western women are feminists, feminism requires the destruction of family (the foundation of society) so society can be replaced by govt, aka communism. MGTOW is men being emotionally intelligent by avoiding feminism aka communism.
@@doha057 It's not everywhre but it's way way to common. Let societies that appreciate their men continue, not those that show up CONTEMPT. Never help, never approach, definitely never hire.
That's the illusion. You have no freedom. We are all at the mercy of our governments, our biology, our feelings. We ugly / undesired men are shackled basically from birth. You aren't free, that's a cope. We are discarded action figures in a toy box. Never to be used again. That's hardly freedom. Stop the cope. No replies will be seen
@@Twotone-ld1fbit's almost stacked against us men. Vasectomy ? Is a good bet. But some men genuinely love kids. Pre nuptial ? But then, does that mean there'll be love and trust in the marriage ? God and faith ? But then some people use that as a trick to look good.
@@cammontreuil7509 I think a prenup can also show you care about your spouse, because it shows your trying to lesson future temptations she might face from the world and others. Women tend to make a lot of bad decisions when they get emotional and then regret them latter. A prenup would add some leverage to help counter the bad decision made in an emotional backed by feminist environments moment.
I have loved and cared for two women in my life. My second wife left me about 3 months ago. She moved on and is happy being single. I took her out for lunch yesterday on her birthday, and we had a nice time. But, I am lost. Women need to know men get jilted, too. I was texting someone, but cut that off as well. Like he said; it's the attitude. Money doesn't grow on trees. We men get abused by our customers at work. When I get home, I just want quiet, now. Companionship was nice but not worth the loneliness and heartbreak. Sorry, gals. Our mom's created this situation, and I lost respect for my mom before she passed. What one of the other guys texted was true. Even when we are with a modern woman, we're alone. So we might as well just forgo the drama, be that way for the rest of our days. Luckily, I am old enough it just doesn't matter!
You need a woman in your life to bring you Drama, Chaos, Confusion, her Rug Rat legacy, and lots of spending and debt. You are missing out on the American Dream. Jump in the miserable pool with all the other men in the pool pretending they are happy.
It's not good. What you got is simply less bad. No man will feel truly happy, until he has someone to care for. It is what it is. We can take the truth.
Was married to my high-school sweetheart for 29 years, over that time she became more and more spiteful towards me because I didn't have a high paying job, couldn't buy her the 80k car and eventually when her salary surpassed mine, she began saying that she didn't need me anymore, began telling our daughters " don't make the same mistake I made by marrying a loser!" I tried telling her that this marriage is supposed to be a partnership, not a competition, she eventually divorced me, took the usual stuff, house,car,etc. Why did I stay so long? Probably because I didn't want to quit hoping that she ( the woman I'd married) was still in there, but she's gone. I dated a few times since then ,but the truth is that id rather be alone, My house is now paid for, my car is too, and I am debt free, My days are filled with peace, I come and go whenever/wherever I want and the only one I have to answer to is my Border Collie, ( she gets upset when I don't always take her to the woods with me 😅) I hear the stories about what the dating scene is like now and it just validates my currrent lifestyle. No thanks, a quiet evening spent in God's word is all I need. Oh and an occasional day fishing a great trout stream works too. Good luck to the young people out there, you're gonna need it.
That's heartbreaking brother. I know you have peace now but you deserved better. If God happens to bring a deserving gal back into your life don't automatically reject her. It goes without saying that you'll be skeptical and careful. Just don't let your tragic experience harden your heart. I'm speaking as a blessed man married to a good woman for 34 years so I realize that I can't see things exactly like you. I guess I'm sensitive to this type of situation right now because both of my sons are so desperately wanting to find a good woman as I did and they can't seem to find one. They are beyond discouraged about it. Since their mother and I refuse to meddle in their personal lives we are starting to grapple with the idea of not having grandchildren. That adds to my heartbreak but that could seem selfish I suppose. My real pain is whatching my boys struggle due to their natural desires not being obtained.
Glad you're making it through. Similar thing happened to me. We split after 30+ years married; reasons unknown. She lost the "feels", whatever the hell that means. Now, after 4 years, my life is really good. I'm MGTOW basically monk-mode; I have a really bad opinion of women, in general. Trying to find a local fly-fishing spot, but no luck yet!
Same similar story here after 29 years. Although my ex never came close to my income. She moved to a different state when our last child started college. According to the four children, she was a horrible mother. 3 of them by their choice have zero relationships. They all asked me at different times why I stayed. My reply was always for you children. I lost everything in court. Started over at age 56. I worked myself from day one into a very high paying career. I was pay check to pay check for 29 years. For the first time in my life, I am considered wealthy. By the way, I heard the ex spent all the cash, stocks, and alimony on drinks and partying. She has not spoken to 3 children for a decade. She’s renting a room from Craig’s list. The $4k a month for the rest of her life cannot cover her lifestyle. Me, I’m free to do whatever I decide. I keep a quiet life outside of work. Unless, I’m with my children and grandkids, then it’s quite loud. ❤ MGTOW for life. In my career, I meet hundreds of women yearly. My company’s divorce rate is 83%. The women I meet are from every walk of life. The only common trait is, they all are western women. The fit, feminine and respectful ladies are from rural areas of eastern countries. These beautiful ladies desire to be a wife and raise children. I advise my boys to never marry a western woman. I lost all faith in them.
@@Twotone-ld1fb they’re being raised by single mothers. I saw a group of 6 kids in their late 20’s standing around a car in church parking lot. They were googling how to change a flat tire. The tire was shredded!! I stood there and watched for a while, just for giggles. I finally explained to them that their lower ball joint had broken, and that’s why it was laying at a weird angle and looked like shredded wheat. They told me I didn’t know what I was talking about, and the spare tire would fix it.
There is a reason a man can sit on a river bank for a whole day fishing , all day on a golf course , all day hiking , all day planting flowers in a garden . Nature is soothing and calming .
I have been Divorced for 47 years, OWN my own Townhouse, pay CASH when I buy a car, tour up credit cards also 47 years ago, living HAPPILY EVER AFTER!! God Bless.
Divorced 14 years ago, no kids, quit dating at all about 6-7 years ago because it’s just not worth it anymore. If you don’t have a prison record, substance abuse problem, and tats…. Women just aren’t interested…. And those still available in the 40+ age range have bought the whole ‘modern feminism’ world view. No thanks, I’m out.
I purchased 10 acres, moved to a rural area, I wake up to nature every morning, adjust my solar panels, to recharge my batteries by noon. I have a few payouts, gas for my vehicle, and water for 35 bucks per month. My Peace is priceless!
@@jasonzacharias2150Correct and their main weapon in this war against society are women...We as men cannot change the situation, we can only left them behind.
I'm 41, single, male. I've never had a GF. My mom and dad came by the other day and mentioned getting a GF. I told them this: these women we have around here aren't women. They are something else. They nodded and understood, and have noticed the same thing. Good luck ladies. You are on your own. I'm leaving you on the Titanic. Video games are more interesting than you women.
My mom asked me if I had a girlfriend and I told her that these women are unmarriageable and insufferable she agreed without batting an eye, she sees it as well.
I'm in Oklahoma. Worked restaurant jobs most my life. Heard a conversation between a mother and one of my "sweet but horribly naive" young female coworker. The mother was basically talking OVER my coworker who was complaining about her "then" boyfriend, now fiance. Trivial stuff she had qualms with. This coworker had a habit of always blaming men for relationship problems for her generation. This mother gave my coworker an earful about how her son (who's the same age as my coworker) *could not find a female his age to have a good relationship with.* That she was very aware of her sons laid back and sweet nature. But she witnessed (and apparently other mothers who are her friends and acquaintances) the popular behavior that's become common among the pool of girls her son has to deal with ... After listening to her a bit you could tell she was very aware and knowledgeable of what's happening in her sons life. And said almost verbatim that her son can not find a single young girl to date who isn't promiscuous, rebellious or of quality character. I was shocked by her admission and noticed that my coworker quickly shut up. Not because they were arguing but because we all realized what this woman was saying is true. My niece and her friends grew up around here and they have even complained about the young girls in this part of Oklahoma. I'm still working restaurant jobs now and I can see what the mother is talking about in these young girls around here.
There's a scene in the old Marry Poppins movie where the chimney sweep is sitting on a porch with the two children. They are worried because their father did not come home. The chimney sweep asks the children "who takes care of the dog?". Answer; "we do". "Who takes care of you?". "Mom does". "Who takes care of mom?" "Father's does". "And who takes care of father?" (Puzzled look.....) "that's right. Nobody takes care of father. He's on his own".
To share is to be made vulnerable, to be made a target for exploitation and abuse. I'll stick with my hobbies, and my career. There is nothing else for me; I have tried, but not having a father crippled my development early on in life. I couldn't find a way to cope until it was too late. My lineage dies with me.
Hard Truth: If you're with a woman who believes a relationship is something that is done for her, not something you both do together, you're already alone.
But men have been abusive and treating women like objects for centuries….. we don’t want to be near YOU. It’s always projection with men and this is why we don’t want to be around you.
dont worry coz when these woman are alone and 70 they will realise the era of their un natural take on life. nature always wins and what woman are doing is slowly and methodically destroying that ability for our species to continue!
Nah, just the ugly ones. They don't find you desirable. They want men, just not YOU. 🛑 Stop Coping. So much cope in these comments, it's sad. No replies will be seen
I loved one woman only one woman. When I needed her the most with a drain tube in my side from a life saving surgery. She left me for multiple men. Tried to ruin me financially. I'll never trust or live another woman. I have love for only one now. GOD.
Similar brother. I was in the hospital. She said she wanted a divorce because she didn’t want to help pay off medical bills. After that slept with my friend and got pregnant before the divorce finalized. Then took a lot of my money. Then people wonder why men are depressed.
My wife divorced me 3 months before my stepdaughter graduated high school. I raised my step daughter for 12 years. She easily discarded me once I served my purpose. When she told me I was completely shocked. All I could mutter was, "I'm taking my dogs." Those first months after, my dogs loved me and gave me a purpose. They still love me and helped me realize I was more than a wallet. I lost everything, but I never lost dignity. I honestly will never put myself out there ever again. I say all this to help any man in this situation. The pain subsides, but don't stop living your life. Wake up every day and work on yourself. Now, when I look back and think of all the things my ex-wife said to hurt me, I realize it was a reflection of who she was and not who I am. Find someone to talk to, and rediscover yourself. I have gone back to fly fishing and fly tying since I live in Montana. But find yourself, and I recommend you find your spirituality. It's vital. Cheers
Something similar happened to me but luckily she got busted by cops and that removed her from my home after only six months or would have been stuck with her for years.
No man will ever love a women more than her husband. No man will love her children more than their father. Women want to ditch husband replace with a stranger 🤷🏼♂️🤦🏻♂️
Women do not think that far ahead. They are just like children chasing that next existing thing which gives them the butterflies. Then they will chase the next thing once they get bored of that and so on...
I started my 70th year last month. Told the Dear Wife of 33 years that she should find another man should I die before she does. When she asked if I'd remarry should she die first I told her I'd turn the house over to our son, buy a tent and go live alone down by the creek. The odds of me finding a second good woman are astronomical.
The greatest mistake was giving women a phone with a camera. No matter how good a single man is to a woman, no matter how attentive he is, he can’t compare to the attention she will get on social media.
God created the universe and then Adam. Until then everything was harmonious. Finally Eve came, then the collision of stars and explosions of supernovae began.
The most memorable thing that has stuck with me now for over a few years, is that "The only time a man will ever get flowers, is at his funeral." Maybe you have to be a man to understand that. Men in general do not look to get flowers, expect to get flowers just out of the blue, and may be embarrassed to be given flowers. But, I watched a man give a random man sitting on a bench a flower. And when he asked why he was given a flower, the reply was, why not? The man walked away, but the bench man, when he felt no one was looking, smelled the flower, and smiled. I felt that. In the world I'm from, men didn't involve themselves with pretty things. All the pretty things we killed ourselves to get, we gave away to those we loved, keeping nothing for ourselves. Today... All I needed to hear was "I dont need no man". Thank you for releasing me from my chains.. The taste of freedom is sweeter than I ever imagined. I will never wear another collar for love.
Finally, someone who isn't a bitter loser. I was rejected plenty in my youth, probably even used by girls/women. That didn't make me give up. I found a good woman (far from perfect, but good) and have been married 41 yrs. It isn't always sweetness and light, but it is good most of the time.
I dated American women for 15 years. No values for raising families. Gave up on them about 5 years ago. Got a passport and found a good woman in South America.
I didn't really "date" per se, mainy because I had other priorities, and the available candidates were, let's say, uninspiring, but about 10 years ago, I decided to "get serious", and started my research. It didn't take too long to discover that the chances of finding what I was looking for in "the west" was less likely than in some other part of the world. So I acted upon those findings and started "dating" in eastern Europe, and now some 10 years later do not regret a single thing - I am now in a long term (closing in on 6 years) relationship with a lovely, modest, intelligent, feminine and, to me, beautiful lady, whom, if not for a global pandemic and now a war, may already be my wife. It wasn't all plain sailing, and I dated about 10 women in all, and 3 (including my current "partner") in a longer term (more than a couple months) - of the other 2 "long termers", one was not genuine (player/gold digger), and the other got impatient with the difficulties of long distance relationships and decided more local was preferable. Turns out, I was a "passport bro" about 8 years before I had even heard of the term. In short, it's not the easy option, but it is the prudent one. Cheers!
Yeah I think this might be the right move. There’s no normal women left in america. The overwhelming majority are hardcore feminists as a general rule of thumb in my experience.
Good to see success stories about passport bros. Just be careful about bringing your girlfriend / wife back to your home country. I was married to an immigrant woman and she eventually took in some of the worst aspects of American culture.
She started playing around after 10 years, but by then we had four kids. No matter how much I made, it wasn't enough and that was 100K in 1982. Of course I was bailing out her parents and her brother at the time and didn't know it until years later. At 20 years she wanted an open marriage and I said, "No, just keep playing around behind my back like you've done for years." She was shocked that I knew, but we hadn't slept together by her choice in years any way. As it came up on the youngest's high school graduation in May, she locked me out of the house (4 br, 3 baths, built-in pool, 3 car garage, etc.) and moved her 10 years younger boyfriend in. I found a utility apartment and sent the youngest daughter off to college. The younger boyfriend cost her her job and then dumped her, but by then she'd divorced me and taken the house, the cars, all our possessions, and I agreed to pay off her credit cards. We'd been married 25 years and all I wanted was out. I told her the day we left the divorce court that the reason that all I'd taken was my work tools and my books was because in 4 years I'd be well off again and she'd have lost everything. I was and she did. She went through a succession of men, at one point dating guys as young as our youngest son. In time she was aging and the men she attracted were men she once wouldn't have even considered. The guy she married doesn't work, bangs her friends, and lets her know about it. She calls crying ... I hang up. I was single for 12 years and dated women from all over the world. I finally got to live some of my own dreams. I'm done with American women and gold diggers from any country. I married an Asian woman my own age who treats me like a king and I treat her like my queen. I feel sorry for young men facing the prospects that are out there today. Women using men was always an issue, but now it's just out of hand and out on the table.
Thank you so much for sharing your testimony. Many men will learn from this story you shared. For myself, it’s serves as confirmation that American and other 1st world women are not the pool I should be looking in. It’s far too much focus on material and superficial things. Traveling and see the world is a major goal. Not necessarily to find that woman, but for a connection to be natural in a “3rd world” country.
Good to hear you are doing well now. I went through a similar divorce many years ago. It was painful but I survived. I retired a few years ago and doing well. I doubt I would have been able to retire if I was still married to her.
Until a woman is willing to live in a man's shoes, they will never understand. A lot of men may be alone, but they are not lonely. They are at peace in there life.
The ‘exploratory’ mystique comes from the rap that they listen to, where their favorite songs tell them that they like to be treated like a gang whore. How ridiculously detached do you have to be to think that life does not reflect art reflecting life after 30 years of the same thing again and again and again? What the hell is that in your nose anyway - did you get attacked by a tackle box, or is that a 9V power take off attachment? Are you crazy, or somethi… Oh wait; that's what got you here in the first place - delusional entitlement psychosis.
@@crabsta So are you in the habit of telling your dad that HE chose poorly? Or maybe saying it to your brother in law - if you happen to have a sister? Uncles and their choice of your aunts? They're ALL assholes, huh? Or do you keep a whole notebook's worth of special exceptions to this rule of yours?
@@clayclark7466 That’s what prenups are for. It’s mandatory, even if you’re both broke going into a marriage. Both need to know and agree on how everything will be divided up if things don’t work out, including alimony, childcare support payments, what happens to the house, etc.
I was giving my wife £1000 per month. No idea what she spent it all on. I was paying the mortgage and all the utility bills, and car costs. My generosity did not prevent the marriage failing. I think the key is that women are so ungrateful. They demand a lot and give very little in return.
I married a woman with BPD that was not disclosed. She was on psyc meds to hide/treat it. Went off it when pregnant. I found myself married to a dangerous nut job. She divorced me 5 years later. It was 5 years of hell. Sadly, it was another 13 of her moving and preventing me from seeing our son as per the custody agreement. Missed many Christmas holidays with my son. Sad.
Society in general expects men to marry and support women regardless. I've heard it. I've seen it. Even dating coaches are always trying to pair men with used up , fat, single mothers!
Complaining doesn't solve anything. When one can't change the world, best this is to start to change from inside, and adapt to the circumstances. Maybe it wasn't the kind of change that the people expected from us...
I lost my wife to cancer 2yrs ago. I quickly realized that I,ll never find a real woman like her again. Good women have gone extinct.Women today are scary crazy and selfish. Rather be alone than used abused and broke. I'm living a healthy single life.I am a man of value I deserve a woman of value . Maybe there's one or two left.
This isn't a new thing though, back in my day it was NO MA'AM (National Organization of Men Against Amazonian Masterhood) on Married with Children lmao! 👴
It’s been building up for a long time. Grow up in the 80’s. In my teenage years got perplexed and suspicious by female behavior and double standards shown on tv and news. MGTOW put a word on it and organized my thoughts on the topic
@@PhillipFelix-kw3ziI love the wilderness as well, I live in he middle.of nowhere near water and grow my own food. Its much more healthy than any of the processed and chemical ladened store bought crap.
@@PhillipFelix-kw3zi Well, I still admittedly go to the grocery store for items that I cannot acquire on my own naturally. But I live a good 15 minutes away from the closest grocery and retail store for things that I need.
And you only get one life to find true love, and get married and have children. Unfortunately many women are wasting their youth and vain pursuits, instead of focusing on getting married and having children.
2:00, It's not a tragedy for men, it's a tragedy for women. Men can stay alone and at peace for a good long time. Not so much for women, they have an expiration date.
I'm a fellow Norwegian, and I agree with Bull-Hansen here. Also, nature is the best psycho therapist. It's free of charge, and does wonders for our wellbeing.
Texan here, and yes being out in the country is better for my spirit than any time spent in a church. It doesn't help that the majority of churches have been infiltrated and twisted but that is a whole other tale.
The men that are walking away are the ones that most women won't really miss anyways. Sadly, they are the 'not people' portion of Hoe Math's 1-10 chart.
Retired at 49, 7 yrs ago, No debt, student loans, paid off rental property never been married, women don’t want to be wives, but want all the benefits and none of the responsibility, refused to be used and risk my peace for a woman.
I became a ghost after my 3rd relationship/marriage. Women kept derailing and my life and demanded my full attention. I’m a mountaineer, painter, cellist and a father. At 41, I’m no longer willing to give up a moment…. I lost too much time struggling to make miserable people happy.
Tired of being "friendzoned" Tired of being told no matter what I do, it's "bare minimum" Tired of drama, tired of being unappreciated. I walked away, you know what I got from it? Peace. I got peace.
Best part of manosphere Is finding out a man is not alone what he is going through & his situation is not unique to his ex. feminist hate men sharing their experiences and men deciding to focus on themselves. Thanks for being a platform of support
RP started online post sept one one. Takes roughly 20 years for a movement to become part of the institutions. There is nothing, absolutely nothing they can do to get rid of RP. If they censor it online. Men will just go back to teaching it in person. The way it was for 250,000 years, or more. Nothing, nothing they can do now to turn it off.
When women sense that a man is having fun doing something, her instinct is to destroy it... Boy Scouts, NASCAR, white collar jobs; doesn't matter what it is. She has to show up and ruin it all. And they have. Just about everything has been destroyed.
He’s a great guy. Been watching him for years. Hes very jaded by society as a whole. He’s also tired if the global elite and all the communist control measures they try to push on the world.
Bjorn is a good channel......been watching for years....never seen your vids....just so you know, he is Not christian, he has said many times he is very much pagan ....
This is J-Communist revenge on the Christian West for slights in history. 109 reasons for this payback. The white family has been target #1 for centuries.
I’m married and getting divorced because I work everyday get home and prepare dinner, good with my kids, don’t go bar hopping, smoking or drinking yet my wife is never satisfied, I am so done…
I loved my wife would have done anything for her. In the last 5 years of a 15y marriage, she started hitting me and calling police on me. After 2nd fake call to cops. I got a cell phone and started to record her. Got phone in November and January I recorded her assaulting me again. She was arrested and convicted, also picked up another charge. I am unable to consider ever getting in a relationship, too risky. Now we are divorce bound. Government is gonna reward her with half of everything I worked for. She never worked a day in our marriage so now she gets even more. If only I could go back in time I would stay alone MGTOW
Quit your job, sell what's yours, move to a different country. No point letting her get more from you. I don't advocate for usury and every measure against it is moral.
Classic narcissist move of her instigating drama and fake charges against you with the police foolishly believing her, then playing the victim in the court room before the divorce judge waving the police reports saying that you are Abusive to her, gain the judge's pity and 66% of all your assets plus turning your children against you as Abusive to Mommy, Daddy is no good, stay away from him, don't talk to Daddy he is a bad person.
I'm currently in the very early stages of a divorce. Just about a week past our 15 year anniversary. I'm 42 and my life is now completely starting over from scratch like I just turned 18. It's quite a blow.
married my sweetheart when she was nineteen, me twenty-two, married 50 years, six children, she pass at age seventy, been single for three years, see my choices, today, best to stay single and NOT inflict myself on a new bride. BEST MARRIAGE EVER, we did not compete, we complemented, gave each other freedom. She was a jewel, I was an unpolished rock, still am.
I’ve never had a woman build me up or help me. Now I’m too old for a woman to make a difference. I’m always alone and rarely interact with women. I’ve had many women lead me on, manipulate and use me, but I’ve rarely been pleasantly surprised by a woman’s kindness and willingness to care about me.
I kinda agree. For the past couple of years I have been keeping in contact with an EX. Back when we broke up it was "normal" to "stay friends". It was easy because she moved one state over. In those last couple years the texts got really flirty. She would come to town for "work" and we usually would meet out for dinner. Last year though she recommended coming to my house to hang out. I was assuming from the flirty texts it was going to be intimate. Nope, she was just using me for validation and attention. So about 7 months I cut her off (it didn't go well) she appeared to block me. Long story short, that was the last "female friend" I ever had. It was a great relief. I "thought" I was keeping her around so she could "help explain women" and for the flirtatious way she interacted. But I finally realized groups like this, mostly other men, understand women more than women understand themselves. There really isn't a need for women in my life any longer 🎤👇
I believe we were all lied to about female nature. Women do not love. Love, morality, philosophy, etc. are manly pursuits, that at some points were wrongly assumed to be shared by both sexes.
bjorn is a viking heathen, is married, has kids, is a published author, former weight lifter, psychologist, economist, and a good dude with his head and heart in the right place, he has my respect for continuing our ancestors religion, culture and heritage.
I like his books, Jomsviking is a masterpiece in my view, and I found his channel back when he was doing this vikingthing that he is not doing as much now on the channel. I am not particular found in this anti-vaxxer thing he was having a while ago and these conspiration-theories things he does ... but he is a cool guy apart from that.
@@arcticblue248 Sorry to tell, but he was right. When the authorities scare the population into allowing themselves to be injected with an experimental substance that are not more dangerous to healthy people than ordinary flue, it is good that someone manages to keep their foresight. It was not long ago that the Norwegian authorities declared Pandemrix a scandal. What happened then was trivial compared to the last poison they pushed.
@@knrst9061 💯 Being a critical thinker and demanding data (like the ones released by South Korea this year) is not the same as "anti-vaxer". Ignorant people don't understand the difference.
Bless you! You are coming from the right place. It's a pleasure to listen. When ever I see an honest woman talking it touches my heart. And it gives me hope that not all is lost. Thank you!
It is not just social media and mainstream media - it is the whole education system from kindergarten to university - all convincing young people of the same thing, which are the things Bjorn is talking about...
My home is paid for. Everything I own is paid for. Haven't dated in 19 years. Never married...never will be. VERY happy.... Women act like 10 year olds today. Zero liability for their own moods and actions. They never say sorry. Play head games. Nasty, not nice. Needy.....
Before meeting her, I was healthy, extremely physically fit, many friends, financially secure, confident, had many hobbies, etc. Nine years later, I’m now the polar opposite of the latter list, and hope I will have enough time to make a full recovery. Nine years of tireless loyalty, commitment, dedication, and believing we were both striving towards the same goals together. This is the second time I’ve had to do this, as my first long-term relationship followed an identical course. There won’t be a third time. Guys, never, ever, think that it cannot happen to you.
I'm a 2 timer too! I have now found Jesus and life is good. I'm no longer angry I'm at peace and the past is forgotten.. remember life is a journey.. that's the best part!
I got burnt twice in the last year. I lost my long term girl of 10 years 5 years ago due to some rather tragic circumstances. But I actually had an eastern European girlfriend last year for 9 months, she was 6 foot tall, absolutely stunning physically and beautiful in some of her attributes too. I actually thought she was the one, but sadly I saw red flags coming up. She had trust issues from her past and she was not trusting of me, I was falsely accused of talking to another woman. I had a health issue (low T) from over training in my fitness aspirations in the gym and cycling. I became very emotional and depressed as a result. So I stopped training and I began to address what I was not doing diet wise. Instead of having my girlfriend being supportive, she became triggered by my crying and breakdowns once per week for 5 weeks. I was judged, told I was doing it for attention and playing the victim. Me seeing this was very important for me to see, this was not a woman that her shit sorted out and it turned out there was quite a bit of daddy issues that had been unresolved in her. The last straw her grabbing my phone one day when I was not looking and going through everything, trying to look for things that simply didn't exist. We broke up at the end of last year. This year I met another beautiful woman who was amazing, we got along sooooo well, chemistry was incredible too. Things were again looking up. One day she was dreading visiting her dad the next day who was quite toxic to her and as a man in general, she was very anxious all day at my house. This new GF had also been through quite significant abuse and I was very compassionate towards her because of it too. I tried to be intimate with her, but she was not in the mood because of her worry of her dads visit. All good, I was understanding of that. I talked with her all day and tried to comfort her as best I could. I praised her more than normal and tried lift her spirits and self esteem. Later on, we ended being intimate anyway, even though earlier on she was not in the mood. Afterwards we spoke openly and passionately about our physical time together and she even complimented me on listening to her closely and treating her in a caring like manner. In a few from this point, she drove home, she became panicky again, I could hear in her voice separation anxiety too. Anyway, the next day when I was driving on the freeway, she called me and was apprehensive in her tone, then booooom, she said "I feel like you have broken my trust, I felt like you coerced me yesterday for physical intimacy. I was absolutely stunned, shocked, angry, defensive etc. I told her" I do not appreciate the language you are using at the moment, I take great offence and I scared out of my skin" but instead of understanding she was clearly reacting to some PTSD trigger from the past etc (she even acknowledged it) she then attacked my tone of voice and said I was angry (gaslighting much). I said, yes I am angry, scared and very much drawing a firm boundary here and would not tolerate any such toxic accusations. It all went in one ear and out the other. She blocked me, ghosted me and ran away from me completely. I have been left totally shocked and disturbed, like much more than I originally realised. I can't even go on a date now and it has been 5 plus months of loop thinking about what happened. I have talked to other women here and there and the level of flaky is unbelievable at the moment. The manners are non existent, no replying to texts, reading into "red flags" that are not even there. The level of fear that I am seeing in some women these days is very concerning. They remain single, I absolutely consider myself a high value man in many respects, but I have sort of checked out for now and I am not sure if I really care about trying to find a wonderful woman, a woman I can adore, look after and be here best friend and loyal AF partner. I really wanted a forever girl that I was prepared to always be there for, one where I am always honest with myself and her, one where two people are rock solid in every way. If there is a problem, we can always sort it out together as a united front of love, respect and power. I think my dogs and my race cars are more appealing these days, I love racing and the freinds I have in this sport and my dogs/cats are incredible little souls who are always there, they deserve my love and care from me and they never let me down. Anyway, that was a lot to type on a phone. Thank you for the video, you are a wonderful woman, I can see that in your video and the way you come across, that the beauty a real man wants. The fact that you can see people through what they look like is fantastic, well done. I am at the stage now that if a woman comes into my life by chance, no problem, but I am done actively looking anymore. I haven't felt appreciated or seen properly and I know what I bring to the table, it is a lot more that most and if a decent woman can't see that, then that is sadly just the way it is. I have a wonderful friend who is a girl, but we are just friends as she feels not worthy of love, how horribly sad. I do my best to make sure she is always spoken kindly to, appreciated and complimented on the great many things she is actually really good at. I will leave her as a good friend as I don't think she is ready for much else anyway.
@SoloRenegade you never know. If I went on a date with a 44 year old feminist that was going on about marriage and children and she actually WANTED to see me again after the first date I'd probably go on a few more just for the laughs. 😂
@@jeremysmith8825 100%, surely you want to know what she did the past 20 years to end up where she is now. Must be a few comedic horror stories and multiple poor relationship choices over those two decades.
You shouldn’t. Her life of bad decisions made for her own delusional entitlement mentality and self-serving narcissism put her in the position she’s at. Time time has ran out, she has hit the wall and is in the panic of narcissistic implosion.
The last relationship I had with a woman was 25 years ago. Not bothered since, and never would. I've had 25 years of peace, quiet, time to reflect and time to do my hobbies and interests. No nagging, no shouting, no hysterics, no silly dramas, no going round shops looking at silly girly shit, no pretending to be interested in the boring witterings of some harpy whose only interest is gossiping about her "friends" and spending MY money on silly shit. If ONLY I could have gone back to speak to my younger self and warn him NOT to bother chasing women! Oh well, we live and learn! LOL!
My last "true" relationship was in the mid 90s. I had some "off record" relationships in the early 2000s. However like many men, right around 2010, the big dating app and social media boom happened and that was the end of it for me. To be honest, if I could talk to my younger self, I would have stayed with one of my high school sweethearts. Her body count was maybe 1 at most.. It was a great intimate relationship. However she dumped me and quickly regretted it. I was super proud and thought I could do better. Granted there was no way of me knowing if it would have lasted, but I would have liked to try.
@OriginalTodzilla Bro, she would have grown to watch you tube and get into Facebook pages that promote women ego inflation and you would have been in troubles later. Find hobbies you genuinely like. Women hate it when you sit down and wanna relax, if they fall in love, the do with the image of you they have in their head, not the real you. Even if they would try to know you more, the real you is boring. Some average man have some chances with broken women but In my opinion you should have just sek with them and that's it. Trying to make a long lasting relationship will not work. With modern days laws of "equality" you will have to simp for her, she will manipulate you and you will be miserable, when she dumps you ending up feeling miserable because you lost company ( get an interesting pet). So in the end, the void we so afraid is nothing but a teacher, a teacher to just observ with acceptance and see what is not worth the candle. Find good hobbies, new communities, if not physical, online. Be creative. Life doesn't have to be devoid of joy because lack of women. If you desperately need one get an escort, shag, and go. It's not worth the hassle to be so soft as man nowadays.
@@OriginalTodzilla People are who they are, she would do the same under similar circumstances, every time. Thus, if it ended, it would always have ended. Thus, no value in missing it.
I came to that same conclusion about 25 years ago, entitled and obnoxious women is not a new phenomenon. I would like to have had a wife and family, but I have seen friends and other family members get screwed over or just be plain miserable for years. I finally came to the harsh conclusion that women as a whole are untrustworthy, it's sad, but that is how it is.
It's true. The roles have been flipped. Women are now earning more money than men. And they are more educated than men. And have better careers than men. And society caters to them, and coddles to them, and makes excuses for them. They now have more power than men. Power is a masculine trait. That is why modern women seem so masculine. Most women have more experience than men in sex, in travels, in careers, etc.
My first marriage was with a women who only married to get Coast Guard base housing and spouse pay. My 2nd. marriage was with a women who suffered from a Borderline personality disorder because she was raised by an abusive father. I filed for divorce and saved my Daughter by getting custody without regards to geographic location. I raised my Daughter by myself. I was very involved in her Life. She's now 23 and on her own. I've never attempted marriage again. Most women suffer from one extreme or another.
I’m 66 years old, was the oldest of six kids, one sister gone from cancer (at 23) one from suicide. Dad was not the greatest, took me to his lady friend’s apartment, I did paint by numbers while they disappeared into the bedroom. At the age of eight I had no idea what was going on, but I was too old to forget about it. By ten they divorced, mom didn’t have two nickels to rub together. Eventually she married a truly bad man. Violent alcoholic, I saw him punch my mother throw my (handicapped) sister across the kitchen, and kneel over mom, holding her by the hair against the couch and with his hand on her neck whisper “are you ready to die”. At 14 I was preparing to step around the corner from the kitchen to try and hit him in the head with my baseball bat. The only thing that I remember thinking at the time was that “I have to do this left handed” over and over. I had been calling for the cops for what seemed like hours, it was at this moment they arrived. It took three (at least, could have been four) he was 6’4” 250 lbs and unnaturally strong. All area cops knew him. Destroyed our living room. He was released from jail that night and called to threaten my mom. That’s only a small slice of life growing up in our house. All that to say I determined that my kids would not experience life in a broken home. I married a divorced woman with a six year old son, and we also had a son. I stayed through the lies, affairs, financial ruination, and debilitating criticism, my wife decided at some point along the way that sex with her husband was simply not her job. I worked, had a very good career and now have stable retirement income. My vows meant something, I think that I fulfilled them. My disgust at domestic violence did not prevent all violence in our household, almost nothing hurts me more than that. I participated in one instance, broke my promise to myself, and this among other things in my life makes me fully aware of my own frailty, not in a physical sense, but as a man. The marriage has been over for years. But now, all the sudden she has come to the realization of what that truly means. All of the sudden I am supposed to flip the switch, take a pill and rejoin the family bed. I don’t think that it works like that, I don’t believe that it could even if I really wanted it to. It’s not just the sex!! Get this into your female brain!! He needs sex, yes, but he needs physical contact, love, affection and respect. Or even if you marry you will end up with nothing, period. Sure the house, the car, and a garage full of regret and heartache. Live like I described, as a woman, and you will be alone, with alcoholic “friends” to tell you that you have your freedom, but your freedom will be your prison. I’m pretty much done rambling off the top of my head. Probably won’t affect anyone.
You've been thru more than enough shit. 100% disconnect from the ex, all you are to her is a resource to be re-acquired. Stay solo. Get a good dog and build a base of brothers you can depend on. Find peace even if it means forsaking lots of other things. Be well.
I am so sorry that your heart was/in broken. It sounds like you made every effort to keep your vows, especially to yourself. You seem like a good man. Please take some time to be good to yourself. I hope you heal from this trauma. If you are ever ready, I pray you find someone capable of loving you deeply and who is able to help clear out and fill in all your empty spaces. Bless you.
We are just silently walking away. Most of us are quite about it. We are not a hate group. We are not even a group, we are just walking away. So we do not have the right to leave?? Women hate us the laws and judges Crucify us . We can be destroyed by a false accusation from any victim group... No thanks I'm good. 🏃🧳✈️🏝️⛱️🍻
Not just men! I walked away YEARS ago! Serenity is precious! Not to mention a TON of effort to not only establish, but maintain. Not going to allow anyone to disrupt that. Walked away, kept going… not missing being told I’m too driven, too passionate, too opinionated, too demanding, too informed, too inquisitive, too devoted, too blah, blah, blah… whatever. Now I just demand too much of my rig, nurture an otherwise unhealthy devotion to my dogs and continue being “too” while discovering how ridiculously gorgeous and incredible our nation’s back countries are. Dogs are ALWAYS down for adventure. ❤️🐾❤️ Everyone needs an adventure hound. IMHO
Divorced 17 years ago, single since. As long as my now adult children were/are good is all that matters. No stress, no arguments, no relationship all good.
Spent 4.5 years in family court trying to divorce an abusive woman. Got my divorce, kept the kids. Kids are adults and happy. In past 20 years had 2 girlfriends neither one lasted. Now I'm 52 and the thirst is gone. I make 120K a year and make my own schedule. Own my home. I have zero desire to deal with women. Nothing but drama and they think that all they need to do is bring sex to the table and want all your $. Not me. Went MGTOW and I only talk to women if they're family or I have to talk to them. I got money in my pocket, inner peace, and life is good. Don't care if I ever date another woman.
I am 70 years old and a two time divorcee. First wife left after 11 years and three children because she said she was 'not happy'. Never willing to go to marriage counseling to work on it. She never gave an explanation for her unhappiness. Second marriage was 27 years. She wanted a child. We ended up adapting a baby girl. At 25 years I pleaded with her to go to marriage counseling to work on our marriage. She would have no part of it. Two years later she connected with an old high school boyfriend (who was still married) and left me for him. Ten years later the boyfriend never got divorced and she is still with him. It still hurts to this day. My counselor told me that my prospects of dating at my age (59 at the time) were bleak. I asked him why? He said, " because I know whats out there) I found out what he meant. Single at 70 sucks.
Short story, wife cheated while I was deployed and got knocked up, dumped the kids in foster care, stole everything not bolted down and left. I fought for my kids so they wouldn't be stuck in foster care and raised them by myself. It took me 10 years to rebuild my life financially, f**k marriage I will never go down that road again and after multiple failed relationships I'm done getting taken for a ride. I'd rather stay single.
Middle age, never married, no debt, very fit, charming, intelligent and good looking, making more $ by the day. I pay to spend private time with very young attractive fit women. Why would i invite a daily burden/mental case/entitled and/or jaded (aka gf or wife) into my life? I'll wait.
I’m fifty and stopped dating years ago. I learned in my early twenties that relationships weren’t for me. I spent my thirties trying to connect romantically with women and they all went nowhere. I dated one woman in my forties and she didn’t care about me but she wanted me to marry her. I haven’t bothered trying for years now. I’m fifty and loneliness is my life.
@@randomAnnanoumousDude2134 I was never married because I didn’t want the ex. I spent my life pursuing romance and found it sparsely. I haven’t slept in a bed overnight with a woman more than ten times in the last twenty five plus years. My loneliness is deep and profound, but it allowed me to develop personally. I’ve had years of therapy and the males were more effective than the females. The females couldn’t relate, didn’t understand, were trying to help in childish ways and were inefficient and a couple of times reckless.
@@JohnMack-f3f Females do NOT communicate better than men and they are NOT the empathetic gender. I consider women to be the sociopathic, narcissist gender.
I was married for 32 years. A degrading, lonely experience. I was a great dad, supportive and attentive husband, breadwinner. My kids talk/message me daily. I'm 'Pop Pop' to my my grandchildren. They barely speak to their mother...I take no joy in this...its tragic that they don't have a supportive mother. I've opted out of romance. It kills me but the risks of a relationship outweigh the advantages.
The first thing you learn as an adult man is that no one gives a shit.
Took me too long to realise that , certainly do now though .
This is the realest truth
We were born to this.
truth
It's called, Responsibility.
Western women have become insufferable...
Nope, you are wrong, its same all over the world.
western women are feminists, feminism requires the destruction of family (the foundation of society) so society can be replaced by govt, aka communism.
MGTOW is men being emotionally intelligent by avoiding feminism aka communism.
Wasn't this video made by a western woman? She seems alright to me.
Yep!
@@doha057 It's not everywhre but it's way way to common. Let societies that appreciate their men continue, not those that show up CONTEMPT. Never help, never approach, definitely never hire.
“ I’ve never met a woman more beautiful than my freedom”
- Somebody really smart
Amen 🙏 brother!
That's the illusion. You have no freedom. We are all at the mercy of our governments, our biology, our feelings.
We ugly / undesired men are shackled basically from birth. You aren't free, that's a cope.
We are discarded action figures in a toy box. Never to be used again.
That's hardly freedom.
Stop the cope.
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"Der Mann ist der schlimmste Besitzer einer Frau!"
Truth
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I've never met a vajayjay that was worth half my assets.
Imagine getting married and risking everything you ever worked for in divorce court, yeah NO.
I think it is a risk but if you can find the right person its worth it. The problem is finding the right person.
@@Twotone-ld1fb yeah the problem is it’s a very long shot not worth the risk for me. Been there done that lost everything.
@@Twotone-ld1fbit's almost stacked against us men.
Vasectomy ? Is a good bet.
But some men genuinely love kids.
Pre nuptial ? But then, does that mean there'll be love and trust in the marriage ?
God and faith ? But then some people use that as a trick to look good.
@@cammontreuil7509 I think a prenup can also show you care about your spouse, because it shows your trying to lesson future temptations she might face from the world and others. Women tend to make a lot of bad decisions when they get emotional and then regret them latter. A prenup would add some leverage to help counter the bad decision made in an emotional backed by feminist environments moment.
Allowing women to vote was the DUMBEST thing that men ever did.
I'm a man, old, alone, discarded and disabled.
Now single.
Now in my mobile home.
Now independent.
Now happy.
Nature is where men belong.
Shhhhh.... not so loud🤫😉
Amen !
I have loved and cared for two women in my life. My second wife left me about 3 months ago. She moved on and is happy being single. I took her out for lunch yesterday on her birthday, and we had a nice time. But, I am lost. Women need to know men get jilted, too. I was texting someone, but cut that off as well. Like he said; it's the attitude. Money doesn't grow on trees. We men get abused by our customers at work. When I get home, I just want quiet, now. Companionship was nice but not worth the loneliness and heartbreak. Sorry, gals. Our mom's created this situation, and I lost respect for my mom before she passed. What one of the other guys texted was true. Even when we are with a modern woman, we're alone. So we might as well just forgo the drama, be that way for the rest of our days. Luckily, I am old enough it just doesn't matter!
Yep. Dont need the disrespect, the "Bad Bitch" class rhetoric, the lack of virtue, faith and fake love.
Bro!
Never married and never will. My house is paid off, car is paid off, no credit card debt or student loans. Life is good.
I'm right behind you brotha. Should be debt free in the next 5 years. Paying off house, car and loans.
Congrats bro... Trying my best to follow ya.
You need a woman in your life to bring you Drama, Chaos, Confusion, her Rug Rat legacy, and lots of spending and debt. You are missing out on the American Dream. Jump in the miserable pool with all the other men in the pool pretending they are happy.
It's not good. What you got is simply less bad. No man will feel truly happy, until he has someone to care for. It is what it is. We can take the truth.
@@baktersa lot of men have died alone we are used to it
Prosperity > Female Drama. You are living parasite-free!
Was married to my high-school sweetheart for 29 years, over that time she became more and more spiteful towards me because I didn't have a high paying job, couldn't buy her the 80k car and eventually when her salary surpassed mine, she began saying that she didn't need me anymore, began telling our daughters " don't make the same mistake I made by marrying a loser!" I tried telling her that this marriage is supposed to be a partnership, not a competition, she eventually divorced me, took the usual stuff, house,car,etc. Why did I stay so long? Probably because I didn't want to quit hoping that she ( the woman I'd married) was still in there, but she's gone. I dated a few times since then ,but the truth is that id rather be alone, My house is now paid for, my car is too, and I am debt free, My days are filled with peace, I come and go whenever/wherever I want and the only one I have to answer to is my Border Collie, ( she gets upset when I don't always take her to the woods with me 😅) I hear the stories about what the dating scene is like now and it just validates my currrent lifestyle. No thanks, a quiet evening spent in God's word is all I need. Oh and an occasional day fishing a great trout stream works too. Good luck to the young people out there, you're gonna need it.
YES! I will meet you on the trout stream, brother.
That's heartbreaking brother. I know you have peace now but you deserved better. If God happens to bring a deserving gal back into your life don't automatically reject her. It goes without saying that you'll be skeptical and careful. Just don't let your tragic experience harden your heart. I'm speaking as a blessed man married to a good woman for 34 years so I realize that I can't see things exactly like you. I guess I'm sensitive to this type of situation right now because both of my sons are so desperately wanting to find a good woman as I did and they can't seem to find one. They are beyond discouraged about it. Since their mother and I refuse to meddle in their personal lives we are starting to grapple with the idea of not having grandchildren. That adds to my heartbreak but that could seem selfish I suppose. My real pain is whatching my boys struggle due to their natural desires not being obtained.
Go find the chick. Try to work it out. That's too long to throw away. You grew up together
Glad you're making it through. Similar thing happened to me. We split after 30+ years married; reasons unknown. She lost the "feels", whatever the hell that means. Now, after 4 years, my life is really good. I'm MGTOW basically monk-mode; I have a really bad opinion of women, in general. Trying to find a local fly-fishing spot, but no luck yet!
Same similar story here after 29 years. Although my ex never came close to my income. She moved to a different state when our last child started college. According to the four children, she was a horrible mother. 3 of them by their choice have zero relationships. They all asked me at different times why I stayed. My reply was always for you children. I lost everything in court. Started over at age 56. I worked myself from day one into a very high paying career. I was pay check to pay check for 29 years. For the first time in my life, I am considered wealthy. By the way, I heard the ex spent all the cash, stocks, and alimony on drinks and partying. She has not spoken to 3 children for a decade. She’s renting a room from Craig’s list. The $4k a month for the rest of her life cannot cover her lifestyle.
Me, I’m free to do whatever I decide. I keep a quiet life outside of work. Unless, I’m with my children and grandkids, then it’s quite loud. ❤ MGTOW for life. In my career, I meet hundreds of women yearly. My company’s divorce rate is 83%. The women I meet are from every walk of life. The only common trait is, they all are western women. The fit, feminine and respectful ladies are from rural areas of eastern countries. These beautiful ladies desire to be a wife and raise children. I advise my boys to never marry a western woman. I lost all faith in them.
As a 44 yo man i have seen women change so dramaticly over the years, it is actualy scary
And they vote!
It's a running shit show, many times. Sad, but true.
as a 46 year old man I agree. But I also think many men aren't being brought up to be proper men either.
Same here. 43 male. Comparing the 80s women to nowadays women is like comparing different galaxies.
@@Twotone-ld1fb they’re being raised by single mothers. I saw a group of 6 kids in their late 20’s standing around a car in church parking lot. They were googling how to change a flat tire. The tire was shredded!!
I stood there and watched for a while, just for giggles. I finally explained to them that their lower ball joint had broken, and that’s why it was laying at a weird angle and looked like shredded wheat. They told me I didn’t know what I was talking about, and the spare tire would fix it.
There is a reason a man can sit on a river bank for a whole day fishing , all day on a golf course , all day hiking , all day planting flowers in a garden . Nature is soothing and calming .
Nature can be all the feminine energy a man needs to absorb. without all the unnecessary rukus.
@@XTRABIG Oh, light bulb moment, well said.
be a warrior in a garden, not a gardener in a war.
But some men can remain calm in a storm. Now that's soothing.
I'd say a man goes to the woods because he won't typically run into a woman. It is peaceful. I guess we also choose the bear.
A man with no bills is a rich man.
Or 100% poor, regardless, both are more free than the working man.
A Man with no bills is probably dead 😵
@@birdsteak9267 Working (real physical labor) is a very gratifying thing...as long as you're doing it for yourself.
He's not rich, he's free
I have been Divorced for 47 years, OWN my own Townhouse, pay CASH when I buy a car, tour up credit cards also 47 years ago, living HAPPILY EVER AFTER!! God Bless.
Divorced 14 years ago, no kids, quit dating at all about 6-7 years ago because it’s just not worth it anymore. If you don’t have a prison record, substance abuse problem, and tats…. Women just aren’t interested…. And those still available in the 40+ age range have bought the whole ‘modern feminism’ world view. No thanks, I’m out.
All men need is a little love, affection, loyalty, big brown eyes, and a cold wet nose🐶🐶🐶🐶🐶
My Red Heeler mix has gold eyes.
Whenever I find myself twitterpated, I get another dog.
@@joesikkspac7904 Close enough....
My Saluki actually hugs me and leans on me. She is perfect.
i love my cat more than any woman i have -.-
Mgtow.
It’s just safer to keep your distance.
Drizzle Drizzle
Agency ghouls looking for controlled breeding and caste status
The only way to win is not to play.
I purchased 10 acres, moved to a rural area, I wake up to nature every morning, adjust my solar panels, to recharge my batteries by noon. I have a few payouts, gas for my vehicle, and water for 35 bucks per month. My Peace is priceless!
@@jasonzacharias2150Correct and their main weapon in this war against society are women...We as men cannot change the situation, we can only left them behind.
I'm 41, single, male. I've never had a GF. My mom and dad came by the other day and mentioned getting a GF. I told them this: these women we have around here aren't women. They are something else. They nodded and understood, and have noticed the same thing. Good luck ladies. You are on your own. I'm leaving you on the Titanic. Video games are more interesting than you women.
My mom asked me if I had a girlfriend and I told her that these women are unmarriageable and insufferable she agreed without batting an eye, she sees it as well.
Stehst du wirklich über diesen Dingen? Oder verzichtest du nur auf etwas, was du wohl ohnehin nicht bekommst?
A coupla blokes at work said the same thing from their sons too.
I'm in Oklahoma. Worked restaurant jobs most my life. Heard a conversation between a mother and one of my "sweet but horribly naive" young female coworker. The mother was basically talking OVER my coworker who was complaining about her "then" boyfriend, now fiance. Trivial stuff she had qualms with. This coworker had a habit of always blaming men for relationship problems for her generation.
This mother gave my coworker an earful about how her son (who's the same age as my coworker) *could not find a female his age to have a good relationship with.* That she was very aware of her sons laid back and sweet nature.
But she witnessed (and apparently other mothers who are her friends and acquaintances) the popular behavior that's become common among the pool of girls her son has to deal with ...
After listening to her a bit you could tell she was very aware and knowledgeable of what's happening in her sons life. And said almost verbatim that her son can not find a single young girl to date who isn't promiscuous, rebellious or of quality character. I was shocked by her admission and noticed that my coworker quickly shut up. Not because they were arguing but because we all realized what this woman was saying is true.
My niece and her friends grew up around here and they have even complained about the young girls in this part of Oklahoma.
I'm still working restaurant jobs now and I can see what the mother is talking about in these young girls around here.
So true women ain't women anymore
There's a scene in the old Marry Poppins movie where the chimney sweep is sitting on a porch with the two children. They are worried because their father did not come home. The chimney sweep asks the children "who takes care of the dog?". Answer; "we do". "Who takes care of you?". "Mom does". "Who takes care of mom?" "Father's does". "And who takes care of father?" (Puzzled look.....) "that's right. Nobody takes care of father. He's on his own".
My friend is Norwegian married to a Filipino . When i asked him why he never married a Norwegian woman he replied " too high maintenance "
I've known several guys whose Filipino wives divorced them. Some guys act like Filipinos are these perfect, submissive women, but they're not
Marry a Flip and you marry her family. And that's extended family, too.
yes, but a bastard kid is for life
@@thadtuiol1717 If you're not Filipino marrying a Filipina, she probably already has at least one illegitimate child.
Indian women in India the best Eastern values
"Woman cant rise to her divine femininity without a man. Man CAN rise to his divine masculinity without a woman" -Teal Swan
Every man is alone. He's alone with his hopes and his dreams. He's alone with his fears and his decisions. All men are alone.
Yup...
Amen brother 🙏
To share is to be made vulnerable, to be made a target for exploitation and abuse. I'll stick with my hobbies, and my career. There is nothing else for me; I have tried, but not having a father crippled my development early on in life. I couldn't find a way to cope until it was too late.
My lineage dies with me.
Its a blessing when you accept that. I enjoy being a man.
Hard Truth:
If you're with a woman who believes a relationship is something that is done for her, not something you both do together, you're already alone.
Women don’t want to admit that the patriarchy protected women from themselves.
Now, they can work until they’re 70.
Well played ladies……
Better than being financially dependent on a man who will trade you in when you hit 40 or 50 years old.
I love my work and I love my money. Better than being dependent on you guys. Deal with it!
@@ilvailvandoniherde496 enjoy your cats
@@paolomartinelli345 I don't like cats. I raise children...
The tragedy was women treating men in such a way we didn't want to go near them
But men have been abusive and treating women like objects for centuries….. we don’t want to be near YOU. It’s always projection with men and this is why we don’t want to be around you.
dont worry coz when these woman are alone and 70 they will realise the era of their un natural take on life. nature always wins and what woman are doing is slowly and methodically destroying that ability for our species to continue!
Nah, just the ugly ones. They don't find you desirable. They want men, just not YOU.
🛑 Stop Coping.
So much cope in these comments, it's sad.
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Time is a friend to Men. And a punishment for Women.
It's bad for both. 💀
Oh that's so good..
Men age like wine; women age like milk.
@@ModelJames13 It's not. Men don't have a biological clock other than death of old age. Time is very unkind to women, it is what it is.
Rightfully so!
I loved one woman only one woman. When I needed her the most with a drain tube in my side from a life saving surgery. She left me for multiple men. Tried to ruin me financially. I'll never trust or live another woman. I have love for only one now. GOD.
Sorry to hear that I myself have always had that feeling do to having Mild Cerebral Palsy and major surgeries.
Sorry bro may God bless your soul
You meet your girlfriend on your honeymoon and you meet your wife in divorce court.
Similar brother. I was in the hospital. She said she wanted a divorce because she didn’t want to help pay off medical bills. After that slept with my friend and got pregnant before the divorce finalized. Then took a lot of my money. Then people wonder why men are depressed.
As soon as ANY problem comes along they`ll abandon you. And that`s not always the worst of it. No law against the worst criminals in society.
I love the peace I have without a woman in my life. Single since 2015. No chance in hell will I waste time on an ungrateful woman .
But the thing is men don't whine all the time. We are just silent and doing our job.
My wife divorced me 3 months before my stepdaughter graduated high school. I raised my step daughter for 12 years. She easily discarded me once I served my purpose. When she told me I was completely shocked. All I could mutter was, "I'm taking my dogs." Those first months after, my dogs loved me and gave me a purpose. They still love me and helped me realize I was more than a wallet. I lost everything, but I never lost dignity. I honestly will never put myself out there ever again. I say all this to help any man in this situation. The pain subsides, but don't stop living your life. Wake up every day and work on yourself. Now, when I look back and think of all the things my ex-wife said to hurt me, I realize it was a reflection of who she was and not who I am. Find someone to talk to, and rediscover yourself. I have gone back to fly fishing and fly tying since I live in Montana. But find yourself, and I recommend you find your spirituality. It's vital. Cheers
Amen.
Something similar happened to me but luckily she got busted by cops and that removed her from my home after only six months or would have been stuck with her for years.
@ShivamShukla-vq4en No, we still maintain a relationship. I love her, and despite the divorce heartbreak, my ex can never take her away from me.
I’m sorry this happened to you. Hope all is well.
A woman can take a man's heart ❤ and squeeze it
No man will ever love a women more than her husband. No man will love her children more than their father.
Women want to ditch husband replace with a stranger 🤷🏼♂️🤦🏻♂️
and maliciously deprive him of his children
Or the government, which is even worse.
They've replaced husband with the state.
and take half of his wealth
Women do not think that far ahead. They are just like children chasing that next existing thing which gives them the butterflies. Then they will chase the next thing once they get bored of that and so on...
Almost 42, never married, never will…debt free. Peace of mind and drama free is priceless.
I started my 70th year last month. Told the Dear Wife of 33 years that she should find another man should I die before she does. When she asked if I'd remarry should she die first I told her I'd turn the house over to our son, buy a tent and go live alone down by the creek. The odds of me finding a second good woman are astronomical.
The greatest mistake was giving women a phone with a camera. No matter how good a single man is to a woman, no matter how attentive he is, he can’t compare to the attention she will get on social media.
100%
But they have exposed themselves as well. Men can't unsee and unhear unchecked female nature.
Thank you 🙏 I been saying that for years ...
God created the universe and then Adam. Until then everything was harmonious. Finally Eve came, then the collision of stars and explosions of supernovae began.
They live in an intangible world with friends all over the world but nobody they can really reach out to. Eva turned into Lilith who Adam rejected.
The most memorable thing that has stuck with me now for over a few years, is that "The only time a man will ever get flowers, is at his funeral." Maybe you have to be a man to understand that. Men in general do not look to get flowers, expect to get flowers just out of the blue, and may be embarrassed to be given flowers. But, I watched a man give a random man sitting on a bench a flower. And when he asked why he was given a flower, the reply was, why not? The man walked away, but the bench man, when he felt no one was looking, smelled the flower, and smiled.
I felt that. In the world I'm from, men didn't involve themselves with pretty things. All the pretty things we killed ourselves to get, we gave away to those we loved, keeping nothing for ourselves. Today... All I needed to hear was "I dont need no man". Thank you for releasing me from my chains.. The taste of freedom is sweeter than I ever imagined.
I will never wear another collar for love.
I wouldn’t mind some flowers
Well said. Fantastic comment. 👏
Thing is my wife and I built our lives together by supporting each other goals and dreams. Luckily most of our goals and dreams align ❤
Finally, someone who isn't a bitter loser. I was rejected plenty in my youth, probably even used by girls/women. That didn't make me give up. I found a good woman (far from perfect, but good) and have been married 41 yrs. It isn't always sweetness and light, but it is good most of the time.
Bjorn has my total respect. He is sick of this pandering World.
Whenever I feel I need a woman in my life, I go on social media, come to my senses and go for a ride on one of my motorbikes.
Same here Man!! Bwahaha
Smart!
Good plan.
Found your comment. Absolutely agree. Same here with my Yamahas. Good to think there are men like us out there.
Yeah buddyyy! What bike you got? I’m razzing around on a street triple at the minute, phenomenal bike
I dated American women for 15 years. No values for raising families. Gave up on them about 5 years ago. Got a passport and found a good woman in South America.
Passport bro's unite.
@@smokeymoe842 Here here - a toast to the passport bros.
I didn't really "date" per se, mainy because I had other priorities, and the available candidates were, let's say, uninspiring, but about 10 years ago, I decided to "get serious", and started my research. It didn't take too long to discover that the chances of finding what I was looking for in "the west" was less likely than in some other part of the world. So I acted upon those findings and started "dating" in eastern Europe, and now some 10 years later do not regret a single thing - I am now in a long term (closing in on 6 years) relationship with a lovely, modest, intelligent, feminine and, to me, beautiful lady, whom, if not for a global pandemic and now a war, may already be my wife. It wasn't all plain sailing, and I dated about 10 women in all, and 3 (including my current "partner") in a longer term (more than a couple months) - of the other 2 "long termers", one was not genuine (player/gold digger), and the other got impatient with the difficulties of long distance relationships and decided more local was preferable. Turns out, I was a "passport bro" about 8 years before I had even heard of the term. In short, it's not the easy option, but it is the prudent one. Cheers!
Yeah I think this might be the right move. There’s no normal women left in america. The overwhelming majority are hardcore feminists as a general rule of thumb in my experience.
Good to see success stories about passport bros. Just be careful about bringing your girlfriend / wife back to your home country. I was married to an immigrant woman and she eventually took in some of the worst aspects of American culture.
She started playing around after 10 years, but by then we had four kids. No matter how much I made, it wasn't enough and that was 100K in 1982. Of course I was bailing out her parents and her brother at the time and didn't know it until years later. At 20 years she wanted an open marriage and I said, "No, just keep playing around behind my back like you've done for years." She was shocked that I knew, but we hadn't slept together by her choice in years any way.
As it came up on the youngest's high school graduation in May, she locked me out of the house (4 br, 3 baths, built-in pool, 3 car garage, etc.) and moved her 10 years younger boyfriend in. I found a utility apartment and sent the youngest daughter off to college. The younger boyfriend cost her her job and then dumped her, but by then she'd divorced me and taken the house, the cars, all our possessions, and I agreed to pay off her credit cards. We'd been married 25 years and all I wanted was out.
I told her the day we left the divorce court that the reason that all I'd taken was my work tools and my books was because in 4 years I'd be well off again and she'd have lost everything. I was and she did. She went through a succession of men, at one point dating guys as young as our youngest son. In time she was aging and the men she attracted were men she once wouldn't have even considered. The guy she married doesn't work, bangs her friends, and lets her know about it. She calls crying ... I hang up.
I was single for 12 years and dated women from all over the world. I finally got to live some of my own dreams. I'm done with American women and gold diggers from any country. I married an Asian woman my own age who treats me like a king and I treat her like my queen. I feel sorry for young men facing the prospects that are out there today. Women using men was always an issue, but now it's just out of hand and out on the table.
Thank you so much for sharing your testimony. Many men will learn from this story you shared.
For myself, it’s serves as confirmation that American and other 1st world women are not the pool I should be looking in. It’s far too much focus on material and superficial things. Traveling and see the world is a major goal. Not necessarily to find that woman, but for a connection to be natural in a “3rd world” country.
Good for you, I wish my son would do the same. He's got out of a bad relationship long ago but he chooses to stay alone, no grandchildren😪
Good to hear you are doing well now. I went through a similar divorce many years ago. It was painful but I survived. I retired a few years ago and doing well. I doubt I would have been able to retire if I was still married to her.
Never give any women money. Trust me.
Yes, I DO !
Until a woman is willing to live in a man's shoes, they will never understand.
A lot of men may be alone, but they are not lonely. They are at peace in there life.
And when a women did, she unalived herself. Google "self made man"
The ‘exploratory’ mystique comes from the rap that they listen to, where their favorite songs tell them that they like to be treated like a gang whore. How ridiculously detached do you have to be to think that life does not reflect art reflecting life after 30 years of the same thing again and again and again? What the hell is that in your nose anyway - did you get attacked by a tackle box, or is that a 9V power take off attachment?
Are you crazy, or somethi…
Oh wait; that's what got you here in the first place - delusional entitlement psychosis.
no, a lot of us are lonely.
look up "Nora Vincent " your welcome 🙏
Norah vincent did and sadly took her life having the male dating experiance.
Millionaire to broke in 10 years. Wrong woman, bad choice.
Wouldn't matter which one you chose, it would've been a bad choice.
@@crabsta So are you in the habit of telling your dad that HE chose poorly?
Or maybe saying it to your brother in law - if you happen to have a sister?
Uncles and their choice of your aunts?
They're ALL assholes, huh?
Or do you keep a whole notebook's worth of special exceptions to this rule of yours?
Better to have a wife you see every week than a feminist you see every day.
@@chriscoughlin9289😂 tell us you are young AF with zero life experience why don’t you!
@@clayclark7466 That’s what prenups are for. It’s mandatory, even if you’re both broke going into a marriage. Both need to know and agree on how everything will be divided up if things don’t work out, including alimony, childcare support payments, what happens to the house, etc.
I was giving my wife £1000 per month. No idea what she spent it all on. I was paying the mortgage and all the utility bills, and car costs. My generosity did not prevent the marriage failing.
I think the key is that women are so ungrateful. They demand a lot and give very little in return.
It sometimes makes me wonder what women actually have to give a relationship? Kids..? What more..? (and if you cant have kids..🤔)
Very bad ROI - return of investment. Only complaints, all day. 🤣😅😂
@@marcp.1752 I have never been able to recover financially.
Lol Women will give much to a man they want. Not the ones they don't.
You were betabucks deluxe.
She did not have genuine attraction to you,
I have only 2 words to explain a woman " Your Toxic "
And they have 2 for you:
"You're ugly".
The majority will agree with them.
Welcome to the toy box, with the rest of the discarded toys.
I married a woman with BPD that was not disclosed. She was on psyc meds to hide/treat it. Went off it when pregnant. I found myself married to a dangerous nut job. She divorced me 5 years later. It was 5 years of hell. Sadly, it was another 13 of her moving and preventing me from seeing our son as per the custody agreement. Missed many Christmas holidays with my son. Sad.
Sad 😢
Society in general expects men to marry and support women regardless. I've heard it. I've seen it. Even dating coaches are always trying to pair men with used up , fat, single mothers!
Dang
Went through the same thing. BPD, false accusations, post divorce alienation
so awful how men are being destroyed by divorce, loss of children, the whole court system favouring women however awful they are.
Men are never given flowers until our funerals. We just suffer alone, in silence. Like we're told to do.
Find yourself a good woman who 's going to treat you good.
@@Life-xg9pf not holding my breath. They've all been horrid to me.
Bro who told you to do so? 😂
It's just in your head, there're no borders my friend, it's just you
Complaining doesn't solve anything. When one can't change the world, best this is to start to change from inside, and adapt to the circumstances. Maybe it wasn't the kind of change that the people expected from us...
My money my choice stay single and enjoy your life men.
Never never getting married its a pathetic joke.
I've been in zero debt for last 25+ years.
I lost my wife to cancer 2yrs ago. I quickly realized that I,ll never find a real woman like her again. Good women have gone extinct.Women today are scary crazy and selfish. Rather be alone than used abused and broke. I'm living a healthy single life.I am a man of value I deserve a woman of value . Maybe there's one or two left.
The Feminist movement created Modern Women. Modern Women created Me Too. Me Too created Mgtow. 🤷
This isn't a new thing though, back in my day it was NO MA'AM (National Organization of Men Against Amazonian Masterhood) on Married with Children lmao! 👴
It’s been building up for a long time.
Grow up in the 80’s.
In my teenage years got perplexed and suspicious by female behavior and double standards shown on tv and news.
MGTOW put a word on it and organized my thoughts on the topic
What is MGTOW ?
What does it mean?
@@user-ev1it5ft2r You are a bot - it's obvious by your user name and your question. Bot be gone!
Bjorn's an ex Olympic level power lifter. He's now an author, and very into ancient Norwegian Viking traditions. He's married and has children.
Indeed, he loves the wilderness.
@@PhillipFelix-kw3ziI love the wilderness as well, I live in he middle.of nowhere near water and grow my own food. Its much more healthy than any of the processed and chemical ladened store bought crap.
@@LordMalice6d9 that's beautiful, someday I will have land of my own.
@@PhillipFelix-kw3zi Well, I still admittedly go to the grocery store for items that I cannot acquire on my own naturally. But I live a good 15 minutes away from the closest grocery and retail store for things that I need.
Didn’t know about the power lifting.
Bjorn is a legend, he's a brother I support him all the way. You've done very well sister on breaking down Bjorn's video 🙏💯 amen
Im out. 40 yrs old and havent dated in 13 years now by choice. Got myself a gold Rolex for xmas. Im happy.
Once you destroy your family, you can't get it back. And you only get one life to get it right.
And you only get one life to find true love, and get married and have children. Unfortunately many women are wasting their youth and vain pursuits, instead of focusing on getting married and having children.
That's beautiful
Untrue.. you live many many lives, and you have many many opportunities to grow and learn. Transmigration of the Soul is a reality
Nice thing is that if you get it wrong, you still die and it is only temporary. Only Jesus matters, and if you believe in Him, you have eternal life.
@@bryanpratt5850bs
"I like women. We're just not compatibile!"
-Bill Burr
But bill is married.
He's married to an insufferable harpy.
@@paulcooper5748 Therefore he perfectly knows what he is talking about when he says: 'We're just not compatible.'
""Is that pesto? - oh, it's asparagus! It's asparagus."
Divorsed 11 years, lost everything, alone, its just me and the dog now.
2:00, It's not a tragedy for men, it's a tragedy for women. Men can stay alone and at peace for a good long time. Not so much for women, they have an expiration date.
Once you wake up to shaming language, you see and hear it everywhere. It's pretty much all they got.
Shaming language is their controlling mechanism.
If there's one thing that bothers women it's truth.
And it's becoming less and less effective.
@@7sons484don't forget apathy and a lack of attention.
Don't care about them, don't look at them: drives them to spiral
So true yall, so true.
I'm a fellow Norwegian, and I agree with Bull-Hansen here. Also, nature is the best psycho therapist. It's free of charge, and does wonders for our wellbeing.
I disagree with your view about nature; but that's because I've been nearly eaten by several animals. lol
@Solcollector1 that sounds like a you problem not a we problem.
Texan here, and yes being out in the country is better for my spirit than any time spent in a church. It doesn't help that the majority of churches have been infiltrated and twisted but that is a whole other tale.
@@Solcollector1I never go into the wilderness unarmed.
Women are allergic to peace.
The men that are walking away are the ones that most women won't really miss anyways. Sadly, they are the 'not people' portion of Hoe Math's 1-10 chart.
Thx for honesty and empathy. After 2 women divorcing me and taking my children and my money I'm done. I'm too emotionally fragile to ever trust again.
Imagine being so disruptive that people would prefer to be alone and in peaceful solitude.
Rejection is hell when you have no personal agency.😂😂
This is how civilizations collapse
@@nicolaspicolas1988 And it should collapse, women asked for this, let them have it.
@@kthxplsI honestly can’t wait.
There are out there millions of simps who will save humanity.
Retired at 49, 7 yrs ago, No debt, student loans, paid off rental property never been married, women don’t want to be wives, but want all the benefits and none of the responsibility, refused to be used and risk my peace for a woman.
Men are natural providers. We are born wanting to feel and be needed. If a provider isn’t felt needed he will simply go where he is needed.
Don't feel sorry for men who have gone their own way. They're have a better life than they ever imagined possible.
I became a ghost after my 3rd relationship/marriage. Women kept derailing and my life and demanded my full attention. I’m a mountaineer, painter, cellist and a father. At 41, I’m no longer willing to give up a moment…. I lost too much time struggling to make miserable people happy.
Tired of being "friendzoned"
Tired of being told no matter what I do, it's "bare minimum"
Tired of drama, tired of being unappreciated. I walked away, you know what I got from it?
Peace. I got peace.
I did the same and my life is so uncomplicated now and peacefull.
Well done guys 👍
Many of us have no other choice but to stay single.
Best part of manosphere
Is finding out a man is not alone what he is going through & his situation is not unique to his ex.
feminist hate men sharing their experiences and men deciding to focus on themselves.
Thanks for being a platform of support
YEs they hate men talking to each other. It's why they feel the need to constantly monitor and invade our spaces and conversations.
RP started online post sept one one. Takes roughly 20 years for a movement to become part of the institutions. There is nothing, absolutely nothing they can do to get rid of RP. If they censor it online. Men will just go back to teaching it in person. The way it was for 250,000 years, or more. Nothing, nothing they can do now to turn it off.
@@7sons484we will not let it happen again, regardless of what big brother decides. They need us to keep themselves afloat
When women sense that a man is having fun doing something, her instinct is to destroy it... Boy Scouts, NASCAR, white collar jobs; doesn't matter what it is. She has to show up and ruin it all. And they have. Just about everything has been destroyed.
The anti male, man hating feminazi's cannot control men who go their own way. IDGAF if they don't like it. Their problem! .
He’s a great guy.
Been watching him for years.
Hes very jaded by society as a whole.
He’s also tired if the global elite and all the communist control measures they try to push on the world.
We all are. Also been subbed to Bjorn for years. He's soothing
@@SaltMinerOU812
Yeah he’s a savage gentleman in every sense.
Bjorn is a good channel......been watching for years....never seen your vids....just so you know, he is Not christian, he has said many times he is very much pagan ....
This is J-Communist revenge on the Christian West for slights in history. 109 reasons for this payback. The white family has been target #1 for centuries.
I watch him occasionally. He talks plenty of sense. I watch the video in question. As usual it was insightful.
20 years ago i walked away from women. today dog and i are happy.
I’m married and getting divorced because I work everyday get home and prepare dinner, good with my kids, don’t go bar hopping, smoking or drinking yet my wife is never satisfied, I am so done…
Hugs
I am MGTOW. I am at peace. A woman will have to bring me more peace than I can provide for myself for me to come out of mgtow.
Thought provoking perspective
You Nailed it, Brother!
❤MGTOW saves lives, survive and thrive
I don't complement women specifically because their ego's are already blown out of proportion.
💯
I don't complement them because they've become disgusting to me.
🔥🔥🔥🔥
This is true
I agree. Regrettably, some women will seek attention for self validation.
More and more men are understanding the priceless value of solitude, which equals peace.
Most men live lives of quiet desperation
Married for 20 years, now single for 14 years absolutely love it. No debt now, no worries.
I loved my wife would have done anything for her. In the last 5 years of a 15y marriage, she started hitting me and calling police on me. After 2nd fake call to cops. I got a cell phone and started to record her. Got phone in November and January I recorded her assaulting me again. She was arrested and convicted, also picked up another charge. I am unable to consider ever getting in a relationship, too risky. Now we are divorce bound. Government is gonna reward her with half of everything I worked for. She never worked a day in our marriage so now she gets even more. If only I could go back in time I would stay alone MGTOW
Quit your job, sell what's yours, move to a different country. No point letting her get more from you. I don't advocate for usury and every measure against it is moral.
Classic narcissist move of her instigating drama and fake charges against you with the police foolishly believing her, then playing the victim in the court room before the divorce judge waving the police reports saying that you are Abusive to her, gain the judge's pity and 66% of all your assets plus turning your children against you as Abusive to Mommy, Daddy is no good, stay away from him, don't talk to Daddy he is a bad person.
I'm currently in the very early stages of a divorce. Just about a week past our 15 year anniversary. I'm 42 and my life is now completely starting over from scratch like I just turned 18. It's quite a blow.
Hey don't worry man. Don't let her taking half eat at ya. We are born with nothing and leave with nothing. Seek contentment in little my friend
What a fucking nightmare
married my sweetheart when she was nineteen, me twenty-two, married 50 years, six children, she pass at age seventy, been single for three years, see my choices, today, best to stay single and NOT inflict myself on a new bride. BEST MARRIAGE EVER, we did not compete, we complemented, gave each other freedom. She was a jewel, I was an unpolished rock, still am.
My father told me. "Never trust something that bleeds for 5 days and lives."
I’ve never had a woman build me up or help me. Now I’m too old for a woman to make a difference. I’m always alone and rarely interact with women. I’ve had many women lead me on, manipulate and use me, but I’ve rarely been pleasantly surprised by a woman’s kindness and willingness to care about me.
Same here, it really sucks. Not much one can do except live day to day.
I kinda agree. For the past couple of years I have been keeping in contact with an EX. Back when we broke up it was "normal" to "stay friends". It was easy because she moved one state over.
In those last couple years the texts got really flirty. She would come to town for "work" and we usually would meet out for dinner. Last year though she recommended coming to my house to hang out. I was assuming from the flirty texts it was going to be intimate. Nope, she was just using me for validation and attention.
So about 7 months I cut her off (it didn't go well) she appeared to block me. Long story short, that was the last "female friend" I ever had. It was a great relief.
I "thought" I was keeping her around so she could "help explain women" and for the flirtatious way she interacted. But I finally realized groups like this, mostly other men, understand women more than women understand themselves. There really isn't a need for women in my life any longer 🎤👇
I believe we were all lied to about female nature. Women do not love. Love, morality, philosophy, etc. are manly pursuits, that at some points were wrongly assumed to be shared by both sexes.
Can you describe what “care for you” looks like in very specific details?
@@elsagrace3893 taking the time to ask me how I’m doing or expressing themselves in a positive way.
bjorn is a viking heathen, is married, has kids, is a published author, former weight lifter, psychologist, economist, and a good dude with his head and heart in the right place, he has my respect for continuing our ancestors religion, culture and heritage.
I like his books, Jomsviking is a masterpiece in my view, and I found his channel back when he was doing this vikingthing that he is not doing as much now on the channel. I am not particular found in this anti-vaxxer thing he was having a while ago and these conspiration-theories things he does ... but he is a cool guy apart from that.
@@arcticblue248He speaks his mind. Antivaxxer is an insane description of someone thinking critically.
@@arcticblue248 Sorry to tell, but he was right. When the authorities scare the population into allowing themselves to be injected with an experimental substance that are not more dangerous to healthy people than ordinary flue, it is good that someone manages to keep their foresight. It was not long ago that the Norwegian authorities declared Pandemrix a scandal. What happened then was trivial compared to the last poison they pushed.
A solid man for sure
@@knrst9061 💯 Being a critical thinker and demanding data (like the ones released by South Korea this year) is not the same as "anti-vaxer". Ignorant people don't understand the difference.
Bless you! You are coming from the right place. It's a pleasure to listen. When ever I see an honest woman talking it touches my heart. And it gives me hope that not all is lost. Thank you!
It is not just social media and mainstream media - it is the whole education system from kindergarten to university - all convincing young people of the same thing,
which are the things Bjorn is talking about...
My home is paid for. Everything I own is paid for. Haven't dated in 19 years. Never married...never will be. VERY happy.... Women act like 10 year olds today. Zero liability for their own moods and actions. They never say sorry. Play head games. Nasty, not nice. Needy.....
Same. Paid my mortgage off in ten years instead of dating.
That's how expensive women are.
No debts, 44y, a few 100k in shavings, 5k montly from rents, I don't work, I don't give a fuck about dating
@@user-fe2wg7xr6y fellow Sigma.
@@fredmercury1314 brother Sigma
You nailed it!
As a man, walking away from women is the best gift you can give yourself. Enjoy the peace away from the toxicity and crazies!
Agreed. Solitude is peaceful. The guys complaining about loneliness just haven't crossed over to a place where they can find peace, yet.
@@Mr._Anderpsonloneliness and being alone isn't the same tho.
@@vodka5410 Exactly right, which is why you won't catch me confusing the two.
@@Mr._Anderpson ok lol
Before meeting her, I was healthy, extremely physically fit, many friends, financially secure, confident, had many hobbies, etc.
Nine years later, I’m now the polar opposite of the latter list, and hope I will have enough time to make a full recovery. Nine years of tireless loyalty, commitment, dedication, and believing we were both striving towards the same goals together.
This is the second time I’ve had to do this, as my first long-term relationship followed an identical course.
There won’t be a third time.
Guys, never, ever, think that it cannot happen to you.
I'm a 2 timer too! I have now found Jesus and life is good. I'm no longer angry I'm at peace and the past is forgotten.. remember life is a journey.. that's the best part!
I got burnt twice in the last year. I lost my long term girl of 10 years 5 years ago due to some rather tragic circumstances.
But I actually had an eastern European girlfriend last year for 9 months, she was 6 foot tall, absolutely stunning physically and beautiful in some of her attributes too.
I actually thought she was the one, but sadly I saw red flags coming up.
She had trust issues from her past and she was not trusting of me, I was falsely accused of talking to another woman.
I had a health issue (low T) from over training in my fitness aspirations in the gym and cycling.
I became very emotional and depressed as a result. So I stopped training and I began to address what I was not doing diet wise.
Instead of having my girlfriend being supportive, she became triggered by my crying and breakdowns once per week for 5 weeks.
I was judged, told I was doing it for attention and playing the victim.
Me seeing this was very important for me to see, this was not a woman that her shit sorted out and it turned out there was quite a bit of daddy issues that had been unresolved in her.
The last straw her grabbing my phone one day when I was not looking and going through everything, trying to look for things that simply didn't exist.
We broke up at the end of last year.
This year I met another beautiful woman who was amazing, we got along sooooo well, chemistry was incredible too.
Things were again looking up.
One day she was dreading visiting her dad the next day who was quite toxic to her and as a man in general, she was very anxious all day at my house.
This new GF had also been through quite significant abuse and I was very compassionate towards her because of it too.
I tried to be intimate with her, but she was not in the mood because of her worry of her dads visit. All good, I was understanding of that. I talked with her all day and tried to comfort her as best I could.
I praised her more than normal and tried lift her spirits and self esteem.
Later on, we ended being intimate anyway, even though earlier on she was not in the mood.
Afterwards we spoke openly and passionately about our physical time together and she even complimented me on listening to her closely and treating her in a caring like manner.
In a few from this point, she drove home, she became panicky again, I could hear in her voice separation anxiety too.
Anyway, the next day when I was driving on the freeway, she called me and was apprehensive in her tone, then booooom, she said "I feel like you have broken my trust, I felt like you coerced me yesterday for physical intimacy.
I was absolutely stunned, shocked, angry, defensive etc.
I told her" I do not appreciate the language you are using at the moment, I take great offence and I scared out of my skin" but instead of understanding she was clearly reacting to some PTSD trigger from the past etc (she even acknowledged it) she then attacked my tone of voice and said I was angry (gaslighting much).
I said, yes I am angry, scared and very much drawing a firm boundary here and would not tolerate any such toxic accusations.
It all went in one ear and out the other.
She blocked me, ghosted me and ran away from me completely.
I have been left totally shocked and disturbed, like much more than I originally realised.
I can't even go on a date now and it has been 5 plus months of loop thinking about what happened.
I have talked to other women here and there and the level of flaky is unbelievable at the moment. The manners are non existent, no replying to texts, reading into "red flags" that are not even there. The level of fear that I am seeing in some women these days is very concerning. They remain single, I absolutely consider myself a high value man in many respects, but I have sort of checked out for now and I am not sure if I really care about trying to find a wonderful woman, a woman I can adore, look after and be here best friend and loyal AF partner. I really wanted a forever girl that I was prepared to always be there for, one where I am always honest with myself and her, one where two people are rock solid in every way.
If there is a problem, we can always sort it out together as a united front of love, respect and power.
I think my dogs and my race cars are more appealing these days, I love racing and the freinds I have in this sport and my dogs/cats are incredible little souls who are always there, they deserve my love and care from me and they never let me down.
Anyway, that was a lot to type on a phone.
Thank you for the video, you are a wonderful woman, I can see that in your video and the way you come across, that the beauty a real man wants. The fact that you can see people through what they look like is fantastic, well done.
I am at the stage now that if a woman comes into my life by chance, no problem, but I am done actively looking anymore.
I haven't felt appreciated or seen properly and I know what I bring to the table, it is a lot more that most and if a decent woman can't see that, then that is sadly just the way it is.
I have a wonderful friend who is a girl, but we are just friends as she feels not worthy of love, how horribly sad.
I do my best to make sure she is always spoken kindly to, appreciated and complimented on the great many things she is actually really good at.
I will leave her as a good friend as I don't think she is ready for much else anyway.
I went on a few dates with a 44 year old woman who said she's ready to get married and have children.. I really felt sorry for her..😅
you need help.
Multiple dates with a 44yr old feminist
And you felt sorry for her
Pity is weakness. She was a low value woman. She made her choices.
@SoloRenegade you never know. If I went on a date with a 44 year old feminist that was going on about marriage and children and she actually WANTED to see me again after the first date I'd probably go on a few more just for the laughs. 😂
@@jeremysmith8825 100%, surely you want to know what she did the past 20 years to end up where she is now. Must be a few comedic horror stories and multiple poor relationship choices over those two decades.
You shouldn’t. Her life of bad decisions made for her own delusional entitlement mentality and self-serving narcissism put her in the position she’s at. Time time has ran out, she has hit the wall and is in the panic of narcissistic implosion.
The last relationship I had with a woman was 25 years ago. Not bothered since, and never would. I've had 25 years of peace, quiet, time to reflect and time to do my hobbies and interests. No nagging, no shouting, no hysterics, no silly dramas, no going round shops looking at silly girly shit, no pretending to be interested in the boring witterings of some harpy whose only interest is gossiping about her "friends" and spending MY money on silly shit.
If ONLY I could have gone back to speak to my younger self and warn him NOT to bother chasing women! Oh well, we live and learn! LOL!
My last "true" relationship was in the mid 90s. I had some "off record" relationships in the early 2000s. However like many men, right around 2010, the big dating app and social media boom happened and that was the end of it for me.
To be honest, if I could talk to my younger self, I would have stayed with one of my high school sweethearts. Her body count was maybe 1 at most.. It was a great intimate relationship. However she dumped me and quickly regretted it. I was super proud and thought I could do better. Granted there was no way of me knowing if it would have lasted, but I would have liked to try.
@OriginalTodzilla Bro, she would have grown to watch you tube and get into Facebook pages that promote women ego inflation and you would have been in troubles later. Find hobbies you genuinely like. Women hate it when you sit down and wanna relax, if they fall in love, the do with the image of you they have in their head, not the real you. Even if they would try to know you more, the real you is boring.
Some average man have some chances with broken women but In my opinion you should have just sek with them and that's it. Trying to make a long lasting relationship will not work. With modern days laws of "equality" you will have to simp for her, she will manipulate you and you will be miserable, when she dumps you ending up feeling miserable because you lost company ( get an interesting pet).
So in the end, the void we so afraid is nothing but a teacher, a teacher to just observ with acceptance and see what is not worth the candle.
Find good hobbies, new communities, if not physical, online.
Be creative. Life doesn't have to be devoid of joy because lack of women.
If you desperately need one get an escort, shag, and go. It's not worth the hassle to be so soft as man nowadays.
@@OriginalTodzilla People are who they are, she would do the same under similar circumstances, every time. Thus, if it ended, it would always have ended. Thus, no value in missing it.
Bjorn is the last walking heaten on this Earth. A treasure, you should follow him
I'm a man I'm alone by choice. I don't have to be but women offer a man nothing but needs and problems I'm just not interested anymore
Women already receive benefits through the state so marriage is a deathtrap for men and a double dip for women.
Become a passport bros
I came to that same conclusion about 25 years ago, entitled and obnoxious women is not a new phenomenon. I would like to have had a wife and family, but I have seen friends and other family members get screwed over or just be plain miserable for years. I finally came to the harsh conclusion that women as a whole are untrustworthy, it's sad, but that is how it is.
@@nickdiggerz You are correct and it is a sad reality we have to face. #MGTOW
@@dennisreed6345 The world is vast - go to india.
Women are becoming more masculine, just like the kind of man that many men never wanted to be with, especially in an intimate relationship.
They aren't masculine; They turned into the toxic assholes they claimed to hate so much.
It's true. The roles have been flipped. Women are now earning more money than men. And they are more educated than men. And have better careers than men. And society caters to them, and coddles to them, and makes excuses for them. They now have more power than men. Power is a masculine trait. That is why modern women seem so masculine. Most women have more experience than men in sex, in travels, in careers, etc.
They really arent though they can never be masculine like you and me. We need to start using another word
The irony of feminism is it killed femininity.
@@alanm6o9 unfeminine. Very different from masculine.
My first marriage was with a women who only married to get Coast Guard base housing and spouse pay.
My 2nd. marriage was with a women who suffered from a Borderline personality disorder because she was raised by an abusive father. I filed for divorce and saved my Daughter by getting custody without regards to geographic location.
I raised my Daughter by myself.
I was very involved in her Life. She's now 23 and on her own.
I've never attempted marriage again. Most women suffer from one extreme or another.
My late father best advice was this, if you can live without it, that means you probably should.
I’m 66 years old, was the oldest of six kids, one sister gone from cancer (at 23) one from suicide. Dad was not the greatest, took me to his lady friend’s apartment, I did paint by numbers while they disappeared into the bedroom. At the age of eight I had no idea what was going on, but I was too old to forget about it. By ten they divorced, mom didn’t have two nickels to rub together. Eventually she married a truly bad man. Violent alcoholic, I saw him punch my mother throw my (handicapped) sister across the kitchen, and kneel over mom, holding her by the hair against the couch and with his hand on her neck whisper “are you ready to die”. At 14 I was preparing to step around the corner from the kitchen to try and hit him in the head with my baseball bat. The only thing that I remember thinking at the time was that “I have to do this left handed” over and over. I had been calling for the cops for what seemed like hours, it was at this moment they arrived. It took three (at least, could have been four) he was 6’4” 250 lbs and unnaturally strong. All area cops knew him. Destroyed our living room. He was released from jail that night and called to threaten my mom. That’s only a small slice of life growing up in our house.
All that to say I determined that my kids would not experience life in a broken home. I married a divorced woman with a six year old son, and we also had a son. I stayed through the lies, affairs, financial ruination, and debilitating criticism, my wife decided at some point along the way that sex with her husband was simply not her job. I worked, had a very good career and now have stable retirement income. My vows meant something, I think that I fulfilled them. My disgust at domestic violence did not prevent all violence in our household, almost nothing hurts me more than that. I participated in one instance, broke my promise to myself, and this among other things in my life makes me fully aware of my own frailty, not in a physical sense, but as a man.
The marriage has been over for years. But now, all the sudden she has come to the realization of what that truly means. All of the sudden I am supposed to flip the switch, take a pill and rejoin the family bed. I don’t think that it works like that, I don’t believe that it could even if I really wanted it to. It’s not just the sex!! Get this into your female brain!! He needs sex, yes, but he needs physical contact, love, affection and respect. Or even if you marry you will end up with nothing, period. Sure the house, the car, and a garage full of regret and heartache. Live like I described, as a woman, and you will be alone, with alcoholic “friends” to tell you that you have your freedom, but your freedom will be your prison.
I’m pretty much done rambling off the top of my head. Probably won’t affect anyone.
Same here. Same here.
You've been thru more than enough shit. 100% disconnect from the ex, all you are to her is a resource to be re-acquired. Stay solo. Get a good dog and build a base of brothers you can depend on. Find peace even if it means forsaking lots of other things. Be well.
Thanks for sharing. Too many men "end" themselves because they feel alone. Take care brother
I am so sorry that your heart was/in broken. It sounds like you made every effort to keep your vows, especially to yourself. You seem like a good man. Please take some time to be good to yourself. I hope you heal from this trauma. If you are ever ready, I pray you find someone capable of loving you deeply and who is able to help clear out and fill in all your empty spaces. Bless you.
G A M E. O V E R
We are just silently walking away. Most of us are quite about it. We are not a hate group. We are not even a group, we are just walking away. So we do not have the right to leave?? Women hate us the laws and judges Crucify us . We can be destroyed by a false accusation from any victim group... No thanks I'm good. 🏃🧳✈️🏝️⛱️🍻
Not just men!
I walked away YEARS ago!
Serenity is precious! Not to mention a TON of effort to not only establish, but maintain. Not going to allow anyone to disrupt that. Walked away, kept going… not missing being told I’m too driven, too passionate, too opinionated, too demanding, too informed, too inquisitive, too devoted, too blah, blah, blah… whatever. Now I just demand too much of my rig, nurture an otherwise unhealthy devotion to my dogs and continue being “too” while discovering how ridiculously gorgeous and incredible our nation’s back countries are.
Dogs are ALWAYS down for adventure. ❤️🐾❤️
Everyone needs an adventure hound. IMHO
Divorced 17 years ago, single since. As long as my now adult children were/are good is all that matters. No stress, no arguments, no relationship all good.
Probably every girl/woman I've been with over the years, have been nothing but hassle. I gave up years ago, I would rather keep my sanity.
Spent 4.5 years in family court trying to divorce an abusive woman. Got my divorce, kept the kids. Kids are adults and happy. In past 20 years had 2 girlfriends neither one lasted. Now I'm 52 and the thirst is gone. I make 120K a year and make my own schedule. Own my home. I have zero desire to deal with women. Nothing but drama and they think that all they need to do is bring sex to the table and want all your $. Not me. Went MGTOW and I only talk to women if they're family or I have to talk to them. I got money in my pocket, inner peace, and life is good. Don't care if I ever date another woman.
I am 70 years old and a two time divorcee. First wife left after 11 years and three children because she said she was 'not happy'. Never willing to go to marriage counseling to work on it. She never gave an explanation for her unhappiness. Second marriage was 27 years. She wanted a child. We ended up adapting a baby girl. At 25 years I pleaded with her to go to marriage counseling to work on our marriage. She would have no part of it. Two years later she connected with an old high school boyfriend (who was still married) and left me for him. Ten years later the boyfriend never got divorced and she is still with him. It still hurts to this day. My counselor told me that my prospects of dating at my age (59 at the time) were bleak. I asked him why? He said, " because I know whats out there) I found out what he meant. Single at 70 sucks.
Short story, wife cheated while I was deployed and got knocked up, dumped the kids in foster care, stole everything not bolted down and left. I fought for my kids so they wouldn't be stuck in foster care and raised them by myself. It took me 10 years to rebuild my life financially, f**k marriage I will never go down that road again and after multiple failed relationships I'm done getting taken for a ride. I'd rather stay single.
Middle age, never married, no debt, very fit, charming, intelligent and good looking, making more $ by the day. I pay to spend private time with very young attractive fit women. Why would i invite a daily burden/mental case/entitled and/or jaded (aka gf or wife) into my life? I'll wait.
I’m fifty and stopped dating years ago. I learned in my early twenties that relationships weren’t for me. I spent my thirties trying to connect romantically with women and they all went nowhere. I dated one woman in my forties and she didn’t care about me but she wanted me to marry her. I haven’t bothered trying for years now. I’m fifty and loneliness is my life.
@@randomAnnanoumousDude2134 I was never married because I didn’t want the ex. I spent my life pursuing romance and found it sparsely. I haven’t slept in a bed overnight with a woman more than ten times in the last twenty five plus years. My loneliness is deep and profound, but it allowed me to develop personally. I’ve had years of therapy and the males were more effective than the females. The females couldn’t relate, didn’t understand, were trying to help in childish ways and were inefficient and a couple of times reckless.
@@JohnMack-f3f Females do NOT communicate better than men and they are NOT the empathetic gender. I consider women to be the sociopathic, narcissist gender.
I haven't slept with a woman in several years @@JohnMack-f3f
3% is a 50/50 chance - wayyy too accurate my boy. You are s good guesser like me
John you slept with 10 women you dont know true loneliness LOL. Its even worse than you can imagine
I was married for 32 years. A degrading, lonely experience. I was a great dad, supportive and attentive husband, breadwinner.
My kids talk/message me daily. I'm 'Pop Pop' to my my grandchildren. They barely speak to their mother...I take no joy in this...its tragic that they don't have a supportive mother.
I've opted out of romance. It kills me but the risks of a relationship outweigh the advantages.