How To Practice Self Love

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  • Опубліковано 31 тра 2024
  • Wondering how to practice self love? Self love is more than just changing your hair, getting a new wardrobe, or attempting to redefine yourself. Self love is obtaining an appreciation for yourself that stems from the physical, emotional, and spiritual support you provide yourself. It's not a fixed state, but it grows through actions that lead to maturity over time. Self care encompasses four different parts- self awareness, self worth, self esteem, and self care. Establishing self love can be a long journey, so here are a few tips on how to love yourself and practice self love.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 2 тис.

  • @Psych2go
    @Psych2go  3 роки тому +1095

    PsiFam! We posted a community poll yesterday asking which video topic you'd like to see next. Self Care seems to be the top pick from the poll. Here is it!We also made a video on Signs You're Mentally Breaking Down ua-cam.com/video/_KrACU1ohx0/v-deo.html. Hopefully you'll pick up some self care tricks from this video!

  • @TheMerc1101
    @TheMerc1101 3 роки тому +8482

    Self love is more important than finding a partner. The true partner is always with you from beginning. Which is yourself

    • @dsyrdragon3309
      @dsyrdragon3309 3 роки тому +172

      Damn I’m a pretty shitty partner then

    • @raphaelalavi9385
      @raphaelalavi9385 3 роки тому +70

      I guess I’m in a forced relationship with someone I hate for the rest of my life then

    • @TheMerc1101
      @TheMerc1101 3 роки тому +35

      @@raphaelalavi9385 I was about to be in a force relationship couple years ago, but end of the day . I just walk away without saying anything. I didn’t regret doing that of course. I just don’t want to be in a relationship with anyone. For now

    • @SorenFinch
      @SorenFinch 3 роки тому +11

      @@TheMerc1101 You sounded like you dodged a bullet, good for you friend :] Hope you’re doing well!

    • @TheMerc1101
      @TheMerc1101 3 роки тому +18

      @@SorenFinch yeah I did. Couple of times. I didn’t regret any of it. I’m just best off being by myself. For now or course, and I’m doing good

  • @sav9212
    @sav9212 3 роки тому +7172

    1. Forgive yourself
    2. Be mindful
    3. Act on what you need
    4. Set boundaries
    5. Protect yourself
    6. Live intentionally
    7. Show up for yourself
    8. Practice self care
    Thanks Psych2Go for all these self love practices. Self love is so so important, I cannot stress this enough

    • @minsuga6426
      @minsuga6426 3 роки тому +56

      Thank you

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  3 роки тому +293

      Thanks for your lovely summary x
      -Monica

    • @Mtz2604
      @Mtz2604 3 роки тому +19

      Thaaaank you 🤗

    • @crusherbeatbox3146
      @crusherbeatbox3146 3 роки тому +19

      Thank you for taking your Time writing this 😊

    • @hwanyiee
      @hwanyiee 3 роки тому +11

      Thank You! 💖🍃

  • @Nakyahremixit
    @Nakyahremixit 2 роки тому +882

    My motto in life: “BE A GOOD PARENT TO YOURSELF” which to me means doing things that a awesome parent would do but for yourself--- I love this❤️

    • @biancagador
      @biancagador 2 роки тому +17

      Thank you so much! I needed to hear this one

    • @natureisawesome1
      @natureisawesome1 2 роки тому +5

      Thank you so much ❤️

    • @trevorcaleb7604
      @trevorcaleb7604 2 роки тому +3

      Thank you for sharing

    • @mariehaverty8209
      @mariehaverty8209 2 роки тому +10

      This is it, give ourselves all the care/attention we give to others is really all we need to do. 👍❤️

    • @JB-kp7pw
      @JB-kp7pw Рік тому +2

      This is awesome. I needed this. Thank you.

  • @adritabasu8790
    @adritabasu8790 3 роки тому +1988

    "Dear person whoever reads this,
    Hey, you, yes, I'm talking right to you. I hope you will see yourself with the eyes I see you one day. Because I can tell you have some awesome music taste :) you're such a beautiful human being and worth and enough! I hope you know that you do only need yourself to be happy!! I know society build up the standard that whenever you're alone, you're not living a happy life. But in fact that is not true, if you start to realize that you actually deserve all the good things happening to you,you will treat yourself a lot nicer!! I hope you let yourself rest. Don't beat yourself up over past mistakes,over regret and over everything your mind wants to destroy you. I wish I could remove all those demons inside of your head because you deserve to feel happy! If you ever feel lonely,then watch the sky, because you know, someone,at the same time is watching the sky too.. maybe feeling the same way! I'm glad you exist and I hope you won't ever remove your own spot in this world..maybe you don't feel like you belong here but, Angel..then build your own home here. I don't want you to leave this world unhappy. I want you to live every little second, I want you to feel alive, don't want you to see yourself just existing, you deserve it!! Whatever happened, it's not your fault, the demos in your head recognize that you have a beautiful heart, they want to take it because they have never seen such beautiful heart as yours..so why let them win over you!? You're not selfish for isolating yourself,but you deserve to talk to someone. If you're reading this, then please never forget to breathe and smile!!
    Don't live up to other standards! It's your story..not theirs!!
    Live for those who couldn't..smile for those who forgot what a genuine smile is...love like there's no other..hug like it's your last one!!
    I Love You and sending you hugs!You're so strong, you're still here and I'm proud of you!!
    YOU ARE NOT USELESS. READ THAT AGAIN!
    YOU ARE WORTH IT. READ THAT AGAIN!! YOU ARE LOVED. READ THAT AGAIN. I AM GLAD YOU EXIST. READ THAT AGAIN!!! YOU ARE NOT A PROBLEM. YOU ARE HUMAN AND YOUR FEELINGS ARE VALID. READ THAT AGAIN.
    YOU ARE NOT BEING DRAMATIC!!
    You're not a burden to anyone.. don't be afraid to talk, use your voice!!
    You're beautiful inside out. Your body is beautiful the way it is!!
    Please don't starve yourself. Please eat..I know it's hard but you deserve food. You deserve to eat and drink.
    I LOVE YOU SO MUCH. READ THAT AGAIN.I WISH I COULD HUG YOU RIGHT NOW..SO A VIRTUAL HUG WILL DO.!
    It hurts me to see you're in pain :( You deserve so much luv. Don't let your emotions control you. Don't let them get the best of you.
    I love u I love u l love u I love u I love u please don't let go
    I'm sorry that no one is hearing you, I'm sorry no one is noticing that you have lost yourself.I wish I could take your pain away..it hurts me to see the pain on your eyes. I love you through my words and I mean it. I just want you to stay.. hold on a little longer okay! Please? For me??
    I hope you have an awesome day/morning/ evening/night
    If it's night for you..go to sleep. I know it's hard to fall asleep right now but you deserve a good sleep. If you have nightmares, please don't let them fight you.
    If it's day for you, don't start it by such sad music. I know it's impossible to have a good day with such mindset but take baby steps..start by drinking two cups of water in the morning and so on... You will start building little healthy habits.
    If it's evening for you, you're probably overwhelmed and stressed. I want you to know it's okay to feel the way you feel. You don't need to be scared. Of course you're overwhelmed or stressed, I mean who wouldn't!? But it's impossible to know that when you feel that way,you should do a little self care..such as taking a bath for example? You deserve to feel at aese and relaxed. And if you're somewhere in between, I hope you know that you're stronger than you think...
    I know that you will make it :)
    Now, wipe those tears away and smile for me. you really don't know how much a smile can brighten someone's day, do you? I hope one day yours will become a genuine one where you don't need to fake it anymore. Because I can't say this enough. You deserve a good smile and to feel alive. You're worth more than every fooking cent in this world.
    Remember, crying is not weakness. Let it out as much as you can but don't let the emotion control you by giving up. It's okay, you're here, you're safe, you can let it out.
    Did anyone asked you how are you feeling today? If not,how are you really?? I don't think you're doing good, but you will feel good at one point. Don't give yourself up.
    I'm sorry you feel misunderstood.
    But anyone who gets to be with you, doesn't know how fooking lucky he/she/they is :)Enough with beating up yourself for today, okayy?
    -- The stranger that cares about you more than anything!!
    I hope this is enough for you to stay strong today.. Tomorrow will be a new day,a new start....let go now! I hope you can stay.
    This is your sign to stay and treat yourself with LOVE, you deserve it.
    And in case no one told you today, again...I'm so proud of you.
    I hope you will remember my words! :)
    Untill tomorrow my Friend! :)"
    all credits to another commenter ... on another video ;)

    • @Lisa-fn8cv
      @Lisa-fn8cv 3 роки тому +123

      Thank you, I really needed this. 🥺

    • @joegifford2599
      @joegifford2599 3 роки тому +72

      That is so thoughtful of you 🐨

    • @allisonwhite976
      @allisonwhite976 3 роки тому +51

      Thank you... beautiful and uplifting...u made me smile really big....thx #muchlove

    • @felixculpa9303
      @felixculpa9303 3 роки тому +108

      Thank you stranger on the internet for telling me what no one ever has.

    • @Sulam2490
      @Sulam2490 3 роки тому +28

      This was beautiful, thank you xoxo 🙂

  • @diane7371
    @diane7371 3 роки тому +4029

    Self love isnt about fixing yourself. Its about falling in love with the parts of yourself youve been trying to fix.

  • @WisdomWealth77
    @WisdomWealth77 3 роки тому +571

    When your opinion of yourself goes up then you’ll stop trying to get so much validation and attention from other people. 💞

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  3 роки тому +55

      I think this is the best comment out there. Well said x
      -Monica

    • @CyndyTangerineyyyy
      @CyndyTangerineyyyy 3 роки тому +3

      Love this. Very well said!!

    • @Jzombi301
      @Jzombi301 2 роки тому

      what if it goes up too much and you become a narcissistic, egotistical, self-centered piece of human garbage?

    • @pedroba76
      @pedroba76 Місяць тому +1

      agreed. I noticed it.

  • @kaeyashenanigans2352
    @kaeyashenanigans2352 3 роки тому +1246

    if your child is smiling at their phone, it’s because they’re watching Psych2go

  • @niranjan.jadhav
    @niranjan.jadhav 3 роки тому +87

    Self care is when you sitting on a mountain and closing yours eyes and just enjoying the weather so relaxing and helpfull to heal yourself from outer world

  • @jackalart
    @jackalart 3 роки тому +2086

    0:43 forgive yourself (too much self-deprecation can be harmful to your health)
    1:13 be mindful (keeping a journal, meditating, etc.)
    1:41 act on what you need (knowing what gives you energy/happiness)
    2:14 set boundaries (ref. Maslow's hierarchy of needs)
    2:44 protect yourself (bringing supportive people into your life)
    3:08 live intentionally (make choices towards a goal)
    3:39 show up for yourself (acknowledge the effort you've already given is important)
    4:08 practice self-care (exercise, eating healthy, etc.)
    i am sped

    • @HaloJumper7
      @HaloJumper7 3 роки тому +11

      Lmao, awesome. Thanks!

    • @sandeeppathak5932
      @sandeeppathak5932 3 роки тому +8

      U r awesome.

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  3 роки тому +93

      Thanks for the summary ;)
      -Monica

    • @arkeet1073
      @arkeet1073 3 роки тому +5

      I've already gone too far. I can't do anything now 😔

    • @samuraiboi2735
      @samuraiboi2735 3 роки тому +3

      @@arkeet1073 well yo speak to a therapist if your having problems😒

  • @tani0510
    @tani0510 3 роки тому +177

    One thing that always makes me doubt myself is when i dont get results as high as i expected , self expectations are another cause why my self confidence keeps getting lower. I want to just appreciate myself for the efforts i put in even though the result isnt that satisfying:(

    • @tani0510
      @tani0510 3 роки тому +1

      @Gotta change my name Great ! You got this

    • @HeartlessUsagi
      @HeartlessUsagi 3 роки тому +9

      Remember this: you do what you can and that’s better than not doing any effort at all..!! :)

  • @user-qq2ri4ly1y
    @user-qq2ri4ly1y 7 місяців тому +42

    I've been depressed and feeling low since last 5 months. My boyfriend who proposed me marriage cheated on me and I also lost my job. I'm surviving each day with a little bit of hope. Thanks for this video and the comments, they really helped me feel hopeful :)

    • @TheGoodNurse95
      @TheGoodNurse95 5 місяців тому +2

      Ow sorry , it is enevitable part of life ! but how are you now

    • @jackbrattan1040
      @jackbrattan1040 5 місяців тому +1

      You will get through this!

    • @PallaviSharma-ug9wp
      @PallaviSharma-ug9wp 4 місяці тому

      I know you are brave and you are gonna do better for yourself
      Sending a lots of love to you
      Keep working hard and give yourself the best results❤
      Parents and God have proud on you❤

    • @Verifiedmuslima
      @Verifiedmuslima 3 місяці тому

      Go right through it it’s meant to be.

    • @Alexz5040
      @Alexz5040 3 місяці тому

      I hope things are going well for you ❤

  • @laura.bt83
    @laura.bt83 2 роки тому +166

    Hello there! 👋🏻
    Just wanted to add something for those who struggle with self-deprecation:
    - Before you judge and condemn yourself for whatever reason you have, examine if the negative thoughts and beliefs you hold about yourself are really your own or are imposed on you by others (family, societal expactations, etc..) That is what helped me come out of self-loathing and like I don’t deserve happines. That’s what really shifted it for me. I know I deserve to be happy now, and know I am allowed to put myself (self-care) first. I’m worth my own love. ❤️

  • @laxxayy
    @laxxayy 3 роки тому +391

    I hug myself to sleep after having a hard day
    I'm that lonely

    • @tejavigneshs6893
      @tejavigneshs6893 3 роки тому +36

      Sending u virtual hugs 🤗
      Same here too🥺

    • @laxxayy
      @laxxayy 3 роки тому +8

      @@tejavigneshs6893 ❤️

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  3 роки тому +45

      Pishug

    • @laxxayy
      @laxxayy 3 роки тому +8

      @@Psych2go ❤️

    • @Rozehunnie
      @Rozehunnie 3 роки тому +18

      I hug an extra pillow... It helps.

  • @KK-ij8vy
    @KK-ij8vy 3 роки тому +475

    let's be honest, we all voted this topic for a reason
    -also, thank you for your tips! this video is really informative :3

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  3 роки тому +49

      For sure! :D Next running topic is on personality. So, I can't wait for everyone to react to that video :D - Cindy

    • @genocide5730
      @genocide5730 3 роки тому +2

      Yes sir

    • @yunielelis
      @yunielelis 3 роки тому +1

      @@Psych2go Yaaaay

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  3 роки тому +1

      What did you think of this video?
      -Monica

    • @dsyrdragon3309
      @dsyrdragon3309 3 роки тому

      I liked it , but is there a video on how to stop cutting yourself

  • @Farigiraf12
    @Farigiraf12 2 роки тому +134

    Tearing at the part when she says “forgive yourself”. It really helps open your eyes to so much about yourself

    • @forgesoulfire1320
      @forgesoulfire1320 6 місяців тому +1

      No joke it feels like I forgive myself, then another thing goes minutely sideways asmr bang somehow brain makes it my own fault for the faltering, like it needs it, you know...

    • @valeriequinn9982
      @valeriequinn9982 28 днів тому

      I just started with the ho’oponopono meditation a few days ago and it’s oddly helpful. It’s basically “I’m sorry, please forgive me, I love you, thank you” and you’d be surprised at what comes up to be worked out or forgiven. It’s very simple & powerful. I hope you try it 💗

    • @hippyelise1
      @hippyelise1 14 днів тому

      Forgiving myself is the hardest thing I am trying to do.❤

  • @CherylMuir
    @CherylMuir 2 роки тому +48

    If you are reading this: You are valued, loved, and so worthy 💗

  • @AKKritter
    @AKKritter 3 роки тому +76

    As an empath I can absolutely agree with all of these, self care is important and can turn a person's life around.

  • @richasaxena6636
    @richasaxena6636 3 роки тому +24

    This is so important for a trauma survivor like me.... I have forgotten to live and love myself. I wish I could come out of this situation and emerge as a strong and healthy person like I was before.

  • @JennyG.COW5
    @JennyG.COW5 Рік тому +18

    I want to add that under #4: "Set Boundaries", there can be a difference between getting out of your comfort zone and listening to your inner self (emotional, Spiritual, or mental) or even physical body.
    For instance, sometimes when I wake up either from a nap or for the day, I might not feel like doing anything or going anywhere. However, once I attend an activity, go to Church, visit with Family, or whatever, I often feel better for going rather than staying surrounded by my four walls at home. I wasn't always like this, but I recently I've noticed this about myself.
    I don't know if its related to a possible addition towards electronics or if it's in relation to something emotional and psychological that I haven't yet discovered.
    In either case, I am glad for the small victories of getting over my insecurities and selfish desires and allowing myself to get lost in the moment. And yes, sometimes I Have turned down activities whenever I felt Super Tired or when I really just didn't want to go.
    But when I have felt like I can, and I make the efforts to do so, I feel so much better connecting with others. 😊

  • @Todo_akaicyhot
    @Todo_akaicyhot 3 роки тому +66

    If you're feeling down, or when you just feel lonely and tired... One of the best ways to relax and calm down is to listen to some good music... Sometimes I feel insecure, but I always recover myself by listening to meaningful songs that motivates you and makes you feel good.
    Also a big thank you for making this video and helping a lot of people. You guys motivates me to help people. Thank you 💕

    • @rayahflorano4359
      @rayahflorano4359 2 роки тому +1

      Can u suggest some musics pls

    • @Todo_akaicyhot
      @Todo_akaicyhot 2 роки тому +1

      @@rayahflorano4359 well it mostly depends on what kind of music you like. If you like to listen to the lyrics more than the music, search sm songs like Million Reasons by lady gaga, photograph by Ed Sheeran, I won't give up by Jason Mraz etc. If you like to listen to music, just listen to sm Lofi to relax

    • @mariehaverty8209
      @mariehaverty8209 2 роки тому +1

      👍❤️👏

  • @ek7453
    @ek7453 3 роки тому +52

    *Only from a place of self-love can you offer correction to yourself and to others.*
    This quote is from a wonderful book: Steps to Knowledge - The Book of Inner Knowing,
    by *Marshall Vian Summers*

    • @alwalw9237
      @alwalw9237 3 роки тому +3

      Thank you so much for quoting this here. Steps to Knowledge has changed my life. I hope others will examine it and see if it is what they have been searching for in life. It has been an absolute life saver for me and I want that so much for others who are hurting in this world.

    • @fastrunner3799
      @fastrunner3799 3 роки тому +3

      I agree, steps to Knowledge is certainly a life changing book.

  • @linakmelbarde5569
    @linakmelbarde5569 3 роки тому +156

    Was there a little Ranboo plush in one of the pictures? And Techno and a L'manberg flag? Or am i crazy?

    • @thecamobaron
      @thecamobaron 3 роки тому +25

      Yes those were MCYT stuff and No your not Crazy-
      1:17 Ranboo Mask?
      2:07 L'manberg Flag + Techno

    • @dsyrdragon3309
      @dsyrdragon3309 3 роки тому +4

      Yes

    • @RF-jl3qb
      @RF-jl3qb 3 роки тому +5

      Yes I spotted them to. :) Really nice. XD

    • @lumauve7807
      @lumauve7807 3 роки тому +6

      Ah yes let's go mcyt fans, munching on those little Easter eggs

    • @kamrynbell8107
      @kamrynbell8107 3 роки тому +4

      3:18 bee plushhhh

  • @tilly5103
    @tilly5103 Рік тому +21

    i actually cried during this Video because i realized how awfull i feel about myself right now. Thank you so much for letting me realize that something has to change!

  • @eud64_
    @eud64_ 2 роки тому +13

    Currently I'm going through a long time relationship break up and some deep old wounds are starting to show up. It's important to learn how to love yourself first so you can be ready to love someone else in the future. It may be painful to accept it, or even harder to see it in the first place but in the end, it's what's gonna be the best for you.

  • @sisyphus.nights
    @sisyphus.nights 3 роки тому +88

    I'm bored so
    Kim Namjoon of BTS : It's hard to admit but we can't solve every kinds of problems. Sometimes it just feels to much to bear myself. But when things are too tough I think of the faces who I love, and who love me like you, shit truly happens and it might not change but it's okay to fail and tumble. I hope we could stay strong and fly together, whatever what's underneath the ground.

    • @youngforever570
      @youngforever570 3 роки тому

      :)

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  3 роки тому +48

      I stan BTS

    • @r.i.n.n.i.e
      @r.i.n.n.i.e 3 роки тому +8

      @@Psych2go omg yaay, my favorite channel stans my favorite artists 💜💜💜

    • @youngforever570
      @youngforever570 3 роки тому +3

      @@Psych2go good to know !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    • @sandra.v437
      @sandra.v437 3 роки тому +2

      💜💜💜💜💜💜

  • @yoongisass7859
    @yoongisass7859 3 роки тому +35

    Little by little, I’m becoming my favourite person :)

    • @Jiyu_Starfam
      @Jiyu_Starfam 3 роки тому +1

      😁👑💖

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  3 роки тому +5

      There you go! You should be treat yourself as a queen/king :) - Cindy

    • @ElizabethAVanCleve
      @ElizabethAVanCleve 2 роки тому

      Yay! You're on your way to an AWESOME life journey.

  • @theolivianicolestories
    @theolivianicolestories 3 роки тому +57

    To the person reading this:
    You are who you are.
    You are a gorgeous and beautiful creation.
    You are a masterpiece.
    You are who you are.
    You are strong and courageous.
    You can absolutely do it.
    You are powerful.
    Remind yourself that you are who you are.
    Move forward with your determination, and conviction.
    You can absolutely do it.
    Have a great day ahead,
    Remember you are who you are.
    ❤️❤️❤️

  • @juliangarcia8037
    @juliangarcia8037 7 місяців тому +3

    Me and my gf recently broke up after 4 years. So much went on and after everything I’ve been feeling lost. I thought I found myself after being single for a long time, before me and her got together but I was wrong. when we broke up I realized all the stuff about me that I thought I knew was wrong and I just realized I never really loved myself or even told myself if I’m okay, I just kept pushing no matter what happened. I need to take a step back and see myself all overs again. Here’s to a new start and journey

  • @marzskip9901
    @marzskip9901 3 роки тому +135

    at this point I expect there to be at least one Dream SMP/Popular UA-camr reference when Naphia is the animator

    • @Jiyu_Starfam
      @Jiyu_Starfam 3 роки тому +3

      Lol

    • @SmoLollipop
      @SmoLollipop 3 роки тому +1

      Yes xD

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  3 роки тому +31

      lolol we love naphia! and also dream!
      -Monica

    • @TumbleBell
      @TumbleBell 3 роки тому +7

      YESS!!! I found a L’Manburg flag

    • @Jiyu_Starfam
      @Jiyu_Starfam 3 роки тому +3

      @@TumbleBell me rewatching to find that and I found it:

  • @wojowniczagosza236
    @wojowniczagosza236 3 роки тому +111

    No one
    Me-looking for my favorite streamers Easter eggs*
    [edit]
    0:14 sykkuno scarf
    1:28 ender boi
    1:45 cute Ranboo plushie!
    2:00 technoblade plushie and l'menburg flag as carpet
    2:49 little l'menburg flag
    3:15 Tubbo bee plushie
    4:12 Tommy bandana

    • @SmoLollipop
      @SmoLollipop 3 роки тому +14

      Both the topic and the drawings are wholesome. I can't sleep xD

    • @Cat-vp8ow
      @Cat-vp8ow 3 роки тому +8

      YES BRUH I AM SCREAMING

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  3 роки тому +28

      I love that, an observant person ;)
      -Monica

    • @meg-tan
      @meg-tan 3 роки тому +6

      1:14 i think the lil guy is wearing a ranboo mask

    • @subhobrotonath5160
      @subhobrotonath5160 3 роки тому

      Yeah what!.....

  • @lilianne959
    @lilianne959 3 роки тому +9

    What I found that really helped me to self love is to treat myself just as I would treat my loved ones. I wouldn't deprecate them, or ask them for more than that they are able to. I would try to make them feel better if they are down.

  • @frutticam
    @frutticam Рік тому +18

    It’s a gift from yourself to embrace each imperfection 💛

  • @saishrutipanda2353
    @saishrutipanda2353 3 роки тому +18

    Is it me who always knew that self love was important but never really did it?! I didn't know I was so tough on myself until just now. Love this channel, thank you so much

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  3 роки тому +1

      Thanks for sharing your experience. It's easy for one to be hard on ourselves and sometime we forget to love ourself. I'm happy to hear we can help! - Cindy

  • @artgenics9957
    @artgenics9957 3 роки тому +3

    I think self care is one of the easiest and the best ways to self love, doing something for yourself just gives you a rewarding feeling

  • @Dil.Careem
    @Dil.Careem Рік тому +4

    Practicing self-love means accepting and embracing who you are, flaws and all. For me, it involves taking care of myself physically, emotionally, and mentally. It means being kind to myself, forgiving myself for mistakes, and giving myself permission to take a break when I need it. Practicing self-love also involves setting boundaries, saying no to things that don't serve me, and surrounding myself with positive and supportive people. It's a journey, and some days are harder than others, but I believe that cultivating self-love is essential to living a fulfilling and happy life.

  • @mmarimarimari
    @mmarimarimari 3 роки тому +180

    This is giving me deja vu, something about voting for this topic in a poll?
    Psych2Go is such a good channel, informative and clear but, most importantly, listens to their fans.

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  3 роки тому +39

      We made a community poll yesterday. Majority voted for this video to release next. So, I did :). Thank you for your kind words. We really hope our video will make a positive impact on your life. - Cindy

    • @melon7514
      @melon7514 3 роки тому +2

      Lol yea I voted on the pole, then about five minutes later I saw the notification

    • @Fangirl21
      @Fangirl21 3 роки тому +3

      :D

  • @strawberry01753
    @strawberry01753 3 роки тому +143

    0:43 1. Forgive yourself.
    1:13 2. Be mindful.
    1:41 3. Act on what u need.
    2:15 4. Set boundaries.
    2:44 5. Protect yourself.
    3:06 6. Live intentionally.
    3:37 7. Show up for yourself.
    4:08 8. Practice slef-care.
    。☆✼★━━━━━━━━★✼☆。
    I hope u have a nice week.

  • @francheska2113
    @francheska2113 2 роки тому +10

    loving yourself seems much easier than finding a partner because you don't have to wait. the person who loves you is right there

  • @ivanbao2083
    @ivanbao2083 2 роки тому +3

    I have found exercising particularly helpful when I am overwhelmed by all sorts of negativity (loneliness, self-doubt, fear, uncertainty, etc). And of all exercises, I feel martial arts are the most effective at combating them. There was a night I feel completely overwhelmed, drowning in loneliness in my little residence room. Out of a random thought, I clicked a video of beginner Muay Thai coaching and began to follow the actions of the coaches in the video.
    It was surprisingly effective at kicking those negative thoughts out of my mind. Every punch I throw feels like smashing into the face of those negativities, and by the end of that 30 min video, it literally feels like I am the last man standing with all those negativity as enemies lying around me, dead.

  • @manognax
    @manognax 3 роки тому +47

    You probably wont see this comment. And that's ok. I just want you to know that you have helped me get through a lot. I appreciate how much effort you put in your videos. And that made me interested in Psychology too!! I love your calming videos, thank you.

  • @remonemo123
    @remonemo123 3 роки тому +25

    Love how she’s doing Dream smp drawings once and a while, it makes me feel more happy 💙🥺

  • @HikiOmo
    @HikiOmo 2 роки тому +5

    It's been 18 years and I've never loved myself even since my childhood so learning this is going to be difficult

  • @canny1485
    @canny1485 3 роки тому +9

    Society makes loving myself so hard but im decisive!

  • @imposter_chan2636
    @imposter_chan2636 3 роки тому +3

    i just want you all to realize how amazing you are. you get up every single day, and live. it’s amazing, you’re amazing. and just think about it, human beings are so adorable. they worry about what others think, when others are just worrying about themselves and what you think. everyday they try to live up to something called “standards” and they don’t realize that in the end we all will either be dust or bones. don’t let others get you down, just live! because you’ll only live once, and it’s just a waste to think about stuff like that! :)

    • @GoldenMushroom64
      @GoldenMushroom64 3 роки тому +2

      You are very kind thank you

    • @imposter_chan2636
      @imposter_chan2636 3 роки тому +1

      @@GoldenMushroom64 Nono, thank you! i don’t really get called kind a lot so it’s nice to get called that every once in a while!

  • @brighterperspectives7057
    @brighterperspectives7057 3 роки тому +11

    Definitely agree! Self-love is not just those me-times but also the difficult choices and decisions we make for ourselves.

  • @mmoderva
    @mmoderva 3 роки тому +5

    I'm a person that hates themselves and...I cried after watching this video cuz I didn't knew what to do to like myself and feel better....
    Thank you so much for making this video! From now on i'll practice what you said and try to love myself more. Thank you! 💖

    • @AmouAnyuon
      @AmouAnyuon 8 місяців тому

      Awe that makes me sad. I hope your doing better now💜

  • @mental-hope1718
    @mental-hope1718 2 роки тому +43

    Forgiveness is an act of love! Yes it might be hard at first but learning to forgive yourself is the first step to reaching full happiness!
    Thank you so much for this amazing video🙏🏽
    Remember to take care of you regardless! You should be your top priority 💞

    • @charlottew.8460
      @charlottew.8460 2 роки тому

      Thank you so much! This is something I'm struggling with at the moment. It is getting better though. I will get to the place I want to be an someday!

    • @mariehaverty8209
      @mariehaverty8209 Рік тому

      Happiness is power👏🦋

  • @payalk2898
    @payalk2898 2 роки тому +3

    Loving yourself looks different on different days
    Some days it will feel familiar like encouraging or praising yourself but on others it will be not beating yourself up for things you couldn't do

  • @Gato.Lol.
    @Gato.Lol. 3 місяці тому +2

    What I noticed today is no one at school my friends or people ever told me I looked ugly it’s all what I’m telling myself in my head so I’m making me believe I’m unhappy with myself even though no one else thinks so

  • @samyuktasam9532
    @samyuktasam9532 2 роки тому +2

    I am an introvert and I used to be very strong and confident about myself. My friend with whom I was attached very much left me without particular reason, after that I started to feel insecure about myself. I still don't let people to know me. But I have found my way I am getting over it. It's a gradual process to accept your flaws and to fall in love with yourself.

  • @cmbzmail
    @cmbzmail 6 місяців тому +4

    5 minutes to happiness all these I practice this is great. You reminded me to take it easy on myself, give myself credit for what I have done, set daily positive intentions. 5 minute pep talk full of easy self actions done daily will free me from self harm and stuckness to feeling loved and carefree. Thx 👍👍👍

  • @manifestationwithsami
    @manifestationwithsami 2 роки тому +5

    If you do not LOVE yourself, you do not respect & value yourself. Then, you think, you do not deserve the best. BUT, believe it, you deserve the best✨

  • @FreeHugzUwU
    @FreeHugzUwU Рік тому +1

    These videos always make me want to cry because I remember how alone I am and how I have no interest anymore and I just want end it all most of the time.

  • @lizaacookie
    @lizaacookie 2 роки тому +2

    I didn’t know exactly why self love was so important, it took me a while but now that I love myself completely I’m mostly happy for no reason and I’m not looking for love anywhere else, i feel complete and happy ❤️❤️

  • @IKEMENOsakaman
    @IKEMENOsakaman 3 роки тому +57

    I always write a diary every night before I go sleep. This makes me feel like I'm living intentionally. Who else writes diaries?

    • @SaggyRats
      @SaggyRats 3 роки тому +3

      That’s a really good idea! I’m gonna try that 😁

    • @sirivenneladara8947
      @sirivenneladara8947 3 роки тому +2

      I do! I try my best to write as regular as possible. It also helps to get stuff out of ur mind. Especially sadness and anger

    • @slayre1408
      @slayre1408 3 роки тому +2

      I don’t call mine a diary, but I guess that’s kind of what it is. It’s just a journal where I can stash my thoughts when I’m tired of carrying them around.

    • @sirivenneladara8947
      @sirivenneladara8947 3 роки тому +3

      @@slayre1408 So it's kind of like an emotional trash can. Lol. Well I use my diary for that as well

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  3 роки тому +3

      I also do! How long do you journal for? -Monica

  • @NotBasil
    @NotBasil 3 роки тому +45

    Summary:
    -0 intro 0:05
    -1 forgive yourself 0:43
    -2 be mindful 1:11
    -3 Act on what you need 1:41
    -4 set boundaries 2:13
    -5 protect yourself 2:44
    -6 live intentionally 3:09
    -7 show up for yourself 3:38
    -8 practice self-care 4:08
    Here, hope it might be helpful,have a nice day. 💖

    • @arandommoroccan4031
      @arandommoroccan4031 6 місяців тому

      ​@holyraiden8332even though your comment is 6 months ago, i still wanna say this. I dont know who you are, where you come from, what your story is and what you did. And this is maybe a bit of a tough comment, but this is the big wall that is stopping yourself from even starting to love yourself. If you dont make a change in your mindset, then you will never make a change in your life.

  • @lightiz_biekie
    @lightiz_biekie 2 місяці тому

    1.Forgive yourself
    2.Be mindful
    3Act on what you need
    4.Set boundaries
    5.Protect yourself
    6.Live intentionally
    7.Show up for yourself
    8.Practice self care..Thank you so muchfor sharing this important information yes we really need to love ourselves. ❤️ ❤

  • @heroic9887
    @heroic9887 Рік тому +10

    I’ve noticed a pattern in the video where it tells you NOT to overwork yourself and give yourself some time to yourself. But one of my main problems is that *I don’t know when a break should really happen and for how long* .Trying to forgive myself is a pain too.. I’m gonna be here for a while Heh..

    • @Sunflowerboss
      @Sunflowerboss Рік тому +3

      Hey. I struggle with this too. When I finally get into the work flow after days of procrastination, I’m afraid to take a break because those breaks last for days too 😅
      Here’s something that helped me. I Set alarms for an hour and for that hour I focus only on the task at hand (you can also do 30-45 mins whatever you are comfortable with) and after that hour I take a break for 15 min. I do this throughout the day and for some reason it helps a lot. It lets me work as well as take a break in peace. Hope it helps!

  • @rutatijunelyte7179
    @rutatijunelyte7179 3 роки тому +12

    That was so helpful! Becouse self love is what I am working on now. ❤️Lots of love who are reading this, know that you are just were you need to be and what is happening-is happening for a good reason. I believe in you and want you to believe in yourself the same way I believe in you. ❤️💖💕

  • @ins4nutty341
    @ins4nutty341 3 роки тому +9

    1. Forgive yourself
    2. Be mindful
    3. Act on what you need
    4. Set boundaries
    5. Protect yourself
    6. Live intentionally
    7. Show up for yourself
    8. Practice selfcare

  • @khanhhanguyen7310
    @khanhhanguyen7310 2 роки тому +2

    I know that I have not yet fully loved myself, but according to this video I think I have been realizing and doing it for a while, and I felt good. What's sad is that I let someone came in my life and made me doubt it. So It is really important to not hurry yourself into a relationship. Please try to love yourself as much as you can until no one could make you think you deserve less.

  • @duns0000
    @duns0000 9 місяців тому

    Just now i met a cat on the street and it went all crazy to cuddle and it was so sweet and it made my day. And the sun is out which is also making this day a beautiful day. I am suddenly reminded of how i used to eat icecream at an italian icecream place with my father when i was young. He made me have a good time always, he loved me alot and now i feel so happy and grateful ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @GoingSwimmingly
    @GoingSwimmingly 3 роки тому +7

    I honestly like to watch this channel in general when I’m less than great, and it often helps
    But the references sprinkled in here and there just actually make me so happy, they’re not all that noticeable but still are fun,, good job to the animator’s attention to detail!

  • @arteiis
    @arteiis 3 роки тому +37

    One guy has a Ranboo mask and then theres Ranboo's plushie
    I love this❤
    (And the big L'Manburg flag is very pog too!)

    • @heartwarmlucy642
      @heartwarmlucy642 3 роки тому +1

      OMG YA IT MADE MY DAY WHEN O SAY IT AT FIRST!

    • @heartwarmlucy642
      @heartwarmlucy642 3 роки тому +2

      But with the L'manburg flag, they also has a Techno plush aswell
      Also at 2:51 they have a L'manburg Keychain
      Also also at 4:29 I'm not sure if it counts but a Lemon Tree, iykyk

  • @Edith864
    @Edith864 3 роки тому +2

    Getting to know your attachment style& working on it if insecure, would be a huge gift in self care :)

  • @kronikzblehtcgs3303
    @kronikzblehtcgs3303 2 роки тому +1

    This was short and simple , none of those long boring videos, I love this , thank you for sharing.

  • @Missa219
    @Missa219 2 роки тому +4

    I don't have words to thank you to helped me to understand my depression and coming out of it and teaching me how to forgive myself and self-love.
    Thank you so much you're doing a really great job

  • @jesschio9350
    @jesschio9350 3 роки тому +28

    You made this just in time, I wasn't feeling good about myself lately. 💖

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  3 роки тому +4

      You got this! Happy to hear It made it just on time for you - Cindy

    • @jesschio9350
      @jesschio9350 3 роки тому +1

      @@Psych2go :D Thank you! ♡

    • @dsyrdragon3309
      @dsyrdragon3309 3 роки тому

      @@Psych2go hey above this comment is someone who is thanking you kinda wholesome

    • @ElizabethAVanCleve
      @ElizabethAVanCleve 2 роки тому

      Keep it up! Its worth it. I know from experience!

    • @mariehaverty8209
      @mariehaverty8209 2 роки тому +2

      👍❤️👏

  • @adambernache3210
    @adambernache3210 Рік тому +1

    When I heard "Living with intention" made me cry really hard, it hit different. Thank you for the reminder.

  • @bartikagoswami435
    @bartikagoswami435 27 днів тому

    I'm unhappy in my relationship. I thought my partner doesn't deserve me. But then I saw the 'emotional hunger' video. It's me. I'm not loving myself enough the right way.
    Lots of self work to do but I'll heal and be extremely happy with myself..

  • @sisyphus.nights
    @sisyphus.nights 3 роки тому +7

    I needed this. I'm been counting all my mistakes for the past 2 weeks 💀

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  3 роки тому +1

      Mistakes happen. Self-love is a long term effect on yourself for the better. You got this! - Cindy

  • @parkerwaldo3204
    @parkerwaldo3204 3 роки тому +10

    After recent events that happened in my life, I have slowly started to do things that are helping me feel better about myself. This video not only reinforced the decisions I have made, but also shared new ones that I think I can start doing. Maybe my life is worth something.

    • @hendrikmario5208
      @hendrikmario5208 3 роки тому

      I can introduce you to this great powerful man who help me to bring my ex back you

    • @hendrikmario5208
      @hendrikmario5208 3 роки тому

      You can text him now on WhatsApp

    • @hendrikmario5208
      @hendrikmario5208 3 роки тому

      +2349058821669

    • @foufavibe
      @foufavibe Рік тому +1

      Your life is always worth it and you are always worthy 😊

  • @gsmlprasanna9249
    @gsmlprasanna9249 3 роки тому +2

    Self-care eventually changed my daily habits and then thought process.. Don't be hard on yourself just with 20min physical excercise, 10min meditation and 5min skincare routine is a good kickstart. It's just like chain process we can attract to positive side of life gradually, Anything needs time NEVER GIVE UP.....

  • @celliaputri6658
    @celliaputri6658 3 роки тому +1

    I'm so glad, i've started to be more care about myself and i feel more peace and got my enough happiness. It took a long journey to realized it, man ngl having a relationship goals is amazing. But enjoying exploring yourself more could got unexpectable experiences and it was all worth it. For those who still struggle to love them self don't be afraid to start to forgive yourself, you're a human being after all

  • @reallifepsych3309
    @reallifepsych3309 3 роки тому +304

    If you’re so early that you’re reading this comment, congrats!

  • @Maaaay2
    @Maaaay2 2 роки тому +5

    I'm so greatful for your messages in this video!
    I just looked through my inner work progress, trying to find new or much more deeper ways to love myself and bring back my energy onto me. By hearing this kind of input I started to glow up more and loving myself more. I'm also glad to have a caring family and partner who accepts me for who I am and encourage me to reach my goals. I'm just realizing that I'm on the right path now.
    Always remember, uncondition love comes from within you.

  • @improvedskills6387
    @improvedskills6387 Рік тому +1

    How, just how is her voice so calm and satisfying to listen to

  • @adenikeowolabi7162
    @adenikeowolabi7162 2 роки тому

    I hardly comment on video's but this is literally the most beautiful words I have read or seen, you such a big blessing, giving people you don't know a beautiful words to make them realize their self worth, this right here is gold, wherever you are may you never know bitterness or sadness and may you always be a blessing to the world, much love

  • @Kiera_I_guess
    @Kiera_I_guess 3 роки тому +4

    1:55 that ranboo plushie looks so adorable

  • @alessadolan5718
    @alessadolan5718 2 роки тому +3

    The things you'll start to attract when you love yourself is amazing ❤️

  • @lenkadubecka6018
    @lenkadubecka6018 4 місяці тому +3

    I’ve been in a very dark place for the last few months, but want to get better, and this video is a great starting point. I sometimes get lost in all the tips from different people, on how to practice self-love, but this video was extremely helpful and really got to me. Thanks for making these videos!!

  • @enithos
    @enithos Рік тому +1

    Today, I'm going to make a difference in the way I treat myself. I feel like I care more for others than I do myself. Thank you for posting this video!

  • @null9020
    @null9020 3 роки тому +3

    who ever animates these things, i literally love you so much the dsmp references are just amazing

  • @cherrybacon3319
    @cherrybacon3319 3 роки тому +6

    I try to practise self love every day, especially when I've split up from someone. It's hard at times, but does get easier. 🍒

  • @stenarsk6877
    @stenarsk6877 3 роки тому +2

    Started HIIT last week for my physical health and I am genuinely surprised of how big the impact is on my mental well being

  • @hippyelise1
    @hippyelise1 14 днів тому

    I am not too bad with most things, except the self care. I ignore taking care of me and help my family more. I have got to find a balance.❤❤

  • @KittyGamingtheBestYoutuber
    @KittyGamingtheBestYoutuber 3 роки тому +22

    I remember voting in a poll about this video. I didn't vote for this topic but I understand why people wanted it ha ah

  • @Nuhuhlmaoo
    @Nuhuhlmaoo 3 роки тому +6

    I really needed this and I voted for it💖 I was a people pleaser and had no mercy towards myself. I am on ma way. I started practicing self love from feb 4 . And I really needed this (this will really help me)

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  3 роки тому +1

      Sending love your way
      -Monica

    • @Nuhuhlmaoo
      @Nuhuhlmaoo 3 роки тому

      @@Psych2go thanks💖

  • @aeis_tuber2094
    @aeis_tuber2094 3 роки тому

    This is the most calm channel, your voice and the animation is so precious 🥺💛

  • @PreetiGupta-oi3ol
    @PreetiGupta-oi3ol 3 роки тому +2

    To someone like me who is trying to change themselves, love themselves, self learner , all I would like to say to you all are that u doing great and are on the right path of self love. Keep rocking. Keep trying to be the best of yourself. God bless.

  • @aidanabila143
    @aidanabila143 3 роки тому +3

    I am practicing self love but it comes and goes since I have mental breakdowns couple years ago. But I feel a lot better after doing this. This video reassuring me that I am on the right track for self love. Thank you so much 😊

  • @mbcommandnerd
    @mbcommandnerd 3 роки тому +7

    I already meditate from time to time, so knowing that it can help with self-love as well is amazing to know. Thank you so much for these wonderful videos, Psych2Go!

  • @itskezii
    @itskezii Рік тому +1

    At the first quarter in our school, I reminded myself i should do my bestest to achieve the award, high grades, certificates etc. and now that ending of first quarter, i didn't really do well. Because I'm so used to downing myself seeing others more have a face to become win than me. I hated myself for a long time. I hate every mistakes I did. That I almost hate my existance. Looking at far, staring at my yesterday self. Big realization suddenly attacks me. It came like a strong pass of wind. Unexpectedly, but slowly have a meaning when It fades away.
    I realized that i wasn't doing my best, no, I can't do my best if I didn't love myself at all. All I do this past few weeks are scroll and scroll and stuff. Because of a thought I was down and sad. But my reality is far more than that.
    I wish I realized this earlier

  • @smashkin92
    @smashkin92 2 роки тому +1

    Your voice is so soothing and your video so helpful that it makes you the mom I never had.

  • @avantikamunde8385
    @avantikamunde8385 2 роки тому +3

    Thank you sis for you making this type of videos. It's really help me.❤️

  • @GinaSwire
    @GinaSwire 2 роки тому +8

    What a wonderful message of this video! I've seen the seen the importance of self love especially when I work with women who feel uninspired and out of love for themselves and help them to feel radiant, empowered, and love from within.

  • @vivstyle87
    @vivstyle87 Рік тому +1

    I’m tired giving too much love. This time I need to love my self first🙂

  • @marcosjoel374
    @marcosjoel374 4 місяці тому

    I’m doing all these things and I haven’t felt this happy in a long time 💗

  • @sushmitathakare2777
    @sushmitathakare2777 3 роки тому +10

    HOW TO PRACTICE SELF-LOVE
    1. Forgive yourself
    2. Be mindful
    3. Act on what you need
    4. Set boundaries
    5. Protect yourself
    6. Live intentionally
    7. Show up for yourself
    8. Practice self-care