London’s International Eating Disorder conference 2024 - Fiona Hollings lived experience
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- Опубліковано 31 бер 2024
- My presentation from the LEDC 2024.
Huge credit to LEDC for putting on such a fantastic conference. Though provoking, inspiring and moving.
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Everything you e said, you could be my daughter speaking. Anorexia at 11, she got diagnosed with autism 1 year ago. She’s now 18 and still really struggling with her ED. But you sound so alike. You are so brave. Thank you for speaking up. I shall show this to my daughter. Keep fighting Fi, you’re amazing. xx
Thank you for being "the voice" for so many of us. Please NEVER underestimate yourself. You are absolutely amazing in every way...
It is an honour to be able to be a voice. Thank you so much! Xxx
I have now officially watched every single one of your videos on here and Ohhh Fi. You are an ABSOLUTELY amazing person. I can't imagine how much of a struggle this process had to be for you. Ive had an Eating Disorder for 33 years but no recovery attempts. You are an inspiration to us all and I am so thankful to have been able to watch you from the beginning to where you are now. Your good days and your not so good. You held strong. I am so proud of you and all you have accomplished. I have also recently been diagnosed with Autism (I'm 39 today!) So a late diagnosis for me too but it's been so eye opening.
I hope you will continue to update us now and then. Sending you lots and lots of love and appreciation ❤ R.
Fi, I’m so proud of you. You explained that so clearly & I know how that talk has already started to become a real discussion especially on eating disorder units.
I truly believe that you have made a HUGE difference in the eating disorders of planning recovery.
I’m not autistic but after 40 years of an ongoing eating disorder I’m only just beginning to be heard when I say, I’m an individual, please treat me as one. I’ve now made people aware of this but there still needs a huge change. People adapt differently. Like autism. The usual treatment for an eating disorder is not going to work for everyone. People cope & adapt in different ways.
And whilst I am not autistic I have plenty of other labels that people don’t understand or can’t be bothered to understand. So those labels are added to with words like can’t be bothered, too complex, lazy, not trying, won’t engage etc.
You should be so proud Fi. Because I’m so proud of you along with many others. ❤ xxx
Thanks Fi, you're a star. thank you for having the courage, words and conviction to speak about this. You almost identically described my own process of developing AN, unsuccessful treatments, and getting better through discovering you're autistic. I've never had the words and you are getting this message out to so many people. It will help countless people. Thank you 😊 xx
That was amazing Fi! You spoke so well and I know everyone there will have been so impressed with your presentation just as I am. Every ED service should be shown this, everyone working in the medical field actually. Feel very proud of you and I literally clapped at the end along with the audience x
Ok now I'm crying ! That was beautiful, Fi! Soo educational and really interesting, Like I said before, I think you found Fi. She is an educator now and a darn good one ❤ I am so proud of you ! Sending so much love your way ❤
Lisa! Thank you so much. Your comments never fail to make me feel better
Thank you Fi for being so open. You have described me😮
Thank you for being so kind. Sending love
Thank you for sharing this, you’re helping so many people proud of you Fi ❤️
Thank YOU my love
Thank you for sharing yourself and your journey. It truly helps me feel less alone.
Thank you for your kind comment. I'm thankful I am able to help you feel less alone. Sending hugs your way
You’re such a light in the world , I relate to you on so many levels. You’re beautiful ❤ so proud of you, please beat this Fi
Aww thank you Rachel! That means a lot. I will. I really will
@@Finding_Fi not at all Fi, you’re a very special person and although I don’t know you in person, I can tell across the screen! If we knew each other in real life, I’m sure we’d be great friends as our lives are quite similar and our personalities. Sending love Fi 🩵🩵
I had no idea the intensity of what you have been through. Your self awareness and communication skills are key to doctors treatment to other patient's. I think all eating disorder treatment centers need to read the research about the cormorbidity with eating disorders and Autism. People need to here personal narratives such as yours . U are amazing Fi .hugs
Breathtaking, eloquently spoken and a voice for so many who are voiceless. Thank you, 1 million times over ❤ proud doesn’t feel like an adequate enough word. ⭐️
Rachel omg hi ❤
I've watched your journey from your first video. Your determination is inspirational, even though you might not feel like it because you had a setback, you are being real about it, and that's inspirational too.
Oh my lovely, thank you. Thank you for being with me through it all, that means a lot to me.
It hasn't been an easy time recently, but I'm getting back up, dusting myself off and carrying on going.
So much love
I totally relate to you in many ways. I know what its like to feel like everything I do is wrong, and having anorexia causes feelings of accomplishment in some sense. Youre not alone with any of these feelings, the struggles and guilty feelings of failure,etc. Keep fighting Fi! You are so worth it.
This is an amazing, interesting presentation and I have learnt so much from watching this. Thank you for sharing your experience. You are lovely to listen to. Xx
Thank you so much Samantha, that means a lot to me. Xx
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You did fantastic, I loved watching. Well done 🎉 😊. Smooth radio is my favourite 🙂
Aww thank you! It is what we almost always have playing in the background - it helps :)
Fi, I have no words. Thank you from the bottom of my heart. I have never related to something this much and I can't even put into words how much you help me, make me feel not alone, not so wrong.
Thank you for all that you are and for sharing with us, you are admirable and so strong. ❤
Thank you Biancaa! I'm both sorry you can relate, but hopeful you are on an autism friendly path too?
We are not wrong. We just process the world differently.
Thank YOU for being so kind. Your kindness makes a difference to me and my world
@@Finding_FiI am so sorry for just seeing your response and answering now. 😔
Thank you so much for your kindness and understanding, and for offering such a safe space, not even my family understands, I don't blame them but it hurts a lot. I had to move back home from uni and since then it's mostly been 'you're pretending just to ruin my life' 'you're just lazy and finally found an excuse' and so much more.
I'm trying so hard to not be so hurt and try to accept that being different is not wrong and I am not just a problem but it's so difficult, and where I live mental health is pretty much a joke, everyone is just considered crazy and put on sedatives..
But I don't want to end this on such a sad note, so thank you, again, you give me and so many others hope and strength to keep going 🤍
So proud of you brave fi ❤
Thank you my love ❤️❤️❤️
Your welcome!
Also this speech deserves an award 💪✨
I enjoyed that so much. You did amazing!
Thank you!
Thank you for doing this presentation.
Wow what a proud moment. How eloquent you speak, how alive you became when talking about how you FEEL now.
I believe my daughter has autism - she’s been told she has a social anxiety disorder - how do I help her progress from just that? It’s just a symptom that she could understand so much more if she looked into the world of autism. But that’s me speaking not her.
(Her eating disorder is eating too much )
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It's been awhile Fi...Thinking of you. Hope you're okay-ish 💕
Omg , I think this is me ? ! I am 56 n treated for anorexia in 87 , which was dreadful n autism wasn't a thing even ! I am being treated for anorexia but this seems more like me ? ! X
Unfortunately it seems to be the case for so many, too many. I hope you are able to find and navigate a path that feels hopeful
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