Kian!!! I normally don’t comment but I really love this video. I feel like I’m on an hour long FaceTime with an older sister. You are such a blessing and I am praying for you sister!
Aw well for one I so appreciate you taking the time to comment, just know how encouraging it is to me. And second it brings me so much joy to know you feel that connection from this video! 😭
Great advice on just ending relationships in the dating phase when it doesn’t feel like they have a strong relationship with God. Marriage is one thing, dating is completely different
Kian I really want to tell, to stop doubting your discernment. The Lord has given you wisdom and knowledge beyond your age , but the enemy will put doubt in your mind , to second guess yourself, your creativity, and the gift God has given you. You are impacting so many people. Speak boldly on what the Lord put in your heart to speak. I just felt strongly to share this with you! I love you even though I haven’t met you!
I’ve been following you for a couple of years, watching (and anticipating) your wedding, etc. and I just need to get this off my chest: Your advice is reasonable, THANK YOU for sharing your thoughts, even though they may sound weird in the beginning. It’s amazing watching your growth in faith and wisdom. I loved your advice. You have the experience, you’ve reflected on it and you’re giving back. Idk if it comes across what I’m trying to say haha. It felt like a good talk with your older sister, who’s being raw and honest, not sugar coating me. Growth over comfort. Thanks again!🫶🏼
Love getting to follow you along and thanks for sharing a glimpse of your daily life through these videos! Been following you since your single season vlogs and it's so refreshing to see how raw and genuine you have been through it all! You're such a light and so encouraging to hear! 💛
Thank you so much for the goodness shared in this video! Having Biblical perspectives on everything in life is so important and the focus you talked about on heavenly things instead of our flesh was AMAZING!! 🫶
Leaving a comment to agree with others: also loving the longer videos! I usually watch / listen to UA-cam while cleaning, cooking, getting ready etc. so it is nice to have longer form content for that!
I just have to say, I really appreciate your honest advice! We need more of this in the world and it was good advice, too. I love these longer videos ❤.
Kian thank you so much for this video, I’m loving the longer content and just feel so calm and cosy listening to you! It feels like I’m hanging with a friend or sister 💖 loved the q&a too x
Thank you!! I didn’t get them officially done although I should find someone on Fiverr to do it. But I think it’s been easy to tell when I put certain colors on what helps my skin and hair pop :)
Omg. So crazy you talked about the dream you had about your ex and how God prompted you to heal some more. Something similar happened to me recently where I unintentionally saw my ex’s wedding photos (we are both happily married) and I was triggered even just seeing his face because it brought up feelings of unworthiness and low self esteem because of the treatment I received in that relationship. just more confirmation the Lord still wants to heal some parts of me. I shouldn’t be triggered by anyone.
Love your outfit from the beginning of the video!!! Love the boots! You’re an awesome friend to check on your single friend and awesome yo check with your husband if they’re attracted to your friends, very wise and mature!!!
Do you have wavy/curly hair? I’d love to see you bring your natural curls out! I’m just getting into learning about it, as I have curly hair but never thought much about how to take care of it!
I definitely freaked out when you said the name Meagan lmbooo, like “God are you talking directly to me 😳”. But I too am waiting and I think it’s been in the last year where I genuinely would rather be walking solely with the Lord than being married to anyone for the sake of being married. Still believing the Lord will grant me my hearts desires, but also learning to take in the season I’m in 😌
That is the best position you could be in your singleness and just shows how purely you are pursuing the lord! To allow him to sustain you until he opens that door. 🫶🏼
When my daughter was born I had to take a break from social media. There were a number of people that had babies around the same time. And our daughter has some developmental delays. It’s very easy to fall into comparison for me so it was a big relief when I took a few months off of social media.
Thank you for touching on the emotional aspect of Christianity! I feel like I've been really turned off by a lot of Christians & churches because there is so much focus on emotion and I am not an outwardly emotional person in worship and I've always felt very alone in that in the church setting. But absolutely emotions are human and should not be trusted as the representation of our relationship with God
Certain dreams about exes may also be hormones. My friend told me that when gets pregnant she has dreams about exes that she doesn’t have other times. Also, when menstruating also can cause certain dreams.
Yes so true! Pregnancy can bring out some crazy dreams 😂 always good to ask God to help you discern what is from the enemy, your flesh or hormones lol , and the spirit.
My love language is physical touch❤ so I would never say no to hugs or anything physical from my husband 😅 I came into marriage thinking that we're gonna b the stereotype of the husband wanting stuff more than the wife but honestly we're at the same level. I just wanted to say that so women like me don't feel they're weird or not normal
Hiiiii Kian! Silent watcher here since the single diaries ❤ the hair product brand is pronounced dah-vin-ess and it’s a carbon neutral brand, my Beverly Hills hair salon is a promoter and the products are excellent. You should try to collab and get us a code please xoxo
Okay I tried reading the book a few years ago but I wasn’t really into reading so maybe I should try again. A lot of women say it’s amazing and their favorite book. I did watch the movie and thought the story was beautiful.
🍪 🍪 Only the real ones get it
Kian!!! I normally don’t comment but I really love this video. I feel like I’m on an hour long FaceTime with an older sister. You are such a blessing and I am praying for you sister!
Aw well for one I so appreciate you taking the time to comment, just know how encouraging it is to me. And second it brings me so much joy to know you feel that connection from this video! 😭
Great advice on just ending relationships in the dating phase when it doesn’t feel like they have a strong relationship with God. Marriage is one thing, dating is completely different
I hate to say most my advice for dating is breaking up lol 😂😂 but Lord give everyone discernment because I actually have zero context most the time
Kian I really want to tell, to stop doubting your discernment. The Lord has given you wisdom and knowledge beyond your age , but the enemy will put doubt in your mind , to second guess yourself, your creativity, and the gift God has given you. You are impacting so many people. Speak boldly on what the Lord put in your heart to speak. I just felt strongly to share this with you! I love you even though I haven’t met you!
Aw, thank you so much for sharing this! It means a lot to hear. I do believe discernment is one of my spiritual gifts. 🥹
I am loving the longer videos lately! ❤
Glad you’re enjoying them! 😊
Am I the only the who watches your videos while driving / cleaning up my room?!
That’s my favorite time to catch up on UA-cam! Or while cooking
I love it when you just share openly and talk in funny voices. It feels real. You are so refreshing 😌
I’ve been following you for a couple of years, watching (and anticipating) your wedding, etc. and I just need to get this off my chest:
Your advice is reasonable, THANK YOU for sharing your thoughts, even though they may sound weird in the beginning.
It’s amazing watching your growth in faith and wisdom.
I loved your advice.
You have the experience, you’ve reflected on it and you’re giving back.
Idk if it comes across what I’m trying to say haha.
It felt like a good talk with your older sister, who’s being raw and honest, not sugar coating me. Growth over comfort.
Thanks again!🫶🏼
Love the wisdom in this video particularly the ‘on fire for God’ phrase. Thanks Kian.
Loving the new style of content & longer videos lately 😊🤎
Awww I love your long videos. 😍😍
yay!! been trying to keep them longer!
needed the "you will get through it" schpeel. love you ❤
We all need that reminder at some point xoxo 🫶🏼🫶🏼
Loved it!!! I always enjoy a new video from you. Thank you for being so open. Especially with your walk with Jesus ❤
Thank you! Glad you enjoyed it!
Love getting to follow you along and thanks for sharing a glimpse of your daily life through these videos! Been following you since your single season vlogs and it's so refreshing to see how raw and genuine you have been through it all! You're such a light and so encouraging to hear! 💛
Thank you so much for the goodness shared in this video! Having Biblical perspectives on everything in life is so important and the focus you talked about on heavenly things instead of our flesh was AMAZING!! 🫶
Leaving a comment to agree with others: also loving the longer videos! I usually watch / listen to UA-cam while cleaning, cooking, getting ready etc. so it is nice to have longer form content for that!
love the long videos! as a mama it’s perfect to turn on and listen through the day and pause as I need to take care of baby. 💓
The blue sweater on you is bomb 💙💙💙
Thank you!! I’ve worn it so much already. Such a good thrifting score
I needed this video !!!
makes me so happy to hear 🥲let me know what part speaks to you the most!
I just have to say, I really appreciate your honest advice! We need more of this in the world and it was good advice, too. I love these longer videos ❤.
Kian thank you so much for this video, I’m loving the longer content and just feel so calm and cosy listening to you! It feels like I’m hanging with a friend or sister 💖 loved the q&a too x
I love hearing your take on life! Some of my favorite videos you make :)
Did u get ur colors done because you have been wearing the MOST flattering colors lately! That blue sweater is so perfect
Thank you!! I didn’t get them officially done although I should find someone on Fiverr to do it. But I think it’s been easy to tell when I put certain colors on what helps my skin and hair pop :)
Excited to watch 🩵
Yayayay Kian posted🤭 this means I have a video to watch while I eat on my lunch break 🥰
I LOVE your longer videos!!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Loved this sit down, girlie chat. Cookie moment at the end - hilarious
Omg. So crazy you talked about the dream you had about your ex and how God prompted you to heal some more. Something similar happened to me recently where I unintentionally saw my ex’s wedding photos (we are both happily married) and I was triggered even just seeing his face because it brought up feelings of unworthiness and low self esteem because of the treatment I received in that relationship. just more confirmation the Lord still wants to heal some parts of me. I shouldn’t be triggered by anyone.
Love the longer videos 🩷
Love the long video! And this content 😊
Such great conversations ❤
Such a sweet video. Such good advice and love that your answer is always Jesus! ♥️
Also, the goofiness is so great. 😂
Love your outfit from the beginning of the video!!! Love the boots! You’re an awesome friend to check on your single friend and awesome yo check with your husband if they’re attracted to your friends, very wise and mature!!!
I just love your videos!
I love the long videos!!!
Love the outfit!
I loved this video!!!! Pls more long videos! ❤
Do you have wavy/curly hair? I’d love to see you bring your natural curls out! I’m just getting into learning about it, as I have curly hair but never thought much about how to take care of it!
Yes I definitely have a wavy texture but I’ve never tried the curly or wavy method! Maybe I should do it in another vlog
I love q&a style videos 😊
Thanks Kian I appreciate this video ❤
I definitely freaked out when you said the name Meagan lmbooo, like “God are you talking directly to me 😳”. But I too am waiting and I think it’s been in the last year where I genuinely would rather be walking solely with the Lord than being married to anyone for the sake of being married. Still believing the Lord will grant me my hearts desires, but also learning to take in the season I’m in 😌
That is the best position you could be in your singleness and just shows how purely you are pursuing the lord! To allow him to sustain you until he opens that door. 🫶🏼
Love this long video
When my daughter was born I had to take a break from social media. There were a number of people that had babies around the same time. And our daughter has some developmental delays. It’s very easy to fall into comparison for me so it was a big relief when I took a few months off of social media.
I could imagine that being so hard especially freshly postpartum 😭 glad you took the break you needed! How are you and your daughter now?
Thank you for touching on the emotional aspect of Christianity! I feel like I've been really turned off by a lot of Christians & churches because there is so much focus on emotion and I am not an outwardly emotional person in worship and I've always felt very alone in that in the church setting. But absolutely emotions are human and should not be trusted as the representation of our relationship with God
35:33 😂😂😂 I love you haha
Certain dreams about exes may also be hormones. My friend told me that when gets pregnant she has dreams about exes that she doesn’t have other times. Also, when menstruating also can cause certain dreams.
Yes so true! Pregnancy can bring out some crazy dreams 😂 always good to ask God to help you discern what is from the enemy, your flesh or hormones lol , and the spirit.
My love language is physical touch❤ so I would never say no to hugs or anything physical from my husband 😅 I came into marriage thinking that we're gonna b the stereotype of the husband wanting stuff more than the wife but honestly we're at the same level. I just wanted to say that so women like me don't feel they're weird or not normal
Yes absolutely love to hear that!! I would love to be there too.
Hiiiii Kian! Silent watcher here since the single diaries ❤ the hair product brand is pronounced dah-vin-ess and it’s a carbon neutral brand, my Beverly Hills hair salon is a promoter and the products are excellent. You should try to collab and get us a code please xoxo
Thank you!! They sent me some of their products last year and I’ve used them all year. I do love them, I should try to get connected
Have you read Redeeming Love? Would you recommend it?
Okay I tried reading the book a few years ago but I wasn’t really into reading so maybe I should try again. A lot of women say it’s amazing and their favorite book. I did watch the movie and thought the story was beautiful.
How to spell joy:
J - Jesus first
O - others second
Y - you last