I WROTE A BOOK ABOUT MY FTM TRANSITION !!! !!!!!!!!

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  • Опубліковано 18 сер 2017
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    COMES OUT SEPT 5, 2017!
    I WILL HAVE A TABLE AT PHILLY TRANS HEALTH TOO!!!
    can't wait to see you all there
    also, just a side note: i've been dealing with some pretty severe panic attacks and so i may seem out of it, i apologize!
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  • @kaci7129
    @kaci7129 6 років тому +35

    gosh he's so heckin cute

    • @kaci7129
      @kaci7129 6 років тому +2

      ahhh you loved my comment i'm dead

    • @Martin-je7qu
      @Martin-je7qu 4 роки тому +1

      @@kaci7129 lol

  • @kathrwine
    @kathrwine 6 років тому +13

    Sorry about your panic attacks, I'm happy you finally accomplished your goal❤️take care Sky, we love you

  • @lucacommonjay7894
    @lucacommonjay7894 6 років тому +6

    Order is made. Broke me is crying. Happy me is stronger.

  • @rainbowofdarknezz
    @rainbowofdarknezz 6 років тому +16

    hey man i've never seen your videos before and i just sorta clicked on this on a whim, but u seem like such a sweet person im really happy for u dude. in ur video you talked about wanted to help young trans youth and while that doesnt apply to me, im about to be a junior in highscool right now and i've got a lot of transgender friends who are really struggling right now. its heartbreaking having to watch them grow up uncomfortable and unhappy with the way they look and feel about themselves and not being able to help. and i dont even know if ur the type of person o read ur comments or anything but just seeing how happy you are gives me hope for their futures. so thanks for doing what you do man. ill definitely tell them to check out your book. :^)

    • @skylarkeleven
      @skylarkeleven  6 років тому +4

      im glad you stumbled over this way! i'm glad i can give you some hope. high school is super hard, and it sounds like youre an amazing friend to your trans friends - keep on being so rad, love!

  • @theaclouds2124
    @theaclouds2124 6 років тому +1

    So happy for you and can't wait to read your book!! You're an amazing individual that never ceases to inspire!

  • @John-fs8rj
    @John-fs8rj 6 років тому +1

    Congratulations skylar! You've come a long way man you're the first ftm UA-camr I watched and you gave me a lot of hope, can't wait to read it!

  • @acheek4493
    @acheek4493 6 років тому +4

    Hey man, I got to read an advanced copy of this. I have to say it was raw and beautiful, thank you thank you for sharing your story. Like may people on here I've been with you from the beginning so it was oddly neat to see to see what was going on in you life while making these videos earlier on . Any how,
    Stellar book- thank you for bravery and all that great stuff. YOU my friend have shaped my life in ways you'll never know.
    Keep keeping on !!

    • @skylarkeleven
      @skylarkeleven  6 років тому +1

      wow i'm so glad you read the arc :) thank you so much

  • @elli1258
    @elli1258 6 років тому +6

    This made my morning!! Super happy for you 💪💕 Also this is sorta unrelated to the video but i just gotta say, you have such a great energy and each and every time i watch your videos i leave feeling a little calmer and a little happier, so thank you for being you i guess! 😊☀

  • @alisantana6056
    @alisantana6056 6 років тому +1

    Congratulations, congratulations, Conggraaaaaatulaations! Of course I lived in Bosoton for 4 years and now you have a book tour meet up but maybe another time and place. SO much love to you!

  • @chrishansen724
    @chrishansen724 6 років тому +1

    You're a gem! Thanks for writing a book and I think I already have it on back order with Amazon. I hope you feel better very soon. Love and hugs from London.

    • @skylarkeleven
      @skylarkeleven  6 років тому +2

      thanks so much chris! i appreciate that

  • @radcliffemcavoyeur4114
    @radcliffemcavoyeur4114 6 років тому +1

    I am so proud of you. You have come a long way. Your happiness is contagious. Keep up the good work love. 😊💜

  • @tystefan7423
    @tystefan7423 6 років тому +1

    I can't wait to read Skylar! Wishing you well.

  • @ThisTinyGlitch
    @ThisTinyGlitch 6 років тому +1

    congratulations on finishing the memoir, i'm so happy for you. i'm definitely going to get a copy, can't wait to read it :)

  • @cassidybrewer
    @cassidybrewer 6 років тому +1

    Congratulations. I don't even know you in person but I'm so proud of you!

  • @Xmusicislove02X
    @Xmusicislove02X 6 років тому

    I just bought your book over the weekend and I'm super excited to get it. I just want to say thank you for being you, being a voice to us and being so brave. I've been struggling with my transition lately and I feel like your book will help. I've been watching a lot of your old videos looking for advice. I just really appreciate you. Thank you again 😊

  • @bradjmills1070
    @bradjmills1070 6 років тому +1

    So happy you finally finished it! Way to go Sky

  • @freshhcorduroy9707
    @freshhcorduroy9707 6 років тому +1

    Yay! Congrats Sky! Can't wait to get my copy. :)

  • @SKYBEN
    @SKYBEN 6 років тому +31

    I really really want to read your memoir, you're the guy who inspired me, you're the guy who helped me realise I'm trans, you're the first trans guy I heard of (4 years ago when I was 11), you already know I chose the name skyler because your name is skylar, but you mean a hell of a lot to me even though you don't even know who I am, sadly I live in the U.K. So I'll never be able to meet you :( but what book shops in the U.K. Will sell your memoir? Also this is random but when I'm 18 (I'm only 15 now) but when I'm 18 I want to get the tattoo "Human." But I want it written in the handwriting of someone who inspires me, and you inspire me, so if you have time could you write "Human." In your handwriting and send a picture of it to me on Instagram @skylerbencooper, sorry if its a lot to ask, but it would mean a lot, thank you :)

    • @skylarkeleven
      @skylarkeleven  6 років тому +9

      oh skyler! i'd love to come to the UK and i plan on it :) let's say we will meet at some point, mkay! i just sent you over instagram message a picture of me writing Human for you :) it's the least i can do!

    • @SKYBEN
      @SKYBEN 6 років тому +4

      That's awesome! And Okayy! :) thank you so much Sky! I will meet you one day!

  • @wesleycarson9917
    @wesleycarson9917 6 років тому +2

    I shed a few tears hearing this. Ahhh....thank you Skylar

  • @josephlucas502
    @josephlucas502 6 років тому +1

    I just finished reading it last night. Your channel and now book have really opened my eyes to the struggles that transgender people deal with on a daily basis. I can relate, being a part of the LGBTQ+ community, but I had it relatively easy. I hope this book, your channel, and your continued work help others who are struggling with being trans. Thank you for writing this, and keep being awesome.

  • @ItsLVis
    @ItsLVis 6 років тому

    I'm sorry for all the horrible things you had to go through this summer. You are unbelievably positive, and that's brave af

  • @theblueloner
    @theblueloner 6 років тому

    It's always a good feeling to find people that you can look up to in the trans community, and you are one of those people for me. Thank you so much for sharing your life with us and I can't wait to read your memoir!

  • @linden4372
    @linden4372 6 років тому +2

    I'm so so happy for you!! I heard you had a rough summer, but I hope this achievement puts some spring back into your step. You radiate peace and joy in this video and I want you to know that you give me hope too. I've experienced some of my lowest lows this past few months. I think your new book may really help me out. Thank you!

  • @AfroGalaxy
    @AfroGalaxy 6 років тому +1

    this is crazy! I've been following you for around 6 years now and I'm so happy that you've come this far! I feel like a proud mama :,~)

  • @youngblossom
    @youngblossom 6 років тому +2

    Yay, Sky!! I'm so proud of you!! I'm not a very strong reader, so usually avoid purchasing books, but I can tell that your memoir is going to be something worth pushing myself for. Sending you all the love & light this world has to offer, my friend!

    • @skylarkeleven
      @skylarkeleven  6 років тому +1

      thank you so much lovebug. i adore you! i am going to try to do the audio version myself this fall - are audio books easier for you? :)

    • @youngblossom
      @youngblossom 6 років тому +1

      skylarkeleven Yes! An audio book would be so lovely! ❤️

    • @ginabrandstetter5664
      @ginabrandstetter5664 6 років тому

      I loved your book, it was so easy to read, very personable and down to earth. Thanks for sharing, your experiences, your self, and your volunteer work. I see great things in your future and I hope to meet you one day in person to say thank you again. From a mom of a wonderful transgendered guy.

  • @leighrollie7131
    @leighrollie7131 4 роки тому

    I am just about 2 years too late! but I have watched your channel for years!, and it gave me the courage to come out several years ago! I never realised you had a book out! I have got it for a Christmas Present :) can't wait to read it, I am almost a month into my Journey!

  • @HannahHaphazard
    @HannahHaphazard 6 років тому +7

    You are such a precious and wonderful human being! Thank YOU for existing! I can't wait to read your memoir.

  • @ExcelsiorAdAstra
    @ExcelsiorAdAstra 6 років тому +1

    This is amazing! Big ups to you and your journey! 💓

  • @ShelleSinger
    @ShelleSinger 6 років тому

    Just finished your book. Congratulations. You are one hell of a writer. It was engaging, painful, uplifting and inspiring. Well done. I hope you continue writing.

  • @LovelyLikeLaura
    @LovelyLikeLaura 6 років тому

    Omg i loveeee the brookline booksmith, hope i can come! :) & congratulations on your book Skylar, what a great accomplishment!

  • @denizgoktas7654
    @denizgoktas7654 6 років тому +1

    Im so proud of what you have become in life bro. ❤

  • @Chan-me5wg
    @Chan-me5wg Рік тому

    I am reading your memoir, now I am at around 22% (right after "CANCER")
    It feels like I am reading my own story, but of course there are some differences. The parts which resonate most with me are how you thought you would go through the male puberty, that people were just making a mistake, and how the Internet allows to be yourself.
    Thank you for writing this memoir.
    I hope that some day I would pluck up my courage and write mine also, as a record of my experience.

  • @kingxriv_4890
    @kingxriv_4890 6 років тому

    Sky, you have such a beautiful soul which is so hard to find nowadays. Thank you for being you and filling us trans guys and other lgbtq members with the encouragement and love that we need. ❤ Cant wait to read your book

  • @j4k3vlogs
    @j4k3vlogs 6 років тому +1

    I remember when I randomly ran into you at Vidcon 2016 outside a LGBT thing and it took me a minute to recognize you bc I hadn't watched ur vids for awhile but, I'm happy I ran into you and now you wrote a book!!!! Looking forward to reading it!!!

    • @skylarkeleven
      @skylarkeleven  6 років тому +1

      omg so cute jake! thank you so much :D

  • @mads1393
    @mads1393 6 років тому

    i am sososo proud of you!!! you inspired me to find myself and i am so glad that you get to share your story with others to help them as well 💞💕

  • @babetdehaan1433
    @babetdehaan1433 6 років тому +2

    I am so proud of you!
    Youre such a rolemodel.
    Keep up the good work Skylar! 💪🏼❤️

  • @fadedscriptures298
    @fadedscriptures298 6 років тому

    Thank YOU for existing Sky

  • @alexandermalsbury6207
    @alexandermalsbury6207 6 років тому

    dude im so excited to get mine. i love your videos and you really helped me figure out what was actually going on in my brain, and im working on a fiction book rn! so freaking stoked!

  • @arickmasters733
    @arickmasters733 6 років тому +2

    I just pre ordered your book, the signed copy. I can't wait to read it. I've been watching your videos for years. Thank you for being there for the transgender community.

  • @FrankMacri
    @FrankMacri 6 років тому +1

    Congrats Skylar!!

  • @radrillest
    @radrillest 6 років тому +1

    It's been a year since you buzzed your hair off and it's come back very nice!!

  • @MaxRebelliousPirate91
    @MaxRebelliousPirate91 6 років тому +2

    Welcome back. Enjoyed your YouNow stream earlier! Congratz on your book release! when I can, I am going to buy it!

  • @GamingNinja77745
    @GamingNinja77745 6 років тому

    I am super proud of you Sky and I cannot wait to read your book 😊💕📖🌈😘

  • @maia-ek8rr
    @maia-ek8rr 6 років тому

    So happy you uploaded! Your videos always make me happy and I always get excited seeing that you uploaded! I super excited about the book and I'm ready to read it :)

  • @mujercita3304
    @mujercita3304 6 років тому +1

    Im so proud of you!!!! Definitely going to purchase this beauty of a book !!!

  • @mahogatstfm8160
    @mahogatstfm8160 6 років тому +1

    I mildly freaked out when I found your book preordered at my local library a few weeks back. I immediately requested it, and will get my hands on it as soon as I can. Thank you, Sky.

    • @skylarkeleven
      @skylarkeleven  6 років тому +1

      EEEEE this makes me so happy to know it will be at your local library!! YESSS!!! :D

  • @rensky4747
    @rensky4747 6 років тому +1

    Amazing Skylar definitely gonna get one.

  • @lexivorwartz685
    @lexivorwartz685 6 років тому +1

    Yay! I'm totally buying a copy when I get paid

  • @generaltomfoolery5679
    @generaltomfoolery5679 6 років тому

    so proud of you, my dude. can't wait to read it. ❤️

  • @markhess5757
    @markhess5757 6 років тому +1

    congrats; I'm very happy for you and look forward to reading it :)

  • @ezrataylorsversion7239
    @ezrataylorsversion7239 6 років тому

    Skylar you're one of the first ftm youtubers that i started watching when I was discovering that I'm trans. I'm doing the same thing on my channel with sharing my story as I would've never gotten the courage if it wasn't for you. Can't wait to read your book(:

  • @jamiewickersham8899
    @jamiewickersham8899 6 років тому +2

    Boy I so need to buy this book

  • @skythomas7008
    @skythomas7008 6 років тому +2

    How does one in Canada get a copy? Your my mentor and always have been Skylar. When I saw the first of your videos that you had uploaded and spoke to you in emails and such you truly helped me. You've helped me understand my mom and other family's understanding of things. Congratulations I'm very proud of you

  • @kiethveseyofficial
    @kiethveseyofficial 6 років тому +15

    Hey skylarkeleven happy you finally finished your memoir.
    I've tried to write a book several times
    But never made it past four pages
    Of my own.
    Oh on your panic attacks try some
    Robitissun its cough medicine it helps with my panic attacks, that and aspirin.

    • @skylarkeleven
      @skylarkeleven  6 років тому +4

      It took me a long time to get past just a few pages, my friend. It is okay to stop, it is okay to try again, or it is okay to try something new :) Go you! and thank you for the advice. i am seeing my psychiatrist this week too, for suggestions.

  • @coolkelso432
    @coolkelso432 6 років тому +1

    I'm so happy for you :). I will be buying a signed copy as soon as I have the means to!

  • @jessicamitchell3543
    @jessicamitchell3543 6 років тому +1

    I'm so ready to buy this and so happy for you!

  • @brennankeaton4142
    @brennankeaton4142 6 років тому +1

    I NEED THIS BOOK IN MY LIFE! ☺️

  • @user-wi5qe7xl2p
    @user-wi5qe7xl2p 6 років тому +1

    You've always been such a wonderful speaker and so poetic and thoughtful in your words, I can't wait to read this. I preordered a signed copy as soon as I saw the link. Thank you for sharing your story with us

  • @mexreyes98
    @mexreyes98 6 років тому

    Made me cry.. You're such a sweet heart!

  • @cindyross9717
    @cindyross9717 6 років тому

    You are an amazing guy. When I was in high school I struggled through everything I didnt know who I was. The most inspiring video you have is the one you did for the 1 year on testosterone. I'm now 2 year on t. And it feels amazing that I was finally able to find myself and be able to be me finally. Thank you so much your an amazing guy. Keep your head up and always try to think positive

  • @jackknife2527
    @jackknife2527 6 років тому +1

    congratulations! so happy for u :) will be ordering soon

  • @ahStarwok
    @ahStarwok 6 років тому +1

    Congrats! Can't wait to get my hands on this book. So proud.

  • @Everlostkibo
    @Everlostkibo 6 років тому

    You are such a genuine dude. I honesty hope I can become as great as a man as you are.

  • @gracie-maetrombley6046
    @gracie-maetrombley6046 4 роки тому

    I’m in the middle of reading it and it’s so good. Your very inspiring and thank you for sharing your story

  • @anticipatinguploads9751
    @anticipatinguploads9751 6 років тому +1

    I can't wait too read it! ❤️

  • @ericsparks2349
    @ericsparks2349 6 років тому +1

    Wow that;s amazing and it looks really long!

  • @shatha289
    @shatha289 6 років тому

    IT LOOKS SO GOOD I CANT WAIT TO READ IT!!

  • @WayneHastingsDotNet
    @WayneHastingsDotNet 6 років тому

    Congrats! Looking forward to reading. ❤️👍🌈. Edit: just finished reading. Thank you for sharing your story. Keep,up,the good work. You are an inspiration.

  • @masterofsilence649
    @masterofsilence649 6 років тому +2

    I'm so happy for you man!! ^^

  • @TheMaster1234Herecomethedrums
    @TheMaster1234Herecomethedrums 6 років тому +1

    Congrats!!!

  • @ericsparks2349
    @ericsparks2349 6 років тому +1

    Wow I am so happy for you man. I hope you make a lot of $$

  • @monicarivera6869
    @monicarivera6869 6 років тому +2

    Sky you're so beautiful person.

  • @yardensiegelgaming3984
    @yardensiegelgaming3984 6 років тому

    I bought your book man starting reading it now! Good job

  • @mexreyes98
    @mexreyes98 6 років тому

    I'm so proud of you!!!!!!

  • @Bopsterjazz
    @Bopsterjazz 6 років тому

    I got this book! I'm reading this thing! It's been a while since I've related so much to the people I'm reading about.

  • @nazunya385
    @nazunya385 6 років тому

    I found your book like 2 days after my Birthday Oct 25th and I'm so happy I did, I may or may not be trans but it honestly helped me sorta find out more about my gender identity. I'm technically female but I don't know what I am now lol but I am just a 14 year old at the moment, but thank you anyway and your book is truly amazing and so are you.

  • @DirewolfGabe
    @DirewolfGabe 6 років тому

    AHHHHH Can't wait to see you and Reed's cute faces next month. ❤

  • @aspenizayah3740
    @aspenizayah3740 6 років тому

    SO EXCITED FOR THIS

  • @laken8926
    @laken8926 6 років тому +1

    My grandma is getting me it, I just came out as trans, she wants to help, she told me to look you up on UA-cam lol

    • @finn2745
      @finn2745 4 роки тому

      You have a really cool grandma :') Mine doesn't even know it and I don't know if she would understand it, she's 94 years old.

  • @jaaldag
    @jaaldag 6 років тому

    Congratulations!!!! 🎉🍾🎊🎈

  • @heatherslife9347
    @heatherslife9347 6 років тому +1

    That's so cool congrats

  • @adamzander6171
    @adamzander6171 6 років тому

    Im so proud of you sky. Iysm

  • @bagery
    @bagery 6 років тому

    Gosh, I am trying not to buy anymore physical books. It's too bad you can't sign the Kindle version. I might have to make a bday exception Sept 5. Will see
    I'm sorry things have been faltering here and there for you this year, but I know there will be a bright light eventually. Always is, right? This book is a fantastic start. Keep it up. You're a good guy and it's always nice to see your smiling face here :)

  • @dylandjavelet3325
    @dylandjavelet3325 6 років тому

    Congratulations you beautiful creature you! You deserve all the happiness! Let me know when the book tour starts! Can't wait to see you here in shitty Florida!

  • @sanjansenmuziek
    @sanjansenmuziek 6 років тому

    aaa I'm so happy 4u!!

  • @thimblepunk7359
    @thimblepunk7359 6 років тому

    Congrats man!

  • @Adriel_HD
    @Adriel_HD 5 років тому

    Huge respect

  • @ceryscooper8597
    @ceryscooper8597 6 років тому

    i am so proud of you! this is amazing. a book!! a fricking book!!!! wow. will it be available in book stores in the UK? :)

    • @skylarkeleven
      @skylarkeleven  6 років тому +1

      eeee thank you! i believe it should be :) barnes and noble and possibly some others! you could also ask your favorite local store to order it for you :)

    • @ceryscooper8597
      @ceryscooper8597 6 років тому +1

      +skylarkeleven will do! thank you :D

  • @akiyata5907
    @akiyata5907 6 років тому

    Found out about this through gorillashrimp, and I'm definitely gonna get this book! Who knows, maybe it'll inspire me to write my own some day

  • @robeywarner
    @robeywarner 6 років тому +1

    I am so proud of you, I know you since your beginning on UA-cam. I wanted to know if it is possible to buy it on France (yep I'm French) I really want to read it and to know more about your journey.
    Kiss and Love from a French fan ❤️

    • @skylarkeleven
      @skylarkeleven  6 років тому +1

      Thank you so kindly! And yes, it should be available in France :) Either in a store or definitely online!

  • @saxtont-j8745
    @saxtont-j8745 6 років тому

    I got the book and I’m reading it and I love it!!!

  • @pinacolada705
    @pinacolada705 6 років тому

    I wanna read that book. I hope it comes to Poland

  • @moochachaa
    @moochachaa 6 років тому +1

    Will it be in book stores in Canada ???
    I love the front cover

    • @skylarkeleven
      @skylarkeleven  6 років тому +2

      yes! it should be :) you can always ask your local one to order a copy for you too! :D and thank you! it was designed by a fan of mine, they are credited on the inner cover with their instagram tag :))

  • @simonbanks3112
    @simonbanks3112 6 років тому

    Brilliant!! :)

  • @spencerkephart2952
    @spencerkephart2952 6 років тому

    Hey +skylarkeleven, I'll see you at Philly Trans Health!

  • @mexreyes98
    @mexreyes98 6 років тому

    Wish I could talk to you.. You're really inspirational...

  • @gracepower180
    @gracepower180 6 років тому

    I want it omg (also, I hope you remember me)!!!!

  • @Chan-me5wg
    @Chan-me5wg Рік тому

    By the way, I come from Hong Kong, and I am kinda shocked that you and your friends used to question together whether or not some of you are bisexual.
    Here in Hong Kong (at least in my Catholic school), these are not talked about because anyone who says they are not straight would draw so much attention (in a bad way).
    Being cis straight is the norm and having another sexual orientation is a wrong thing here.
    Teachers would definitely not stop people from harassing gay students because they see gay students as problematic (of course, some teachers find that okay, but they can't do a thing).
    There is also no gay straight alliance club nor other LGBTQ+ related clubs...
    And the most annoying thing is, it was around 2004-2006 when you were studying in high school, but I have just graduated from my high school (2022 June).
    Of course, because my school is very strict in discipline, there is minimal bullying. And I am really thankful for that.

  • @josiek1869
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    Your expressions ☺️

  • @mattreissfelder7510
    @mattreissfelder7510 6 років тому

    BOSTON 💪🏻