I thank God everyday that my wife and I were counseled on proactive communication BEEFORE we get married. What a joy it is to live, work, raise a family, and minister together with my best friend. My heart hurts for couples who never got nor implemented this teaching. Agreement is the what sustains the joy I have for my wife. I pray that those who struggle will find agreement "or oneness" through Jesus. He is waiting to do it for you both of you.
What happens when the problem is you either do something or you don't. There is no middle ground no compromise situation. Such as either you move or you don't move, do you let your child move back in or not, there is no middle ground and someone HAS to win the disagreement. Who and how do you make that final decision.
funjumper835 As Jimmy said, it is important for both of you to agree on what should be done. Doing something can be immediate if it is life threatening if not give it time for the other person to think about it. Life becomes challenging when it is either one person's opinion or the other person's. I pray that you will both know the peace that comes with agreement.
My heart is saddened everyday of my life, because my husband and I can't seem to see eye to eye. Its either his phone calls or staying away from home. We have been separated for three years now, we allow so many days to go by without any communication, not my choice of course.We are under a great Church, attend faithfully, but all I keep hearing from him is God not telling him to move back home. I don't get angry anymore It just seems like he has to figure it out on his on. I talk he ignores me, or I'm lying, always a debate with this I pray that you really read this and help me. I'm doing all that I know how, fast, pray, read,talk with church counseling and it seems like nothing is moving. Can it be that Maybe God kinda gave up on us. No disrespect to anyone especially God my Father. But I must tell the truth.What's can we or I do?
Janis Monigan I do not believe that God gives up on us unless what the book of Romans says below. I suggest that you ask God to show you how best to help your husband. The woman was made to be a helper fit for him. This means he needs your help in some areas of his life. When you offer help where he does not need it, he may become resentful. Instead of telling him what you think should be done, why don't you turn it into a question? Ask his opinion and, and make him feel that his thoughts are important to you. Men like to feel needed by their wives. Don't allow pride to stand in the way. Tell him how much you need him and if he feels you have caused him any distress, simply apologise and ask for forgiveness. I pray that God will heal both of you and pour His unconditional love into your hearts. Remember also that before God, no one is right or wrong, we are all wrong in some areas. I wish you God's blessings as you listen to His voice. 24 Therefore God gave them overAV)" data-cr="#cen-NIV-27955AV" style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 0.625em; line-height: 22px; position: relative; vertical-align: top; top: 0px;"> in the sinful desires of their hearts to sexual impurity for the degrading of their bodies with one another.AW)" data-cr="#cen-NIV-27955AW" style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 0.625em; line-height: 22px; position: relative; vertical-align: top; top: 0px;"> 25 They exchanged the truth about God for a lie,AX)" data-cr="#cen-NIV-27956AX" style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 0.625em; line-height: 22px; position: relative; vertical-align: top; top: 0px;"> and worshiped and served created thingsAY)" data-cr="#cen-NIV-27956AY" style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 0.625em; line-height: 22px; position: relative; vertical-align: top; top: 0px;"> rather than the Creator-who is forever praised.AZ)" data-cr="#cen-NIV-27956AZ" style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 0.625em; line-height: 22px; position: relative; vertical-align: top; top: 0px;"> Amen.
Life is about learning. People change and our world is changing all the time. The willingness to learn even when you think you know, brings many pleasant surprises. When my husband and I got married 37 years ago, we were young and needed to learn how to please each other. Now we are still learning what pleases grandad and what amuses grandma. I like the honesty with which Jimmy and Karen Evans share their experience and their passion for healthy marriages.
You posted this 3 years ago, so my reply is probably useless. Lord willing you and your husband have happily reconciled. I read your statement and had an immediate reaction, as did my husband. Your HUSBAND DOES NOT WANT THIS MARRIAGE. Please know God can change any circumstances.
HOW ABOUT WHEN YOU SAY YOUR NOT GOING TO REACT , BUT IF YOU DON'T LIKE WHAT YOUR PARTNER IS SAYING OR IT'S HURTS TO HEAR WHAT THEY ARE TELLING YOU . THEY CALL THAT '' YOU SAID YOUR NOT GOING TO RESPOND LIKE YOU HAVE NO FEELINGS TO WHAT IS BEING SAID . SO THIS HAS TO BE RE SAID BECAUSE THIS WILL BE TAKEN LITERALILY .
I wish my husband can always listen to marriage today by Evan, because communication is a problem in our relationship.
I thank God everyday that my wife and I were counseled on proactive communication BEEFORE we get married. What a joy it is to live, work, raise a family, and minister together with my best friend. My heart hurts for couples who never got nor implemented this teaching. Agreement is the what sustains the joy I have for my wife. I pray that those who struggle will find agreement "or oneness" through Jesus. He is waiting to do it for you both of you.
Quote: Truth shall outlast everyone lies
What happens when the problem is you either do something or you don't. There is no middle ground no compromise situation. Such as either you move or you don't move, do you let your child move back in or not, there is no middle ground and someone HAS to win the disagreement. Who and how do you make that final decision.
funjumper835 As Jimmy said, it is important for both of you to agree on what should be done. Doing something can be immediate if it is life threatening if not give it time for the other person to think about it. Life becomes challenging when it is either one person's opinion or the other person's. I pray that you will both know the peace that comes with agreement.
I live sin and evil free
My heart is saddened everyday of my life, because my husband and I can't seem to see eye to eye. Its either his phone calls or staying away from home. We have been separated for three years now, we allow so many days to go by without any communication, not my choice of course.We are under a great Church, attend faithfully, but all I keep hearing from him is God not telling him to move back home. I don't get angry anymore It just seems like he has to figure it out on his on. I talk he ignores me, or I'm lying, always a debate with this I pray that you really read this and help me. I'm doing all that I know how, fast, pray, read,talk with church counseling and it seems like nothing is moving. Can it be that Maybe God kinda gave up on us. No disrespect to anyone especially God my Father. But I must tell the truth.What's can we or I do?
Janis Monigan I do not believe that God gives up on us unless what the book of Romans says below. I suggest that you ask God to show you how best to help your husband. The woman was made to be a helper fit for him. This means he needs your help in some areas of his life. When you offer help where he does not need it, he may become resentful. Instead of telling him what you think should be done, why don't you turn it into a question? Ask his opinion and, and make him feel that his thoughts are important to you. Men like to feel needed by their wives. Don't allow pride to stand in the way. Tell him how much you need him and if he feels you have caused him any distress, simply apologise and ask for forgiveness. I pray that God will heal both of you and pour His unconditional love into your hearts. Remember also that before God, no one is right or wrong, we are all wrong in some areas. I wish you God's blessings as you listen to His voice.
24 Therefore God gave them overAV)" data-cr="#cen-NIV-27955AV" style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 0.625em; line-height: 22px; position: relative; vertical-align: top; top: 0px;"> in the sinful desires of their hearts to sexual impurity for the degrading of their bodies with one another.AW)" data-cr="#cen-NIV-27955AW" style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 0.625em; line-height: 22px; position: relative; vertical-align: top; top: 0px;"> 25 They exchanged the truth about God for a lie,AX)" data-cr="#cen-NIV-27956AX" style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 0.625em; line-height: 22px; position: relative; vertical-align: top; top: 0px;"> and worshiped and served created thingsAY)" data-cr="#cen-NIV-27956AY" style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 0.625em; line-height: 22px; position: relative; vertical-align: top; top: 0px;"> rather than the Creator-who is forever praised.AZ)" data-cr="#cen-NIV-27956AZ" style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 0.625em; line-height: 22px; position: relative; vertical-align: top; top: 0px;"> Amen.
Life is about learning. People change and our world is changing all the time. The willingness to learn even when you think you know, brings many pleasant surprises. When my husband and I got married 37 years ago, we were young and needed to learn how to please each other. Now we are still learning what pleases grandad and what amuses grandma. I like the honesty with which Jimmy and Karen Evans share their experience and their passion for healthy marriages.
You posted this 3 years ago, so my reply is probably useless. Lord willing you and your husband have happily reconciled. I read your statement and had an immediate reaction, as did my husband. Your HUSBAND DOES NOT WANT THIS MARRIAGE. Please know God can change any circumstances.
HOW ABOUT WHEN YOU SAY YOUR NOT GOING TO REACT , BUT IF YOU DON'T LIKE WHAT YOUR PARTNER IS SAYING OR IT'S HURTS TO HEAR WHAT THEY ARE TELLING YOU . THEY CALL THAT '' YOU SAID YOUR NOT GOING TO RESPOND LIKE YOU HAVE NO FEELINGS TO WHAT IS BEING SAID . SO THIS HAS TO BE RE SAID BECAUSE THIS WILL BE TAKEN LITERALILY .
My thoughts are Satan free
Quote: Satan has nothing new or nothing true
Why my Thug friends never have relationship problems ?