Girl, you husband spoke from his heart in front of family and friends. I don't think that I would forgive him because he believed what he said. Now you are being gaslighted. There is a reason why he said what he said in front of everyone. You are the stand-in, the backup. I am so sorry for you.
I would never be able to trust him ever again, I'd be too scared of him suddenly deciding to humiliate me in public the next time he feels stressed...but having kids changes everything, doesn't it?? You have to swallow your own hurt feelings, your own desires and regrets for "not choosing another path", swallow that down, along with your pride and selfrespect and just what?? Cross your fingers and hope it's all worth it??! I would at least demand a "post-nup" from him before even considering making myself vulnerable to him again, he's already proven he's willing to throw you away and both your family and his- AND all your friends and coworkers will all still be gossiping about you and how freaking spineless you must be- lol ugh, no, I couldn't do it, OP must obviously be a very different person than me...thank god Jessica is a good friend
Find me a story where a couple actually go to therapy and communicate with each other and don't just decide to divorce I understand most people wouldn't be able to forgive this situation but that's the thing of you really love and care for this person than you married and if they're willing to really go to therapy and couples counseling for you take that chance see where it goes because you never know there could be a deeper route to the cause where they're not really in love with somebody you're trying to cheat on you there's something more to it yeah I get it it's not an excuse for them no matter what but you know if you really care for somebody you can make it work this is why I feel like a lot of people need to stop coming to Reddit and just go to a therapist and find communication between them and a spouse
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Girl, you husband spoke from his heart in front of family and friends. I don't think that I would forgive him because he believed what he said. Now you are being gaslighted. There is a reason why he said what he said in front of everyone. You are the stand-in, the backup. I am so sorry for you.
There is no way I would've stayed with him. He will be cheating next if he hasn't already.
If my man pulled some s**t like this with me IM GOIN TO JAIL🤬🤬🤬
Nah he ain't worth the bail and legal fees lmfao
@@sammyk702 Good point 💯💯💯
I would never be able to trust him ever again, I'd be too scared of him suddenly deciding to humiliate me in public the next time he feels stressed...but having kids changes everything, doesn't it?? You have to swallow your own hurt feelings, your own desires and regrets for "not choosing another path", swallow that down, along with your pride and selfrespect and just what?? Cross your fingers and hope it's all worth it??! I would at least demand a "post-nup" from him before even considering making myself vulnerable to him again, he's already proven he's willing to throw you away and both your family and his- AND all your friends and coworkers will all still be gossiping about you and how freaking spineless you must be- lol ugh, no, I couldn't do it, OP must obviously be a very different person than me...thank god Jessica is a good friend
Divorce him. No way i would stay with a man who did that.
4:57 who does these captions? Pleading not bleeding 😂
You made the right choice for yourself 💔
2:03 and I was hoping Jessic's reply was 'yup, we do - your wife! I fancy her beyond belief!'
This feels generated lol
Fake af for sure. It's funny there are tons of these, written more in a style of a short novel than anyone really pouring their heart out.
If this story is real...girl runnnnnn.
It's obviously not it's Ai
@redditstories3080 I clearly said ''If its'' duh.
Find me a story where a couple actually go to therapy and communicate with each other and don't just decide to divorce I understand most people wouldn't be able to forgive this situation but that's the thing of you really love and care for this person than you married and if they're willing to really go to therapy and couples counseling for you take that chance see where it goes because you never know there could be a deeper route to the cause where they're not really in love with somebody you're trying to cheat on you there's something more to it yeah I get it it's not an excuse for them no matter what but you know if you really care for somebody you can make it work this is why I feel like a lot of people need to stop coming to Reddit and just go to a therapist and find communication between them and a spouse