Firstly kudos to Says for giving the spotlight to the queer community in Malaysia. But I would love to see more diversity in terms of ethnicity and more queers from the LGBTQIA+ community here in Malaysia. Not forgetting featuring queer artists like Carmen Rose who is never shy to be in drag and stand up for the queers in this country, just saying.
‘I can’t deny what I believe..I can’t be what I’m not..’ - No Matter What song by Boyzone. This has been my life motto as a gay man, guys. Cheers from Singapore.💐
As a bisexual female , I find myself relating to this video sm. especially tht one part where ppl shrink themselves up when u come out to them-thanks says for making this ^^
I choose to fight with my internal feeling instead of againts my religion belief. Because i believe in my religion. I take it that as a test for me, its ok not to haVE boyfriend instead of being hated by my CREATOR... What they shared is truthfully true... I dont againts anyone here, i just shares mine. Its ok to remain single. GOD BLESS YOU.
You do you but I love that you present your experience and don't judge. In Christianity there's a bit from the New testament that says 'let him who is without sin cast the first stone.' you do you and you are seen and not alone.
Consider this, you are lucky as every second of your life-fighting temptation is a jihad,, Nabi Mohamed SAW; the biggest war that ummah has to face is the war within himself it's ALLAH gift for you. You got more time to do more good. This is your rahmat! Being single is alright. You have ALLAH.
Are you a Muslim? You are a gem! Choosing God over your feelings. I mean, feeling itself is not a sin because God Himself creates that feeling for you as a test. In Islam, only the act of sex between similar genders is considered a sin. God knows better how you feel. Being single is alright. May Allah give you heaven for this jihad.
Thank you for this video. Spreading awareness on these topics are so important in the type of society we live in. Amazing video, we need more of these. 👏🏻🙌🏻✨
Everyone was so well-spoken and brave for sharing their experiences! Thank you for you guys’ honesty and thank you Nicky for another great (and important) video 🤍
Well done for this segment because there's just so much to be told or heard and we are lucky in a sense that the modern society is more accepting than before. I too can relate to quite a handful of the traumas mentioned here. One of them is being outed without my consent. Some people treat being gay is like a joke to them so they insensitively go around announcing and promoting your sexual preference, sometimes to those who might be homophobic and as a consequence, we might need to deal with some form of aggression from certain people. If you have friends who are gay, if you want to learn more about them, talk to them. Learn. And not treat them like a joke because it can be quite distatefully insulting.
About the internal discrimination between community members, I think hetero also got problems as SEA ARE MOSTLY SHALLOWS due to our culture that have beauty standards/expectations from all walk of lifes. Somewhat more, we are not that open to discuss relationship at westerners do. So, benda taboo, makin bodo la masyarakat pasal tu... Hanya mau putih melepak saja la, nak sawo matang la, nak sado la, taknak gemok la... Fine, everyone have preferences, yes we do... But don't be a biatch about it and be nice with those who don't conform into your expectations! Learn to be wise with words...
Sending lots of love to you 💓💓💓💓💓 trauma bingo sounds like a fun healing game especially when with a person who both have similar background with each other. Its sad, but its healing! For more conversations and videos like this one! Cheers🥳🌈💗
Is that Clinton that from i can see your voice Malaysia Edition Shila Amzah? Whatever it is I wish you guys all the best for what you guys have been through..What I know is Saya doakan yang terbaik untuk kalian semua. Doa yang baik baik . Itu lebih baik daripada mengeluarkan kata-kata yang tidak baik yang boleh membuat seseorang itu terasa hati. Kita sebagai sesama HUMANS patut dan saling mendoakan yang baik baik sesama kita. Okay.
But you have to be careful... If you expect other people to find you attractive you must accept that same logic. If someone does not like you because you are a bit overweight, then why do you have the right to refuse someone who is old? If someone finds you attractive be happy with it, if not then just accept it. That is life.
Firstly kudos to Says for giving the spotlight to the queer community in Malaysia.
But I would love to see more diversity in terms of ethnicity and more queers from the LGBTQIA+ community here in Malaysia. Not forgetting featuring queer artists like Carmen Rose who is never shy to be in drag and stand up for the queers in this country, just saying.
So proud of SAYS! Keep the conversation going. Love it.
‘I can’t deny what I believe..I can’t be what I’m not..’ - No Matter What song by Boyzone. This has been my life motto as a gay man, guys. Cheers from Singapore.💐
I love this vid soooo much. Thank you for sharing your stories Clinton, Nigel, Kamalesh, and Bernard!
As a bisexual female , I find myself relating to this video sm. especially tht one part where ppl shrink themselves up when u come out to them-thanks says for making this ^^
Thank you for sharing 😭😭 and please continue this series
loved how this video was lighthearted yet so meaningful. thank you for sharing your experiences!
I choose to fight with my internal feeling instead of againts my religion belief. Because i believe in my religion.
I take it that as a test for me, its ok not to haVE boyfriend instead of being hated by my CREATOR...
What they shared is truthfully true... I dont againts anyone here, i just shares mine.
Its ok to remain single. GOD BLESS YOU.
You do you but I love that you present your experience and don't judge. In Christianity there's a bit from the New testament that says 'let him who is without sin cast the first stone.' you do you and you are seen and not alone.
Consider this, you are lucky as every second of your life-fighting temptation is a jihad,, Nabi Mohamed SAW; the biggest war that ummah has to face is the war within himself it's ALLAH gift for you. You got more time to do more good. This is your rahmat! Being single is alright. You have ALLAH.
Are you a Muslim? You are a gem! Choosing God over your feelings. I mean, feeling itself is not a sin because God Himself creates that feeling for you as a test. In Islam, only the act of sex between similar genders is considered a sin. God knows better how you feel. Being single is alright. May Allah give you heaven for this jihad.
Thank you for this video. Spreading awareness on these topics are so important in the type of society we live in. Amazing video, we need more of these. 👏🏻🙌🏻✨
Thank you for sharing your stories. As someone who is slowly accepting my queerness, this video gives me comfort. ❤️
Everyone was so well-spoken and brave for sharing their experiences! Thank you for you guys’ honesty and thank you Nicky for another great (and important) video 🤍
Well done for this segment because there's just so much to be told or heard and we are lucky in a sense that the modern society is more accepting than before.
I too can relate to quite a handful of the traumas mentioned here. One of them is being outed without my consent. Some people treat being gay is like a joke to them so they insensitively go around announcing and promoting your sexual preference, sometimes to those who might be homophobic and as a consequence, we might need to deal with some form of aggression from certain people.
If you have friends who are gay, if you want to learn more about them, talk to them. Learn. And not treat them like a joke because it can be quite distatefully insulting.
About the internal discrimination between community members, I think hetero also got problems as SEA ARE MOSTLY SHALLOWS due to our culture that have beauty standards/expectations from all walk of lifes. Somewhat more, we are not that open to discuss relationship at westerners do. So, benda taboo, makin bodo la masyarakat pasal tu...
Hanya mau putih melepak saja la, nak sawo matang la, nak sado la, taknak gemok la...
Fine, everyone have preferences, yes we do... But don't be a biatch about it and be nice with those who don't conform into your expectations!
Learn to be wise with words...
Thank you for sharing your stories 💕 may the world eventually learn to have more compassion for each other ✨
These people are so well spoken! Good video! :)
So happy to see content like this! Keep it up woooooo 🥳
Excellent discussion. Thank you Nicky!
This is very real and deep. And I love it.
Sending lots of love to you 💓💓💓💓💓 trauma bingo sounds like a fun healing game especially when with a person who both have similar background with each other. Its sad, but its healing! For more conversations and videos like this one! Cheers🥳🌈💗
Thank you so much for the video. Could you guys do one for lesbians?
Wow !! what a beautiful topic pls do more of it. Peace ☮️ and love ❤️
Is that Clinton that from i can see your voice Malaysia Edition Shila Amzah?
Whatever it is I wish you guys all the best for what you guys have been through..What I know is Saya doakan yang terbaik untuk kalian semua. Doa yang baik baik . Itu lebih baik daripada mengeluarkan kata-kata yang tidak baik yang boleh membuat seseorang itu terasa hati. Kita sebagai sesama HUMANS patut dan saling mendoakan yang baik baik sesama kita. Okay.
Great work guys! Good honest talk from a group of intelligent well-spoken guys. We need more like this!
WE NEED MORE VIDEO LIKE THIS IN MALAYSIA. PLEASE DO MORE VIDEO LIKE THIS
❤️❤️ Thank You 🙏
I relate to them 100%
cheers to you guys
But you have to be careful... If you expect other people to find you attractive you must accept that same logic. If someone does not like you because you are a bit overweight, then why do you have the right to refuse someone who is old? If someone finds you attractive be happy with it, if not then just accept it. That is life.
Brilliant video
Awesome job guys. Now go and redo that podcast on sex education done by seismik. That was a horrible one.
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Im bisexual, im a LGBT rights activist and im proud,
i like how progressive SAYS is, keep going SAYS 💪🏼
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Clinton?
Who’s that comedian? Let’s get him cancelled 😡
pride month just ended
This is wrong 🤦🏻♂️
Only wrong here is you my dear…..if you don’t agree why bother commenting 🙄🤦♀️
Suggest no one engage...pointless. He's entitled to his view no matter how mistaken we might feel it is.
Yes, all the homophobia that happened to them is wrong.
And y are u even here!?
You took your time and energy out of your day just to say this? Lolllll