Imp points: 🤌🏻Ek doosre ki aadat dal gyi, par ek doosre ki aadato ki aadat nhi dali. ❤ CTRL- communication, trust, respect, love. ✨love is least important bcz it's The easiest. Mushkil toh CTR hai..Getting in relationship is easy!! ❤Relationship comes with responsibilities. ❤Ijjat pyaar se jaada important hai..samjho ❤Pyaar, attachment, commitment toh hai but staying toxic to each other!!
Wow !!! 😂😂 How was this so relatable😂😂 Thankgod I came out of that horribly toxic relationship... my ex had all of the toxic traits that you talked about. And yes I've happily moved on and healed ❤
i was very respectful person but kabhi kabhi aisa hota hai ki dusre insaan apko itna taken for granted leta hai, dusro ko defend karta hai har waqt, value nahi karta apka, communicate karne se accha bhagna pasand karta hai toh kabhi kabhi ache insaan ka patience bhi khatam hojata hai aur woh bhi toxic ban jata hai. i am the example of it. although, i am not proud of using bad words in a relation and i dont wanna justify my mistakes but situation aisa bhi ho sakta hai. maine apni last relation se sikha hai. uska woh sab galti toh chup jata hai lekin aap itna agressive ho jate ho sirf apka mistakes reh jata hai bc his behavior cant be recorded but your words can be. but nobody talks about this. main toh verbal abuse pe utar gayi thi after being emotionally abused. par maine ek chiz sikha hai ki... is point tak tolerate hi nahi karna hai ki ap wo sab bolne pe majboor ho jao. red flags dikha toh tabhi chod dena hai attachment ki wajah se pakad ke nahi rakhna hai us insan ko jo apko khusi se jyada anshu deta hai
@@angel_2417 phir kya hona tha..breakuo ho gaya..in a really really bad terms... my relationship lasted only 1 years but because it was very toxic..it took me nearly 6 months to completely get over him and be really happy. Before that i had 4 years of relationship but it was really healthy and it took me about 1 week to move on..even if i missed him it was on a healthy manner but what i experienced was..despite the duration of your relation the more toxic your relation would be the more time you take to heal to recover from the damages of toxicity...after we broke up..i stop using bad words and got back to my real/ normal self..he brought the worst out of me always so find some one who brings out the best in you ....take care and be happy..
Literally bro muje apne relationship se bhar aake itna free feel hora h... nd usko smjake bhi koi fyda nahi h instead of being sorry for what he did..he chosee to blame me hmm now i understood our relationship was toxic..
I am a student and I am stuck in this toxic thing .I do not get over by this situation.your first vdo about this topic and this vdo helps me alot . I thank you for share this.....❤️
Whatever you said is so so true yashvi. I can't even begin to tell you that your video made me feel better. I had a breakup recently and the things you mentioned about the other person hesitating to have a conversation to avoid fights and missunderstandings, and a third person getting involved in btw our relationship is so true. He started feeling comfortable with sharing his feelings/about relationship to his friends rather than with me :') it felt so bad even when i have been the most understanding partner. How could he suddenly start feeling better to communicate with his female bestfriends than me :) I have never talked about our fights or misunderstandings even with my best friends but when he started doing that i could feel him going away. He was my bestfriend and now i really dont have anyone to talk about my feelings. After a really long term relationship i can 100% say communication and respect is >> love. Thank you :) Ps: i have seen your reels on instagram handle where you have expressed few feelings about being in a relationship and i instantly felt a conmection. I'm around your age and on seeing you being so confident and happy i just hope i move on and find happiness and peace too :)❤
My ex has demanded to get in physical relationship jab sirf relationship ko two months huye the…..and he said…ekbar jldi krenge fir chahe kuch time baad krle but ek bar jldi krna hai…. And pehle bhi kuch aisi chize he said jisse I got uncomfortable I even confronted but vhi blaming start that I was overthinking n all…..it was my fault that I agreed too early for relationship….but now I know what I want and what not❤…..it’s better to firstly know what you want guys…..don’t be in hurry relationship m aane k liye…it will only give you regrets firstly know each other…..❤someone who is truly meant for you…is coming soon❤
That why a best frnd who is ur life partner is rare to find ...one should marry best frnd whom u can be vulnerable and be urself ...if you cannot communicate everything falls apart ! Good points covered
If he truly loves you he will try to become better person... Even if he is toxic he will try to change his habits for you.. But that doesn't mean you have to fix him.... You are not his parent to try fixing his habits..... Do not give more than efforts... If he is not giving same efforts.
Yashvi didi I need your help...I m in 12th standard I have a bf vo merse 4 saal bda h cllg m h..vo meri pdhai ko leke bohut serious h usse pta h mere boards aane wale to pure din he is like pdhai kro..vo part time job bhi krta h uske bad rtko thoda time bhi deta h..I know apko lgega nibbi ya something but vo mujhe lekr bohut jyada serious h meri pdhai humara future career n all...meri family bohut toxic h bohut jyda so he help to heal things everytime..ik bar maine shorts pehen liye th to mere ghrwalon n mko ratko ghr s nikal Diya or thodi der baad andr lekr slapped me..vo bolta h 12th m achi percentage laake uske cllg m admission lelu we'll be close sb thk hoga..I m just scared ki kbhi kch circumstances khrb hue to..🥲
Kaash yashvi yeh sb aapne phle communicate kr dia hotaa toh maybe uss toxic relationship se phle nikl jati jldi move on kr letiii. Bt it's never too late. Thank you 🩷
thanks yashi❤ Mene aise hi vid dekha and realised yeh sb toh mai krti ho i'm the toxic one i'll definitely work on myself infact that comfort part was the major one we'll def try to fix the things and get better
She is so rytt There was a boy who proposed me ,use to say I m fat and made me feel insecure about myself mazak mazak meh. I said no to him at the same timee causee i knew it would become toxier if i said yes. Apki video dekh kr I feel i made the right decision🙌❤
Helo di.. i want to know ki agr apka banda apse physically baate karra hai and he wants your nu**es aur aap us cheez se uncomfortable ho apko na bate karna pasand hai naa ye sab bhejna but he likes those things uslo lagta hai ki wahi pyar hai mai insecure hu mai over possessive hu wahi pyar mai kahi jane nhi deta apni bandi ko wahi pyar hai toh ap batao it is really love aur plus mai usse apni dil ki baat nhi keh pati na kuch kahi bura na lag jaye ya vo hurt na ho jaye toh please pleaaee please aap mujhe bataoo ko mai is relationship ko continue karu yaa end kyuki fix karna chah but vo blame mujhe kardeta hai meri nahi sunta aur mere passions nhi follow karne deta please reply kariyega i am so depressed about my relationship starting mai sab sahi tha par ab kuch nahi aur 2 yrs complete ho gye haii 🙏🙏😷
Look relationship is not only about sex but it is a part of relationship...Agr usko aapse pyaar hoga then vo aapki feelings jrur smjhega, aapke upr apni demands nhi thopega...you would have to tell him about your feelings...even after that if he doesn't understands then you should better take a step back...and as you mentioned he kinda stops you from doings certain things...this is not love...wake up...tell him and if he doesn't supports you, doesn't appreciate you, doesn't make you feel comfortable, you don't feel like he is the one, let him go...Trust on God , He always has better plans for you...😊
Agr wo ldka jo h wo ham p trust nhi krta because of his past relationship or koi misunderstanding ki wajah s toh kya us relationship m rhna chahiye pls mujhe ans dena because m bht hi confused hu
Maine communicate bhi karke dekh liya tha ki kish kish baato se mujhe hurt hota hai but he repeat again and again...... pehle dil dukhata tha fir sorry bolta tha.....jab limit cross gaya tha meri self respect ka dhajiya ban gaya tha.....toh maine break up kar liya tha....and usne suicide bhi attempt kar liya tha....pehle bhi kiya tha tab chance diya tha but bar bar chance kese de pati thi....meri padhai bhi barbad ho raha tha.....aaj 4 days ho gaya break up huwa....aaj pata chala uske liye ladki dekh liya...aab phone pe baat bhi hote hai....but main bilkul bhi tut chuki houn 💔....main imagine hi nehi kar sakti usko kisi aur ke sath....aab sirf panic attack ate rehte hai....5yr ka relationship tha.....kese move on karu kuch samajh nehi aa raha 😭💔
It can be tough but you need to accept ki samne wala insan ko tumhari prwah nhi h wo tumhe apne need ke according treat kr rha h... And just try to accept that he's not the one... Thoda time khud ko healing is a journey
I can't accept the fact man he was cheating on me since 8 months used to have sex with her every weekend even on my bday when i was waiting for him to call me and his gf confronted me that he cheated on me with 2,3 girls i just can't accept the fact he used to ily and all and yesterday he said i was faking with you i really loved him
In this age a lot of breakups are because family pressure because no one understands.. and even if the relationship is good.. we had to break up because of the pressure.. That move on is more difficult..
@@awesomeanime3644 vhi to yeee influencers yee kiyu nhi bolte ki mummy papa ke baare me socho career bnao kuch Karo bas relationship hi inka contents hai kud kma rhe hee or dusro ko gumra kar rhe hai 😂
But di i want to leave him but he can't let me go he never treated me the way I ever wanted n suddenly I chasing me like a mad person but uske sath rehkar kabhi aesa feel nhi hua ki uske liye imp hu kyuki he disrespected me when In front of his friends abuse me , now why he want me to get back , please batao di I need your help
Hi there i just want to ask my boyfriend never really listen to me and in my bad times he always leaves me but he shows that he just doesn’t know how to express his love but he can do anything for me what should i do Please reply
Aur uska kya yarrr jo mere dil mai mere hi pyar ki lash baan kr reh chuki hai but i can't get him back bcz wo ab kisi or ka hai lkn fhir mera kya maine tho pyar kra tha na 💔 but thankyou kyuki ab mere pss or koi option nhi uss insan ko bass dil se pyar krte rehna🙏 thnx for this great vdo i fell very good about the way you tried to explain bss isiliye taki ab kio or iss cheez se suffer na kre and it's a big thing🙈
My ex broke up with me because she didn’t communicate her problems at all, never had fights. She broke up out of the blue and told me about the problems later.
lol i am in the most healthy relationship ever, touchwood. i am not even kidding and still listening to her kyuki kya mst treeke se smjhati h ye bndi hahah
Didi mujhe apna relation smjh nhi ara h pls kbhi hm frnds hote h vo mujhse pyar krta tha but boards ate h usne mujhe ignore kr dya or bola sirf hm frnds h or m usse bhot pyar krti hu situation ship m video bnao pls 😢😢😢
Thank you yashvi di ye video bohot helpful thi aapke zyada tar videos helpful hoti ha aap bohot cute ho or aap bohot acche se har ek cheez ko explain karte ho love you so much di ❤️
He blocked me...our relationship was toxic last 6 months...3 years 6 months ho chuki h lekin abhi kuch thuk nhi h isse pehle Sob thik tha abhi Mere pass koi frnd bhi Nhi h jo move on karwa sake or 1 months m boards bhi h m kya kru kaise sab thik karun...plz tell me I really need ur help💔🙂
Mein bas yahi bolunga ki yeh sab bhul jao kuch nahi rakha en sab mein study par dyaan do kyuki study hi aapko kuch karke dega i know itna easy nahi hai bhulna yeh sab try karo yeh sab na socho joh aapko pasand hai voh karo family ke sath time spend karo thora bhar ghum lo reading karo bhout kuch hai and all the best for your exams ache se dena last mein yahi bolunga i hope aap study ache se karo take care God bless you stay blessed ♥️
A. How to identity toxic relationship? 1.When a person try everything very fast..Like meeting,dating, talking,gift giving..They do all this because they don't want to give time to you for thinking and use your IQ to difference what is right or wrong.This is called love bombing. They attached their code in your mind. 2. Stared future faking like show big future of love relationship, always try to attract other person through offering time,costly gift and seductive talk. 3. They started mirroring you that means first they collect knowledge from you what you like and what you dislike.Then they started liking, interest in those things in which you have like or interest to show empath that his mentality and empath mentality is totally same.They can read and copy you and also their behavior change as per people intentions..Their face mask changed people to people.. 4. They always hide their feelings and always show themselves as victim.Like family,friends,society all are against them and they always play victim card.They show themselves as very lonely,in problem,no one is for them. They show themselves such type of victim as they want heeling or support from other person. 5. They always like compliments from you but they dont give any compliments to you. 6. If you ask any question to them they will either delay ,avoid to reply or may change the topic. They never give direct answers to you. 7. During converstaion they always change the focus and topic towards themself. They never give you chance to express your thoughts.Ex-If a narcist go for shoping with his friends if you ask them,how is your shoping? They dont tell you about what they did shoping whereas they may say one of his friend jealous with him for his dress,they may say that in mall some girls stabing them in bad intentions.They create this type of fake story to make attention of other person towards him in every conversation. 8. They always target people who have strong personality, higher status than them or have lower status than them. Most of toxic relationship are comes under narcistic people. 9. They afraid when you talk about marriage with them because they afraid of taking any responsibility of marriage. Stage-2-Devalue/Gaslighting 1. Sometimes available sometimes not available.Avoid,ignore game,late reply,devaluing once they know you are fall in love with him.They ignore you for many reason like to get attention, admiration,energy from you.They also ignore you if you expose them or red handed caught them in telling lie or Cheating.They may ignore you if they found any other person in their life. They may ignore you as a punishment to control you and to make yourself dependent on them. 2. Never admit own fault. Telling lie in every matter. Shift own blame to other.If he red handed caught in telling lie then never admit own fault instead of started criticism to other person.This is called gas lighting.They started prove you that you are over possesive, over sensitive. 3. Used manipulate word,love word to others when he feels other person is far away from him. To hold on you or use you as a option for long time they confusing you showing love sometime. Sometimes show love and affection where as sometimes angry and quarrel with you on sily matters. 4. If you want his help for any situation he ignore to help you or they act like he forget or totally deny. 5. They always fall in love for sex, beauty,status not for love or emotions because they have no emotions at all.They always set a goal in every relationship. To achieve that goal they may go to any extent.They always cheat their partner in relationship. 6. They always try to control you.They try to cut you from your friend circle, family circle.They do this because they want that you only depend on them for talking,visiting and giving time..They dont to see you happy..and ultimately it creates co dependent relationship with them. 6. Sometimes they will like you. Sometimes dislike you.They always try to confused you. 7.After marriage they withhold sex to manipulate you.They used sex as a tool to control you or dominate you as per their will.Sometimes they dont do sex with their partner to control their partner. They are emotionless.Sometimes they show their love with physical touch to your body.If they stop touching your body to show love then you may make sure that narcist got any other person for them. Stage-3- Triangular love 1. They bring another person to his life and introduce him with his current partner. They will bring this type of situation where he avoid current partner. and told the current partner to adjust with his new partner.He may try with manipulate words,silent trick and avoid game. Through this type of work he forced his partner to accept his new relationship. 2. If you ask anything to narc about their new relationship they always tell you that you are over sensitive,over possesive, over caring,you are wrong,your thought process is wrong. Ex- They tell you that one of my friend text me and ask me about my beauty.when you ask who is she? Then they show you his mob screen shot to show himself very clean but hide the other part of conversation to confuse you and show you that you are wrong. 3. Sometimes they knowingly started argue with you till your all energy drain.They may not stop arguing with you till you are accepting your fault or say sorry to him.They want to blame you for everything. Stage-4- Discard 1. When they think that you are over possesive or not go as per their intentions then they will block you, discard you.They suddenly stop talking with you and started boycott,discarding you. Stage 5- Hoovering After 1 month,2 month or 6 month even if after 1 year they suddenly unblock you,started message you or started talking with you,recontacting you. They started all this because at that time they have no option,supply with him,there is no one with him.Thats why they need you. And again they started the same cycle with you till a another person come to his life. How to save yourself from toxic people? Ans:- 1. Just block him from every social media and never comeback to narcist person life. Go ahead and move on. Never in this life time try to contact him. If you try to contact with him they will definitely take revenge with you and will do the same cycle.If in future they text you or call you then dont talk with him or dont reply them.Dont prove them they are wrong and dont criticise them.If you reply them then they will started manipulating talk and their words will destroy your mind and peace.They will attach their code in your mind and you again faceing problem to avoid them.They will comeback to your life only to take revenge. Remeber You are the lucky person who escape from their control so you are their big enemy.This thing hurt their ego.So never Tey to communicate these type of people. 2. Don't search love from outside of the world.Connect yourself with god for love.Lord krishna and radha Rani will help you to get true love only.
Dii pleaseee tell Mee ,In my casee he was very possesive and all but I did some mistakes that I shouldn't do but dii i didn't want to hurt him intentionally andd he had me some chances but I love him soo mchh but now he thinks that I am liar and only using himm 👀👀👀 now sometimes he leaves my msg on seen and not showing that interest please dii tell me what to doo 👀👀
Hey, how to overcome a breakup where you don't even know why the other person left you. Like one day you're everything to them and the next day it's like, a strange behaviour towards each other.
Ek question haa aisa kaisa posible haa mam agar koi tumha phone nhi dikhta right aisa lagta haa jaisa ki kuch haa itni privacy laga rakhi haa usko lagta haa mai toxic hu
Di recently I’m going through breakup bt when he wants he calls he vc me bt i want nd i call he abuse me he doesn’t even talk to me properly..bt i am soo attached to him that I can’t leave so how to moveon
how can someone heal so many people without even breaking them ❤ hats off diii🥰
I adore the idea of corrective healing and making people believe in the right kind of love again🤍🤍
@@YashviBagga you are doing great♥️ thankyou so much for the reply🥹🧿
L question + L reply + L content + aint even funny
@@BHASMASUR then why are you even here boy?😂
@@YashviBagga hii dii i want an advice where can i text you/?
She's just a masterpiece bro😭❤️
I thought he was toxic but now I think I am toxic
Bro same, everytime in any argument I think he's toxic then I watch some videos like this and end up with the conclusion that I'm the toxic one 😂
Same here 😢😅@@it_does_make_sense
She literally best therapist ever and her words is really medicine for me💗
Imp points:
🤌🏻Ek doosre ki aadat dal gyi, par ek doosre ki aadato ki aadat nhi dali.
❤ CTRL- communication, trust, respect, love.
✨love is least important bcz it's The easiest. Mushkil toh CTR hai..Getting in relationship is easy!!
❤Relationship comes with responsibilities.
❤Ijjat pyaar se jaada important hai..samjho
❤Pyaar, attachment, commitment toh hai but staying toxic to each other!!
Wow !!! 😂😂
How was this so relatable😂😂
Thankgod I came out of that horribly toxic relationship... my ex had all of the toxic traits that you talked about.
And yes I've happily moved on and healed ❤
i was very respectful person but kabhi kabhi aisa hota hai ki dusre insaan apko itna taken for granted leta hai, dusro ko defend karta hai har waqt, value nahi karta apka, communicate karne se accha bhagna pasand karta hai toh kabhi kabhi ache insaan ka patience bhi khatam hojata hai aur woh bhi toxic ban jata hai. i am the example of it. although, i am not proud of using bad words in a relation and i dont wanna justify my mistakes but situation aisa bhi ho sakta hai. maine apni last relation se sikha hai. uska woh sab galti toh chup jata hai lekin aap itna agressive ho jate ho sirf apka mistakes reh jata hai bc his behavior cant be recorded but your words can be. but nobody talks about this. main toh verbal abuse pe utar gayi thi after being emotionally abused. par maine ek chiz sikha hai ki... is point tak tolerate hi nahi karna hai ki ap wo sab bolne pe majboor ho jao. red flags dikha toh tabhi chod dena hai attachment ki wajah se pakad ke nahi rakhna hai us insan ko jo apko khusi se jyada anshu deta hai
Same same🥲🥲I am also in same situation rn..fir kya huya tha?
@@angel_2417 phir kya hona tha..breakuo ho gaya..in a really really bad terms... my relationship lasted only 1 years but because it was very toxic..it took me nearly 6 months to completely get over him and be really happy. Before that i had 4 years of relationship but it was really healthy and it took me about 1 week to move on..even if i missed him it was on a healthy manner but what i experienced was..despite the duration of your relation the more toxic your relation would be the more time you take to heal to recover from the damages of toxicity...after we broke up..i stop using bad words and got back to my real/ normal self..he brought the worst out of me always so find some one who brings out the best in you ....take care and be happy..
Literally bro muje apne relationship se bhar aake itna free feel hora h... nd usko smjake bhi koi fyda nahi h instead of being sorry for what he did..he chosee to blame me hmm now i understood our relationship was toxic..
Us sis us!🤍
On the way ❤
I am a student and I am stuck in this toxic thing .I do not get over by this situation.your first vdo about this topic and this vdo helps me alot . I thank you for share this.....❤️
Whatever you said is so so true yashvi. I can't even begin to tell you that your video made me feel better. I had a breakup recently and the things you mentioned about the other person hesitating to have a conversation to avoid fights and missunderstandings, and a third person getting involved in btw our relationship is so true. He started feeling comfortable with sharing his feelings/about relationship to his friends rather than with me :') it felt so bad even when i have been the most understanding partner. How could he suddenly start feeling better to communicate with his female bestfriends than me :) I have never talked about our fights or misunderstandings even with my best friends but when he started doing that i could feel him going away. He was my bestfriend and now i really dont have anyone to talk about my feelings. After a really long term relationship i can 100% say communication and respect is >> love. Thank you :)
Ps: i have seen your reels on instagram handle where you have expressed few feelings about being in a relationship and i instantly felt a conmection.
I'm around your age and on seeing you being so confident and happy i just hope i move on and find happiness and peace too :)❤
You are really a big sister for those eldest daughters who don't have anyone to guide them ❤
My ex has demanded to get in physical relationship jab sirf relationship ko two months huye the…..and he said…ekbar jldi krenge fir chahe kuch time baad krle but ek bar jldi krna hai…. And pehle bhi kuch aisi chize he said jisse I got uncomfortable I even confronted but vhi blaming start that I was overthinking n all…..it was my fault that I agreed too early for relationship….but now I know what I want and what not❤…..it’s better to firstly know what you want guys…..don’t be in hurry relationship m aane k liye…it will only give you regrets firstly know each other…..❤someone who is truly meant for you…is coming soon❤
Tension mat lo ap mam. Khush raho ap 😊
It’s soo true 😢 really communicate is only the key for happiness
101% communication >> Love!
Thankyou u maked me realise that coz of some past misshappening i was turning to become toxic but ill stop these things
That why a best frnd who is ur life partner is rare to find ...one should marry best frnd whom u can be vulnerable and be urself ...if you cannot communicate everything falls apart ! Good points covered
If he truly loves you he will try to become better person... Even if he is toxic he will try to change his habits for you.. But that doesn't mean you have to fix him.... You are not his parent to try fixing his habits..... Do not give more than efforts... If he is not giving same efforts.
I felt it maine yahi kiya th 2 months m aa gaye communication, trust, respect th hi na bss pyaar th jiske karan pain mila Thanku for sharing it ❤
That "shut up" towards the end😂
Itni mature ldki pheli baar Delhi itni samjhdar ldki wow
She really teaches some very important things❤😌
Respect come first and very rare. One respect you most that's actually the love otherwise no love
Literally you are healing someone🥹
Yashvi didi I need your help...I m in 12th standard I have a bf vo merse 4 saal bda h cllg m h..vo meri pdhai ko leke bohut serious h usse pta h mere boards aane wale to pure din he is like pdhai kro..vo part time job bhi krta h uske bad rtko thoda time bhi deta h..I know apko lgega nibbi ya something but vo mujhe lekr bohut jyada serious h meri pdhai humara future career n all...meri family bohut toxic h bohut jyda so he help to heal things everytime..ik bar maine shorts pehen liye th to mere ghrwalon n mko ratko ghr s nikal Diya or thodi der baad andr lekr slapped me..vo bolta h 12th m achi percentage laake uske cllg m admission lelu we'll be close sb thk hoga..I m just scared ki kbhi kch circumstances khrb hue to..🥲
Kaash yashvi yeh sb aapne phle communicate kr dia hotaa toh maybe uss toxic relationship se phle nikl jati jldi move on kr letiii. Bt it's never too late.
Thank you 🩷
Yahi hota hai inshan heart break 💔 ke baad itna toot jata hai ki phir gyani ban jata hai..
Yashvi u r my therapist for sure....keep on making these types of videos we need this very badly 🥺♥️
I’m glad i could help babyg🤍🤍
thanks yashi❤
Mene aise hi vid dekha and realised yeh sb toh mai krti ho i'm the toxic one i'll definitely work on myself infact that comfort part was the major one we'll def try to fix the things and get better
I appreciate you a lot ❤❤❤❤ may you have a joyful life
She is so rytt
There was a boy who proposed me ,use to say I m fat and made me feel insecure about myself mazak mazak meh. I said no to him at the same timee causee i knew it would become toxier if i said yes.
Apki video dekh kr I feel i made the right decision🙌❤
Thankyou for being my unpaid therapist 🧿🥺
Just move on bro trust me alag sukoon milega bad me
Helo di.. i want to know ki agr apka banda apse physically baate karra hai and he wants your nu**es aur aap us cheez se uncomfortable ho apko na bate karna pasand hai naa ye sab bhejna but he likes those things uslo lagta hai ki wahi pyar hai mai insecure hu mai over possessive hu wahi pyar mai kahi jane nhi deta apni bandi ko wahi pyar hai toh ap batao it is really love aur plus mai usse apni dil ki baat nhi keh pati na kuch kahi bura na lag jaye ya vo hurt na ho jaye toh please pleaaee please aap mujhe bataoo ko mai is relationship ko continue karu yaa end kyuki fix karna chah but vo blame mujhe kardeta hai meri nahi sunta aur mere passions nhi follow karne deta please reply kariyega i am so depressed about my relationship starting mai sab sahi tha par ab kuch nahi aur 2 yrs complete ho gye haii 🙏🙏😷
Look relationship is not only about sex but it is a part of relationship...Agr usko aapse pyaar hoga then vo aapki feelings jrur smjhega, aapke upr apni demands nhi thopega...you would have to tell him about your feelings...even after that if he doesn't understands then you should better take a step back...and as you mentioned he kinda stops you from doings certain things...this is not love...wake up...tell him and if he doesn't supports you, doesn't appreciate you, doesn't make you feel comfortable, you don't feel like he is the one, let him go...Trust on God , He always has better plans for you...😊
Khush raho ap family sath time spend Karo Khush raho 😊
He just want you for satisfaction of his tharak just break up this is lust not love
I'm toxic. That's why I'm watching this video. I want to change myself.
You are best and cutest for sure and one more thing i have faced a lot I would say everything happens for a reason and lots of love from punjab ❤
Agr wo ldka jo h wo ham p trust nhi krta because of his past relationship or koi misunderstanding ki wajah s toh kya us relationship m rhna chahiye pls mujhe ans dena because m bht hi confused hu
I can relate bro so much tbh ❤
I'm glad i could help🤍
thankyou somuch for this vid really needed this today
People r not try to understand what is relationship are for n how can they communicate
People are too fast, that the only problem here! 🤫
toxic friendships pe banaoo... my whole life went in abusive family and bullied friendships
Bhayi mt kro fix sbhka tootega agar geniuen hoga toh ye toxic feeling aayegi hi nhiii 😂
Maine communicate bhi karke dekh liya tha ki kish kish baato se mujhe hurt hota hai but he repeat again and again...... pehle dil dukhata tha fir sorry bolta tha.....jab limit cross gaya tha meri self respect ka dhajiya ban gaya tha.....toh maine break up kar liya tha....and usne suicide bhi attempt kar liya tha....pehle bhi kiya tha tab chance diya tha but bar bar chance kese de pati thi....meri padhai bhi barbad ho raha tha.....aaj 4 days ho gaya break up huwa....aaj pata chala uske liye ladki dekh liya...aab phone pe baat bhi hote hai....but main bilkul bhi tut chuki houn 💔....main imagine hi nehi kar sakti usko kisi aur ke sath....aab sirf panic attack ate rehte hai....5yr ka relationship tha.....kese move on karu kuch samajh nehi aa raha 😭💔
It can be tough but you need to accept ki samne wala insan ko tumhari prwah nhi h wo tumhe apne need ke according treat kr rha h... And just try to accept that he's not the one... Thoda time khud ko healing is a journey
I can't accept the fact man he was cheating on me since 8 months used to have sex with her every weekend even on my bday when i was waiting for him to call me and his gf confronted me that he cheated on me with 2,3 girls i just can't accept the fact he used to ily and all and yesterday he said i was faking with you i really loved him
So relatable yashvi didu❤😢
99% related with my past relationships .... But it's really really over now
In this age a lot of breakups are because family pressure because no one understands.. and even if the relationship is good.. we had to break up because of the pressure..
That move on is more difficult..
Also dee, can you share your story? Relationship ka!
Are bhai bas yee relationship se acha papa ke bare me soch Mummy ka bond jo sab se acha hai bina kisi condesion kee ❤
Vo bohot badha bond hai mare bhai 😅
@@awesomeanime3644 vhi to yeee influencers yee kiyu nhi bolte ki mummy papa ke baare me socho career bnao kuch Karo bas relationship hi inka contents hai kud kma rhe hee or dusro ko gumra kar rhe hai 😂
But di i want to leave him but he can't let me go he never treated me the way I ever wanted n suddenly I chasing me like a mad person but uske sath rehkar kabhi aesa feel nhi hua ki uske liye imp hu kyuki he disrespected me when In front of his friends abuse me , now why he want me to get back , please batao di I need your help
Hi there i just want to ask my boyfriend never really listen to me and in my bad times he always leaves me but he shows that he just doesn’t know how to express his love but he can do anything for me what should i do
Please reply
I keep thinking ki he's gonna regret and come back to me! Dee i have my boards in a month. Im okay but i keep overthinking 😭
What to do when someone is not even leaving you and not talking too??
Kya sach bol rhi hain yaar ye didi ekdm maza aa gya mere saath yahi scene chal rha hai
pls reply in realtionship vibes match krna jaruri hai kya
Aur uska kya yarrr jo mere dil mai mere hi pyar ki lash baan kr reh chuki hai but i can't get him back bcz wo ab kisi or ka hai lkn fhir mera kya maine tho pyar kra tha na 💔 but thankyou kyuki ab mere pss or koi option nhi uss insan ko bass dil se pyar krte rehna🙏 thnx for this great vdo i fell very good about the way you tried to explain bss isiliye taki ab kio or iss cheez se suffer na kre and it's a big thing🙈
Hey yashvi please make a video on how you learn astrology and palmistry
aapne jo bhi bola bilkul sahi bola h didi
I hope so many girls watch this video bcoz every girl is chasing nowdays for seek attention 😢
yashvi bro why is relationship so much needed to be in trending. by the way teaching ur audience about impt topics are good, bro
I want to correct people’s idea of love and comfort everyone that follows me for the good!🙏🏻✨
Love you bro❤
My ex broke up with me because she didn’t communicate her problems at all, never had fights. She broke up out of the blue and told me about the problems later.
Moral of the story- stay single..
lol i am in the most healthy relationship ever, touchwood. i am not even kidding and still listening to her kyuki kya mst treeke se smjhati h ye bndi hahah
Didi mujhe apna relation smjh nhi ara h pls kbhi hm frnds hote h vo mujhse pyar krta tha but boards ate h usne mujhe ignore kr dya or bola sirf hm frnds h or m usse bhot pyar krti hu situation ship m video bnao pls 😢😢😢
Thank you yashvi di ye video bohot helpful thi aapke zyada tar videos helpful hoti ha aap bohot cute ho or aap bohot acche se har ek cheez ko explain karte ho love you so much di ❤️
You are healing something❤
Why is UA-cam recommending me this? I’m not even in a relationship.
Me too bro 😂
He blocked me...our relationship was toxic last 6 months...3 years 6 months ho chuki h lekin abhi kuch thuk nhi h isse pehle Sob thik tha abhi Mere pass koi frnd bhi Nhi h jo move on karwa sake or 1 months m boards bhi h m kya kru kaise sab thik karun...plz tell me I really need ur help💔🙂
Which class are uhh in??
@@kanishka_this_side 12th
Mein bas yahi bolunga ki yeh sab bhul jao kuch nahi rakha en sab mein study par dyaan do kyuki study hi aapko kuch karke dega i know itna easy nahi hai bhulna yeh sab try karo yeh sab na socho joh aapko pasand hai voh karo family ke sath time spend karo thora bhar ghum lo reading karo bhout kuch hai and all the best for your exams ache se dena last mein yahi bolunga i hope aap study ache se karo take care God bless you stay blessed ♥️
@@spygourav123 Thank you so much....next week se exam h padh toh rhi hu bas o yaad aa rha h🙂
Thora time lagega theek hone mein sab time ke sath sab theek ho jaega baki ache se padhai karo
Hatts of to you di. I swear this is the best video out there ❤ thank you so much for this
I feel there are even more aspects to it ('''''''''':
u should just pray if you find yourself in a toxic relationship🥲
Best video everrrr ❤ 9:46
it heals alot dii thank you and love you from kashii❤️✨️
A. How to identity toxic relationship?
1.When a person try everything very fast..Like meeting,dating, talking,gift giving..They do all this because they don't want to give time to you for thinking and use your IQ to difference what is right or wrong.This is called love bombing. They attached their code in your mind.
2. Stared future faking like show big future of love relationship, always try to attract other person through offering time,costly gift and seductive talk.
3. They started mirroring you that means first they collect knowledge from you what you like and what you dislike.Then they started liking, interest in those things in which you have like or interest to show empath that his mentality and empath mentality is totally same.They can read and copy you and also their behavior change as per people intentions..Their face mask changed people to people..
4. They always hide their feelings and always show themselves as victim.Like family,friends,society all are against them and they always play victim card.They show themselves as very lonely,in problem,no one is for them. They show themselves such type of victim as they want heeling or support from other person.
5. They always like compliments from you but they dont give any compliments to you.
6. If you ask any question to them they will either delay ,avoid to reply or may change the topic. They never give direct answers to you.
7. During converstaion they always change the focus and topic towards themself. They never give you chance to express your thoughts.Ex-If a narcist go for shoping with his friends if you ask them,how is your shoping? They dont tell you about what they did shoping whereas they may say one of his friend jealous with him for his dress,they may say that in mall some girls stabing them in bad intentions.They create this type of fake story to make attention of other person towards him in every conversation.
8. They always target people who have strong personality, higher status than them or have lower status than them. Most of toxic relationship are comes under narcistic people.
9. They afraid when you talk about marriage with them because they afraid of taking any responsibility of marriage.
Stage-2-Devalue/Gaslighting
1. Sometimes available sometimes not available.Avoid,ignore game,late reply,devaluing once they know you are fall in love with him.They ignore you for many reason like to get attention, admiration,energy from you.They also ignore you if you expose them or red handed caught them in telling lie or Cheating.They may ignore you if they found any other person in their life. They may ignore you as a punishment to control you and to make yourself dependent on them.
2. Never admit own fault. Telling lie in every matter. Shift own blame to other.If he red handed caught in telling lie then never admit own fault instead of started criticism to other person.This is called gas lighting.They started prove you that you are over possesive, over sensitive.
3. Used manipulate word,love word to others when he feels other person is far away from him. To hold on you or use you as a option for long time they confusing you showing love sometime. Sometimes show love and affection where as sometimes angry and quarrel with you on sily matters.
4. If you want his help for any situation he ignore to help you or they act like he forget or totally deny.
5. They always fall in love for sex, beauty,status not for love or emotions because they have no emotions at all.They always set a goal in every relationship. To achieve that goal they may go to any extent.They always cheat their partner in relationship.
6. They always try to control you.They try to cut you from your friend circle, family circle.They do this because they want that you only depend on them for talking,visiting and giving time..They dont to see you happy..and ultimately it creates co dependent relationship with them.
6. Sometimes they will like you. Sometimes dislike you.They always try to confused you.
7.After marriage they withhold sex to manipulate you.They used sex as a tool to control you or dominate you as per their will.Sometimes they dont do sex with their partner to control their partner. They are emotionless.Sometimes they show their love with physical touch to your body.If they stop touching your body to show love then you may make sure that narcist got any other person for them.
Stage-3- Triangular love
1. They bring another person to his life and introduce him with his current partner. They will bring this type of situation where he avoid current partner. and told the current partner to adjust with his new partner.He may try with manipulate words,silent trick and avoid game. Through this type of work he forced his partner to accept his new relationship.
2. If you ask anything to narc about their new relationship they always tell you that you are over sensitive,over possesive, over caring,you are wrong,your thought process is wrong. Ex- They tell you that one of my friend text me and ask me about my beauty.when you ask who is she? Then they show you his mob screen shot to show himself very clean but hide the other part of conversation to confuse you and show you that you are wrong.
3. Sometimes they knowingly started argue with you till your all energy drain.They may not stop arguing with you till you are accepting your fault or say sorry to him.They want to blame you for everything.
Stage-4- Discard
1. When they think that you are over possesive or not go as per their intentions then they will block you, discard you.They suddenly stop talking with you and started boycott,discarding you.
Stage 5- Hoovering
After 1 month,2 month or 6 month even if after 1 year they suddenly unblock you,started message you or started talking with you,recontacting you. They started all this because at that time they have no option,supply with him,there is no one with him.Thats why they need you. And again they started the same cycle with you till a another person come to his life.
How to save yourself from toxic people?
Ans:-
1. Just block him from every social media and never comeback to narcist person life. Go ahead and move on. Never in this life time try to contact him. If you try to contact with him they will definitely take revenge with you and will do the same cycle.If in future they text you or call you then dont talk with him or dont reply them.Dont prove them they are wrong and dont criticise them.If you reply them then they will started manipulating talk and their words will destroy your mind and peace.They will attach their code in your mind and you again faceing problem to avoid them.They will comeback to your life only to take revenge. Remeber You are the lucky person who escape from their control so you are their big enemy.This thing hurt their ego.So never Tey to communicate these type of people.
2. Don't search love from outside of the world.Connect yourself with god for love.Lord krishna and radha Rani will help you to get true love only.
So true neha i m in same situation literally i m a survivor of narc 2nd discard
@@BadBoy-hy9do workupon yourself..don't search love outside...Search it inside
Jo good listners hoty hain onhain anger pr bhi grip hota h they prove best in relations. Egoistic person destroy every blessing in love
Dii pleaseee tell Mee ,In my casee he was very possesive and all but I did some mistakes that I shouldn't do but dii i didn't want to hurt him intentionally andd he had me some chances but I love him soo mchh but now he thinks that I am liar and only using himm 👀👀👀 now sometimes he leaves my msg on seen and not showing that interest please dii tell me what to doo 👀👀
Block him😊
@@tanveerawarsi but I love him 👀
Ye koi problem nhi ha yr wo genuine insan ha block Mt krna wait karna uske MSG ka
Yashvi i want talk show related to emotion how to become emotionally strong 😢❤
Bro ur the best ❤🎉
Aaj yashvi ji relationship advisor bani hai🙂
Didi utilising her strong Venus 😂 😂😂
HAHHAHA LOYAL AUDIENCE KNOWS
Hey, how to overcome a breakup where you don't even know why the other person left you. Like one day you're everything to them and the next day it's like, a strange behaviour towards each other.
Accept the fact that it was a mere attraction for them that they mistook as love . I’m sorry you have to go through this🤍
Be happy always spend time with family. Helping poor. 😊
Focus on yourself also mental state get busy 😊
"Jab makeouts me sath ho toh kalesh me bhi sath rho na" I'm gonna cry
I was about to breakup today since I thought he is toxic but now it feels like i m the toxic one😢
You Are QUEEN 👑💝
dil tutne ke baad sab philosopher banjate hai.
Ek question haa aisa kaisa posible haa mam agar koi tumha phone nhi dikhta right aisa lagta haa jaisa ki kuch haa itni privacy laga rakhi haa usko lagta haa mai toxic hu
Yashvi you explain things very easily
❤trueee
I’m glad you could relate🤍
Main toxic hu...but kabhi kabhi lagti Hain vo toxic hain
Yashvi di your videos seems as if my sister is guiding me 🫶🏻🫂
Ma'am mujhe apki help ki need hai ..kya main apse personally baat kr skti hu🥺
Honest girl ❤😊
So on point
I need someone mann i need to know if i am in toxic relationship
Shewtabh gangwar😮
Di recently I’m going through breakup bt when he wants he calls he vc me bt i want nd i call he abuse me he doesn’t even talk to me properly..bt i am soo attached to him that I can’t leave so how to moveon
Hi mam family sath time spend Karo Khush raho ap 😊
Make a video on is it we have to keep our respect down in love?? Do we don't think our respect
Ye to 100% match kr geya mere conditions pr 😮
Just yaad kia tha 😂 ki or relationship tips video dalni chaiye aapko😅😅😂
Ab kal fun video yaad karlio, toh fun wali ajayegi🥰
@@YashviBagga waiting ❣️😂
Much needed Vedio thnku di❤️
You're soooooo beautiful so elegant just looking like a wow ❤
Did you and kanishk broke up
Should i just send this vdo to him??????🙂