After being a foster parent for over 20 years, I still only do newborns. We adopted 4, so being 59, we just do one foster baby at a time. I have to say though, my current foster baby (now 2 months old), I have fallen in love with his 21 year old FASD mom. She is sweet, has no support system, etc. I am stepping up my support of her and she calls me mom now. Even if the baby goes home, we’ll be here for her and the baby. I have one child in a wheelchair, so I’m always cautious who I take in. At least with babies, they grow with us. 🥰
I dont do boys anymore unfortunately unless very little -- it got too unsafe with the holes in the wall and physical intimidation. But I find girls really sweet if you can get them to open up and ditch the older creepy boyfriends lol.
Routine is definitely needed…..yes, teach them how to make their laundry, make lunches. Etc. congratulations to you and your husband …you are so wonderful
Yes! They’ve been helping clear their plates, make their own sandwiches, getting their own breakfasts and water - it’s nice to teach them independence. In a lot of ways teens require a lot less energy since they can do a lot on their own!
I see this is a few months old, but for teenagers with self-esteem and mental health issues I recommend the Lockwood and Co series by Jonathan Stroud. It's a ghost hunter series, the main characters are 15-16 and loss and difficult family situations are addressed, although not the main topic of the books. What I especially like is that the three main characters find a family in each other and start new after trauma.
Oh my goodness my love, I have watched you since before you had your first placement. What growth you've had in such a short time. The love and understanding you exude I adore you
I was so excited seeing the title of this video and it was so heartwarming to watch! I love how you thoughtfully setup and bought things for them and how welcoming you are! I think the gifts of imperfection by brene brown could be a good short read for teen girls that teaches a lot about themselves.
In terms of a the color of the bedding, I actually really like that dark blue! You never know what the girls may end up liking, and i think they will be very grateful as a whole to have clean sheets/space for their room.
@@HappyHoppe Great! It's amazing on what can work out sometimes. I also just had a thought too in terms of stocking up on soaps and such....Bath and Body works, especially if you can hit them up during their Semi-Annual Sales, where their shower gels and hand soaps are cheap. MANY teenage girls love them, and that could be a good bonding thing in terms of letting them pick stuff out. Then, when they leave, they can take those with them, which would also free up more space, and give them something that's a bit comforting for wherever they go back to.
It is so nice to see a smile on your face again. This is your calling. I think anything you do with those girls is going to be wonderful. They will remember this for a long time. Enjoy it, foster love and support.
Book recommendations! I got you girl. “The hatters”- Jesse andrews (about a kid in a band with social anxiety) “Paper towns”- John green (a boy in love with a girl who’s trying to develop a sense of self in a world where she feels everyone is being fake) “Mirror mirror”- cara delevingne (talks about struggling with gender identity) For lighter and just happy popular books (divergent, Harry Potter, me and earl and the dying girl) I also recommend anything written by Marie Lu
I’m a foster mother in Ohio. I exclusively do teen girls and adopted a 17 year old last November. I hit the Half Price Books store for a variety of books for my foster room. Homecoming by Cynthia Voigt is about a parentified teen girl looking for a kinship placement for her and her siblings. Good Night Mr.Tom is about an abused boy in London during WW2 and being sent to the country to escape the blitz. Both of these are good for kids who want something they can relate to. I also put the first Harry Potter book, A Wrinkle in Time,and Eragon in the room as well. These do all touch on missing parents in some way but are more fantasy focused. They work well for escaping into another world to forget your problems for a time. Joan Bauer’s Rules of the Road is a coming of age novel about learning to drive, and to stand up for yourself. I also make sure there is an empty clean journal with fun pens for writing if a kid finds comfort in journaling, an adult coloring book because it can be relaxing, and a teen Bible if they find that to be helpful. If I get a kid of another faith I would pick up books for that.
My 14 year old niece really love "the good girls guide to murder" series. It's a mystery series. Growing up I liked Percy Jackson, Chronicles of Narnia, a lot of fantasy really. I liked anything that could help me escape from being bullied. I also suggest Mangas like cells at work (its about the cells in your body fighting against viruses super wholesome and helps you remember biology). I just read "The language of flowers" and it was amazing, its about a girl who aged out of the foster system and how she makes her life better. My husband and I loved teens when we were doing foster care. some of Nicolas Sparks is really good for teens because they are love stories but they don't have anything a teen shouldn't read in them. If you want something for personal empowerment the blood and bone series is amazing, as is legendary. A Great and Terrible Beauty is amazing as well. Tamara Perce's books are good. John Green is good as well. Louis Lowery was one of my favorites too. Sorry this was so sporadic but I was just writing the books as they came to me.
As another teen, the good girls guide for murder is pretty good!!! Mainly the first book though, me and most of my friends agree that the later books get worse
We are about to start the process to become foster parents ❤️. We have three children of our own already so I love being able to find videos of families currently in the program! You are awesome 🤩
I read and loved ‘Touching Spirit Bear’. I read it when I was thirteen and still think about how good it was. I’m not sure if it was a book assigned to me or something I chose to read in my reading comprehension class.
Hi, I had a baby boy for the firt year of his life and he has been united with kin. All is well. But I can't do kids without daycare again and daycare is nearly impossible to find. So I am thinking of doing Respite and Emergency now. Seeing these teens worked well for you is really great and I am going to explore that more.
chicken soup for the soul and the left behind teen series were favorites for me when I was a teen, but also non christian based - I loved the dark tower series by stephen king (not to scary) and I had a friend in school who LOVED nora roberts (for the older girls). 2nd hand book stores will have a young adult section that you could get fillers for cheap
Oh! Any of the Madeleine L'Engle series - like A Wrinkle in Time. The Little House on the Prairie books. Anne of Green Gables chapter books are classics of course.
Love your videos!! Maybe you could just put a duvet cover over the comforter if it isn't gender neutral, etc. To reuse the comforters you already have and duvet covers are easier to store too!
Yeah, I tried that, but ended up returning the duvet because the comforter got all bunchey inside, no matter how well I tied it and tried to smooth it out. I wish it would’ve worked better.
Making bath bombs is such an easy craft and bonding experience for you with teens. This way you can avoid artificial fragrance and other toxic ingredients.
Between craziness, I have a travel vido request! I recently read an article about a company called Life at Sea Cruises which is going to be doing 1, 2, and three year cruises around the world. Another company is even doing a cruise that will sale indefinitely. I thought of you and Peter immensely. It's a little more than your $50/day/person budget, but I would love to hear your thoughts on that and if you would be interested in doing something like that when you retire from fostering.
Okay so idk if you still want book recs, but im a teenage girl (mid teens), and im obsessed with reading, so I'll give some ideas for a few different genres. Sci-fi series': The Medoran Chronicles (my long time fav, its part fantasy part sci fi, by Lynette Noni), Navigating the Stars (also has some elements of romance, Maria V. Snyder), Illuminae ( Its set out rather strangely, but its quite interesting, Amie Kaufman) Fantasy: anything from Cassandra Clares Shadowhunter world, Most of Leigh Bardugos books, Keeper Of The Lost Cities (also good for tweens, Shannon Messenger), Talon, the Iron Fey and Blood Of Eden by Julie Kagawa Apocalypse books: All Thats Left In The World by Erik J Brown Murder Mysterys: Murder Most Unladylike (also good for tweens) Others: Jekylls Mirror (current fav, its mildly screwed up and talks about vaguely paranormal cyberbullying, William Hussey), Intruder (Christine Bongers), Solitaire (idk the author but its the same as Heartstoppers), Heartstopper, the earlier books from the author of the vampire diaries (these are more for older teens, probably 16 plus? Theyre romance. Personally I was 14 when i read them, but they are aimed for older kids. Vampires n paranormal stuff) Sorry for the long comment, but im really enthusiastic about this stuff. Also edit as i got further in: I love how you just seem so happy and excited about this whole thing!!! It's amazing how much youre trying to be good to these girls, how hard youre trying to make it fun and to do stuff with them!! I wish my mother was like that with me (shes emotionally abusive so really anythings better lol)
Thanks for this amazing comment!! I love hearing from teens on their recommendations:) Also, the last part of your comment has me concerned. If you ever feel unsafe, you can call child protective service hotline for your state. I hope it doesn’t need to come to that, but you need to be safe. Or just talk through stuff with a school counselor or social worker who may be able help with some family stuff without removal.
@@HappyHoppe Np! and with the part youre concerned about, I have been talking to my school counsellor. Its currently school holidays, and theyve decided from what id told (I still wasnt sure then about what was abuse, and ive learned a lot more is abuse now) they concluded i'd likely be safe over the holidays, but when i get back to school im speaking to the student protection officer. Ive started making a list of things that me, my friends, and other adults have concluded as abuse too. Honestly, I think i'd prefer removal, although theyve both been convincing me of horrors or foster care and things, which is why i have ended up starting to watch your channel, and another one on foster parenting, to see that foster parents are mostly not horrible and it isnt as scary as i might think.
I’m glad you’re reaching out for help. And wow, what a blessing to hear that my channel was encouraging to you. Unknowns can be scary and every foster home will be different and if you don’t connect well with one, you can always ask the caseworker to move, so you will never be stuck. But hopefully you just get more awesome trusted adults in your life who will help you thrive as you become an adult.
Some books for teenagers Harry Potter Colleen Hoover John grisham Ps Kristen cast books bout 8 in the series ( twilight type of books) Hunger games Mortal instruments
Not so much mental health books but young adult/ teen girl books by Christian author Jenny B. Jones. They are not preachy and are so good, one is mystery themed. Katie Parker Production series: In Between, On the Loose, the Big Picture. And her other book series, A Charmed Life: So Not Happening, I'm So Sure, So Over My Head.
I second this The Jenny B Jones books are amazing We all really enjoyed There you’ll find me. We also love the author Gloria Whelan She wrote books like Listening for lions And a series called The angle on the square great Christian author
Judy Blume books would probably be good for pre-teens/early-teens. (Are You There God, It’s Me Margaret was my 11 yo ‘bible’ for puberty since my Mom didn’t really explain it…she tried, but I was way too embarrassed to talk about it so ran away from those talks, so not her fault, but that book explained everything! It’s been updated for more current times…it was a little behind the times when I read it.) Blubber was a good book about teasing and body shaming, and Deenie was an interesting book about scoliosis and the emphasis on looks for teen girls. She wrote classics! To Kill a Mockingbird is a great book, and often read in school. I’d recommend some John Grisham or other ‘thriller’ writers cause they may enjoy those. Maybe take them to the local library if they’re interested in reading and let them check some out, or especially if your library has a used book store in it, maybe let them go through and pick some out that would be their own to take with them? They’re usually $1 or so at ours. (I’m not really up to date on teen books for current times, but your local librarian can probably make a bunch of recommendations!) Libraries also usually have a lot of activities for all different age groups that are free or low cost…depends on the area, ours is very well funded. But, could be a great resource for foster parents to look into!
We had a great time with the girls - all about our experience in this next video:
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After being a foster parent for over 20 years, I still only do newborns. We adopted 4, so being 59, we just do one foster baby at a time. I have to say though, my current foster baby (now 2 months old), I have fallen in love with his 21 year old FASD mom. She is sweet, has no support system, etc. I am stepping up my support of her and she calls me mom now. Even if the baby goes home, we’ll be here for her and the baby. I have one child in a wheelchair, so I’m always cautious who I take in. At least with babies, they grow with us. 🥰
Wow, 20 years as a foster parent?? That’s amazing! And so great that you are able to support baby and mom ❤️
I dont do boys anymore unfortunately unless very little -- it got too unsafe with the holes in the wall and physical intimidation. But I find girls really sweet if you can get them to open up and ditch the older creepy boyfriends lol.
I exclusively foster teens in Indiana. I hate the stigma that comes with teenagers. They’re the best age in my opinion! 🥰
They definitely are great!
From one Foster parent to another YOU ARE BRAVE🌼
Thanks 🤗
Routine is definitely needed…..yes, teach them how to make their laundry, make lunches. Etc. congratulations to you and your husband …you are so wonderful
Yes! They’ve been helping clear their plates, make their own sandwiches, getting their own breakfasts and water - it’s nice to teach them independence.
In a lot of ways teens require a lot less energy since they can do a lot on their own!
I see this is a few months old, but for teenagers with self-esteem and mental health issues I recommend the Lockwood and Co series by Jonathan Stroud. It's a ghost hunter series, the main characters are 15-16 and loss and difficult family situations are addressed, although not the main topic of the books. What I especially like is that the three main characters find a family in each other and start new after trauma.
Oh my goodness my love, I have watched you since before you had your first placement. What growth you've had in such a short time. The love and understanding you exude I adore you
Yes, always learning ❤️ thank you 😊
My husband and I have been foster parents for almost 8 years. You were so thoughtful to them! 🥰
8 years!?! That’s awesome 👏 thanks for the encouragement
how to make friends with the dark is a really good book for teens/teen girls that i feel a foster kid might be able to relate to. xx
Percy Jackson series, The Hunger Games, Divergent series!!
As a former foster kid I appreciate your efforts. Also have 15 year old twin girls and say you’re very brave. I need respite from these girls 😊
😂 yes, every parent needs a break sometimes! We are happy to watch these 4 girls and give their foster mom a break! They are great teens :)
I was so excited seeing the title of this video and it was so heartwarming to watch! I love how you thoughtfully setup and bought things for them and how welcoming you are! I think the gifts of imperfection by brene brown could be a good short read for teen girls that teaches a lot about themselves.
Thanks for the book recommendation:)
In terms of a the color of the bedding, I actually really like that dark blue! You never know what the girls may end up liking, and i think they will be very grateful as a whole to have clean sheets/space for their room.
It worked out great because the girl in that bed - her favorite color is blue :)
@@HappyHoppe Great! It's amazing on what can work out sometimes. I also just had a thought too in terms of stocking up on soaps and such....Bath and Body works, especially if you can hit them up during their Semi-Annual Sales, where their shower gels and hand soaps are cheap. MANY teenage girls love them, and that could be a good bonding thing in terms of letting them pick stuff out. Then, when they leave, they can take those with them, which would also free up more space, and give them something that's a bit comforting for wherever they go back to.
Early on in my young teen years, I loved loved the older Nancy Drew books, Chicken Soup for the Soul books and sisterhood of the traveling pants.
That's awesome. I'm a single foster mom and have teen girls right now. I enjoy many aspects of having teens
Yes, they are wonderful in a lot of ways :)
I have a foster 1 yr old Grandson and I absolutely adore him.
Aww 🥰
The Chronicles of Narnia are great for any age! They are some of my kids favorites (as well as mine)!
Oh yes!! We have that one on our bookshelf!! Great recommendation!
books I recommend the throne of glass series and the after series
It is so nice to see a smile on your face again. This is your calling.
I think anything you do with those girls is going to be wonderful. They will remember this for a long time. Enjoy it, foster love and support.
Thanks for your kind comment ❤️
Awwww, teens are so fun! Im sure the girls felt so welcome with all the special things you provided for them😊💕
Yes, they each picked their favorite color headband right away!! :)
I have been looking for ways to set up my future foster teens bedroom!!! I love your spirit keep us posted !
Thanks! I have 2 videos out after this one about our experience with teens - hope it helps.
Book recommendations! I got you girl.
“The hatters”- Jesse andrews (about a kid in a band with social anxiety)
“Paper towns”- John green (a boy in love with a girl who’s trying to develop a sense of self in a world where she feels everyone is being fake)
“Mirror mirror”- cara delevingne (talks about struggling with gender identity)
For lighter and just happy popular books (divergent, Harry Potter, me and earl and the dying girl) I also recommend anything written by Marie Lu
Praying for you! As a fellow foster parent of teens 🥰
Thanks 😊 🙏
You are so creative mom.
I’m a foster mother in Ohio. I exclusively do teen girls and adopted a 17 year old last November.
I hit the Half Price Books store for a variety of books for my foster room.
Homecoming by Cynthia Voigt is about a parentified teen girl looking for a kinship placement for her and her siblings.
Good Night Mr.Tom is about an abused boy in London during WW2 and being sent to the country to escape the blitz.
Both of these are good for kids who want something they can relate to.
I also put the first Harry Potter book, A Wrinkle in Time,and Eragon in the room as well. These do all touch on missing parents in some way but are more fantasy focused. They work well for escaping into another world to forget your problems for a time.
Joan Bauer’s Rules of the Road is a coming of age novel about learning to drive, and to stand up for yourself.
I also make sure there is an empty clean journal with fun pens for writing if a kid finds comfort in journaling, an adult coloring book because it can be relaxing, and a teen Bible if they find that to be helpful. If I get a kid of another faith I would pick up books for that.
My 14 year old niece really love "the good girls guide to murder" series. It's a mystery series. Growing up I liked Percy Jackson, Chronicles of Narnia, a lot of fantasy really. I liked anything that could help me escape from being bullied. I also suggest Mangas like cells at work (its about the cells in your body fighting against viruses super wholesome and helps you remember biology). I just read "The language of flowers" and it was amazing, its about a girl who aged out of the foster system and how she makes her life better. My husband and I loved teens when we were doing foster care. some of Nicolas Sparks is really good for teens because they are love stories but they don't have anything a teen shouldn't read in them. If you want something for personal empowerment the blood and bone series is amazing, as is legendary. A Great and Terrible Beauty is amazing as well. Tamara Perce's books are good. John Green is good as well. Louis Lowery was one of my favorites too. Sorry this was so sporadic but I was just writing the books as they came to me.
Thank you! I love all these suggestions especially about someone else in foster care
As another teen, the good girls guide for murder is pretty good!!!
Mainly the first book though, me and most of my friends agree that the later books get worse
We are about to start the process to become foster parents ❤️. We have three children of our own already so I love being able to find videos of families currently in the program! You are awesome 🤩
Yay! Thanks for stepping up and becoming a foster parent ❤️
Hi Lisa this is excellent.... please continue to let us know how it's going with the girls...
I read and loved ‘Touching Spirit Bear’. I read it when I was thirteen and still think about how good it was. I’m not sure if it was a book assigned to me or something I chose to read in my reading comprehension class.
Hi, I had a baby boy for the firt year of his life and he has been united with kin. All is well. But I can't do kids without daycare again and daycare is nearly impossible to find. So I am thinking of doing Respite and Emergency now. Seeing these teens worked well for you is really great and I am going to explore that more.
Yeah, there is such a need for older kids! Definitely check with your foster care licensing person and let them know what you’re thinking.
I wish you the best! You seem so amazing.
Thanks for the kind words :)
chicken soup for the soul and the left behind teen series were favorites for me when I was a teen, but also non christian based - I loved the dark tower series by stephen king (not to scary) and I had a friend in school who LOVED nora roberts (for the older girls). 2nd hand book stores will have a young adult section that you could get fillers for cheap
Oh! Any of the Madeleine L'Engle series - like A Wrinkle in Time. The Little House on the Prairie books. Anne of Green Gables chapter books are classics of course.
I’m so glad you mentioned Anne of Green Gables - I forgot that we do have some classics like that in our attic 👍
You shouldnt show the kids online, even if you cover their faces, this is a vulnerable time in their life and they deserve privacy.
I would say Dork diaries! Their a super fun chapter book for teen girls
Love your videos!! Maybe you could just put a duvet cover over the comforter if it isn't gender neutral, etc. To reuse the comforters you already have and duvet covers are easier to store too!
Yeah, I tried that, but ended up returning the duvet because the comforter got all bunchey inside, no matter how well I tied it and tried to smooth it out.
I wish it would’ve worked better.
You are brave. Glad you had a greay time with them. I have 1 teen daughter and shr drives us nuts
😂 thanks. It’s nice when they have someone their own age to hang out with in the house - it makes it easier sometimes (& sometimes means more drama 🤪)
When I first listened to your video, I thought you said you were taking in FOURTEEN (14) girls, not 4 teen girls. I was like ... HUH? 😂
😂 yeah, we definitely don’t have enough room for 14 girls in our home 😂
i dont know about specifically teenage books but i started enjoying christian romances around age 14 that be good for teenage girls
Making bath bombs is such an easy craft and bonding experience for you with teens. This way you can avoid artificial fragrance and other toxic ingredients.
Between craziness, I have a travel vido request! I recently read an article about a company called Life at Sea Cruises which is going to be doing 1, 2, and three year cruises around the world. Another company is even doing a cruise that will sale indefinitely. I thought of you and Peter immensely. It's a little more than your $50/day/person budget, but I would love to hear your thoughts on that and if you would be interested in doing something like that when you retire from fostering.
That would be a great way to see the world!! We did hear about the 3 year cruise and we’re intrigued! Who knows if we’ll do something like that 🤷♀️
Okay so idk if you still want book recs, but im a teenage girl (mid teens), and im obsessed with reading, so I'll give some ideas for a few different genres.
Sci-fi series': The Medoran Chronicles (my long time fav, its part fantasy part sci fi, by Lynette Noni), Navigating the Stars (also has some elements of romance, Maria V. Snyder), Illuminae ( Its set out rather strangely, but its quite interesting, Amie Kaufman)
Fantasy: anything from Cassandra Clares Shadowhunter world, Most of Leigh Bardugos books, Keeper Of The Lost Cities (also good for tweens, Shannon Messenger), Talon, the Iron Fey and Blood Of Eden by Julie Kagawa
Apocalypse books: All Thats Left In The World by Erik J Brown
Murder Mysterys: Murder Most Unladylike (also good for tweens)
Others: Jekylls Mirror (current fav, its mildly screwed up and talks about vaguely paranormal cyberbullying, William Hussey), Intruder (Christine Bongers), Solitaire (idk the author but its the same as Heartstoppers), Heartstopper, the earlier books from the author of the vampire diaries (these are more for older teens, probably 16 plus? Theyre romance. Personally I was 14 when i read them, but they are aimed for older kids. Vampires n paranormal stuff)
Sorry for the long comment, but im really enthusiastic about this stuff.
Also edit as i got further in:
I love how you just seem so happy and excited about this whole thing!!! It's amazing how much youre trying to be good to these girls, how hard youre trying to make it fun and to do stuff with them!!
I wish my mother was like that with me (shes emotionally abusive so really anythings better lol)
Thanks for this amazing comment!! I love hearing from teens on their recommendations:)
Also, the last part of your comment has me concerned. If you ever feel unsafe, you can call child protective service hotline for your state. I hope it doesn’t need to come to that, but you need to be safe. Or just talk through stuff with a school counselor or social worker who may be able help with some family stuff without removal.
@@HappyHoppe Np!
and with the part youre concerned about, I have been talking to my school counsellor. Its currently school holidays, and theyve decided from what id told (I still wasnt sure then about what was abuse, and ive learned a lot more is abuse now) they concluded i'd likely be safe over the holidays, but when i get back to school im speaking to the student protection officer. Ive started making a list of things that me, my friends, and other adults have concluded as abuse too. Honestly, I think i'd prefer removal, although theyve both been convincing me of horrors or foster care and things, which is why i have ended up starting to watch your channel, and another one on foster parenting, to see that foster parents are mostly not horrible and it isnt as scary as i might think.
I’m glad you’re reaching out for help. And wow, what a blessing to hear that my channel was encouraging to you.
Unknowns can be scary and every foster home will be different and if you don’t connect well with one, you can always ask the caseworker to move, so you will never be stuck. But hopefully you just get more awesome trusted adults in your life who will help you thrive as you become an adult.
I'd of the phone down & is be thinking *did get as 4 teen girls of 14girls?*
imagine the case worker showing up with fourteen girls after the call
😂 oh no!! We wouldn’t have room for that many 🤪
❤God bless you 🙏🥺🙏
Some books for teenagers
Harry Potter
Colleen Hoover
John grisham
Ps Kristen cast books bout 8 in the series ( twilight type of books)
Hunger games
Mortal instruments
Darynda Jones would be great
Not so much mental health books but young adult/ teen girl books by Christian author Jenny B. Jones. They are not preachy and are so good, one is mystery themed. Katie Parker Production series: In Between, On the Loose, the Big Picture. And her other book series, A Charmed Life: So Not Happening, I'm So Sure, So Over My Head.
Love this recommendation! Thank you 😊
I second this
The Jenny B Jones books are amazing
We all really enjoyed There you’ll find me.
We also love the author
Gloria Whelan
She wrote books like
Listening for lions
And a series called The angle on the square great Christian author
maybe more middle grades but - All the Impossible Things by Lindsay Lackey
Are the 4 girls sisters?
No
The Jennie McGrady series is a good teen detective series :) the author is Patricia Rushford
Thanks for the book recommendation :)
Bedding and colors don’t have genders and shouldn’t be looked at as such that’s part of the reason so many people are confused nowadays.
Books 📖 Harry Potter and the hunger games.
Judy Blume books would probably be good for pre-teens/early-teens. (Are You There God, It’s Me Margaret was my 11 yo ‘bible’ for puberty since my Mom didn’t really explain it…she tried, but I was way too embarrassed to talk about it so ran away from those talks, so not her fault, but that book explained everything! It’s been updated for more current times…it was a little behind the times when I read it.) Blubber was a good book about teasing and body shaming, and Deenie was an interesting book about scoliosis and the emphasis on looks for teen girls. She wrote classics! To Kill a Mockingbird is a great book, and often read in school. I’d recommend some John Grisham or other ‘thriller’ writers cause they may enjoy those. Maybe take them to the local library if they’re interested in reading and let them check some out, or especially if your library has a used book store in it, maybe let them go through and pick some out that would be their own to take with them? They’re usually $1 or so at ours. (I’m not really up to date on teen books for current times, but your local librarian can probably make a bunch of recommendations!) Libraries also usually have a lot of activities for all different age groups that are free or low cost…depends on the area, ours is very well funded. But, could be a great resource for foster parents to look into!
Thanks for all the great recommendations:)
You got the best things for these girls to have a good time! 🥹 I would of definitely felt comfortable and like it was a big sleepover!