Nikki you need to make a video on professionalism! Because Ima be honest, as a woman, I DO get emotional and when people are rude to me I want to get upset sooo bad and give it back but I gotta learn to stay composed 😭
I don't think those period tracking apps are good to use. It's really invasive when it comes down to all kinds of crap they can do ans hack with technology tbh. But you do you, I wasn't trying to sound shitry at all btw ❤ I just have a strong mistrust for much of tech they push to ppl now a days mostly. Like Alexa for example ans ahit like that-no thanks. I bet they'll be using our grocery store loyalty/discount cards to influence our insurance premiums and transplant list recipient eligibility etc in the future. 😂
@@aleahamarrie6415 I use flo. And I think after using it for awhile, it becomes really accurate for some reason? I am extremely irregular with my cycle but my app can still tell me the exact day I start. It also tracks ovulation, and it helps with if you're trying to get pregnant/not pregnant, and other lil things like that. Personally I like it the best, but definitely do your own research to see what works for you! :))
@@karivitou2816I totally understand where you're coming from!! I understand perspective of being a lil paranoid over your information, and with how it is nowadays? As you should! 👏 I definitely am protective over my info, but personally, this is the only way I can stop ruining my clothes/sheets 😂😭 And I could learn all the detail about the menstrual cycle, and write it on a paper calendar but to me, convience is key 👌Having 3 surprise periods in one month is no bueno.
Love the way you spoke about your mama. As a single mom myself, I am taking notes! 📝 You should definitely have Momma Glamour on a video and discuss how she got by as a single momma and all her tips and tricks
They LOVEEEEE to sit up here and ask for patience and forgiveness but will be the FIRST ones to pull out “per our policy” card when the shoe is on the other foot. In court, the judge literally don’t give a single shit about “well judge, we are the busiest store IN THE REGION/STATE” 💀💀
This story is the exact reason why people need to ask or think about context before calling people “Karen’s”.lord knows how much a person had to deal with before they asked for a manager or called corporate.
It’s so true ,when you stay calm and they start turning red because they want to tell you all the way off … but you stay sitting like a Queen & it KILLS THEM!! It’s so hard though because some of them want my hood side to jump out and it has and when I would go that route I always lost and looked like a crazy person.
i’m the big sister but you’re literally mine 🥹 this video was SUPER educational, i always love & appreciate the strong woman advice you give that’s also passed down from Mama Glamour 💗
This means so much to me. Sometimes you just someone to give you the real tea about regular life situations and TRUST I’ve learned so many things the hard way and I’m so so happy to pass along my knowledge ! I got MY Glamazons 👏🏽🥰
My boyfriend is a car guy and does all the maintenance work on my car while also teaching me how to. I’ve learned all so much about cars and how they work, it has definitely helped in dealing with these kinds of people.
This entire video was so eye-opening and insightful! I love that last bit at the end, “people depend on you being oblivious. People depend on you not knowing your rights, not knowing what you’re signing, just being oblivious- they love it when you’re oblivious-it’s easy to steal from you, persuade you, take advantage of you.” What I took away from this video is that you must learn to advocate for yourself.❤️
As a female veteran that her job was a mechanic in the navy I have many stories like this. And my lovely husband knows nothing about cars. We got stories for days. Lol.
You have taught me so much about self respect and making sure I understand my worth enough to stick up for myself. As a young woman this world often teaches me through experiences that I am not worth being respected. Thank you for giving me the ability to learn and love who I am.
You have no idea how much you’ve taught me and made me aware of. As a young woman (and now mom) who doesn’t have anyone really to teach me and talk to me about all these things, you’re just really doing gods work! ❤
Listen, I haven't finished the video yet but I have to say, in terms of Mike this is EXACTLY why I refuse to go anywhere not dressed cute. Even if cute is just athletic wear, men specifically WILL treat you differently if they find you attractive. A lot of ppl say it shouldn't matter and no it should but it does. We live in a world where it does so set yourself up for success 🤷🏾♀️
I feel you on it when I was going to school. I used to always make sure I was put together anyway, I look presentable even though we were wearing uniforms and everybody looked the same but I genuinely liked looking put together and I still do like that it’s just nowadays it’s hard to do it, and my choice of where doesn’t even coincide with what I want to look like and where I met in life now and it’s extremely hard to get to that point and your retro to coincide and where you are in life like the person I want to be is this person that is always together that’s always put together and I’m looking for that soft girl living with a touch of professional wear what are also a little bit of lounge and preppy I think some people forget that presentation matters like you said, even though it shouldn’t, it really does matter you how you look how you present yourself plays a big part on how people treat you in this world
“I can see that we’re not going to come to an agreement” = “I didn’t think you’d still be here in the 8th round.” Also, thank you so much for this type of content. I was raised with the advice of “just ignore it” and it always made me feel defenseless, because I was. Thanks for showing us how to stand up for ourselves!
Girl you have been glowing these last few videos! Even on only fans. You look amazing! Please share your tips and tricks on just hygiene and your more lifestyle stuff. I wanna be like you!!
Hahahaha out of context this comment is HILARIOUS 😂 so so sweet! Thank you my love! I’m filming more than ever now with updated EVERYTHING including skin and makeup routine. I finally feel more like myself girl. I was depressy pants for a minute there 🫠
Your mom is a superwoman & no one can convince me otherwise! I had a awful day so thank you for helping me get my mind off of everything for a lil bit♥️☺️
I know all of this but as a woman it is hard to hear that people think you’re weak and can manipulate you easily. Glad I am aware of it all, but something you reminded me of today is to keep my emotions in check because this I struggle with, I would rather learn to be the crazy calm lol. I have before so I know I can but I am passionate/ emotional sometimes instead.
I always make sure to listen extra hard when Nikki is teaching us some professional, mature, grown ass ways, especially when dealing with people like THAT, because the way she talks!!and her vocab! Sheeessshhh!!! 🔥🔥 Lol. She can handle herself!! I’m trying to be on your level sis!! 🤩Thank you for always giving us such amazing advice!!!🙌🏽🫶🏼
Nikki you did right! As someone who’s worked in a dealership, service director usually handle these type of issues but when customers were still not happy they’d take it up to corporate. Best advice, don’t waste your time go straight to corporate. ESPECIALLY if it’s anything related to warranty.👌🏻
I’ve watched SO many videos of yours, but this is the one that I was literally audibly cheering & responding to as you told this story!! 😂 I had a very very similar experience with Jaguar… right down to managers & supervisors ignoring, screening calls, never calling back, hanging up, etc. In the end, I had to hire a lawyer just to send them a letter to “scare” them into doing the right thing. It was eventually rectified, but I had to fight tooth and claw for months against the enormous corporate monkeys. 😅
Nikki you have taught me so much girl. It's nice to have content creators who you can actually look up to and who teach you real life situations and how to handle them. Especially as a woman?! I am thankful for you and your mom, and having examples of strong successful women of color. These kinds of stories are so helpful.
I'm so glad you went to corporate and the better business bureau!! Service everywhere is SO lacking now days everyone thinks they can hide behind their desk and there's no accountability it's so sad and disheartening that adults behave so immaturely it's true that you can't have confidence in service!
Girl, now you understand how lesbians feel. My gf and I are fortunately knowledgeable when it comes to cars and house maintenance but damn why do we gotta know everything just so these men don’t heckle us. If I can give advise ladies: try to make friends with a mechanic so you don’t gotta worry about getting scammed.
When i went into the dealership to look into cars to buy and no one even came up to me. And the person that finally did acted like i was a huge inconvenience. I ain’t buying nothing from them.
As someone that works in the service department of a dealership I can confidently say it’s not because your a female. You would’ve gotten the same treatment as a male. Maybe it’s just my dealer cause my manger is a female who used to be a mechanic
And that’s why I stick by my girl Nikki 😊 I’m 26 and I’ve been with you since I was in high school! You always come thru with the entertainment bestie (,: 🤍🤍
Girl this is so true about treatment at dealerships especially with car shopping ! When I started shopping for my car a few years back the fresno Audi sales reps didn’t acknowledge me or bother to greet me when I was shopping. I made multiple visits and each time I had to hunt down a sales rep and pull teeth for answers! Needless to say I went all the way down to Temecula instead and had the best experience from the initial inquiry to the purchase of my car weeks later.
Girl!! I had my daughter on my 17th b day. Although i was young i matured very quickly bc i had no choice. When she was 2 i noticed she had a speech delay so i went to get her evaluated. Now i was 19 but i but i literally looked 12 lol. So the first speech therapist they sent me to was very dismissive. I had 1000 questions with a pad to take down what i should be doing at home in conjunction to the therapy. She was short with me didn't want to explain anything thoroughly and was overall an asshole. It was clear she thought bc i was young i wasn't intelligent or didn't care. I said to her verbatim "I know i'm young but i am her mother and i would appreciate if you would treat me as such. I would like for you to be very detailed in your responses so we can work together to get my baby where she needs to be. The manner in which you have been discussing this with me thus far has been completely unacceptable. If you have an issue i will take her to someone else and report you for your incompetence." She stared at me for a moment and completely changed her tone and attitude but she never apologized. She became very detailed in her responses and was overall professional and helpful. I still took her to someone else anyway bc i will absolutely not be leaving my baby with you 😤. After then i started learning to do make up bc her teachers treated me the same way and i was tired of putting every single person in their place before getting respect lol
I’m sorry you had to go through that, I’m not a mother but I can imagine how stressful that was and trying to keep it together for the sake of your child getting better then having to put up with someone so ignorantly
@@ashantim8734 Thanks girl ...it was so ridiculous having to do a full face of make up to take her to Dr's appointments and parent teacher conferences. None of them would take me seriously unless I had make up on or put them in their place after the disrespect smh. If I missed a day from wearing make up they treated me like I was a brand new person. That was truely exhausting. She's 26 now and she is having the same problem bc she looks so young. She doesn't have kids tho luckily so it isn't as important as it was for me. She just ignores it as long as her business gets handled.
@AudreyArdenBeauty yea looking younger than you are can be an issue, I was a substitute for 3 years and I would be mistaken for a student by other teachers at new schools.
You should always leave your home put together the best you can. You never know who you will run into and like it or not the first thing people judge you off of is your appearance. So if you go out looking a mess and expecting to be treated with professionalism it’s probably not going to happen.
I’ve been watching you since 6th grade and i’m 26 now :’) going back to this story time- mama glamour really taught me that woman have the power to do anything they put their minds to. i used this exact tactic which i learned from this story time and i have the place of my dreams ❤️
I work at a hotel and cannot stress enough ( my own personal experience) women checking in are easier and will listen instead of questioning everything. All of the ladies I have had the pleasure of checking in or even talking to at the hotel I work at are more understanding and will let me talk and explain things of the hotel than men
Man and women in customer service are alike. Each time I walk into Ulta, I never receive assistance. I receive stares, but never assistance. The cashiers sometimes ask, "Did you receive assistance today?". No ma'am I never do. I see Ulta as a place to have a self care moment. A place I should have a great experience. The recent trips have been a disappointment. I will shop at my local pharmacy or drive to the closest Sephora for assistance. Thank you Nikki. This video served as a life lesson we can all relate to. ❤
I went to my local dealer for service and when I pulled in no one acknowledged me. I wrote a 1 star review and I had managers blowing up my phone. Since then anytime I came in people would say hi and actually acknowledge me. Wild the shit we have to go through as women
Girl this is soo true, thanks for bringing it to light. This needs to be a well known quote "the world is banking on you not knowing your shit." I don't know how many documents I signed when I was younger because I didn't know and I trusted when they said just sign here smh. Another quote "if it's important enough for me to sign it's important enough to read!" Love you girl ❤
Nikkiiii! This is probably my favorite video to date! It breaks everything down about how men (not all men but iykyk) think they can get over on women. I Don’t always read the fine print. My problem is I don’t wanna be a burden & people like Jessica are the issue honestly. Glad u did ur “big one” lol. I love that ur able to do these kinds of videos. We need more videos like this 😊
I had to complain about my dealership. Made a honest review of my experience and the manager kept reaching out to me, saying he would ensure all of my needs were met next time. I didn’t delete the review and haven’t been back. They didn’t fix a safety issue….
This has happened to me before. I was in college, and the staff in the administrative office kept ignoring my incoming phone calls when the office was empty with no students. I watched a woman stand there chewing gum and barely glancing at the phone and ending my line multiple times. I calmly walked in and asked her why she ignored my phone calls y times, and I saw her hang up on me while staning inf ront of the door. I told her if she couldn't do her job to assist me, then find someone else who could do her job for her because my patience has run thin. And it was so silent you could hear a pin drop.
Thank youuu girl I’m so excited for my upcoming videos. My passion is back with a fury you hear me?? Lol I just love you ❤❤❤ Thank you for all your support my love. see you sooonnn!
Nikki I strive to be you when it comes to these kinds of situation. I’m not street smart and I don’t like being confrontational, but hearing yk your stuff makes me want to, too.
I love when you give life advice, Nikki! I become more aware of the world we live in and the barriers we go through as women, thank you for always sharing with us ❤
Hey Nikki Thank you so much for these videos. The way you say that you want to prepare us for the outside world, that you got our back even when we are practically strangers, is so heartwarming. This protectiveness is sometimes hard to find in people close to us. A request🥺: Can you give us pointers on how we can prepare ourselves for some male dominated field situations, pleaseeeee. Giving your/your mom's story examples.
Nikki, I admire you SO much. There’s always pros and cons to the debate of the internet. However, I have learned SO much from you. Your faithful glamazons , such as myself are forever indebted ❤️much love.
F*** yaaassss 🙌🏽 We love a good storytime. I'm going to repeat the comments and say we need mama glamour on here like now!!! She sounds like a great leader 💓 I would love to see her tips and tricks she learned along the way.
Nikki Iv been watching you since I was in highschool I’m 22 now I love you girl i learn so much from you I would’ve never thought to stand up SOO high for myself I’m taking notes💅🏻HAHA
Right! I’m always side eying when I’m being rushed. I don’t care how busy it is…Imma do what I want if it’s my turn….how disrespectful was the boss? OMG! I woulda went off…good for you for keeping calm! You sure handled him!
Need more of this! I come from single parent home w my mom and I see how she does it too. She's very charming when she's interacting w ppl! I'm glad to have been able to witness that and to hear that this is like a universal guide for women
Dealership service centers are awful. I had a recent experience with one too. The service advisor girl who worked at the dealership I went to, kept changing her stories. I know she was after my money. 😤
Hi Nikki! I’ve been a silent watcher for years but I just would like to say thank you for all the life lessons you have taught us all. I have been watching you since I was 14-15 and I am now 23 and have learned so much from you. Thank you for that 🥹💕
GURL YES! there is always someone higher up. i had to call corporate for a dealership bc they wouldn’t return MY cash deposit when i specifically told them, i will be back the following day to retrieve it if my bank does NOT approve the loan. & they tried keeping it for a few days saying they already deposited the cash but i literally left at closing time and was there the following morning
For this reasons it’s why I decided to go to school for automotive, now I been working in mechanic shops for about 2+ years and every time a women walks in the shop they feel more confident having a girl helping them and explaining to then what’s going on with their vehicle.
I literally click on your videos so fast, you always just get it! Your content is always so relatable and therapeutic love you Nikki thank you for another banger!
SO ridiculous of you to expect the employee to alert you of a warranty which includes fixing a recalled piece which could kill or harm you and/or others on the road!! Maybe they’d like a lawsuit instead?
Nikki I been here since the beginning and girl your one of the woman I admire and look up to and as well to mama glam cuz I see the love she has for her kids that she made sure y’all learned from the best ❤❤ girl I love love love your story times thanks you for sharing
Nikki you need to make a video on professionalism! Because Ima be honest, as a woman, I DO get emotional and when people are rude to me I want to get upset sooo bad and give it back but I gotta learn to stay composed 😭
that's the worse right?! 😣
100%!!! Would love this! Especially in healthcare
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I need this!!!
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My period app said today was a self-care day, and then Nikki posted a storytime. My app has NEVER been THIS accurate.
What app do u use/is it free?
I don't think those period tracking apps are good to use. It's really invasive when it comes down to all kinds of crap they can do ans hack with technology tbh. But you do you, I wasn't trying to sound shitry at all btw ❤ I just have a strong mistrust for much of tech they push to ppl now a days mostly. Like Alexa for example ans ahit like that-no thanks. I bet they'll be using our grocery store loyalty/discount cards to influence our insurance premiums and transplant list recipient eligibility etc in the future. 😂
@@aleahamarrie6415 I use flo. And I think after using it for awhile, it becomes really accurate for some reason? I am extremely irregular with my cycle but my app can still tell me the exact day I start. It also tracks ovulation, and it helps with if you're trying to get pregnant/not pregnant, and other lil things like that. Personally I like it the best, but definitely do your own research to see what works for you! :))
@@karivitou2816I totally understand where you're coming from!! I understand perspective of being a lil paranoid over your information, and with how it is nowadays? As you should! 👏 I definitely am protective over my info, but personally, this is the only way I can stop ruining my clothes/sheets 😂😭 And I could learn all the detail about the menstrual cycle, and write it on a paper calendar but to me, convience is key 👌Having 3 surprise periods in one month is no bueno.
whats period app?
"This entire world is betting on you not knowing your sh*t" That is so real. Thank you for sharing your knowledge and a great storytime!! ❤
Love the way you spoke about your mama. As a single mom myself, I am taking notes! 📝 You should definitely have Momma Glamour on a video and discuss how she got by as a single momma and all her tips and tricks
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Yes!!! I’m not a single mom, but I have so much respect for them & would love to know how they DO THE DAMN THING. 💕
Forreal. I need all the advice.
They LOVEEEEE to sit up here and ask for patience and forgiveness but will be the FIRST ones to pull out “per our policy” card when the shoe is on the other foot. In court, the judge literally don’t give a single shit about “well judge, we are the busiest store IN THE REGION/STATE” 💀💀
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This story is the exact reason why people need to ask or think about context before calling people “Karen’s”.lord knows how much a person had to deal with before they asked for a manager or called corporate.
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True but most of these karens will literally make a big deal out of NOTHING just for attention tho.
It’s so true ,when you stay calm and they start turning red because they want to tell you all the way off … but you stay sitting like a Queen & it KILLS THEM!! It’s so hard though because some of them want my hood side to jump out and it has and when I would go that route I always lost and looked like a crazy person.
i’m the big sister but you’re literally mine 🥹 this video was SUPER educational, i always love & appreciate the strong woman advice you give that’s also passed down from Mama Glamour 💗
This means so much to me. Sometimes you just someone to give you the real tea about regular life situations and TRUST I’ve learned so many things the hard way and I’m so so happy to pass along my knowledge ! I got MY Glamazons 👏🏽🥰
@@NikkiGlamour sometimes big sisters need big sisters too aside from mom 💗 thank you for giving us you.
My boyfriend is a car guy and does all the maintenance work on my car while also teaching me how to. I’ve learned all so much about cars and how they work, it has definitely helped in dealing with these kinds of people.
This entire video was so eye-opening and insightful! I love that last bit at the end, “people depend on you being oblivious.
People depend on you not knowing your rights, not knowing what you’re signing, just being oblivious- they love it when you’re oblivious-it’s easy to steal from you, persuade you, take advantage of you.”
What I took away from this video is that you must learn to advocate for yourself.❤️
As a female veteran that her job was a mechanic in the navy I have many stories like this. And my lovely husband knows nothing about cars. We got stories for days. Lol.
You have taught me so much about self respect and making sure I understand my worth enough to stick up for myself. As a young woman this world often teaches me through experiences that I am not worth being respected. Thank you for giving me the ability to learn and love who I am.
“Take a picture and then send it to me” LMAOOOOO Niki😭😭😭✋🏽 so trueeee thoe
You have no idea how much you’ve taught me and made me aware of. As a young woman (and now mom) who doesn’t have anyone really to teach me and talk to me about all these things, you’re just really doing gods work! ❤
Listen, I haven't finished the video yet but I have to say, in terms of Mike this is EXACTLY why I refuse to go anywhere not dressed cute. Even if cute is just athletic wear, men specifically WILL treat you differently if they find you attractive. A lot of ppl say it shouldn't matter and no it should but it does. We live in a world where it does so set yourself up for success 🤷🏾♀️
I feel you on it when I was going to school. I used to always make sure I was put together anyway, I look presentable even though we were wearing uniforms and everybody looked the same but I genuinely liked looking put together and I still do like that it’s just nowadays it’s hard to do it, and my choice of where doesn’t even coincide with what I want to look like and where I met in life now and it’s extremely hard to get to that point and your retro to coincide and where you are in life like the person I want to be is this person that is always together that’s always put together and I’m looking for that soft girl living with a touch of professional wear what are also a little bit of lounge and preppy I think some people forget that presentation matters like you said, even though it shouldn’t, it really does matter you how you look how you present yourself plays a big part on how people treat you in this world
You shouldn't have to though, like dressing up for car maintenance is ridiculous.
“I can see that we’re not going to come to an agreement” = “I didn’t think you’d still be here in the 8th round.”
Also, thank you so much for this type of content. I was raised with the advice of “just ignore it” and it always made me feel defenseless, because I was.
Thanks for showing us how to stand up for ourselves!
Girl you have been glowing these last few videos! Even on only fans. You look amazing! Please share your tips and tricks on just hygiene and your more lifestyle stuff. I wanna be like you!!
I second that!
Hahahaha out of context this comment is HILARIOUS 😂 so so sweet! Thank you my love! I’m filming more than ever now with updated EVERYTHING including skin and makeup routine. I finally feel more like myself girl. I was depressy pants for a minute there 🫠
What type of content on Only Fans ??
Your mom is a superwoman & no one can convince me otherwise! I had a awful day so thank you for helping me get my mind off of everything for a lil bit♥️☺️
Nikki always coming through at the right time ✨️💯
I know all of this but as a woman it is hard to hear that people think you’re weak and can manipulate you easily. Glad I am aware of it all, but something you reminded me of today is to keep my emotions in check because this I struggle with, I would rather learn to be the crazy calm lol. I have before so I know I can but I am passionate/ emotional sometimes instead.
I always make sure to listen extra hard when Nikki is teaching us some professional, mature, grown ass ways, especially when dealing with people like THAT, because the way she talks!!and her vocab! Sheeessshhh!!! 🔥🔥 Lol. She can handle herself!! I’m trying to be on your level sis!! 🤩Thank you for always giving us such amazing advice!!!🙌🏽🫶🏼
Nikki you did right! As someone who’s worked in a dealership, service director usually handle these type of issues but when customers were still not happy they’d take it up to corporate. Best advice, don’t waste your time go straight to corporate. ESPECIALLY if it’s anything related to warranty.👌🏻
Nikk, I really love when you start out by showing your audience where you got your backbone from.
Shouts out mama glamour!! 💕
I’ve watched SO many videos of yours, but this is the one that I was literally audibly cheering & responding to as you told this story!! 😂
I had a very very similar experience with Jaguar… right down to managers & supervisors ignoring, screening calls, never calling back, hanging up, etc. In the end, I had to hire a lawyer just to send them a letter to “scare” them into doing the right thing. It was eventually rectified, but I had to fight tooth and claw for months against the enormous corporate monkeys. 😅
You literally need to start “School of Nikki” where we all can sit down in class and learn everything from you!!
Girl. This story is sooooo intense! What an awesome story! A whole thriller! Thank you!
Nikki you have taught me so much girl. It's nice to have content creators who you can actually look up to and who teach you real life situations and how to handle them. Especially as a woman?! I am thankful for you and your mom, and having examples of strong successful women of color. These kinds of stories are so helpful.
I'm so glad you went to corporate and the better business bureau!! Service everywhere is SO lacking now days everyone thinks they can hide behind their desk and there's no accountability it's so sad and disheartening that adults behave so immaturely it's true that you can't have confidence in service!
Nikki is back, really needed another story time. 🥰💗
Girl, now you understand how lesbians feel. My gf and I are fortunately knowledgeable when it comes to cars and house maintenance but damn why do we gotta know everything just so these men don’t heckle us. If I can give advise ladies: try to make friends with a mechanic so you don’t gotta worry about getting scammed.
My husband and I own a house now, and I'm so happy we don't have to deal with applying for apartments and landlords
Girl congratulations cause this housing market is INSANE 🫠😩
When i went into the dealership to look into cars to buy and no one even came up to me. And the person that finally did acted like i was a huge inconvenience. I ain’t buying nothing from them.
Definitely needed a story time from you! Thank you Nikki love you ♥️
As someone that works in the service department of a dealership I can confidently say it’s not because your a female. You would’ve gotten the same treatment as a male. Maybe it’s just my dealer cause my manger is a female who used to be a mechanic
And that’s why I stick by my girl Nikki 😊 I’m 26 and I’ve been with you since I was in high school! You always come thru with the entertainment bestie (,: 🤍🤍
Girl this is so true about treatment at dealerships especially with car shopping ! When I started shopping for my car a few years back the fresno Audi sales reps didn’t acknowledge me or bother to greet me when I was shopping. I made multiple visits and each time I had to hunt down a sales rep and pull teeth for answers! Needless to say I went all the way down to Temecula instead and had the best experience from the initial inquiry to the purchase of my car weeks later.
Honestly, as a woman in her early 20s, you have taught me so much that not even my own parents have taught me lol. You’re my actual spirit animal ❤️😂😭
Girl!! I had my daughter on my 17th b day. Although i was young i matured very quickly bc i had no choice. When she was 2 i noticed she had a speech delay so i went to get her evaluated. Now i was 19 but i but i literally looked 12 lol. So the first speech therapist they sent me to was very dismissive. I had 1000 questions with a pad to take down what i should be doing at home in conjunction to the therapy. She was short with me didn't want to explain anything thoroughly and was overall an asshole. It was clear she thought bc i was young i wasn't intelligent or didn't care. I said to her verbatim "I know i'm young but i am her mother and i would appreciate if you would treat me as such. I would like for you to be very detailed in your responses so we can work together to get my baby where she needs to be. The manner in which you have been discussing this with me thus far has been completely unacceptable. If you have an issue i will take her to someone else and report you for your incompetence." She stared at me for a moment and completely changed her tone and attitude but she never apologized. She became very detailed in her responses and was overall professional and helpful. I still took her to someone else anyway bc i will absolutely not be leaving my baby with you 😤. After then i started learning to do make up bc her teachers treated me the same way and i was tired of putting every single person in their place before getting respect lol
I’m sorry you had to go through that, I’m not a mother but I can imagine how stressful that was and trying to keep it together for the sake of your child getting better then having to put up with someone so ignorantly
@@ashantim8734 Thanks girl ...it was so ridiculous having to do a full face of make up to take her to Dr's appointments and parent teacher conferences. None of them would take me seriously unless I had make up on or put them in their place after the disrespect smh. If I missed a day from wearing make up they treated me like I was a brand new person. That was truely exhausting. She's 26 now and she is having the same problem bc she looks so young. She doesn't have kids tho luckily so it isn't as important as it was for me. She just ignores it as long as her business gets handled.
@AudreyArdenBeauty yea looking younger than you are can be an issue, I was a substitute for 3 years and I would be mistaken for a student by other teachers at new schools.
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You should always leave your home put together the best you can. You never know who you will run into and like it or not the first thing people judge you off of is your appearance. So if you go out looking a mess and expecting to be treated with professionalism it’s probably not going to happen.
the way i was bawling my eyes out and then i seen nikki posted and felt better immediately
I admire the way you speak and carry yourself I get so excited when I see your story times
i love the way you and your mom carry yourselves. the professionalism is everything
nikki u literally raised me… love u and ur advice!
I’ve been watching you since 6th grade and i’m 26 now :’) going back to this story time- mama glamour really taught me that woman have the power to do anything they put their minds to. i used this exact tactic which i learned from this story time and i have the place of my dreams ❤️
I work at a hotel and cannot stress enough ( my own personal experience) women checking in are easier and will listen instead of questioning everything. All of the ladies I have had the pleasure of checking in or even talking to at the hotel I work at are more understanding and will let me talk and explain things of the hotel than men
Man and women in customer service are alike. Each time I walk into Ulta, I never receive assistance. I receive stares, but never assistance. The cashiers sometimes ask, "Did you receive assistance today?". No ma'am I never do.
I see Ulta as a place to have a self care moment. A place I should have a great experience. The recent trips have been a disappointment. I will shop at my local pharmacy or drive to the closest Sephora for assistance.
Thank you Nikki. This video served as a life lesson we can all relate to. ❤
I found u when I was about 17 and u would always start with get your wine and your snacks..it just makes me happy that I can finally get the wine now😂
Nahhh fr 😭😭 sameee
I went to my local dealer for service and when I pulled in no one acknowledged me. I wrote a 1 star review and I had managers blowing up my phone. Since then anytime I came in people would say hi and actually acknowledge me. Wild the shit we have to go through as women
Girl this is soo true, thanks for bringing it to light. This needs to be a well known quote "the world is banking on you not knowing your shit." I don't know how many documents I signed when I was younger because I didn't know and I trusted when they said just sign here smh. Another quote "if it's important enough for me to sign it's important enough to read!" Love you girl ❤
I already know it’s gonna be a good story time 💕
I’m almost 40 and just now realizing how much emotions get in the way with everything I’m learning to control thanks for the info
Been watching Nikki for years, my comfort creator always coming in clutch 🫶
Nikkiiii! This is probably my favorite video to date! It breaks everything down about how men (not all men but iykyk) think they can get over on women. I Don’t always read the fine print. My problem is I don’t wanna be a burden & people like Jessica are the issue honestly. Glad u did ur “big one” lol. I love that ur able to do these kinds of videos. We need more videos like this 😊
I had to complain about my dealership. Made a honest review of my experience and the manager kept reaching out to me, saying he would ensure all of my needs were met next time. I didn’t delete the review and haven’t been back. They didn’t fix a safety issue….
This has happened to me before. I was in college, and the staff in the administrative office kept ignoring my incoming phone calls when the office was empty with no students. I watched a woman stand there chewing gum and barely glancing at the phone and ending my line multiple times.
I calmly walked in and asked her why she ignored my phone calls y times, and I saw her hang up on me while staning inf ront of the door. I told her if she couldn't do her job to assist me, then find someone else who could do her job for her because my patience has run thin.
And it was so silent you could hear a pin drop.
The fact that the gold pumpkin in the back is on the edge is literally me at work lol 😂
Gurl you went innnnnnnn on the jeep story. Definitely loved how you handled the problem with such professionalism.
Man that sucks I dislike the fact that ppl are like that 🙄 thanks for sharing with us gurl we truly appreciate you sis 💗
loving the consistency nikki!! these storytimes really bring joy to my heart, wishing you and your beautiful family the best ❤
Thank youuu girl I’m so excited for my upcoming videos. My passion is back with a fury you hear me?? Lol I just love you ❤❤❤ Thank you for all your support my love. see you sooonnn!
Nikki I strive to be you when it comes to these kinds of situation. I’m not street smart and I don’t like being confrontational, but hearing yk your stuff makes me want to, too.
Thank you for this video! I’m in my early 20s and I’m looking to move out of my parents apartment. These tips are definitely gonna help out a lot.
I love when you give life advice, Nikki! I become more aware of the world we live in and the barriers we go through as women, thank you for always sharing with us ❤
Hey Nikki Thank you so much for these videos. The way you say that you want to prepare us for the outside world, that you got our back even when we are practically strangers, is so heartwarming. This protectiveness is sometimes hard to find in people close to us.
A request🥺: Can you give us pointers on how we can prepare ourselves for some male dominated field situations, pleaseeeee. Giving your/your mom's story examples.
Nikki, I admire you SO much. There’s always pros and cons to the debate of the internet. However, I have learned SO much from you. Your faithful glamazons , such as myself are forever indebted ❤️much love.
17:59 amen! Screw them for trying to screw you over. Looks like Mike is the only sensible person in there
This is probably my new favorite Story Time from you! Girl power!!!💪🏽🙋🏻♀️👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼❤
EXCITED!!! stopped study for midterms to treat myself to a story time🥰💗💗
F*** yaaassss 🙌🏽 We love a good storytime. I'm going to repeat the comments and say we need mama glamour on here like now!!! She sounds like a great leader 💓 I would love to see her tips and tricks she learned along the way.
You are so well spoken and quick with your words and so intelligent!!!!!!! You should teach classes on this!!! I would pay money.
Nikki Iv been watching you since I was in highschool I’m 22 now I love you girl i learn so much from you I would’ve never thought to stand up SOO high for myself I’m taking notes💅🏻HAHA
Love you, Nikki, really. When I need a boost of confidence and empowerment, I always turn to your videos. Thank you ❤
Yessssss!!! The ✨Emotional Intelligence✨ is so important for us women!! This video was just inspiring! And I love the way you tell stories 😂😂
Look at my tia Nikki out here teaching us how to be grown ups lol
Right! I’m always side eying when I’m being rushed. I don’t care how busy it is…Imma do what I want if it’s my turn….how disrespectful was the boss? OMG! I woulda went off…good for you for keeping calm! You sure handled him!
I clicked so fast I love story times!!! Love you Nikki❤❤❤
Need more of this! I come from single parent home w my mom and I see how she does it too. She's very charming when she's interacting w ppl! I'm glad to have been able to witness that and to hear that this is like a universal guide for women
Dealership service centers are awful. I had a recent experience with one too. The service advisor girl who worked at the dealership I went to, kept changing her stories. I know she was after my money. 😤
LOVE YOU NIKKI AND THANKS FOR POSTING, we’re awaiting glamourween too ❤
Hi Nikki! I’ve been a silent watcher for years but I just would like to say thank you for all the life lessons you have taught us all. I have been watching you since I was 14-15 and I am now 23 and have learned so much from you. Thank you for that 🥹💕
Fall decor in the back is givinggg 😍
The ending got me🤣”take a picture and send it to me”🤣😭yess Nikki these tips are very good to know I love your storytimes🫶🏻
I had a rental car place that was supposed to be free for the issues with my brand new car. They charged me and NEVER paid me back.
GURL YES! there is always someone higher up. i had to call corporate for a dealership bc they wouldn’t return MY cash deposit when i specifically told them, i will be back the following day to retrieve it if my bank does NOT approve the loan. & they tried keeping it for a few days saying they already deposited the cash but i literally left at closing time and was there the following morning
Girllll... you are my literal idol
I’m 28. I own my own home and I’ve worked and earned my own money since I was 16…. But as soon as my car needs taken in I’m always phoning my dad 😂
For this reasons it’s why I decided to go to school for automotive, now I been working in mechanic shops for about 2+ years and every time a women walks in the shop they feel more confident having a girl helping them and explaining to then what’s going on with their vehicle.
I literally click on your videos so fast, you always just get it! Your content is always so relatable and therapeutic love you Nikki thank you for another banger!
SO ridiculous of you to expect the employee to alert you of a warranty which includes fixing a recalled piece which could kill or harm you and/or others on the road!! Maybe they’d like a lawsuit instead?
I would have hopped in my car bc obviously they want to see me in person 😂😂😂
Girl this is one of the most satisfying videos of yours that I'd heard. Thank you!😂
my Monday just got better hehe ily nikki I just finished listening to the podddd
You’re so sweet girl thank you! I really appreciate alllll of your support for real 🥰💞💞💞
You’re better then me because after he hung up I’m already at the dealership making a SCENE😩😩😩😭
I needed this a lot tips for a single mom slightly scared
i been waiting for a new storytime for so long ong i rewatched all your videos again lmao
NIKKI! OMG HOW ARE YOU THIS BEAUTIFUL 😍. YOU LITERALLY ARE A GODDESS. ❤
Girlll about timeee I’ve been waiting for you new video!!!!
Nikki I hope you know how much we love you!!!! Your videos really make my day boo!!❤
Nikki I love the advice you give! Thank you , please keep giving us more 🫶🏽
this video is amazing nikki!!! please do more video like this, and give us tips!! love you nikki 🧡
Nikki I been here since the beginning and girl your one of the woman I admire and look up to and as well to mama glam cuz I see the love she has for her kids that she made sure y’all learned from the best ❤❤ girl I love love love your story times thanks you for sharing