When you get married, you are creating another family unit. Ethan is the OP’s family now, not her family. She is doing to right thing. If her sister’s husband had an issue with Ethan he should have addressed the issue instead of dragging everyone else into the mess. Excluding Ethan from the wedding was going to cause issues no matter what. OP is doing the right thing setting boundaries with her family. Ethan comes first.
Its amazing that Liam couldn't remember exactly what Ethan supposedly even said word for word, if im willing to fo to war with a family member or extended family member i would've known exactly what they said word for word if it struck such a hard cord, seem Liam frels threatened by Ethan maybe felling not as good 😮😊
When people say you are choosing your spouse over your family. But your spouse IS your family. Your chosen family. These people are ridiculous. Op did the right thing. Her husband should have come first in this instance.
That makes sense. Neither Liam nor the father are projecting masculine energy. I would describe them as b*tchy. Lots of dodging, weaving, deflecting and lying. Excluding a person from a wedding has a very "toxic femininity" vibe.
They keep telling op to just put it aside for one day and yet Liam couldn't put it aside in the first place. They told OP that she should consider her family not acknowledging that her husband is now her family.
Your husband or wife IS your family. Part of the marriage is that husband and wife "become one flesh". They become one life. Excluding one is so wrong it beggars belief that anybody fails to see it.
Ah yes I love when the stories get so repeated and twisted that someone fully swaps the genders of everyone involved instead of finding new material. TLDR the original story it's the wife who doesn't want the sister in law to attend and the brother of the groom who had his wife excluded.
All these stories seem to have large, large families that all live close by and have active family group chats and activities. Not my experience in real life.
So, let me get this straight-you’re okay with Liam, someone who isn’t even married into the family yet, setting boundaries for the entire family. Meanwhile, the sister’s husband, who has been part of the family for much longer, is being pushed aside for someone who seems unstable-and the family is fine with that? Not only that, but the parents don’t even have the courage to stand up for their own child and her spouse. Instead, they’re allowing an outsider to create division. You have got to be kidding me. You don’t even know what the real issue is with Liam, yet you’re accepting it. You’re willing to turn your back on one of your daughters for someone who’s imposing his own rules on your family.
What they did was wrong, but Ethan needs to straighten up his back, pick up his shoulder’s and stop crying. It ain’t that serious. I would’ve thought of it as a free pass, and spent that time with my family.
Maybe it's just me. But if I'm willing to tell one of my siblings their wife/husband isn't invited i would have a very specific reason. Not some vague bull poop nothing explanation
I’ve heard this exact story before, but all the genders were reversed. 😂 literally verbatim same story, but the males were females and the females were males
They didn't want drama? They were making the drama! They things you were overreacting, but their whole exclusion of your husband was an overreaction. You were putting Ethan above family? Ethan is your family. This whole thing was stupid.
All these stories seem to have large, large families that all live close by and have active family group chats and activities. Not my experience in real life.
So it was OK for the sister to stand by what her husband wanted, but wasn't ok for OP to stand by her husband?
Oh ya that makes sense 🤦♀️
I came here to say just that.
When you get married, you are creating another family unit. Ethan is the OP’s family now, not her family. She is doing to right thing. If her sister’s husband had an issue with Ethan he should have addressed the issue instead of dragging everyone else into the mess. Excluding Ethan from the wedding was going to cause issues no matter what. OP is doing the right thing setting boundaries with her family. Ethan comes first.
Family comes first..... forgetting that Ethan is also op's family
Its amazing that Liam couldn't remember exactly what Ethan supposedly even said word for word, if im willing to fo to war with a family member or extended family member i would've known exactly what they said word for word if it struck such a hard cord, seem Liam frels threatened by Ethan maybe felling not as good 😮😊
When people say you are choosing your spouse over your family. But your spouse IS your family. Your chosen family. These people are ridiculous. Op did the right thing. Her husband should have come first in this instance.
The original story was the wife that actually getting cast out from the wedding and not the husband.
I think they are doing this changes for only views.... Original was wife who got outcast... Not husband... All roles are deliberately exchange
Ikr? I thought it sounded familiar. Though it took me a while to realize.
All these stories are just reuploads of older stories where they change the gender of the op and other characters.
I noticed the same thing.
That makes sense. Neither Liam nor the father are projecting masculine energy. I would describe them as b*tchy.
Lots of dodging, weaving, deflecting and lying. Excluding a person from a wedding has a very "toxic femininity" vibe.
Her dad is such a drama queen
Nah, his mom is the drama queen. It's a gender swap of another story.
They keep telling op to just put it aside for one day and yet Liam couldn't put it aside in the first place.
They told OP that she should consider her family not acknowledging that her husband is now her family.
The story:
🎶blood is thicker then water, blood is thicker then water, blood is thicker then water but both feel the same when your eyes are closed🎶
Nobody ever explained why having Ethan there would be a source of drama.
Why does everyone think that having Ethan there would be drama? Excluding him was the source of the drama!
Your husband or wife IS your family. Part of the marriage is that husband and wife "become one flesh". They become one life. Excluding one is so wrong it beggars belief that anybody fails to see it.
We never meant to make him feel excluded, when we were excluding him.
Are you even listening to yourself?
Ah yes I love when the stories get so repeated and twisted that someone fully swaps the genders of everyone involved instead of finding new material. TLDR the original story it's the wife who doesn't want the sister in law to attend and the brother of the groom who had his wife excluded.
But WHY was he excluded?????
Just some jealous mean girl bs. They gender flipped the story, when you remember it was mil and future dil vs. current dil it makes more sense.
I'm sorry, Ethan is OPs family now! Not just them..OPs dad and Liam are just a control freak!
All these stories seem to have large, large families that all live close by and have active family group chats and activities. Not my experience in real life.
So, let me get this straight-you’re okay with Liam, someone who isn’t even married into the family yet, setting boundaries for the entire family. Meanwhile, the sister’s husband, who has been part of the family for much longer, is being pushed aside for someone who seems unstable-and the family is fine with that?
Not only that, but the parents don’t even have the courage to stand up for their own child and her spouse. Instead, they’re allowing an outsider to create division. You have got to be kidding me. You don’t even know what the real issue is with Liam, yet you’re accepting it. You’re willing to turn your back on one of your daughters for someone who’s imposing his own rules on your family.
What they did was wrong, but Ethan needs to straighten up his back, pick up his shoulder’s and stop crying. It ain’t that serious. I would’ve thought of it as a free pass, and spent that time with my family.
Why exactly was he not invited?????
I was wondering that too
Maybe it's just me. But if I'm willing to tell one of my siblings their wife/husband isn't invited i would have a very specific reason. Not some vague bull poop nothing explanation
I’ve heard this exact story before, but all the genders were reversed. 😂 literally verbatim same story, but the males were females and the females were males
I am wondering why all the hate towards Ethan. This was a problem even before Liam and I feel Liam was acting based on bias from family.
isnt the og with the while genders reversed? like its the mans wife not invited to his brothers wedding, and the mom being dramatic not the dad
Imagine if the roles were reversed
Liam Theo Gromzilla.
They didn't want drama? They were making the drama! They things you were overreacting, but their whole exclusion of your husband was an overreaction. You were putting Ethan above family? Ethan is your family. This whole thing was stupid.
This is a very clearly gender swapped story. Like to the point that I wonder what the story Thief was even thinking
I think they both should apologize. Ethan for whatever he said to Liam. And Liam and your father to Ethan
But what did he say?
I want the last 27 minutes of my life back...
#yawn 🥱
My husbands excluded so am i, we come as a pair, he didnt even tell you what was said just some comment……..
Same fake AI story like before. But this time the husband who got cast out
Repeating same thing over and over again.
They never even said EHY no one liked the guy
All these stories seem to have large, large families that all live close by and have active family group chats and activities. Not my experience in real life.