When did humans start getting divorced? - Rod Phillips
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- Опубліковано 27 січ 2021
- Dig into the complicated history of divorce- from the earliest known divorce laws in ancient Mesopotamia to modern day.
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Formally or informally, human societies across place and time have made rules to bind and dissolve couples. The stakes of who can obtain a divorce, and why, have always been high. Divorce is a battlefield for some of society’s most urgent issues, including the roles of church and state, individual rights, and women’s rights. Rod Phillips digs into the complicated history of divorce.
Lesson by Rod Phillips, directed by Chintis Lundgren
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As a divorce attorney, the first thing I ask all my clients is, "Do they squeeze the toothpaste in the middle?" It helps add criminal charges to the dispute.
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I think you're a good lawyer 😉😂🤣
@@Sumirevins Thank you. I'd like to think so, too.
Well I wanna be a lawyer too
I think I will walk in ur path sir....😁😁
@@heligic4326
No u
Ted ed is not letting any doubt about any topic to exist on this planet earth 👍🏼
Thats why we watch it right?
You are also from India right
Ya
Except philosophy.
Next up: A brief history of toilets.
Q: What’s the leading cause of divorces?
A: Marriages
No no, he’s got a point
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lmao
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@iamtehmajority followed by economic and political gain
@iamtehmajority and sometimes pressure from society and family memebers
Divorces are sad but they NEED to exist. People being stuck together with people they're no longer happy with has to be really miserable for every party involved
Relationships don't work out.
True. I don't see divorce as a failure but natural progression for most people.
Not happy with? I would rather say “harming” which will make seperated nescessary
@@ferryjayadi3316 Abuse isnt necessary for a divorce, but divorce is necessary for addressing abuse
i have to concur with that any kids who have been through parent divorce i hope your in a happier place now
i was like " awww mr. cat and mrs. cat made up" and then they started to walk away from each other
I was also, partially, watching to see if the cats would make up and be happy.
=(
@@lyndsaybrown8471 same
@@lyndsaybrown8471 they'll be happy but they're own separate ways :) props to them for being civil and affectionate ecen after making the separation decision
@@heligic4326
No u
Me too 😭
Props to people who can get divorced and still remain civil, if not friendly, afterwards 👍
What,,?
Shut.
@@skylargrey8016 What can I clarify?
Facts
(Music) beware of the blob!
(Verse) it creeps and leaps! And glides and slimes! Across the floor (slime sounds)
(Chorus) beware of the blob!
"Before you can get a divorce, you have to get married first, hence why marriages have become very popular lately"
I can't we can't get a divorce without marriage first smh we live in a society
@@heligic4326 stopp
@@mistymoooooor smh
Glad to see the cat animators back, their style is so unique
@@heligic4326 s t o p
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@@kartyk7415 omg ikr 😭😭😭😭
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@@kartyk7415 in sorry am i missing something
This is a nice full circle moment for me because the first Ted ED video I watched was the history of marriage
so it will be the last ted ed video u watch?
@@richraichu1370 nice sense of humour 😂
gotta wait until the history of funerals then
@@callistine8559 OP won't see it. It'll just be viewed during the wake.
Just so everyone knows, I hope OP lives long and I don't wish them to die.
Was thinking same
People divorcing before The mesopotamian laws be like
Wife:I am actually done
Husband: *Understandable, have a nice day*
I see you are cultured
I really want someone to reply not getting the joke . Just so it can get put on r/whoosh
Um.. I don't get the joke....
@@sanukatharul1497 Lmao I was about to say r/whoosh but then I would get whoosed
@@p34ch41 Darn it, I missed my chance! gg!
Having your parents divorce is rough but sometimes very necessary. I was 11 when mine broke up and it was a mess at first with them arguing every time my dad came to pick up me and my siblings but things eventually got better. Now a decade later i can look back and see all of the positive things that came out of their separation.
AND NOW THE WEST HAS A 50% DIVORCE RATE WITH CHILDREN FROM DIVORCE AND SINGLE PARENT HOUSEHOLDS BEING MUCH MORE LIKELY TO TAKE DRUGS, JOIN GANGS,G ET ARRESTED, AND HAVE CHILDREN WHILE VERY YOUNG!!!!!!!!!!!!! ALL BECAUSE OF MAKING DIVORCE EASIER!!!!!!!!!!! :D :D
can I divorce from eating instant noodles at end of month?
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Oppa what is this guy doing here. My question will be can I marry you Boris?
Is goverment choice
Vadim blyat
Boris will never approve divorce with mayonez... except from western spy mayonnaise
I just wish my parents got it done faster so I wouldn't have to spend my childhood with the sound of them fighting in the backround.
I wish my parents never would have gotten married, and I wouldn't have been born into this gruesome world.
@@antaradey25 A year later, do you find the world to be more, less, or equally "gruesome"?
Yes, real
The last time I was this early, my parents were still married.
Haha
LOL
Where are the "Dad got milk" comments?
r
2:49 lol they actually put squeezing the toothpaste from the middle as an offense 😂😂
Edit: the did it at 4:39 again 😂😂😂🤣 I’m dead
My boyfriend and I have separate toothpastes because
1. I don't like the flavor of his toothpaste and he also doesn't like mine. He likes mint, I like pink himalayan salt.
2. He squeezes from the middle.
We've been together almost 9 years HAHAHA ❤️👌✨
@@rainecolubio I hate it when someone squeezes toothpastes from the middle. this is the only reason I have separate toothpaste in our joint family household.
@@SleepIntoTheDiamondLife btw, how do you squeeze your toothpaste, is there a proper way in squeezing it? Thank you.
it doesn’t matter u perfectionists-
@@rainecolubio hope your relationship happy and last until death is the only thing separate both of you
Speaking from experience, divorce means the end of a bad relationship. My wicked stepfather treated me like burned dirt and the only thing that made him stop was when he was divorced and mom took me away from there. A ton of time away from those that punish you for nothing you are aware of is good for recovery.
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This. One hundred percent.
Las Vegas: *Ahh, this is where I come in.*
"Meanwhile in India..."
Tabla: "Yes..."
???
@@commentsanitizer7929 they are stating that as soon as India was mentioned the background music changed into tabala ( Indian drums ) music
Also Elephants
At least they did not out the the Carnatic music.
Also Cat grew appendages & became elephants. Bruh. As if we aren't cats.....
2:43 look at the door number when they're talking about adultery
Nice.
nice
😂😂
Nice
What does it mean? Really?
In the Philippines, there is no divorce law but there are annulment of marriage and legal separation laws that makes it harder for a couple to apply since it is more difficult and expensive...it doesn't make sense to me.
Henry VIII entered the chat.
If I can't divorce I'll start my own church
@@BelcarrigFarm Or just execute them 👁👄👁
OR BOTH
Weird Fact: I live in a country where Divorce doesn't exist 🤦♀️ (The only country in the whole world)
Also another fact about my country:
-When you are cheating, you get public humiliation, and your family dishonors you (the last statement depends if they don't have very religious and also strict parents).
-Even if they are in a GF and BF relationship and one of them cheats people will doubt the cheater. They will avoid the cheater at all cause.
-If the marriage is dysfunctional they neither blame the husband or the wife but mostly side with the wife.
-Cheaters will be imprisoned
well there you have it folks
i searched it and it says Philippines.
damn...thats way better
@@iputapipebombintoyourmailb6210 Yes, I live in the Philippines where divorce doesn't exist. However, you can have an annulment, which is what my mom had with her abusive ex-husband. She is now happily married to my dad.
I really wish the world would embrace public humiliation again. When people see the humiliation on other's faces and in their eyes, they're going to be a LOT less inclined to do anything along those lines.
@@Harrison.DuRant yes. bring back 304 shaming
sadly, anti-divorce sentiment and unfair laws still exist widely in the middle east and south asia. it sucks honestly
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Deal with it. Not everyone wants to copy white people.
@@civilengineer3349 its not about anyone, its about affording everyone dignity and equality in the face of the law. you must remember that even "white govs" had institutionalized those ideas in law before their people managed to change them for the BETTER, we demand the same- basic human dignity
@@civilengineer3349 also try telling that to every wife who gets abused, beaten and humiliated on a daily basis, to children suffering under a broken but forcibly held marriage, to women suffering under men who think they're entitled to do whatever they want to women with impunity. Empathize, its not that hard
@@civilengineer3349 because only white people can fall out of love/be unhappy in a marriage
1:10 As a Muslim, this is one case, there are so, so many cases for divorce.
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The divorce in the Islamic law , you got it wrong , a female can get a divorce by going to court and ask for it, she can say her husband is physically or mentally abusing her , cheated on her or simply she doesn't like him hates him and can't be with him anymore , the judge would give her divorce immediately
Prove?
Yt recommending this after a fight with my spouse feels kinda sus.
Lol oh?
Never ceases to impress me how informative TED-Ed videos are.
I imagine divorce was the third most used word of 2020, right after pandemic and isolation.
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The Catholic Church has something called annulment which states that the marriage wasn’t valid from the beginning. That’s their form of divorce
Yeah but is extremely difficult to get it. The freaking pope has to approve it
As you noted, an annulment isn’t a divorce since it doesn’t dissolve a valid marriage; it recognizes that due to certain factors, a marriage was not valid in the first place. It merely recognizes that there was no true marriage. As you can imagine, the process for granting it is more tedious and tougher since theoretically the diocesan tribunal/court has to discuss if there were valid grounds for not considering the marriage valid. Before Pope Francis’s reforms, there used to be 2 trials required. If both were not in agreement, then it needed to go to Rome. Among others, his reforms included only one trial needed to determine nullity. Also, it depends on the country. The United States is notable for example for having a larger proportion of annulments approved compared to the rest of the world.
Isnt that more of an Anglican Invention?
Yeah, but it's pretty strange though to call it an annulment after being married for more than a decade and have 2 kids well into their teenage years
If they haven't "consummated" the marriage, the church will allow divorce.
Sometimes I wish that my parents were divorced,they seem to me unhappy but they endure it because of us (children)
same
Trust me, you don't.
mine were the same, we're grown kids now with our own families and my parents are happier now together having gotten through the tough parts
Huge respect to your parents. They understood that it's important for kids to grow up with both their parents. Divorces are seen to hinder a child's development.
@@indraneelsingh4854 but what about the parent's happiness..don't they deserve to be happy..should they remain in a loveless marriage just bcoz of the kids..is it fair?
I actually wonder how popular a museum of divorce would be
Ikr
Just wanted to appreciate the room number at 2:39
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I really love how you guys make these video so informative & funny at the same time
4:19 I thought the elephant was smiling
Ayy random person on the internet. I came early so even without fully watching the video, I'm gonna comment some nonsense. For eg: I adopted eight stray cats during the lockdown period. They are all named after deities from mythologies around the world
please share their names!
@@moonchild708 Sure! The mom cat is Hera and her daughter is Thalia, the Muse of comedy. The dad is Odin. Thalia has three kittens, Loki, Freya and Ishtar. Hera had another set of kittens who were named Atlas, Apollo, Helios and Juno
@Bookworm tysm! They say hi
@Shikhar Dey Also Mesopotamian. I wanted to give them the names of Roman Emperors but you can only name so many Marcus Aurelius lol. I like ancient myths
Omg that is so cute! Please do share their names :3
Nice video ted. Its one the few channels actually worth watching
Really fascinating. This would make a pretty cool museum too
I liked how the animation added a whole new story and because of ted-ed I can understand every topic easily although I do ny own research.
4:08 I love him. That disapproving yet non hostile shake of the head is amazing.
divorce doesn't exist in my country, so when 8 year old me read the word "divorced" somewhere, i was like "what the hecc is this?"
Which country is that!?
Filipino??
@@Sumirevins philippines
@@iuvyne Like it's illegal or frowned upon?
@@alokbaluni8760 kind of both, i guess. our version of divorce is annulment, but that's only done if there was never any marriage.
The saga of the cat couple was a rollercoaster of emotions
2:02 Did you observe it?
Law: Camera prohibited
Mr. Cat: It's called French Revolution😉
1:36 that cat with the ostrich's baby Imao
Imagine the conception of such baby...
Bizarre
Lol
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Your information about divorce in Islam isn't correct.
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Wives in Islam CAN take a divorce without husband's consent
A judge has to sign it
That is in rare cases
@werid person Court can end the marriage in extreme case when the man is not giving his consent, especially if he beats his wife or is an alcoholic.
On the contrary men can give divorce without any judge, but if the divorce is given, without any effort to save the relationship, then he will be a sinner.
Thank you so much for this. Much preferred more analysis on women’s body autonomy reflected in marriage. But this is quite good enough
Im a simple person: if I see cats, I click.
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YES
Getting a divorce is like getting a new phone: You keep telling people how great it is and trying to convince everybody to get one too
I wouldn’t say it is quite like that
It doesn't make sense in the end
If anything thing, getting the marriage in the first place is like getting the latest phone with a bunch of cool features (although it may not be a great fit for your budget or what you need). Divorce is like trying breaking a phone contract because all you need is a cheap pay as you go plan (your current carrier doesn't have) so you can spend the money on other things.
Hey Ted Ed! I love these videos and I was wondering what animation software you use to create them?
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*Mouse Pope shaking his head while not breaking eye contact*
1:30, 4:05
Still, the main reason for divorce is marriage...
Every 60 seconds in africa, a minute passes...
Big Brain times
Yes
Me parents fighting about getting a divorce.....
And then UA-cam sends me this notification.....
WHAT THE ACTUAL HECK
This reminds me of primary school where you could be someone's boyfriend/ girlfriend but it only lasted a school day or even just during the lunch period onward.
In a relationship,
don't focusing on avoiding fights, because you'll fail, and the longer you suppress it, the more explosive it will be.
Instead, fight when you need to, and take every fight as an opportunity to learn the real skill:
making up again / apologising / compromising.
Every fight that doesn't end this way, weakens your marriage.
Every fight that does, strengthens it.
Is it just me or there was no background music during American and European sections and suddenly there’s a tabla playing in the background when you speak about India.
This would be an interesting topic for my VWA. I need to have a deeper look into that, thank you!
everybody gangsta until the surprise vacation turns out to be at the divorce museum
My mother and father were divorced when i was three it was pretty sad but now i know how to live with it and respect their decision.
Even animal have it hard with love.
Yup
Can you guys leave the links to episodes up a little longer. by the time I read the cards it had already moved to autoroll ads
this video was the most epic video I have watched in 2021. and I've watched all of my own.
huh never knew I needed this video so damn much!
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I wish I was this fast on buying GameStop stock
😢
I was fast and reached 2 million but then I woke up
0:35 wow the details in the newspaper 😂👍 better than ziggurat😂😂😂 wow! Hats off ted ed
I watched this several minutes after reading about a celebrity getting married for the 9th time
Which one?
Larry King?
1:34 I like the subtle implication that the protestant priest is the real father of the couple’s child.
Hey so this may sound silly but I’ve noticed this thing recently while getting into period dramas. Could you maybe do a video explaining what a “ promenade” is? Like I understand it’s a walking area but why is it so important?
I’m sorry for being late to the party, but that basically was a very diluted social gathering for middle to upper classes. You get to show off your new dress, you see other people, have a quick chat, etc. But you’re also not bound to spending your whole walk with those people as you can politely walk away to do other stuff. So basically going on a promenade counted as being social (and not attending any gatherings was considered weird) but you also get fresh air.
Best ted animation ever love it!
You missed the ancient Irish laws of divorce, pretty awesome too. Great video.
What were they like?
When all of the pregnant cats walked past 😩 yup, grounds for divorce for sure!😂
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FBC14 algorithm is the best, there is no point in arguing with this
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Ok, I love this channel!!!
The end of the video was heartbreaking
It's weird I found this interesting but also really depressing :(
Not gonna lie i think I’m lucky because i still have my parents
F for the people who their parents are divorced. May you find happiness
my man I kind of wish my parents were divorced
@@kindateia y?
@@hamad2808 Same here dude. Their arguing is annoying and they clearly aren’t happy.
@@kindateia same, i'd rather they are happy apart than miserable together
divorced parents doesn't mean someone is unhappy lmao.
The door number at 2.41 😂😂😂
I really love TedEd animations!
Me too
In the Philippines, we still don’t have divorce. 🙃
As an Arabic Muslim I have to tell you your info are not accurate actually women can divorce their husbands but she have to return to him the dowry he gave her to marry her
I guess im learning!
Ted. Ed doing great job
good animation
Good explanation
Good. message 👍
So, the Inuits basically started Wife Swap?
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Here's a divorce story :
When my parents first meet each other 8 months before i was born, they maried, leading to me being born 8 months later, but when i was just 5 months old, my parents divorced, and since i was a baby at the time, i had no choice but to live with my mom, which explains why from there on, i lived with my mom.
02:02 hey ! love that music ❤
I never really thought of this till I watched this video. I know some people who either are divorced or know others who are divorced. For example, my best friend's parents got divorced long before we met & both are remarried to new partners.
I can just imagine a court judge asking a man “Do you want to keep your wife?” and the man says “Yes”
The judge then says “Alright, court meeting adjourned”
I have 2 things to say.
1. Things
2. Things
Nice
I wonder what the comments will say about 0:38...
Tip:
Don't get married in the first place!
This joke brought to you by 60 year old men
It's way better than sleeping around which will f your head up...and get stds
I'm your 111th like 😂
I want to marry again even though i am already divorced. I wish i could have a good husband. :(
@@wks6034 just have boyfriends or girlfriends or whatever.
Video suggestion: *a brief history of love*
I was wondering how the first man would've realised he's in love, it'd be awesome if someone were to dig into it
As Adam Conover pointed out we shouldn't think of divorce as a sign that a good marriage has gone bad. But rather that a bad marriage has ended.
Wow that was really interesting
I know it was
Sadly, this video wasn't nearly at the level of depth that TED Ed videos are known for. It's really simplistic in the way that it talks about Islamic law on divorce, for example. (You can't just cite the Qur'anic verses on the subject, since that's only one of the many components that create the diverse opinions on divorce)
Fun fact: in Islam married women can in fact divorce their husbands (indirectly) through a process called khul' (usually initiated in court). The downside to this process as opposed to having the husband divorce his wife, is that the wife will have to return/pay back her "dowry" which is a gift from the husband, most often a large sum of money or traditionally gold jewelry
which surah says about this?
i thought in surah al bakrah it say both men and women have to follow same procedures for devorce though a women have ot wait untill a month before another marriage if i am wrong please correct me i am a muslim too.
Can anyone kindly tell me what kind of animation this is? I know it's 2D but it's so pleasing and calm. Also, it looks like there's a slight change in the color of the cat back and forth every second. How can I get that effect?
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