It's amazing Aubrey has moments he wants to reach out and be there but he chooses to allow her to have break through a instead of feeding his need to "protect" in that moment. Beautiful ❤️
@@thegreatordermusicagreed man, it’s wonderful, eye opening and inspiring. These videos have literally changed who I am and my conversations I have with friends coworkers etc
Aubrey, you showed me what holding space, loving presence, and deep listening looks like. Thank you so much. I didn't know, and it's been so hard to be truly loving with these missing pieces. ❤ 🙏
I feel her pain..always wanting to be the best..Aging has been a struggle . But its such a wonderful life when you let it go..I was always scared no one would love me inless I stayed beautiful and in some ways the universe verified it just to make me look inside to love myself. What a gift to love your self. Still working on it ..
Such a hard thing to get through my head. Growing up I was the sporty pretty girl. As an adult I became more interested in fashion and beauty becoming a stylist and becoming whatever I wanted. I always thought I had confidence. But I became sick and gained weight and ended up having to cut my long hair. Learning what overweight women go through was such an eye opening experience. I was never a mean girl but never understood why people weren’t just happy with what they had. Now I am almost back to my normal self I don’t take a second of my health for granted. I don’t worry about weight or what I look like. I made a pack to not look in mirrors but once a day and I try to complement others everyday day. I have tried to not worry about wrinkles but I hate as a human it is impossible. I hope this will definitely help me out of this next step. It is like my prayers have been answered as always. ❤ we all are beautiful in our own ways and I hope that we all can find that in ourselves ❤❤❤
I look back on photos of when I was in my 20's, 30's, 40's and I just don't understand why I wasted so much energy, had so much angst, over what most definitely were my most foxy days ever! Spend less time in front of the mirror, tell yourself the exact opposite of whatever negative BS comes up and then just smile, because you are stunning. From my Louise Hay Wisdom Cards: "Life is very simple. I create my experiences BY MY THINKING and FEELING patterns. What I believe about myself and about life becomes true for me." RIP Louise Hay. Smile sister, life is good.
Vylana, children are heart chakra openers. You will experience life in a new way. I am excited for you. Thank you for sharing you inner world with all of us. Please do more videos like this with Peter.
Listend to this again. So powerful..Im a 47 year old woman. I learned to love my self just 3 to 4 years ago. I try to do what this man just did for her. He did it with such grace and compassion..so beautiful..what a gift this man is to humanity .
The beauty myth is women's most powerful prison on this earth. There is no society or culture that doesn't hold beauty as a restrictive standard for women to constantly compare ourselves with. And more women need to stand up and say not only am I a valid and acceptable human being, but also, all other women are valid and acceptable and stop using beauty or youth as criteria for how "good" someone is. I have to cringe just a little that it has to be a man that guides Vylana through this process. My hope would be that she takes what she has learned and role models it for other women.
Years ago, I read a story about a spontaneous remission of a breast cancer patient. A patient who refused treatments and decided she'd rather live out her final days in gratitude and not sick from chemo. She officially gave up "the fight" and decided to live in surrender and acceptance. She travelled and lived her life. Realizing after a while, she wasn't feeling sick or weak, like what is expected with the progression of cancer. She went in for more testing and they found her cancer was disappearing. She kept doing what she was doing until eventually, they couldn't detect cancer in her. I wish I printed out that story and the images when I read it since I now understand more about what might have come into play. To fight is our instinct but it's not the right approach for everyone. I believe she listened to what a higher power told her and it told her to surrender. She could have died and she made it clear that she was OK with that. The ultimate result isn't up to us. Everyone around her was telling her to take the treatment and making her decision seem terrible. Of course she could have given in to how friends, family and doctors were telling her she was supposed to feel but she chose not to.
If you haven't checked out the testimonials on UA-cam of Joe Dispenza meditations, I highly recommend doing so. I have heard stories like that in the testimonials.
Yesterday I heard about a women who didn't want the treatment too and the doctors said it was terminal and she would die in 6 months and it did end up happening. She didn't take the treatment and die. I wonder what the difference is....
@@millybuskila4508 might just be down to everyone having different fates. Our lives aren't ours, no matter how hard we try to control it. It's like cases where a person gets shot and the bullet misses their heart by a millimeter or someone gets hit by a car but escapes with minor injuries. It's not their time to die but the horrible events they go through are meant to teach them something and they teach others through their experiences. It may serve as a reminder to all of us that none of us are ultimately in control of anything. Spontaneous remissions provide solid evidence that something else is at play since there are scientific tests and scans to back it up that these illnesses existed
To hear a goddess like her admitting that she also coaches herself, admitting she also gets burned out, admitting she fealt in competition with women before.. she's so beautiful and strong and talented and to be honest this woman is intimidating because she's so beautiful,full of life, vibrant and amazing to watch and to listen to and to look at, and she has the darkest most beautiful hair. So to hear her open up and be so vunerable that's powerful. That made me feel less alone.
Great conversation! Also to note that a woman's desire to look great and be chosen, is magnified with the fact that for many men, being with an externally "beautiful" woman is often part of THEIR obsession to be viewed as "successful". Then, many men when going through their own emotional crisis, will discard a women when she gets older in an attempt to feel "relevant". A women's obsession with their appearance can feel necessary based on the worlds view of it and the consequences of not being traditionally "beautiful". This issue requires a collective shift and podcasts like this can certainly shed much light on an antiquated view of what it means to be worthy of love and acceptance. @vylana, to me your vulnerability IS the embodiment of beauty- thank you :)
Thank you! Vylana was amazing! Peter Crone was so good at guiding Vylana to her truth. I’ve not experienced Peter Crone before. Aubrey, you put together another inspirational conversation. Again, thank you. BTW, I’m 76 years old and am “in love”. Life is marvelous. Love you and Vylana too.
As a man of 21 years I also learned a lot! Its truly amazing how Peter was able to pinpoint the issue in her own words 🤯 and also the level of vulnerability is inspiring to see ❤
Since discovering Sir Peter Crone when this first dropped, i've probably watched a dozen podcast appearances of his and now back for round 2. Discovering him is like finding hieroglyphics in a lost tomb. Absolutely timeless.
Thank you for your vulnerability, Vy, it felt like it was me speaking up there. You are so courageous and you are doing valuable work for the collective feminine 💜
My skin has changed since my last pregnancy, but with that also is age. I had my last baby at 41... I've always accepted myself as I am. "Flaws" and all, but this time around the age/sun spots, hyper pigmentation here and there etc. Dry hair and so on.. I once took a Pic with my toddler baby girl and noticed all of it and said "ugh, I look so ugly now" out loud and my toddler said, " No Mommy, you are beautiful!"... and right then and there I came back to myself in the space where I've always accepted myself exactly how I am who I have been through all the cycles of my life. Currently embracing life, myself and my children. ❤❤ IN LOVE I must add.
Wow - I am so deeply thankful for you opening yourself up like this Vylana❤. To hear this from someone who appears to have the best and easiest life - so beautiful and “successful” really hits home that comparing our insides to other’s outsides is not only extremely harmful but also based in such inaccuracy.
I'm a male and this was a direct hit! I get it..... I'm trying to be "in love" without loving myself! Living in love as a "state of being". I need to love my inner critic! I've been trying to be loved and accepted while not loving and accepting myself! I will listen to this again!
Vy spent first half of the interview constantly fixing her hair, seeing her relax and become comfortable in her body was beautiful to see. This podcast was incredible, thank you Vy for your vulnerability, these lessons truly changed my life.
Oh how I wish I could have been exposed to this knowledge when I was young! I'm on the cusp of 60 and am excited to shared this with my daughters who are in their late 20's. Thank you Aubrey for the way you held space for Vy as she confronted her past and began the steps to transform and heal. Releasing the ties that unknowingly bound her and all women. So powerful! Infinite blessings to you all❤
When i was 21 my mom was suffering in similar cycle. Shes so stunning, beautiful. At the time I couldnt imagine WHO created this perception in her that she was beautiful or enough or valuable. I asked her WHO told her these things. It was her dad, my grandpa. I realized in that moment he was a liar. "Mom he was wrong" i asked her to look in the mirror into her eyes. She bawled for a bit. We both broke down. It was so profound. Its been a journey to see, feel, be that truth of who she, we, i really are/am. So fun. THANK YOU all for holding space for unconditional love.
Thanks for sharing, so important to recognise how this can manifest into one’s suffering from a father’s endearing comments or anyone’s comments for that matter. 🙏
This is one of the best interviews ever…I could see and feel myself in Vylana as she so vulnerable spoke and exposed the inner depths that go through what sounds like majority of women’s head and energy field. I’m so grateful for this and her being willing to go this deep. I can guarantee almost every human that’s doing the work is holding space for her and giving her so much love as they watch this. At least I am. Thank you thank you thank you for this healing and awareness that is happening for me and being able to share this with others 🙏🏼💕
I actually really relate to Vylana on this. Less about wanting to be the best but always comparing myself to others and it restricts my relationships with people. I really love how vulnerable she was willing to get with this. Honestly I feel like I understand her so much better! And I’m taking this as a sign to start working through this block within myself too. ❤
“It is not the outside world's job to compensate for the part of you that feels insufficient. “This made me think of Einstein's quote: You cannot solve your problems from the same thinking that got you there. To seek validation from a place of insufficiency only leads to the same. Embodiment of being enough is the answer.
At age 42, i flipped my world upside down from the perfectionism & social judgment By allowing dreadlocks to form in my hair & on my head. This action was to play the perception of beauty & social acceptance. It worked beautifully & I gained a huge amount of confidence. Freedom followed. I wore dreadlocks for nearly 20 years. I embraced love towards all people
Thank you, Vylana, for sharing your vulnerability - you are so beautiful inside and out. Thank you, Aubrey, for your warm heart and for having the wonderful Peter Crone on - always so wonderful to see him work his pure magic - this was so profound & beautiful!
Sending such a deep heartfelt thank you to you all, and especially Vylana for being willing to show this tender part of herself, to open up this pain that torments SO MANY of us women. WOW. I have so much respect for her for doing this. Sending so much love, this was so healing to witness❤️Thank You
Thank you Vylana! I so appreciate your courage; it helped me see even more of my injured little girl; we are all emerging into the beautiful women we are.....thank you!
What a great conversation. As a 64 year old wiser woman reflecting back….I spent the best part of 45 years thinking that my external image defined who I was. It’s self empowering and liberating, freedom, when you see it for what it really is, a childhood lack of self love. It seems to be a coping mechanism that is so obvious in ages 20, 30, 40. Now I’ve finally grown up!
Thank you Vylana - so many of us woman can relate to you and your story. Aubrey omg,, you are such a beautiful supportive husband - held a loving space. Peter forever amazing, such a gift to the world.
This is SO good and healing and i'm only 37 mins in. I love Vylana! She is doing women proud by shining a light on this murky ancient shadow of hers and OURS. I can relate a lot. I too have a Mother who is very beautiful and put together. It's more recently that I appreciate her amazing character and energy more than anything else though. My hope for all women is they realise that they are loveable and enough in every moment and form they show up in! This podcast is doing such important work. Bravo! ♡
This was so incredibly healing and potent to watch. Vylana's experience of being a woman is so common to many of us. By sharing her story and going through this process, she is helping to free the minds of many others. Thankyou. So much gratitude for this!!
This was life changing! Thank you so much to everyone involved, I cried tears from deep down there. Always struggled with the beauty thing, never good enough and recently hiding away in isolation so no one can even see me. After I cried I closed my eyes and saw green and my heart feels so much lighter and more open. Thank you so much for that.
Vylana, how courageous you are! You really represent what many women struggle with. You are not alone! Yet, I need to admit that my approach towards my body and beauty overall changed a lot after I had my baby. I swear to you that stretch marks are no longer ugly, I see them as a sign that my baby lived and grew here. I really give my new body lots of love, it grew life, it’s been fully feeding my daughter😮 It is a miraculous being in itself. I started honouring it much much more as a mom. Also as a mom I love my baby unconditionally (also her little body), and that gave me perspective how unloving I was towards myself. Motherhood is the greatest lesson of all 😊
So raw and vulnerable. Thank you Vylana for your courage & bravery. You bring permission to the rest of us women, to love ourselves for all the dark and light within.
OmG I can’t believe Vylana could feel like that in front of a mirror. She is so beautiful gorgeous and incredible talented. You are love and light sweetheart. Please next time in front of a mirror admire yourself and see the beauty God created in you ❤💜💕🥰🌹🙏You are a blessing to many 🎉
The ripple effect of this guidance to loving the perfectly designed human part of me/us that seeks validation through compulsively measuring beauty is ENORMOUS. This has stymied me for years. And Vylana processing this as an extraordinarily beautiful woman in a high vibrational marriage with an extraordinarily beautiful man, makes the energetic nature of this human dynamic so very clear. Sweet Lord, I’m in awe of the melting of the motive to hyper focus on my looks as a means to feel lovable, worthy and secure in the state of being in love. The Feminine loves without conditions, nurtures, encourages and knows the inherent worth of all. This is the power of compassionate awakening. I am deeply grateful to the three of you and everyone involved in this transmission and all Aubrey’s plus sharings. Wow…
Vylana shines. So much of who we think we are is learned as a child. Winning sometimes does not mean that much until we lose for whatever reason It is a deep hurt and a deep fear that could be ingrained in the rest of our lives. Until we break that cycle you can become whole again and you can be the real you again. You can become the real you.Forget and forgive and never give a fuck what other people think of you. That’s there problem you don’t care. Once you naturally love yourself you think more about giving,caring and loving others. It is who you are in your heart and soul. God helps big time! lol❤😊
I am absolutely grateful and chocked by this podcast today. It was a mirror in so many ways! I feel that Vylana was talking about me all the way! As soon as I read the title of the video, I just knew that it was for me. And it was, the core of so much pain. I’ve been digesting this whole thing all day long, and it hited me that this is what I want to work on myself right now. Thank you!
I love his camo pants/scooby shirt/cardigan combo its so authentic and "idgaf". I know he mustve either grabbed them because he doesnt care about trivial fashion OR he picked each individual piece for the joy they bring AND doesnt care if theyre "fashionable " together
Vylana, the less “put together” you show up, the more you give a permission for other women to do the same, and set a new standard, as someone who’s so influential, for new kind of beauty and femininity, where we truly SEE deeply into each other and admire the uniqueness in each and one of us. I’ve probably seen most of your podcasts and this is the first time where I see this much of YOU and where I can sit back and truly relate. Thank you for your vulnerability and the courage to show us a little bit more of yourself.
Many people who travel to Cambodia, and witness little kids smiling and laughing while picking their lunch out of a rubbish tip each day, often return from the trip with gratitude. Perspective is everything.
The first time I heard this podcast I cried for so long. I felt that something had unlock within myself through the guidance of Peter Crone and the openness and vulnerability of Vylana. You have change my view of myself and my life with this episode. You made me understood the space of freedom and endless love that I’m and the blessing of my humanity just as it is. I’ve been hearing all Peter Crone podcasts after this and he has continue to make me go deep within the truth of the divinity and wonderful humaneness we are. When I’m feeling sort of sluggish, which is perfectly or humanly normal, I come back to this episode and it keeps uplifting my soul and discharging me from all expectations and boundaries of what I think I should be. It keeps making me remember who I am, who we are together. Thank you. Thank you for the light you are and the light you made me realize I am. ❤ I love you all.
Dear sweet Vylana - thank you for sharing in the way that you did, beautiful soul. I'm (here we go!) nowhere near as beautiful as you are, but not too bad all things considered. About a month ago, a guy I'm FB friends with commented on one of my posts with "I truly love your brain..." His words hit me in so many good and rare ways. I hadn't ever felt , heard, or known that a man loves my brain before. What stood out to me in this interview was your courage and tender, radiant, loving heart. Love to you.
Thanks for this! My perfection was in religion but its response is no different! This video made this 52 year old break down multiple times! I love you all!!!
She is darling! I’ve been there dear and I have tears for you. The way we look makes no difference. I finally figured that out. The only thing it’s good for is to teach us things about ourselves and others and to grow. Everybody on earth is you in a different life. Now try to find the same joy in your perfection…. You can’t because the truth is that all that’s real is love. You’re gorgeous girl!!!!! And so is your soul💖
direct hit! I made lots of notes on this, went through journey with Vy, and lead by Peter! Amazing, opening my eyes to parts of me that I decided to not accept and to transform by cosmetics, and other masks. THANK YOU
That statement at 36:06 is it. “I don’t need to DO anything to be good enough.” From my own experience, That’s it. That is what it is to truly be in your feminine power. The ability to BE and not DO. Pure potential, and nothing at all. The dark, the womb, space, emptiness, the unknown, mystery, rest, Sabbath. What I have heard over and over in this interview is about all the service and doing all the things and that’s not bad, but it has to be tempered/balanced with rest. From my own experience, I do my best when I serve from a place of rest. I still struggle, but it is something I keep coming back to. I think this is where humanity is heading. May you find Shalom, beautiful Vylana. You are enough without all the doing. You are so very loved.
"You're so beautiful when you aren't so conscious of yourself "❤ Incredible that is the absolute perfect thing she needed to hear, and he knew that so much that he was brave enough to say it. This guy is a master of psychology, it is mesmerising
Thank you for being so courageous and allowing your vulnerability to be viewed by us all. It was raw and beautiful. It is in your strength the rest of us find the courage to allow our messy beautiful selves to be free. Big big hug. Thank you
Reminds me of my own talk therapy years ago. Therapist: "You can plainly see that your shame is not accurate and is not serving you." Me: "Yes, I can see that." Therapist: "OK, so don't think or feel shame anymore. My work is done here."
Thank you for all of this. Another nudge from spirit through you showing me and reminding me that all of me is perfectly imperfect and LOVE. Accept and be.
My god I cried my heart ❤️ out with Vylana I live this everyday and to add to it if may express myself, I am a transgendered women ,, so having the perfectness of féminity at its maximum can be overwhelming and exhausting most of the time, so listening to this podcast will help me acquire better understanding and loving myself for whom I really am . Thank you Peter ❤ Thank You Aubrey for this podcast ,and thank you 🙏 Vylana for sharing xxx
Thank you Vylana for your authenticity and your boldness to live this transformation live so we can also heal with you. Deep gratitude for that and the making of this video
Beautiful conversation, a big thank you to Vylana for sharing her vulnerability and the stories so many of use women get told and keep telling ourselves throughout our lives
Thank all 3 of you for this deep invitation for integrating and creating a new opportunity and space. 🙏 Thank you Vylana for allowing us to see this vulnerability...for the courage shared
Aubrey and Vylana, thank you from the bottom of my heart for sharing your vulnerability. I can relate to a lot of things Vylana said. Peter Crone rocks!
WOW. That was so enlightening. Thank you Vylana for the bravery to sit in your vulnerability for this ! I learned alot as I have found I always do in the presence of Peter Crone's guidance and his way of simplifying our blocks. I attended Peter's first Master Mind last year and am part of his community. It is one of the most powerful experiences (and you just keep learning). I am so Jazzed that Aubrey connected with Peter to bring both your brilliance in conversation to the world. Aho to the essence of you all and the downloads, vibrations and beauty you each bring.
Vylana Thank you so much for your raw vulnerability to stand on the ledge of your former known self and go beyond🔥I can't express in words how touching this sharing is for A LOT of women/humans❤️🔥 Your beauty within is haunting!
I relate to Vy. No matter what is going on outside of me or how beautiful life is outside of me, I am never at ease..... And if someone so stunning and who actively lives in the self development/spiritual/conscious lifestyle is struggling, there is zero hop for me lol
I love this episode! So real and raw - its inspiring the way Peter knows the right questions to ask to get vylana to draw her truth out of herself. I identify with a lot of what she said in terms of being a perfectionist since a very young age - ive found that in recent years ive been able to let much of that go, and just let myself and the things i do be "good enough" but i still struggle with not feeling good enough - its definitely an ongoing process and journey ❤
Peter Crone at it again:) I love this conversation 🤍 at almost 49 I have the “voices” of ‘you’re not pretty any more, your body is not good and thin anymore, it’s harder to attract a man at this age’ and I agree, it’s exhausting. Hearing, loving and making space for that critic is such a powerful shift. Being in love with what is at every age is the work and the payoff:) Thank you Vy, Aubrey and Peter for having this conversation and helping shift consciousness around this topic 🤍
Thank you Vy. This is the path through the woods.. I have been a mess because I was looking for acceptance from my family. I have always felt unloved in this group. But I see now... freedom..
I love Aubrey. Bought his book for my oldest son a few years back w/o realizing exactly who he was (it was a recommendation from a mentor I deeply respect). 2 years later, after diving into some of Aubrey's videos, I realized what I had done! So thankful for my guides. Aubrey is solid! Vylana I have always sensed as less grounded and more unsure of herself. I even had a dream with her and Aubrey in it, in which I experienced much of the same. Her insecurity was intense in the dream. I've been noticing her growth since then. There's still some of that need for validation and approval is still there for her, but she's moved significantly away from it. This is just what I sense. A beautiful couple! I wish the best for them both.
Love his perspective of looking at the entire arch of humanity. That’s my baseline perspective and it helps put a lot into context. Excellent episode! Now I have to go listen the others with this guy.
I have never resonated with another woman's story more than Vylana's. The confirmation that I have not been alone with these unattainable standards of perfection is overwhelming and soul healing. Mirrors are just glass, and we are so much more than that. I used to think that I was given a pretty face to mask the pain that I have endured in my 24 years of life so far... This was a paradigm shift for me now understanding that I need to stop narrating that toxic storyline. I feel liberated knowing that was a lie I was telling myself and others, so I didn't have to love my own darkness. The most thoughtful compliment for a woman is that her beauty shines from within. "If the whole world was blind, who would you impress?" I can't thank all of you enough for being exactly who you are, so that we can too.
Vylana - thank you for your openness here! Beautiful! An offering if it feels aligned: what would it feel like NOT to get ready when you go out? Not to put on the makeup and to fix the hair and to use the products and all the other things? What does the thought of that evoke? And perhaps give it a try if you feel so inclined. While perhaps very challenging at first, eventually, it'll be no trouble at all to waltz out into the world with a naked face and messy hair and absolutely BEAM with the radiance and true beauty that already lies within you.
I feel like I’ve just had my life opened up and have the doors to my shadows and inner programming blown open. I am currently in a deeply broken part of my life and have been clawing to find healing to move into my better and higher self. Thank you for this. I will be rewatching.
It's amazing Aubrey has moments he wants to reach out and be there but he chooses to allow her to have break through a instead of feeding his need to "protect" in that moment. Beautiful ❤️
The fact that you see this is beautiful in itself ✨☺️
@@thegreatordermusicagreed man, it’s wonderful, eye opening and inspiring. These videos have literally changed who I am and my conversations I have with friends coworkers etc
Aubrey, you showed me what holding space, loving presence, and deep listening looks like. Thank you so much. I didn't know, and it's been so hard to be truly loving with these missing pieces. ❤ 🙏
Agree 😊
He looks totally powerless. He can't even look at her when she speaks. I don't know if that's holding space. He looks defeated.
I feel her pain..always wanting to be the best..Aging has been a struggle . But its such a wonderful life when you let it go..I was always scared no one would love me inless I stayed beautiful and in some ways the universe verified it just to make me look inside to love myself. What a gift to love your self. Still working on it ..
Amen!
This ❤
"Being the gamet of al of that we are". Accepting our own unperfect perfect humanity."❤
The absence of the "We are something" allows us to embrace the whole of us just the way we are.
Such a hard thing to get through my head. Growing up I was the sporty pretty girl. As an adult I became more interested in fashion and beauty becoming a stylist and becoming whatever I wanted. I always thought I had confidence. But I became sick and gained weight and ended up having to cut my long hair. Learning what overweight women go through was such an eye opening experience. I was never a mean girl but never understood why people weren’t just happy with what they had. Now I am almost back to my normal self I don’t take a second of my health for granted. I don’t worry about weight or what I look like. I made a pack to not look in mirrors but once a day and I try to complement others everyday day. I have tried to not worry about wrinkles but I hate as a human it is impossible. I hope this will definitely help me out of this next step. It is like my prayers have been answered as always. ❤ we all are beautiful in our own ways and I hope that we all can find that in ourselves ❤❤❤
I look back on photos of when I was in my 20's, 30's, 40's and I just don't understand why I wasted so much energy, had so much angst, over what most definitely were my most foxy days ever! Spend less time in front of the mirror, tell yourself the exact opposite of whatever negative BS comes up and then just smile, because you are stunning. From my Louise Hay Wisdom Cards: "Life is very simple. I create my experiences BY MY THINKING and FEELING patterns. What I believe about myself and about life becomes true for me." RIP Louise Hay. Smile sister, life is good.
Well said 🙏🏻💛
Aho to all of that! ❤
Aubreys capacity to let her feel and move through it is inspiring! So much respect for you Vy for putting this publically!
Vylana, children are heart chakra openers. You will experience life in a new way. I am excited for you. Thank you for sharing you inner world with all of us. Please do more videos like this with Peter.
Listend to this again. So powerful..Im a 47 year old woman. I learned to love my self just 3 to 4 years ago. I try to do what this man just did for her. He did it with such grace and compassion..so beautiful..what a gift this man is to humanity .
The beauty myth is women's most powerful prison on this earth. There is no society or culture that doesn't hold beauty as a restrictive standard for women to constantly compare ourselves with. And more women need to stand up and say not only am I a valid and acceptable human being, but also, all other women are valid and acceptable and stop using beauty or youth as criteria for how "good" someone is. I have to cringe just a little that it has to be a man that guides Vylana through this process. My hope would be that she takes what she has learned and role models it for other women.
Years ago, I read a story about a spontaneous remission of a breast cancer patient. A patient who refused treatments and decided she'd rather live out her final days in gratitude and not sick from chemo. She officially gave up "the fight" and decided to live in surrender and acceptance. She travelled and lived her life. Realizing after a while, she wasn't feeling sick or weak, like what is expected with the progression of cancer. She went in for more testing and they found her cancer was disappearing. She kept doing what she was doing until eventually, they couldn't detect cancer in her. I wish I printed out that story and the images when I read it since I now understand more about what might have come into play. To fight is our instinct but it's not the right approach for everyone. I believe she listened to what a higher power told her and it told her to surrender. She could have died and she made it clear that she was OK with that. The ultimate result isn't up to us. Everyone around her was telling her to take the treatment and making her decision seem terrible. Of course she could have given in to how friends, family and doctors were telling her she was supposed to feel but she chose not to.
If you haven't checked out the testimonials on UA-cam of Joe Dispenza meditations, I highly recommend doing so.
I have heard stories like that in the testimonials.
@@nopillpill thanks, I've heard of him but looking into his content has been on the backburner in my mind. I think I needed the reminder.
Yesterday I heard about a women who didn't want the treatment too and the doctors said it was terminal and she would die in 6 months and it did end up happening. She didn't take the treatment and die.
I wonder what the difference is....
Brilliant. Powerful. Fun.
@@millybuskila4508 might just be down to everyone having different fates. Our lives aren't ours, no matter how hard we try to control it. It's like cases where a person gets shot and the bullet misses their heart by a millimeter or someone gets hit by a car but escapes with minor injuries. It's not their time to die but the horrible events they go through are meant to teach them something and they teach others through their experiences. It may serve as a reminder to all of us that none of us are ultimately in control of anything. Spontaneous remissions provide solid evidence that something else is at play since there are scientific tests and scans to back it up that these illnesses existed
At the end she tells Peter “Thank you so much, for everything that it took to be exactly who you are” 💖
Thank you so much, my story is/has changed because you allowed vulnerability.
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To hear a goddess like her admitting that she also coaches herself, admitting she also gets burned out, admitting she fealt in competition with women before.. she's so beautiful and strong and talented and to be honest this woman is intimidating because she's so beautiful,full of life, vibrant and amazing to watch and to listen to and to look at, and she has the darkest most beautiful hair. So to hear her open up and be so vunerable that's powerful. That made me feel less alone.
Great conversation! Also to note that a woman's desire to look great and be chosen, is magnified with the fact that for many men, being with an externally "beautiful" woman is often part of THEIR obsession to be viewed as "successful". Then, many men when going through their own emotional crisis, will discard a women when she gets older in an attempt to feel "relevant". A women's obsession with their appearance can feel necessary based on the worlds view of it and the consequences of not being traditionally "beautiful". This issue requires a collective shift and podcasts like this can certainly shed much light on an antiquated view of what it means to be worthy of love and acceptance. @vylana, to me your vulnerability IS the embodiment of beauty- thank you :)
"Love is totally capable of making space for the part of you that feels it needs love because it's imperfect." So profound ❤
Thank you! Vylana was amazing! Peter Crone was so good at guiding Vylana to her truth. I’ve not experienced Peter Crone before. Aubrey, you put together another inspirational conversation. Again, thank you. BTW, I’m 76 years old and am “in love”. Life is marvelous. Love you and Vylana too.
As a man of 21 years I also learned a lot! Its truly amazing how Peter was able to pinpoint the issue in her own words 🤯 and also the level of vulnerability is inspiring to see ❤
How lucky we are to get this information at a young age.
Things he said here correlate to IFS work too. Bringing space to all the parts in ourselves.
Since discovering Sir Peter Crone when this first dropped, i've probably watched a dozen podcast appearances of his and now back for round 2. Discovering him is like finding hieroglyphics in a lost tomb. Absolutely timeless.
Thank you for your vulnerability, Vy, it felt like it was me speaking up there. You are so courageous and you are doing valuable work for the collective feminine 💜
I love how STILL Aubrey sits.
“Hey, thanks for looking good for me today!…You took a lot of time and I appreciate it.”😂 That was gold.
I can see how Aubrey loves her so deeply. Man I am so proud of you that someone can love that deeply
My skin has changed since my last pregnancy, but with that also is age. I had my last baby at 41... I've always accepted myself as I am. "Flaws" and all, but this time around the age/sun spots, hyper pigmentation here and there etc. Dry hair and so on.. I once took a Pic with my toddler baby girl and noticed all of it and said "ugh, I look so ugly now" out loud and my toddler said, " No Mommy, you are beautiful!"... and right then and there I came back to myself in the space where I've always accepted myself exactly how I am who I have been through all the cycles of my life. Currently embracing life, myself and my children. ❤❤ IN LOVE I must add.
Wow - I am so deeply thankful for you opening yourself up like this Vylana❤. To hear this from someone who appears to have the best and easiest life - so beautiful and “successful” really hits home that comparing our insides to other’s outsides is not only extremely harmful but also based in such inaccuracy.
I'm a male and this was a direct hit! I get it..... I'm trying to be "in love" without loving myself! Living in love as a "state of being". I need to love my inner critic! I've been trying to be loved and accepted while not loving and accepting myself! I will listen to this again!
Vy spent first half of the interview constantly fixing her hair, seeing her relax and become comfortable in her body was beautiful to see. This podcast was incredible, thank you Vy for your vulnerability, these lessons truly changed my life.
Oh how I wish I could have been exposed to this knowledge when I was young! I'm on the cusp of 60 and am excited to shared this with my daughters who are in their late 20's. Thank you Aubrey for the way you held space for Vy as she confronted her past and began the steps to transform and heal. Releasing the ties that unknowingly bound her and all women. So powerful! Infinite blessings to you all❤
When i was 21 my mom was suffering in similar cycle. Shes so stunning, beautiful. At the time I couldnt imagine WHO created this perception in her that she was beautiful or enough or valuable. I asked her WHO told her these things. It was her dad, my grandpa. I realized in that moment he was a liar. "Mom he was wrong" i asked her to look in the mirror into her eyes. She bawled for a bit. We both broke down. It was so profound. Its been a journey to see, feel, be that truth of who she, we, i really are/am. So fun. THANK YOU all for holding space for unconditional love.
Thanks for sharing, so important to recognise how this can manifest into one’s suffering from a father’s endearing comments or anyone’s comments for that matter. 🙏
This is one of the best interviews ever…I could see and feel myself in Vylana as she so vulnerable spoke and exposed the inner depths that go through what sounds like majority of women’s head and energy field. I’m so grateful for this and her being willing to go this deep. I can guarantee almost every human that’s doing the work is holding space for her and giving her so much love as they watch this. At least I am. Thank you thank you thank you for this healing and awareness that is happening for me and being able to share this with others 🙏🏼💕
I can’t thank you enough Vylana Aubrey and Peter for this wonderful and healing conversation. We need that ❤
I actually really relate to Vylana on this. Less about wanting to be the best but always comparing myself to others and it restricts my relationships with people. I really love how vulnerable she was willing to get with this. Honestly I feel like I understand her so much better! And I’m taking this as a sign to start working through this block within myself too. ❤
“It is not the outside world's job to compensate for the part of you that feels insufficient. “This made me think of Einstein's quote: You cannot solve your problems from the same thinking that got you there. To seek validation from a place of insufficiency only leads to the same. Embodiment of being enough is the answer.
It’s interesting that a woman, who is as beautiful as she is. Still has all those feelings of insecurity. This was so powerful. Thank you.
At age 42,
i flipped my world upside down from the perfectionism & social judgment
By allowing dreadlocks to form in my hair & on my head.
This action was to play the perception of beauty & social acceptance.
It worked beautifully &
I gained a huge amount of confidence.
Freedom followed.
I wore dreadlocks for nearly 20 years.
I embraced love towards all people
Thank you, Vylana, for sharing your vulnerability - you are so beautiful inside and out. Thank you, Aubrey, for your warm heart and for having the wonderful Peter Crone on - always so wonderful to see him work his pure magic - this was so profound & beautiful!
Sending such a deep heartfelt thank you to you all, and especially Vylana for being willing to show this tender part of herself, to open up this pain that torments SO MANY of us women. WOW. I have so
much respect for her for doing this. Sending so much love, this was so healing to witness❤️Thank You
i have no words other than this is astounding
Thank you Vylana! I so appreciate your courage; it helped me see even more of my injured little girl; we are all emerging into the beautiful women we are.....thank you!
What a great conversation.
As a 64 year old wiser woman reflecting back….I spent the best part of 45 years thinking that my external image defined who I was. It’s self empowering and liberating, freedom, when you see it for what it really is, a childhood lack of self love. It seems to be a coping mechanism that is so obvious in ages 20, 30, 40. Now I’ve finally grown up!
Thank you Vylana - so many of us woman can relate to you and your story. Aubrey omg,, you are such a beautiful supportive husband - held a loving space. Peter forever amazing, such a gift to the world.
This is SO good and healing and i'm only 37 mins in. I love Vylana! She is doing women proud by shining a light on this murky ancient shadow of hers and OURS. I can relate a lot. I too have a Mother who is very beautiful and put together. It's more recently that I appreciate her amazing character and energy more than anything else though. My hope for all women is they realise that they are loveable and enough in every moment and form they show up in! This podcast is doing such important work. Bravo! ♡
This was so incredibly healing and potent to watch. Vylana's experience of being a woman is so common to many of us. By sharing her story and going through this process, she is helping to free the minds of many others. Thankyou. So much gratitude for this!!
This was life changing! Thank you so much to everyone involved, I cried tears from deep down there. Always struggled with the beauty thing, never good enough and recently hiding away in isolation so no one can even see me. After I cried I closed my eyes and saw green and my heart feels so much lighter and more open. Thank you so much for that.
Vylana, how courageous you are! You really represent what many women struggle with. You are not alone! Yet, I need to admit that my approach towards my body and beauty overall changed a lot after I had my baby. I swear to you that stretch marks are no longer ugly, I see them as a sign that my baby lived and grew here. I really give my new body lots of love, it grew life, it’s been fully feeding my daughter😮 It is a miraculous being in itself. I started honouring it much much more as a mom. Also as a mom I love my baby unconditionally (also her little body), and that gave me perspective how unloving I was towards myself. Motherhood is the greatest lesson of all 😊
So raw and vulnerable. Thank you Vylana for your courage & bravery. You bring permission to the rest of us women, to love ourselves for all the dark and light within.
Thank you for this. It finally brought home the fact that addictions are based on a lack of self love.
OmG I can’t believe Vylana could feel like that in front of a mirror. She is so beautiful gorgeous and incredible talented. You are love and light sweetheart. Please next time in front of a mirror admire yourself and see the beauty God created in you ❤💜💕🥰🌹🙏You are a blessing to many 🎉
The ripple effect of this guidance to loving the perfectly designed human part of me/us that seeks validation through compulsively measuring beauty is ENORMOUS. This has stymied me for years. And Vylana processing this as an extraordinarily beautiful woman in a high vibrational marriage with an extraordinarily beautiful man, makes the energetic nature of this human dynamic so very clear.
Sweet Lord, I’m in awe of the melting of the motive to hyper focus on my looks as a means to feel lovable, worthy and secure in the state of being in love. The Feminine loves without conditions, nurtures, encourages and knows the inherent worth of all.
This is the power of compassionate awakening. I am deeply grateful to the three of you and everyone involved in this transmission and all Aubrey’s plus sharings. Wow…
Vylana shines. So much of who we think we are is learned as a child. Winning sometimes does not mean that much until we lose for whatever reason It is a deep hurt and a deep fear that could be ingrained in the rest of our lives. Until we break that cycle you can become whole again and you can be the real you again. You can become the real you.Forget and forgive and never give a fuck what other people think of you. That’s there problem you don’t care. Once you naturally love yourself you think more about giving,caring and loving others. It is who you are in your heart and soul. God helps big time! lol❤😊
I am absolutely grateful and chocked by this podcast today. It was a mirror in so many ways! I feel that Vylana was talking about me all the way! As soon as I read the title of the video, I just knew that it was for me. And it was, the core of so much pain. I’ve been digesting this whole thing all day long, and it hited me that this is what I want to work on myself right now. Thank you!
I love his camo pants/scooby shirt/cardigan combo its so authentic and "idgaf". I know he mustve either grabbed them because he doesnt care about trivial fashion OR he picked each individual piece for the joy they bring AND doesnt care if theyre "fashionable " together
Vylana, the less “put together” you show up, the more you give a permission for other women to do the same, and set a new standard, as someone who’s so influential, for new kind of beauty and femininity, where we truly SEE deeply into each other and admire the uniqueness in each and one of us. I’ve probably seen most of your podcasts and this is the first time where I see this much of YOU and where I can sit back and truly relate. Thank you for your vulnerability and the courage to show us a little bit more of yourself.
That was so profound and really hit home big time! Thank you all who participated!! 💗💗💗
this is so powerful. i cant believe this is two hours, the time just flew by for me. thankyou Vylana for being so vulnerable, you helped me alot.
I love watching Peter Crone and his mastery in holding space with strength, kindness, humor and such presence/awareness.
You guys are so radically wonderful! A healing force, cutting away the untrue! ❤
Many people who travel to Cambodia, and witness little kids smiling and laughing while picking their lunch out of a rubbish tip each day, often return from the trip with gratitude.
Perspective is everything.
Beautiful, thnx for sharing
The first time I heard this podcast I cried for so long. I felt that something had unlock within myself through the guidance of Peter Crone and the openness and vulnerability of Vylana. You have change my view of myself and my life with this episode. You made me understood the space of freedom and endless love that I’m and the blessing of my humanity just as it is. I’ve been hearing all Peter Crone podcasts after this and he has continue to make me go deep within the truth of the divinity and wonderful humaneness we are. When I’m feeling sort of sluggish, which is perfectly or humanly normal, I come back to this episode and it keeps uplifting my soul and discharging me from all expectations and boundaries of what I think I should be. It keeps making me remember who I am, who we are together. Thank you. Thank you for the light you are and the light you made me realize I am. ❤ I love you all.
Damn! That's powerful!!!!
I always find what I need to hear in your podcasts. I have discovered so many great teachers and books through you. Thank you all so much.
This was something else. I watched every single second with full focus and interest. So pure no bs.
Thank you for giving this, I received it deeply.
Dear sweet Vylana - thank you for sharing in the way that you did, beautiful soul. I'm (here we go!) nowhere near as beautiful as you are, but not too bad all things considered. About a month ago, a guy I'm FB friends with commented on one of my posts with "I truly love your brain..." His words hit me in so many good and rare ways. I hadn't ever felt , heard, or known that a man loves my brain before.
What stood out to me in this interview was your courage and tender, radiant, loving heart. Love to you.
Loved the process! Children are the perfect medicine for perfectionism. 😊
Wow! I love how raw and honest she was during this video. There’s nothing more beautiful than a human who is 100 % authentic.
Thanks for this! My perfection was in religion but its response is no different! This video made this 52 year old break down multiple times! I love you all!!!
She is darling! I’ve been there dear and I have tears for you. The way we look makes no difference. I finally figured that out. The only thing it’s good for is to teach us things about ourselves and others and to grow. Everybody on earth is you in a different life. Now try to find the same joy in your perfection…. You can’t because the truth is that all that’s real is love. You’re gorgeous girl!!!!! And so is your soul💖
direct hit! I made lots of notes on this, went through journey with Vy, and lead by Peter! Amazing, opening my eyes to parts of me that I decided to not accept and to transform by cosmetics, and other masks. THANK YOU
That statement at 36:06 is it. “I don’t need to DO anything to be good enough.” From my own experience, That’s it. That is what it is to truly be in your feminine power. The ability to BE and not DO. Pure potential, and nothing at all. The dark, the womb, space, emptiness, the unknown, mystery, rest, Sabbath.
What I have heard over and over in this interview is about all the service and doing all the things and that’s not bad, but it has to be tempered/balanced with rest. From my own experience, I do my best when I serve from a place of rest. I still struggle, but it is something I keep coming back to. I think this is where humanity is heading. May you find Shalom, beautiful Vylana. You are enough without all the doing. You are so very loved.
"You're so beautiful when you aren't so conscious of yourself "❤ Incredible that is the absolute perfect thing she needed to hear, and he knew that so much that he was brave enough to say it. This guy is a master of psychology, it is mesmerising
Thank you Vylana for this Sacred Vulnerability. The world needs this right now.
Thank you for being so courageous and allowing your vulnerability to be viewed by us all. It was raw and beautiful. It is in your strength the rest of us find the courage to allow our messy beautiful selves to be free. Big big hug. Thank you
Reminds me of my own talk therapy years ago. Therapist: "You can plainly see that your shame is not accurate and is not serving you." Me: "Yes, I can see that." Therapist: "OK, so don't think or feel shame anymore. My work is done here."
Thank you for all of this. Another nudge from spirit through you showing me and reminding me that all of me is perfectly imperfect and LOVE. Accept and be.
Peter crone is the real deal. Thanks for having him on.
he is indeed
Aubrey, you hold space for her so artfully in the strong masculine container❤ Much love to you all
My god I cried my heart ❤️ out with Vylana I live this everyday and to add to it if may express myself, I am a transgendered women ,, so having the perfectness of féminity at its maximum can be overwhelming and exhausting most of the time, so listening to this podcast will help me acquire better understanding and loving myself for whom I really am .
Thank you Peter ❤
Thank You Aubrey for this podcast ,and thank you 🙏 Vylana for sharing xxx
Vylana i send so much compassion to you and all women, we are not defined by our looks. Thank you for sharing this session.
Thank you for being so vulnerable Vylana! Your love to the world is your vulnerability and it is a mirror for me! Thank you; I see myself in you ❤
Thank you, Vy. You're so dope. Love you all. ❤
Thank you Vylana for your authenticity and your boldness to live this transformation live so we can also heal with you. Deep gratitude for that and the making of this video
Beautiful conversation, a big thank you to Vylana for sharing her vulnerability and the stories so many of use women get told and keep telling ourselves throughout our lives
Wow. So enlightning. I truly wish I never forget what I learned here
Thank all 3 of you for this deep invitation for integrating and creating a new opportunity and space. 🙏 Thank you Vylana for allowing us to see this vulnerability...for the courage shared
Vylana, thank you for being. I cried with you and wish I could hug you. Your focus and vulnerability is going to help so many. 🙏💐🫶🏼💞
Aubrey and Vylana, thank you from the bottom of my heart for sharing your vulnerability. I can relate to a lot of things Vylana said. Peter Crone rocks!
“It’s the heart exploding that blows the mind” WOW!!!!!!!!!!!! Aubrey, you’ve helped me so much and continue to. Thank you.
WOW. That was so enlightening. Thank you Vylana for the bravery to sit in your vulnerability for this ! I learned alot as I have found I always do in the presence of Peter Crone's guidance and his way of simplifying our blocks. I attended Peter's first Master Mind last year and am part of his community. It is one of the most powerful experiences (and you just keep learning). I am so Jazzed that Aubrey connected with Peter to bring both your brilliance in conversation to the world. Aho to the essence of you all and the downloads, vibrations and beauty you each bring.
Vylana
Thank you so much for your raw vulnerability to stand on the ledge of your former known self and go beyond🔥I can't express in words how touching this sharing is for A LOT of women/humans❤️🔥
Your beauty within is haunting!
I exactly left the competition and learned to like me, love me, accept me as is💃🏼💕
He reminds me of Ricky Gervais. Tremendous sense of humor, almost wickedly but certainly lovingly delightful.
I relate to Vy. No matter what is going on outside of me or how beautiful life is outside of me, I am never at ease..... And if someone so stunning and who actively lives in the self development/spiritual/conscious lifestyle is struggling, there is zero hop for me lol
I love this episode! So real and raw - its inspiring the way Peter knows the right questions to ask to get vylana to draw her truth out of herself. I identify with a lot of what she said in terms of being a perfectionist since a very young age - ive found that in recent years ive been able to let much of that go, and just let myself and the things i do be "good enough" but i still struggle with not feeling good enough - its definitely an ongoing process and journey ❤
Vylana, Thank you for speaking it. I resonate with living with this pain. Your vulnerability created a path to freedom for others.
Peter Crone at it again:) I love this conversation 🤍 at almost 49 I have the “voices” of ‘you’re not pretty any more, your body is not good and thin anymore, it’s harder to attract a man at this age’ and I agree, it’s exhausting. Hearing, loving and making space for that critic is such a powerful shift. Being in love with what is at every age is the work and the payoff:) Thank you Vy, Aubrey and Peter for having this conversation and helping shift consciousness around this topic 🤍
What COURAGE. Love and respect to this couple. Amazing.
So much healing in myself witnessing So much of Vylanas journey. Thank you for sharing that with all of us and your vulnerability.
Thank you Vy. This is the path through the woods.. I have been a mess because I was looking for acceptance from my family. I have always felt unloved in this group. But I see now... freedom..
I love Aubrey. Bought his book for my oldest son a few years back w/o realizing exactly who he was (it was a recommendation from a mentor I deeply respect). 2 years later, after diving into some of Aubrey's videos, I realized what I had done! So thankful for my guides. Aubrey is solid! Vylana I have always sensed as less grounded and more unsure of herself. I even had a dream with her and Aubrey in it, in which I experienced much of the same. Her insecurity was intense in the dream. I've been noticing her growth since then. There's still some of that need for validation and approval is still there for her, but she's moved significantly away from it. This is just what I sense. A beautiful couple! I wish the best for them both.
Gosh this resonates so much- thank you Vylana for sharing yourself so deeply. This really activated healing within me thank you 🥺❤️
Love his perspective of looking at the entire arch of humanity. That’s my baseline perspective and it helps put a lot into context. Excellent episode! Now I have to go listen the others with this guy.
I have never resonated with another woman's story more than Vylana's. The confirmation that I have not been alone with these unattainable standards of perfection is overwhelming and soul healing. Mirrors are just glass, and we are so much more than that. I used to think that I was given a pretty face to mask the pain that I have endured in my 24 years of life so far... This was a paradigm shift for me now understanding that I need to stop narrating that toxic storyline. I feel liberated knowing that was a lie I was telling myself and others, so I didn't have to love my own darkness. The most thoughtful compliment for a woman is that her beauty shines from within. "If the whole world was blind, who would you impress?" I can't thank all of you enough for being exactly who you are, so that we can too.
Vylana - thank you for your openness here! Beautiful! An offering if it feels aligned: what would it feel like NOT to get ready when you go out? Not to put on the makeup and to fix the hair and to use the products and all the other things? What does the thought of that evoke? And perhaps give it a try if you feel so inclined. While perhaps very challenging at first, eventually, it'll be no trouble at all to waltz out into the world with a naked face and messy hair and absolutely BEAM with the radiance and true beauty that already lies within you.
I feel like I’ve just had my life opened up and have the doors to my shadows and inner programming blown open. I am currently in a deeply broken part of my life and have been clawing to find healing to move into my better and higher self. Thank you for this. I will be rewatching.