@Kwamedogg50 That's not true of ALL women his age! Lol And she's not without a real woman thickness!! Perhaps women his age don't put up with his shenanigans because they are more mature and know what he's up to.
@@drapertraci7 or young women are more valuable and not used and abused like older women. Think about it, older women do things like makeup and surgery to look younger. Why not just get the younger women instead ?
I disagree with the judge. This man isn't going to change. This man is standing in a bucket of red paint. This relationship isn't going to get better. Marrying this man will end in divorce with wasted time to her. Run away young one. Therapy will not help this.
This relationship is doomed and never should have happened in the first place. He’s chronologically older but not mature. And Keisha isn’t no past relationship she’s current. That young lady needs to run!!!!
He sounds abusive and manipulative. He can turn on the water works on in a split second but does not back up his affection with his actions. It seems she was trying to say he gets belligerent yelling and throwing things and that may be why she doesn’t communicate about arguments or other issues. He kept saying he wasn’t pleased in the bedroom. Then goes and spend $800 at the strip club. IMO the only way a working man satisfied with spending that amount of money with no problem is if he’s getting a happy ending 😏.
I’m seeing narcissistic behavior in him. She talked about his temper tantrums, throwing and breaking things, his aggression, yelling and how she avoids confrontation and/or conflict with him. As an empath I’ve been where she is. One thing I learned as a narcissist survivor is that you have to set boundaries and stick to them. The “almost in tears” card he tried to pull was a manipulation tactic that I’ve experienced a few times too. They definitely should NOT get married. He’s a 50 plus year old man with the mentality of a 3 year old!
No judge star, you don’t know how to communicate with her. He’s an old player and I can tell you now he’s not gonna change. What you see is what you get.
they don't need to get married. He said he doesn't pay bills, that he didn't give a d when he lost 800 at the strip club and left her with bills, and left her at a festival with no ride home. When a person just leaves you stranded, that is a moment of when a person shows you how they feel about you-believe it
A man who can spend $800.00 at the stripper club IS NOT a man to get married to when there is a outstanding bill. He has a child with her and he can’t even give up a selfish moment for the child if not for her.
That’s judge Taylor💯💯. But Judge Star doesn’t get the scope of the outcomes… Being empathetic and holding both parties accountable to for their actions… you gots to be able to be able to conduct yourself at all times…practicing daily on how to conduct yourself better everyday can lead to being a stronger and a better human being
Honey, I did 30+ years with a man who lied to me for all that time. He was 24 years older than me. I finally decided leave and when I did he didn’t even know where I went. I’m better off without him
This grown man have an excuse for everything. Young lady you better leave him alone. And he is very disrespectful!! You cannot teach ole dawg new trick
They do not need to get married. That dude is toxic and full of ish. He doesn't even like her. They have nothing in common. He spent money for the household at a strip club and then tried to gaslighting her. The look on his face said that he is still dealing with Kesha. I need for her to find some self-love and respect. She deserves better. With him trying to marry her at the age of 56. He just want someone that he can manipulate into taking care of him.
Judge: “And you didn’t wait. Why?” Wiley: “Because I’m an old man with the maturity of a 16 year old boy. That’s why I always pursue much younger women.”
This is a good lesson for young women who think it's cool to date/marry older males because they'll pay the bills or just because older males want younger women. If he's older looking for YOU...wonder why! They may want you but they will make your life miserable!!!
This man is manipulative, controlling, and abusive. He trapped a young naïve woman. Older women would see straight through him. He’s up there acting trying to keep her, but he’s doing whatever he wants behind her back and he uses tactics to her face. I wish she would have followed her gut and left him.
They need to break up sad to say....homie a few years older than me still running the streets,with the 30 year old disgruntled fiance at the crib,and at no time in 3 months did he try to repair that situation with shorty to at least be able to share a bed..stubborn old dude indeed..let her go
My mother married a man 25 yrs her senior. He needed a younger woman to take care of his old ass as he aged. She was looking for a man to take care of her. They had a horrible time communicating, they were from two different generations. He was stodgy, bitter (from a previous marriage), and a Baptist pastor. The household was no fun whatsoever.
When Judge star asked if the name he said was an ex she gave him a lie to run with 😭😭 he looked so excited to have an acceptable out. He’s an old irresponsible fool. How does going to the strip club fulfill a lack of intimacy unless you’re paying for more than dances? 😅
I tell my students all of the time..."You are as an adult as you were as a child unless you make the conscientious effort to change." This guy didn't make an effort🙄
Something seems off not sure what it is. Maybe the counseling will work if they both work at it. If not, young lady lace up your Nikes and run! But keep that life insurance policy paid up lol
Some men spend their lifetime trying to relive their youth. Some men spend their lifetime building legacy. This man is clearly in the first group. As a 54 year old man I find him very offensive. He took advantage of this young lady. Most disgusting is that he created a child with a child. A woman his age would not put up with his nonsense.
No, WHY are you in divorce court, Not With this Man, he leaves you AND The BABY, he spends money at the strip club when bills are due, he calls you another womans name, he's still seeing keisha, how much punishment are you going to put up with!? SMH 😒
This is why you gotta stick with playmates your own age. #1 Having life experiences, #2 Closer to life history, #3 physical attraction for both parties.
She can complain all she wants but still she had a child with him, is with him since 5 years now, even dealing with his childish and disrespectful behavior, and still wants him to change so she can get married with a guy the same age as her father. Her bad decisions to ignore the red flags led her to where she is now.
This lil girl is tripping! 😅😅 Them tears mean “I need u to keep paying these bills!” Why does she want a man so much older and she pays the majority of the bills. Everything she said she want she also said she’s not getting. He wanna be old school “ when I say go let’s go” but can’t pay a whole water bill 😂😂😂😂😂 girl! Use your head and stop letting him fake cry to stay in your good graces. I wish I woulda paid for my wedding by myself😂 I woulda married my damn self too! She got bout a good 3 mo years before she figure out them tears don’t mean shyt. Do he cry when he cussing u out in front of son?! Oh ok
Now I can’t lie. She woulda pissed me off at the food festival. NO PLATE is that serious to wait two hours for sus 😂 especially when you already have enough food. I probably would’ve left them BUT came back to pick them up is she wanted to stay longer
This older brotha started off with the b.s that in love shyt is just infatuation knock it off, you want her you want other woman too just tell the damn truth its the nature of a Man smh
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What exactly has he did to EVER KEEP her? I'm not getting why she is bothering with it to this extent. Maybe she can't get pass having the companionship. In all seriousness, we all make bad choices. But i dont believe in cohabiting before marriage. She could've had her own space WITHOUT the BS coming home. He PURPOSELY left you AND his child.
I believe Judge Starr ruled the way she did to not break up a family and also she's aware they're not going anywhere. There's so much wrong in this relationship that coming to Divorce Court isn't going to fix.
I would say run like a gazelle .. 🏃. He is selfish and arrogant. He is set in his ways and think he can control her because he’s older. My husband is older than me, he doesn’t do this. You’ll are not even married yet and he’s making excuses about sex, she had a baby sir help out and you can make it easier for her. She’ll have more time for you.
You Better Run 🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️ Honey!!! That man DOES NOT LOVE YOU! HE didn't care about you OR the child's well being! He left you at the festival without thinking about your well being or your child's. God forbid something would have happened to you or the baby?
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let her go i did all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring her back
I hate when ppl blame everything on sex life. I would b done with that man and he too old to still b acting that ignorant, but then again there is no age limit on dumb. She seems more mature than he is acting on television.
He’s playing in her face.. there’s a reason why he deals w/ women 25 years younger than him… smh!
Exactly!
Exactly
Or because women his age are overweight, has hella kids, or ran through 🤷🏿♂️
@Kwamedogg50 That's not true of ALL women his age! Lol And she's not without a real woman thickness!! Perhaps women his age don't put up with his shenanigans because they are more mature and know what he's up to.
@@drapertraci7 or young women are more valuable and not used and abused like older women. Think about it, older women do things like makeup and surgery to look younger. Why not just get the younger women instead ?
Better leave that old man alone & go on about your life. He already live his & will continue to ruin yours. RUN!! That “love” & fake tears ain’t it.
She's so silly to put up with this immature old man. Why are they in court? She's not going anywhere. Just a waste of time.
She's young'er'! That's why guys like him get women much younger. They need someone that they can manipulate! Been there!!
Total waste 🗑
Yes! Silly old man. Nothing like a fool
Old Adolescent
A clear example of age does not equal maturity or wisdom.
Not at all 😅
I hate it when people try to use "I'm not perfect " as an excuse to be trifling
Ditdo😮😮
Never let a man tell you more than once he don't want you.
Judge Lynn Toler ❤❤
That's absolutely right
If he still has no clue how to make a woman happy at 56, WHEN will he learn?? On his death bed. He is childish.
@@NephelyDeBussynot in his death bed😂😂😂😂🤦🏽♀️
Age ain't nothing but a number
I disagree with the judge. This man isn't going to change. This man is standing in a bucket of red paint. This relationship isn't going to get better. Marrying this man will end in divorce with wasted time to her. Run away young one. Therapy will not help this.
Amen baby
You can pillow talk all you want to…. But it’s how you treat each other when you’re out of the bed and all through the day.
Please, Please put that on a tee shirt..❤❤❤
This that comment! 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾💯
Facts👆👆👆
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True
He spent $800 on another woman at a strip club that is a deal breaker.
Especially when the water bill is due
He said f that water bill...my kid don't need water. A man will risk it all for a whor...
Im sure that is Kiyeshe he keeps mistaking his wife name with!!
It is for me.
A deal breaker
That’s the most disgusting and disrespectful thing a man can do to a woman….. hit it and quit it. That’s wrong!
And they're under the same roof!!
"Ain't taking care of her bedroom" Sounds Cringe AF 😵
@@keyeviondavis9647exactly
This relationship is doomed and never should have happened in the first place. He’s chronologically older but not mature. And Keisha isn’t no past relationship she’s current. That young lady needs to run!!!!
He sounds abusive and manipulative. He can turn on the water works on in a split second but does not back up his affection with his actions. It seems she was trying to say he gets belligerent yelling and throwing things and that may be why she doesn’t communicate about arguments or other issues. He kept saying he wasn’t pleased in the bedroom. Then goes and spend $800 at the strip club. IMO the only way a working man satisfied with spending that amount of money with no problem is if he’s getting a happy ending 😏.
Right. She said that he is aggressive several times, and Judge Star did not even address the issue
As they were leaving the set he aggressively grabbed her hand, her body language said she was afraid and she should be!
💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯
Very angry brother, 0-60 real quick
@@soshallitbe6160Most definitely was glanced over. Even after she said he throws things during arguments. That’s a major red flag.
I’m seeing narcissistic behavior in him. She talked about his temper tantrums, throwing and breaking things, his aggression, yelling and how she avoids confrontation and/or conflict with him. As an empath I’ve been where she is. One thing I learned as a narcissist survivor is that you have to set boundaries and stick to them. The “almost in tears” card he tried to pull was a manipulation tactic that I’ve experienced a few times too. They definitely should NOT get married. He’s a 50 plus year old man with the mentality of a 3 year old!
It’s sad, at my34 age I see it too
Being out of a relationship and with a clear eye. This man is very narcissistic
i agreei
I picked up on that too. I really hope that she sees that before things get worse.
Dealing with an old man and he's not financially secure is WILDNESS
How is she allowing her youth to be wasted, by this disrespectful predatory man.
That part
No judge star, you don’t know how to communicate with her. He’s an old player and I can tell you now he’s not gonna change. What you see is what you get.
Amen to that...he is an older player SMH
Old doesn’t mean Wisdom!!Even in their 60’s!!🥵😡Sometimes more Games!!
Yes!
they don't need to get married. He said he doesn't pay bills, that he didn't give a d when he lost 800 at the strip club and left her with bills, and left her at a festival with no ride home. When a person just leaves you stranded, that is a moment of when a person shows you how they feel about you-believe it
Yes ma’am!!!!!
I would have been like, bye, bye Felicia 👋 😅
Remember, he left her AND their little baby stranded.
Baaaby one has to be strong when it’s time to be strong, not all have that capability… always grateful 💯💯💯
A man who can spend $800.00 at the stripper club IS NOT a man to get married to when there is a outstanding bill. He has a child with her and he can’t even give up a selfish moment for the child if not for her.
His actions are red flags
Major Red flags
This man ain't ready!
Girl run. He is older and doesn't want a wife.
JS missed the mark with this one. As she ALWAYS SAYS: When someone shows you who they are, BELIEVE THEM!
She is showing a pattern of giving people bad advice. If this continues I will stop watching.
What you want her to do? Curse him out. She knows how to have mature conversations unlike a lot of people.
That’s judge Taylor💯💯. But Judge Star doesn’t get the scope of the outcomes… Being empathetic and holding both parties accountable to for their actions… you gots to be able to be able to conduct yourself at all times…practicing daily on how to conduct yourself better everyday can lead to being a stronger and a better human being
Honey, I did 30+ years with a man who lied to me for all that time. He was 24 years older than me. I finally decided leave and when I did he didn’t even know where I went. I’m better off without him
Run sis….🏃🏿♀️
This grown man have an excuse for everything. Young lady you better leave him alone. And he is very disrespectful!! You cannot teach ole dawg new trick
She's invested because of her heart ❤️ and time DESPITE his disrespect. IMO, I think this should be AVOIDED 💯
They do not need to get married. That dude is toxic and full of ish. He doesn't even like her. They have nothing in common. He spent money for the household at a strip club and then tried to gaslighting her. The look on his face said that he is still dealing with Kesha. I need for her to find some self-love and respect. She deserves better. With him trying to marry her at the age of 56. He just want someone that he can manipulate into taking care of him.
I Don't Even think they Need Counseling, because I just Don't trust this Guy🤔She Needs to have a talk with Keisha 🤔
Judge: “And you didn’t wait. Why?”
Wiley: “Because I’m an old man with the maturity of a 16 year old boy. That’s why I always pursue much younger women.”
He really thinks he's all that , ...not!!!!!
This is a good lesson for young women who think it's cool to date/marry older males because they'll pay the bills or just because older males want younger women. If he's older looking for YOU...wonder why! They may want you but they will make your life miserable!!!
This dude is not even paying the bills. He is useless!
This man is manipulative, controlling, and abusive. He trapped a young naïve woman. Older women would see straight through him. He’s up there acting trying to keep her, but he’s doing whatever he wants behind her back and he uses tactics to her face. I wish she would have followed her gut and left him.
If vomit was a person........ SMH- leaving a child and woman to find another form of transportation...Wow!
“If vomit was a person” 😂
He will use her up for years and move on to another young woman
Mr Wylie holding a big secret! It’s written all over his face! Judge Star gave him an out when she asked, “Is Keisha an ex?” That chic is CURRENT!!!
They need to break up sad to say....homie a few years older than me still running the streets,with the 30 year old disgruntled fiance at the crib,and at no time in 3 months did he try to repair that situation with shorty to at least be able to share a bed..stubborn old dude indeed..let her go
So she started out with im done then ended with I just wanna have pillow talk again 😅 wth
Run🏃🏾♀️run run run. He is not for you. He's too oldddd you are young and beautiful. Leave that man ALONE.
My mother married a man 25 yrs her senior. He needed a younger woman to take care of his old ass as he aged. She was looking for a man to take care of her. They had a horrible time communicating, they were from two different generations. He was stodgy, bitter (from a previous marriage), and a Baptist pastor. The household was no fun whatsoever.
He has no interest in connecting with her intimately. Humping with no emotional connection is not intimacy.
I say rrrrrruuuunnnn Sis run. She 30 she deserve much more and better. Those tears in his voice never fell. Rruuuuunnnnn 🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️
When Judge star asked if the name he said was an ex she gave him a lie to run with 😭😭 he looked so excited to have an acceptable out. He’s an old irresponsible fool. How does going to the strip club fulfill a lack of intimacy unless you’re paying for more than dances? 😅
Robert Hernandez is the BEST bailiff. He is funny, engaging and has great commentary with Star.
I promise, it seems like women like this put up with anything
I tell my students all of the time..."You are as an adult as you were as a child unless you make the conscientious effort to change." This guy didn't make an effort🙄
Drop it already
Horrible accents aside; I am thankful I do not have to deal with the nonsense they have in this ridiculous relationship😂
The worst 😒
Just because someone is older doesn't mean that they have matured mentally and emotionally.
Two points: 1. Robert needs to sit next to JS cuz he instigates a lot! 😂 2. 'Most' folks who get here need to end it!
Dr Jekyll and arm.Hyde. Don't do it Baby.
"Keisha"... HELL NO!
Dude is not gonna change.
Something seems off not sure what it is. Maybe the counseling will work if they both work at it. If not, young lady lace up your Nikes and run! But keep that life insurance policy paid up lol
Exactly 😂😂😂
This man argues because that is who he is. He does wrong and don't want to be accountable. She better run!
Girl run.. you'll regret marrying him.
Some men spend their lifetime trying to relive their youth. Some men spend their lifetime building legacy. This man is clearly in the first group. As a 54 year old man I find him very offensive. He took advantage of this young lady. Most disgusting is that he created a child with a child. A woman his age would not put up with his nonsense.
No, WHY are you in divorce court, Not With this Man, he leaves you AND The BABY, he spends money at the strip club when bills are due, he calls you another womans name, he's still seeing keisha, how much punishment are you going to put up with!? SMH 😒
I don't think they belong together.
Why would you be a live in gf
They wanted younger wives and turns out they are still unstable. Ladies its not you, ITS THEM. 😂😂😂
Why didn’t anyone ask him WHY he goes into another room after intimacy?
I'm like, [clap your hands twice] who is Keisha, who is keisha?. Girl...run like Usain Bolt
The eyes are the key to the soul, Look at his eyes 😳.
This is why you gotta stick with playmates your own age. #1 Having life experiences,
#2 Closer to life history, #3 physical attraction for both parties.
If they having all these problems and they're not married, just imagine if they were married
You had a kid by him
He said, " he don't give a damn", tells you everything. Keisha is not going anywhere soon.
She can complain all she wants but still she had a child with him, is with him since 5 years now, even dealing with his childish and disrespectful behavior, and still wants him to change so she can get married with a guy the same age as her father. Her bad decisions to ignore the red flags led her to where she is now.
This lil girl is tripping! 😅😅 Them tears mean “I need u to keep paying these bills!” Why does she want a man so much older and she pays the majority of the bills. Everything she said she want she also said she’s not getting. He wanna be old school “ when I say go let’s go” but can’t pay a whole water bill 😂😂😂😂😂 girl! Use your head and stop letting him fake cry to stay in your good graces. I wish I woulda paid for my wedding by myself😂 I woulda married my damn self too! She got bout a good 3 mo years before she figure out them tears don’t mean shyt. Do he cry when he cussing u out in front of son?! Oh ok
Now I can’t lie. She woulda pissed me off at the food festival. NO PLATE is that serious to wait two hours for sus 😂 especially when you already have enough food. I probably would’ve left them BUT came back to pick them up is she wanted to stay longer
This older brotha started off with the b.s that in love shyt is just infatuation knock it off, you want her you want other woman too just tell the damn truth its the nature of a Man smh
I wish we could get after the show updates om these couples. I hope they didnt get married
That 56 year old needs to date a 50 year old, not a 30 year old
Yeah don’t marry someone that young when you’re an old man because you won’t be able to keep up with her, she needs someone her own age !!!!!!!
Exactly, and he needs to find someone his own age
@@joe-dante9036 old as he is ,he needs to find a woman his age or near and chill and have fun the rest of his days .
@@alfredthomas4006Yeah, most definitely!
I am truly disgusted, girl let go of that old man and be free.
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No one cares
She needs to realise that she cannot teach an old dog new tricks.
What exactly has he did to EVER KEEP her? I'm not getting why she is bothering with it to this extent. Maybe she can't get pass having the companionship. In all seriousness, we all make bad choices. But i dont believe in cohabiting before marriage. She could've had her own space WITHOUT the BS coming home. He PURPOSELY left you AND his child.
juror in the white shirt, not you cutting urs eyes when he said "I'm not perfect" lol
This show always makes me soooooooooo glad I'm Single. YAY!😅
Now he laughing Omg stay far from this man
I believe Judge Starr ruled the way she did to not break up a family and also she's aware they're not going anywhere. There's so much wrong in this relationship that coming to Divorce Court isn't going to fix.
As soon as Keisha got brought up his whole tone changed 🤦🏾♀️ Leave sis.
I would say run like a gazelle .. 🏃. He is selfish and arrogant. He is set in his ways and think he can control her because he’s older. My husband is older than me, he doesn’t do this. You’ll are not even married yet and he’s making excuses about sex, she had a baby sir help out and you can make it easier for her. She’ll have more time for you.
He's old enough to be her father 😅
Judge Star and Robert are class acts.
30 and 56!
Nothing but a disaster.
Run...
She is done with him. That's the vibe I'm getting from her.
They need to seperate
You Better Run 🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️ Honey!!! That man DOES NOT LOVE YOU! HE didn't care about you OR the child's well being! He left you at the festival without thinking about your well being or your child's. God forbid something would have happened to you or the baby?
I don't think he is ever going to be what she's looking for him to be. The age difference is going to hurt them. He doesn't know how to compromise.
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let her go i did all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring her back
@@JanMuench467 Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?
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I hate when ppl blame everything on sex life. I would b done with that man and he too old to still b acting that ignorant, but then again there is no age limit on dumb. She seems more mature than he is acting on television.
Ps the young lady deserves better 😘he has issues,big trust issues and to include strippers in the equation is a REAL issue ❤️🖤💚🙏🏽❤️🖤💚😘
Can’t believe Judge Star was swayed by the tears and being emotional. He’s done some effed up stuff. Sis needs to move on.
He's gonna go back and do the same things. He'll be sleeping in the other room etc.
Auntie Star 🌟…we be wearing them OUTFITS ❤❤❤
The gentleman in the audience with the blue dress shirt though 😍🥵