How To Conceive a Baby Girl Naturally - Successful Shettles Method Explained

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  • @alysonemery5287
    @alysonemery5287 5 років тому +262

    My husband and I started trying for our first baby a few months ago. I have a strong preference for girls (no shame here) so I wanted to try the Shettle's method. We agreed if we didn't get pregnant after 3 months we'd have sex closer to ovulation and just try to get pregnant. Well fortunately we got pregnant on the first try and I was super hopeful that we had good chances of conceiving a girl because I'm pretty sure I ovulated at least 48 hours, if not 3 or 4 days, after we stopped having sex. We did the Panorama test at 10 weeks and I just got my results back today, and it's a girl! We can't believe how lucky we are! To get pregnant on the first try with exactly what we wanted! 💖

    • @zayfox3371
      @zayfox3371 5 років тому +1

      Good for u

    • @mehedihassan8429
      @mehedihassan8429 5 років тому +5

      Me and my wife were expecting girl too. We had no research then and suddenly she got pregnant. We have a boy now. We are planning to get a girl. I'm inspired by your true story. Catch u later.

    • @Champagne_Rob
      @Champagne_Rob 4 роки тому +1

      Congratulations I hope you and your baby are doing well❤️❤️

    • @karlagomez42597
      @karlagomez42597 4 роки тому

      So you had intercourse 3-4 days before your ovulation day ?

    • @Ria.rakshan2016
      @Ria.rakshan2016 4 роки тому +3

      So u had Intercourse 3 to 4 days before your ovolation ah? Pls tell me becaz I want a girl and now my ovolation started pls anybody reply it's right time for m

  • @VDL1
    @VDL1 4 роки тому +245

    Im single and alone i dont know why im watching this.

  • @KaylaIveigh
    @KaylaIveigh 5 років тому +133

    My husband and I tried this method in attempt to conceive a girl and it worked for us! I had a very regular cycle, and we tried for the baby 2 days before ovulation. This seemed to work for us! :)

    • @NaughtyNouman
      @NaughtyNouman 5 років тому

      U told about stop before ovulation but after ovulation i didn't understand please reply
      The day we ovulate we should avoid or not and next when should we do

    • @almass91
      @almass91 3 роки тому +1

      @@NaughtyNouman yes avoid the day of ovulation if you want girl.

    • @shubhkaur8495
      @shubhkaur8495 2 роки тому +1

      So for example my ovulation is on 7th feb, so should i do sex on 4th and 5th feb to conceive girl?? Or more days before ovulation?

    • @KaylaIveigh
      @KaylaIveigh 2 роки тому

      @@shubhkaur8495 that’s the theory. It’s not guaranteed (obviously) but worth a try. I didn’t realize this was a response to something I wrote two years ago now! Just an update, I’m expecting my second daughter any day now, and me and my husband conceived prior to ovulation again. So this method has seemingly worked for us. :)

    • @vincentzack
      @vincentzack Рік тому +8

      You are correct. My wife wanted a baby girl before the door slowly starts to close...this is how she worded that statement. After much research her findings were this-male sperm swims faster than the female sperm. Just like in life men are quick and in a hurry to get things done. Female sperm take their time swimming to the egg. The male sperm die off from expending so much energy but the female sperm taking their time and live on. So before menstration occurs she started keeping records of her cycle. She also recorded her temperature inside of herself...why I can't remember but it was a crucial part of the records. After a steady and careful recording of her cycle she concluded that the best time was before her cycle. One or two days or even 3 days if I recall from memory. So after we tried to conceive another child - sticking to the time line of her cycle- 1 or maybe 3 days before. She prayed and hoped that the information she read was correct. On the day geneticist called he was happy to report she was pregnant with a healthy baby girl. She fell to her knees and was filled with tears of joy. 9 months later our baby girl was born. Joy and love filled our home and still does to this day. I hope this information helps those looking to conceive a baby girl.

  • @georgiabowlt3371
    @georgiabowlt3371 4 роки тому +52

    We did this method with our first baby and we had a girl 👍🏻 then when it was time for baby number 2 we wanted a boy so we did it on the day of ovulation and we had a baby boy. I’m a believer that it works!

    • @mounika1458
      @mounika1458 4 роки тому +3

      Hi ,I have two girls and planning for boy .Will this work out for boy if intercourse takes place after ovolution like 12 hours after ovolution

    • @sarabjitsingh6279
      @sarabjitsingh6279 3 роки тому +1

      @@mounika1458 you need to intercourse at a day of ovaluation for baby boy

    • @Ria.rakshan2016
      @Ria.rakshan2016 3 роки тому +1

      What about girl baby pls tell me

    • @aabracadavra
      @aabracadavra 3 роки тому

      @@Ria.rakshan2016 Female sperm are a lot sturdier and long lasting than male sperm. So you need to have sex starting on your first day of your period up until 4 days before ovulation, so in those 4 days, the male sperm is more likely to die and when the ovulation starts, the surviving female sperm will still be there to enter the egg.
      Also, try eating foods that will make you vaginal ph more acidic, since male sperm don't survive as well in harsher environments as female sperm does.

    • @Nikky10000
      @Nikky10000 2 роки тому +1

      @@mounika1458 12 hours after ovulation is girl

  • @MindyMorningstar
    @MindyMorningstar 7 років тому +33

    this absolutely works and I'm surprised to see sometime talk about it! i did this for the first time 21 years ago! i had 3 boys, i wanted a girl lol i used this method with all 3 of my girls. i have to say, my cycles were always right on point, 28 days my intire life, even through not getting pregnant and trying for years. so i wouldn't chance it if you're having issues ttc. I'm also here to tell you, it doesn't matter of you never have that girl. there's nothing different, feelings as a mother.

    • @SJ_Strum
      @SJ_Strum  7 років тому +7

      Absolutely agree, I have a baby girl now which is lovely but no more exciting than my gorgeous boys :-)

    • @georginakaye1021
      @georginakaye1021 5 років тому +1

      Amazing Mindy! Can you tell me how long before ovulation you stopped having sex?

    • @Nikky10000
      @Nikky10000 2 роки тому

      Do what method did u use for your girls?

    • @Holly_Grail
      @Holly_Grail 2 місяці тому

      Can you tell us what exactly did you do to conceive a baby girl?

  • @PsychicReadingUsaFacebookGroup
    @PsychicReadingUsaFacebookGroup 2 роки тому +12

    I remember hearing many times that very athletic men, like runners, elite sports players, mma fighters etc are more likely to father daughters. Not sure if it’s do to the heat their body produces, higher testosterone or that female sperm are stronger and more likely to survive high intensity training.
    That actually makes sense in my case. When I had my two sons my husband was in school and spent most of his time studying, but when I later conceived my daughter he was doing a lot of running and mixed martial arts. She was the first girl produced in his family for 6 generations.

  • @shadybreezy3103
    @shadybreezy3103 4 роки тому +22

    I’m so excited, my husband is in the prepping process to get his vasectomy reversed! We are both really young and everyone wonders why the dr would ever give a 23 y/o man a vasectomy 🙄 I do too! He’s now 27 and I’m 24 please wish us well!!🙏🙏🙏

    • @te.rez.a
      @te.rez.a 3 роки тому +1

      How it went?

    • @shadybreezy3103
      @shadybreezy3103 3 роки тому +2

      @@te.rez.a fine! We are still trying for a baby trying to get his sperm count up

  • @PsychicReadingUsaFacebookGroup
    @PsychicReadingUsaFacebookGroup 2 роки тому +4

    We did the Shettles Method to conceive my son and daughter. Idk if it was coincidence or not, but I have to say, it worked both times for us! GL! Hope u get ur girl❤

  • @rjlondon5801
    @rjlondon5801 4 роки тому +32

    Trying for baby number 3 (our last one) we've got 2 boys, aged 7 and 5 so hopefully we'll have a girl to complete the family x good luck to you all! ❤

  • @angelinevanheerden687
    @angelinevanheerden687 4 роки тому +10

    Defninetly worked for me too... Baby girl was born December 2014, she is nou 5 years old... 💗💗💗

  • @chelscooper991
    @chelscooper991 4 роки тому +14

    Why are you so cute ! Thx for the video ❤️ two sons here , hopefully one day when it’s time a baby girl 👧

  • @icantthinkofone7125
    @icantthinkofone7125 4 роки тому +47

    I mean I’m 15 lol. Idk why I’m watching this..

  • @khadeejaismail5005
    @khadeejaismail5005 2 роки тому +2

    We also tried ths method..nd..God blessed us wit a baby girl...nd sooo happyyy for tht...it makes no harm for trying 🤷

  • @lucky-hd1yv
    @lucky-hd1yv 5 років тому +18

    I think also you must change your diet to make it more in favor of a girl, so eat chocolate, strawberries, eggs, other fruits. Refrain from pork, salty foods, that would increase the chances of having a boy.

    • @kierstynzdroid
      @kierstynzdroid 3 роки тому +2

      Diet plays no effect. The males sperm determines gender.

    • @lucky-hd1yv
      @lucky-hd1yv 3 роки тому

      @@kierstynzdroid oh okay. I heard that diet might help influence the outcome. But yes it's the male's sperm that determines the sex of the baby.

    • @aabracadavra
      @aabracadavra 3 роки тому +1

      @@kierstynzdroid It's about the acidity of the vagina. Male sperm is more fragile, dies fast and doesn't do as well in acidic environments as female sperm does. So there's some truth to it, since diet can influence your body's ph.

  • @carolinelvsewe
    @carolinelvsewe 4 роки тому +37

    Used this method and it worked!!

  • @catalinaroblero468
    @catalinaroblero468 7 років тому +79

    I really want a baby girl I already have two boys

    • @Castillopaola1130
      @Castillopaola1130 5 років тому +7

      Catalina Roblero same!!

    • @Tima_corazon88
      @Tima_corazon88 5 років тому +6

      Catalina Roblero same here

    • @Sweetliltulip
      @Sweetliltulip 5 років тому +4

      Same here! Going to start trying soon! ❤️ Wish me luck🤞🤰👶🏼

    • @jiryfoeman2639
      @jiryfoeman2639 5 років тому +8

      Passionate women tend to conceive boys. If you want a girl, while trying to conceive - be distracted, not interested, turned off. Women are stronger in sex so if you are both equally passionate it will be a boy. That's what I read in a Tibetan book. It certainly holds up to the theory in my experience. I suppose you will be able to tell if you are passionate or not and see for yourself if this is accurate.

    • @kallieesparza547
      @kallieesparza547 4 роки тому +2

      Meeee too!!!! 😭🙏🏻

  • @MushMJ
    @MushMJ 7 років тому +12

    I want to try this when we try for baby number 3, I have a toddler boy and more than half way through with baby boy number 2 😍 I've always wanted two boys first then a little girl obviously if I have a boy it wouldn't be a bad thing as boys are amazing but I've always dreamed of having a little girl ♥️ Congratulations btw x

  • @dolliebby818
    @dolliebby818 4 роки тому +11

    Did you also do the acidic diet? I wish I would’ve tracked my menstrual and ovulation cycle longer as well! I have all the symptoms of being pregnant, but haven’t confirmed it yet! We stopped trying to conceive 3-4 days before ovulation.. We’ll see if we finally get to have our baby girl! 🤞🏻🥺💕

  • @isabelle_1926
    @isabelle_1926 2 роки тому +3

    I’m still pregnant with baby number 1 with a boy, and I’m going to try this method (in 3 years) for baby #2 fingers cross for a girl 🙏🏻 I

  • @Ria.rakshan2016
    @Ria.rakshan2016 4 роки тому +6

    I will try this and msg u soon guy's.. hopefully pls pray for me I want a Girl My ANGEL.....

  • @hunterholliday4814
    @hunterholliday4814 Місяць тому

    Is the reason why shettle method doesn’t work for some people because they didn’t follow the steps on how to conceive a boy or a girl?

  • @lovelyelii2003
    @lovelyelii2003 3 роки тому +3

    I have 4 boys that I absolutely adore but I so wish for a girl

  • @brendamurray2868
    @brendamurray2868 5 років тому +8

    What day of your cycle did you try for your baby girl?

  • @m.chrissy3533
    @m.chrissy3533 4 роки тому +4

    I already have 2g, 3b ... Why am I still watching/reading comments!!?? I think my husband was right :/ .. maybe I have a baby addiction... FML

  • @bvdouglass982
    @bvdouglass982 8 років тому +7

    What "cut off" time frame did you end up having? He suggests 2-4. We've been trying for several months with the method and this month we are giving it a 2-ish day window. Thanks for sharing your journey and any feedback 😊!

    • @SJ_Strum
      @SJ_Strum  8 років тому +5

      Ah excited to meet someone else who did it! My cycle is so erratic he does say it's hard for someone like me to get the method right, we did 6 days then 4 days then I was pregnant. Let me know when you get news :-) x

  • @MissMungai7
    @MissMungai7 2 роки тому +1

    Watching this as I pray that God gives me n my husband baby girls

    • @vincentzack
      @vincentzack Рік тому +1

      My wife wanted a baby girl before the door slowly starts to close...this is how she worded that statement. After much research her findings were this-male sperm swims faster than the female sperm. Just like in life men are quick and in a hurry to get things done. Female sperm take their time swimming to the egg. The male sperm die off from expending so much energy but the female sperm taking their time and live on. So before menstration occurs she started keeping records of her cycle. She also recorded her temperature inside of herself...why I can't remember but it was a crucial part of the records. After a steady and careful recording of her cycle she concluded that the best time was before her cycle. One or two days or even 3 days if I recall from memory. So after we tried to conceive another child - sticking to the time line of her cycle- 1 or maybe 3 days before. She prayed and hoped that the information she read was correct. On the day geneticist called he was happy to report she was pregnant with a healthy baby girl. She fell to her knees and was filled with tears of joy. 9 months later our baby girl was born. Joy and love filled our home and still does to this day. I hope this information helps those looking to conceive a baby girl. Good Luck.

  • @Aquarius_Love333XO
    @Aquarius_Love333XO 6 років тому +16

    This is pretty cool.. I've been dreaming of wanting a girl lately.. I'm really really glad I found you on youtube while researching!😎 This is pretty amazing!🎀😁

  • @nicolelombardi1862
    @nicolelombardi1862 6 років тому +25

    Why are all these comments telling me to google things? Also all their profile pics look like stock photos.

    • @BrittKatSlat
      @BrittKatSlat 5 років тому +1

      Nicole Lombardi I know it’s nuts!!!! They are spam

  • @ellierobinson89
    @ellierobinson89 8 років тому +15

    I have two little boys already and my husband would love a girl next so I've said we should have a little fun and try all the old wives tales to try to conceive a girl so I'll have to check it out. Xx

    • @janetgarcia5300
      @janetgarcia5300 5 років тому +5

      Ellie Robinson Did you end up having a girl?

    • @aracelyguerrero360
      @aracelyguerrero360 5 років тому +2

      Yeah I wanna know too lol ☝️

    • @MeMe4882
      @MeMe4882 5 років тому +1

      Ellie Robinson, what happened two years ago.

  • @PsychicReadingUsaFacebookGroup
    @PsychicReadingUsaFacebookGroup 2 роки тому +1

    Shettles method is the only thing I know of to conceive specific gender.

  • @marusia24l
    @marusia24l 8 років тому +10

    hi i have 2 amazing boys i want to have a baby girl so badly i just stoped breastfeeding my second child waiting to get my period back and im going to try his metods
    congratulations!

  • @begee5847
    @begee5847 2 роки тому +1

    Every video that I’ve watched they say have sex one time only days before ovulation. Which way is right?

  • @lanafigueroa
    @lanafigueroa 5 років тому +2

    I have a question so when you stop at 4 days before ovulation and you ovulate can you start having sex agian or do you have to wait tell after your period agian?

    • @aliyazaleel9300
      @aliyazaleel9300 5 років тому

      Lana Figueroa from my research you have to wait until you see your next period

  • @FirasMohamed96
    @FirasMohamed96 6 років тому +12

    I saved this video in my playlist to show it to my future girlfriend

    • @BeautyQueen79
      @BeautyQueen79 4 роки тому +2

      How sweet and proactive of you...

  • @shaheenomar7639
    @shaheenomar7639 7 років тому +2

    Hi. I wanted to ask. Do we stop 3 days before.. what if the egg comes a day later. Or earlier. I have been tracking my period with the calender and im sort of sure when ill ovulate.

  • @leighh_1014
    @leighh_1014 6 років тому +2

    If you don't mind me asking what app did you use to track ovulation..or did you just temp! Thanks in advance!

  • @bharathij1723
    @bharathij1723 2 місяці тому +1

    my period cycle 35 days i want girl baby how to calculate ovulate

  • @katielou1696
    @katielou1696 8 років тому +8

    I tried a swaying girl diet when trying for Alice.. We obviously just wanted a healthy baby but it's fun to try isn't it! Enjoy your pregnancy x

    • @SJ_Strum
      @SJ_Strum  8 років тому +2

      Yes totally how we saw it, so happy to be having a baby and a girl would be lovely. Need to check out that diet! Thanks so much xx

  • @patkaxx4230
    @patkaxx4230 3 роки тому +2

    I recommend you to :
    - use special diet
    - try shettles method
    - try chinese method
    Everything at the same time

    • @Sunshine-lg9jd
      @Sunshine-lg9jd 2 роки тому

      What's the Chinese method?

    • @patkaxx4230
      @patkaxx4230 2 роки тому

      By chinese method I mean using Chinese Calendar

    • @Sunshine-lg9jd
      @Sunshine-lg9jd 2 роки тому

      @@patkaxx4230 oh okay! So I looked up a few different Chinese calenders, some go off the exact day and month you're trying to conceive and others just go off of month, I wonder which is more correct

    • @patkaxx4230
      @patkaxx4230 2 роки тому

      I want to know that too. I was doing tarot few months ago and i have been told that i will have another baby boy. I was so disapointed!

    • @renusingh-bx8ir
      @renusingh-bx8ir 6 місяців тому

      My date of birth is 15 july 1990..
      Plzz tell months in 2024 to conceive baby boy in Chinese calendar

  • @sonyaburney6119
    @sonyaburney6119 5 років тому +3

    hi.. we’re trying for baby girl aswell, did you dtd every other day until 3-2 days before your ovulate or you just dtd on your fertile time ? Thankyou ❤️

    • @angeld2441
      @angeld2441 5 років тому

      Sonya Burney did you do 3-2 cut off day before ovulation? I did the fourth day this cycle. I’m nervous it was too far out.

    • @aliyazaleel9300
      @aliyazaleel9300 5 років тому +2

      Angel Di did it 3 4 and 5 day then cut of 3 days before ovulation I’m currently waiting for the month to end so I can take a pregnancy test

    • @natahalocklear3261
      @natahalocklear3261 5 років тому +2

      @@aliyazaleel9300 please let me know if you are pregnant. I've been tracking my periods for 6 mon5hs and my ovulation. Hoping to try for a little girl. I have 3 boys and not girl yet. This will be my last try for a baby girl.

    • @nivedithajayram
      @nivedithajayram 5 років тому

      Suppose if my ovulation date is nov 5th then 3 days before means Nov 1st will be last intercoure right???

    • @naturalhairkhronicles5790
      @naturalhairkhronicles5790 3 роки тому

      @@natahalocklear3261 did yu have a girl

  • @autumnrosedearborn8923
    @autumnrosedearborn8923 4 роки тому +2

    I used the method to try to conceive a boy and I did and got pregnant on the first try! We are trying for a girl next but I'd be happy with another boy, too.

  • @MT-uz7ck
    @MT-uz7ck 7 років тому +21

    hi congratulations on your baby girl!!! I want to try this method for a girl! hope it works for me also what ovulation test did u use?

    • @SJ_Strum
      @SJ_Strum  7 років тому +2

      Thank you! I just bought some on Amazon so was a bundle for cheaper; otherwise it was just too expensive for me but the clear blue ones are I think most accurate so I had a few to double check with. Good luck with it!! Let me know how you get on; xxx

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      @mariaportugall1933 7 років тому

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      @vukjanackovic9627 6 років тому

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    • @shaukhan5728
      @shaukhan5728 5 років тому

      Did get pregnant with girl?

  • @rachaelkirby3467
    @rachaelkirby3467 6 років тому +5

    The diet also is good, acid food and vitamins. Take prenatal vitamins three months before conception. Healthy diet and exercise is also good. Check your ph before intercourse acid is favourable for girls alkaline for boys.

    • @acham3258
      @acham3258 5 років тому

      I've always been a coffee meat momma and have 2 boys. I'm super acidic my secretions even bleach out my dark panties. I don't think girl sperm survive in acid
      Thats why vegetarians have more girls.

  • @rayray117
    @rayray117 4 місяці тому +1

    I had a boy and I want to try get a girl next.

  • @claudiagracian2815
    @claudiagracian2815 4 роки тому +2

    I have a question, If I take an ovulation test and get a positive, how long after does my body release and egg?? I tried last month I baby dance one day before ovulation (I took a test) and I did not get pregnant. I have two boys and I really want a girl. I will really appreciate any feedback. I know when I ovulate because I have pain, but when should I baby dance?? Before ovulation? The day of ovulation??

    • @dianasspace6085
      @dianasspace6085 4 роки тому +3

      Claudia Gracian if you want a boy the day before, on or after Ovulation. If you want a girl 2-3 days before you ovulate

    • @sarabjitsingh6279
      @sarabjitsingh6279 3 роки тому

      @@dianasspace6085 how can you tell me how check ovaluation

    • @dianasspace6085
      @dianasspace6085 3 роки тому

      @@sarabjitsingh6279 buy ovulation kit. Track your periods using an app. Some tell you when you will ovulate next

    • @sarabjitsingh6279
      @sarabjitsingh6279 3 роки тому

      @@dianasspace6085 I want you ask about the perfect thing to conceive a baby boy please

    • @dianasspace6085
      @dianasspace6085 3 роки тому +1

      @@sarabjitsingh6279 sex everyday after you have your periods that’s the only way

  • @Mayraale2788
    @Mayraale2788 4 роки тому +5

    I would really like to try for another girl 😌

  • @102938mom
    @102938mom 6 років тому +28

    My husband and I are going through ivf and will be doing gender selection after having 3 boys. Doctor's do have a method of trying to pick out slow sperm vs faster sperm and this method has been debunked. It's not accurate. Plus ttc naturally, its hard to pinpoint exactly when ovulation occurs. My husband and I are having pgs testing done where they will scrape off some cells (this doesn't hurt the embryo) and look directly at the chromosomes so it's 95% accurate that way. I've actually received a bit of backlash for going through with gender selection. I've been told I'm selfish and should just be grateful for whatever I have. I'll be happy either way but since we're doing the pgs testing regardless I don't see a problem with trying. We could still end up with a boy. Like I tell the rude people, it's my money, my eggs and my baby so also my decision.

    • @angeld2441
      @angeld2441 5 років тому +4

      yourmom102938 hi :) just curious, how did this turn out for you?

    • @denise8570
      @denise8570 5 років тому +1

      How much is this?

    • @elizabethmeyer1627
      @elizabethmeyer1627 5 років тому

      I'd have to agree with the "rude people" - you played God.

    • @Daphineholland
      @Daphineholland 4 роки тому +1

      That's exactly what me and my husband are leaning towards with our last kid in a few years I'm not excited about the test and the price range but i don't like being told what i can what i can't have especially regarding wanting spoil love and cherish a little girl that is mine i love my boys don't get me wrong but my family will not feel complete until have my little princess to complete it

    • @102938mom
      @102938mom 4 роки тому +1

      @@angeld2441 My husband and I decided against ivf after speaking with Dr's regarding my medical background. We're adopting 2 girls instead.

  • @themissgpg
    @themissgpg 6 років тому

    Congratulations on your baby girl! Did your husband go on a specific diet too? I have two boys and hope the shettles method will work for our next child!

  • @ayfer3969
    @ayfer3969 5 років тому +7

    Did you do the acidic diet?

  • @siyamthandazitumane
    @siyamthandazitumane 5 років тому +6

    I tried it a year ago and it worked. I have 2 boys and I was hoping for a girl and it happened with this Shettles Method. Unfortunately I had a stillbirth in March. I will try sway again when I try again.

  • @Sunshine-lg9jd
    @Sunshine-lg9jd 2 роки тому

    So if I ovulate on the 16th of January I should be trying to conceive from the 12th to the 15th to up my chances of having a baby girl?

  • @blondiewendy
    @blondiewendy 3 роки тому

    Oh boy! We’re ttc and do it all 6 days of fertility

  • @sylvieragazza8455
    @sylvieragazza8455 6 років тому +1

    Hello! I Just saw your video and I’m considering giving it a try. I was wondering if you’ve heard of the Chinese gender predictor? And if so what do you think of it?

    • @aliyazaleel9300
      @aliyazaleel9300 5 років тому

      SylvieRagazza I’m using both to try and get a girl I have 3 boys and I need a girl no shame

    • @nivedithajayram
      @nivedithajayram 5 років тому

      @@aliyazaleel9300 3 days before ovulating intercourse should be stopped or 4 days before... Any idea..

    • @Cupcakelaurie
      @Cupcakelaurie 4 місяці тому

      The Chinese predictor was right for one boy and wrong for the other boy so I feel like unless you are Chinese I wouldn't put too much stock into it

  • @oliverwood7190
    @oliverwood7190 4 роки тому +1

    Hi SJ Strum, did you get a baby girl in the end, hope so.

    • @MichielBLKorte
      @MichielBLKorte 4 роки тому +1

      She did. Evelina Blossom was born in late 2016.

  • @hghj22
    @hghj22 4 роки тому +1

    Very happy for you,lets see if it works

    • @idiahieromosele4977
      @idiahieromosele4977 4 роки тому +3

      Wow am so happy My wife has just been comfirmed pregnant with a baby girl after 15years of childlessness
      Am. So happy

  • @evalinenamukoya
    @evalinenamukoya 8 місяців тому

    I don't know whether to believe in these things or not. For me i met my husband once on the 6th day after my periods but i still got a baby boy. Meaning this Y chromozom was to strong to die before ovulation

  • @bhoomigowda7005
    @bhoomigowda7005 4 роки тому +2

    How U got when your ovulating when it's an irregular cycle ??

  • @XxDvta2009xX
    @XxDvta2009xX 5 років тому +3

    Is it stop four days b4 you ovulate or start 4-2 days b4 you ovulate?im comfused please help😞

    • @serenity8378
      @serenity8378 5 років тому

      Liset Perez I’m confused as well I’ve seen some people say start 3 days before you ovulate now in this video she is saying stop 4 days before you ovulate. Did you find out what it was?

  • @Me_den
    @Me_den 7 років тому +7

    can u say how many days before ovulation shud v try for girl and how many days shud we intercource.plzz.

  • @sumithra1056
    @sumithra1056 4 роки тому +4

    Iam mother of 3 boys ...I suffered lot in my pregnancy..becos of hyperpermis gravitirium... My vomit settled with steroids...I want to have but scar for painful process... Thinking of it😴

  • @kushalm9614
    @kushalm9614 3 роки тому

    Can anyone send link of this book plz 🙏🏼
    ?

  • @SaraSa-gm2ig
    @SaraSa-gm2ig 5 років тому +1

    If sperm lasts 72 hours inside the female before it dies.... how will the girl sperm last from Last day of period until day of ovulation?

    • @ThatgirlCeCe98
      @ThatgirlCeCe98 5 років тому

      Depends on ur cycle

    • @lydiarichu8421
      @lydiarichu8421 3 роки тому

      sperms can leave in womans body for 5days..so u dtd from day u finish period to kill male sperm and stop on 5days before ovulation if u dont get pregnant that month dtd 4 days before ovulation continue like that until you get pregnant

  • @rachaelkirby3467
    @rachaelkirby3467 6 років тому +1

    Did you do the girl diet, acid diet if so when did you start and for how long did you do it?

  • @robbie-leighlock8573
    @robbie-leighlock8573 3 роки тому

    I would obviously be happy to conceive a second baby no matter the gender but my preference would be a girl as we had a boy, interesting watch.

  • @swethakr6189
    @swethakr6189 5 років тому +3

    Hi, I'm also trying this method. After we had intercourse on 5th day I was ovulated. Is it possible to get pregnant?

    • @AndieFern
      @AndieFern 5 років тому +1

      I got pregnant with a girl when we had intercourse and then I ovulated five days later.

    • @swethakr6189
      @swethakr6189 5 років тому

      Thank you

    • @nivedithajayram
      @nivedithajayram 5 років тому

      How u got to know ur ovulating... ?? Just for my clarification .. even m trying this totally getting confused whether to stop intercoure 2 days before or 3days before ovulation??

    • @bhoomigowda7005
      @bhoomigowda7005 4 роки тому +1

      @@swethakr6189 any good news??? Did I try this method??

  • @dazeofnostalgia
    @dazeofnostalgia 8 років тому +3

    We really want to conceive a boy first, I heard about waiting till you ovulated and being on top but I'm sorta nervous about it. I want a boy for first but I would be happy to have girl if that's in God's plan. Do you have any tips since you have 2 boys?

    • @SJ_Strum
      @SJ_Strum  8 років тому +2

      Yes I wanted a boy first :-) but we didn't try anything with the boys, I get pregnant very quickly which was so lucky. This method is very effective for boys apparently. If you have a regular cycle you just try to conceive around when you ovulate, then wait in your early cycle. I think this is such a natural method it's fine to try to plan your family a little, and as you say, if it doesn't work out then it doesn't mean you would be upset. Xx

    • @tresajohny6985
      @tresajohny6985 8 років тому

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  • @missjessanpessan
    @missjessanpessan Рік тому +1

    I tried this and other things and according to my blood work I’m expecting a boy 😅 so I failed every theory way I’ve tried. Like certain foods, shelter, acidic environment, stress, position, no orgasm,

    • @vincentzack
      @vincentzack Рік тому

      My wife wanted a baby girl before the door slowly starts to close...this is how she worded that statement. After much research her findings were this-male sperm swims faster than the female sperm. Just like in life men are quick and in a hurry to get things done. Female sperm take their time swimming to the egg. The male sperm die off from expending so much energy but the female sperm taking their time and live on. So before menstration occurs she started keeping records of her cycle. After a steady and careful recording of her cycle she concluded that the best time was before her cycle. One or two days or even 3 days if I recall from memory. So after we tried to conceive another child - sticking to the time line of her cycle- 1 or maybe 3 days before. She prayed and hoped that the information she read was correct. On the day geneticist called he was happy to report she was pregnant with a healthy baby girl. She feel to her knees and was filled with tears of joy. 9 months later our baby girl was born. Joy and love filled our home and still days to this day. I hope this information helps those looking to conceive a baby girl. Good Luck.

  • @emmaroseaphine8549
    @emmaroseaphine8549 4 роки тому

    Hi did you change your diet xxx

  • @TheStephensonGrechFamily
    @TheStephensonGrechFamily 7 років тому +6

    did u get your little girl

    • @LIFEOFMARIAHANDBOSS
      @LIFEOFMARIAHANDBOSS 7 років тому +9

      Still Image Productions yes she did her baby girl is on her up-to-date vlog

  • @munokomartin4475
    @munokomartin4475 5 років тому +5

    Hi have been trying for girl and have never got one I have 3boys

    • @ilsesanchez5849
      @ilsesanchez5849 4 роки тому +1

      Omg im same I have 3 boys but I really want a girl idk if I will ever try for a 4th baby because I'm scared it will be another boy

    • @Natur3girl
      @Natur3girl 4 роки тому +1

      @@ilsesanchez5849 I have 4 boys, I want a girl sooo bad!

    • @naturalhairkhronicles5790
      @naturalhairkhronicles5790 3 роки тому +1

      I'm in the same boat. Hubbie and I have three boys we desire a 👧 girl Were going to try this method

    • @Jennifer-qs2qx
      @Jennifer-qs2qx 3 роки тому

      @@naturalhairkhronicles5790 tuviste niña?

  • @brooklynPattongrimslayers
    @brooklynPattongrimslayers 6 років тому +5

    has anyone had it work on first try?

    • @AndieFern
      @AndieFern 5 років тому +5

      Brooke yes, I had a girl first try and we tried for a boy second time and it worked again.

    • @vedha6743
      @vedha6743 4 роки тому

      @@AndieFern what to do when we want boy?

    • @vedha6743
      @vedha6743 4 роки тому

      @lina I already hve a girl that y

    • @vedha6743
      @vedha6743 4 роки тому +3

      @lina they are equal nly now a days both are same nly I already hve cute girl now trying to add cute boy to fullfill my family...

  • @hellooli2825
    @hellooli2825 2 роки тому

    I read the book taking charge of your fertility and we were trying for a boy. Iiss calculated my ovulation and we had a baby girl. Now we are ready for the baby boy and I want to get it right this time. Mind you I have been tracking my ovulation for 8 years and I totally confused my ovulation with sperm 😭. So hopefully we do it right this time! Is it true that girls survive acidic environment and boys don't??

    • @hellooli2825
      @hellooli2825 2 роки тому

      @Michael Long yes I totally agree!! I will have to watch my acidity so I can get a boy

    • @hellooli2825
      @hellooli2825 2 роки тому

      @Michael Long thank you so much!! 😊

    • @vincentzack
      @vincentzack Рік тому +1

      My wife wanted a baby girl before the door slowly starts to close...this is how she worded that statement. After much research her findings were this-male sperm swims faster than the female sperm. Just like in life men are quick and in a hurry to get things done. Female sperm take their time swimming to the egg. The male sperm die off from expending so much energy but the female sperm taking their time and live on. So before menstration occurs she started keeping records of her cycle. After a steady and careful recording of her cycle she concluded that the best time was before her cycle. One or two days or even 3 days if I recall from memory. So after we tried to conceive another child - sticking to the time line of her cycle- 1 or maybe 3 days before. She prayed and hoped that the information she read was correct. On the day geneticist called he was happy to report she was pregnant with a healthy baby girl. She feel to her knees and was filled with tears of joy. 9 months later our baby girl was born. Joy and love filled our home and still days to this day. I hope this information helps those looking to conceive a baby girl. Good Luck.

    • @hellooli2825
      @hellooli2825 Рік тому

      @@vincentzack I can see how excited she is! I have an update im in my 36 week of pregnancy and we did everything like the book said and we are having ourbaby boy. We are beyond happy!

  • @AprilAyden
    @AprilAyden 7 років тому +1

    This method wouldn't work if you have very iregular cycles like me (30-70days) and ovulated at different times every month or not at all but it's a nice idea xxx

    • @AlphaAussies
      @AlphaAussies 5 років тому

      ):

    • @kendalldenae11
      @kendalldenae11 5 років тому

      April&Ayden my cycles are irregular too :( I have 2 boys and would love to have at least one girl but idk if it would work for me since I’m all over the place with my time of the month. I’m on the pill right now and still no regular periods. 2 years of the pill :(

  • @hilltree5
    @hilltree5 7 років тому

    if I have sex 2 to 3 days before ovulation will I conceive a girl

  • @Atticblood
    @Atticblood 5 років тому

    I go back and forth between when I want my second child to be. Most of the time I want a second girl. But every time I walk past the boys clothing section in like a Walmart, I want a boy bad. I'm not sure if I should sway just a reason. I don't know though

    • @k-vy5nt
      @k-vy5nt 4 роки тому

      Attic Blood twins

  • @catalinaroblero468
    @catalinaroblero468 7 років тому

    So I should stop 4 days before ovulation and keep going ??

    • @kateg9437
      @kateg9437 5 років тому +1

      Catalina Roblero - stop. If you keep going, you add ‘fresh’ sperm, which increased the chance of Male sperm fertilising the egg

    • @serenity8378
      @serenity8378 5 років тому +1

      Kaitlyn Guy question so I’m guessing how it works is have intercourse starting after my period ends and stop 4 days before ovulation?
      Also why is it that others are saying have intercourses at least 3 days before you ovulate? I’m a bit confused can you explain a little please?

    • @lydiarichu8421
      @lydiarichu8421 3 роки тому +1

      you should dtd from the time you finish your period to kill males sperm then stop 5days before ovulation if it doesnot happen, nxt month stop having sex 4 days before ovulation continue like that until you get pregnant..i have 2 boys now we will be trying for a girl this year finger crossed🙏

  • @ancadavide
    @ancadavide 8 років тому +2

    Sarah any news about your baby gender ? I am also ttc a girl and its probably even more dificilt with the age .. Fingers crossed for you to have a girl !! Thanks for the video

    • @SJ_Strum
      @SJ_Strum  8 років тому

      Hi' sorry for late reply we have been on holiday :-)) no news yet, we decided to wait and drag out the news!!! But I'm not ready to know yet, feeling like it could be a girl as have a very sweet tooth and sickness still. Are you pregnant already? Keep in touch would love to hear how it goes. Xxxx

  • @NVADAD
    @NVADAD 4 роки тому +2

    Im lillie and im 34 weeks pregnant

  • @pinkym4358
    @pinkym4358 6 років тому

    Hi.... I too followed this method.... But when i tr to do it 4 days before ovulation then my calendar reads fertility window closed... N if i do it 2 days bedore ovulation then i am not able to conceive..... What to do???

    • @kateg9437
      @kateg9437 5 років тому

      Pinky M - if you’re still having issues, I’d suggest giving up on stopping early. Keep trying when ovulating to increase your chances of a baby

  • @JA-xv3qp
    @JA-xv3qp 2 роки тому

    Ugh this means I virtually have no chance for a girl lol.
    One thing is that my husband’s family has literally not sired a girl generations, and also due to my pcos, for me there’s just no way to know my cycle at all. Even with the ovulation tests. :/

  • @terrisserose
    @terrisserose 3 роки тому

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  • @almasyafai9487
    @almasyafai9487 5 років тому

    How conceive baby boy. I have three girls need baby boy now.

  • @michellehooper4481
    @michellehooper4481 5 років тому +4

    Ok so, I stopped my period yesterday. So I start intercourse now? For four days? So, five days after every period.. that's when you ovulate? X

    • @Daymickey
      @Daymickey 4 роки тому

      Use an ovulation predictor or even BBT thermometer if you have the patience and money. It helps you know exactly when you ovulate. Most women ovulate in the middle of their cycle so it depends how long your cycle is. Mine is 31 days and I ovulate around day 15. So I would have sex from day 8 - 12 if I were using this method.

    • @Daymickey
      @Daymickey 4 роки тому

      Using an app really helps too. I use premom.

    • @rebeccaorellana
      @rebeccaorellana 4 роки тому

      Daymickey what exact day do you have period and how many days? I get mine on 20 th for 4 days when should I start having sex ? And can I have sex before too? I really want a girl

  • @nickyalexa7744
    @nickyalexa7744 2 роки тому

    I wish I had heard of this sooner 😂 my first was a girl, and then 4 boys! Lol I used to be friendly with a woman who had 7 boys! I wonder if this would work on a woman like that; who seems to be genetically built to carry one gender...

  • @aliyazaleel9300
    @aliyazaleel9300 4 роки тому

    Nataha sorry but I’m not getting any luck over here

  • @mahrukhaly7569
    @mahrukhaly7569 4 роки тому

    And how to concieve a boy ?

    • @sarabjitsingh6279
      @sarabjitsingh6279 3 роки тому

      For conceive boy you need to do at time ovaluation

  • @vishwanathiari
    @vishwanathiari 7 років тому +1

    What is the result?

  • @mrsmahmood3068
    @mrsmahmood3068 7 років тому +6

    I love your smile sj

  • @zayfox3371
    @zayfox3371 5 років тому

    How do i have a girl

  • @thatsfranzi7532
    @thatsfranzi7532 7 років тому +4

    Sheetls didnt work For my, my son was cocieved with a 3 das cut off and my Girl was 1 Day before Ovulation 😂😂

    • @SJ_Strum
      @SJ_Strum  7 років тому +5

      Yes I've had a couple of friends it didn't work for too! Our bodies will never be an exact science will they :-) SJ x

    • @donna-jozmuda929
      @donna-jozmuda929 5 років тому +2

      Did you change you diet to favor one or the other sex? A more alkaline or acidic diet?

    • @italybusta2012
      @italybusta2012 4 роки тому

      It works for about 75% of the women

  • @znay14
    @znay14 5 років тому

    So basically ..... ?

  • @chiomaprecious6839
    @chiomaprecious6839 3 роки тому

    Please someone should make me understand better please

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      @ablemexico3142 3 роки тому

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  • @LIFEOFMARIAHANDBOSS
    @LIFEOFMARIAHANDBOSS 8 років тому

    are u having a baby girl by following this method in that book

    • @SJ_Strum
      @SJ_Strum  8 років тому

      We don't know yet, we will find out next month.

  • @kithaoeric
    @kithaoeric 6 років тому

    Great

  • @subashshrestha1015
    @subashshrestha1015 7 років тому +1

    Hello the best results that I have ever had was by following the Gabs Gender Guru (i found it on google) - I found it the no.1 resource i've tried.

  • @suganyamani5200
    @suganyamani5200 5 років тому

    Rupees

  • @Garorduno
    @Garorduno 5 років тому

    😯😯😯😯😯😯😯😯