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  • Hear differing 1960s attitudes on domestic gender roles in this Voice of the People segment, which aired on Four Corners on October 21, 1961. Unsuspecting passers-by were asked the question: "Should husbands help with the weekend housework?"
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 13 тис.

  • @Hollowsmith
    @Hollowsmith 4 роки тому +45049

    Back in these days, all human beings were at least 55 years old.

    • @andrewkhiangte919
      @andrewkhiangte919 4 роки тому +258

      Haha 😁😁😁

    • @scrumcaptain
      @scrumcaptain 4 роки тому +2116

      WP SN
      Many younger died in WWII

    • @ChillCash
      @ChillCash 4 роки тому +172

      What tf are you talking about

    • @xelx1648
      @xelx1648 4 роки тому +292

      Christopher Miller the life expectancy back then was a lot shorter than it is today.

    • @ChillCash
      @ChillCash 4 роки тому +569

      @@xelx1648 If anything it may actually have been higher. Don't believe everything you hear. Processed and manufactured food did not exist back then for the most part. Neither did many additives and preservatives. Therefore both humans and dogs lived longer by eating more organically.

  • @anmoltiwarii
    @anmoltiwarii 4 роки тому +17904

    Why is UA-cam recommending this to me after 59 years

  • @samlee6152
    @samlee6152 3 роки тому +5278

    The last lady 😂
    "Do you think husbands should help with the weekend housework?"
    "Yes, certainly all the time. But mine doesn't."
    HAHAHA

    • @aBunnyThatWillChewOnYourCables
      @aBunnyThatWillChewOnYourCables 3 роки тому +66

      Ikr 😂 that made me laugh so much lol

    • @anushka5912
      @anushka5912 3 роки тому +94

      i can feel the pain

    • @cyc2671
      @cyc2671 3 роки тому +126

      THE WAY SHE SAID IT SO QUICKLY

    • @lillianp8900
      @lillianp8900 3 роки тому +102

      Weird this lady had no idea she would be making people 50 years later laugh with that answer

    • @JayJayGirl26
      @JayJayGirl26 3 роки тому +51

      And then she looks straight into the camera 💀

  • @Stephen-fr5gz
    @Stephen-fr5gz 3 роки тому +281

    Why is this microphone better than every microphone I hear on my zoom calls daily?

    • @kdjoshi726
      @kdjoshi726 3 роки тому

      Ikr?

    • @xraceboyex
      @xraceboyex 3 роки тому +15

      Cause that mic is the size of your entire phone and the mic you probably use is about 2mm across

    • @stevenhale2935
      @stevenhale2935 3 роки тому +7

      @@xraceboyexand that sound hasn't been compressed as much to fit into the phone network's radio spectrum

    • @aussiesmoko
      @aussiesmoko 2 роки тому +2

      That's because most likely they were made in Australia

    • @jbarral6509
      @jbarral6509 2 роки тому

      True I get lags

  • @imfineimokay3434
    @imfineimokay3434 4 роки тому +22072

    Im convinced that the interviewer is just a random bloke from our time who just found a time machine and decided to create a yt channel.

    • @LuckySmurf
      @LuckySmurf 4 роки тому +1064

      Or better yet, he's a dude who actually filmed this a couple years ago and is using a black & white filter.

    • @MattMillwardUK
      @MattMillwardUK 4 роки тому +336

      haha this is actually the same format as a lot of youtubers who go into the public

    • @mollyiscool5008
      @mollyiscool5008 4 роки тому +33

      DARK 🤦‍♀️

    • @robertamaya8597
      @robertamaya8597 4 роки тому +17

      That is the same thing the came to mind, i to think thats their timeline

    • @schmo2109
      @schmo2109 4 роки тому +10

      DARK stranger things have happened

  • @Bubbatiana
    @Bubbatiana 4 роки тому +5347

    Reporter - “ you should give him a break he’s been working 5 days a week”
    Woman - “he hasn’t gone to work in 8 years “

    • @rubyschofield3646
      @rubyschofield3646 4 роки тому +12

      Sponge Bob woman*

    • @joemcbee
      @joemcbee 4 роки тому +69

      *Spends 8+ years going to college*
      "This is boring, I'll get married, have a baby, then stay at home forever."

    • @mirsolis4992
      @mirsolis4992 4 роки тому +12

      jt t the time efficiency gains from new technologies like washing machines and vacuums was short lived because people’ standards of cleanliness (and how many clothes to own) increased lol. So the amount of time spent on cleaning and stuff stays constant. If you keep expectations modest you save a lot of time. As for the other part, average beauty has increased. Fewer people suffer smallpox, goiters, nutritional deficiencies, cleft palates, fewer people smoke and tan and we have tech likes braces, tooth whitening, better skincare etc. It’s not that the upper end of attractiveness has gone up but the lower end has been greatly uplifted (what holds us back most is obesity). This is more obvious when you look at photographs and painted depictions of humans from further back. Lots of very sickly looking homely Victorians and disappointing ‘beauties’.

    • @Bubbatiana
      @Bubbatiana 4 роки тому +7

      jt t it was just a harmless joke...

    • @witchking008
      @witchking008 4 роки тому +4

      +DANGEROUS PERSON i got one. When my family went to a first time trip to my cousin's province in 1996 we came to knew a family who has literally has NO and NEVER handled a money! The father and mother had no work for a loooong time they survive a day by eating the crops,veggies, and fruit bearring trees they planted. Even without Literally money they r healthy and cheerful which made me jealous

  • @deborahstarman9874
    @deborahstarman9874 Рік тому +1369

    What I find most interesting is that about 80 percent of the husbands believed it was their responsibility to help with the household chores, including cooking. Why was my generation taught that men didn't pull their weight and women were left doing everything? These are random people off the street. Did my generation believe a big fat lie?

    • @JP2GiannaT
      @JP2GiannaT Рік тому +132

      Sure seems like it.

    • @solar.566
      @solar.566 Рік тому +187

      We've been told many lies about the past!

    • @thomasjones4570
      @thomasjones4570 Рік тому +1

      You see, there is this thing called feminism and feminism lies to tear men down and make women think they are victims so feminism can still exist...

    • @palaceofwisdom9448
      @palaceofwisdom9448 Рік тому +202

      Men innately want to move mountains for women. You have no idea just how much negativity and bad experience it takes to break a man of that desire, but it is happening.

    • @Brievel
      @Brievel Рік тому +145

      @@basdfef4775 Someone clearly has no experience with kids.

  • @ameerpinson3037
    @ameerpinson3037 Рік тому +174

    Speaking as a widower I would take the time spent doing chores with the wife as an opportunity to spend more time with her. After she’s gone you’re going to miss and regret every moment you didn’t spend with her that you could have had.

  • @alexwilliams8001
    @alexwilliams8001 4 роки тому +3739

    "How long have you been married?"
    "What? No my wife's dead"
    *awkward silence*

    • @sandyyep8402
      @sandyyep8402 4 роки тому +9

      Omg 😂😂😂

    • @jujuaroha5822
      @jujuaroha5822 4 роки тому +16

      Yeah I caught that too

    • @YoshiXO
      @YoshiXO 4 роки тому +43

      Alex Williams Lmaooo I was so confused

    • @jonnyblanka
      @jonnyblanka 4 роки тому +75

      the look on his face is like my grandads.. makes me think hat was his wife and maybe he suffers from dimentia.. :(

    • @sankalpmahajan443
      @sankalpmahajan443 4 роки тому +2

      Where is it?

  • @kcal4525
    @kcal4525 4 роки тому +6848

    1961: "Should men help out with the housework on weekends"
    2020: "is 5 inches enough?"

    • @haal6749
      @haal6749 4 роки тому +463

      K Cal they had quite high standards of morality compared to today’s.

    • @alexmagana5881
      @alexmagana5881 4 роки тому +41

      LMAOOO 😂

    • @redbeard3946
      @redbeard3946 4 роки тому +159

      @@haal6749 wouldn't really call it a 'high standard'. "Ideal" might be the better word.

    • @prajwalsharma213
      @prajwalsharma213 4 роки тому +3

      Super funny 😂😂

    • @dailysip6607
      @dailysip6607 4 роки тому +51

      Well back then men where out working for less than today’s minimum wage . Women should’ve took care of the house . MAKES SENSE

  • @michaelmota4602
    @michaelmota4602 3 роки тому +258

    Imagine all the videos that will be recommended to you 40 years from now (if you're still alive)

  • @JohnBrownsBody
    @JohnBrownsBody Рік тому +178

    I always like watching these because the mannerisms of people back in the day are just ever so slightly different than they are today and it’s really interesting. For instance, many of them make direct and sustained eye contact with the interviewer and the interviewer stands far closer than he would today.

    • @Posark
      @Posark Рік тому +27

      That’s interesting, I have noticed a difference before I could not quite put my finger on it. It’s like they were (in general) more sincere and serious about things. Maybe “earnest” is the word. Or frank?... More direct and straightforward in their approach to other people and life. They seem almost naïve in some ways but it was an era when trust, fair play, self discipline, “hard work pays off” were still all tried-and-true and *widely accepted* guidelines for living a good life. And it showed, even in the way they would casually interact and respond to a stranger asking a question.

    • @JohnBrownsBody
      @JohnBrownsBody Рік тому +9

      @@Posark Yeah I definitely noticed that as well! My initial guess would be that it has something to do with lack of smartphones and headphones, and so they are more fully engaged in their surroundings and by extension the conversation with the interviewer. Earnest is definitely how I would describe it, like they had to take a second to think about their answer instead of firing off the first thing that came into their head.

    • @trackdusty
      @trackdusty Рік тому +1

      That's a high trust homogeneous nation for you.

    • @indigocheetah4172
      @indigocheetah4172 11 місяців тому +4

      They were straight up to the Interviewer 's questions. I find the same type of People in outback Queensland. They speak with a similar attitude and keep eye contact and are straight to the point. I thought that this is delightful , as they remind me of my grandparents.

    • @tromboner6061
      @tromboner6061 10 місяців тому +2

      genuine people with good social skills with good values

  • @mohamedelmesiry2912
    @mohamedelmesiry2912 4 роки тому +6194

    Why didn’t he tell them he’s making a quick UA-cam video?

    • @fn966
      @fn966 4 роки тому +31

      Mohamed Elmesiry UA-cam didn’t exist back then.

    • @mohamedelmesiry2912
      @mohamedelmesiry2912 4 роки тому +111

      FN ! 🤔😂

    • @amarsmkbp56
      @amarsmkbp56 4 роки тому +403

      @@fn966 bruhh

    • @abdtq8942
      @abdtq8942 4 роки тому +417

      @@fn966 Thanks man, I thought it existed !! What about facebook??

    • @fn966
      @fn966 4 роки тому +33

      Abd Tq no. Internet wasn’t invented.

  • @lilidays3977
    @lilidays3977 4 роки тому +9274

    I constantly need to remind myself that these people did infact see each other in colour and not black and white 🤭
    Edit:its a joke, for all the wise guys who didn't pick that up.

    • @Tech-cy9yo
      @Tech-cy9yo 4 роки тому +91

      I know right!!

    • @LowBudgetJustinY
      @LowBudgetJustinY 4 роки тому +330

      Yeah I once asked my mom if they only saw black and white in the past 😂

    • @Poth94
      @Poth94 4 роки тому +40

      but are you sure?

    • @RikXtreme4
      @RikXtreme4 4 роки тому +105

      But we'll never truly know tho..

    • @bratantm9385
      @bratantm9385 4 роки тому +19

      Thats sounds so stupid i hope no older people read this...

  • @cymond
    @cymond Рік тому +24

    My grandfather said "there's no such thing as men's work and women's work, just work that needs done"

  • @azianchick3529
    @azianchick3529 3 роки тому +340

    I honestly was not expecting so many men to agree with helping. What a generation 😍

    • @thunderbird1921
      @thunderbird1921 3 роки тому +50

      My father grew up in Iowa in the 1950s. He said that while he couldn't speak for other areas, he said that culture of respect and supporting one another was commonplace for the most part. He is stunned by how selfish society has become.

    • @christopherlynagh7110
      @christopherlynagh7110 2 роки тому +2

      'Fear is a great motivator" Lavrenti Beria at the Soviet Nuclear Programme after party, July 1949.

    • @conbro0985
      @conbro0985 2 роки тому +15

      Because most people he asked were old and most likely retired. If he had asked the younger men working 40 plus hours a week at the office they’d probs have a different view on house work.

    • @voguehaven5154
      @voguehaven5154 2 роки тому +1

      Men wouldn't say that in this day an age. Many of them have taken the red pill and now think they are "prizes"...they truly believe they are leonardo dicaprio, and that abusing women and cheating on them is they way to gain love and respect from women.
      Women have turned into epic slags. Body count is on the rise. They disrespect themselves before any man does.
      The world is in full regression.

    • @SmartCreeper
      @SmartCreeper Рік тому +25

      Feminism greatest achievement was rewriting history

  • @Dgoc813
    @Dgoc813 4 роки тому +4663

    “Shouldn’t he get a break after he’s been working all week?”
    “No he hasn’t he hasn’t worked for 8 years”
    😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @ShaferHart
      @ShaferHart 4 роки тому +101

      Legend

    • @sixxlee890
      @sixxlee890 4 роки тому +33

      Absolutely loved that! 😂

    • @rangelj13
      @rangelj13 4 роки тому +1

      😂

    • @MeagenTheCook
      @MeagenTheCook 3 роки тому +19

      A mom job is 24/7 for 17-23years

    • @jonl7855
      @jonl7855 3 роки тому +6

      Trolling is an age old art!

  • @joshualabelle2744
    @joshualabelle2744 4 роки тому +28914

    It’s cool that they decided to go back in time and ask people these questions for their UA-cam channel.

    • @xSunnyDaysx
      @xSunnyDaysx 4 роки тому +98

      Joshua Labelle 😂

    • @prateekkolurmatada8679
      @prateekkolurmatada8679 4 роки тому +65

      😂😂

    • @smokerx6291
      @smokerx6291 4 роки тому +101

      They didn't go back in time. It was in the 60s when these were filmed.

    • @novathadon4095
      @novathadon4095 4 роки тому +1008

      Smoker X joke went right over your head.

    • @smokerx6291
      @smokerx6291 4 роки тому +39

      @@novathadon4095 dude. The description.
      "Hear differing 1960s attitudes on domestic gender roles in this Voice of the People segment, which aired on Four Corners on October 21, 1961. Unsuspecting passers-by were asked the question: "Should husbands help with the weekend housework?"

  • @amydecker6207
    @amydecker6207 3 роки тому +132

    My grandpa never helped with housework, but good heavens, he cut 3 acres with a single blade riding mower, worked in the garden and tended 1.5 acres of strawberries, and repaired literally everything on their property. If he had tried to interfere in Granny's kitchen, she would have rushed him back outside to get him out from under her feet. I think all I ever saw him do in the kitchen was pour his own coffee and fill a glass with water throughout the day, and even then she would stop what she was doing and run him off. 😂😂😂

    • @EchoBravo370
      @EchoBravo370 2 роки тому +9

      Granny isn't silly. She knows those strawberries aren't gonna tend themselves.

    • @Melissa-gn3dv
      @Melissa-gn3dv Рік тому +22

      She was probably proud to take care of such a hard-working husband. Any woman would be. Husbands don't do all of that now and so they might as well help in the house.

    • @spjr99
      @spjr99 Рік тому

      @@Melissa-gn3dv always depends on your situation. ideally everyone is in a relationship where they are able to do the things they love and are good at to show their affection for the other

    • @Threedog1963
      @Threedog1963 Рік тому +9

      He's doing house work, even if it is outside the house. When I was working full time, my wife did most of the cooking and cleaning, while I maintained the outside of the house, and did the handyman repairs inside. I'd argue the work I did around the house was a lot more physical work.

    • @kunalsen2123
      @kunalsen2123 10 місяців тому

      @@Melissa-gn3dv and the woman's rearing fewer kids now, so they don't do all that now either, so might as well give hubby the weekend off so he can recharge because she probably ain't helping him with office work, is she?

  • @thisandthat3763
    @thisandthat3763 3 роки тому +84

    The last lady hahahahahahah “Yes certainly, all the time. But mine doesn’t” 😂😂

  • @Siriuslyyy
    @Siriuslyyy 4 роки тому +4118

    "yes, certainly, all the time, but mine doesn't"

    • @haniap8939
      @haniap8939 4 роки тому +92

      the best answer hahah

    • @alienfreak2698
      @alienfreak2698 4 роки тому +11

      😂

    • @allwhatilove914
      @allwhatilove914 4 роки тому +37

      Love her sincerity 😅😅😅

    • @breejames6323
      @breejames6323 3 роки тому +11

      I laughed so hard at that part Savage 😂😂😂 lol

    • @Hot4Thot
      @Hot4Thot 3 роки тому +9

      *looks directly into camera*

  • @Os-ja
    @Os-ja 4 роки тому +3799

    “Yes certainly, but mine doesn’t” 😂

  • @ihkeseteeietos5722
    @ihkeseteeietos5722 11 місяців тому +112

    As a husband, I don't know how anyone can just chill while your wife does all the housework. I just always feel the need to help out.

    • @kunalsen2123
      @kunalsen2123 10 місяців тому +14

      Because she's probably taking guilt-free naps on weekday afternoons while you slog at work.

    • @mysterioanonymous3206
      @mysterioanonymous3206 10 місяців тому +2

      @@kunalsen2123 😂 truer words have never been spoken....

    • @potatosalad6699
      @potatosalad6699 9 місяців тому

      I’d agree that he should help out only if their isn’t outside work that needs to be done or physical work that a female can’t do.

    • @scoobz4177
      @scoobz4177 8 місяців тому +10

      ​@@kunalsen2123there's no napping if you have children at home. NO NAPPING

    • @youtubesucks2755
      @youtubesucks2755 8 місяців тому +1

      @@scoobz4177 unless you're churning out kids your entire life, that's not a fair comparison.

  • @su-rv2uq
    @su-rv2uq 3 роки тому +211

    No husbands shouldn't "help" with the housework, they should do their parts in the household as members of the household.

    • @ingweking8748
      @ingweking8748 3 роки тому +10

      You are right

    • @ultraviolet119
      @ultraviolet119 3 роки тому +20

      right, they're basically just roommates you have a deep emotional attachment to (well, ideally)

    • @codrinn9999
      @codrinn9999 3 роки тому +2

      Are you married?

    • @jordanmackenzie5279
      @jordanmackenzie5279 3 роки тому +7

      This is a time piece to hear the perspective of people 60 years ago.
      Shut up with your correction. This is a reporter who’s likely dead now. You’re not impressing anyone…

    • @ultraviolet119
      @ultraviolet119 3 роки тому +10

      @@jordanmackenzie5279 they’re not making a correction, they’re literally just answering the question. The only valid complaint you could make about it is if you didn’t agree with what they said... but your weirdly defensive reply just makes me think you’re insecure, which isn’t much better tbh

  • @zk3462
    @zk3462 4 роки тому +4653

    2:46 the guy in the sunglasses looks like he has a secret mission.

  • @atlas4974
    @atlas4974 4 роки тому +3555

    Bro do teen exist? It's like you go baby, child, adult then grandparent

    • @bobesponja7791
      @bobesponja7791 4 роки тому +980

      Young people weren't invented until 1980

    • @miaa1762
      @miaa1762 4 роки тому +11

      Fr

    • @adamd6648
      @adamd6648 4 роки тому +214

      Back in those times kids knew where they stood adults only got these privileges. Children absolutely not. If you told a child to be quite and stay out of the way they would do so immediately. Different times now. Now kids are in control.

    • @fiddlesticks6146
      @fiddlesticks6146 4 роки тому +24

      adamd664 oof... that is true

    • @adamd6648
      @adamd6648 4 роки тому +10

      No Username unfortunately man i wonder what the simple times would have been like.

  • @jerotoro2021
    @jerotoro2021 Рік тому +6

    A lot of these people were born in the 1800s. The majority of them said that men should help. It really brings the light the fact that the current narrative that "men were always domineering and selfish while women worked tirelessly to serve men, and only feminism changed that dynamic'" is extremely incorrect.

  • @queenchiomaofficial
    @queenchiomaofficial 10 місяців тому +24

    These men are so reasonable, considerate and so wise, they actually think it’s healthy and normal to help with house work. I’m sure this is why marriages worked so well back then compared to this era.

    • @kunalsen2123
      @kunalsen2123 10 місяців тому +4

      To be fair, the women were raising more kids on an average and domestic chores weren't as automatic as now, so I'm guessing the housework (beyond rearing) would have been neglected unless he stepped up. Housewives now have it easier while men's situations haven't really changed that much even without automation. So, the situation's different as are the attitudes.

  • @MosesMatsepane
    @MosesMatsepane 4 роки тому +11820

    Comment Section: Wooow, we should all go back to the 60's.
    Black People: 👀

    • @mornalisam.6008
      @mornalisam.6008 4 роки тому +195

      Moses Matsepane 😂😂😂😂

    • @jakobj58
      @jakobj58 4 роки тому +550

      Not everything was better back then. But we could use some of that calmness nowadays

    • @sarahs3988
      @sarahs3988 4 роки тому +720

      There were some horrible things for black people back then, but there were things that were better too. Most black families at this time stayed together, they had a father in the home, and didn't have as many drug issues as today. If they were treated better by society as a whole it would have been a better time for them too.

    • @Fitzroyfallz
      @Fitzroyfallz 4 роки тому +451

      LGBT people: 👀

    • @robertmotion
      @robertmotion 4 роки тому +1

      Big factz😂😂😂😂
      /Bklyn👑

  • @EvanThomas
    @EvanThomas 4 роки тому +5996

    The Australian accent sounded more british back then

    • @blairsantillana
      @blairsantillana 4 роки тому +49

      Evan Thomas not really, sounds the same to me.

    • @MzBrazilian87
      @MzBrazilian87 4 роки тому +290

      Well white “Australians” are from Europe sooo..

    • @asala2116
      @asala2116 4 роки тому +163

      It actually sounds different mate. A lot different.

    • @samnicholson5051
      @samnicholson5051 4 роки тому +83

      some of them speak with received pronunciation. There were americans and irish who spoke like that too. Especially those in broadcasting. Wealthier people were taught to speak that way in schools, and ending up sounding like posh brits.

    • @pube66
      @pube66 4 роки тому +18

      Because they are all pome criminal descendants.

  • @theDsomething
    @theDsomething Рік тому +10

    I love how that last woman looked right at the camera after she said "but mine doesn't" like she was hoping he would be seating on the other side watching lol

  • @awseko4732
    @awseko4732 3 роки тому +16

    “What does your wife do?”
    “She rests.”

  • @007Spadge
    @007Spadge 5 років тому +8628

    it's fun how most of the guys say yes and the women say no. Looks like back in the day women and men had each each other's back.

    • @MrPinbert
      @MrPinbert 5 років тому +702

      Literally none of the Ladies in this video said no, except for one.

    • @brie3679
      @brie3679 5 років тому +426

      Alex Spadge I get a feeling they're trying to fit some role or fit in to what they believe they should say, while the men are just being brutally honest. My grandmother was the same way where she'd say things that were socially acceptable back then, yet say the opposite once around close family. She wouldn't even talk about certain things in front of friends. That's how it was back then. Women tried to fit in to social standards so drastically.

    • @cmmmmmmmw
      @cmmmmmmmw 5 років тому +25

      Pretty much everyone in the video said yes

    • @yoh9294
      @yoh9294 5 років тому +104

      @@user-io1mj9ex8l feminism has been here for a very long time. What has come is a huge wave of stupidity as a result of luxuries and privileges.

    • @jasminevaliente96
      @jasminevaliente96 5 років тому +8

      In australia maybe lol

  • @janebond4175
    @janebond4175 4 роки тому +2058

    The reality of men in those days is much different then the way they are now portrayed.

    • @hensonlaura
      @hensonlaura 4 роки тому +376

      So true. My grandpa (married in the early 1930's) was a mechanic at work, a farmer at home & he did dishes, vacuumed, mended and even embroidered.

    • @BG-it7hb
      @BG-it7hb 4 роки тому +18

      So true.

    • @dylendog
      @dylendog 4 роки тому +220

      Don't know if you have noticed but the big agenda is to brake the family down.

    • @tylerprovencal4354
      @tylerprovencal4354 4 роки тому +94

      I just shared this video on my facebook because I have a lot of anti straight men people on my facebook who think men are good for nothing and I thought id give them a bit of perspective.

    • @TurfDoe
      @TurfDoe 4 роки тому +28

      My grandpa beat my grandma and my dad and his siblings senseless.

  • @jelink22
    @jelink22 2 роки тому +28

    I can honestly say that after 40 years of married life I have done everything around the house that my wife does, except for: giving birth, nursing babies and using a sewing machine. That's likely because I came from a military family with five kids, where there was no such thing was "women's work". Ya did whatcha hadda do!

  • @bambi274
    @bambi274 Рік тому +3

    I came back to visit this video after 3 years. This is the reason people of that era stayed married till death did them part for real.

  • @Anonymous589x
    @Anonymous589x 4 роки тому +1706

    3:28 look at the dudes behind in the car
    Living their best life

    • @Anonymous-Wolf
      @Anonymous-Wolf 4 роки тому +155

      You got eyes of an Eagle

    • @Anonymous589x
      @Anonymous589x 4 роки тому +66

      @@Anonymous-Wolf you're damn right i do

    • @altinademi6967
      @altinademi6967 4 роки тому +2

      @@Anonymous-Wolf he just thinks different haha

    • @rgf5432
      @rgf5432 4 роки тому +13

      Well they all dead now so..

    • @Mr.Obongo
      @Mr.Obongo 4 роки тому +71

      TF G why would they all be dead? They would be old but they wouldn’t be dead, I mean it’s possible some could be but not all.

  • @spookyfbi8
    @spookyfbi8 3 роки тому +3981

    Lol, the woman at the end. “Yes, certainly, all the time, but mine doesn’t” *looks into the camera like she’s in the office*

    • @kfaughter4350
      @kfaughter4350 3 роки тому +27

      Now that is something isn't it

    • @vempor129
      @vempor129 3 роки тому +32

      I came here to say this but in my heart I knew, it had already been said.

    • @hammerite6418
      @hammerite6418 3 роки тому +6

      I think she’s Todd Howard’s great grandma

    • @davidlawson4281
      @davidlawson4281 3 роки тому

      The exception proves the rule. Good thinking.

    • @tiarnan76
      @tiarnan76 3 роки тому +5

      if only she added ".....n maybe thats the real tragedy.....whatever" ...then bit her bottom lip

  • @alexanderkuptsov6117
    @alexanderkuptsov6117 Рік тому +44

    People look cheerful and upbeat. Dunno if it's because of the TV crew or they just took things more easily back then.

    • @valhalla1515
      @valhalla1515 Рік тому +16

      My theory. People dont waste their dopamine on mobile games and stuff like that, so they get more excited talking to irl people than we do nowdays.

    • @gosteiefavoritei1
      @gosteiefavoritei1 Рік тому +3

      It depends on the culture from where you live, there are plenty of places in the world where people are cheerful when you talk to them. Though I do believe that that is becoming harder to find as time goes on.

    • @ildisiri
      @ildisiri Рік тому +1

      Actually that's a very nice observation, well done, I wonder about that myself now too.

    • @turolretar
      @turolretar Рік тому +2

      Touch grass and you will understand

  • @IvarTheBoneless77
    @IvarTheBoneless77 11 місяців тому +5

    I love the eye contact, VERY rare these days and you can just see the humanity in people

  • @maynoor2135
    @maynoor2135 3 роки тому +3821

    This video is proof how language is changing constantly. Accent is so different than nowadays

    • @sigoy
      @sigoy 3 роки тому +434

      You do know they’re Australian right?

    • @dude9318
      @dude9318 3 роки тому +27

      Seems the same to me .But i think i know what you mean.

    • @user-so7nd5zl2b
      @user-so7nd5zl2b 3 роки тому +84

      Ikr. Specially when english isn’t your first language i thought i was fully fluent but no i have to listen a little more closely when I listen to older stuff

    • @hellbillymods45
      @hellbillymods45 3 роки тому +60

      @@sigoy Oh wow, I didn't, I thought they were British.

    • @ragingwolf1281
      @ragingwolf1281 3 роки тому +76

      @@sigoy yea, the Australian accent had changed

  • @blackice7408
    @blackice7408 4 роки тому +6746

    1961: should husbands do house chores
    2019: should men even be alive

    • @lachlanbell8390
      @lachlanbell8390 4 роки тому +309

      I can't even laugh. It's too real.

    • @Huvrkrft
      @Huvrkrft 4 роки тому +14

      Lachlan Bell same

    • @michaell3105
      @michaell3105 4 роки тому +54

      Mr. dark man how can I be as edgy as u ?

    • @olderwomenenthusiast6147
      @olderwomenenthusiast6147 4 роки тому +77

      Mr. dark man have you SEEN the comment section under each “should women be considered humans” type of video in the MGTOW community??

    • @blackice7408
      @blackice7408 4 роки тому +8

      @@olderwomenenthusiast6147 imma have to see this😆

  • @chucksneed5405
    @chucksneed5405 Рік тому +7

    Look how clean and put-together everyone looks. Not a single junkie panhandling out there.

    • @tobylock1827
      @tobylock1827 Рік тому

      If by put-together you mean wearing slave dress and collars, sure.

    • @chucksneed5405
      @chucksneed5405 Рік тому +1

      @@tobylock1827 ummm m8 do you realize what century this was filmed during lol?

  • @blackfacecastro-trudeau
    @blackfacecastro-trudeau Рік тому +2

    People were so much more pleasant and friendly then

  • @Geeksmithing
    @Geeksmithing 4 роки тому +3997

    I like how the reporter has no concept of personal space, and everyone he interviews keeps backing up. 😆

    • @BlueToronto
      @BlueToronto 4 роки тому +140

      Maybe I'm wrong but it seems like he just darted in on some of them without asking.

    • @c7uk
      @c7uk 4 роки тому +76

      He certainly has an odd manor about him, even in other clips

    • @flynnlivescmd
      @flynnlivescmd 4 роки тому +147

      Talking to strangers and inviting conversation was allowed and common no more than 15 years ago.
      Cry about your personal space when society collapses because no one communicates in person and nothing gets done or fixed because its "offensive" or "racist"
      Dont live in a city either.

    • @flynnlivescmd
      @flynnlivescmd 4 роки тому +48

      I dont see anyone backing up either. Its hard to hear on a busy street so if anything they were getting closer. Do you have any form of logic or consideration, or you just want to pick apart anything and find indifference with the most insignificant, minor things?

    • @jakobvanklinken
      @jakobvanklinken 4 роки тому +36

      @@flynnlivescmd yes Flynn, you're right! Those millenians with their phones and their apps and their personal spaces - the next thing you'll tell me is that native Americans deserve their own space or something - what are you saying? Is this starting to get off topic?

  • @kohlzyz489
    @kohlzyz489 3 роки тому +7409

    Can’t believe the world was black and white back then, really glad scientists invented color

    • @BadMannerKorea
      @BadMannerKorea 3 роки тому +150

      Very old joke.

    • @apachecoolrider1157
      @apachecoolrider1157 3 роки тому +46

      BadMannerKorea and unoriginal

    • @dutchvanderlinde8031
      @dutchvanderlinde8031 3 роки тому +326

      Doesnt make it any less funny 🤷

    • @apachecoolrider1157
      @apachecoolrider1157 3 роки тому +9

      Ares XCVIII it actually does because we have all heard it countless times. It’s the same thing as eating the same bland thing makes you want to kill someone

    • @dutchvanderlinde8031
      @dutchvanderlinde8031 3 роки тому +87

      Well just like humor, taste is subjective so you are wrong my friend :)

  • @Iameli81
    @Iameli81 2 роки тому +28

    Anyone else notice how their personal space looks much smaller than it is today? That is so cool. I love how they can look at each other that closely and it's not weird, nor do they feel uncomfortable.

    • @deargreenplaces
      @deargreenplaces Рік тому +10

      Part of that is because of the aspect ratio of films back then. When you gotta fit two people into 4:3 they stand closer together.

    • @Iameli81
      @Iameli81 Рік тому

      @@deargreenplaces I see what you mean about the 4:3 ratio. Still, it seems to me that their comfort level is high being that close. The camera could easily zoom out a bit too.

    • @juanjuan5698
      @juanjuan5698 11 місяців тому

      @@deargreenplacesI have watched many old interviews and they definitely did stand closer to each other in general.

    • @kunalsen2123
      @kunalsen2123 10 місяців тому

      Also you: "We need safe spaces", "You're entering my private space", "Creepy."

  • @TheTruthWholeTruthNothingButTh

    Imagine asking these people if 12 year old boys can be girls and girls can be boys and seeing their response..

  • @thistleskeptic
    @thistleskeptic 3 роки тому +5365

    My grandpa grew up in a super traditional southern baptist home. You'd never see him just laying around on the weekends. He was always cooking and doing housework on the weekends. He took care of my grandmother until his death, even when she could do hardly anything for herself. Men from that generation were traditional about some things but much more principled in other ways.

    • @isaacborunda2465
      @isaacborunda2465 3 роки тому +220

      If only dudes and chicks were traditional today.

    • @emmahenderson6259
      @emmahenderson6259 3 роки тому +108

      why is this the sweetest thing ever

    • @hopemccubbin8661
      @hopemccubbin8661 3 роки тому +84

      My grandfather was Southern. He never cooked but he did lots of other things outside of the house. They had a farm.

    • @abril1687
      @abril1687 3 роки тому +74

      @@isaacborunda2465 that would be hell, traditions should always change, we still have many problems even decades after this video, no thanks

    • @sencrew5293
      @sencrew5293 3 роки тому +5

      So no sabbath day?

  • @obviously1871
    @obviously1871 4 роки тому +3925

    "Are you married?"
    "I am"
    "Does your husband go to work?"
    "Oh yes"
    "And you?"
    "Yes"
    "Oh you both go to work!?"
    *disappointed reporter noises*

  • @izrealtruefelicis3309
    @izrealtruefelicis3309 Рік тому +2

    This was a delightful surprise from my recommendations

  • @suburbohemian
    @suburbohemian Рік тому +16

    My dad was a police lieutenant who also did side handyman jobs sometimes on the weekend to help make ends meet and he always participated in caring for the home when he was home. My stepmom never took out the trash for instance...never even had to ask. He took initiative and did it. She preferred doing all the cooking and most of the light cleaning, but he did heavy cleanings and the repairs and yard were taken care of asap. Especially to note, he didn't spend his down time adding to the mess. Dirty clothes went to the hamper, dishes to the sink, and if he was the only one who had eaten, he washed them;he didn't leave them for someone else! He helped make the beds after sheets been washed cus it was a king-sized bed and more efficient for two to work together to get it done. He modeled real manhood and leadership...he never thought any work beneath him.

    • @Mr.White....
      @Mr.White.... Рік тому +1

      It sounds like the woman did nothing really.

  • @Pigeons420
    @Pigeons420 5 років тому +4058

    Their answers surprised me.

    • @Writeous0ne
      @Writeous0ne 5 років тому +225

      If they asked men in Yorkshire, everyone would have said no lol. The miners weren't doing 60 hours underground then doing house work :@

    • @jamiecarroll4700
      @jamiecarroll4700 5 років тому +15

      Bet the interview er was gutted with the answers

    • @idfc5382
      @idfc5382 5 років тому +7

      Pigeon 420 I was about to write the exact same thing before i saw your comment... lovin that birb thumbnail tho

    • @jasonnielsen2125
      @jasonnielsen2125 5 років тому +75

      That’s because the public is brainwashed with BS and propaganda , the answers were not a surprise to me.

    • @Xardas105
      @Xardas105 5 років тому +13

      Women became freer during the ww1 when they had to do men's work when the men were out fighting. They got the rights to vote in 1920, we're talking about the 1960's things have changed drastically after ww 1 and 2. So it's not really that much of a suprise.

  • @gregoutcalt6773
    @gregoutcalt6773 5 років тому +1564

    Last lady killed me..... “Yes certainly, But mine doesn’t” !!

    • @NuntiusInfestissumam
      @NuntiusInfestissumam 5 років тому +34

      She was quoting my wife.

    • @omfgitspyrogirl
      @omfgitspyrogirl 5 років тому +3

      She was my favorite

    • @timsmith854
      @timsmith854 5 років тому +3

      See fully geeked-out at the camera on her though :)

    • @littlebear9842
      @littlebear9842 5 років тому +4

      @Some guy it means it made her laugh a lot. Like when someone says "You scared me to death!" They don't mean literally. It's the same concept. It's called a metaphor.

    • @cl-kb7xy
      @cl-kb7xy 5 років тому

      @Some guy And edgy 20-30 year olds always be hating on younger people like they're wise old men, when in fact they're _basically_ just as annoying and cringy, _basically._

  • @yabhyag.4377
    @yabhyag.4377 3 роки тому +30

    Their Australian accent was so much closer to the British accent back then. Lol how times have changed!
    Also I love their elegance😍😍 so much lacking in our present generation (me included😂😂)

  • @XXXMUXICISLIFEXXX
    @XXXMUXICISLIFEXXX 2 роки тому +7

    Another thing I've noticed is that older people seemed to enjoy doing something all the time. Like they were always working on something.

  • @saikopiratos
    @saikopiratos 4 роки тому +2838

    Is it just me or was the everyday life back then like a movie? I mean the people speak, look, the mimic, everythings so perfect.

    • @redbeard3946
      @redbeard3946 4 роки тому +272

      There were definitely things back then that we're tough and horrible to deal with. However when people share one language and have a unifying culture it's easier to get along with each other.

    • @saikopiratos
      @saikopiratos 4 роки тому +16

      @Sean Callahan makes sense

    • @oracle8192
      @oracle8192 4 роки тому +125

      @Sean Callahan . I completely agree. I just hope it's understood that a multicultural society can still be stable. And questioning authority isn't a bad thing.

    • @KeplerX
      @KeplerX 4 роки тому +43

      @@oracle8192 but also complying to authority is also not a bad thing provided you know that you are safe in their supervision

    • @okie9025
      @okie9025 4 роки тому +7

      @Sean Callahan your comment one of the best things I've ever read about this phenomenon

  • @Joelispresent
    @Joelispresent 5 років тому +5735

    People were so articulate... and seemed genuine

    • @joshooahh
      @joshooahh 5 років тому +293

      Its a combination of an accent and being educated.

    • @elenikominos7404
      @elenikominos7404 5 років тому +4

      👍

    • @georgehub4249
      @georgehub4249 5 років тому +179

      Many forces have served to dumb us down over the years.

    • @randomdude189
      @randomdude189 5 років тому +90

      People are still genuine the situations are just becoming increasingly unnatural and personalities follow suit

    • @coachcosta69
      @coachcosta69 5 років тому +108

      Everyone is white and no one has a media addiction

  • @dagmargotz
    @dagmargotz 3 роки тому +3

    2:01 I love the cheeky look the lady who got in the frame gives. 😄

  • @delilahhart4398
    @delilahhart4398 Рік тому +4

    The older people seem to have a keener sense of fairness than the younger ones, by and large.

  • @TheRealEvvonne
    @TheRealEvvonne 4 роки тому +3901

    Reporter: “ Your husband is probably tired from working all day.” Lady: “No he isn’t, , he hasn’t worked for 8 years.” 😂😂

    • @valentin7693
      @valentin7693 3 роки тому +56

      "cause he dead..."

    • @tommydowling9
      @tommydowling9 3 роки тому +44

      Had to make sure that wasn't my missus when I heard it first, thought she time travelled to put me down. I wouldn't put it past her.

    • @alexanderstevens145
      @alexanderstevens145 3 роки тому

      Hey what are you doing here 🤣

    • @diddl03
      @diddl03 3 роки тому

      😁😁

    • @alexanderstevens145
      @alexanderstevens145 3 роки тому

      @Commentary Commentary 🤣

  • @markstrugnell
    @markstrugnell 4 роки тому +2708

    Interviewer: How long have you been married?
    Old man: My wife’s dead
    Hahahaha that went wrong very quickly

    • @its-andrew-y
      @its-andrew-y 4 роки тому +42

      markstrugnell and yet they aired it

    • @tonytube27
      @tonytube27 4 роки тому +9

      Andrew Ybanez 😂 and I’m glad they did!

    • @brotherLee340
      @brotherLee340 4 роки тому +57

      Yooo..and the look on the ladies face was priceless😆😆.

    • @Tomes23
      @Tomes23 4 роки тому +47

      I thought maybe he had dementia. She looked so hurt.

    • @JameelaJ0728
      @JameelaJ0728 4 роки тому

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @HydetheRapper
    @HydetheRapper Рік тому +3

    Man, people used to be so damned decent. Almost like they respected each other and saw each other as partners and thought of each other before themselves.

    • @user-mf5ue6rc5n
      @user-mf5ue6rc5n Рік тому +2

      Because back then they still followed the morals of Christianity. Now God is dead for most of the people.

  • @nightingalex9754
    @nightingalex9754 3 роки тому +9

    I think we are all surprised that they said they should help with the chores. My dad never helped my mom. The shocking thing is that right now men have to work, and women have to 1. work 2. take care of children 3. Clean the house 4. Do shopping, etc. At least in Poland it is still like that, but younger generation is starting to notice that it is not fair. My boyfriend always helps me, but I still have to ask him to do something.

  • @rhaenap8899
    @rhaenap8899 4 роки тому +7240

    Surprised to see so many men back then saying yes to helping with housework. I always thought that a lot of men would’ve been against if back in those days. Nice to see!

    • @bradyj4576
      @bradyj4576 4 роки тому +662

      Or hey maybe you believed incorrect stereotypes but saw first-hand that they were wrong?

    • @connorgillespie8101
      @connorgillespie8101 4 роки тому +405

      It what the schools and media keep pushing

    • @emilyyamasaki4968
      @emilyyamasaki4968 4 роки тому +1

      rhaena p same

    • @SAMMIsLIFE
      @SAMMIsLIFE 4 роки тому +3

      Same here!

    • @marcello7781
      @marcello7781 4 роки тому +6

      Same. Here's your 666th like.

  • @francisninomindana650
    @francisninomindana650 4 роки тому +7940

    Who's here after the interview _"Do you think there is life in other planets?"_

    • @owenguerrero8992
      @owenguerrero8992 4 роки тому +17

      Me

    • @dbloodline
      @dbloodline 4 роки тому +61

      Francis Niño Mindaña Me.... And no regrets. I didn't expect such great answers and reactions. Most people back then seemed so emotionally stable and unbiased... Makes me feel i was born in the wrong era.

    • @sualk6826
      @sualk6826 4 роки тому +2

      Me

    • @davianlomboan2397
      @davianlomboan2397 4 роки тому +2

      me

    • @bassfx1
      @bassfx1 4 роки тому +2

      Who cares?

  • @manalashraf6713
    @manalashraf6713 Рік тому +2

    It's so refreshing to watch this video

  • @dontbreedandbuywhilehomele146
    @dontbreedandbuywhilehomele146 3 роки тому +3

    The first guy.... No words for the amount of respect I have for him. 👏🏻👏🏻

  • @BeerdyBruceLeeCentral
    @BeerdyBruceLeeCentral 4 роки тому +2875

    I feel really bad for the guy at 1:33 he seems like a great guy, but he's single and out of a job, and obviously doesn't have much to eat. Hope everything turned out great for him.

  • @RenatoTrentinYT
    @RenatoTrentinYT 3 роки тому +535

    These people never would imagine 3 million people watching their answers 60 year later

    • @nuha873
      @nuha873 3 роки тому +2

      Yeah

    • @derniercaesar5319
      @derniercaesar5319 3 роки тому +3

      Is 4 million now

    • @RenatoTrentinYT
      @RenatoTrentinYT 3 роки тому +1

      @@derniercaesar5319 thanks for update 😂

    • @alanmoulet1362
      @alanmoulet1362 3 роки тому

      @@RenatoTrentinYT they sure did never expect future generation to be so much of a waste of oxygen

    • @christopherlynagh7110
      @christopherlynagh7110 2 роки тому

      Respectfully, I beg to differ given they all came from our future and are Operating Thetans now level 23.

  • @kalciferis
    @kalciferis 3 роки тому +10

    It seems like people back in the day, somehow was more advanced than we should be today...

  • @BlueAngeluv
    @BlueAngeluv Рік тому +1

    My dad and grandpa didn't do housework. They were dog tired when they got home and had a hot meal waiting, but they fixed the appliances, cars, etc. and took care of things outside. They only got in the way in the kitchen.

  • @Mastesy
    @Mastesy 5 років тому +1483

    Wow. They seem like decent people who think before they talk. No agression in their words

    • @donny234
      @donny234 5 років тому +41

      thinking before talking is a privilege we no longer have , one would have to be able to think before they opened there mc donalds holes

    • @MahanUSW
      @MahanUSW 4 роки тому +35

      2 world wars in 3 decades, colonization, no aggression

    • @ddlee5354
      @ddlee5354 4 роки тому

      people hv all become caffeinated beverages now

    • @mademoiselle3000
      @mademoiselle3000 4 роки тому

      So pc

    • @connorbuchanan9508
      @connorbuchanan9508 4 роки тому +1

      @@ddlee5354 I'm sure people drank coffee.

  • @kylemaritz4673
    @kylemaritz4673 4 роки тому +490

    i was waiting for the guy to say, "hi everyone, we're here in 1961..."

    • @matthew8153
      @matthew8153 4 роки тому +8

      Kyle Maritz
      How do the 90s look time traveling reporter?
      Well the Soviet Union collapsed in on itself and the US never had to fire a shot.
      That sounds rather anticlimactic. What about America? How is it fairing not having an enemy to avoid fighting?
      Well all the wives are working because of a thing called the feminist movement.
      All that extra income sounds nice. How has that improved the quality of life?
      Well they’re spending all that extra income on children’s toys they call Bernie Babies.
      Well I suppose that’s practice if they’re having as many children to raise as we are.
      They’re not having many kids. In fact, they’re relying on mass immigration from countries where the women can barely even read to maintain the population.
      Well it’s nice to help out others around the world I suppose. Are they working well in the factories to maintain America’s standing as a manufacturing superpower?
      No they’re just getting welfare, all the factories are moving to Mexico and China.
      That reminds me of the downfall of Rome. What is our generation doing to combat this problem?
      Oh our generation is focused on mastering a dance craze called the Macaroni.

    • @whysosad45
      @whysosad45 4 роки тому

      Bro😭

    • @johnwhite3519
      @johnwhite3519 4 роки тому

      @@matthew8153 Lmao alt righter
      You had me in the first half

    • @Tubenuub
      @Tubenuub 4 роки тому +1

      "wHat'S uP YoU gUyS?!"

  • @bbqbros3648
    @bbqbros3648 9 місяців тому +4

    Men “definitely!”
    Women “he should relax”
    Damn- it’s like looking out for each other builds love or something.

  • @user-rf8kq7ul9u
    @user-rf8kq7ul9u 3 роки тому +9

    Watching this, I understood that old English just as gorgeous and calming as soviet Russian. I don’t know how, but people of that time speak reasonably, calmly, they have structure of thoughts and literally no unnecessary words or sounds, just like TV or radio announcers. And quite often they give clever and humanistic opinions, more clever and more humanistic than the next generations.

  • @abu_bakr7518
    @abu_bakr7518 4 роки тому +1126

    I love how considerate the people in the clip sound.They realise marriage is all about helping and assisting each other for the best.

    • @danielmann5427
      @danielmann5427 4 роки тому +17

      Why is the husband always expected to help , what about the wife help the husband? Ask the question the other way around. Should wives help their husbands do their chores?
      I bet you will hostile responses.

    • @jakobvanklinken
      @jakobvanklinken 4 роки тому +19

      @So Who's the Dummy Now? And imagine having 4 or 5 kids and doing the laundry for all of those by hand or with a very cumbersome proto-washing machine - that alone would have me occupied for most of the day, let alone all the other chores on top of that

    • @johnmartinez7440
      @johnmartinez7440 4 роки тому +78

      I'm enjoying the irony all the husbands in this video, 60 years ago, being very pleasant and accommodating, compared to the men in the comments here whining about how much they hate women, feminists etc.
      Feels like we've regressed as a society in some ways.

    • @cweston9440
      @cweston9440 4 роки тому +2

      I feel like if you asked people in the streets these days most people would be kind, considerate and good humored

    • @slipperydick
      @slipperydick 4 роки тому +27

      @@danielmann5427 Why get into a relationship or marriage if you're not helping each other and being a team? That just sounds something that an unfit couple would say

  • @DereBear
    @DereBear 4 роки тому +853

    “Should men do all the housework”
    “I do Cuz I’m single”
    I love that

    • @dauser4
      @dauser4 4 роки тому

      Time stamp?

    • @DereBear
      @DereBear 4 роки тому +3

      dauser4 around 1:43

    • @hejalll
      @hejalll 3 роки тому +2

      These people are surprisingly progressive.

    • @dauser4
      @dauser4 3 роки тому

      @@DereBear thx

    • @hejalll
      @hejalll 3 роки тому +1

      @Lachlan Macquarie Well statistics say they are. At least in their acts. I assume this is a progressive part of town or a progressive news source, only showing what they agree with.

  • @aakashchatake
    @aakashchatake 11 місяців тому +2

    its beautiful to watch past people. how decent are they !! how calm these videos are.

  • @TalTheBest
    @TalTheBest 2 роки тому +1

    I don't know where to write this but... Few years ago UA-cam's seemingly entire comment section was filled with toxicity to no end, it was bad, negative, and people liked it and joined each other in belittling others, I wanted to quit watching videos and looking at comments because of that. Nowadays, there isn't a single comment section that doesn't make me laugh like a kid or feel wholesome by someone. Something's changed so much, I'm soooo happy to see this change... ❤️❤️

  • @michellechang1269
    @michellechang1269 5 років тому +2504

    When I was a kid, I used to think the world was all black and white before the 70s.

    • @avapilsen
      @avapilsen 5 років тому +1

      Oops something Lmao same.

    • @proletvladimirova828
      @proletvladimirova828 5 років тому +28

      It was

    • @krshah2008
      @krshah2008 5 років тому +100

      Yes it was.. But then Steve Jobs invented colors 🙂

    • @noahreyna76
      @noahreyna76 5 років тому +2

      shut up😂

    • @sergioaguis
      @sergioaguis 5 років тому +59

      It's still hard to me imagine it in colors lol

  • @nvaranavage
    @nvaranavage 3 роки тому +4074

    The older generation understood that by helping on the weekends shows that they love and respect their wives.....it makes the wife feel appreciated and cared for, not just financially, but also emotionally.
    Edit: Hate to inform you all but I do not work outside the home, I do ALL the laundry, ALL the cooking, do ALL the purchasing, drive my three kids to ALL their school related events and after school scout meetings and music lessons and doctor appointments, help out with fund raising and planning events related to what my kids are involved in, I coordinate things (doctor appointments and big home repairs) for my husband, I dust, vacuum, sweep, clean, organize our home, deal with the virtual learning that's going on right now. I maybe get five hours of sleep on a good day, and I gotta say when my husband randomly grabs out the vacuum and does it I love him even more because what he just did for me was say "thank you for ALL that you do for me and the kids" with an act of service. Has nothing to do with division of labor in my home, it has to do with love languages and a spouse recognizing that sometimes the other person could use and appreciate an act of kindness. I never mentioned gender roles, I wasn't commenting about gender roles at all.

    • @bertiewhistlepipe3715
      @bertiewhistlepipe3715 3 роки тому +68

      You're partly right but maybe it's more that the "older men" in the footage were most likely retired and so had more time than the younger ones to help out at home...
      luckily now house prices are so ridiculously high that we can all share the house work/ full time jobs/children etc equally and work ourselves in to an early grave ... now that's progress 🙄🤭
      Edit.... "hate to inform you all but....." then goes on to give total strangers every detail about her life! 😅🤣
      You do realise its not all about you, I think people were giving their opinion on the video 🤦

    • @testacals
      @testacals 3 роки тому +35

      @@bertiewhistlepipe3715 Price of living so high that it is impossible to have gender roles

    • @bertiewhistlepipe3715
      @bertiewhistlepipe3715 3 роки тому +9

      @@testacals im hearing ya sister 🤜🤛 equality all the way

    • @marcwillms7233
      @marcwillms7233 3 роки тому +4

      What if the men work hard and the wife does not work, I think the man should helf if he wants to

    • @marcwillms7233
      @marcwillms7233 3 роки тому +17

      @@testacals gender roles are needed

  • @oopsneha
    @oopsneha 3 роки тому +2

    Everyone are so respectful to each other here.. and the elders here, it's weird to say, but have my heart in a positive way

  • @nothingness4884
    @nothingness4884 Рік тому +5

    Real human faces with no plastic surgery. How refreshing.

    • @brandonb3174
      @brandonb3174 Рік тому +1

      Not as much makeup either

    • @mandark8561
      @mandark8561 Рік тому +1

      Back when people weren't shallow and obsessed with themselves

  • @sophiabeebeeboo4579
    @sophiabeebeeboo4579 4 роки тому +554

    3:46 I love how this lady looked down at the microphone and said “oh no”

  • @amyrodriguez7825
    @amyrodriguez7825 3 роки тому +1703

    Is surprising to see older folks be so positive and have such an open mind back then

    • @khrashingphantom9632
      @khrashingphantom9632 3 роки тому +163

      A lot more of them were than we tend to think. The people shown here were apart of "The Greatest Generation" and "The Silent Generation" the later of which is largely responsible for the more progressive social reforms we see today. Lol.

    • @dusk4923
      @dusk4923 3 роки тому +13

      That's because liberals have painted all white civilisation pre 1965 as racist
      This was 60 years ago, go around the Muslim or African cities in 2021 and ask random men that question. But of course the leftists never would.

    • @amyrodriguez7825
      @amyrodriguez7825 3 роки тому +31

      This has nothing to do with race, I'm Hispanic and there is a diverse mentality in my community as well. I don't understand why people with your view are so quick to judge.

    • @K0bbii
      @K0bbii 3 роки тому +6

      do you talk to alot of older folks though i think they are positive just talking to other older folks

    • @nonniperkl6273
      @nonniperkl6273 3 роки тому +6

      I think it is quite odd. Honestly I think that the boomers and gen x are more conservative especially there in America what I have seen. Here in my country I think some of the boomers are more understanding as they didn’t have much in their youth after the war + other cultural factors.

  • @redtsun67
    @redtsun67 Рік тому +2

    Whenever I would go over to my grandparent's house on the weekends and my grandpa would always be sitting in his chair while my grandma was in the kitchen or laundry room doing chores. One day I asked him why he never helps with chores, and he said something along the line of "I do all of MY housework in the evening, usually after you leave".
    So the next day, instead of coming over in the afternoon, I waited to go over until about 5PM, only to find him sitting in his chair like always. When I called him on it, he said "well I wanted to show you what I do, so I started the housework in the afternoon, but you never came over. Just finished 'em all about 30 minutes ago". At this point I knew I'd been had. My grandpa was more clever than 10 year old me for sure.

  • @frankjackson2439
    @frankjackson2439 3 роки тому +4

    It’s great how you can see the cigarette smoke wafting up into the cameras view.

  • @willbournerv2259
    @willbournerv2259 3 роки тому +599

    “Have you been married long?”
    “Yeeeeeees a good many years”

    • @ahmedronaldokahn2352
      @ahmedronaldokahn2352 3 роки тому +1

      Yeaah....

    • @2hedz77
      @2hedz77 3 роки тому +32

      LOL...but then didn't her husband say that his wife was dead?🤣

    • @60sto80s2
      @60sto80s2 3 роки тому +9

      @@2hedz77 he had dementia i think she knew

    • @BethGoth15
      @BethGoth15 2 роки тому

      @@2hedz77 Maybe that lady was his 2nd wife? 🤷‍♀️

  • @jimmysmith736
    @jimmysmith736 4 роки тому +2164

    Everyone seems so much more respectful and proper.

    • @deathbystereo-
      @deathbystereo- 4 роки тому +100

      Tech has ruined mankind

    • @kaydar2488
      @kaydar2488 4 роки тому +56

      They was social media has ruined earth

    • @kniefi
      @kniefi 4 роки тому +74

      I kept seeing the most noticeable change in social behavior in the transitioning from 98', 99' to the 2000s. I was over in the states as an exchange student for a semester back then and I witnessed the release of MTV's "Jackass" - boy did it feel wrong to watch people giving two homeless guys money so they eould punch each other in the face for pure entertainment!
      I was disgusted for real!
      Sadly that show and similar other shows became widely popular and so did socially acceptable bullying and violence!
      I watched it first hand happening around me in my early twenties and could not grasp what was happening...
      I believe media had a HUGE impact on the young generations...
      And when loserkids suddenly could be famous for doing stupid things on camers, up was down and right was left...

    • @kaysi768
      @kaysi768 4 роки тому +5

      @@deathbystereo- right hence why you are on it

    • @kaysi768
      @kaysi768 4 роки тому +83

      Yes until a gay person or black person walks past, then the respectful I am sure would e extended, this gold tinted perception of the past is so shirt sighted

  • @ChristinaRicks144
    @ChristinaRicks144 Рік тому +2

    I love these interviews!

  • @Williamfootsie
    @Williamfootsie 4 роки тому +2053

    So many peoples great grandparents are in this video and they have no idea

  • @soyroos1295
    @soyroos1295 4 роки тому +1270

    “Oh yes, certainly, all the time but mine doesn’t”

    • @robertoorrego4374
      @robertoorrego4374 4 роки тому +3

      Jeez over 500 likes and no replies damn...1 now -_-

    • @robertoorrego4374
      @robertoorrego4374 4 роки тому +5

      @Matt Laclair **dabs intensely**

    • @hwago123
      @hwago123 4 роки тому

      THat was great

    • @MsPants1632
      @MsPants1632 4 роки тому +1

      Tell us how you really feel 🤣🤣

    • @viva2pk
      @viva2pk 4 роки тому

      j c 😀😂

  • @tastheresidentartist8010
    @tastheresidentartist8010 Рік тому +2

    What people don’t understand is that if you wanna see what true traditional values are- you gotta go to the country/small town folk. Men and women were taught everything. Cooking, cleaning, defending, survival. If you couldn’t take care of yourself, what good are you to others. So every relationship was more based in teamwork rather than the more city/high society way of where “women know their place and men know theirs.”- the way most people think “traditional“ is- a slave to eachother rather than a helper to eachother.

  • @AK94913
    @AK94913 10 місяців тому +2

    Everyone so honest, welcoming, immaculately dressed. Can we go back?

    • @theblueprint2001
      @theblueprint2001 10 місяців тому

      besides the racism yeah this time period looked awesome

    • @evanhughes1510
      @evanhughes1510 3 місяці тому

      @@theblueprint2001not everybody was racist stupid. Way to generalize. You think people aren’t racist today?

  • @letsmaybeplay
    @letsmaybeplay 4 роки тому +933

    "Oh, for sure"
    "That's for sure"
    "Are you for sure?"
    "That's for sure, yes"

  • @S2I2
    @S2I2 4 роки тому +776

    *Creeps up behind old man with microphone*
    "Do you think husbands should help out with weekend housework?"

    • @sergiocarrillo6608
      @sergiocarrillo6608 4 роки тому +5

      😂😂

    • @user-iu2zo7hu7f
      @user-iu2zo7hu7f 4 роки тому +3

      Lmao

    • @angelika_munkastrap4634
      @angelika_munkastrap4634 4 роки тому +3

      Lolol and that last woman, looking like the microphone was about to assault her not to mention that lady in the middle looking like she was about to be raped by the reporter lol maybe he was standing too close lol, but he caught a lot of uncomfortable people on this day lol

    • @CHARLIE-MF-BROWN
      @CHARLIE-MF-BROWN 3 роки тому +1

      They all shot off answers right away tho lol.

    • @bradford_shaun_murray
      @bradford_shaun_murray 3 роки тому

      1:33 hobbies: people watching.

  • @olympiabee
    @olympiabee Рік тому +3

    I hope the man that said "she rests" gets/has the deluxe package in heaven. God bless him!

  • @lucyk2371
    @lucyk2371 8 місяців тому +1

    I like the lady smirking and rolling her eyes in the camera while the guy says no.

  • @CourierSixMojaveExpress
    @CourierSixMojaveExpress 3 роки тому +1689

    All the older and married ones are like "yes help your wife with housework" the young guys looked like they got asked if they liked a girl XD omg that one woman with four daughters "no he keeps out of my way" XD

    • @zanderness
      @zanderness 3 роки тому +37

      Maybe the older guys are retired, maybe working 40 hours a week at little hobby jobs and the young guys are working 70 hour work weeks. I hardly ever help my wife do housework but at the same time she says I work to much so everyone is different.

    • @gu3sswh075
      @gu3sswh075 3 роки тому +5

      Hard to believe she might’ve been in her 30-40 there, now she would be 85-95

    • @dawn5227
      @dawn5227 3 роки тому +5

      If he's out of her way, he can't be adding any more girls to the family dynamics. 🤣

    • @karenndvs
      @karenndvs 3 роки тому +26

      @@zanderness they works al those days so hard and earn money and have vacations but womans works at the house everyday for free and never stops and the lazy husband is so tired to help at weekends but she can’t take days off of housework, its unfair not help womans with housework when you can even if she tells you its ok she will aprecciate your help men are husbands not other kid that womans have to take care all the time. So stop saying MAYBE he works more hours because you dont know, and you are saying that housework its easy and its not, isnt as hard as men work but is hard too and never stops.

    • @GrimDMasterMind
      @GrimDMasterMind 3 роки тому +17

      @@karenndvs You say they do it for free, when some families back then the man handed her most to all his salary, and he got what he needed for the period. Granted at that point she also handled the bills, food and misc, but it was hardly for "free"