LOVE what you said about "protected time". Dated someone during pre-med who was also pre-med, and it seemed like we spent a lot of time together, but in hindsight it was just studying... being proactive about making time is so important.
hey I'm lilo from Kenya and I am a pharmacy student I find your videos really helpful especially with the med school insiders...also I have a huge crush on u
My wife is a professional dancer/model in the city. It's so nice to NOT do the same thing, but for each of us to be equally passionate in something that requires ALL of our time most of the time. That mutual understanding is HUGE.
Commenting as a non-medicine individual dating a second year IM resident. I wouldn't say that the largest challenge is the "lack of understanding" more so as it is, the feeling of isolation that can come with dating someone who is always busy and tired. BUT I will say this, I am so proud of him every single day. And for the time that we do get to spend together, it's always so special. We make moments count and that's what matters. My advice to the non-medicine partner is to focus on your professional career as well and things that make you happy outside of the relationship. If they are someone worth dating, your support will never be taken for granted.
I actually cried on your comment. Were dating for almost 4yrs now and he''s 2nd yr med student, the feeling of isolation is really true, sometimes I think he's ghosting me, it will take him weeks before he can call or text, it's hard but I love him and I will support him no matter what
all my relationships failed in nursing school lol. I did date my classmate for a while, but she was very competitive. she'd always compare tests scores , while i was only happy to pass. Sadly, I guess sometimes its best to wait for things to come to you, rather than to search for the one.
cannot imagine dating a fellow medical student, ew, grateful for my partner who appreciates me talking about medicine on occasion but I couldn't handle SCIENCE nonstop
I've initially tried to avoid dating med students for very similar reasons to the ones you listed out. But then I met and started seeing this guy who turned out to also be a Med student (he's a senior and I'm a junior). Ironically, we both hid the fact we were medics on the dating app, so we still laugh a bit about that to this day. Both of us got very different side passions, but we are also very ambitiously driven and having Med did strengthen our bond in my case. We can never talk enough about Med, but we also talk about techs/politics/music/philosophy/etc. We love to mix pleasure with work and we only physically see each other once every 3 weeks so far due to being at distance and very busy, but we video call almost every day and text each other often to check-in. It can work as long as both people are willing! We do what we can, we support each other and we make the most out of everything. This is only my personal experience though :)
Hey but tell me one thing, how it's possible to get attached with someone through an app? I mean romantically. like as i know, love is not the thing which u can find online. It needs the presence of that person , interactions, sometimes moments..... like how it's possible bro to do so through an app. Correct me if I'm wrong
My boyfriend and I are in the same class and it’s been a year now :) I would not say that you should not talk about medicine because it’s your common passion. What is the most important is to communicate and tell your partner when it’s too much for you. Some protected time together is definitly a good thing. And the biggest challenge is to avoid competition.
The thing is I am very competitive, so if I date someone in Med school I will feel either inferior or superior when comparing marks and I HATE THAT! Been dating a guy since 6 years who is in banking and its amazingggggg because I respect his field as I hve no idea about it and i feel no competition. He is just as busy as I am in med school so it works out! Basically if you have 1) understanding 2) loyalty 3) trust 4) love for each other- it's gonna work out! It was def easier for me because I was already with him from my undergrad prior to entering medical school so we already had our base set!
@@arathgonzalez7329 Make sure you both stay interested in each other's field and constantly update each other with what's currently going on in your studies and your partner's work! Communicate often! It will work out!! Any details on how long you guys been together?
@@aparnaperi3930 Thank you, yea sure, we’ve been together 2 years, she is in med school and I study Business, I really love her, I think we truly match as a couple, she lives not that close to me, but every time we see each other, we talk about each other, thanks for your response and any advice 🙌🏻
My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years, we’re high school sweethearts and we’re both almost done with undergrad. We plan to stay together and get married during my time in med school. He’s a pilot. I’m happy to see other people with working relationships despite having different professions, so thank you for sharing and making me feel inspired
I am halfway through med school ( my second career after a music major ;) almost 10 years married, 3 children, my husband is a lawyer and i do sooo many things throughout the day. But i think God knows what he does, i don't like to talk a lot about medicine, but sometimes he gets interested and we are constantly learning new things and teaching each other and we also do the "protected time" on weekends with our children and with eachother when i have nights off...
as an aspiring MD and family person, i have a question: how do you maintain a good work-life balance? how do you manage to allocate enough time for your family without it feeling like you’re “penciling” them into your schedule? this is something i’m really nervous about
im a software engineer and my boyfriend is unemployed. hes gonna be the one doing all the housework and taking care of kids when we get married probably
This was such a good video! As a 3rd year medical student who only dated people not in medicine before, and now dating someone who's starting med school this year, appreciated the tips regarding free time not lining up and making sure we don't just talk about medicine all the time :)
Dated someone as a MS1 who was in a gap year - and definitely ran into issues of him having a lot more free time than me. I was for sure too accommodating with my time - lesson learned, now I set boundaries for when I need to be in full study mode!
Good timing. My girlfriend And I are currently applying to med school after meeting in our master’s program this year. Just started the conversation about moving forward if we end up at different schools and residencies. I used to never want to date another doctor/medical worker because I figured it’d be overwhelming and I need variety, but here I am lol. Hoping for the best, good topic for the video
I'm 13 and I've been thinking of going to med school since I love all forms of science, when I grow up ,but the many times I got discouraged with the fear of failing I would come back and watch Med School Insiders and your channel and its been so motivating to study harder and choose which stream I'd like to do with the '' So You Want To Be '' series, you've been so helpful. Thank you so much :)
Agree so much about not talking about nothing but medicine. I get it’s something in common, but it shouldn’t be the only thing in common.. even for friendships.
I hate talking about medicine and I am a doctor . It's really annoying, who cares about that. The best person is the one with you can talk about everything
Oh boy I can imagine, what’s your specialty? I am on my way to hopefully becoming a family medicine physician, does your family pester you with medical questions? :p
Can we get a video explaining different medical degrees? You made an M.D compared to DO, but I (and many others) would like to see a video comparing MD to DPM, AUD, OD, DC, etc. (in a MSI video, you said chiropractors and naturopaths aren’t doctors can you possibly elaborate on that?). I attend Kent State University, which has a College of Podiatric Medicine, which is one of my back up plans if I don’t get into allopathic medical school. I would love to hear your take on these different degrees and how they compare to MD specialties.
i’m starting medical school later this month and my SO is finishing up fellowship! lol we barely talk about medicine now but that will most likely change 😅
Great advice Dr. J! Long distance relationships in Med School & Residency can definitely be challenging. Communication & Dedication to MAKING Time for you S.O can very easily make or break the relationship
If you time to make videos like this... then you have time to date. If you change your priorities a little and devote that time to a spouse you could probably have both with less stress. Good Luck
"You know, there were some other questions on the Instagram AMA which was, 'Why am I single?', 'Am I single?', 'When am I getting married?'. Those questions, I may answer in a future video. (But probably not)" Come on Dr.J, that's how you build the subscriber-creator connection. We want to hear some non-educational stuff. :(
Great video and explanation. My wife works from home as a Nurse in Billing. During med school we had two babies, bought 31 rental units and on and on.... Couldn't imagine having all this stress and no one to spend time with.... Better get to work men! Dont want to be another single, sad, depressed doctor 32-50 yr old...Build a life, not just your job title.
Doc can you do s video on the real estate or passive income as a doc ... I know it's a huge topic but some pointers or useful websites to learn more would be great ♥️
Kevin, can you make a video where you explore more the topic of passive income specifically for doctors (talking about real estate and other ways of achieving it) 😁
Okay but how do I meet people while being in med school aha?? I barely have time to do grocery shopping 😂😭 Dating another med student doesn't work for me, because they are so focussed on medicine. But if I want to date outside of med school, I have to make time for a social life... And time I don't have 😌 ... or more like I'd rather spend my very scarce free time on myself, rather than putting that effort on some stranger.
It's difficult dating in medicine because you have these deadlines that are not present in other careers. I ultimately wasn't able to stay with someone because they were unwilling to adjust their life to accommodate things outside of my control (basically he was unwilling to go with me wherever I matched). Pretty easy decision to break up with him lol
I wish there were a way of meeting fellow med students at the same or other medical schools with similar interests as yours. Even meeting someone at your own medical school but in a different class year can be difficult. Very little interaction. It can be isolating especially when you’re so busy studying to be able to find the right avenue to meet someone with your niche nerdy interests.
just fyi, don’t waste too much time or stress out over what specialty you want to go into. I think somewhere around 50% of med students change what they want to specialize in between their 1st and 4th years. For that matter, don’t even stress or waste too much time deciding whether to go into medicine or not. You have just under a decade to do that
this may sound like a weird question but do you know if most doctors end up with partners that they met in/during medical school or residency? (trying to not lose hope lmao)
It's probably not helpful bc anecdotes don't reflect the population, but you certainly can meet a partner during med school or residency. My aunt met her partner in medical school or residency, I don't recall which.
What about if you've never dated in your life before as a medical student graduating this year and going into residency? Do you have any tips on how to start changingng that around? I think residency is going to very hard for me and having never dated before - it's going to be EVEN harder to find someone. I've been content my whole life being single but at some point I don't want to be lonely forever.
Most doctors especially young doctors are broke doctors after they finish med school. So to hook up with a doctor with $300,000 of school debt is not a winner. However if you find out that his parents has paid for his entire education then it’s a winning prospect but that is maybe 4% of doctors. Most people think oh my god you’re a doctor you must be really established and actually like I said before most young doctors are broke on their ass and have sacrificed many years of living on a budget or delayed self gratification until they get out of school. Then a large percentage of them go way into debt new car new house new lifestyle everything and then they’re living well beyond their means this is the curse of delayed gratification through the years in college.
True about most young doctors not being financially secure at that point in their career. However, there's much more to a happy and successful relationship than just finances.
True, however in the long run it pays off. If they’re not wanting to be with you long enough till you’re financially stable, what is the point? If you’re a well meaning person who isn’t crazy possessive, hooking up (in the relationship sense) is definitely a winner. Results may vary based on the actual quality of the physician.
I’m gonna get so much hate for this comment but if you’re a female physician whose NOT type A (on a scale of Med students, at least) chill etc- I would strongly recommend you consider dating another physician over someone outside of medicine. I have done both and man there is no comparison. Chill/ non gunner female Med students are still people pleasers etc and making a guy outside of medicine understand your schedule is so painful - and chill girls have such a hard time advocating for themselves - I have seen it time and time again amongst my peers! If you’re a type A gunner - either is fine, you will make it work LOL. I have seen this time and time again !
Dr. Jubbal, so when did you friends and collauges have children in medical school and residency? As in what year in med school and what year in residency. BTW, this may or may not be appropriate but I'm going to say it anyway: You have such a beautiful smile! :)
I’m really anxious about getting into a relationship with a guy who is working to be a surgeon and I’m outside the field doing Food Science. I’m anxious because I’m big on quality time and obviously I’m very flexible but I know he’ll be busy all the time. Typically I don’t see my friends all the time or I’ll see them once a week and in my mind I would like to Integrate that type of time spent together in the budding relationship for example scheduling some time together but it’s really hard because he doesn’t really have a work schedule in his lab, they just call him in and that’s it. Idk I’m just scared. He’s literally the sweetest guy I’ve romantically talked to ever. He has so much respect for me and literally treats me like a queen. I think it seems like he wants to spend too much time taking care of me so I like to remind him to take so time for himself too. I genuinely want to get to know him better and potentially get into a long term relationship with him but I’m scared. I don’t want to feel abandoned and I know that’s the last thing he would ever want me to feel. Idk any kind words or words of motivation is welcomed. I have faith everything is going to be ok but I’m still anxious about it. Thanks to those who chose to read or comment. Much appreciated ❤️
A surgeon is going to be VERY busy and not easy to have a family with. Without a doubt you will have to compromise. Try to talk about it with him. How does he see his future with a family? Will he try to put family first? Does he have a live to work mentality? How much can he compromise with you? The way you describe him he seems nice. Wait your comment was 6 months ago lol you still see him?
@@minimo3634 no sadly. We tried talking it out and he does see himself having kid but he was god awful at communicating or even having a basic conversation with me. He would ask me how I was doing then I would reply and ask the same and then he wouldn’t reply back until I said something about his lack of communication. It just felt like talking to a wall at that point
Thanks for watching! BTW, I'm definitely not an expert on this (just ask my exes). What is your experience of dating in medical school?
Can you do a video on neurosurgery residents salary please
LOVE what you said about "protected time". Dated someone during pre-med who was also pre-med, and it seemed like we spent a lot of time together, but in hindsight it was just studying... being proactive about making time is so important.
hey I'm lilo from Kenya and I am a pharmacy student I find your videos really helpful especially with the med school insiders...also I have a huge crush on u
Hi doc plz tell how you feel about India and mbbs in India rest your video was gr8
@@lilowangechi7145 I do to
My wife is a professional dancer/model in the city. It's so nice to NOT do the same thing, but for each of us to be equally passionate in something that requires ALL of our time most of the time. That mutual understanding is HUGE.
No greater emphasis on that last line about understanding each other's commitments.
She's a stripper??
dragon888193ftw man shut up
@@dragon888193ftw She's securing that future monthly check from him once he's a doctor
@@dragon888193ftw ayy lmao
Commenting as a non-medicine individual dating a second year IM resident. I wouldn't say that the largest challenge is the "lack of understanding" more so as it is, the feeling of isolation that can come with dating someone who is always busy and tired. BUT I will say this, I am so proud of him every single day. And for the time that we do get to spend together, it's always so special. We make moments count and that's what matters. My advice to the non-medicine partner is to focus on your professional career as well and things that make you happy outside of the relationship. If they are someone worth dating, your support will never be taken for granted.
Lol my gf is abt to go into med school and I’d been worried but I’m going into engineering so ig that could levitate it
@@chidubemikoro6391 you can do it! Lots of good communication and patience :) I’m sure she will be extremely grateful for your support
I actually cried on your comment. Were dating for almost 4yrs now and he''s 2nd yr med student, the feeling of isolation is really true, sometimes I think he's ghosting me, it will take him weeks before he can call or text, it's hard but I love him and I will support him no matter what
@@AnyaandKharim If it’s meant to be it will work out. Sending positive vibes! ❤️
Angel • may your heart prevail, you guys got each other ❤️
DON'T TALK ABOUT MEDICINE. This so true, they've already seen enough through the week or day.
The only relationship you have time for in medical school is with your textbooks. 😂
Facts!
Truth.
Yup
That’s what I tell my fiancé. I’m having an affair with USMLE Step 1!
@@Maddawg31415 lmao🤣🤣
Can you elaborate in future videos on east vs west coast med schools /residency as you briefly mentioned.
Yeah, that would be a great video topic
And Midwest, southwest as well
Intriguing.
@@LplusRatioLol 🤣🤣🤣
So true about talking about medicine. Thats why medical burnout is so high. Its important to have other interests in life so that you don't burnout.
all my relationships failed in nursing school lol. I did date my classmate for a while, but she was very competitive. she'd always compare tests scores , while i was only happy to pass. Sadly, I guess sometimes its best to wait for things to come to you, rather than to search for the one.
that's why i don't want to date another med student.
cannot imagine dating a fellow medical student, ew, grateful for my partner who appreciates me talking about medicine on occasion but I couldn't handle SCIENCE nonstop
what’s wrong with dating another med student why ew?
@@JhonnyStone100 "Couldn't handle SCIENCE nonstop", twas in her comment you see
I've initially tried to avoid dating med students for very similar reasons to the ones you listed out. But then I met and started seeing this guy who turned out to also be a Med student (he's a senior and I'm a junior). Ironically, we both hid the fact we were medics on the dating app, so we still laugh a bit about that to this day. Both of us got very different side passions, but we are also very ambitiously driven and having Med did strengthen our bond in my case. We can never talk enough about Med, but we also talk about techs/politics/music/philosophy/etc. We love to mix pleasure with work and we only physically see each other once every 3 weeks so far due to being at distance and very busy, but we video call almost every day and text each other often to check-in. It can work as long as both people are willing! We do what we can, we support each other and we make the most out of everything. This is only my personal experience though :)
Hey but tell me one thing, how it's possible to get attached with someone through an app? I mean romantically. like as i know, love is not the thing which u can find online. It needs the presence of that person , interactions, sometimes moments..... like how it's possible bro to do so through an app. Correct me if I'm wrong
My boyfriend and I are in the same class and it’s been a year now :) I would not say that you should not talk about medicine because it’s your common passion. What is the most important is to communicate and tell your partner when it’s too much for you. Some protected time together is definitly a good thing. And the biggest challenge is to avoid competition.
Grandpa J back it again spitting facts
Legend has it that Kevin screams "don't talk about medicine in his sleep". That must be a sore spot.
🤣
The thing is I am very competitive, so if I date someone in Med school I will feel either inferior or superior when comparing marks and I HATE THAT! Been dating a guy since 6 years who is in banking and its amazingggggg because I respect his field as I hve no idea about it and i feel no competition. He is just as busy as I am in med school so it works out! Basically if you have 1) understanding 2) loyalty 3) trust 4) love for each other- it's gonna work out! It was def easier for me because I was already with him from my undergrad prior to entering medical school so we already had our base set!
Im in the same situation, any advices?
I’m happy to read this kind of comments
@@arathgonzalez7329 Make sure you both stay interested in each other's field and constantly update each other with what's currently going on in your studies and your partner's work! Communicate often! It will work out!! Any details on how long you guys been together?
@@aparnaperi3930 Thank you, yea sure, we’ve been together 2 years, she is in med school and I study Business, I really love her, I think we truly match as a couple, she lives not that close to me, but every time we see each other, we talk about each other, thanks for your response and any advice 🙌🏻
@@arathgonzalez7329 that's sooo sweet!!
My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years, we’re high school sweethearts and we’re both almost done with undergrad. We plan to stay together and get married during my time in med school. He’s a pilot. I’m happy to see other people with working relationships despite having different professions, so thank you for sharing and making me feel inspired
I am halfway through med school ( my second career after a music major ;) almost 10 years married, 3 children, my husband is a lawyer and i do sooo many things throughout the day. But i think God knows what he does, i don't like to talk a lot about medicine, but sometimes he gets interested and we are constantly learning new things and teaching each other and we also do the "protected time" on weekends with our children and with eachother when i have nights off...
as an aspiring MD and family person, i have a question:
how do you maintain a good work-life balance? how do you manage to allocate enough time for your family without it feeling like you’re “penciling” them into your schedule? this is something i’m really nervous about
im a software engineer and my boyfriend is unemployed. hes gonna be the one doing all the housework and taking care of kids when we get married probably
The demise of western civilization
Perfect timing! Heading to med school this fall and this is something that I've been thinking about a lot
Good luck!
Good luck
This was such a good video! As a 3rd year medical student who only dated people not in medicine before, and now dating someone who's starting med school this year, appreciated the tips regarding free time not lining up and making sure we don't just talk about medicine all the time :)
Dated someone as a MS1 who was in a gap year - and definitely ran into issues of him having a lot more free time than me. I was for sure too accommodating with my time - lesson learned, now I set boundaries for when I need to be in full study mode!
Good timing. My girlfriend And I are currently applying to med school after meeting in our master’s program this year. Just started the conversation about moving forward if we end up at different schools and residencies. I used to never want to date another doctor/medical worker because I figured it’d be overwhelming and I need variety, but here I am lol. Hoping for the best, good topic for the video
I'm 13 and I've been thinking of going to med school since I love all forms of science, when I grow up ,but the many times I got discouraged with the fear of failing I would come back and watch Med School Insiders and your channel and its been so motivating to study harder and choose which stream I'd like to do with the '' So You Want To Be '' series, you've been so helpful. Thank you so much :)
This is not my first time watching a video on this channel, but I swear once you start binging his videos, his face gets longer and longer
lmao
Agree so much about not talking about nothing but medicine. I get it’s something in common, but it shouldn’t be the only thing in common.. even for friendships.
couples matching is so interesting
lol, I'm just here to take notes on how to snatch me a doctor for a wife 😊
Same buddy hahaha
Wait til their out of med school bc it’s actually miserable being involved with someone who is in med school
I hate talking about medicine and I am a doctor . It's really annoying, who cares about that. The best person is the one with you can talk about everything
Oh boy I can imagine, what’s your specialty? I am on my way to hopefully becoming a family medicine physician, does your family pester you with medical questions? :p
Can we get a video explaining different medical degrees? You made an M.D compared to DO, but I (and many others) would like to see a video comparing MD to DPM, AUD, OD, DC, etc. (in a MSI video, you said chiropractors and naturopaths aren’t doctors can you possibly elaborate on that?). I attend Kent State University, which has a College of Podiatric Medicine, which is one of my back up plans if I don’t get into allopathic medical school. I would love to hear your take on these different degrees and how they compare to MD specialties.
lulu I and may would argue a DPM is also considered a physician.
i’m starting medical school later this month and my SO is finishing up fellowship! lol we barely talk about medicine now but that will most likely change 😅
Great advice Dr. J! Long distance relationships in Med School & Residency can definitely be challenging.
Communication & Dedication to MAKING Time for you S.O can very easily make or break the relationship
I agree with buying back your time Hire the housekeeper, the nanny, and the gardener.
Dr Jubbal, why are you doing this to us. Some people are just trying to see if they can shoot their shots 😄
Great video as usual
😂
If you time to make videos like this... then you have time to date. If you change your priorities a little and devote that time to a spouse you could probably have both with less stress. Good Luck
@@ashleywinger6789 lol true could have a wife instead of a virtual following
@@ashleywinger6789 priorities man
One med student another
"You know, there were some other questions on the Instagram AMA which was, 'Why am I single?', 'Am I single?', 'When am I getting married?'. Those questions, I may answer in a future video. (But probably not)"
Come on Dr.J, that's how you build the subscriber-creator connection. We want to hear some non-educational stuff. :(
Haha alright, in the next AMA
Great video and explanation. My wife works from home as a Nurse in Billing. During med school we had two babies, bought 31 rental units and on and on.... Couldn't imagine having all this stress and no one to spend time with.... Better get to work men! Dont want to be another single, sad, depressed doctor 32-50 yr old...Build a life, not just your job title.
I wish you a beautiful life brother ❤️
never clicked quicker
Doc can you do s video on the real estate or passive income as a doc ... I know it's a huge topic but some pointers or useful websites to learn more would be great ♥️
Contrary to popular belief, sufficient sleep is necessary for best health.
I click the like button by instinct now
This AMA, along with the other one is something that I needed at the moment. Thank you. 😀
commenting for the UA-cam algorithm :)
Kevin, can you make a video where you explore more the topic of passive income specifically for doctors (talking about real estate and other ways of achieving it) 😁
Or maybe interview doctors who've done it and are willing to share some lessons
Yes yes yes Tell the truth about being on call. Tell them if you have to answer to phone no matter what.
Okay but how do I meet people while being in med school aha?? I barely have time to do grocery shopping 😂😭
Dating another med student doesn't work for me, because they are so focussed on medicine. But if I want to date outside of med school, I have to make time for a social life... And time I don't have 😌
... or more like I'd rather spend my very scarce free time on myself, rather than putting that effort on some stranger.
u are so smart and handsome, it’s impossible for u to be single....
Thank you so much for this! I just started my channel and am about to start my first year of med school, so this was super helpful!
Awesome good luck!
It's the same as dating an Entrepreneur
You have to be patient
Learn to date yourself
Quality time is precious
Always make time for each other
Make sure your partner knows how limited your time is before you get into a relationship
It's difficult dating in medicine because you have these deadlines that are not present in other careers. I ultimately wasn't able to stay with someone because they were unwilling to adjust their life to accommodate things outside of my control (basically he was unwilling to go with me wherever I matched). Pretty easy decision to break up with him lol
LOL that cliffhanger at the end though
Can you make a video of your favourite podcasts?
Love seeing your face ! I feel like I know you cause of the med insiders 😂
Record more 'Day in the life' with Dr. McKnight! Orthopedics is great! Is this would possible?
I find most doctors to be really weird and cliquey where I work - hard to be friends let alone date.
I wish there were a way of meeting fellow med students at the same or other medical schools with similar interests as yours. Even meeting someone at your own medical school but in a different class year can be difficult. Very little interaction. It can be isolating especially when you’re so busy studying to be able to find the right avenue to meet someone with your niche nerdy interests.
I wanted to meet a girl outside of my race but it kind of sucks bc that would prove it’s just bc of earning potential.
This video will blow up, soon. ✍
Hey Kevin Loved the video content bought by you ... Tq Kevin
Dr jubbal please can you make a video about making to US residency from Asian countries?!!
Lol I'm like 12 and I have watch like almost all your vidz on this channel and on med sch insiders and that help choose what I want to specialise in
Too late. You have to start in utero.
enjoy childhood 🥺
Med school insiders helped me decided on a specialty in medicine, I want to be either a neurologist or a radiologist in the future
just fyi, don’t waste too much time or stress out over what specialty you want to go into. I think somewhere around 50% of med students change what they want to specialize in between their 1st and 4th years. For that matter, don’t even stress or waste too much time deciding whether to go into medicine or not. You have just under a decade to do that
One can’t buy his/her time back.
9:46 lower left corner
DR JUBBAL PLS HEART THIS
Here's a pity heart from me:
Going to get into a med school soon . You freaked me out already.
Thank you for allowing us to continue imagining you are single lol:)
I just want to know if you’re single 😜
Pretty sure he's atleast engaged
this may sound like a weird question but do you know if most doctors end up with partners that they met in/during medical school or residency? (trying to not lose hope lmao)
It's probably not helpful bc anecdotes don't reflect the population, but you certainly can meet a partner during med school or residency. My aunt met her partner in medical school or residency, I don't recall which.
Hahahaha Dr J simply always has whatever I have going on in my life answered 😂😂😂
Thankyou sir, the video was helpful
Day in the life of an american in a medical school abroad like Ireland please
What about if you've never dated in your life before as a medical student graduating this year and going into residency? Do you have any tips on how to start changingng that around? I think residency is going to very hard for me and having never dated before - it's going to be EVEN harder to find someone. I've been content my whole life being single but at some point I don't want to be lonely forever.
I have the same issue
Most doctors especially young doctors are broke doctors after they finish med school. So to hook up with a doctor with $300,000 of school debt is not a winner. However if you find out that his parents has paid for his entire education then it’s a winning prospect but that is maybe 4% of doctors. Most people think oh my god you’re a doctor you must be really established and actually like I said before most young doctors are broke on their ass and have sacrificed many years of living on a budget or delayed self gratification until they get out of school. Then a large percentage of them go way into debt new car new house new lifestyle everything and then they’re living well beyond their means this is the curse of delayed gratification through the years in college.
True about most young doctors not being financially secure at that point in their career. However, there's much more to a happy and successful relationship than just finances.
True, however in the long run it pays off. If they’re not wanting to be with you long enough till you’re financially stable, what is the point? If you’re a well meaning person who isn’t crazy possessive, hooking up (in the relationship sense) is definitely a winner. Results may vary based on the actual quality of the physician.
I admire how open-minded this is
Which part is open minded?
Lol
How?
such a beautiful smile!
Fuck... I miss the level of freedom in college. Following schedules and micromanaging social events is killing my soul.
There's pros and cons to each. Focusing on the negative will amplify it
date after step 1 lol but now that it is pass fail date whenever 😅
That moment when you study long and hard at medicine school but you are a low wage doctor on a small island
You sain "medicine" like a billion times
I’m gonna get so much hate for this comment but if you’re a female physician whose NOT type A (on a scale of Med students, at least) chill etc- I would strongly recommend you consider dating another physician over someone outside of medicine. I have done both and man there is no comparison. Chill/ non gunner female Med students are still people pleasers etc and making a guy outside of medicine understand your schedule is so painful - and chill girls have such a hard time advocating for themselves - I have seen it time and time again amongst my peers! If you’re a type A gunner - either is fine, you will make it work LOL. I have seen this time and time again !
Why are you starting to look like Obama 😆
I’m evolving into my highest form
@@kevinjubbalmd 😂😂😂
He’s a fellow and I’m a med student RIP 😭
Cancer dating, I ship 😍
😶Indian couples are born to be in long distance relationships owing to our wonderfully strict parents.
Typically long distance relationships through residency don’t go well from what I’ve heard.
Dr. Jubbal, so when did you friends and collauges have children in medical school and residency? As in what year in med school and what year in residency. BTW, this may or may not be appropriate but I'm going to say it anyway: You have such a beautiful smile! :)
That cliff hanger do
What if one is a fourth year and a second year ,
dont even talk abt medicine w my friends in medical school lol
Same 😂
Notification gang😎
Just commenting for the algorithm 💜
"You want to rank Stanford as #1," yeah this video doesn't apply to me
I’m really anxious about getting into a relationship with a guy who is working to be a surgeon and I’m outside the field doing Food Science. I’m anxious because I’m big on quality time and obviously I’m very flexible but I know he’ll be busy all the time. Typically I don’t see my friends all the time or I’ll see them once a week and in my mind I would like to Integrate that type of time spent together in the budding relationship for example scheduling some time together but it’s really hard because he doesn’t really have a work schedule in his lab, they just call him in and that’s it. Idk I’m just scared. He’s literally the sweetest guy I’ve romantically talked to ever. He has so much respect for me and literally treats me like a queen. I think it seems like he wants to spend too much time taking care of me so I like to remind him to take so time for himself too. I genuinely want to get to know him better and potentially get into a long term relationship with him but I’m scared. I don’t want to feel abandoned and I know that’s the last thing he would ever want me to feel. Idk any kind words or words of motivation is welcomed. I have faith everything is going to be ok but I’m still anxious about it. Thanks to those who chose to read or comment. Much appreciated ❤️
A surgeon is going to be VERY busy and not easy to have a family with. Without a doubt you will have to compromise. Try to talk about it with him. How does he see his future with a family? Will he try to put family first? Does he have a live to work mentality? How much can he compromise with you? The way you describe him he seems nice. Wait your comment was 6 months ago lol you still see him?
@@minimo3634 no sadly. We tried talking it out and he does see himself having kid but he was god awful at communicating or even having a basic conversation with me. He would ask me how I was doing then I would reply and ask the same and then he wouldn’t reply back until I said something about his lack of communication. It just felt like talking to a wall at that point
What's the finance podcast u listened to
is it harder to date if you're a med student compared to other types of students?
Should I approach a senior girl in medschool for dating?
9:46 dont try to fool us maan... I get that you dont wanna dive in a lot of personal issues btw
Im just leaving this comment in case someone i know see this 🤓
For the Premed Roadmap to Medical Admissions course when you purchase it, do you have unlimited access to it or does it expire after 5 weeks?
Unlimited access
Finding myself wishing I could be Kevin's intern 😶😁#crushing
omg seeing him is so weird, being used with animations xdd. ngl he kinda looks like a plastic surgeon (handsome)
I want videos on research .