You Matter: Prioritising You // Season 3 Episode 8 | Honest Tea Talk
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- Опубліковано 2 жов 2024
- You cannot give and pour from an empty vessel.
When we continuously serve from a cup that is not being filled, we find ourselves withered and dry.
In this episode of Honest Tea Talk, we unpack the mistaken belief that we learn and subconsciously teach as women, that selflessness is a quality to be celebrated and something we inherit by nature. We discuss the damage that comes with taking care of others without taking care of yourself, and how leaving only crumbs for ourselves leaves us feeling crumbled and empty.
This episode reclaims the narrative and embraces self-care for what it is: an act of worship to Our Creator, Who entrusted us with caring for ourselves - mentally, physically and spiritually.
Watch the episode now to discover the steps we regularly take to fill our cups, and let's talk about prioritising you.
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Taking care of ourselves as women goes deeper than financially care but also being more responsible for our emotional and mental health care.
Im going to be 26 next month, im a single mum and with debt of about $7k, all because i never priorized myself, ive lived for others, but now im trying to pick my pieces again alhamdulilah, thanks for this episode, its something even the youth needs more, its pathetic i was never taught to do that. Even now its so hard but Alhamdulilah.
Its so hard that i tear up almost everyday because i still prioritize my mum and kids but im aware, and i hope i can give myself the freedom in Sha Allah
I'm in more debt than you because some man posed and needed help! He kept asking for money and I kept giving.
@@aliay2743 May Allah ease your affairs 💕
@PrimeVids Ameen
May Allah give you the right lessons to change into the person you truly need to be
Don't ever change,the love you give to others give to yourself. The sacrifices you make for others do it for those who deserve it. Were all gonna sacrifice for someone let it be for someone who's worth it, ie; never a man!
Hey sister♥️! Whether you’re a wife or not, a mother or not, you matter! Your needs matter! Your plans matter!
Like LaYinka said, You are an individual! So while being there for others, make sure to be there for yourself too.
I feel like I really needed this episode. I quit my job for my mental health and had all sorts of people whispering in my ear. I’m much happier now and work freelance and it’s going well. Insha allah I have applied to do my masters and I’m just waiting to find out if I’ve got in. I’m at a stage in my life where I just want to put myself first and fulfil my dreams💕
ilaahay ha ku rumeeyo riyadaada abaayo
Alhamdullilah, may Allah bless you and keep you steadfast, nothing more inspiring than a woman to be confident in her decisions
@@Turmericc aaw jazakhallah khairan sis. It’s actually crazy because the decision to leave my job came with so many people trying to place seeds of doubt in my head. But, alhamdu lilah it’s the best decision I’ve made so far😁.
@@sagalahmed8374 Awh alhamdullilah. It's not easy when they're trying to convince you, but you stayed firm Masha Allah. End of the day, we're all gonna be on our own under the earth. We gotta focus on our self first. Glad you did. I pray Allah grants us strength, Ameen
Me too haha.. brother pray Tahajjud it will I started Alhamdullilah.
I am 50 years old and so benefitting from their advice.
SubhanAllah me too
This is like a therapy session for me
SubhanAllah ♥️
Sending my love im 17 btw 💗💗💗
May Allah bless everyone who is involved in the making of this series indeed may He give them and their families the best of both worlds
Just goes to show we all need it, no matter what age. I hope God eases your affairs for you, Ameen
@@Turmericc oh thank you!
Coming from a background where it’s been drilled in that being a woman means a lifelong suffering and being selfless, that’s just what womanhood means, this realisation that we too matter is so needed!
One of the reasons why I am afraid to get married
@@mamediaracisse1914 Alhamdulillah we are learning and changing the narrative.
Towards the end, I couldnt stop hold back my tears. It's like I been freed. I almost thought putting myself first was a sin. Thank you soo much for this episode.
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ohhh… i think thats my limiting belief to take care of myself 😅
May I say that the woman with red headscarf has such a noor on her face. Masha Allah! I just came across this video. Will surely subscribe!
Watching this I cried so much! I need a friend to talk 🤲🏽
Sorry!stay brave 😊
I made dua for you, may Allah help you to find good friends and all your things will turn ok! ✨💜
You can talk to me. Hopefully it's not too late
Hope by now you have someone to talk to, I am here if you need 😊
Can you please make a video about narcissistic mothers
- How to establish self worth
- How to not people please
- trusting ones own perception
- hoping that she will change
- dealing with the pain
We'll consider your suggestion for a future season inshaAllah.
@@LaYinkaSanni THANK YOU so so much! 💙
@@selmas7577 You're welcome. 💛 I would advise you work with a psychotherapist to work on healing in the mean time.
@@LaYinkaSanni here too!
@@theg8rl8ei24 I'm not sure what exactly you mean. The work on ourselves is advisable whether we do or don't bring it to the table for the show. And I say that because toxic relationships require healing work.
Please sisters, walk with us through Ramadan, accompany us with your beautiful souls and deep, comforting and meaningful discussions. May Allah bless you. Allahumma ballighna Ramadan.
Amen
When a woman puts herself first,she can help people without even speaking - all you gotta do is take a look at her.Also when a woman has a lovely powerful or confident aura, she will attract these people into her life and later on it will carry with her thru out her ”wife-hood” and subconsiesly she will teach it to her kids which leads to a healthy household. I wish women understood their worth and start to see their power without having to get married - we are already complete we just have to find ourselves,no male can make a woman complete,a real man can bring the feminine powerful energy out of her naturally with him being naturally a healthy masculine man. Our nature is being neglected and played with thru out these cultures because people get threatened by our power - society,babies and even animals can sense feminine energy.Its powerful,wonderful and needed in earth , thats why we call it mother nature. Feminine is plays a big role on earths well being, we have to embrace that instead of waiting for someone making us a wife or a mother.Inshallah all my sister can get in touch with their powerful peaceful self if they are struggling right now,putting yourself first will help yourself and everybody around you without you doing anything🌸
« ...and whoever has been given wisdom has certainly been given much good » and your wisdom , ladies, is so much needed these days. Bless you !
Wish this type of advice was out sooner. Having my depressed married siblings trying to force the rest of us into living life like them.
Marriage, kids, kitchen duties, in-laws constant free mixing events
Narcissist manipulation trying to take our freedom of happiness and destiny away in case we break the negative stereotype mould
At least your now aware that's the start. Believe it will get better from here :)
@@Turmericc the elder generation are still alive so religious blackmail is being used to control lives.
Pray for me I need Allah to help me find a way out of this oppression
@@piqueny8872 may Allah SWT grant you ease, Ameen. If you can one night try pray qiyamul layl, and ask Allah in sujood to help you of your affairs. Even if it's 2 rakat. The dua during this time is like a an unmissed arrow on the target. Wallahi Allah will show you a way. I am in a similar situation and Allah guided me to do what I needed to do Alhamdullilah. He will show you a way.
@@piqueny8872 get married but to the right person and you won't have problems. Prophet Muhammad pbuh said when you marry, marry for two things. Deen and character. When a man has that you won't have a tough life 🙏🙏🙏 Allahu Akbar. Prophet Muhammad pbuh said the best of us are best to their women🙏🙏🙏
@@Lamarr-KHP unfortunately much easier said then done,’suffer from heath issue, financial non existent
That’s 2 red flags for a marriage. Being a man and not being abled body for the wife will cause problems (physically) and then not having a job to provide and be the care giver is another problem( food,clothing, shelter ) sunnah acts
I was just talking about this with my soon to be 9 year old, that why do I sometimes not pay attention to them. Then I told her I just need "me time" and I reminded her how we had fun earlier together. I think it is a great idea to explain to your children especially the girls so they can understand and learn it for themselves as well. I love what Ummu Ayman said about Allah prioritizing each and everyone of us and so taking care of ones self is an act of Ibadah and we all know that taking care of ourselves and staying away from what harms us is defeinetly Ibadah. Reminds me of 2 hadiths, the first one just paraphrasing: a believer doesn't hurt others and they also should not allow others to harm them. So for me the harm will be physically, emotionally, spiritually and mentally. The second hadith was talking about sitting alone in contemplation is better than praying tahajjud all night. So relaxing, alone time, listening to your inner thoughts, knowing yourself, realizing your purpose, praising your Rabb, it's all an act of worship and a person would have to put everyone aside to do this. May Allah guide us.
This needs definitely part two, especially the part about Allah (swt) prioritising us and that is exactly why we are not allowed to forget about ourselves.
Technical note: it seems like sumayas mic is a little louder than aaliyahs.
I’m a student and work part-time. But since I don’t have the ‘mother’ or ‘wife’ title currently, I’m perceived as not doing anything or have it easy, so i try to be out there for people. But even so, it’s not enough. This makes me even more exhausted and doubtful of my efforts. When I got burned out and tried to put my needs first, I felt guilty so I went back out there again without properly healing. And that eventually caused big argument, but I’m still feeling guilty for fighting, like “was it worth fighting for?” 😔😔
Much needed content to all our sisters. Thank you ladies 🙏
As a young adult.... this is what I’ve been needing to hear. I’ve laughed, cried, learned and still am from these episodes. I thank you guys for this content truly 🥺❤️ may Allah bless you all
I am making this episode a priority-for myself-on Monday night!
Me too
Same!
Noiceee
Self care and prioritization is very important. And it's also important to point out that it shouldn't morph into overindulgence and negligence of one's responsibilities. There should always be a balance in all aspects of one's life.
I just finished watching the Betrayal episode, a deep one. But this episode is speaking to me so much. I am also saving this for Monday in sha Allah to take notes💫
I heard a 3 for 3 technique for families, mum has 3hrs to herself, dad has 3hrs to himself and 3hrs as a couple every week uninterrupted and it can be in a block or an hour here and there, it's a good idea though cause it avoids the awkward asking for it or feeling bad that hubby has been working, he can definitely do 3hrs with the kids over a weekend
Thank you for the insights. It's everything you've mentioned and much more. Cultural influence and past traumas making the woman put herself beneath everyone else.
I think it's easy to be drawn into the habit of putting yourself last if you don't deal with whatever brought on that belief.
The choices we make now are not just for us but for the next generation too. We are creating ..... setting a bar for our children. May Allah guide us all.
Layinka, it’s me you are talking about. Lol. I hear you. I have to look out more for myself.
I heared another anology about the cup. We have our own cup and a small one next to it. The big one is for us and he small one for others.
I wish you lovely sisters are here in USA inshaaAllah I move to UK soon. I like watching your shows.
This type of discussions are so important for the muslim women. *Claps for the sisters
Masha’Allah. This has been my favourite episode so far . Well needed Alhamdulilah
I like this new Aliyah. You can clearly see she is much happier now. Love it!
I was waiting for someone to talk about it being mentioned in the Qur’an! Thank you LaYinka for that.
I really enjoyed this episode, May Allah Bless you ladies for all the good work you are doing.
Assalamu alaikum sister's....you are really not only touching life but changing lives. May Allah bless you all nd ur siblings..
I love the idea of changing yourself for future generations...and this is nit for the girls it is also showing the sons how they should treat their wives...we need mothers to raise sons that value their wives...and also value knowledge...throw out the phones and computers and give them a book...and teach them Quraan. Its time as muslims we step up and grow up and fulfill our obligations to Allaah and call the world to this deen! Let go of the dunya...now or when we die ;)
Place Allah First, in our lives.. Prayers (salats) is my spirutual connection to Him and it seems every else falls into place.. Before leaving my home I offer wudu and try to make time for two rakats or I'll just Dhkir to Allah...Prioriting is a must.. "Reminder Benefits the Believer".. Jazakallahu Khayran sisters of Islam your Honest Tea Talk is so beneficial...Shukran.
Really love this episode in fact I had to watch it twice so much inspiration to women.
Ladies -Exercise !!start small ,start at home but start and be consistent.
The biggest change in my life emotionally,mentally and physically was because of this one habit.
I swear by it.it will grow you.
Hey, this was beautiful, something I wanted to add on what Layinka said about „ basic skills „ cooking, cleaning etc as a wife , mother ... I would like to add something on that , it should not be addressed only to women , this skills are there also for our brothers , teach them to focus on taking care of them , to clean after them , I just found so many misogynists saying „ no, this is a woman jos „ they are task attributed only to our sisters , emphasizing „ this are their role , their priorities “ .... I’m talking from my experience, and I found it just sad .
its sad,in some homes you will find only the women cleaning after everyone when the mom is exhausted the dauthers take over.and sometimes they dont hae the opportunity self need.who is taking care of the sisters taking care of everyone else?we have to change the narrative and teach our boys differently .
Self love and care is so necessary. I’ve watched my Mom give up everything. May Allah make it easy for all sisters to prioritize ourselves. Ameen.
I have an idea, use this comment to add me time ideas! Mine is taking time to have a good breakfast sitting down no matter how busy I am. I sometimes go pick up a coffee and cinnamon roll and sit at the park to enjoy it! Or I would call my mom while having my breakfast..:) Feel free to respond and add more ideas for us to get inspired by!
I love this series. Thank you!
This one is difficult. Seeing myself as important and raised by a narcissistic mother. I am 19 and feel so betrayed
Dear Selma. I promise, talk to your mother about it (if she is still alive.. )and your feelings of betrayal will go away and you will feel so much better. I have had a similar situation like yours, feeling so betrayed by my mother and father, to the point i would have nightmares about them.
I asked them to come over and I told them about the things they would do in my childhood that really hurt me and still have an effect on me. I did’t care for their reaction. I did it for myself. I stood up for myself and told them everything and wasn’t supressing anymore. The feeling of betrayal, anger and nightmares went away just like that. May Allah swt give u ease ameen Xx
@@mmmmmmm2971 thats so nice for answering to my comment and to help me. I am not really sure if thats the right approach in my case. People with narcissistic disorder can't stand it to be critisized. My mother would fight back with words and blame me. She would pull my father in her position and they both say the same. She doesn't see it as a need from her daughter to talk or wish to be seen, she is concentrated on what I say, take events from the past and push them in front of my face without thinking about anything. I always had the illusion, if I tell how I feel, how unfair this is, it would at least give her a bit of sense that I am suffering. That's in my head. What actually will happen is that she denies my reality and says that I don't have any respect, and addition how could I have not respect, she fed me and made me sleep in bed. Thats everything she sees. I didn't want to accept the reality. I was doing everything to be enough but I was never. For her. I guess after that there is more tension and I can't stand this now. I understand your point, earlier I thought about to do it but simply always I am shut down when I have a different opinion. The point of speaking the pain out is right and you remebered me about. Thanks for your message, it gave me strength. 💕
@@selmas7577 you've said exactly what I was going to say. Not everyone ( the ppl who do u wrong) unfortunately, are in a place where they can hear what's being said without getting defensive or feeling criticised. It wud be a great healing process, if your feelings can be accepted, however, not everyone is lucky enough for their mother ( or whoever did them wrong) to be accepting of the situation without feeling criticised. Usually the narcissist has blinkers and will still defend their actions and say there were right and hate you for "criticising" them
@@mmmmmmm2971 Talk to a narcissist? LOL, no need, they won't listen.
@@selmas7577 Dear Selma, You are a bright gril, you expressed that beautifully. I understand what you are saying. I acted like I was never abused and acted like nothing ever happend and I got sick of that. My father sufffers from an addiction and my mother is a narcissist, I knew their reaction would be far from what I wanted. Therefore I gave them a letter so they atleast wouldnt interupt me. I didnt critisise, I didnt blame, didnt ask for sorry. I just told them how I would feel in my childhood and at the end of the letter I said that I didnt want to start a fight or discussion, just speaking my pain out.
I didnt care for their reaction, I did it for me. I told them so I would not walk around with a mask, acting like nothing ever happend. I felt soo good after that, releasing everything al surpressed all those years. I always had an issue with confronting people on the workplace, now I dont have issues with that at all haha! Dear Selma, if you are not ready to speak to them, atleast try to speak to people you can trust about it, write it down, write a letter to her what you really want to say (dont give it if u are not ready). Don’t surpress those feelings. Been there, done that. Never again. Much Love Xx
Iam 23 single mom and ilearn so much this topic thank u so much❤❤
There are women who are not naturally 'formidable and powerful' but must also take care of themselves. They should be encouraged to feel they are capable of this rather than cultures making them fearful and dependent.
Masha Allah. I am on a mission of rediscovering who I was before becoming a wife and mother. May Allah ease our affairs.
Mashaa allah really good episodes.sisters keep it up. Very beneficial advice for everyone and for myself. Jazakallahu khairn I really needed this!!!!!!
This is what happend to me it started of by just buying myself the clothes I saw and liked and the things I liked....then it when on to looking after my body by exercising regular to looking after myself spiritually and I’m looking after my health and heart now.....
When your confident and your emotional stable it comes across to others....
You’re topic has put all my action into a bold statement.
Alhumdulillah for this effort.
The cultural taboo is something that has had a generational impact.
And it definitely is from example that you learn how to register yourself.
Jazakillaahu Khairan.
Self care is not a voluntary and a show neglect to serving others rather it should be recognised a a mandatory exercise.
Taking care of a woman is taking care of all the society.
This is my ME time on a Monday evening 🥰
Watching honest tea talk is really one of the things I love to do in my me time ;) You're doing an amazing job sisters. Keep it up 👍 May Allah reward you and keep you save, ameen 🤲
Thanks for sharing. Masha Allah. Self love & Self care is paramount.
Love them Ma Shaa ALLAH
My mom hated me as an only daughter so much because i think she was so burnt out and she projected that on me. So yea, I am taking self care SERIOUSLY so that I don't burn out and end up hating my husband and son for it
Thanks for this episode, it was needed🙏🏼, may God bless y’all❤️
Ps: Can you talk about polygamy in mariage ? From where i am from, it’s a really big issue for alot sisters. Thanks
Where are you from? Allah said marry in pairs of 2,3 and 4 but if you can't do justice marry one.
Ordering a dress right away... Please do a follow up to this episode with what do you even do in your me time time. Some times there comes a guilt after you just had your me time, simply because the activity you chosen was not beneficial or adding value to your life.
This comes back to the importance of knowing yourself and what you need to fuel you emotionally, mentally, physically, spiritually.
I think it's so important to check in with yourself everyday. Make that time to sit with your own thoughts and ground yourself in your intentions.
It's so easy to get stuck in the monotony and repetition of daily life. Day after day, month after month, it's easier and a lot less painful if you can avoid thinking about who you are and what you want. Inevitably those who fail to make time for themselves will find the consequences catch up with them sometime in the future. When you're finally alone, in that moment of solitude you'll be in crisis, so out of touch with yourself you'll no longer know who you really are.
Jazak Allah Khairan as always for sharing, truly enjoy this episode made me think about making myself a priority to serve the one who created me since He Allah swt makes me a priority every second of the day. Subhan Allah!!
I love this show... I just gave birth to a beautiful baby girl thanks Allah ... but I found that my husband as well as the society expect me to come second in everything and I was so sad to see that and feel it and looking back my mother and grandmother and even me have had this trade since I can remember and the saddest thing is I don’t know how to fix it
Congratulations on your baby girl! Sorry to hear about your struggle.. hopefully u may benefit from this; talk to your hubby about it, Read books about it, go talk to someone you know, look things up on the internet, invest in professional help (nothing wrong with that). This is a message from my heart to you. No heat No judgement. May allah swt grant u ease Xx
Bringing it as always...this topic is so important to our well-being.
Mashaallah beautiful woman's and beautiful souls. Love you sisters 💓
this is the best episode i watched in this channel :))
My model in my house my son knows I need my sleep and my mental and emotional rest definitely my prayers. I love my sleep. InshaaAllah my next husband will love me pamper me let me sleep in cook pray with me wake me for Tahajjud prayer and help me raise my son InshaaAllah. I love going to spa and getting facial spa Indian fruit facial spa releases a lot of mental stress.
Love you sistersss🥰🥰
Abu Huraira reported Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) as saying:
A strong believer is better and is more lovable to Allah than a weak believer, and there is good in everyone, (but) cherish that which gives you benefit (in the Hereafter) and seek help from Allah and do not lose heart, and if anything (in the form of trouble) comes to you, don't say: If I had not done that,or If only I had done something else. Rather say: Allah has decreed what he wills. Verily, the phrase ‘if only’ opens the way for the work of Satan.”
Source: Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim 2664
Women need to look after themselves,if you don't look after yourselves you can't look after other people
Mashallah very fruitful discussion ❤
Thank you!! Never watched a youtube video and left a comment!!!! May Allah bless you all!! Ameen
I really liked this episode, and I feel inspired by how you speak about committing to yourself, and "what do you have if you're not committed to yourself" like S. Aliyah said. Also I feel like there's a limit to how deeply you can be there for others when you don't prioritise yourself. The "help" is shallow or inauthentic. Maybe even it's the only way you feel self worth so then maybe you're not even doing it for others but to fulfill your own needs to feel a sense of worth. I would also love to hear more about Self care from you guys from an islamic perspective, you touched upon that a bit at the end. Like how do you know/how can you feel like you're important to Allah and like Aliyah said and how does Allah prioritise us?
May Allah bless you and your families. Thank you so much for all your videos and advices. A sister from France.
There are many women who can’t find good husband. All the good men settle with one wife while these men can support multiple wives because they fear the back lash due to current social political norms. Why don’t you encourage your husbands and other men take up their responsibilities of supporting move wives.
Jazakalah khayr💝
Inshallah can't wait for next week's episode to see their prospective
It’s a real struggle for women like me acting without prioritising myself from very long time and finding out I’m off now... without describing the details of my personale situation. However I’ve had a very self-loving mum who didn’t forget to prioritise herself even having four children. It didn’t sadly help to pass it to me because I struggle doing it but I definitely recommend to find time for ourselves taking back energy and positivity offering a better part of ourselves. Thank you for your contribute sisters 😘😘😘
Also, your sons see this and will come to expect it from their wives and daughters as well. You also model for them what to look for and expect from women.
Yikes I over indulge in "me time". All the time :P. How else are you meant to function? Perhaps my ignorance i thought this was a thing of the past.... with all the women empowerment movements. The circle of women I am part of all have "me time". Its normal and accepted by all family members. In fact its seen as abnormal to not want time for yourself and not go out socialise, pamper or spend on yourself.
i think with mothers or women prioritising herself before others is something women have naturally. And it cuts across, to her husband, siblings, even friends and one that can't beat is her children. I think its something wonderful in a positive way. And I really respect that,
MashAllah so beneficial
Excellent mashaAllah... love you sisters for the sake of Allah. May Allah grant you all success in both this life and in the akhirah.
How can I get in touch directly as we would like to broadcast all of your episodes in a islamic radio station . Barakallahu feekum
ma shaa Allah !!!
I love this episode. Really wise and important things sisters❤️
Yaa Allah I missed reading a book without the “ mom” . Alhamduiallah I love my babies lol
Thru the lens that Sumayah see things always tuned inn.
This episode was so beneficial masha Allah and also made me laugh out loud with you. May Allah bless you my sisters!!!
Wow subhan’Allah this episode came to me at the right time I so needed this sisters jazakh’illah khair. Touched me deeply as I am being tested with this right now. I’m very grateful for your episodes specially the last few episodes alhamdulillah very beneficial.
May peace and blessings of Allah be upon our beloved prophet his companions and entire household✨✨✨
"She doesn't give from her cup, she gives from her overflow"
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Honestly ladies, I think it's very good that you guys talk about this serious topic. But I have a question for you that is about my best friend. How can you prioritize yourself if your ex husband is a narcissist (so he's not going to do anything for you and he doesn't want to have anything to do with the kids)? And 1 of her children is also severely handicapped and she has no family for the rest and the other children are also still small. I am very curious if you can help me with this. Really I need some advice from someone, otherwise she will end up in a serious burnout.I personally also try to help but I also have 4 children myself so it is difficult, but when I look at her situation my heart breaks to pieces because of how difficult it is for her.
May Allah make things easier for your friend, so much so that her burdens are eased by brighter days. Ameen.
Assalamu Alaykum my 3 lovely sister in Islam I will never lose HOPE in the mercy 0f ALLAH in this amazing journey and hardship I have experienced now I put ALLAH first n his favour as a Muslimah I agreed sisters there's is nothing wrong if you love yourself first before others...N my experience now I do fight for this for the sake 0f ALLAH don't cre if the worlds against me I love what I do because I can feel my soul there's nothing wrong but ALLAH knows I'm in the situation with TAWAKKUL"i pray I make dua I forcing myself to get closer and closer to ALLAH for the result my examination here in DUNYA AS A MUSLIMAH INSHALLAH🤲🤲🤲💖💖
Assalamu alaykum
Just like how I like ALLAH being mentioned on your episodes, it would be amazing if you fulfill the equation of also sending salawāt upon our Beloved Prophet Muhammad Salla Allahu Alayhi Wa Sallam so that you are not from the people who sat and talked yet were cursed (the hadith of standing above a dead donkey wal iyadhu billah)
May ALLAH PROTECT US ĀMEEN
Ma sha Allah,love u guys,All the way from Tanzania(east africa)
For some of us it's not a struggle to buy for yourself...but putting aside time to exercise.
They would stick in marriage a higher calling then self a vision
Favorite episode so far👏🏽.
Yes Ummies(Arabic)MoM(english) MAMa(Spanish)and every language( they did what was needed not expected next Generation would not want a washing machine They did it for them most had a thought ahigher power
I love you so much , keep going
I really loved this video and it made me want to prioritise myself even more 🥰
I like your talks :-)
I was definitely taking better care of myself when I was single. I got married and today is my 4th anniversary. He abused me and my daughter then left in May. I’ve seen my improvement back to the person I was before he came into my life. Just waiting my year to ride out so I can file for and be divorced.
Men need to priorities themselves also since you will be blame everything bad things that happens in the marriage. I have seen too many who are got destroy mentally and financially including my cousin who killed himself. Men Please don't go in to marriage blindly thinking everything will be great. Also Islam gives you choices in life.
Mashallaha sisters may Allah bless you