The secret to staying motivated when dreams feel far away
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- Опубліковано 6 лют 2025
- Are your dreams feeling out of reach? In this video, I share my journey to building confidence and staying motivated-even when the road is long and overwhelming. From bootstrapping a business to overcoming personal struggles, I'll show you how tiny, consistent actions can unlock your biggest goals.
I am also excited to see you support each other in the comments.
What are you working towards?
00:00 - Struggling with Confidence? Start Here
00:25 - The Baby Step That’s Bringing Me Closer to My Dream Life
01:00 - From Rock Bottom to Self-Made: My Confidence Journey
02:10 - The Truth About Confidence: Why It’s Built, Not Born
03:35 - Feeling Overwhelmed? This Simple Trick Changes Everything
04:50 - Want Motivation? Here’s Why Small Wins Matter Most
06:00 - The Gratitude Hack That Supercharges Confidence
07:30 - What My Cycles Taught Me About Confidence and Growth
09:00 - Why Celebrating Wins Is the Key to Motivation
09:50 - How We Can Build Confidence and Motivation Together
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My purpose for this channel is to help others get 'unstuck.' I've been stuck in something I wanted out of for my whole life - starting with the super strict religion I grew up in, my marriage from 18 - 25, many other relationships, and finally my businesses that got too big and too stressful for me.
In my 40's, I'm finally taking the final steps to get myself free.
I've come a long ways.I just have some business things I need to get through, and then I need to rent out my house and hit the road!
Camper Van, AirBNB, we will see where the journey takes me!
Some of my core values are kindness, 'follow the love not the fear,' 'always learning,' 'seek the truth,' and 'be present in my moments because life is short.'
#MotivationTips #BuildingConfidence #ChasingDreams
❤❤❤❤ Yes!! Love this!! This is my dream too! To be living ON the beach! Getting closer and closer! 🌊 Also alone trips are the greatest! 🤩 Where so many incredible ideas drop in!
OMG YES. Where do you want to live do you think? I can't wait for your next update videos... we are twinsies with brick and mortar to online businesses...
I also try to give thanks every morning for things that are easy to take for granted. That was good advice.
I'm proud of you for all the things you have overcome.
@@CathleenJohnston that’s why you’re one of my inspirations. You and Dolly Parton 💚
Julie, we are so similar! 😂😂 Same type of channel, similar sub count, wanting to go after our goals, healthy lifestyle, similar upper body. 😂😂
I hope you have a wonderful vacation! I’m not sure if you’re into robotic affirmation but the Free Tea channel gives amazing tips about how to pretend it’s already ours. 😊
@@jeanshelbybooks 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@jeanshelbybooks thanks so much! Yeah, it’s so fun to see your channel.
I need confidence regarding going live tomorrow night. Yikes! I’m not sure what I’m thinking but at the same time I’m super excited.
@@jeanshelbybooks ooooh you’ve got this! Let me know when it is so maybe I can support. I always just send love to whoever is watching before I do stuff like that and it helps
@ I do that too! Every subscriber (Jeanie) I get I’m so thankful for and I hope the best for their lives. I’ll do a little visualization beforehand!
@ Sorry for the delay. I had to feed my kiddos and hubby and do all the nighttime studying and such.
The LiVE is at 4:30 pacific time. I hope you can make it! No sweat if you can’t. 😀
@@jeanshelbybooks Never need to be sorry 😃 you've got this!!
Awesome video!!! Do you have any thoughts on how to get motivated and to get out of survival mode where you feel like it’s never ok or never enough.
@@mariadahlka1042 oh yes. I’ll make a video just for you 💚 do you feel comfortable sharing what isn’t enough? I’ll make the video regardless, but specifics will help
I’m an overachiever. And I have recognized that I got value from people pleasing and going above and beyond at work. Def a recovery process. During this journey, it’s hard to slow down and recognize my value within, and therefore hard for me to get motivated at times let alone stay motivated if I get there. My health has been my downfall and trying to figure out why it was so easy to invest into others and work, but never invest in myself. I’m a great cheerleader for everyone else, just not for myself. I’m a hot mess🤦🏻♀️😂.
@@mariadahlka1042 omg this is so amazing. And a perfect first video for your channel, too. What goals are you trying to stay motivated with? What does your ideal next chapter of your life look like? Would you also say your identity is wrapped up in serving others and overachieving? And you have no energy left for yourself after you’ve given everything to everyone else? This is so exciting. Your awareness is awesome. We might need a multi video series on this 😍 Letting go of my gym owner identity was sooooo hard. But I couldn’t move forward with my dreams as that person. Can’t wait to unpack this in a video. Looking forward to your answers.
@@RhinoJulieright!!!!! Now to get out of my own way🤦🏻♀️ I am manifesting my first video! And yes. 100% my identity is completely wrapped up in taking care of everyone else, and work that I’m brain dead daily! Yet… when I set boundaries and maybe have the time. I’m at a lost and have no idea how to function! I’m so proud of you and love that I found your new vlog channel. Just know it is very much appreciated and enjoy your content!
@@mariadahlka1042 Oh yeah. I understand the feeling of not knowing where to start when I actually have time to do anything.
Last questions...as an overachiever do you also have perfectionism? Like, when you do something you only want to do it if you feel like you perfectly executed?
And what's the biggest goal you want to go for first?
At 45 I’m looking forward to menopause so the up and down will be a thing of the past. 👋
@@jeanshelbybooks ooooh nice way to think about it