You will never know how strong you are until you forgive someone who does not apologize, and accept an apology that you will never receive... Healing does not mean that the pain no longer exists, but rather it means that the hurt no longer controls your life... We forgive others not because they deserve forgiveness: Because we deserve peace."
Hello drishti I thank you for this video I watch your always and feel very connected to it . I am confused about my relationship because my patner doesn't support me whenever I try to do something new but I love him so I stop myself from doing that or I have to hide from it . What should I do 😅
@@Saijadhav151 This is very tough situation because 6 years ka relationship mtlb kafi long time h but agar aapka partner aapko support nhi kr rha to phir aapko choose krna pdega kisi ek ko
I loved the point about being an introvert and getting attracted to someone who is an extrovert and that's a gap or void inside us that has to be filled by working on ourselves and not looking for that elsewhere.
Exactly same happened with me. I was talking to this guy I met online. He was just so fun to talk to, as he knew all the topics and just so friendly and extroverted and being so happy and loud and cheerful. That's where I started liking him. Now I know it was my gap, of being a kind of silent boring nerd, wo always wanted that same energy that guy had.
Mera breakup toh nahi but rejection hai. And it really hurt me a lot. We were friends but after that he don't talk. I wanted to talk badly sometimes i used to text him but aise reply deta tha ki woh care hi nahi karta. It's been years now we don't meet, we don't talk. Now itna pain nahi hota jitna beginning phase mein hota tha. Abhi itna importance nahi hai uska mere dil mein which i had before. Life is going good. Working on myself. My career. Happy!! But searching for new.
The most crucial factor in healing is establishing no contact. It's akin to letting a burned hand recover - would it heal faster by repeatedly touching a hot stove or by giving it the time and space to heal without further injury? The analogy is clear, yet in relationships, we often find ourselves impulsively touching the "stove." No contact is designed to facilitate your healing process. It may be painful initially, but it's the key to your recovery. Remember, healing takes time, and the process might involve intermittent pain. However, with each passing day, you'll gradually feel better. Trust the process, and soon you'll find yourself completely healed.
@@anubhavverma8679 I really love the analogy that you created here😭 can you please elaborate a bit more on "no contact"? I can go months without talking to that person..but I am somewhat not able to stop looking over his social media accounts...everytime I stalk him over sm..I tend to feel more hurt but I am just not able to stop myself from stalking his profiles despite knowing the fact that stalking is gonna hurt me more🥲 at max I go 2-3 days without getting this urge to check his profiles. Then I down spiral and I go back to seeing his profiles.. it's so difficult to let go... i feel like i can't breathe .if you know what i mean😭😭 what is this no contact rule..
I had a terrible breakup 9 years ago, healed myself completely, never dated anyone in that phase. Had no faith in love. Worked hard and was selected as an officer, working for the security of my mother land India 🇮🇳 Last October, life took a turn and I fell in love again. A mature experienced man so to say, this woman made me realise why it didn't work with anyone else and beautiful life can become. Eventually she too left me due to family issues. She never tried convincing her parents. It has been a different journey right now, I hope I recover soon. Moral: No one loves you in this world apart from you yourself and if you are lucky enough your mother will. You should love your mother and your mother land only.
Well in my case my 9 years of relationship went into vain because I couldn't get the + symbol on my chest despite my best efforts and multiple attempts. Now I am looking for alternative to join capf as an AC. Life is really tough . After listening to you that even after being in service these things happen then I think it's on person . Jane wale ko koi nai rok skta hai.
Well in my case my 9 years of relationship went into vain because I couldn't get the + symbol on my chest despite my best efforts and multiple attempts. Now I am looking for alternative to join capf as an AC. Life is really tough . After listening to you that even after being in service these things happen then I think it's on person . Jane wale ko koi nai rok skta hai.
@@ishikajana2654you should do self love and prioritize yourself more so that in future you never get attracted to a man that doesn't give you love ,care and commitment because you deserve it.
One more think i want to share its just a reminder cozz i have face itt.sometimess when we ask help from someone like our frnds,family memebers anyone we slowly become dependent on them and we think kii hn ab jo bhu ho yeh toh haina meri baat sunne ke liye hamesha kitna bhii ek hi cheez repeat karo yeh hoge hii support krne thiss iss the moment we have to realise that we have beckme dependent on them cozz life is will have up and downs in future too and naybe you have to deal with the pain of breakup again and not everytime you willl have them to listen to you..yoi have to learn to be emotionally independent kn your own and to avoid expectations from anyone....i hope that you all have got my point....thank you ❤❤
I am suffering through this last 6/7 months and through this I try to give up my life for him but some reason god save my life and your video help me to move on from this situation thank you drishti di❤❤😊
Another thing- I have recently realised when I asked myself “ what do I miss about this person? “ and after self introspection found out that aisa kuch interesting ya captivating tha hi nei. It was my energy that was making the experience and the person so special.
From my experience, Whenever u feel like hugging that person and sleeping and wenting out whatever u hv in ur mind, just do it infront of god , tell him each and everything that u want to tell that person and feel free but never beg that person to come back, just feel like u r with urself and no one else can do that , remember u will remain with urself forever and ur god will never leave u and he always has best plans , trust divine plans❤ Dont try to control everything in ur life and trust god
Truth being spoken! Being a guy the only thing I can ask all the male viewers to please don’t create any disrespect or hatred for the person who left you. Heal yourself and make a better life for yourself. May God bless you’ll ❤️
@@sanjidasultana4073 same here...he promised me that he will only love me....but he got engaged recently .it seems like my whole world is shattered and I just don't want to live anymore
hey im not a professional at all and im going thru some stuff too so i understand.. maybe not as much as u do but im in pain too and i just want to tell u i love you and i am sending u virtual hugs
Just a random story of 2 ppl. They meet online, they talk, they start liking each other. He wanted a rltnship, but she had nothing more than platonic feelings for him. Eventually, they continue talking and he kept on proposing. One fine day she accepted, when she knew that she'd actually fallen for him. And then, just like how every story goes..she ended up getting hurt. They broke up just within a month. There was not 1 single reason for that breakup.Whatever be it, she was not yet ready to let him go. She tried giving themselves another chance only to end up getting hurt once again. But this time, the reasons made her prioritise her self respect, and to do the last favour when you love someone, i.e "the act of letting go.." It took 8 months to come in this rltnshp right from the time they started talking, but she still felt the same till the last day. Her feelings didn't change. It was true that he fell first, but she fell harder!
I've done such things that you've told in this video, I'm working on myself, but also there are such things to do. I feel that I'm on track. Thanks, Drishti Dii and also I'm thankful to the universe for being with me and guiding me every time.
@@_titasroy_ i slightly disagree on this one because i think when we truly love someone at least in starting phases we tend to care for that person alot more than ourselves and we expect(i mean its not the right thing to expect but we do) the same from them.
Sidhi bath no bakwas thanks drishti every line u have said has a lot of value in it i just felt u are talking directly to me 😂 much needed video at this point of time
This is the same which i feel in my life, Everything is relatable, Good Job dear, Your every video is so meaningful, recently I have started following you , You are so pretty and videos are genuine ❤
After 14 years of relationship..he said he can't marry me...he wanted to go with his family's Decision..i don't know what to do now..how to move on..I am feeling like maine sab kho diya😔 kuch bhi nahi bacha..
Bro, really? How can someone do this. 14 saal se khyaal ni aaya usko family ka. Aur usne pehle clear ni kara tha kya ke woh aisi situation m kya krega agar uski family naa mani?? We also understand ke family bahot important hai. But yrr, jis insan ko apne hope di, jo aap pe trust krta, pyar krta aap se, kya uska koi value nai? I can't understand when parents will start to understand choice and happiness of their children, that they force them to choose. Jo insan aapse pyar krta, woh bhi aapki family hi ban jata hai. Yeh kitna galat hai.. 14 yrs is no joke. Jo insan usko pyar krne wale ke emotions aur loyalty ki respect ni kar ska, uske liye khada ni ho ska, apna vaada poora krne ki himmat ni kar ska,I don't know woh aage kisi k sath kya hi nibhayenge. Sorry to say, but even i got hurt by reading what horrible phase you going through. I really hope that you heal from that person who didn't valued aapka sath.
Agar usmein himmat thi hi nai poori duniya ke samne aapka sath nibhane ka, toh aapko jhoothi umeed di hi kyu. Kya aap lokon ne discuss ni kiya tha ke in case families agree ni hoti, toh kya krenge woh? Zubaan bhi koi cheez hoti hai yrr, woh ajjkal ke insanon ne sasti banadi hai. Fir lok kehte hain ke ajjkal insan itni jaldi trust kyu ni karte, q ni believe krte efforts pe! I mean agar insan ko trust krke bhi end m yhi milna hai , toh acha hi hai ke insan jaldi kisiko bhaav de hi naa. Aise lokon se toh bache rahenge.. better single than being with someone, jiski fitrat itni jaldi change ho jayegi, sath nibhane ke time pe.
I can feel you it's ok dii... life h hoti rehti h cheze. Shyama ju hmari thakurani shree radha ju pe vishwas rakho 🫂... hmari maharani sab dekh rhi hain vo sab dekh rhi h preshan mat hona. Mera 5½ years ka relationship khatam hua h uske itne low efforts ki vjh se......for granted lene ki vjh se...... mushkil ho raha h mere liye bhi but it's okk shyama ju hain hmare sath ❤🫂
Best way to see things is being kind and forgive them i had 3 years relationship was nothing to that person why should I cry for that person or spread hatred I'm enjoying my own peace the time I gave and the efforts I put in that relationship I wished i had put that on me and now I'm it's so beautiful the world is beautiful drawing/art and the art can be draw with a broken crayon to i hope y'all find urself and learn to love urself cause no one will stay forever be kind to everyone even if they hurt u .you love them and forgive them a man who is kind and forgives is the best
Part 1HEALING 1 accept the reality 2 hope a good future focus on your good present things 3 they have their own journey 4 Every thing happens for a reason 5 fill the fulfillment by understanding that they were having what you wanted that's why you get impressed Part 2 DETACHMENT 1stay in no contact keep it yourself 2 go to the places where you cried 3 ask for help 4 don't get obsessed with someone,work on your self
its totally worth it to value our own priorities ,mindset & boundaries if we didn't value ourself how can we expect that someone else value ourself i am really feeling low not just a month or week but from 1.5 years now its time to heal . Its been first time that i watch your video and now i literally feel good i realise how much i cried i skip meals i skip my studies i face mental issues i face failures and what not just for someone's else presence and emotional availability its the time to heal bhai bahut hua i need to be mature selfish and not to be unnecessary available for everyone its ok to set boundaries and say no now i learn wo to mast hai apni life mai or main yha roo dhoo rahi hu just for a little love It's the good time to prioritize ourselves past is always be a past Thankyou yar ❤❤
Same Shruti mera bhi yahi sab chal raha hai aur kal meine galti se apne ex ko dost ke phone se stalk kardiya....to all who are reading this jab tak ache se move on nahi hue ho apne ex ko stalk karne ki zarurat nahi yaa phir unke life ke bare mein dusron se puchne ki zarurat nahi ki unka kya hua koi mil gayi kya unko...aapko hi dard hoga so don't do all this it will hurt you more and will make difficult for you to move on
And yes aapko koi dost kitna bhi samjha le jab tak aap khud nahi samjhoge no one can do anything...mujhe jab jab yaad aati hai I just come to this video and watch it...phir comments bhi padhti hun... anyway sab sahi ho jayega
He chased me from youtube ..we were really shared understanding, motivating each other bond ..but suddenly he blocked me because his family want him to focus on his studies ..and i didn't stopped him ..may he fulfill his parent wish ...if its meant to be together it will 😊
Well said main vi yehi manti hoo everything happens for a reason and also if something or someone hurt you breaks you for no reason just let them go with all your love to them and just be patienced ❤😌 universe sab kuch wapas deta hain ,,,,sabko😌
Since 2023 i have been scrolling a lot of videos lecturing a lot about breakups, manifestation this that . And i won't lie there's nothing new you've said today that i didn't know but i found a reflection of my own self aggressively telling me to just shut up and move on. As you said "enough of this get a life ". I am so grateful for your video i found today. I'll be visiting to this video again and again until i surpass this situation. Thank you so much ❤
I tried hanuman chalisa… it worked, as such kafi time baad shuru kee thee, but the way it worked is like magic… I feel any kind of seva, helping healing people…. Helps a lot in your healing journey..
i am literally going through the worst breakup of my life and i came to check if u have uploaded any self worth videos...as i did not expect a breakup video from you...but here you are, with one of the best video that i needed...it feels so damn good after listening to you... thank u for this...i hope i can heal myself soon...and i wish the same for the others too
Aap toh ek bestfriend jaisi lagi hmko ... ❤ Jisko mere baare me sabkuch pata hai ... Or wo hmko smjha rahi ... ❤aapki baaton se bahut himmat mili ❤❤ ....
Maine toh breakup ke baad apna sim hi change kar diya aur phone use karna band kar diya 1 year tak but abhi bhi kabhi kabhi uski yaad aati jab tak aap ki ye video nahi dekhi thi but now I understand ki jo hota hai aache ke liye hota hai thank you di for helping me ❤
Didi aapki break up vali theory excellent hai i would like to add something - TIME is the best HEALER, jaisa jaisa time bita jayga vaise vaise tumhe uss person ko bhul jaoge aur khudhke life mai busy hote jaoge aur ek time aisa ayga ki tumhe uss bad & good memories, and uss person ko iss najariyese dekhoge ki, "Are ha mere life mai bhi aisa khuch hua tha but janedo jo hua so hua muje uske bajese ek life lesson mila." And trust me i am one of that. So trust the process and take this time to become best version of yourself. Hope this is helpful ❤😊
You told us the main reason of why we fall in love with another person.. This route cause will definitely need to know us to heal ourselves..thanks for sharing such core things ❤ YOU are gods angel which helping people to make emotionally strong..Thank you God 💕and thank youhh for making such videos ❤
This is the video I needed. She exactly break down whatever I was feeling. I felt so much relief after doing what she mentioned in the video. Keep up the great work 🎉
Same hua mere sath bhi, I did things too many times after being forgiven many times, at the end she chose to leave me and I can’t stop blaming myself for it, now the time has gone even if I change now she won’t believe because it’ll just be another promise just like previous ones, this video is perfect for such situations
Abhi tk apne jitna bataya mostly every close one means who r close with me every one says this thing to me bt one few thing I notice which I heared new from u that is very helpful for me and thank alot to u to make this video..... Sach me itna asan ni hota kisi ak relationship se niklna ya wha se move on krna bhut pain full hota hai Bhagwan mere dusman ko bhi ye pain na de ese meri manokamna hogi bhagwaan se bhai bhut pain full hota bhut pain full........
This is the only video related to heartbreak or breakup that I can relate a lot and I really feel that connection...she explained it so simply that its easy for me to connect nd relate. Thank you for this video I needed the most now
Thanks for this video❤ I don't know how many times I have watched this video. Watching it has brought peace to my nervousness and anxiety. It's been 6 months since this happened. I don't hate him. May he be happy wherever he is. I wish I too could forget everything very soon.
Drishti Di this video is awesome ♥️ Thank you so much for this video because this video tell us how to see your life after breakup in a different way..♥️♥️♥️ I really need this.. Love you Di ..😌
Thank you so much for this video i truly needed. I had never ever imagined that this day would be come in my life. But we never know when the things turns and twist. We broke up and there is no way of togetherness, I want to move on and I'll give my 💯 in this phase. But it will be going to tough for me because he is my neighbour. Pain and sadness were never to be part of my life. despite all the things I believe in myself and one day i will be fine.
This is a godgifted video for me my dear friend.Aapka y attitude dekhkr mujhe ek inspiration mili Ki ab khud ko change Krna h move on Krna h thankyou sis ❤
Drishti di! I just love your channel. Trust me your storytelling skills is soo impressive. You are creator who constantly evolve/trying to be better in every video. You are supper amazing. The community you have built is really sooo precious :) your topic selection & all is just amazing. And one more thing...! Your video editor is great aswell :) his editing skills makes your video engaging and i see your recent themes of video are top notch as well (pink). Keep up the good work :) ♡♡♡
Hi Drishti You have been my healer....and I am actually going through a painful detachment process. I would request you to make more videos on how to heal and how to give imp to oneself and not become vulnerable
I was just going through this phase l wanted wanted to heal myself but didn't understood how to do so . I don't usually comment on any video but l did for this one. As a teenager l feel it was just the right decision to follow you
Actually you know what.. it's really easy for the ppls out there to give lectures around these topics when they're out of it/not dealing with it... The actual problem lies within those soules who are currently dealing with this.. it's really tuff to face a breakup in the initial stages..it takes time for ppl to accept and realise all those things which are happening constantly...so let's be a bit sweet and try to understand them instead of giving them bhashans Thankyou ❤
Oh absolutely! Whatever you said is so true and I agree to it but many people willingly be in that sad phase for a really long time. This video was a push for them to just start seeing their life in a bigger perspective and move on
Even though i am not into this phase but the life " har ek insaan ata hai aur kuch lesson dekar jata hai aur gar app lesson na sikho toh woh repeat hota hai" really got my chills .
Thank you so much. You're just like a big sister I never had, you're just like a big sister from whom I'd ask for support as a brother. I'm going through so much pain. I've given my partner everything I had, I've done everything I could but at the end, nothing really mattered. Everything hurts a lot. The moment you said, ro na hain to ro lo, I cried like a baby. I had tears in my eyes throughout the video. But I'll learn to accept. I'll try to get myself back. I really wish I could meet you and say thank you to you in person. I'm sure I'll feel bad again, but as you said, it takes time to heal a wound. And when it heals, it won't hurt again. I'll wait for that moment. The biggest mistake for me was to give my partner the power to my happiness. I valued my partner more than myself. My partner would do the same in the beginning, in fact I was the more down to earth type. The effort my partner put at first, the silly things that my partner would make me do, even though before meeting my partner I called those things cringe, these all changed the whole of me. I would get myself back. I will love myself again and this time nobody won't be my first priority, it will be me only. Thank you so much. I'll come watch this video again if I feel bad. Love from Bangladesh. ❤️
Hi Drishti, been following you since sometime now. There's always something new to learn from you. Whenever I see your video I always feel like I want more, I want to keep on talking to you. Today it felt like I was talking to a friend who is telling me bs bohot hua now's the time you get your shit together. Thanks for for putting this video. Definitely feeling ki aur sunti rahu, aap aur daaton.😂 Thanks a lot❤❤
We are really good friends...we are best friends, best buddies, and soulmates...but our relationship is just broke.. and it breaks me so much..I can't even think positively..I doubt myself so much right now..I can't eat, I can't sleep..I am so attached to that person..it's so difficult for me to live like this...I don't know what to do..I don't know how to heal..
We brokeup after few days i called him back but he said lets be friends now later we again can come in relationship, we loved eachother but we r not as happy as we were in past in this relationship and i was not totally happy being friend from a relationship all of sudden But after watching this video i realised calling back was my mistake so i texted him i dont want to stay as friends now i want time once i heal myself and overcome from the relationship. we can become good friends and i feel i took right decision this will help me to not dependent on other person ... I feel more relaxed 😌 thanks
Literally I'm so happy when i read the title because rn I'm also in that phase and sometimes it's difficult to tell someone else your video is so helpful to me ❤️
I m on my healing journey.. watched so many videos and usually not a person to comment..still I have to do for this video...." best break up and move on video on internet till now" thanks dear
Really, Didi I think, this time I can go forward with something new❤. I have been in an one sided love for 3years. Every time I tried tried, kept trying to win her but...now what is left is acceptance ❤. I have to heal myself, I have to go ahead for myself.
You will never know how strong you are until you forgive someone who does not apologize, and accept an apology that you will never receive... Healing does not mean that the pain no longer exists, but rather it means that the hurt no longer controls your life... We forgive others not because they deserve forgiveness: Because we deserve peace."
Words🙌🏻
You are absolutely right this is compulsory for our self peace
10000% agree with these words... 😊❤
Hello drishti I thank you for this video I watch your always and feel very connected to it . I am confused about my relationship because my patner doesn't support me whenever I try to do something new but I love him so I stop myself from doing that or I have to hide from it . What should I do 😅
@@Saijadhav151 This is very tough situation because 6 years ka relationship mtlb kafi long time h but agar aapka partner aapko support nhi kr rha to phir aapko choose krna pdega kisi ek ko
I loved the point about being an introvert and getting attracted to someone who is an extrovert and that's a gap or void inside us that has to be filled by working on ourselves and not looking for that elsewhere.
Exactly same happened with me. I was talking to this guy I met online. He was just so fun to talk to, as he knew all the topics and just so friendly and extroverted and being so happy and loud and cheerful.
That's where I started liking him. Now I know it was my gap, of being a kind of silent boring nerd, wo always wanted that same energy that guy had.
@@aradhya2109 and what you did then?? as exactly happened wid me too
@@aradhya2109 Same scenario happened with me... But this time she leave me unexpectedly 😔
Feels like a older sister is there Infront of us and giving us lessons ❤. Thank you di 😊.
Kash bade didi aur bhai really main itte close hote age gap ke wajase open nai ho patey
Yeh breakup wala topic toh bilkul hi unexpected tha😅😅❤❤
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Aaj kal youtube par sab therapist bane baithe hai !!!
But drishti you had said you were never in a relationship ! So how u saying just for sake of the video that u have gone through breakup!???
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Mera breakup toh nahi but rejection hai. And it really hurt me a lot. We were friends but after that he don't talk. I wanted to talk badly sometimes i used to text him but aise reply deta tha ki woh care hi nahi karta. It's been years now we don't meet, we don't talk. Now itna pain nahi hota jitna beginning phase mein hota tha. Abhi itna importance nahi hai uska mere dil mein which i had before. Life is going good. Working on myself. My career. Happy!! But searching for new.
Same here with me 😢
When I realise I got late...,
Mila ky? Nhi toh m bhi single hu 🥺
@@barshaxoxo oh same happened with me n I really wondered what was wrong. But still i moved on and successful in my career n all. Can we be frnds? 😊
@@ramagrawal4064 😂
The same happened to me. I feel very worthless as if i have no quality for someone to love me
Drishti decided to wake up and speak the truth 😅😭. Its always sooo peaceful to watch your videos, I really enjoy listening you.
The most crucial factor in healing is establishing no contact. It's akin to letting a burned hand recover - would it heal faster by repeatedly touching a hot stove or by giving it the time and space to heal without further injury?
The analogy is clear, yet in relationships, we often find ourselves impulsively touching the "stove." No contact is designed to facilitate your healing process. It may be painful initially, but it's the key to your recovery.
Remember, healing takes time, and the process might involve intermittent pain. However, with each passing day, you'll gradually feel better. Trust the process, and soon you'll find yourself completely healed.
@@anubhavverma8679 I really love the analogy that you created here😭 can you please elaborate a bit more on "no contact"? I can go months without talking to that person..but I am somewhat not able to stop looking over his social media accounts...everytime I stalk him over sm..I tend to feel more hurt but I am just not able to stop myself from stalking his profiles despite knowing the fact that stalking is gonna hurt me more🥲 at max I go 2-3 days without getting this urge to check his profiles. Then I down spiral and I go back to seeing his profiles.. it's so difficult to let go... i feel like i can't breathe .if you know what i mean😭😭 what is this no contact rule..
I had a terrible breakup 9 years ago, healed myself completely, never dated anyone in that phase. Had no faith in love. Worked hard and was selected as an officer, working for the security of my mother land India 🇮🇳
Last October, life took a turn and I fell in love again. A mature experienced man so to say, this woman made me realise why it didn't work with anyone else and beautiful life can become. Eventually she too left me due to family issues. She never tried convincing her parents.
It has been a different journey right now, I hope I recover soon.
Moral: No one loves you in this world apart from you yourself and if you are lucky enough your mother will. You should love your mother and your mother land only.
Well in my case my 9 years of relationship went into vain because I couldn't get the + symbol on my chest despite my best efforts and multiple attempts. Now I am looking for alternative to join capf as an AC. Life is really tough . After listening to you that even after being in service these things happen then I think it's on person . Jane wale ko koi nai rok skta hai.
Well in my case my 9 years of relationship went into vain because I couldn't get the + symbol on my chest despite my best efforts and multiple attempts. Now I am looking for alternative to join capf as an AC. Life is really tough . After listening to you that even after being in service these things happen then I think it's on person . Jane wale ko koi nai rok skta hai.
@@ishikajana2654you should do self love and prioritize yourself more so that in future you never get attracted to a man that doesn't give you love ,care and commitment because you deserve it.
One more think i want to share its just a reminder cozz i have face itt.sometimess when we ask help from someone like our frnds,family memebers anyone we slowly become dependent on them and we think kii hn ab jo bhu ho yeh toh haina meri baat sunne ke liye hamesha kitna bhii ek hi cheez repeat karo yeh hoge hii support krne thiss iss the moment we have to realise that we have beckme dependent on them cozz life is will have up and downs in future too and naybe you have to deal with the pain of breakup again and not everytime you willl have them to listen to you..yoi have to learn to be emotionally independent kn your own and to avoid expectations from anyone....i hope that you all have got my point....thank you ❤❤
Great point! Well put.
I am suffering through this last 6/7 months and through this I try to give up my life for him but some reason god save my life and your video help me to move on from this situation thank you drishti di❤❤😊
Same story bro just work on yourself on your career.. Trust me u are amazing just spend time with urself your family and god
Another thing- I have recently realised when I asked myself “ what do I miss about this person? “ and after self introspection found out that aisa kuch interesting ya captivating tha hi nei. It was my energy that was making the experience and the person so special.
You are right
That really helps thank you
From my experience, Whenever u feel like hugging that person and sleeping and wenting out whatever u hv in ur mind, just do it infront of god , tell him each and everything that u want to tell that person and feel free but never beg that person to come back, just feel like u r with urself and no one else can do that , remember u will remain with urself forever and ur god will never leave u and he always has best plans , trust divine plans❤
Dont try to control everything in ur life and trust god
Itna achhe se toh mera bada bhai meko nhi bolta ... Aap meri badi bhn jaise meko help krte ho thank you so much ❤ hamesa kuch rahiye aap di ❤️
Truth being spoken! Being a guy the only thing I can ask all the male viewers to please don’t create any disrespect or hatred for the person who left you. Heal yourself and make a better life for yourself. May God bless you’ll ❤️
'Only the scars remains' this is so real 😊
Recently had a breakup, and you uploaded this video. Im on my healing journey also☀️
You are right dear. We should not give importance more than our own self.
If one person brutally broke the trust will never be sincere again.
I don't have any breakup story and also I was never in relationship but still I love watching your videos. love you di.
After 10 years of attachment, relationship with someone. Now he is getting married to someone. I'm totally devastated right now.
@@sanjidasultana4073 same here...he promised me that he will only love me....but he got engaged recently .it seems like my whole world is shattered and I just don't want to live anymore
@@sanjidasultana4073 what are you doing now
@@sanjidasultana4073 me to abhi 1 hafte phele hua breakup
hey im not a professional at all and im going thru some stuff too so i understand.. maybe not as much as u do but im in pain too and i just want to tell u i love you and i am sending u virtual hugs
See, if they are able to marry someone why can't you?
The vedio is not just about breakup but also for the people who is healing in there life after separation or dettachment 💫✌️
Dear Drishti, i am currently going through this phase I literally needed this one. Thank you very much
Just a random story of 2 ppl. They meet online, they talk, they start liking each other. He wanted a rltnship, but she had nothing more than platonic feelings for him. Eventually, they continue talking and he kept on proposing. One fine day she accepted, when she knew that she'd actually fallen for him. And then, just like how every story goes..she ended up getting hurt. They broke up just within a month. There was not 1 single reason for that breakup.Whatever be it, she was not yet ready to let him go. She tried giving themselves another chance only to end up getting hurt once again. But this time, the reasons made her prioritise her self respect, and to do the last favour when you love someone, i.e "the act of letting go.."
It took 8 months to come in this rltnshp right from the time they started talking, but she still felt the same till the last day. Her feelings didn't change. It was true that he fell first, but she fell harder!
SO ARE YOU SHE OR HE COZI JUST WANTEDTO KNOW HOW SHE FELL FOR HIM
Lol it's like my story and yeah I fell harder
Detachment is so difficult. ...
But once its done...life is forever evergreen....and god right wala ko sahi tym pe bhenjge hin.
I've done such things that you've told in this video, I'm working on myself, but also there are such things to do. I feel that I'm on track. Thanks, Drishti Dii and also I'm thankful to the universe for being with me and guiding me every time.
I was never in a relationship but I'm still watching this 😭🗿
😅Yah same
Don't get into one until they want you for lifetime
Us🗿🥺
Also never try to be in a relationship, until both of you are so damn sure.
@@bhumi.810 so u wanna be 🙌 ha
"Koi zaroorat nhi h khud se zyada kisiko importance dene ki"- Best line❤ and practically applicable in real life too😌
@@_titasroy_ i slightly disagree on this one because i think when we truly love someone at least in starting phases we tend to care for that person alot more than ourselves and we expect(i mean its not the right thing to expect but we do) the same from them.
Sidhi bath no bakwas thanks drishti every line u have said has a lot of value in it i just felt u are talking directly to me 😂 much needed video at this point of time
This is the same which i feel in my life,
Everything is relatable,
Good Job dear,
Your every video is so meaningful, recently I have started following you ,
You are so pretty and videos are genuine ❤
After 14 years of relationship..he said he can't marry me...he wanted to go with his family's Decision..i don't know what to do now..how to move on..I am feeling like maine sab kho diya😔 kuch bhi nahi bacha..
Rashi... Apke pass sb kuch h dekho to ek baar piche mudd ke apke parents, apki family sb apka wait krr rhi h for your biggest 😊
Bro, really? How can someone do this. 14 saal se khyaal ni aaya usko family ka. Aur usne pehle clear ni kara tha kya ke woh aisi situation m kya krega agar uski family naa mani?? We also understand ke family bahot important hai. But yrr, jis insan ko apne hope di, jo aap pe trust krta, pyar krta aap se, kya uska koi value nai? I can't understand when parents will start to understand choice and happiness of their children, that they force them to choose. Jo insan aapse pyar krta, woh bhi aapki family hi ban jata hai. Yeh kitna galat hai.. 14 yrs is no joke. Jo insan usko pyar krne wale ke emotions aur loyalty ki respect ni kar ska, uske liye khada ni ho ska, apna vaada poora krne ki himmat ni kar ska,I don't know woh aage kisi k sath kya hi nibhayenge. Sorry to say, but even i got hurt by reading what horrible phase you going through. I really hope that you heal from that person who didn't valued aapka sath.
Agar usmein himmat thi hi nai poori duniya ke samne aapka sath nibhane ka, toh aapko jhoothi umeed di hi kyu. Kya aap lokon ne discuss ni kiya tha ke in case families agree ni hoti, toh kya krenge woh? Zubaan bhi koi cheez hoti hai yrr, woh ajjkal ke insanon ne sasti banadi hai. Fir lok kehte hain ke ajjkal insan itni jaldi trust kyu ni karte, q ni believe krte efforts pe! I mean agar insan ko trust krke bhi end m yhi milna hai , toh acha hi hai ke insan jaldi kisiko bhaav de hi naa. Aise lokon se toh bache rahenge.. better single than being with someone, jiski fitrat itni jaldi change ho jayegi, sath nibhane ke time pe.
@@rashi32104 don't worry love ur self and i mean seriously love urself
I can feel you it's ok dii... life h hoti rehti h cheze. Shyama ju hmari thakurani shree radha ju pe vishwas rakho 🫂... hmari maharani sab dekh rhi hain vo sab dekh rhi h preshan mat hona. Mera 5½ years ka relationship khatam hua h uske itne low efforts ki vjh se......for granted lene ki vjh se...... mushkil ho raha h mere liye bhi but it's okk shyama ju hain hmare sath ❤🫂
Drishti making such kind of unexpected video on breakup feel like resently she has gone through it
Best most complete video on dealing with breakups. Thank you 🙏😊❤
Best way to see things is being kind and forgive them i had 3 years relationship was nothing to that person why should I cry for that person or spread hatred I'm enjoying my own peace the time I gave and the efforts I put in that relationship I wished i had put that on me and now I'm it's so beautiful the world is beautiful drawing/art and the art can be draw with a broken crayon to i hope y'all find urself and learn to love urself cause no one will stay forever be kind to everyone even if they hurt u .you love them and forgive them a man who is kind and forgives is the best
Part 1HEALING
1 accept the reality
2 hope a good future focus on your good present things
3 they have their own journey
4 Every thing happens for a reason
5 fill the fulfillment by understanding that they were having what you wanted that's why you get impressed
Part 2 DETACHMENT
1stay in no contact keep it yourself
2 go to the places where you cried
3 ask for help
4 don't get obsessed with someone,work on your self
its totally worth it to value our own priorities ,mindset & boundaries if we didn't value ourself how can we expect that someone else value ourself i am really feeling low not just a month or week but from 1.5 years now its time to heal . Its been first time that i watch your video and now i literally feel good i realise how much i cried i skip meals i skip my studies i face mental issues i face failures and what not just for someone's else presence and emotional availability its the time to heal bhai bahut hua i need to be mature selfish and not to be unnecessary available for everyone its ok to set boundaries and say no now i learn wo to mast hai apni life mai or main yha roo dhoo rahi hu just for a little love
It's the good time to prioritize ourselves past is always be a past
Thankyou yar ❤❤
Same mere sath ho raha hai samajh nahin a raha kya karun bahut questions hai main aapse baat kar sakta hun Shruti ji
Same Shruti mera bhi yahi sab chal raha hai aur kal meine galti se apne ex ko dost ke phone se stalk kardiya....to all who are reading this jab tak ache se move on nahi hue ho apne ex ko stalk karne ki zarurat nahi yaa phir unke life ke bare mein dusron se puchne ki zarurat nahi ki unka kya hua koi mil gayi kya unko...aapko hi dard hoga so don't do all this it will hurt you more and will make difficult for you to move on
And yes aapko koi dost kitna bhi samjha le jab tak aap khud nahi samjhoge no one can do anything...mujhe jab jab yaad aati hai I just come to this video and watch it...phir comments bhi padhti hun... anyway sab sahi ho jayega
@ananyanayak5295 move on bus ek word hn fir kyon i itna pass jab pata tha 😞
Isbar to drishti ka alag hi roop dekhne ko mila...par it's really helpful so thank you drishti didi ❤
He chased me from youtube ..we were really shared understanding, motivating each other bond ..but suddenly he blocked me because his family want him to focus on his studies ..and i didn't stopped him ..may he fulfill his parent wish
...if its meant to be together it will 😊
@@Rashiiii1111 chased you from yt how?
@@Rashiiii1111 hey hii 👋
Well said main vi yehi manti hoo everything happens for a reason and also if something or someone hurt you breaks you for no reason just let them go with all your love to them and just be patienced ❤😌 universe sab kuch wapas deta hain ,,,,sabko😌
Since 2023 i have been scrolling a lot of videos lecturing a lot about breakups, manifestation this that . And i won't lie there's nothing new you've said today that i didn't know but i found a reflection of my own self aggressively telling me to just shut up and move on. As you said "enough of this get a life ".
I am so grateful for your video i found today. I'll be visiting to this video again and again until i surpass this situation. Thank you so much ❤
I hope you find strength to deal with this❤️
@@drishtiispeaks Thank you for this lots of love 💗
Thank u didi @@drishtiispeaks
I tried hanuman chalisa… it worked, as such kafi time baad shuru kee thee, but the way it worked is like magic…
I feel any kind of seva, helping healing people…. Helps a lot in your healing journey..
i am literally going through the worst breakup of my life and i came to check if u have uploaded any self worth videos...as i did not expect a breakup video from you...but here you are, with one of the best video that i needed...it feels so damn good after listening to you... thank u for this...i hope i can heal myself soon...and i wish the same for the others too
Wish you strength❤️
No words…YOU ARE HEELING🫂💗your way of giving lessons and advice is just a fantastic❤️🔥
Aap toh ek bestfriend jaisi lagi hmko ... ❤ Jisko mere baare me sabkuch pata hai ... Or wo hmko smjha rahi ... ❤aapki baaton se bahut himmat mili ❤❤ ....
Perfect timing because i broke up 2 weeks ago without reason and..... It's difficult.. It really is
so how ya doing now?
Hope you are doing good❤
you are strong. it will be okay.
@@senpai0015 I am quite better though I still just love him so so so much but i have accepted the fact that it was all just a happy dream
@@sonalikaaaaa 🥺❤
You have explained everything in realistic way
I think,
Time never heals us, time just teaches us to live with the Pain we got.❤️🩹
- Itachi ucchia -
~~~ Itachi ucchia ~~
❤🙌
Maine toh breakup ke baad apna sim hi change kar diya aur phone use karna band kar diya 1 year tak but abhi bhi kabhi kabhi uski yaad aati jab tak aap ki ye video nahi dekhi thi but now I understand ki jo hota hai aache ke liye hota hai thank you di for helping me ❤
1 saal tak phone use nai Kiya seriously 😳
@@akshatkashyap7285 yes
I didn't want this video to end, I'm gonna keep coming back to this
Didi aapki break up vali theory excellent hai i would like to add something - TIME is the best HEALER, jaisa jaisa time bita jayga vaise vaise tumhe uss person ko bhul jaoge aur khudhke life mai busy hote jaoge aur ek time aisa ayga ki tumhe uss bad & good memories, and uss person ko iss najariyese dekhoge ki, "Are ha mere life mai bhi aisa khuch hua tha but janedo jo hua so hua muje uske bajese ek life lesson mila." And trust me i am one of that.
So trust the process and take this time to become best version of yourself. Hope this is helpful ❤😊
thats beautiful ❣and helpful❣
It was soo realllll... Without any filter
This girl has all my heart ❤️ .Thank you so much for spreading positivity among people ❤
Hey hii 👋
Not a breakup but really really a best person I got in my life
You told us the main reason of why we fall in love with another person..
This route cause will definitely need to know us to heal ourselves..thanks for sharing such core things ❤
YOU are gods angel which helping people to make emotionally strong..Thank you God 💕and thank youhh for making such videos ❤
Self love is always the best!
This is the video I needed. She exactly break down whatever I was feeling. I felt so much relief after doing what she mentioned in the video. Keep up the great work 🎉
Ladke kabhi chhodte nhi hai...woh harkat aisi karte hein jisse ladki khud hi chhod ke chli jaye...😊
@@ShivaniSingh-eb8tt and in my case girl do the same
Itna sach bola aapne 😂😂😂😂😂
Same hua mere sath bhi, I did things too many times after being forgiven many times, at the end she chose to leave me and I can’t stop blaming myself for it, now the time has gone even if I change now she won’t believe because it’ll just be another promise just like previous ones, this video is perfect for such situations
@@ShivaniSingh-eb8tt usne to chhod dia mujhe
Thank you so much for sharing
I really need this
Plz make a complete playlist on this topic
Abhi tk apne jitna bataya mostly every close one means who r close with me every one says this thing to me bt one few thing I notice which I heared new from u that is very helpful for me and thank alot to u to make this video.....
Sach me itna asan ni hota kisi ak relationship se niklna ya wha se move on krna bhut pain full hota hai
Bhagwan mere dusman ko bhi ye pain na de ese meri manokamna hogi bhagwaan se bhai bhut pain full hota bhut pain full........
I was crying while watching the whole video!!!😭😭
Thankyou so much😭😭❤️❤️
@@flywithritz18 same bro 🥲🙌🏻
THANKU DIRSHTI❤❤❤ much love and hugs to you too🙌💓
This is the only video related to heartbreak or breakup that I can relate a lot and I really feel that connection...she explained it so simply that its easy for me to connect nd relate. Thank you for this video I needed the most now
May Allah Pak bless you with richness of Imaan. Ameeeen
I wish I had seen this video a few days ago but still thanks to you
Thanks for this video❤
I don't know how many times I have watched this video. Watching it has brought peace to my nervousness and anxiety. It's been 6 months since this happened.
I don't hate him. May he be happy wherever he is.
I wish I too could forget everything very soon.
Very helpful... Jo toxic relationship mai hai unke liye v....ak himmat aa jata hai chhorne ka
Drishti Di this video is awesome ♥️
Thank you so much for this video because this video tell us how to see your life after breakup in a different way..♥️♥️♥️
I really need this..
Love you Di ..😌
Pain will give rise to momentary peace.
Thank you so much for this video i truly needed. I had never ever imagined that this day would be come in my life. But we never know when the things turns and twist. We broke up and there is no way of togetherness, I want to move on and I'll give my 💯 in this phase. But it will be going to tough for me because he is my neighbour. Pain and sadness were never to be part of my life. despite all the things I believe in myself and one day i will be fine.
Aapka bhi dil tod diya kisine ??
Just there is only thing ..Joo hota hai ache ke liye hota hai❤
Much needed motivation!!
Thankyou❤
This is a godgifted video for me my dear friend.Aapka y attitude dekhkr mujhe ek inspiration mili Ki ab khud ko change Krna h move on Krna h thankyou sis ❤
Very well said ..thank you for the video n giving the reality about breakup n thank you for motivating to move on 😊
In this 14 min video ,you have settled all my emotions from which I was struggling from last month .Genuinely thank you for it 🥹🙌🏼!!
your video healed me much without doing any thing
Drishti di! I just love your channel. Trust me your storytelling skills is soo impressive. You are creator who constantly evolve/trying to be better in every video. You are supper amazing. The community you have built is really sooo precious :) your topic selection & all is just amazing. And one more thing...! Your video editor is great aswell :) his editing skills makes your video engaging and i see your recent themes of video are top notch as well (pink). Keep up the good work :) ♡♡♡
Hi Drishti
You have been my healer....and I am actually going through a painful detachment process.
I would request you to make more videos on how to heal and how to give imp to oneself and not become vulnerable
Definately❤️
I was just going through this phase l wanted wanted to heal myself but didn't understood how to do so . I don't usually comment on any video but l did for this one. As a teenager l feel it was just the right decision to follow you
I'm am so happy to hear this❤️
If you are this much saved post trauma then your therapist must be really good.
Actually you know what.. it's really easy for the ppls out there to give lectures around these topics when they're out of it/not dealing with it...
The actual problem lies within those soules who are currently dealing with this.. it's really tuff to face a breakup in the initial stages..it takes time for ppl to accept and realise all those things which are happening constantly...so let's be a bit sweet and try to understand them instead of giving them bhashans
Thankyou ❤
Oh absolutely! Whatever you said is so true and I agree to it but many people willingly be in that sad phase for a really long time. This video was a push for them to just start seeing their life in a bigger perspective and move on
Forgive and forget and move on
How to deal with parents pressure for career as a 12th students plz tell
Thank God drishti ji ka koi relaship nhi tha😊
Seeing comment section I can see it's the man who's making women vulnerable
Even though i am not into this phase but the life " har ek insaan ata hai aur kuch lesson dekar jata hai aur gar app lesson na sikho toh woh repeat hota hai" really got my chills .
Ms. Sharma thanks a ton!
You have helped me a lot 🤗
GBu always ✨
It's my humble request you to pls make a vedio on consistency....!!!!!
you disrespect yourself everytime you go back to someone who disrespected you..!!!
Thank you so much. You're just like a big sister I never had, you're just like a big sister from whom I'd ask for support as a brother. I'm going through so much pain. I've given my partner everything I had, I've done everything I could but at the end, nothing really mattered. Everything hurts a lot. The moment you said, ro na hain to ro lo, I cried like a baby. I had tears in my eyes throughout the video. But I'll learn to accept. I'll try to get myself back. I really wish I could meet you and say thank you to you in person. I'm sure I'll feel bad again, but as you said, it takes time to heal a wound. And when it heals, it won't hurt again. I'll wait for that moment. The biggest mistake for me was to give my partner the power to my happiness. I valued my partner more than myself. My partner would do the same in the beginning, in fact I was the more down to earth type. The effort my partner put at first, the silly things that my partner would make me do, even though before meeting my partner I called those things cringe, these all changed the whole of me. I would get myself back. I will love myself again and this time nobody won't be my first priority, it will be me only. Thank you so much. I'll come watch this video again if I feel bad. Love from Bangladesh. ❤️
Pain is the only thing i have left of her, I cannot let go of it
Di m aapko bata ni sakta aapki videos ne meri life kitni change ki hai than you so so much di very very love you💝
Hi Drishti, been following you since sometime now. There's always something new to learn from you. Whenever I see your video I always feel like I want more, I want to keep on talking to you. Today it felt like I was talking to a friend who is telling me bs bohot hua now's the time you get your shit together. Thanks for for putting this video. Definitely feeling ki aur sunti rahu, aap aur daaton.😂 Thanks a lot❤❤
Haha that's such a cute thing to say🙌🏻
Thank you so much, it was a really great video. Really needed this. And finally got it. I am really grateful.
We are really good friends...we are best friends, best buddies, and soulmates...but our relationship is just broke.. and it breaks me so much..I can't even think positively..I doubt myself so much right now..I can't eat, I can't sleep..I am so attached to that person..it's so difficult for me to live like this...I don't know what to do..I don't know how to heal..
We brokeup after few days i called him back but he said lets be friends now later we again can come in relationship, we loved eachother but we r not as happy as we were in past in this relationship and i was not totally happy being friend from a relationship all of sudden
But after watching this video i realised calling back was my mistake so i texted him i dont want to stay as friends now i want time once i heal myself and overcome from the relationship. we can become good friends and i feel i took right decision this will help me to not dependent on other person ... I feel more relaxed 😌 thanks
Finally apki video aagyi apki video ka intezaar tha because buht demotivate hori thi ap always motivate krdete ho you are adorable diidiii🌸💗💐💐💐
Literally I'm so happy when i read the title because rn I'm also in that phase and sometimes it's difficult to tell someone else your video is so helpful to me ❤️
You tell everything in such a crisp level and most importantly u give most realistic stuff❤
I am glad you found it helpful✨
It's very easy to explain things, but really hard to overcome 😢
Today Relationship Breakup Totally Waste of Time Because They'll Not Exist in Reality and Now a Days
2:20 .. khud ki koi life nhi h kya apki... Hits hard 🫣
I m on my healing journey.. watched so many videos and usually not a person to comment..still I have to do for this video...." best break up and move on video on internet till now" thanks dear
Wish you strength❤️
Really, Didi I think, this time I can go forward with something new❤. I have been in an one sided love for 3years. Every time I tried tried, kept trying to win her but...now what is left is acceptance ❤.
I have to heal myself, I have to go ahead for myself.
I was in healthy relationship from last two years fir bhi me ye video dekh rhi hu age kam aayegi krke 😂😂
Mee too 😂
Mee also 🕶️😙
Mee too ✌️🕶️🌝
Just be aware of the third person and everything will be fine
I am watching this, even though I am not in any relationship nor even I had a break up 😅😅