What Do I Do When My Partner Isn't Awake Spiritually?
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- Опубліковано 21 вер 2024
- Our ability to relate peacefully with an unconscious partner depends greatly on the level of their unconsciousness and how it manifests.
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The best you can do is be a calm, peaceful, compassionate role model and not let others negativity get to you. Dont stick around the bad vibes. Ascend!
It didn't work for me, I wanted it to work for so long. I found we were having less and less in common. I felt I wasn't far enough ahead on my spiritual journey at the time of finalising the relationship to not get pulled back into his negativity. I am now further ahead, and being free from him and his family energy. I was able to forgive him and them, and now love him , but not as a partner!. And forward teachings that think might just influence. He could not handle the change in me, he could not see it was for the better. I had to free myself from the fear of going it alone after 15 years, it was easier than you would have thought it would be , Stop the thinking and live in the now 💜🙏💜
Earth's Yoda: cute, enlightened, mischievous, and funny.
LOL
He is like yoda 😆
I’ve seen this scenario play out so many times. If one person starts to come into their independence, it usually ends
The journey to enlightenment takes many lifetimes .If we are still hurting others with our words and/or actions we are not enlightened, if we are holding on to anger and resentment towards others who have hurt us in our lives we are not enlightenment, while we feel the meed to control others and/or situations to make us feel a false sense of safety we are not enlightened. So if anyone who's ego believes they've reached enlightenment I tell you this, the soul knows better ♡☺
Eckhart loves his vests
I love this most wise and unassuming humble man. Some spiritual teachers don themselves in robes etc etc. To me Eckhart is the ultimate real deal. He makes you feel equal to him which of course we are but what a great man xx
i made a pact with my partner. i said i will pray with you if you meditate with me 😊
What's the difference?
Surrender. There’s peace In surrender. Great take away.
0:40 Hello ! From somewhere and somewhen else on the planet ! 🤣👋🏾
My girlfriend doesn’t mind my own spiritual practice but she thinks when I’m being quiet that there’s a problem... I am going to keep working at our relationship and being optimistic though. I think her pain body seeks a reaction from me and doesn’t like when I don’t react. I need to find a better way of relating to her in the way she needs to feel better.
I woke up a decade ago. But like you said, we can fall asleep again. We get bumped around. We are taken to the highest of highs and the lowest of lows. It’s up to us to become conscious again.
I met someone a year and a half ago and I know I was vibrating into a new awakening. He is ascending in a beautiful way. But I have fallen quite a bit. Our bodies have so much to do with this. Deep tissue cleansing is a must. I’m just beginning to feel peaceful inside my heart again. I crave and miss the lightness in my body. I am in full awareness on how to get this back But I lack patience. Patience is one of my lessons. I’ve learned it well.
A month and a half ago my sweet loving mom was diagnosed with heart disease. They wouldn’t allow her to leave the hospital without a life vest. She is still wearing it today. I see her light so clearly. We share the most wonderful FaceTime every morning. I think this is pushing me into another rebirth. It’s difficult to not see your shadow and ego when we are in fear of loosing our most beloved person in this lifetime. I love her so much💗
How do we keep someone who isn’t walking within their soul to not poke us each time we are walking up the hill to enlightenments door? I’ve tried golden light, imagining the mirrors and even rainbows creating s happier barrier
Lately I’ve been purging my home again. I’m about to embark on one of the deepest energetic body mind detox’s of my life. I feel such a need to get rid of everything. I want to help more people and animals in a direct one on one way but more quietly. What I fear is the shock of the pain when I meet these people and especially see animals in suffering.
Thank you so much
I live in a marriage with an emotionally abusive man. He controls me. This gives me hope. Thank you!
What a fun and kind man Eckhart Tolle is. But no fool at all. One of the wise men of our time. Miracles can happen, I think he's a living example of that and I'm an incurable optimist.
He's hit the nail on the head. Breaking up with my ex back in February was the only way for me continue with my journey. I didn't realise it at the time but it makes so much sense now.
Before watching: my answer is to love them. Love and laughter.
Today I see and acknowledge that I have gone beyond the exceptions of someone whom I Adoree. Waiting patiently on the "sidelines" for that moment... Yet nothing.
I Decided this as far as I can go..
And here I receive this video.
I am Hurt, but wiser.
If it’s a problem for you, then ur not conscious either. A conscious person either embraces a thing, or changes it, but from a conscious place, you would have no reason to simply tolerate something that is not a good fit for you.
His voice is so soothing......😌
Adorable as ever .. The light of your presences reach us across distances 😍💕
Im so thankfull for Eckharts Teachings, I dont "Think" anybody else could have "reached" me in the degree Eckhart has,.... and completly changed "me" ...
pommesfrittes
Me.too
Holly Cline 🙏
I definitely agree
Same so grateful
And me I love him
When I am tuned in to the present, to awareness, it feels like warm sweet honey spreading trough my being, trough others, to life itself. I don't know how else to describe it. The pure pleasure of it puts a smile on my face.
A higher state of consciousness. May the world as a whole rise up to a neo state of enlightenment. The beauty of such an existence. The new earth :)
I have this going on. I've been awake three years now my girlfriend is getting annoyed by my spiritual and "conspiracy videos" playing all the time. I try to get her to listen or read Dolores cannons book or try meditating or anything. . She physically won't sit down to listen or it doesn't register to her head.. I've tried showing her the way but it's in her own time. It's hard. We have three kids and one on the way. We have a baby who I will raise her with knowledge but out other two are sleeping teenagers. Which is a shame. I'd like to waken them up tough soon. They think my videos are full of crazy people. 🤦🏽♂️
The last topic describes my relationship with an egoic partner. I need to break free for my journey to flourish but the fear of the unknown/insecurity scares me.
Ellycat you got this hun, you are not responsible for other people. Do what’s best for you.
Mellow Mish Thank you, me dear. Two months can be a long time in our growth :) Have a wonderful day ❤️😊👁️🙏
Ekhart I love your sense of humour. Such a beautiful soul 🧡
Ekchart it's the first time I'm listening to you. You have such a calming voice just love the way you set the words in sentences
❤❤❤
So true I had my first spiritual awakening 6 years ago and it was due to bad circumstances
Mark Stephen Pooler How many have you had? I had an amazing spiritual awakening last year where I experienced ego death for several days. I would love for it to happen again but I wasn’t sure if it was possible.
Gosh he's so adorable!!
Absolutely brilliant!. Gave me the kick...into a new paradigm of reality. Thank you dear Eckhart
The blow part hit me hard - didnt expect that from him 😇☺️🖤
3:11 Being an example works the best. Miracles do happen sometimes through some blow. 4:40 there are other portals to ego lessening, like illness or a big loss.
I dont know why that hello at 0:48 make me laugh and feel so good inside.😂
Thank you Eckhart for this wonderful video, much appreciated. I appreciate your work very much, you are a tremendous positive influence in my life. Have a nice a peaceful day : )
Honestmicky 🕉
Thank you for your personal continual insight, inspiration including guidance to hold up my exploration to becoming ever more consciously aware of the fact and also spiritually connected.
That fresh haircut tho! Eckharts videos are a form of meditation for me, love them!
I keep thinking that awareness and alertness happens when i try to do something, like try to make sure i am driving accurately, try to listen to the ambiance, try to look at the birds fly around, try to learn a new skill, try to breathe in deep, try to just be, try to do the task at hand correctly and not complain because that has nothing to do with trying, being alert.
What do I do when my partners "conscious?"
Awaken
What do I do when my partners not "conscious?"
Awaken
You cannot awaken an uncoscious person. They must awaken themselves. Life will help them.
Thank you for your humor and your Insight.
Hello Eckhart, waving back from Malta (Gozo) love your talks. Thank you so much for your teaching.
Thank you for your kindness Eckhart.
My answer to this question is: 'get down off your high horse, because you're meant to not have an ego'
Wow what synchronity this video came in
I feel so lucky that this is my last life. I am confirmed I know this will be my last life in samsara. But why me, how can I be this lucky? Others seem to be happy to be reborn again and again with identification with the world - unconscious that it’s all shifting sands. It’s ok, they are my friends and family. But maybe they don’t understand why I’m ready and happy to go home. I try to share why I’m happy to go home but I think they don’t quite get it just yet.
Love Eckhart
"OMG you're back again! You were so nice when you were ill" XD
Mirco Magrini 😂😂😂😂
Hahahaha his energy is so great he appears to be super comedic
Been there, will not do it again.... thank you Eckhart! Yes shift can happen, so not cut and dry, but my partner was egotistical and lead on to verbal abuse to me.... no thank you!
Same here Rebecca! Hope you are well now.
My mother became a lot nicer after she was diagnosed with sebere asthma. She has kived with asthma for 30 years,and shes a lot kinder now.
Thank You, Eckhart .
I came here for the answer I found it, clear and sound ❤️✨
Waving at you 2 years from the future. 😇
Thank you so much for sharing this amazing information with us for that we are immensely grateful.🙏💖💕🤗
It is a question derived from your addiction to desire of possessing he or her as your 'partner'
After my divorce, it was difficult and full of negativity that it gets to be addictive. Especially, when you are abandoned by family and friends in the process. Awakening to all those patterns, that were my make up as a child. To catch me now talking about my ex, what happened to me....all true, but now I feel it's time to move on from all the grief and pain. I don't want it to outlive it because it is just in the mind now. What I can focus on is what I'm trying to live like now, which is so very positive and that growth is good to share with others. I'm kicking the negativity, poor me oh my habit.
Great Eckhart!
Gabriel Intriago ✌️
Love the humour and wisdom.
I feel like you can feel like what it feels like when the ego gets cracked
Synchronicity on point 😊🙏❤️💞
Oh I love him.
Wednesday August 8th 2018, I’m present. Hey Eckhart. 💕😋
What about a person who isn't abusive but unconscious and can be negative? I have just broken up with my girlfriend and when she was present and we could connect there didn't seem to be a problem but those moments were rare and not that intense. I have realised the light I see her in, pretty much relies on my state of consciousness. I am seeking a stronger connection but fear I am chasing ego desires and needs which my heart longs for but going off what Eckhart says, it may just cause the void to be temporarily filled and then the pain resurface later. I tried to help her awaken or teach her the truth but as you know it must happen in their own time. A few days ago, after 6 years, I decided to call it a day as she wasn't maintaining a good vibe or being present and open with me. However, she was a beautiful person and never toxic and always loyal and kind. I am thinking do I leave her or give her a chance to awaken as she is showing signs and her behaviour is also teaching me how to love. It's very confusing but I believe the break-up had to happen for me to learn these things and hopefully to further the awakening process for her. What do you think?
It''s funny to see how observations spiritual in nature become ideas to enhance oneself
Hello Eckhart thank you.
I would say, "If you want help, you can do a search on x. Then, we can discuss afterwards."
HELLO! (waving back). ;)
watch eckhart vids on x1.25
You'll miss the stillness! x0.75 is better if you want to change the speed I think. :)
1.5x here
xD
Are you guys waiting for something? Because if you are waiting for something this is the wrong video.
His look in the beginning omg so hilarious
I'll remember this. Thanks!
If someone suffers from clinical depression and when not on medication is very negative and hositle - are they unconscious or medically unwell? Id like to ask Eckhart, but of course he is not going to answer here! has anyone heard him speak about this. In otherwords is untreated clinical depression just unconsciousness or something else, a medical complaint?
Eckhart finished by saying if you live with an unconscious person who’s abusive you will need to bbe present enough to know what the right answer is. What if they aren’t to the point of abusive though? What if they’re just ordinarily unconscious who doesn’t make you fulfilled?
I’m currently in the middle of a breakup and I’m trying to consider when would Eckhart Tolle want to breakup with someone? What’s his “needs”? Even being spiritual I wasn’t able to tell when to call it quits
Thank you so much.
I appreciate this 🙏
Can somebody assure me that we can really get rid of the suffering.. I am 20 days spiritually awakened
Iam raj wat
Yes, it is fully possible to live a life free from suffering. Step one is accepting the suffering you feel now, then becoming the observer of suffering rather than the one who "has" this suffering. After a lot of time practicing this, suffering stops coming around to play as it's game is to trick you into believing you are it.
lam raj,
I believe the turning point for me was development of a spiritual meditation practice. Daily diligent. Bromacheria.
Mr Tolle, can I ask, what is your 🌞 and 🌕 sign?.... Slightly curious!
Thank you.
Thank you Eckhart!
Thank you for your wisdom. XOXO ♥️
Miracles do happen - )
How can I be present and not enable my partners unconsciousness when they are reactive towards me? Is there an amount of time one can invest with being present until you realize the person you are with just may not change? I have not talked with her about being in the present moment, as I do not know how to without it affecting her unconscious mind, please share any suggestions.
Some background:
I know she is reactive due to her inability to cope and her reaction is about her and her inability to be present. I'm trying to not enable her to not be negative, being present is a new idea to me; so I am trying to be present myself, and as I do, I realize she consistently is looking for validation and reassurance for how she feels and I don't believe this is healthy for either of us. The only way this relationship will work is if I don't say anything, which I don't believe is healthy all the time and enables, or I when ask her why I made her feel the way I did, which works but I need to be careful on not pointing out my opinion of her errors which causes her to react. Obviously this could cause someone to take this personal, but I really try discussing kindly and tell her I can't answer some questions cause I care about her. I know if I'm too strong I'm talking from ego, so I'm trying to be more mindful of that. If I stay present and try to allow her to just be, I find it very difficult to be ok with her whining, complaining, and need for validation/reassurance. I want this relationship to work, and would like some guidance of not feeding her ego during these moments but also not enable.
HI ECKHART!!
I love him so much
I knew it when I seen him at the bus station. Then this came up . Deja vu
Eckhart Tolle Deusch
Love and light xxx
Thank you very much!!!
Thank you Eckhart Tolle.His book the new earth awakening your life’s purpose. Also the power of now are kept very deep in my heart.The most life changing readings.gratitude for his teachings into the present moment.I will re-read his teachings for the rest of my life here on earth .After reading the new earth.It was like being born again,seeing my own life in some breathless movie film .The present moment in my humble experience is a connection to the divine. Connecting with people on higher levels sharing energy and entering another dimension are real things.They are actually more real then anything else,then the 3D illusion we live in.On a constant high where I’m forgetting about my physical body completely.Warmth in my heart .Back to the focus of breath taking me to heaven.While forgetting about wanting and needing and having.brought back to the place the present now.This moments in space and time.No boundaries no limitations no walls no roles no a sleeping ego nothing human.Transcend from human to being.Leaving suffering opened me up completely.Open for the source to take over.No need to think no need to create chaos in the mind .No need to identify with the borders of the mind.Thank you universe for showing me to feel so much full heartily full love.Cheers to this kundalini awakening that continues to shaders this mind.Love the present second in this time on earth.Love this planet in this moment.
I hold space for my s.o.
Coming right along
great
Senility, is not a bad word.
This guy is so sweet xx
Over with Men who are not Awake not worth the bother....Investing in Myself period ....Not Awake = TOXIC
MIRACLES ARE INDEED POSSIBLE!!!! JUST BELIEVE!
get another one.
Hello 🙌🙋🙅🙆🙇
That was a good laugh 😂
Where can I find an a awakening person to help me awaken myself. Can even be my soul mate
Ty 💛🙏🏼
👍👍🙏🙏🙏💜💜💜As always an Eyeopener,thank you!Its Jest not working,the other does not understand you,but Miracle are possible,jest need to believe in them!My Neber became ill,he became fearful ,he was nicer,now he is better,became the same again 😏😒😩jest like Eckhart sad!!
Hello Eckhart