mind is made up!

    • @Kachi_Agu
      @Kachi_Agu 3 роки тому +16

      @@VisionBearer I had this thought for a second too, but the world is not keeping quiet about sharing its own views on sex, so neither will we.
      Even if it's one person who's going to see this and make a decision today, that'd be so wonderful. 🤍

    • @Francisca_esonwune
      @Francisca_esonwune 3 роки тому

      I just shared via WhatsApp

    • @SandyCoco1
      @SandyCoco1 3 роки тому +3

      Ezinne, what please I'd really need a video on maturation, heard it affects ones sexual life and yes I'm 21 and a virgin, well I call myself a fargin 🥺🙏

  • @horschiday9449
    @horschiday9449 2 роки тому +396

    This world is crazy, I’m 26 almost 27 and still a virgin by GOD’s grace. I chose to honor GOD with my body and I never regret it. I’m almost done with medical school and getting married soon to another doctor. We both chose to remain like that until after the wedding. It’s not easy but it’s doable by GOD’s help. Don’t listen to people who shame you coz deep down they envie you... the devil is a liar. Be blessed.

    • @ikechukwukelechukwu9148
      @ikechukwukelechukwu9148 2 роки тому +21

      YOU'RE RIGHT in saying they envy You Ma'am!
      I had a girl say that to Me months back.
      At FIRST,she was LIKE: "hmmm.... You're missing out o.. on your wedding night YOU'LL be naive! What if your husband ISN'T good in bed?
      To which I replied: "I'VE BELIEVED with all my HEART in GOD'S TRUTH contained in the HOLY scriptures AND!, My husband is the ONLY man I want to taste😋..and Can actually SATISFY ME😋😋😋🙂!~
      SHE NOW LOOKED AT ME SOBER and said: "YOU'RE right😣... I WISH I'm STILL like You SISTER.. I admire Your FAITH IN JESUS CHRIST and the PURITY of Your HEART 😣. I'VE changed My ways though😣".

    • @Unyime
      @Unyime 2 роки тому +2

      That is so awesome 👍

    • @kennethibrahim9927
      @kennethibrahim9927 2 роки тому

      I hope you're not from Nigeria because if you're from Nigeria hmm I told you is lie

    • @Lizbeon
      @Lizbeon 2 роки тому +3

      They truly envy you. Congratulations to you both.

    • @egbonaisosaruth2598
      @egbonaisosaruth2598 2 роки тому

      Pls teach me how to stay...

  • @oreoluwasowunmi
    @oreoluwasowunmi 3 роки тому +589

    It’s funny how virgins are actually being shamed 😳😳😳. Popularity doesn’t equal truth too . The standard is the word and that should be the final authority over our lives .
    Another thing I wanted to add is this , virginity isn’t a “gift” you give to your husband (somehow ladies are wired to think this way ) . You choose to be a virgin to honour God . It’s honouring God first . Virginity too doesn’t equal purity 😎. One can be a virgin and still be impure ( satisfying your sexual desires in other ways ). Sexual purity is attainable and the greatest lie the enemy sells is “everyone is doing it.” Not everyone is doing it and it’s possible through the help of the Holy Spirit

    • @oluwatobilobaolaniyi4313
      @oluwatobilobaolaniyi4313 3 роки тому +10

      Preeeeeeeeeach!!

    • @oreoluwasowunmi
      @oreoluwasowunmi 3 роки тому

      @@oluwatobilobaolaniyi4313 you dey here too 😌😌.

    • @ibukunoluwaokunoye2605
      @ibukunoluwaokunoye2605 3 роки тому +5

      This comment is wonderful

    • @mosoriresuccess6968
      @mosoriresuccess6968 3 роки тому +7

      This comment is GOLD. Thank you for sharing such truth rooted in Christ :)

    • @valerie.
      @valerie. 3 роки тому +6

      PEOPLE WILL ALWAYS CHAT SHIT. SOME MEN ARE OBSESSED WITH VIRGINS AND SOME MEN THINK THERE IS SOMETHING WRONG WITH THE WOMEN. THERE IS NEVER SOMETHING WRONG WITH YOU IF YOU ARE A VIRGIN. AS LONG AS YOU ARE CONTENT WITH YOUR DECISION IGNORE THE IGNORANT PEOPLE!

  • @purposefulrelationshipwithdoxa
    @purposefulrelationshipwithdoxa 3 роки тому +184

    I'm 25. Never had sex, never kissed and all of those other things. God has helped me. In secondary school, I remember going to God and being bare. I was like, "God, I know I like men, and very sensitive to touch, please help me." It's been years later, and I haven't experienced any pressures in the light of being sexually active by the help of God. It's possible, people. Sex is such a deep thing and it's beautiful but more beautiful if done within the confines of how God intends it to be done.

    • @Mimmosa
      @Mimmosa 2 роки тому +4

      Girl, me too😍😍I'm turning 26 next month

  • @ifyn.7810
    @ifyn.7810 2 роки тому +136

    33 years a virgin and still counting ...God's grace has truly been Sufficient...Thanks so much for the true words...thanks for encouraging people like me...God bless you always maam

    • @folapanache
      @folapanache 2 роки тому +11

      I am too, and I'm not ashamed. I grow day to understand what God has kept me from over the years and I'm glad that I still stand with no pressure on my side.

    • @ifyn.7810
      @ifyn.7810 2 роки тому +1

      @@folapanache that's great...more grace ...we are many on this lane

    • @jaylove9739
      @jaylove9739 2 роки тому +1

      God bless yall wow

    • @BrotherNick777
      @BrotherNick777 2 роки тому

      @@ifyn.7810 bless you sister. It’s almost impossible to run into a virgin these days.

  • @Menethewriter
    @Menethewriter 3 роки тому +91

    Had to come back to watch this again, I just wanna that if you are staying celibate until marriage, gather here for a group picture to remind us of our journeyyyy🤗

  • @_iamhisbutterfly
    @_iamhisbutterfly 3 роки тому +191

    My biggest take away is that our sexual purity journey doesn’t end when we get married but should continue in guarding our hearts ♥️

  • @dwi5114
    @dwi5114 2 роки тому +82

    Girl I was a virgin until 25, and my husband is the only man I’ve been intimate with. Married for 13 years, and counting. Together for about 20. Stay the course. God will give you a testimony to give your kids!!!!

  • @teresasindique6193
    @teresasindique6193 3 роки тому +209

    I'm 18 years old girl and a virgin, you can already imagine the pressure people put on me to lose my virginity. I'm really happy the way I am, I mean, I am truly happy. Thank you for video , I was needing

    • @jessicanwoke3575
      @jessicanwoke3575 2 роки тому +6

      You won't regret keeping yourself for your husband and God

    • @Sophytimo
      @Sophytimo 2 роки тому +6

      Pressure is a thing of the mind. I've seen people who kept their bodies up till 30 yrs, stay put.

    • @kaysmellsgood
      @kaysmellsgood 2 роки тому +8

      @@jessicanwoke3575 I get this but why is keep yourself for your husband only preached to females? Men should also keep themselves for their wives .

    • @chidinmaorie7700
      @chidinmaorie7700 2 роки тому

      @@Sophytimo thing of the mind pls explain further

    • @afuayeboah9149
      @afuayeboah9149 2 роки тому +1

      I guess you shouldn’t make public, that’s your private matter. Just believe in yourself and be proud of it and stand firm on it.well done and keep it up.

  • @samuelsamuel5485
    @samuelsamuel5485 2 роки тому +251

    Very proud to still be a virgin at 33. Though had been in three different relationships but had cut all of them as each of these ladies thought we can't be together without sex. As at now in no relationship while believing God for my virgin friend. That is my pride and gift to my wife. She is the one i made that vow for and am keeping it for her to honor her with it.

    • @BioMajek
      @BioMajek 2 роки тому +19

      Sam, we're in the same boat
      I'm 30++ as well, one if the best decision of my life

    • @alexeyk5260
      @alexeyk5260 2 роки тому +11

      Man, i'm a little bit younger, but i also go this way. I just read your words and want to say that i hope you will find your love of your life soon! Praying for this!

    • @bellemax855
      @bellemax855 2 роки тому +12

      This is cool now I believe there are male who wants to wait. Never believed that at first

    • @Neneolachiyoung
      @Neneolachiyoung 2 роки тому

      Wow, congratulations and happy for you

    • @BabyMomento
      @BabyMomento 2 роки тому

      This is really good... I am in aww... i would love to meet with you if you don't mind

  • @YosiKingdom
    @YosiKingdom 2 роки тому +20

    I am 30 and a virgin. Proud to be one. Keep yourself believers.

  • @tonyelevybraide
    @tonyelevybraide 3 роки тому +663

    This video 🥺🤎. I used to be very sexually active and bruhhhh, it really messed up my mind for a long time. I agree with you. Deep down, there’s a lot of unhappiness but you just keep going because you think it’s supposed to be that way. I went through all these emotions. I’m happy to be out of that life now, tbh. I’ve been celibate since 2019 and it’s been bliss. The peace and freedom. This is the true freedom tbh. I regret my past decisions. But thank God for mercy, love and grace. I look forward to my beautiful marriage and sex life with my husband.

  • @latestmovies9365
    @latestmovies9365 2 роки тому +11

    Am 19 years am still virgin, not gonna break it until wedding night by the grace of God 🙏

  • @Vone1612
    @Vone1612 3 роки тому +251

    Thanks for this... Lady... I'm a guy.. I'm 25... Been through a lot.. And I decided to be this way.. Thanks so much for this .. It's a booster to my spirit.. I love hearing from you.

  • @tonyelevybraide
    @tonyelevybraide 3 роки тому +193

    God is wise! Everything is for our good. If only we could just trust Him.

    • @oreoluwasowunmi
      @oreoluwasowunmi 3 роки тому +2

      Absolutely 👌🏽

    • @kimadiggs237
      @kimadiggs237 2 роки тому +1

      Indeed! God has everything in His hands

    • @inyingialaben-stowe
      @inyingialaben-stowe 2 роки тому +1

      this comment is speaking directly to me. I don't want to be logical about putting my trust in God & His timing but I'm struggling. God isn't foolish but for some people like me, accepting & coming to terms of how boundless God's love for me or themselves is a struggle. 🥺😭😭

    • @totallyanonymousbish9599
      @totallyanonymousbish9599 2 роки тому

      Her

  • @mkyemaotabe4222
    @mkyemaotabe4222 3 роки тому +196

    If it makes anyone feel encouraged, I'm 27 and i haven't had sex before. Yes, Guys want to sleep with me. I like the idea that i have so much self control. By the Mercy of God i would like to have to sleep with only my future husband. Don't let anyone shame you. That body is Yours and it is Gods Temple, consecrate it. Sending so much love to everyone

    • @evelynayeduvor6078
      @evelynayeduvor6078 2 роки тому +7

      Please stay that way. It worth it dear, trust me. Your body is the temple of God🥰

    • @alexeyk5260
      @alexeyk5260 2 роки тому +6

      Oh my gosh, you inspiring me so much! I'm 23, and i also had took decision to wait until i'll find girl of my whole life and marry her. It wasn't even related to religious views, at that time i hadn't found God yet

    • @sodvine3486
      @sodvine3486 2 роки тому +5

      I'm 39 and yes my peace is made perfect in Him. I wouldn't do it any other way.

  • @lovethonwujei
    @lovethonwujei 3 роки тому +97

    Sex is the major tool of the devil in this end time. We must push the message of purity forward. God bless you Ezinne❤️

    • @igandanabimbola267
      @igandanabimbola267 3 роки тому +7

      True, especially the fact that the abnormal things of the world are now becoming normal. Thank God for what he's doing in our lives.

    • @lovethonwujei
      @lovethonwujei 3 роки тому +1

      @@igandanabimbola267 Amen🙌

    • @youngbiney
      @youngbiney 3 роки тому

      SMH

  • @the_creative_star
    @the_creative_star 2 роки тому +50

    I’m so grateful for this video because I’m 21 turning 22 and still a Virgin and cannot publicly declare it. The initial reason I kept my virginity was cause growing up I felt a lot of elderly people (I mean people old enough to be my uncles and fathers) tried to make sexual advances towards me and if not for God I would have been raped. Infact this happened more than 10 times in my life and it started when I was just 7years old and I found out that one way or the other, God kept saving me from this situation. So I told myself thst if God kept preventing me from getting raped at many instances, then I won’t have sex till marriage. Also coupled with the fact that I lived with the fear of having sex in my head for years because of my experience growing up. Fast forward to being 21 and so many urge have sex keeps coming and I thank God for His Spirit and discipline. Because all that kept me from not having sex till now is the Fear of God honestly. Thank you for this video, would definitely share it with my 16 year old sister

    • @BrotherNick777
      @BrotherNick777 2 роки тому +1

      Publicly declare it, you’re doing the will of the Most High. He’s bigger than the world.

    • @cynthiaphiri3059
      @cynthiaphiri3059 10 місяців тому

      Your story is similar to mine. When I was young I somehow got away from men that tried to rape me even up to when I was in university. I thank God for saving me all those times and he continues to. I am waiting to get married to have sex, it is not easy but I can do all things through Christ.

  • @ntokotom147
    @ntokotom147 2 роки тому +70

    I'm 21 and still a virgin. I'm not proud of the fact that I tried to disvirgin myself but glory to God that I still am. I want my husband to be the ONLY man to experience me❤️❤️

    • @nnametumichelle708
      @nnametumichelle708 2 роки тому +2

      Keep it up sweetie

    • @chilciejames9207
      @chilciejames9207 6 місяців тому

      How did this work out cus I'm currently thinking of doing the same

    • @ntokotom147
      @ntokotom147 5 місяців тому

      @@nnametumichelle708 im now 24 and still a virgin

    • @ntokotom147
      @ntokotom147 5 місяців тому

      @@chilciejames9207 i set boundaries and I pray to God to help me

  • @ekelindaadaku
    @ekelindaadaku 3 роки тому +212

    Eshey pupopupo.... i remember one time my friends and I were having lunch and a school mate joined us, we got talking about Tiwa's sex tape(apparently just hearing of it for the 1st time) so the school mate said "its normal for us women to have sex but why should it be filmed " God bless pastor Mildred Okonkwo she is a gift to me!!! Instantly I said she can't generalize the fact that its normal for all women to have sex, she can actually speak for some or herself.. mhen!!! You literally need to see the way she looked at me like i was some alien from another planet😂😂. "Why are you looking at me weird cause i said not all women are having sex?? " imagine this babe wan shame me for using my body to glorify God... hello!!! She actually said "who's this lady and what planet did they bring her from and can someone come take me away from her" for this kingdom you can't fit shame me ejor(I'm doing right with the Holyspirit help, you wanna come and shake it. no way!!) she saw that i was standing my ground and my friends were mute.. then she changed her statement and said "you're right some ladies have sex and filming it ain't appropriate " i smiled... for this kingdom our body na burnt offering for God, no premarital sex till marriage... thank you for sharing..

    • @_Ruks
      @_Ruks 3 роки тому +7

      Love this comment 😂❤️

    • @divineikemefuna2149
      @divineikemefuna2149 3 роки тому +5

      No way !!! Dey no go shame us oo

    • @Akesi_18
      @Akesi_18 3 роки тому +2

      I love this😂😂😂❤

    • @diyallthings
      @diyallthings 3 роки тому +5

      People don’t try to pull others up. They usually pull people down. Nobody laughs at another for not being top in class or not excelling. They laugh at others for not going to clubs, sleeping around, drinking... 🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @qualisfro5610
      @qualisfro5610 3 роки тому +2

      E for energy! I love🔥🔥🔥

  • @jasperaifam6210
    @jasperaifam6210 2 роки тому +47

    Thanks dear for inspiration
    I'm 22years almost 23 and I've never had sex, kissed or masturbate before. Sometimes I feel I'm alone in this and I want to give up, being in the university and having almost all my friends having sex and sharing their experience and they make me look like I'm in the 16th century 😔
    But thank God for platform's like this where I can read comment of people who are even 27 and above and are still sexually pure it means we are many
    God bless us all 💚💙🙏

    • @Sophytimo
      @Sophytimo 2 роки тому +2

      Keep it up! I'm 27yrs and I've not kissed anyone too. Just praying for God to bring my husband. Sexual purity is really beautiful!

    • @sadraolaedo4733
      @sadraolaedo4733 2 роки тому +5

      Mind the friends you KEEP, Remember "EVIL COMMUNICATION CORRUPTS GOOD MANNERS" It is written in the Holy Bible

    • @alexmunachi300
      @alexmunachi300 2 роки тому +1

      16th century 😅

    • @kalyarobinson3299
      @kalyarobinson3299 Рік тому

      Amen keep going girl

  • @amlach1
    @amlach1 2 роки тому +8

    I am a 36 years old man and I have not had sex yet, I have been careful not to sin against my body, according to Gods word and perfect will. There are greater things than sex, especially from God and life itself. Yet I long for the wife God has prepared for me, I know she will be a part of my future glory and blessing!
    If you want to stand out, to be a vessel for a noble cause, then there is a price! 2 Timothy 2:20-21
    ”But in a great house there are not only vessels of gold and silver, but also of wood and clay, some for honor and some for dishonor. Therefore if anyone cleanses himself from the latter, he will be a vessel for honor, sanctified and useful for the Master, prepared for every good work.”
    Blessings to you all, may God continue to help and build us up in his steadfast love. Remember we do all come short in some way, if not in this then in some other area.

  • @AbimbolaAjayi
    @AbimbolaAjayi 3 роки тому +67

    Wattpad, Harlequin, Mills and Boon, Nora Roberts omo these books had a strong hold on my when I was younger ehn, the way I used to consume romance novel 😩
    Till God gave me the instruction and strength to stop reading em.

    • @jeh_ssy
      @jeh_ssy 3 роки тому +2

      You know the drill

    • @maggieramara
      @maggieramara 3 роки тому +14

      Wattpad stories are truly from the devil🤣, I used to read them back in highschool😂

    • @jessicaajuonuma7211
      @jessicaajuonuma7211 3 роки тому +10

      Same here. These books nearly had me in, I was addicted but thank God for saving me from them.

    • @MaeOtto
      @MaeOtto 3 роки тому +4

      Nooo... this makes me sad because I just published a book on wattpad. And I'm a Christian novel writer

    • @iampanashejoy
      @iampanashejoy 3 роки тому +2

      @@MaeOtto you should be fine as long as you keep away from the nasty stuff and stay using your gift for God! Who knows who you may reach through Wattpad? (Just make sure God has led you there for it to fully work🤗)

  • @mbalimavuso8735
    @mbalimavuso8735 2 роки тому +17

    Trust in the Lord sis, I'm a 32 year old virgin and God has been so faithful. The man I'm in a courtship with, soon to be my husband has been sent by God and the wait is worth it.

  • @goodymotivation9397
    @goodymotivation9397 3 роки тому +18

    I am 27 years old guy and a virgin... it is a good thing to stay put till when the time is right....

  • @Litany8554
    @Litany8554 6 місяців тому +2

    Although I'm two years late, but I love the passion with which you delivered this. Concerning sex before marriage, I've heard a relationship coach and pastor say that sex before marriage leads to building appetites your spouse will never be able to meet. This can lead to dissatisfaction and eventually adultery. In his words "If you say you're not enjoying sex in your marriage, compared to what? " We were supposed to enter marriage with a clean paper for our spouse to fine-tune to their taste and vice versa.
    Anyways, may God help us.

  • @samuelm_studio
    @samuelm_studio 2 роки тому +19

    I am currently in a season of praying and fasting, I am a 27-year-old who has decided to wait until marriage. I've understood why I need to break certain chains in my bloodline & what I need to do in order to be the one in my bloodline to break chains. As I'm fasting I found this video & I know it's God speaking to me!

    • @eyethumfazwe
      @eyethumfazwe Рік тому

      Keep going fellow compatriot 🇿🇦 glad to see another brother in Christ waiting until the wedding night

  • @dimplesgina9313
    @dimplesgina9313 3 роки тому +68

    Very concise my sister! I married quite late at the age of 31 and I kept my virginity till marriage and never regret it!wedding night was amazing and my husband was on cloud 9 coz of the special gift I reserved and preserved for him! I could go on and on

    • @EstherOlabisi
      @EstherOlabisi 3 роки тому +3

      Awww

    • @dimplesgina9313
      @dimplesgina9313 3 роки тому +2

      @ lol!

    • @AdaoraOA
      @AdaoraOA 3 роки тому +7

      Hmm,was your husband a virgin too?

    • @olafab3998
      @olafab3998 2 роки тому +6

      I'm in my late 30's and i'm also a virgin.People shouldn't be ashamed of being virgins.The normal shouldn't be tagged abnormal.It's best to wait .May God give us all our Right spouses

    • @LiLisLounge
      @LiLisLounge 2 роки тому

      Aww, thanks for sharing this sweet testimony!

  • @Pelumimoraks
    @Pelumimoraks 3 роки тому +57

    Omg someone finally spoke about this 🥺, I feel like one of the reasons I’m still single is cos I’ve been praying to God to help me and he knows if I fall into the wrong relationship I might just fall to sin, I’m so glad you spoke about this 🙌🏽

    • @gloriawaritimi5286
      @gloriawaritimi5286 3 роки тому +1

      Same hereeee

    • @uyoyoueyiyere2368
      @uyoyoueyiyere2368 2 роки тому +1

      Same here.
      Secondly, I'm single because most guys won't date without sex and I want a partner that believes in sexual purity as I do.

  • @la_lah
    @la_lah 3 роки тому +49

    I know the exact YT video you are talking about cause he mentioned the age. I watched it a while back and I just said this boy isn’t serious AT ALL. Many people say, your body your choice. Not having sex is also a choice and no one should be shammed for it.

    • @jideabiaka4487
      @jideabiaka4487 3 роки тому +2

      Lmaooo the fact that I know this boy irl. I just hissed 😂. Was not surprised at all.

    • @uzoemengo
      @uzoemengo 3 роки тому +1

      Pls what's the name of the video 🤣🤣

    • @kallmekoko6277
      @kallmekoko6277 2 роки тому

      What's the name of the channel?

    • @oluwatomiesther1480
      @oluwatomiesther1480 2 роки тому

      Link pls?

    • @titysardonyx207
      @titysardonyx207 2 роки тому

      Pls o, where is the video?

  • @MwaleWaGitau
    @MwaleWaGitau 3 роки тому +82

    I experienced that shame but I decided my virginity is my business! 😳 YES! I stopped talking about it & as life changed & grew people just "assumed" I was like them.
    I discovered the moment I shared with my peers, they either started putting pressure on me or even said I was pretending! 😳 How can you be a virgin at 38!? Yes it's possible & there are plenty of people who value purity. Not just as a gift for a husband but keeping your body as a temple for the Holy Spirit - a pure place for the Spirit of God to dwell & commune through. Having a right relationship with God should be our highest priority - not pleasing a man or society.

  • @Ignitechannel23
    @Ignitechannel23 3 роки тому +25

    Social media has eaten deep into the minds of my generation. Many people believe now that the best place to learn about relationship or sex is online especially Twitter... “Nollywood, Hollywood or Bollywood have nothing to teach me about sex or relationship”
    Things to note 📝
    1)Be realistic to yourself
    2)Avoid setting life styles and avoid people that live that
    3)Watch what you feed your eyes and ears
    4)Set realistic boundaries
    5)Stay prayerful🥺🥺🥺

  • @peacedan9425
    @peacedan9425 2 роки тому +7

    I used to be very embarrassed being a virgin
    I was told am just a rigid beautiful girl wasting her beauty, I tried to show people I wasn't rigid that I just wanted to keep myself but it wasnt working
    I had an encounter, after that I just told myself that I was just going to be myself and serve God with my body no matter what
    I'm 23 and I am very proud to be a virgin

  • @TheDoreenTube
    @TheDoreenTube 3 роки тому +93

    This is one of the best videos I’ve watched on sexual purity! I hope it goes viral because everyone needs to watch this❤️
    Also, I absolutely LOVE the way you edit your videos!

  • @LaetisBeauty
    @LaetisBeauty 2 роки тому +24

    I have never been shamed to be a virgin
    at 21 years old and nobody should. I loved the video❤️❤️

  • @gracefieldafanga8510
    @gracefieldafanga8510 2 роки тому +6

    Found a mentor I love you so much,I literally went to the hospital to get a HIV test for school purposes and they do like a bit of enlightment about what HIV is and how one can get infected.The doctor asked me if I was a virgin and I said yes and she said keep it up it pays and I felt very proud of myself.

  • @TheBillionaireVessel_
    @TheBillionaireVessel_ 3 роки тому +8

    Thank you for doing this! I'm 21 and I'm proud of being a virgin. I'm not feeling any certain way about this because it's the right thing and it's what I want.

  • @okekegraceamarachi9886
    @okekegraceamarachi9886 2 роки тому +7

    Wow.. Just seeing this video
    My story.....
    I made a decision to get married a virgin but I lost it when I was 20 as a result of rape. I hated sex but droned in pornography for the longest of time. Everytime I finish seeing a pornographic content, I become bitter and filthy. I keep asking for forgiving each time but keep going back but never add sex still. It was a terrible addiction.
    I thank you for obeying God and sharing this. I hope its not too late for me.

  • @SavedbyGrace93
    @SavedbyGrace93 3 роки тому +235

    It just hit me right now that I’m 28 and a virgin! 28 guys 😂😂😂! I feel like i was 23 just yesterday i can’t believe it! Where did time go!! Whoa!! I’m enjoying every bit of this video sis!! And I can’t wait to experience what you said happens once you have sex with your spouse! It’s so beautiful! I thank God for preserving me even before I came to Him and for keeping me pure as I wait on the one He has for me! I have been a virgin my whole life it literally feels like a part of me 😂! Looking forward to that married life though! Thanks again for sharing! Love you ❤️

  • @BornofGodalone1
    @BornofGodalone1 3 роки тому +18

    The thing is, people don’t know that this world is actually more spiritual than ever,because whatever a person does is an expression of a spirit living in them,so the question is which spirit have you given yourself to as slave? The day I gave my life to Christ and decided to be transformed by God,I realized that we’re actually being deceived and robbed of our glory by the devil.but the world has refused to see that,when you make a sentence and in all the sentences,you keep on saying God God.they say you’re too spiritual,sister we’re ment to be spiritually inclined to stand firm in this world,for we’re in this world and not of it. Anyway to sum this all up,this is a powerful message from the belly of God really,we youth we have to set a Godly example for the next generations coming,if not nobody will be able to speak again. So keeping your body is actually a very good thing,for the scriptures says “your body is the only reasonable sacrifice you can give to God” and your body is the temple of the Holy Spirit.demons and Holy Spirit can’t dwell in one tabernacle regulating it.like I said before whatever expression you make,it’ll show the spirit that is regulating you either God’s spirit or the spirit of demons.because this world is more spiritual than it is or looks. Selah

  • @rachelessien8088
    @rachelessien8088 3 роки тому +33

    It's so sad that in our world today fornication has been so normalized. Thank yo so much Ezinne for your inspiring story and the encouraging words of wisdom. It inspires some of us who have decided not to compromise no matter what.

  • @royalsbereminded
    @royalsbereminded 3 роки тому +40

    Ezinne, this is beautiful and well-articulated.
    It lifts my heart to know that we have the same PAPA, our Father in heaven. Being a virgin in my 3o's, I am daily grateful that there's no part of me anywhere else but where my Lover and Saviour is. Being Jesus' bride has made the journey a smooth ride without stress, and my heart is filled with gratitude that He has kept me in one peace completely.
    It is sweet to be kept by the Lord and be purified in HIM.
    With all you said, I couldn't agree more.
    I choose to stay where PAPA says I should #freedom not missing out on anything.
    Much love and Light.

  • @kuffreyjones7496
    @kuffreyjones7496 2 роки тому +12

    Thank God I am not lost. His grace is still keeping me... At some point I thought I was an alien.
    Some couple of months, was having a chit chat with roommate back then in school and found out at 28 still a virgin and she was shocked. It became weird to me as if I did the wrong thing... thank you Ezinne for shearing more light on this.

  • @chinyereigwemmadu5931
    @chinyereigwemmadu5931 3 місяці тому +1

    It's not too late to give a shout out to this video 🎉... Watching it 3yrs after it's release makes more sense ❤...
    Thank you Ezinne, i wish this will reach the ends of the earth 🌎 especially in the Christian dome, God bless you ma for preaching the TRUTH without fear or compromise!

  • @pashukeni_
    @pashukeni_ 2 роки тому +15

    This is my kind of content, definitely here to stay 🤞🏾❤️
    Am 28 and still going strong ☺️

    • @falayekikelomo4990
      @falayekikelomo4990 2 роки тому +1

      It really worth it ....The joy, freedom, happiness and the beautiful 😍 Hope, thanks for this Vedio it renew my 💪💪

  • @susancharles3025
    @susancharles3025 3 роки тому +14

    I’m 13 thank you so much

  • @collinsigwemandy5666
    @collinsigwemandy5666 3 роки тому +15

    I spoke these exact words to some colleagues yesterday. It’s all about discipline. You cannot NOT be disciplined as a single person and expect faithfulness or that discipline to suddenly appear in marriage. It simply cannot work and will not work. Powerful message.

  • @okaforgonny6431
    @okaforgonny6431 3 роки тому +44

    Ezinne your videos are really inspiring may God bless you. I’m a University student and I would like to ask if you can make a video on how you maintained your fire for God in your Uni days❤️

  • @ruthngube3515
    @ruthngube3515 3 роки тому +9

    Ezinne is just talking about exactly what I learned some days ago
    God indeed is saying something

  • @krissy_n5732
    @krissy_n5732 2 роки тому +11

    Omg!!! I'M CRYING RN!! My bestfriend lead me to this video and I couldn't be more grateful for her life. I absolutely love videos like this because they make me feel like I belong again. Sometimes it gets way too overwhelming you begin to question whether it's even worth it.
    We truly thank God for people like Ezinne. People who have made it safely to the other side and can assure teens like me,that it will all be worth it in the end. Thank you thank you so much sis. I loved every minute of it. Each time you made a new point to me was a wake up call. A wake up call from God to stop slacking and to keep fighting because like you said "EVERYTHING HE TELLS US TO DO IS FOR OUR OWN GOD. ONLY HE KNOWS. ONLY HE IS WISE"
    I'm so tempted to go deeper into which parts spoke to me the most, but I guess I will leave that part for my journal,lol.
    Love you sis❤️🙏🏽

  • @AnjelLovely1
    @AnjelLovely1 3 роки тому +45

    Wow! The fact that I was thinking about making a video talking about the same topic is crazy. I love confirmations. Thank you Yah. And thank you for this video.

    • @allthingsbrie924
      @allthingsbrie924 3 роки тому +2

      Sameee! 👏👏👏👏

    • @AnjelLovely1
      @AnjelLovely1 3 роки тому +2

      @@allthingsbrie924 Girl we got some work to do then, don't we lol.

    • @allthingsbrie924
      @allthingsbrie924 2 роки тому +1

      @@AnjelLovely1 you right! Gotta get these videos done👏👏👏

    • @BrotherNick777
      @BrotherNick777 2 роки тому

      HalaluYAH, All praises 🙌🏾

  • @tonyelevybraide
    @tonyelevybraide 3 роки тому +7

    That hug 😂😂😂😂 leave room for the Holy Spirit 😂😂

  • @jamespromise8599
    @jamespromise8599 2 роки тому +6

    Just watching this video, I'm a guy still a virgin @25, I've decided to stay pure but it's tough though but I've tried to stay pure till marriage. I pray God strengthens me Amen

  • @olanmatreasure5222
    @olanmatreasure5222 3 роки тому +35

    Keep speaking the truth Ezinne! God bless you and give you more boldness.

  • @iamtife
    @iamtife 3 роки тому +54

    I am just 18 years old watching this.I have heard about these things and this has been my principle.Thank you Ezinne Zara for more light you have shed on this topic via the Holy spirit😇❤‍🔥💯

  • @chigasaki06
    @chigasaki06 2 роки тому +14

    Being a virgin is beautiful! These days, that's like seeing a unicorn, lol. I'm a virgin and I have no issue with it. In fact, a few of my friends confided in me that they wished they waited.

  • @OmotolaAyeni
    @OmotolaAyeni 3 роки тому +115

    Thank you Ezinne.
    I'm 23 and a virgin; all these was for me, I was having it hard but you've given me encouraging words. I can not clearly articulate my emotions on this, but thank you.
    You made this for me, it's now more than a fantasy but an affirmation to keep me, for me.
    Thank you!

    • @ayomideolaleye663
      @ayomideolaleye663 3 роки тому +1

      Please keep keeping it for you dear, till the time is right.

    • @dimplesgina9313
      @dimplesgina9313 3 роки тому +8

      My dear that's great! Keep it, kept mine till 31 and gave it to my husband as a gift! It's worth the wait!

    • @OmotolaAyeni
      @OmotolaAyeni 3 роки тому +1

      @@ayomideolaleye663 I will! Thank you!🧡

    • @OmotolaAyeni
      @OmotolaAyeni 3 роки тому +2

      @@dimplesgina9313 🧡 Waw! I draw encouragement from you, you stood your ground and I can and will stand mine! Thank you!

    • @chidinmaorie7700
      @chidinmaorie7700 2 роки тому

      @@dimplesgina9313 how where u able to wait that long and how did u know he was the one

  • @kerrytosan
    @kerrytosan 2 роки тому +1

    They call it, "Sexual Liberation".
    😂 You description of Hollywood is hilarious 😂

  • @lwipamulenga2449
    @lwipamulenga2449 3 роки тому +19

    this message came in at the right time ..... i feel like its GOD answering all the questions 🤔🤔have been asking him through zara ......am just 18 and am in college been having a lot of pressure from my peers,, but not anymore because this video has really encouged me to keep myself till marriage. now i have no doubts that its for my own good

  • @Nerickgh
    @Nerickgh 2 роки тому +5

    If you are 23 and above and yet still a virgin,my dear, is your blessing you dey carry so. Let no one deceive you into adultery. You should be very much proud of yourself above all your dis-virginized friends. Your own blessings will be abundance. Stay safe for your future wife's and husbands.

  • @daviniumaegis6161
    @daviniumaegis6161 2 роки тому +12

    Actually am subscribing to your channel because you spoke the truth and made a lot of sense and honestly I don't understand why people who are virgins actually feel shameful when they hear people say such to them. I don't get it, because they are they and you are you. When you were making decisions you spoke to yourself. Even when a person hears an advice the decision to listen and do it is from within so why do you shake and feel weird like their words are the reason you for your existence. If you have decided then continue and don't stress about it.
    Laugh and Pray for those who try to shame you because they have little understanding and devil is trying to bound them.
    Am 27 still a virgin and the only people that know are my family, my close friends from uni days and a few relations (and probably you guys reading this lol). Anyway with my deliberately controlled social life, I don't go about telling the world or feel proud of it. Its just me and that's all, because I know its for my good and to the Honor of God, so by His Grace I stay strong.
    If you want to feel weird ask God to help you find yourself in Him as Quickly as possible so you can begin to live the life and purpose you were meant for on this Earth. And He can show to you your spouse if He wills or urge you to someone meant for you.
    Alright my fingers hurts...… Grace to you All and Thank You Ezinne For the truthful packed Video.

  • @ChigozirimPeaceNwabueze
    @ChigozirimPeaceNwabueze 4 місяці тому +1

    Thank you Ezinne for speaking this powerful truth out in a time like this.
    May God continue to keep you🙏

  • @ada8189
    @ada8189 3 роки тому +4

    Can I like this again?
    Commitment 😎 True love 😍 Health 🤗 peace of mind 😇 honour 🔥 dignity 🚪 respect!
    Ezinne you are a blessing to the world. ♥

  • @DicksonJanet
    @DicksonJanet 3 роки тому +8

    Well said my dear.
    Funny enough I’m a virgin at 30yrs. To the few around that knows my status, I’m the most timid and unexposed person. It’s not been easy for me so I support your highlighted points. The pressure will sure be much but we have to STAY PRAYED UP.

    • @chidinmaorie7700
      @chidinmaorie7700 2 роки тому

      What's does the prayed up do.. prevent us from falling

  • @ozichi.
    @ozichi. 2 роки тому +5

    I watched the video where the guy said you should be embarrassed if you’re a virgin and I laughed. It’s ridiculous how how being sexually disciplined is now being laughed at.

  • @abalakablessing996
    @abalakablessing996 2 роки тому +5

    One person is Godly, beautiful and wise all together. Ah ahn! God bless you Ezinne. You're the bomb. You're a gift to this generation. Your light will never burn out in Jesus name. Amen!

  • @ogbodoprince1678
    @ogbodoprince1678 2 роки тому +3

    You said it all. This is a must watch for all teenagers!!

  • @sommietheadmirable
    @sommietheadmirable 3 роки тому +2

    Just two minutes into the video, I have to pause and say God BLESS YOU.

  • @simplymandy3718
    @simplymandy3718 3 роки тому +5

    Well I'm 15 and I watched
    Thanks for all the lovely advice will share with friends 🤗

  • @eshanokperacheal2352
    @eshanokperacheal2352 2 роки тому +83

    No girl/lady should ever think keeping their virginity is a gift to their husband. It's a gift to yourself ,it keeps your mental health in a good state should your relationship break off and many benefit to yourself than any other thing. Your body, your pride , your rules. ( And most importantly keep your virginity secrecy ,not everyone must know that you're a virgin he get why.

  • @faithossai8849
    @faithossai8849 2 роки тому +4

    I'm over 25 and even though I've been involved with guys(i regret this, it was a huge mistake that should never have happened), I've never had sex. it's one of the best decisions ever and I've never felt shame for choosing to abstain.

  • @gizmoteg
    @gizmoteg 2 роки тому

    24 now and never even held hands....it's pissing me off

  • @kelechivera3718
    @kelechivera3718 3 роки тому +4

    I never planned to watch this video but for some reason it kept popping up everytime I opened UA-cam. I'm so glad I watched it. Thank you for sharing the truth❤️

  • @natashabwalya7616
    @natashabwalya7616 3 роки тому +8

    It would be crazy to get such wisdom from this video and still engage in premarital sex...Thanks for the video Ezinne

  • @tamaratarere
    @tamaratarere 3 роки тому +4

    Girrrlllllll if you don't speak the truth with encouragement, thank God and thank you!

  • @talaornela4310
    @talaornela4310 2 роки тому +1

    Very powerful 🙏🙏thanks very much
    I have made mistakes I pray God forgives me and wash me clean again🥺🥺God is all we need in this life

  • @mabelchinelo3507
    @mabelchinelo3507 2 роки тому +4

    OMG😁😁😁
    Thank you so much eziinne Zara this is a decision i made when I was 13 year old and I am still on it (16 year old)
    It hasn't been easy but this video had really encouraged me
    💝💝💝

  • @Rii_jojo22
    @Rii_jojo22 3 роки тому +5

    OMG I don't even know what to say😩😩. Ezinne thank you so much for dropping this video❤..

  • @graceidris77
    @graceidris77 2 роки тому +4

    This title is actually my life. 23 and a virgin and people try to make me feel bad about it but I can’t even be bothered.
    I’m in the business of serving God first 🤗
    It’s not been easy but in the end it’ll be worth it.
    Thank you for talking about this 🙏🏾

  • @ele-ojoagbenu1487
    @ele-ojoagbenu1487 2 роки тому +4

    Oh Ezinne u re so amazing, am 23yrs and still a virgin. God is indeed very wise. cos its really not easy out here, just seeing u alone some people find it hard to believe u re a virgin and they see u as a child, I remember the first day my dad asked me if I was a virgin and I said yes, u needed to see the joy and love in his eyes for me.. This video came at a point were I really need it most.. God bless u for ur encouragement dear... I wish I can have the opportunity to meet with you..

  • @goldenglits981
    @goldenglits981 3 роки тому +6

    You're such a big sister, thank you Zara.

  • @kelechikingsley7968
    @kelechikingsley7968 2 роки тому

    Omo I'm 22 and i wish I heard this Earlier...i just pray for God's purification and strength to abstain

  • @aritnene2139
    @aritnene2139 3 роки тому +8

    Will be playing this at the next youth meeting. Thanks Ezinne. You put it far better than I ever could .

  • @Mr.Modesty
    @Mr.Modesty 2 роки тому +1

    This is first time of seeing a video on UA-cam without a dislike/thumpsdown.
    Dear Ezinne, flesh and blood has not revealed the contents in this video to you but ONLY the spirit of God has.
    God bless you for sharing it.
    I sincerely love, enjoyed, learnt, unlearn and relearned from this video.
    God bless you ma and keep doing exploit.

  • @Menethewriter
    @Menethewriter 3 роки тому +16

    This is such a beautiful break down of sex and the best I have ever watched, you are truly an example fo me in the way you embrace the uniqueness God has placed inside of everyone of us, love to see.

  • @ifechiezeanowi2987
    @ifechiezeanowi2987 2 роки тому +1

    Not me watching Ezinne's old videos and actually getting blessed! 🙏🥺
    Thank you Ezinne ❤️

  • @chiamakanwoko6262
    @chiamakanwoko6262 3 роки тому +3

    This video just came exactly when I'm walking through the wilderness... It's not easy but I'm not giving up. Thank you Jesus.

  • @Ellaspeakss
    @Ellaspeakss 3 роки тому +14

    Wow! this video really gingered me up to stay in the right path cossss this peer pressure thing is not easyyy, so many sinful things have been normalized making you look like you’ve been left out. I pray for other girls and I who have promised to keep ourselves strength and confidence ! Love you Ezinne Zara

  • @_Ruks
    @_Ruks 3 роки тому +11

    Love this video, Ezinne ❤️. And yes,we watch your videos🤭😂. God bless you 💕

  • @imaabasienoch2552
    @imaabasienoch2552 3 роки тому +6

    AMAZINGLY TALKED ABOUT THIS TO MYSELF YESTERDAY!! "EVERYTHING IS FOR YOUR OWN GOOD!" GOD BLESS YOU EZINNE.

  • @sedemejersonvlogs
    @sedemejersonvlogs 3 роки тому +7

    Hmm this issue . So I recently started working at a hotel and guys be pestering my life for my number and I refuse they ask me one question ; are you a virgin ? It's breaks me every single time knowing that sex has been reduced to nothing these days .am a single christian lady just waiting and loving God ryt now the last thing I want is a relationship devoid of God. So help me God .

    • @clove8461
      @clove8461 3 роки тому

      His grace is sufficient for you. Never allow all those weigh you down. You are a jewel so the words of people in pain and whose lived are already disorganized should not be of importance to you. Stay strong

  • @favourxx
    @favourxx 3 роки тому +2

    I'll be friendless if I avoid people that live like that 💔

    • @ChiamakaIkonne
      @ChiamakaIkonne 3 роки тому +3

      There are definitely people who have different views.
      I pray that you find them because you don’t need to drop your standards for anyone ❤️

    • @favourxx
      @favourxx 3 роки тому

      @@ChiamakaIkonne thank you

  • @preshiofficial10
    @preshiofficial10 3 роки тому +4

    Please can you talk about the boundaries that should be taken for Christians about to date 🥺

  • @boundlessworship8974
    @boundlessworship8974 2 роки тому +1

    Everybody needs to listen to ezinne zara. Thank you sis. Fulfilling purpose is just what you're doing. I Celebrate you big sis

  • @Etin_Gabriel
    @Etin_Gabriel 2 роки тому +3

    Thank you for this video. The waiting is worth it. It always sounds strenge to my guys when I tell them I want to wait till marriage. I am 27. Your channel just became my favorite 💕.

  • @py20
    @py20 2 роки тому +2

    How refreshing to know that amidst the growing corruption and ungodliness in our world, there are people standing tall for righteousness and keeping their vessels pure! Thanks for your courage to share this much-needed wisdom. May the Lord bless and keep you and all who choose this path!

  • @olofeoluwaseyi3530
    @olofeoluwaseyi3530 3 роки тому +3

    God bless you sis...You spat the truth
    Emotional purity is also something we need to talk about, so many people are sexually pure, in the physical sense but emotionally, they are full of impurities......

  • @malebohope1636
    @malebohope1636 2 роки тому +2

    👏👏👏👏👏👏👏Thank you for sharing this woman of wisdom!

  • @chiomafavour1426
    @chiomafavour1426 3 роки тому +14

    Ah don't say that o😂 I'm 18 and you inspire me a lot, in fact I wish you would post a video everyday, God has placed something in me to start vlogging as a Christian teen, still praying about it though, seeing as I'm a very introverted person and funds too but in all, God be praised

    • @envoysofzion6163
      @envoysofzion6163 3 роки тому +2

      Hi Chioma, keep praying. If God tells you to do it, don't let funds stop you. When you're ready, message me for support. Any small thing will be helpful.

    • @favour_mkpuruoma
      @favour_mkpuruoma 3 роки тому

      once God says Go.. Things will work together for your good

    • @oluwatomiesther1480
      @oluwatomiesther1480 2 роки тому

      @@envoysofzion6163 God Bless You

  • @PeachesMD
    @PeachesMD 2 роки тому +2

    Our reason for avoiding premarital sex should not be to have a good marriage, but because scriptures demand that we flew fornication.