I think some should hear how pitiful and cowardly they really are. If you were in a LTR : long term relationship. You feel you earned the right to do so. The way he betrayed me shook my existence. I released everything. But the key is, when you do leave and never look back. I changed everything!! He didn’t see it coming. Not only did I leave him, my words cut him to the core. No others before me have ever done that. So free now- I’m the one that got away and staying AWAY.- 3 yrs Total NC ❤️❤️
God has helped me walk away and when I did I heard the spirit of God tell me don’t say anything and back then I didn’t understand why but I do now because peace and goodness flows already in you and God knows how to repay your enemy , when you talk to the narc you speaking to the evil spirit and allowing him access to your feelings which is a no no, but to each their own. God will deal with them and show us how to move forward. God bless everyone that has dealt with these crazy birds.
This is so true! Right before I discarded him, I told him he was a miserable bum. Those demons in him called me everything except a child of God. I spoke the truth and he knew it. 💯
Followed it up. Had so much dirt on him. Exposed his ass. He got fired and evicted and lost his next supply. Had to move in with his family. If he didn’t know. He does now. Don’t ever take kindness for weakness. 👊🏼😊
My brother called my narcissistic mother a hypocrite and she turned around and threw a pot right at his head...he ducked and it hit the wall....Boy he touched the narcs nerve
MK, My narc did the same exact thing to me when I hit a nerve. Threw a pot at my head and just missed and put a big hole in the living wall. Wow, it amazes me how, just about all narcs have similar demonic personalities. Take care!
@@melevamitchellmcfadden3262 Yup they tell on themselves because if you were to call someone normal a hypocrite, they would probably just turn around and say,"really? how am I being that? or something, not freak out and throw something at someones head, narcs hate truth! Sorry that happened to you. and yes, my narc mother used to put holes in walls with hammers during her freak outs also throwing plates, knives and forks against the walls in the kitchen...insane tantrums she would have.
I told my ex-husband I don't feel like he is man enough to protect me and he threw a bottle at my face, i dodged it and the bottle broke through the cabinet
When my narc placed a restraining order on me out of nowhere at the gas station in the morning. The day before the spirit put on my heart to get a restraining order on him and keep it in my car. When he tried to serve me I had him served right back. The Lord prepared me for a long battle I am currently in, and my NARC that day was so shocked he was served. He was trying to leave me and my son homeless. I am currently praying for a dismissal of his restraining order and a smooth divorce and God granted my restraining order on him for 3 years.
❤nothing but 100% clinical and spiritual facts.. im so blessed God gave me the strength to go “NO CONTACT” my life is so much better and stress free. #Healing
Imma be real!!! A lot of us was just too nice! The whole time the narcissist move out of fear! My ex wife is narcissist and argued and fought with me tooth and nail. I’m watching this street guy who a narcissist 20yrs younger than her controlling her out of fear. Don’t get me wrong she still sneaky if giving the opportunity. But the same things she did out of my house she wouldn’t dare try those things with him. She scared of what he might do to her. We have a child together and my daughter stays with me! He won’t even let her come see her daughter! She’s 41 he’s 26 with 8 kids! She was being sneaky and met him while living with me. The whole time she ran into a controlling manipulative narc! She sittting up in house playing step mom to his kids and NEVER see’s her daughter or calls! I’m not gone lie I enjoy seeing this younger guy do everything she did to me X’s 10
😂Lol yes I feel you !! You are witnessing KARMA to the 10th power.. she will try to circle the block with you out of pure desperation…. If it only trying to be your “ friend “. This guy sounds like a complete worthless thug !
@@latonyamorgan1520 it’s karma but she’s narcissist! She doesn’t have a bottom out! She keeps going down lower and lower but won’t change her ways. She don’t even believe in karma so she says!
I told him he will never be anybody. He repeated it verbatim to me. I was ready for him to act a fool. We met chest to chest. They like to put fear in you. But, I went toe to toe. He backed down. Every time he went off. I went centered stage on him. He backed down. I told him he was stupid. He lied about going to college. Found out, he didn't. He got angry and said I got a GED and it wasn't easy. I said you can't spell GED. His sentence structure was on 3rd grade level. He tried to bully me. I took my earrings off and put Vaseline on my face. Are you feeling froggy....he was scared.....he told me sometimes you make me feel like a king and sometimes you make me feel like sh...I was an action sister. He changed his tune each time. I called him a weak a.. You don't want to fool with a Sophia....Harpo and the mule didn't do it!!!! I did.
I called him ugly and eczema ( he is an acute eczema sufferer ). The rage that came about 😅 I received court papers 🤣 Does he think I'm afraid? Hell NO.
I told my ex-husband before our divorce, I’m not living with a demon. He about lost it. I physically separated from him and then did what I said I was going to do, file for divorce. I’d say be careful because these Narcs are evil and a Narcissistic injury could turn into a crime scene. I told him after the divorce. Don’t ever, ever call/contact me again. He knew I meant business. I have peace and experience joy. I’m still healing and taking it one day at a time. Nevertheless, these Narcs don’t like to be aggravated by the truth. The truth dismantles their false persona. Keep healing beautiful people 🙏🏾❤️🙋🏾♀️.
I called my ex-narc a douchebag, then completely cut him off three days before his birthday. He left a voicemail crying about not understanding what had happened. I never responded back to him. 2 1/2 years no contact and it’s been a blessing being narc-free! 💪🏽
I told the narc that they THREW away the wrong part when he was born 😂😂 😂😂😂he wants to hit me but he knows he’s already under domestic violence case , I’m protecting me no matter what
I say a little BOY syndrome and he needs to call his momma to get his weenie out of his Zipper 😂😂😂, he’s always trying to bring me down but JESUS. Little boy,girl man,pervert,like little girls and little boys he hates me oh well and I remind him that God loves him
My mom called my narc ex a “Sorry Ass” and I could tell it bothered him because he brung it up to me and in that moment had to reassure him that he wasn’t one lol, but yes they are all “ Sorry Asses” 😂
I planted a seed several weeks ago, and I never thought in my wildest dreams that I would verbally attack my Wife with words. After identifying my money was being stolen and spent on the new supply, I called her a worthless piece of SH*T. It hurt me to have used those words on the woman I once loved and respected, but I was betrayed and used for 23 years.
I called him a coward to his face many times he got soo upset lol! Called him a cheater a cowardly one too as I said you did it behind my back ! I have said he was a liar , not a real man and he’s got nothing I was his everything and I left for good!
I like doing this. Naming them exactly for what they are. They HATE it, and go running off for help. It seems the same as violence to them. Naming them fully for what they are. Telling them where their abusive ways will lead to... It's glorious 😂
"I get more satisfaction out of blowing my nose" And yes, they will ask why are you so hurtful...how ironic Well, now I know why this bird and my mother tell me my mouth cuts like a knife.....
I wouldn’t be purposely nasty with them. Respectfully calling out specific behaviors maybe. But Don’t start a fight with crazy. God calls us to be wise as a serpent yet harmless as a dove. If you aren’t following what God is telling you to say to them and going off in revenge, when God tells us not to worry vengeance is His, God can pull His hand of protection off you because now you’re acting in carnality and not in His spirit. This can give the demonic the go ahead to unalive you. “Fools give full vent to their rage, but the wise bring calm in the end.” Proverbs 29:11 NIV Narcissists are nonsensical they will make nonsense to the sense that you are speaking. Stand up for yourself in full wisdom. But it’s wiser to grey rock and not be in connection with them. Think God goes back and forth with the devil despite how nasty he is? No, God moves in silence and let’s the devil mop His jaw off the floor when he sees the results.
At the root, narcissist have a spirit of shame. The enemy constantly tells them they are worthless, they are nothing, they are insignificant that is why they rely on the ego and outside influences to be build themselves up. They have no identity, or true sense of self worth. If you are using shameful insults you are only siding with the voices of darkness they are already plagued with.
i said, 'all you care about is your image" and also an opportunist and he was dead silent but then he called me abusive ..I had to laugh at that rebutal, cause he ran like the wind...this was my narcissistic covert brother. A pathological liar...After the obteenth deception I had to stop pussy footing around this narc and let them have it because I was just calling him out on the truth and his ego really didn't deny a word I said.
This is priceless advice! May God bless everyone who reads this message for standing up for themself, taking actions and protecting themself from the wickedness/venom of a worthless/weak narc.Amen,stay empowered and protect your peace u are of great value. radiate your great light in this dark world. Shalom
I remember one day he was frantic because he had to take these at home tests in order for him to stay employed for the DOE… he had taken the test about 20x each… he then asked me to take them … I did and I passed them for him .. the test about children with autism was hard but the test about children being bullied was a breeze… he could not pass either.. after I had done him the favor… I couldn’t believe how ungrateful he was …telling me he didn’t need me … I was stunned (because remember,I know he’s off but I’m still unaware about narcissism), all I knew was he made me feel bad quite often… after that telling episode … I remember losing it… telling him how dumb he was … how couldn’t even pass his own test … I called him dummy… I told him how he needed to ride the short yellow bus , with a helmet on and he prolly ate paint chips of the wall that’s why he was such a dummy…. I was totally lost and out of character… I remember having an internal conversation with myself… because I felt terrible and for being so out of control … I was crying for something he had done to me yet I was feeling guilty about it… I may have said it before taking an L for the ME team was worth it because losing a Narc is a definite WIN!
You know what .. I had a dream right before my last confrontation with the narc . The dream I saw myself not taking shit from anyone and I was completely transformed. Few days later during a failed FaceTime with him and the kids something came over me like an awareness of the situation. I said some true things now I know he ain’t like hearing .. I said move on if you don’t care stop wasting out me time and I not gona let you be fake with the kids. I told him stop being fake as hell I see right through that shit . Lololol
That’s so true because I know just one of the incidents I told him he slimy and 🐍🤮 lower than a snake and here I am four years no contact and I’m telling you now God is so good. I can’t thank you enough Sis🥰 along my journey always giving me an inspiring word and enlightening on this whole situation and how to come against it strong with God‘s help🙏🏽💪🏽💯💜☮️
Another trigger is calling them a liar, and telling them don't flatter yourself I'm not invisible to the one worthy of me! Folks who can't communicate think everything is an argument People who lack accountability think everything is an attack. Pretending isn't being honest but being content is! Thank you, beautiful for sharing these Amazing videos that definitely resonate with me. I'm so happy to be a subscriber. I thank God for healing me in all areas of my life! When you know better you do better. Blessings and Best regards in all endeavors to you and anyone reading this message 🙏
I told my ex he was a weirdo that should be ashamed of himself and after 20 years that’s all it took!! He exploded for the last time with and all was over. Weirdo was the trigger. We’ve been separated and no contact for the last 8 months. I’m moving on!
When you tell them all of the things you're mentioning in this video, it hurts them to THEIR core cuz those insults that takes them back to their CORE INJURY --- usually inflicted by their parents/guardians. When you dig up that ol' dead "corpse ⚰️💀" & shove it in their face so they have 2 "kiss 😘" it on the lips 💋 --- ba-BAY 👏🏾💥 😐 !! They instantly go into a trance 😵💫 & the only thing they are able to hear 👂🏾from that point on is "There all gonna laugh 🤭 at you!; they're ALL GONNA LAUGH 🤣👉🏾😥🤦🏾♂️ AT YOU!!" like Carrie 👩🏻🦰 heard 👂🏻her mother's 👩🦱🗣️voice repeating on a loop in her head 😖 🧠 in the movie !! 😆
Go with your instincts... move in silence and love don't have nothing to do with it but common sense does...Showing love with certain demons will get you unalived. Jesus says, Be As Wise As A Serpent and Harmless as A Dove... #Rogerthat👌🏽💯💪🏾💃🏽
They'll think you're being petty. They already know they have a demon. They're in denial. Everything they are they project on others. Even being an unfit parent doesn't bother them. They are lost!!
I could never tell the narcissist the truth about them, especially when they are a roommate. I have a separate fridge, and I wouldn't be able to trust what she might do to my food?? I already am concerned about it, without angering her.Who know's what else she would do? I know my roommate would yell so load for my neighbors to hear it, she would call me an Fin- Bit=c and slam the door super hard like nobodies business!! She's already done that before!!! Recently she yelled at me loudly to avoid paying for a bill, that I took off more than she should get. she always will go l treat me horrible at night, than in the morning, she will look like an angel, not mad, and act as though nothing had ever happened. This time it plainly through me into a serious depression. I usually can take it!! but I'm having to detach at this time, and just be numb, till I can have God minister unto me, till I can get in the Spiritual fight again with all the Schemes of the Devil, Satan's unfair playbook!! Armored up, in these last days.
I had to tell him about himself. I told him that he was full of sh**, a liar and a cheater. Especially whenever he tried eating at my self esteem and trying to bring me down.
Narcissists can dish it though can’t take it! Pain is wisdom. Use your wisdom to prevent getting involved by one of these head cases in the future…Once you know go and stay gone. Period! 🙏🏼
Absolutely I agree, another great tactic is screen shot message and as always the narc will switch it up and say you are LIEING then send them their own words back 😂😂😂😂
The Narc is still in my house for another day or 2 and all they do is act mad & miserable. Keep in mind, they’re the ones who broke up with me yet they’re pissed off😂 I don’t say nothing though, I just let’em be lol
Ms T he loves to buy clothes from goodwill and he actually BUYS WOMEN clothes, and one day he had on these ladies SKINNY Jeans 👖, I walked into the kitchen and saw them SKINNY Jeans on him after I stop laughing 😂 I stepped back and whistled Lord knows I couldn’t help it and then I called him a GIRLIE MAN 👨🏼 he went and took them off and I haven’t seen them again 😂😂😂😂LORD forgive me for laughing 😂 but it was funny, and would you believe he has taken a bath 2 days in a row, Laughing 😂 all day thank you 🙏 thank you Ms T
Deadbeat and no honor didn't move him. But...BROKE really sent him into a rage. I think it's the things they haven't accepted or the things that are driving their deception
You can say ( but really silence with no emotion is most powerful) very calmly : wow, what a deception you were. You leave them there with a little laugh. 💣💥
When I realized what was dealing with she had a lot of angry outbursts towards me and then she didn’t want to really talk too much with me at that point she didn’t want talk
I told my ex when he showed up 6 months after I went no contact that I figured out what was wrong with him. Used the word narcissist, and he hung his head. Told him he would need therapy if he wanted to ever have healthy relationships. He got up, laughed, and said he couldn’t even get to church on Sundays. He immediately started to smear me with his son’s mom. Thought she was my friend, but heard recently she had broken up his relationship with the new supply and moved my ex and his adult daughter from another girl into her house. Blocked her too. She thinks she’ll change him because he’s going to church with her. 😂😮
Thank you mrs. telsa, I've learned so much in the past ten days from you, I told the female narcissist shame on you and she called me everything in the book and she called my mother a b**ch.
Oeps I called him every word you said. No wonder I got discarded 😂. He said : you are an incapable woman ( was running my own business, household and he was eating in a 5 star restaurant every day) My respond was: if I am incapable so what are you. 2 years ago you was living with your momma and you have nothing and from now on everything I gave you is gone, the light is on in your head but there is nobody home! He showed me the door with a baby 😮
Some don’t deserve no words but straight action 😂
Yes move in silence
Yep I leaving everything to his imagination and 😢😢😢😢 that’s him. He wants me to talk about him so bad but I am not giving him the satisfaction
I think some should hear how pitiful and cowardly they really are. If you were in a LTR : long term relationship. You feel you earned the right to do so. The way he betrayed me shook my existence. I released everything. But the key is, when you do leave and never look back. I changed everything!! He didn’t see it coming. Not only did I leave him, my words cut him to the core. No others before me have ever done that. So free now- I’m the one that got away and staying AWAY.- 3 yrs Total NC ❤️❤️
God has helped me walk away and when I did I heard the spirit of God tell me don’t say anything and back then I didn’t understand why but I do now because peace and goodness flows already in you and God knows how to repay your enemy , when you talk to the narc you speaking to the evil spirit and allowing him access to your feelings which is a no no, but to each their own. God will deal with them and show us how to move forward. God bless everyone that has dealt with these crazy birds.
😂❤💯💪😎👀 and "."
Leaving them and the truth as well as zero contact. TOTAL SILENCE. That kills them.
Thank you!! They lose their minds
This is so true! Right before I discarded him, I told him he was a miserable bum. Those demons in him called me everything except a child of God. I spoke the truth and he knew it. 💯
Followed it up. Had so much dirt on him. Exposed his ass. He got fired and evicted and lost his next supply. Had to move in with his family. If he didn’t know. He does now. Don’t ever take kindness for weakness. 👊🏼😊
I bruise his ego all the time and continues to run away from me🤣🤣🤣
I called the ex a liar And he nearly jumped out his skin😮
Stop 😂 I want to unblock him right now and call him a loser and a mistake 😂😂😂 I’m howling lmao
My brother called my narcissistic mother a hypocrite and she turned around and threw a pot right at his head...he ducked and it hit the wall....Boy he touched the narcs nerve
He really did😢
MK, My narc did the same exact thing to me when I hit a nerve. Threw a pot at my head and just missed and put a big hole in the living wall. Wow, it amazes me how, just about all narcs have similar demonic personalities. Take care!
@@melevamitchellmcfadden3262 Yup they tell on themselves because if you were to call someone normal a hypocrite, they would probably just turn around and say,"really? how am I being that? or something, not freak out and throw something at someones head, narcs hate truth! Sorry that happened to you. and yes, my narc mother used to put holes in walls with hammers during her freak outs also throwing plates, knives and forks against the walls in the kitchen...insane tantrums she would have.
I told my ex-husband I don't feel like he is man enough to protect me and he threw a bottle at my face, i dodged it and the bottle broke through the cabinet
When my narc placed a restraining order on me out of nowhere at the gas station in the morning. The day before the spirit put on my heart to get a restraining order on him and keep it in my car. When he tried to serve me I had him served right back. The Lord prepared me for a long battle I am currently in, and my NARC that day was so shocked he was served. He was trying to leave me and my son homeless. I am currently praying for a dismissal of his restraining order and a smooth divorce and God granted my restraining order on him for 3 years.
THAT'S COMEDY GOLD 💰. I KNOW he was fuming 👨🏿🦲🔥 mad & wondering how you beat him to the punch 👊🏾 💥🤬
I bet he was shocked he didn't see it coming 🤣
God bless you sister, and praying 🙏 for many blessings for you, we deserve so much more,in the name of Jesus Christ Amen 🙏
Gods got it so I’m not planting nothing in a narcissist
❤nothing but 100% clinical and spiritual facts.. im so blessed God gave me the strength to go “NO CONTACT” my life is so much better and stress free. #Healing
How sweet it will be
When the fog lifts !!!! Won’t he do it
Imma be real!!! A lot of us was just too nice! The whole time the narcissist move out of fear! My ex wife is narcissist and argued and fought with me tooth and nail. I’m watching this street guy who a narcissist 20yrs younger than her controlling her out of fear. Don’t get me wrong she still sneaky if giving the opportunity. But the same things she did out of my house she wouldn’t dare try those things with him. She scared of what he might do to her. We have a child together and my daughter stays with me! He won’t even let her come see her daughter! She’s 41 he’s 26 with 8 kids! She was being sneaky and met him while living with me. The whole time she ran into a controlling manipulative narc! She sittting up in house playing step mom to his kids and NEVER see’s her daughter or calls! I’m not gone lie I enjoy seeing this younger guy do everything she did to me X’s 10
😂Lol yes I feel you !! You are witnessing KARMA to the 10th power.. she will try to circle the block with you out of pure desperation…. If it only trying to be your
“ friend “. This guy sounds like a complete worthless thug !
That’s karma!😢
@@latonyamorgan1520 it’s karma but she’s narcissist! She doesn’t have a bottom out! She keeps going down lower and lower but won’t change her ways. She don’t even believe in karma so she says!
I told him he will never be anybody. He repeated it verbatim to me. I was ready for him to act a fool. We met chest to chest. They like to put fear in you. But, I went toe to toe. He backed down. Every time he went off. I went centered stage on him. He backed down. I told him he was stupid. He lied about going to college. Found out, he didn't. He got angry and said I got a GED and it wasn't easy. I said you can't spell GED. His sentence structure was on 3rd grade level. He tried to bully me. I took my earrings off and put Vaseline on my face. Are you feeling froggy....he was scared.....he told me sometimes you make me feel like a king and sometimes you make me feel like sh...I was an action sister. He changed his tune each time. I called him a weak a.. You don't want to fool with a Sophia....Harpo and the mule didn't do it!!!! I did.
Same!!! He lied and said he went to college ....NEVER SAW A DAY PAST HIGH SCHOOL. In and out of jail and then some!!! Just horrible!!!
I let the narcissist know exactly who he is and he got so upset that he busted a window in my vehicle
I called him ugly and eczema ( he is an acute eczema sufferer ).
The rage that came about 😅
I received court papers 🤣
Does he think I'm afraid?
Hell NO.
Wth 😂 omg no you did not!!😂😂
I told my ex-husband before our divorce, I’m not living with a demon. He about lost it. I physically separated from him and then did what I said I was going to do, file for divorce. I’d say be careful because these Narcs are evil and a Narcissistic injury could turn into a crime scene. I told him after the divorce. Don’t ever, ever call/contact me again. He knew I meant business. I have peace and experience joy. I’m still healing and taking it one day at a time. Nevertheless, these Narcs don’t like to be aggravated by the truth. The truth dismantles their false persona. Keep healing beautiful people 🙏🏾❤️🙋🏾♀️.
I called my ex-narc a douchebag, then completely cut him off three days before his birthday. He left a voicemail crying about not understanding what had happened. I never responded back to him. 2 1/2 years no contact and it’s been a blessing being narc-free! 💪🏽
If you want to know if you’re dealing with a true narcissist, just tell them no then you will. KNOW.
Well if they have a temper and are abusive, they will fight you and beat u down... If you're in their presence😮
Mine have a temper but the POLICE 👮♂️ have one also, if he blinks I’m calling the police 👮♂️
I told the narc that they THREW away the wrong part when he was born 😂😂 😂😂😂he wants to hit me but he knows he’s already under domestic violence case , I’m protecting me no matter what
I say a little BOY syndrome and he needs to call his momma to get his weenie out of his Zipper 😂😂😂, he’s always trying to bring me down but JESUS. Little boy,girl man,pervert,like little girls and little boys he hates me oh well and I remind him that God loves him
@@earlinesblack1361 You can avoid all that drama by staying away from that period
My mom called my narc ex a “Sorry Ass” and I could tell it bothered him because he brung it up to me and in that moment had to reassure him that he wasn’t one lol, but yes they are all “ Sorry Asses” 😂
That is for sure. Take away their supply. They are some ungrateful birds. Thank you, Ms. Telsha, blessings. ❤❤❤❤
There is always light around a prophet. Always
I saw it also 🤍🤍🤍
I planted a seed several weeks ago, and I never thought in my wildest dreams that I would verbally attack my Wife with words. After identifying my money was being stolen and spent on the new supply, I called her a worthless piece of SH*T. It hurt me to have used those words on the woman I once loved and respected, but I was betrayed and used for 23 years.
But, the woman you had love for,was not really her at all, just an illusionary, fake personna that she created just for you,!
@@leshalegg1014 Thank you for putting in those terms. I like that.
@@reddmann4340 ..mmmy Pleasure!😊 ( narc)👹🤺( you)
I called him a coward to his face many times he got soo upset lol! Called him a cheater a cowardly one too as I said you did it behind my back ! I have said he was a liar , not a real man and he’s got nothing I was his everything and I left for good!
Like you said, seal that door shut with the blood of Jesus!
Amen Amen!!
I called him a WEIRDO... he went ballistic haha! Total WEIRDO!
I like doing this. Naming them exactly for what they are.
They HATE it, and go running off for help. It seems the same as violence to them.
Naming them fully for what they are.
Telling them where their abusive ways will lead to...
It's glorious 😂
This is the truth the narcissist will be ready to fight you! Facts!🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿
"I get more satisfaction out of blowing my nose"
And yes, they will ask why are you so hurtful...how ironic
Well, now I know why this bird and my mother tell me my mouth cuts like a knife.....
I told mine he was Extra and I never heard from him again 😂😂😂
Lol, doesn’t take much for them to be gone haha
@@kimberlys347 Exactly 😂
They Are A Sad Case Of Humanity Smh
They really should be ashamed of themselves. Thank you Ms Tea for speaking the truth.
I wouldn’t be purposely nasty with them. Respectfully calling out specific behaviors maybe. But Don’t start a fight with crazy. God calls us to be wise as a serpent yet harmless as a dove. If you aren’t following what God is telling you to say to them and going off in revenge, when God tells us not to worry vengeance is His, God can pull His hand of protection off you because now you’re acting in carnality and not in His spirit. This can give the demonic the go ahead to unalive you.
“Fools give full vent to their rage, but the wise bring calm in the end.”
Proverbs 29:11 NIV
Narcissists are nonsensical they will make nonsense to the sense that you are speaking. Stand up for yourself in full wisdom. But it’s wiser to grey rock and not be in connection with them. Think God goes back and forth with the devil despite how nasty he is? No, God moves in silence and let’s the devil mop His jaw off the floor when he sees the results.
I am just reading your comment..I had just commented something very similar. God Is Good and He Will Confirm His Word🕊🙏🏽💜
Agree
I told my Ex Narc “ You are the biggest mistake of my life “ and I will never forget the look of those eyes. Yes, I dismantled that lunatic.
At the root, narcissist have a spirit of shame. The enemy constantly tells them they are worthless, they are nothing, they are insignificant that is why they rely on the ego and outside influences to be build themselves up. They have no identity, or true sense of self worth. If you are using shameful insults you are only siding with the voices of darkness they are already plagued with.
i said, 'all you care about is your image" and also an opportunist and he was dead silent but then he called me abusive ..I had to laugh at that rebutal, cause he ran like the wind...this was my narcissistic covert brother. A pathological liar...After the obteenth deception I had to stop pussy footing around this narc and let them have it because I was just calling him out on the truth and his ego really didn't deny a word I said.
Tell them they’re a Narcissist!
This is priceless advice! May God bless everyone who reads this message for standing up for themself, taking actions and protecting themself from the wickedness/venom of a worthless/weak narc.Amen,stay empowered and protect your peace u are of great value. radiate your great light in this dark world. Shalom
Telling a dog it's a dog, phases them not.
….🤔Dammit! Now I gotta go unblock them on everything and give them my new number.. it’s a couple things 4got to say!! 😂😂 jk jk
I remember one day he was frantic because he had to take these at home tests in order for him to stay employed for the DOE… he had taken the test about 20x each… he then asked me to take them … I did and I passed them for him .. the test about children with autism was hard but the test about children being bullied was a breeze… he could not pass either.. after I had done him the favor… I couldn’t believe how ungrateful he was …telling me he didn’t need me … I was stunned (because remember,I know he’s off but I’m still unaware about narcissism), all I knew was he made me feel bad quite often… after that telling episode … I remember losing it… telling him how dumb he was … how couldn’t even pass his own test … I called him dummy… I told him how he needed to ride the short yellow bus , with a helmet on and he prolly ate paint chips of the wall that’s why he was such a dummy…. I was totally lost and out of character… I remember having an internal conversation with myself… because I felt terrible and for being so out of control … I was crying for something he had done to me yet I was feeling guilty about it… I may have said it before taking an L for the ME team was worth it because losing a Narc is a definite WIN!
You know what .. I had a dream right before my last confrontation with the narc . The dream I saw myself not taking shit from anyone and I was completely transformed. Few days later during a failed FaceTime with him and the kids something came over me like an awareness of the situation. I said some true things now I know he ain’t like hearing .. I said move on if you don’t care stop wasting out me time and I not gona let you be fake with the kids. I told him stop being fake as hell I see right through that shit . Lololol
Tasha I said all this words without even knowing about narcissism now I know why my devalue stage was hell😂😂😂😂😂
That’s so true because I know just one of the incidents I told him he slimy and 🐍🤮 lower than a snake and here I am four years no contact and I’m telling you now God is so good. I can’t thank you enough Sis🥰 along my journey always giving me an inspiring word and enlightening on this whole situation and how to come against it strong with God‘s help🙏🏽💪🏽💯💜☮️
Congratulations! 4 years NC for me as well with covert female narc.😊
Another trigger is calling them a liar, and telling them don't flatter yourself I'm not invisible to the one worthy of me! Folks who can't communicate think everything is an argument People who lack accountability think everything is an attack. Pretending isn't being honest but being content is! Thank you, beautiful for sharing these Amazing videos that definitely resonate with me. I'm so happy to be a subscriber. I thank God for healing me in all areas of my life! When you know better you do better. Blessings and Best regards in all endeavors to you and anyone reading this message 🙏
I told my ex he was a weirdo that should be ashamed of himself and after 20 years that’s all it took!! He exploded for the last time with and all was over. Weirdo was the trigger. We’ve been separated and no contact for the last 8 months. I’m moving on!
I remember telling It " you don't even exist" .. them hollow hypodermic fangs came flashing out quick
I told mine that he was not a hard piece of s$&$ but a loose piece of s$$&. They are so nerve wrecking!!😂😂😂😂
When you tell them all of the things you're mentioning in this video, it hurts them to THEIR core cuz those insults that takes them back to their CORE INJURY --- usually inflicted by their parents/guardians. When you dig up that ol' dead "corpse ⚰️💀" & shove it in their face so they have 2 "kiss 😘" it on the lips 💋 --- ba-BAY 👏🏾💥 😐 !! They instantly go into a trance 😵💫 & the only thing they are able to hear 👂🏾from that point on is "There all gonna laugh 🤭 at you!; they're ALL GONNA LAUGH 🤣👉🏾😥🤦🏾♂️ AT YOU!!" like Carrie 👩🏻🦰 heard 👂🏻her mother's 👩🦱🗣️voice repeating on a loop in her head 😖 🧠 in the movie !! 😆
The ex-narc I had I ended up calling him a roach and a piece of "ish" .... I had to let it out....then I apologized....reactionary abuse, smh
They are worst than roaches😂😂
Roach 🪳 🪳🪳😂😂
Lol that’s what I called my Narc after we broke up but I didn’t say it to his face lol
@@JumpWatsonYT 😂😂😂
Oh gosh! I'd be scared to use these on my ex. He's a little cray cray and vengeful
Yes it can be dangerous depending on the type of narcissist you dealing with
but God said to show love
Go with your instincts... move in silence and love don't have nothing to do with it but common sense does...Showing love with certain demons will get you unalived. Jesus says, Be As Wise As A Serpent and Harmless as A Dove...
#Rogerthat👌🏽💯💪🏾💃🏽
Get a Restraining Order ASAP
Yesss, mines said he’s the most spactacular dad! Nope your not, set him off!
They'll think you're being petty. They already know they have a demon. They're in denial. Everything they are they project on others. Even being an unfit parent doesn't bother them. They are lost!!
For real. The truth here. You will see them flip out so damn fast.
Haha 😂
I have done this before, it’s tricky to do yet so worth it
Dismantle & follow up with Action 👊🏽
This ain’t nothing but the truth. Amen 🙏🏾
I could never tell the narcissist the truth about them, especially when they are a roommate. I have a separate fridge, and I wouldn't be able to trust what she might do to my food?? I already am concerned about it, without angering her.Who know's what else she would do? I know my roommate would yell so load for my neighbors to hear it, she would call me an Fin- Bit=c and slam the door super hard like nobodies business!! She's already done that before!!! Recently she yelled at me loudly to avoid paying for a bill, that I took off more than she should get. she always will go l treat me horrible at night, than in the morning, she will look like an angel, not mad, and act as though nothing had ever happened. This time it plainly through me into a serious depression. I usually can take it!! but I'm having to detach at this time, and just be numb, till I can have God minister unto me, till I can get in the Spiritual fight again with all the Schemes of the Devil, Satan's unfair playbook!! Armored up, in these last days.
Learn the gray rock method
Ms.T you need to get T-shirts with them backwards walking giraffes 🦒 😂
Yes I went there. I said all of that to the narcissist.
I had to tell him about himself. I told him that he was full of sh**, a liar and a cheater. Especially whenever he tried eating at my self esteem and trying to bring me down.
I love you sis. God bless you. These birds have a pressure point too 🤣👏👏👏
Narcissists can dish it though can’t take it!
Pain is wisdom.
Use your wisdom to prevent getting involved by one of these head cases in the future…Once you know go and stay gone.
Period! 🙏🏼
Thanks Telsha words and actions. Got it baby!!! 💋😘 * I love you 💞
This information is so valuable! Speak to that shame and watch the narc 🏃♂️ 🏃♂️ ✌️. And the whole time they playing big bad wolf,, wow!
Absolutely I agree, another great tactic is screen shot message and as always the narc will switch it up and say you are LIEING then send them their own words back 😂😂😂😂
The Narc is still in my house for another day or 2 and all they do is act mad & miserable. Keep in mind, they’re the ones who broke up with me yet they’re pissed off😂 I don’t say nothing though, I just let’em be lol
Ms T he loves to buy clothes from goodwill and he actually BUYS WOMEN clothes, and one day he had on these ladies SKINNY Jeans 👖, I walked into the kitchen and saw them SKINNY Jeans on him after I stop laughing 😂 I stepped back and whistled Lord knows I couldn’t help it and then I called him a GIRLIE MAN 👨🏼 he went and took them off and I haven’t seen them again 😂😂😂😂LORD forgive me for laughing 😂 but it was funny, and would you believe he has taken a bath 2 days in a row, Laughing 😂 all day thank you 🙏 thank you Ms T
Deadbeat and no honor didn't move him. But...BROKE really sent him into a rage.
I think it's the things they haven't accepted or the things that are driving their deception
yess i told him you are so self righteouss, a liar, and foul it was the truth lol
YESS MRS. TELSHA❤❤ ALL FACTS ARE TRUTH💯💯
Hi Ms. Telsha. Good day. This is so true. 💯💯💯💯💯
You can say ( but really silence with no emotion is most powerful) very calmly : wow, what a deception you were. You leave them there with a little laugh. 💣💥
Thanks, Telsha for that "Narc kryptonite"!! 💎 💎
I called my ex-narc a big fat broke a$$ whale. lol
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The narc I was with he always wore sunglasses this is a big reason why as well and other reasons too.
Pathetic was my word!
Narcissist seem to come off to me as image driven people.
Wowwwee, what a weapon.
When I realized what was dealing with she had a lot of angry outbursts towards me and then she didn’t want to really talk too much with me at that point she didn’t want talk
I told my ex to humble himself and OMG.....he had a conundrum!
Whew 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽, this that fire thank you Queen for telling it like it tis!!! ❤🙏🏽
I told my ex when he showed up 6 months after I went no contact that I figured out what was wrong with him. Used the word narcissist, and he hung his head. Told him he would need therapy if he wanted to ever have healthy relationships. He got up, laughed, and said he couldn’t even get to church on Sundays. He immediately started to smear me with his son’s mom. Thought she was my friend, but heard recently she had broken up his relationship with the new supply and moved my ex and his adult daughter from another girl into her house. Blocked her too. She thinks she’ll change him because he’s going to church with her. 😂😮
Shame them
Be Careful I had to get away I tried saying those things and she pulled a gun on me in a Rage
I did all of that! Thank you..
Shame them with the Truth. 😋
Then run for your life.
Whenever he labeled me with negative descriptors, I would tell him he was talking about himself. He had nothing else to say. . .
Yes😊❤*the" Son"😇☀️🌞 rays are beautiful 😍❤️!!
Sis your content is gold. You are spot on 🌟🌟
Thank you mrs. telsa, I've learned so much in the past ten days from you, I told the female narcissist shame on you and she called me everything in the book and she called my mother a b**ch.
I called mine a fat and lazy father Christmas once ah omg never seen rage like that before 😅😅
Oeps I called him every word you said. No wonder I got discarded 😂.
He said : you are an incapable woman ( was running my own business, household and he was eating in a 5 star restaurant every day)
My respond was: if I am incapable so what are you. 2 years ago you was living with your momma and you have nothing and from now on everything I gave you is gone, the light is on in your head but there is nobody home!
He showed me the door with a baby 😮
i called her Needy and she just about had a nervous breakdown...
Just call them a pathetic coward. Then go blackout no contact. Period. The end. They will completely destabilize. Oh well. Bye bye
He whooped me with a belt when I gave him truth
Thank you 🙏🏾 I really needed this! I appreciate you