He is an arrogant person!! Makes me wonder how Marie can put up with him. You are already trying to help him process his papers to be a permanent resident in an easy way but he is not listening!!!
agoy ana jd cgru ng german kay naa koy friend maglabad jpon eyang ulo kay dli jd maminaw eyang bana kay cya jd ang correct kay usahay eyang asawa mulakaw nlng kay magdako mn jd mahimong away hehe so kita 😊😊 makaana nlng thanks god kay akng bana cya jd ang maghunahuna dli nko magkaragkag❤bless kaau cya ma'am kay bsan ug nangisog n cya smile 😊 lng jhapon❤❤ god bless po❤❤❤
@@AForeignerinthePhilippines I agree with the first sentence, but you are right on the rest. I don't think Marie wants him kicked out.. But he will come around, and his being hard headed at his age, he aint never gonna change that, besides, his hard headedness got him where he is, paradise with a beautiful woman waaaaaaaaaaaay out of his league. Same for me.
Jesus if i was in phillipines i Take marie as my wife. She seems like wonderful patient woman. Im much younger only 50 HAHA. I also don't like to argue.
In my understanding he doesn’t care about permanent residence. He is content with just visa, being 3 people trying to convince him makes him feel pressure and make him doubts to do things. I would feel the same way. Let him just stay using his visa, if he doesn’t want to become a permanent resident then let him be. He also said his wife doesn’t need to be with him that respond he felt pressure.
I respect your viewpoint but! The reality is, permanent residence makes sense. On a visitors visa you are required to renew several times a year equivalent to every two months at a cost of several thousand pesos plus travel time and expenses. Travel is hard for Alfred due to his weakness in the legs. From his home it would be an all day thing maybe even an overnight hotel stay and this is every two months. Permanent Residence requires just one appearance per twelve months with a cost of just p300, yes three hundred pesos! He wants the permanent residence. The only disagreement is about WHEN! The Filipina viewpoint is based on experience of needing plenty of time allowed for anything going wrong. Beth recommends playing safe and doing it sooner than later.😁
Yes it makes sense but not to Alred. He is very stubborn he says he has already paid until next year. Filing the forms like you suggest according to his logic is like he getting double charged. In his viewpoint he thinks he is being scammed. OMG poor Marie. She is trying her best to help him but he won't listen. just let him keep renewing his visa if that is how he feels comfortable. He is very old and may die anyday now anyways. Marie should have married a better man. @@AForeignerinthePhilippines
No wonder he never had a woman because he's a very angry man. All the time he doesn't listen. He runs his mouth all the time I could not stand to be around
I know the process about securing a 13a visa, been there done that, even if he speaks English, his mother tongue is German and he probably would understand better, but he's a grumpy old man who will find out the hard way if he doesn't have those papers filled out correctly, feel sorry for the Asawa,she has a ton of patience🤔
We should show a little patience. His reluctance to act is understandable. The process so far has been very difficult. The German government are not easy to deal with. They insist, of course, on all paperwork being in German which means having everything translated into German and notarized and then translated back into English for the Philippines. This is only part of the complicated process he has been going through for some time now. It would try the patience of a Saint.🙏🙏
Let the Philippine government send him back to Germany .Iam german and he is a total jerk.The Philippines should ban him and deport him. See how far he gets over there.He is totally rude.
@@AForeignerinthePhilippines Yea, I missed it the first time I watched this vid, but this time I saw him near the end smoking. I thought, man, this guy is a walking ad for cigarette companies. SO much for making you die young. lol So, thats why I made the post.
It's more about quality of life. Smoking carries a greater risk of a stroke so while you may live a long life it may include the need for someone to feed you, bathe you and change your diaper. Alfred is I believe, not yet 70.
Renewing a tourist visa takes time and money in visa fees and travel -- several hours driving -- several times in the year. Alfred is not physically fit as you can see. The wisdom of being resident is obvious -- just one trip to immigration every twelve months with a fee of only p300+ as opposed to thousands of pesos and physical stress. Personally it doesn't matter to me either way we are just trying to help.
Omg he still alive ? find a translator dictionary book or something etc. You have to speak to him one person at a time I think he is confuse old man. Hope things are going well these days.
It's true that finances do play a major role in why foreigners retire here but meeting a Filipina and having another chance at life is equally as big a reason.
Pastilan ang tigas nang ulo paintindihin di hayaan nyang babalik sa bansa nya kung ayaw nang alte man na yan makinig sa explanation nyo nagsayang lang kayo nang laway tama naman yong sinabi nyo para sa kanya normal before 6 na buwan process na yang papel kung maaga much better
Yes, maybe inexperienced with ph. Or his old mental state makes him hard time with understanding/relate to how inefficient ph is. He thinks that MAY is when he needs to fix things. Bc it expires in aug. And maybe the paper says that. But ph is VERY unreliabile in many things. So any bigger paperwork should be started many months in advanced in ph. And you never know if they suddenly ask for some EXTRA paperwork.. that jeeds to be legalized etc. Legalizing of papers can take months to fix.
He appears to have a hearing problem going by the day Alfred and Marie were married. Perhaps he needs new hearing aids? Maybe to have a male German language interpreter to explain to this to him would help.
need to relate to him in a 3rd party wat to keep it less adversarial way you can't but heads with him. slowly work into 3rd party story of what happen to some else, and how sad it was.
Yes. Involve the German embassy to help him. Or at minimum some good German speaking agency. Because at his age and mental stage, it will be hard with such important understanding of processes in english. He needs it in German, to easier grasp things.
How much the money he pay if he have permanent visa here in the Philippines,I think very expensive, he is old now he can renew the visa if he want to stay here
It may have increased now, but when I applied it cost me p11k at the interview stage and ty three months later p9k when I picked up my card, we did the paperwork ourselves -- it wasn't difficult. Now I have to appear once a year at a cost of p300.
He doesn't listen 😅 He always thinking the value of his money.. l understand about money... but not all the time.. some stuff need to get it done ealier than we wanted.
Correct if he'll process his Tourist visa but not correct now because the paperwork is about securing a Permanent Residence Visa for him - so that he can have the option to stay in the Philippines forever instead of another Tourist Visa that requires him to go out of the country after a time frame and then come back again. He's no longer strong enough to satisfy the requirements of a Tourist Visa.
@@AForeignerinthePhilippines Of course I do but not this way of easy life. Don't complained, just deal with it.. That old man is too old and that young phillipine wife have to deal with it. After all, she knew that he's way tooooo old for her but knowingly she married him for 💰.......
they are hard headed they think they know everything thats why i let mike leave my house becuase im independent i never depend to the guy.i dont him in my life and im not home im working working in singapore.
@@AForeignerinthePhilippines judging what? Baka may iba siyang plano, bayaan natin. Ineexplain sa kanya pero parang iginigiit niya ang gusto niya. Hintayin na lang tutal inexplain na sa kanya mali ba ako?
Stop trying to protect him, let him bear the consequences of his actions, that's what life is about. If he didn't learn that yet, then he never will. Plus he probably has dementia, who needs that amount of aggravation. Let the chips fall where they may, what ever will be, will be
@@AForeignerinthePhilippinesma'am bet,E uli nalang Yan Sa Germany ui.kalain pud tan.awun niya walay alot tag.as na kaayo ug bungot Pati buhok murag uwak naman na siya ui✌️✌️✌️✌️✌️✌️
Still alive and well......I remember when he was almost dead😂 still never humbled himself same nasty attitude
my father was the same when getting him a visa i feel for you guys
Hardheaded old man
He is an arrogant person!! Makes me wonder how Marie can put up with him. You are already trying to help him process his papers to be a permanent resident in an easy way but he is not listening!!!
😐😐😐
Minsan nakakapagud mag explain kung hindi naman makikinig. Napaka lucky niya may nag tiyaga na mag explain kahit ilang beses na nag walk out.
If he doesn’t believe you guys bring him to the Embassy office so all office workers can explain to him.
This is when a senior citizen home is required.
Alfred's health condition is about reduced mobility -- as in hip and perhaps knee joints. He is not sick.
agoy ana jd cgru ng german kay naa koy friend maglabad jpon eyang ulo kay dli jd maminaw eyang bana kay cya jd ang correct kay usahay eyang asawa mulakaw nlng kay magdako mn jd mahimong away hehe so kita 😊😊 makaana nlng thanks god kay akng bana cya jd ang maghunahuna dli nko magkaragkag❤bless kaau cya ma'am kay bsan ug nangisog n cya smile 😊 lng jhapon❤❤ god bless po❤❤❤
Let him what he want to do! That guy so hard headed!!! Let the govt kick him out of the country so marie can stay alone of his property! 😅
Not the best solution😐
@@AForeignerinthePhilippines I agree with the first sentence, but you are right on the rest. I don't think Marie wants him kicked out.. But he will come around, and his being hard headed at his age, he aint never gonna change that, besides, his hard headedness got him where he is, paradise with a beautiful woman waaaaaaaaaaaay out of his league. Same for me.
Yes, he doesn't appreciate how fortunate he is.
A confused man is a dangerous man..
Verrrrryyy hardheaded!!@
Bis der ganze Papierkram erledigt ist, kann es 3 Monate dauern, das ist es, was sie Ihnen sagen wollen.
He is a hard headed old man.
Yep🤕
Jesus if i was in phillipines i Take marie as my wife. She seems like wonderful patient woman. Im much younger only 50 HAHA. I also don't like to argue.
😁😁😁
OMG - you tried so hard. He is being so dense. It's ridiculous for him to argue. Poor Marie. She might be better off if he gets sent home ;-)
Did you get through to him in the end ,that is a German trate stubbornness and possibly a bit arrogance.
Work in progress 😁
My husband is german yes that thier attitude hard headed.
We have been there too. Some of these foreigners have no patience. They always compared that their place is much better when processing things.
Yes, it's better to understand this is a foreign country and respect their ways of doing things.
Better to send to their owned land
In my understanding he doesn’t care about permanent residence. He is content with just visa, being 3 people trying to convince him makes him feel pressure and make him doubts to do things. I would feel the same way. Let him just stay using his visa, if he doesn’t want to become a permanent resident then let him be. He also said his wife doesn’t need to be with him that respond he felt pressure.
I respect your viewpoint but!
The reality is, permanent residence makes sense.
On a visitors visa you are required to renew several times a year equivalent to every two months at a cost of several thousand pesos plus travel time and expenses. Travel is hard for Alfred due to his weakness in the legs. From his home it would be an all day thing maybe even an overnight hotel stay and this is every two months. Permanent Residence requires just one appearance per twelve months with a cost of just p300, yes three hundred pesos!
He wants the permanent residence. The only disagreement is about WHEN!
The Filipina viewpoint is based on experience of needing plenty of time allowed for anything going wrong. Beth recommends playing safe and doing it sooner than later.😁
@@AForeignerinthePhilippines He is lucky he has you guys to help him through this. He is obviously getting frail. God Bless You.
Explain it to him or make him understand because it's a good deal for having permanent resident visa
Yes it makes sense but not to Alred. He is very stubborn he says he has already paid until next year. Filing the forms like you suggest according to his logic is like he getting double charged. In his viewpoint he thinks he is being scammed. OMG poor Marie. She is trying her best to help him but he won't listen. just let him keep renewing his visa if that is how he feels comfortable. He is very old and may die anyday now anyways. Marie should have married a better man. @@AForeignerinthePhilippines
No wonder he never had a woman because he's a very angry man. All the time he doesn't listen. He runs his mouth all the time I could not stand to be around
he dont now its nex year for his 13A visa .. he tink its an other extension..
Or another dimension 😆😆😆
If he don’t believe you guys forget it he’ll be sending him back home
Alfred has always been his own man. Our main concern is for Marie.
Lisod na pasabton ang tiguls...
I know the process about securing a 13a visa, been there done that, even if he speaks English, his mother tongue is German and he probably would understand better, but he's a grumpy old man who will find out the hard way if he doesn't have those papers filled out correctly, feel sorry for the Asawa,she has a ton of patience🤔
We should show a little patience. His reluctance to act is understandable. The process so far has been very difficult. The German government are not easy to deal with. They insist, of course, on all paperwork being in German which means having everything translated into German and notarized and then translated back into English for the Philippines. This is only part of the complicated process he has been going through for some time now.
It would try the patience of a Saint.🙏🙏
Let the Philippine government send him back to Germany .Iam german and he is a total jerk.The Philippines should ban him and deport him. See how far he gets over there.He is totally rude.
Let Terrence explain maybe he will listen..
No, we tried that 🤔
I have to whatch this again so funny 😂
😄😄😄
I know, its a marlboro commercial, "THE MAN WITH NO COMPROMISE, HE DOES IT HIS WAY, THE MARLBORO WAY"
Funnily enough Alfred is a smoker 😁
@@AForeignerinthePhilippines Yea, I missed it the first time I watched this vid, but this time I saw him near the end smoking. I thought, man, this guy is a walking ad for cigarette companies. SO much for making you die young. lol So, thats why I made the post.
It's more about quality of life. Smoking carries a greater risk of a stroke so while you may live a long life it may include the need for someone to feed you, bathe you and change your diaper.
Alfred is I believe, not yet 70.
He can renew his visa if the visa expired
Renewing a tourist visa takes time and money in visa fees and travel -- several hours driving -- several times in the year.
Alfred is not physically fit as you can see. The wisdom of being resident is obvious -- just one trip to immigration every twelve months with a fee of only p300+ as opposed to thousands of pesos and physical stress. Personally it doesn't matter to me either way we are just trying to help.
Why you are helping him if is not listening to you guys just go in his way see what happend to him very hard headed good luck
We are concerned about Marie, remember they are a married couple.
Omg he still alive ? find a translator dictionary book or something etc. You have to speak to him one person at a time I think he is confuse old man. Hope things are going well these days.
He is a hot temper old man and will never listen to people explaination
Was ist hier passiert? Er ist so alt, dass er auf die Philippinen kam, um dort besser versorgt zu werden ...
It's true that finances do play a major role in why foreigners retire here but meeting a Filipina and having another chance at life is equally as big a reason.
He's a very lucky man to have Marie
They are well suited in many ways
Where is beth'5 husband TERRANCE 😢😢😢
Terence won't visit Alfred anymore, too stressful dealing with him.
Ganyan talaga ugali ng ibang German. 😅😅😅.Ngayon ko lang ito napanood. Ano na nangyari ngayon kay Alfredo?
He lives a quiet life with his wife Marie -- he is not fond of video cameras now.😁
Deport him@@AForeignerinthePhilippines
Pastilan ang tigas nang ulo paintindihin di hayaan nyang babalik sa bansa nya kung ayaw nang alte man na yan makinig sa explanation nyo nagsayang lang kayo nang laway tama naman yong sinabi nyo para sa kanya normal before 6 na buwan process na yang papel kung maaga much better
We do what we can, but he makes his own decisions 😐
He's thinking with his German brain and not considering the reality of the Philippines
Yes, maybe inexperienced with ph.
Or his old mental state makes him hard time with understanding/relate to how inefficient ph is.
He thinks that MAY is when he needs to fix things. Bc it expires in aug.
And maybe the paper says that.
But ph is VERY unreliabile in many things.
So any bigger paperwork should be started many months in advanced in ph.
And you never know if they suddenly ask for some EXTRA paperwork.. that jeeds to be legalized etc.
Legalizing of papers can take months to fix.
You are absolutely correct but he wouldn't listen
OMG just comply then problem solve for your residency.
Good advice
He just won't listen to Beth😅
He appears to have a hearing problem going by the day Alfred and Marie were married. Perhaps he needs new hearing aids? Maybe to have a male German language interpreter to explain to this to him would help.
need to relate to him in a 3rd party wat to keep it less adversarial way you can't but heads with him. slowly work into 3rd party story of what happen to some else, and how sad it was.
When can you get here? 😁😁😁
HEHE, well I am coming from Kentucky but I will be retiring soon probably early June. @@AForeignerinthePhilippines
is hard to explain people don’t know about the law in the Philippine! You guys have to explain very clearly because American people don’t know,
He is not american,he’s from Germany.
We can only do so much.
@@AForeignerinthePhilippines Beth bring him to the nearest embassy in the office
Yes. Involve the German embassy to help him.
Or at minimum some good German speaking agency.
Because at his age and mental stage, it will be hard with such important understanding of processes in english.
He needs it in German, to easier grasp things.
And he is used to German public services.
But in ph, what they say and what actually can expect is often not in sync.
So always add extra buffer.
I guess where theres desperation, even small money talks
I don't believe it is only about money big or small.
hindi kayo maintindihan guys dalhin nyo nlang siya embassy para sila ang mag explain para mas malinaw sa kanya ang lahat ...
I think it's you who doesn't understand.
Beth let your husband explain it to him.or he can go home..
Each to his own way, especially the stubborn ones🥴
How much the money he pay if he have permanent visa here in the Philippines,I think very expensive, he is old now he can renew the visa if he want to stay here
It may have increased now, but when I applied it cost me p11k at the interview stage and ty three months later p9k when I picked up my card, we did the paperwork ourselves -- it wasn't difficult. Now I have to appear once a year at a cost of p300.
He doesn't listen 😅 He always thinking the value of his money.. l understand about money... but not all the time.. some stuff need to get it done ealier than we wanted.
let your husband explain him..
oh my god,pinakasalann yo pa isang taong ganyan ugali.
They are happier together than you might think😁
That guy is correct. u all can do his papers three monthts before it expires.
In the Philippines where nothing is predictable why would you wait when it can be done now?
Correct if he'll process his Tourist visa but not correct now because the paperwork is about securing a Permanent Residence Visa for him - so that he can have the option to stay in the Philippines forever instead of another Tourist Visa that requires him to go out of the country after a time frame and then come back again. He's no longer strong enough to satisfy the requirements of a Tourist Visa.
OMG😂
Phillipine girls want easy lifestyle and marry very old men and now they have to deal with it.....
It's easy to make assumptions on so little information and to get it wrong, but don't we all seek an easier life ; even yourself perhaps?
@@AForeignerinthePhilippines Of course I do but not this way of easy life. Don't complained, just deal with it.. That old man is too old and that young phillipine wife have to deal with it. After all, she knew that he's way tooooo old for her but knowingly she married him for 💰.......
Live and let live and don't be so quick to judge others.
Aguy ka gahi ug ulo maayo gani naay bae nag tiyaga.sus di lalim baya mag penalty pasagdi na dai marie i deport hehehe
You've only seen a glimpse of their life together on video, they are happy.💓
Hindi ko alam bat nagstay pa yung babae jan. Anu bang nakita nya sa matanda na yan.
Each to their own way of life.
Pabalikin neo yan sa embassy pasaway na matanda tinulungan na xa p galit😅
Maayo pa marie n manghanap k ug laing lalaki.
They are married. You don't just walk out on a marriage -- do you?
That's a real German....
they are hard headed they think they know everything thats why i let mike leave my house becuase im independent i never depend to the guy.i dont him in my life and im not home im working working in singapore.
Take care 💥
Stubborn man..
Stubborn.
Hay nako ambot sa langaw
He needs help.
Mahirap talaga makipag deal SA isang matanda
Not true
Iam thinking he needs a person who speaks both Ti an German to explain the issue.
Dios ko Lord akala niya makatipid siya 🤣🤣🤣 He loves money
Not true. Be kind, he doesn't have unlimited cash -- do you?
Mga Inday die deutsche luete die wollen das nicht gusto nila Kong ano ang gusto nila
She should not marry him! If it’s not too late!
Too late they married some time ago and are happy.
ka batingulan baya kang tiguwanga ka
Sounds like my uncle when he
Doesn't understand
.Dapat di ns tinutulungan yan.walang utang na loob
As you judge others....
Bayaan ninyo!!! Problema niya yan, kung di siya lumapit sa inyo tungkol diyan.
You are too quick to judge; you don't know the whole story.
@@AForeignerinthePhilippines judging what? Baka may iba siyang plano, bayaan natin. Ineexplain sa kanya pero parang iginigiit niya ang gusto niya. Hintayin na lang tutal inexplain na sa kanya mali ba ako?
Stop trying to protect him, let him bear the consequences of his actions, that's what life is about. If he didn't learn that yet, then he never will. Plus he probably has dementia, who needs that amount of aggravation. Let the chips fall where they may, what ever will be, will be
Wise words, and coincidentally it's what I did -- even Beth lost patience🤕
Wag kc kayo magtawanan baka isipin niya di seryuso yan?
Sounds as though he needs another guy to explain it to him, his macho image is standing strong
Against all others, not just Marie
@@AForeignerinthePhilippinesma'am bet,E uli nalang Yan Sa Germany ui.kalain pud tan.awun niya walay alot tag.as na kaayo ug bungot Pati buhok murag uwak naman na siya ui✌️✌️✌️✌️✌️✌️
👏👏😂😂 So arrogant OLD man, 😂 I THINK HE IS NOT A GERMAN, HE IS MARRIED TO A YOUNG LADY MY GOD, THINK ALWAYS🤔
Just go out from him ..ur young you find another guy younger than him..its waisting of time for you for waiting....
Each to their own way, plus they are married.
It's like dumping an old clothes that you can no longer use and buy a new one? Easy as that?
This really is a comedy skit, right?
It's whatever you want it to be🤡
Paulia na xa sa ila oi.problema ng tawhana dris pinas
Bakit po pinag asawa ninyo yong pilipina ng matandang foriegner ano yan taga pag alaga sela ng old na foriegner hinde magsnda po yan
People make their own decisions, not us.