Wedding Bells or Red Flags: Anita Baylor v Keith Wylie

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  • @Memaw-s2y
    @Memaw-s2y Рік тому +165

    He’s playing in her face.. there’s a reason why he deals w/ women 25 years younger than him… smh!

    • @drapertraci7
      @drapertraci7 Рік тому +8

      Exactly!

    • @kimberlywilson7453
      @kimberlywilson7453 Рік тому +4

      Exactly

    • @Kwamedogg50
      @Kwamedogg50 Рік тому +2

      Or because women his age are overweight, has hella kids, or ran through 🤷🏿‍♂️

    • @drapertraci7
      @drapertraci7 Рік тому +12

      @Kwamedogg50 That's not true of ALL women his age! Lol And she's not without a real woman thickness!! Perhaps women his age don't put up with his shenanigans because they are more mature and know what he's up to.

    • @Kwamedogg50
      @Kwamedogg50 Рік тому

      @@drapertraci7 or young women are more valuable and not used and abused like older women. Think about it, older women do things like makeup and surgery to look younger. Why not just get the younger women instead ?

  • @minkki5656
    @minkki5656 Рік тому +129

    She's so silly to put up with this immature old man. Why are they in court? She's not going anywhere. Just a waste of time.

    • @ronnimartin7033
      @ronnimartin7033 Рік тому +1

      She's young'er'! That's why guys like him get women much younger. They need someone that they can manipulate! Been there!!

    • @kattiethomas4687
      @kattiethomas4687 Рік тому +1

      Total waste 🗑

    • @cuteandred1
      @cuteandred1 Рік тому

      Yes! Silly old man. Nothing like a fool

    • @kattiethomas4687
      @kattiethomas4687 8 місяців тому

      Old Adolescent

  • @Hannahrk9
    @Hannahrk9 Рік тому +192

    Never let a man tell you more than once he don't want you.

    • @cynthiaward4512
      @cynthiaward4512 Рік тому +18

      Judge Lynn Toler ❤❤

    • @erinjohnson4273
      @erinjohnson4273 Рік тому +5

      That's absolutely right

    • @NephelyDeBussy
      @NephelyDeBussy Рік тому +10

      If he still has no clue how to make a woman happy at 56, WHEN will he learn?? On his death bed. He is childish.

    • @TiktokIsTheNewWelfare
      @TiktokIsTheNewWelfare Рік тому +1

      @@NephelyDeBussynot in his death bed😂😂😂😂🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @TheCakediva08
      @TheCakediva08 Рік тому +1

      Age ain't nothing but a number

  • @kessaguillory2841
    @kessaguillory2841 Рік тому +100

    A clear example of age does not equal maturity or wisdom.

  • @with4tt477
    @with4tt477 Рік тому +80

    Better leave that old man alone & go on about your life. He already live his & will continue to ruin yours. RUN!! That “love” & fake tears ain’t it.

  • @anonymousreview1049
    @anonymousreview1049 Рік тому +187

    You can pillow talk all you want to…. But it’s how you treat each other when you’re out of the bed and all through the day.

  • @LadyNStreet
    @LadyNStreet Рік тому +72

    I hate it when people try to use "I'm not perfect " as an excuse to be trifling

  • @alesiascott5692
    @alesiascott5692 Рік тому +76

    I disagree with the judge. This man isn't going to change. This man is standing in a bucket of red paint. This relationship isn't going to get better. Marrying this man will end in divorce with wasted time to her. Run away young one. Therapy will not help this.

  • @Hannahrk9
    @Hannahrk9 Рік тому +116

    He spent $800 on another woman at a strip club that is a deal breaker.

  • @successfullysarah585
    @successfullysarah585 Рік тому +27

    Dealing with an old man and he's not financially secure is WILDNESS

  • @carmennurse8641
    @carmennurse8641 Рік тому +10

    Honey, I did 30+ years with a man who lied to me for all that time. He was 24 years older than me. I finally decided leave and when I did he didn’t even know where I went. I’m better off without him

  • @Tariguez
    @Tariguez Рік тому +49

    I’m seeing narcissistic behavior in him. She talked about his temper tantrums, throwing and breaking things, his aggression, yelling and how she avoids confrontation and/or conflict with him. As an empath I’ve been where she is. One thing I learned as a narcissist survivor is that you have to set boundaries and stick to them. The “almost in tears” card he tried to pull was a manipulation tactic that I’ve experienced a few times too. They definitely should NOT get married. He’s a 50 plus year old man with the mentality of a 3 year old!

    • @mrs.poised9820
      @mrs.poised9820 Рік тому +2

      It’s sad, at my34 age I see it too

    • @Bonezzz888
      @Bonezzz888 Рік тому +3

      Being out of a relationship and with a clear eye. This man is very narcissistic

    • @tinajackson6875
      @tinajackson6875 Рік тому +1

      i agreei

    • @ImMs.Roberts
      @ImMs.Roberts 11 місяців тому +1

      I picked up on that too. I really hope that she sees that before things get worse.

  • @ladytnynj8284
    @ladytnynj8284 Рік тому +37

    This relationship is doomed and never should have happened in the first place. He’s chronologically older but not mature. And Keisha isn’t no past relationship she’s current. That young lady needs to run!!!!

  • @anonymousreview1049
    @anonymousreview1049 Рік тому +89

    That’s the most disgusting and disrespectful thing a man can do to a woman….. hit it and quit it. That’s wrong!

  • @redeemfaith
    @redeemfaith Рік тому +29

    A man who can spend $800.00 at the stripper club IS NOT a man to get married to when there is a outstanding bill. He has a child with her and he can’t even give up a selfish moment for the child if not for her.

  • @zara198522
    @zara198522 Рік тому +31

    How is she allowing her youth to be wasted, by this disrespectful predatory man.

  • @mrsbefort1616
    @mrsbefort1616 Рік тому +39

    His actions are red flags

  • @jo5755
    @jo5755 Рік тому +139

    He sounds abusive and manipulative. He can turn on the water works on in a split second but does not back up his affection with his actions. It seems she was trying to say he gets belligerent yelling and throwing things and that may be why she doesn’t communicate about arguments or other issues. He kept saying he wasn’t pleased in the bedroom. Then goes and spend $800 at the strip club. IMO the only way a working man satisfied with spending that amount of money with no problem is if he’s getting a happy ending 😏.

    • @soshallitbe6160
      @soshallitbe6160 Рік тому +14

      Right. She said that he is aggressive several times, and Judge Star did not even address the issue

    • @umecadouglas9400
      @umecadouglas9400 Рік тому +7

      As they were leaving the set he aggressively grabbed her hand, her body language said she was afraid and she should be!

    • @TB-fk4qm
      @TB-fk4qm Рік тому +2

      💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯

    • @robbbietheim2096
      @robbbietheim2096 Рік тому +6

      Very angry brother, 0-60 real quick

    • @jo5755
      @jo5755 Рік тому +3

      @@soshallitbe6160Most definitely was glanced over. Even after she said he throws things during arguments. That’s a major red flag.

  • @rachela2299
    @rachela2299 Рік тому +30

    Girl run. He is older and doesn't want a wife.

  • @lunanacho
    @lunanacho Рік тому +106

    they don't need to get married. He said he doesn't pay bills, that he didn't give a d when he lost 800 at the strip club and left her with bills, and left her at a festival with no ride home. When a person just leaves you stranded, that is a moment of when a person shows you how they feel about you-believe it

    • @anonymousreview1049
      @anonymousreview1049 Рік тому +8

      Yes ma’am!!!!!

    • @gracie4200
      @gracie4200 Рік тому +6

      I would have been like, bye, bye Felicia 👋 😅

    • @halimad.6401
      @halimad.6401 Рік тому +8

      Remember, he left her AND their little baby stranded.

    • @andreawashington5430
      @andreawashington5430 Рік тому

      Baaaby one has to be strong when it’s time to be strong, not all have that capability… always grateful 💯💯💯

  • @bryanbeeman5256
    @bryanbeeman5256 Рік тому +35

    No judge star, you don’t know how to communicate with her. He’s an old player and I can tell you now he’s not gonna change. What you see is what you get.

    • @thelmayoung5824
      @thelmayoung5824 10 місяців тому +1

      Amen to that...he is an older player SMH

  • @BlkBeautiful.9867
    @BlkBeautiful.9867 Рік тому +37

    Old doesn’t mean Wisdom!!Even in their 60’s!!🥵😡Sometimes more Games!!

  • @waltonjones5411
    @waltonjones5411 Рік тому +9

    This man ain't ready!

  • @justtracy7175
    @justtracy7175 Рік тому +20

    Run sis….🏃🏿‍♀️

  • @ronnimartin7033
    @ronnimartin7033 Рік тому +73

    JS missed the mark with this one. As she ALWAYS SAYS: When someone shows you who they are, BELIEVE THEM!

    • @umecadouglas9400
      @umecadouglas9400 Рік тому +5

      She is showing a pattern of giving people bad advice. If this continues I will stop watching.

    • @goodgirl170
      @goodgirl170 Рік тому +4

      What you want her to do? Curse him out. She knows how to have mature conversations unlike a lot of people.

    • @andreawashington5430
      @andreawashington5430 Рік тому +1

      That’s judge Taylor💯💯. But Judge Star doesn’t get the scope of the outcomes… Being empathetic and holding both parties accountable to for their actions… you gots to be able to be able to conduct yourself at all times…practicing daily on how to conduct yourself better everyday can lead to being a stronger and a better human being

  • @God-Love-Freedom
    @God-Love-Freedom Рік тому +14

    Judge: “And you didn’t wait. Why?”
    Wiley: “Because I’m an old man with the maturity of a 16 year old boy. That’s why I always pursue much younger women.”

  • @TaylorL.X.K
    @TaylorL.X.K Рік тому +22

    They do not need to get married. That dude is toxic and full of ish. He doesn't even like her. They have nothing in common. He spent money for the household at a strip club and then tried to gaslighting her. The look on his face said that he is still dealing with Kesha. I need for her to find some self-love and respect. She deserves better. With him trying to marry her at the age of 56. He just want someone that he can manipulate into taking care of him.

  • @sheilap9854
    @sheilap9854 Рік тому +8

    I Don't Even think they Need Counseling, because I just Don't trust this Guy🤔She Needs to have a talk with Keisha 🤔

  • @rebeccadavila6603
    @rebeccadavila6603 Рік тому +19

    He will use her up for years and move on to another young woman

  • @angelagray736
    @angelagray736 Рік тому +11

    He really thinks he's all that , ...not!!!!!

  • @peacefreedom4930
    @peacefreedom4930 Рік тому +16

    This man is manipulative, controlling, and abusive. He trapped a young naïve woman. Older women would see straight through him. He’s up there acting trying to keep her, but he’s doing whatever he wants behind her back and he uses tactics to her face. I wish she would have followed her gut and left him.

  • @sabrina21clark
    @sabrina21clark Рік тому +24

    This is a good lesson for young women who think it's cool to date/marry older males because they'll pay the bills or just because older males want younger women. If he's older looking for YOU...wonder why! They may want you but they will make your life miserable!!!

    • @kay7229
      @kay7229 Рік тому +5

      This dude is not even paying the bills. He is useless!

  • @bryanbeeman5256
    @bryanbeeman5256 Рік тому +15

    I promise, it seems like women like this put up with anything

  • @cadillacdeville5828
    @cadillacdeville5828 Рік тому +25

    She's invested because of her heart ❤️ and time DESPITE his disrespect. IMO, I think this should be AVOIDED 💯

  • @NiemahRa
    @NiemahRa Рік тому +24

    He has no interest in connecting with her intimately. Humping with no emotional connection is not intimacy.

  • @Mari-dm8iu
    @Mari-dm8iu Рік тому +22

    If vomit was a person........ SMH- leaving a child and woman to find another form of transportation...Wow!

  • @deedee49
    @deedee49 Рік тому +21

    This grown man have an excuse for everything. Young lady you better leave him alone. And he is very disrespectful!! You cannot teach ole dawg new trick

  • @keshiaPckns
    @keshiaPckns Рік тому +5

    Mr Wylie holding a big secret! It’s written all over his face! Judge Star gave him an out when she asked, “Is Keisha an ex?” That chic is CURRENT!!!

  • @legal_beagle5294
    @legal_beagle5294 11 місяців тому +4

    My mother married a man 25 yrs her senior. He needed a younger woman to take care of his old ass as he aged. She was looking for a man to take care of her. They had a horrible time communicating, they were from two different generations. He was stodgy, bitter (from a previous marriage), and a Baptist pastor. The household was no fun whatsoever.

  • @karynthompson4320
    @karynthompson4320 11 місяців тому +2

    I tell my students all of the time..."You are as an adult as you were as a child unless you make the conscientious effort to change." This guy didn't make an effort🙄

  • @sunnylove3521
    @sunnylove3521 Рік тому +6

    Run🏃🏾‍♀️run run run. He is not for you. He's too oldddd you are young and beautiful. Leave that man ALONE.

  • @arayaklove
    @arayaklove Рік тому +12

    So she started out with im done then ended with I just wanna have pillow talk again 😅 wth

  • @DBrnsugaq33
    @DBrnsugaq33 Рік тому +7

    I say rrrrrruuuunnnn Sis run. She 30 she deserve much more and better. Those tears in his voice never fell. Rruuuuunnnnn 🏃🏾‍♀️🏃🏾‍♀️🏃🏾‍♀️

  • @northphillyp
    @northphillyp Рік тому +8

    They need to break up sad to say....homie a few years older than me still running the streets,with the 30 year old disgruntled fiance at the crib,and at no time in 3 months did he try to repair that situation with shorty to at least be able to share a bed..stubborn old dude indeed..let her go

  • @whatsthetruth_review
    @whatsthetruth_review Рік тому +6

    Just because someone is older doesn't mean that they have matured mentally and emotionally.

  • @Labelvicky
    @Labelvicky Рік тому +13

    Drop it already

  • @mboyd692
    @mboyd692 Рік тому +9

    Robert Hernandez is the BEST bailiff. He is funny, engaging and has great commentary with Star.

  • @waltonjones5411
    @waltonjones5411 Рік тому +9

    This man argues because that is who he is. He does wrong and don't want to be accountable. She better run!

  • @Cscott1821
    @Cscott1821 Рік тому +9

    When Judge star asked if the name he said was an ex she gave him a lie to run with 😭😭 he looked so excited to have an acceptable out. He’s an old irresponsible fool. How does going to the strip club fulfill a lack of intimacy unless you’re paying for more than dances? 😅

  • @BAWNBAWNBAWN
    @BAWNBAWNBAWN Рік тому +10

    Dude is not gonna change.

  • @cymbolichuman433
    @cymbolichuman433 9 місяців тому +1

    This is why you gotta stick with playmates your own age. #1 Having life experiences,
    #2 Closer to life history, #3 physical attraction for both parties.

  • @oldwalt4645
    @oldwalt4645 Рік тому +3

    Some men spend their lifetime trying to relive their youth. Some men spend their lifetime building legacy. This man is clearly in the first group. As a 54 year old man I find him very offensive. He took advantage of this young lady. Most disgusting is that he created a child with a child. A woman his age would not put up with his nonsense.

  • @lakindabellfo8508
    @lakindabellfo8508 Рік тому +4

    Girl run.. you'll regret marrying him.

  • @ED-hi1vo
    @ED-hi1vo Рік тому +16

    "Keisha"... HELL NO!

  • @ronnimartin7033
    @ronnimartin7033 Рік тому +12

    Two points: 1. Robert needs to sit next to JS cuz he instigates a lot! 😂 2. 'Most' folks who get here need to end it!

  • @trix4568
    @trix4568 Рік тому +9

    Dr Jekyll and arm.Hyde. Don't do it Baby.

  • @SheSells_StLouis
    @SheSells_StLouis Рік тому +13

    Something seems off not sure what it is. Maybe the counseling will work if they both work at it. If not, young lady lace up your Nikes and run! But keep that life insurance policy paid up lol

  • @mrsbefort1616
    @mrsbefort1616 Рік тому +10

    Why would you be a live in gf

  • @chanelhopeful5336
    @chanelhopeful5336 Рік тому +4

    The eyes are the key to the soul, Look at his eyes 😳.

  • @shelz4346
    @shelz4346 Рік тому +1

    I'm like, [clap your hands twice] who is Keisha, who is keisha?. Girl...run like Usain Bolt

  • @highlander666
    @highlander666 Рік тому +13

    Horrible accents aside; I am thankful I do not have to deal with the nonsense they have in this ridiculous relationship😂

  • @melissabrown-rose9183
    @melissabrown-rose9183 Рік тому +2

    I don't think they belong together.

  • @het-herukhepra752
    @het-herukhepra752 Рік тому +5

    No, WHY are you in divorce court, Not With this Man, he leaves you AND The BABY, he spends money at the strip club when bills are due, he calls you another womans name, he's still seeing keisha, how much punishment are you going to put up with!? SMH 😒

  • @mogetit5999
    @mogetit5999 Рік тому +4

    Why didn’t anyone ask him WHY he goes into another room after intimacy?

  • @radrew684
    @radrew684 Рік тому +2

    If they having all these problems and they're not married, just imagine if they were married

  • @joe-dante9036
    @joe-dante9036 Рік тому +4

    That 56 year old needs to date a 50 year old, not a 30 year old

  • @annaprice7276
    @annaprice7276 10 місяців тому +1

    This show always makes me soooooooooo glad I'm Single. YAY!😅

  • @alfredthomas4006
    @alfredthomas4006 Рік тому +29

    Yeah don’t marry someone that young when you’re an old man because you won’t be able to keep up with her, she needs someone her own age !!!!!!!

    • @joe-dante9036
      @joe-dante9036 Рік тому +1

      Exactly, and he needs to find someone his own age

    • @alfredthomas4006
      @alfredthomas4006 Рік тому +2

      @@joe-dante9036 old as he is ,he needs to find a woman his age or near and chill and have fun the rest of his days .

    • @joe-dante9036
      @joe-dante9036 Рік тому

      @@alfredthomas4006Yeah, most definitely!

  • @scottsh1120
    @scottsh1120 Рік тому +6

    I wish we could get after the show updates om these couples. I hope they didnt get married

  • @mrsbefort1616
    @mrsbefort1616 Рік тому +7

    You had a kid by him

  • @sunflowertulip9346
    @sunflowertulip9346 Рік тому +3

    He said, " he don't give a damn", tells you everything. Keisha is not going anywhere soon.

  • @jo-annbastings
    @jo-annbastings Рік тому +4

    She can complain all she wants but still she had a child with him, is with him since 5 years now, even dealing with his childish and disrespectful behavior, and still wants him to change so she can get married with a guy the same age as her father. Her bad decisions to ignore the red flags led her to where she is now.

  • @oliviabradford5185
    @oliviabradford5185 Рік тому +1

    Run...

  • @motivation-hd7mw
    @motivation-hd7mw Рік тому +8

    This older brotha started off with the b.s that in love shyt is just infatuation knock it off, you want her you want other woman too just tell the damn truth its the nature of a Man smh

  • @SweetestNya
    @SweetestNya Рік тому +5

    This lil girl is tripping! 😅😅 Them tears mean “I need u to keep paying these bills!” Why does she want a man so much older and she pays the majority of the bills. Everything she said she want she also said she’s not getting. He wanna be old school “ when I say go let’s go” but can’t pay a whole water bill 😂😂😂😂😂 girl! Use your head and stop letting him fake cry to stay in your good graces. I wish I woulda paid for my wedding by myself😂 I woulda married my damn self too! She got bout a good 3 mo years before she figure out them tears don’t mean shyt. Do he cry when he cussing u out in front of son?! Oh ok

  • @Gpppixelfn
    @Gpppixelfn Рік тому +1

    Auntie Star 🌟…we be wearing them OUTFITS ❤❤❤

  • @dawnettereed843
    @dawnettereed843 11 місяців тому +3

    He's old enough to be her father 😅

  • @arlenedixon2547
    @arlenedixon2547 Рік тому +4

    They need to seperate

  • @Chantss_xo
    @Chantss_xo Рік тому +3

    She needs to realise that she cannot teach an old dog new tricks.

  • @tinajackson6875
    @tinajackson6875 Рік тому +1

    Judge Star and Robert are class acts.

  • @chrisengland6648
    @chrisengland6648 Рік тому +10

    She is done with him. That's the vibe I'm getting from her.

  • @ciaorodriguezfamily9495
    @ciaorodriguezfamily9495 Рік тому +1

    As soon as Keisha got brought up his whole tone changed 🤦🏾‍♀️ Leave sis.

  • @mrsbefort1616
    @mrsbefort1616 Рік тому +6

    30 and 56!

  • @tearapowell3780
    @tearapowell3780 Рік тому +4

    Now he laughing Omg stay far from this man

  • @keishasmith379
    @keishasmith379 Рік тому +4

    I hate when ppl blame everything on sex life. I would b done with that man and he too old to still b acting that ignorant, but then again there is no age limit on dumb. She seems more mature than he is acting on television.

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    @Fleefromsin Рік тому +10

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  • @markPwilliams
    @markPwilliams Рік тому +3

    Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her

    • @JanMuench467
      @JanMuench467 Рік тому

      its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let her go i did all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring her back

    • @markPwilliams
      @markPwilliams Рік тому

      @@JanMuench467 Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?

    • @JanMuench467
      @JanMuench467 Рік тому

      @@markPwilliams Her name is doctorbestcure, and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.

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      @markPwilliams Рік тому

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  • @alicemccallister16
    @alicemccallister16 Рік тому +2

    I don't think he is ever going to be what she's looking for him to be. The age difference is going to hurt them. He doesn't know how to compromise.

  • @Edward_Strong1982
    @Edward_Strong1982 Рік тому +3

    Now I can’t lie. She woulda pissed me off at the food festival. NO PLATE is that serious to wait two hours for sus 😂 especially when you already have enough food. I probably would’ve left them BUT came back to pick them up is she wanted to stay longer

  • @monicag5571
    @monicag5571 Рік тому +2

    I believe Judge Starr ruled the way she did to not break up a family and also she's aware they're not going anywhere. There's so much wrong in this relationship that coming to Divorce Court isn't going to fix.

  • @Hipps93
    @Hipps93 Рік тому +1

    Sis he don't want you nor respect you. Run 🏃🏽‍♀️💨

  • @riquelbrown1357
    @riquelbrown1357 Рік тому

    juror in the white shirt, not you cutting urs eyes when he said "I'm not perfect" lol

  • @valeriapeace1272
    @valeriapeace1272 Рік тому +1

    Gurl, take your baby and Runnnn

  • @melissabrown-rose9183
    @melissabrown-rose9183 6 місяців тому

    Very good show .

  • @evonza4858
    @evonza4858 Рік тому +6

    Ps the young lady deserves better 😘he has issues,big trust issues and to include strippers in the equation is a REAL issue ❤️🖤💚🙏🏽❤️🖤💚😘

  • @sabrina21clark
    @sabrina21clark Рік тому +3

    He's gonna go back and do the same things. He'll be sleeping in the other room etc.

  • @maryburke7850
    @maryburke7850 Рік тому +1

    Girl if u don’t run!!

  • @cadillacdeville5828
    @cadillacdeville5828 Рік тому +3

    What exactly has he did to EVER KEEP her? I'm not getting why she is bothering with it to this extent. Maybe she can't get pass having the companionship. In all seriousness, we all make bad choices. But i dont believe in cohabiting before marriage. She could've had her own space WITHOUT the BS coming home. He PURPOSELY left you AND his child.

  • @poshpearls23
    @poshpearls23 Рік тому +4

    The gentleman in the audience with the blue dress shirt though 😍🥵

  • @Hipps93
    @Hipps93 Рік тому +1

    He has a safe chick that is why he is on the couch. Leave sis you deserve better