Does a Relationship Complete us? | Q&A Eckhart Tolle

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  • @mdmmalou
    @mdmmalou 3 роки тому +157

    If you've been programmed you are not enough to be loved from childhood, then you get lost in longing for love by searching it in others. Until you realize that love is within you even if you are taught different. Don't look for you in the eyes of others.

    • @OliverandLucas
      @OliverandLucas 3 роки тому +4

      Wow... thank you

    • @michellethompson6999
      @michellethompson6999 3 роки тому

      true,,,love,,,,never,,,,die,,,don't,,,,give,,,up,,,anything,,,,in,,,life,,,,all,,,,hope,,,,is,,,not,,,gone,,,,i,,,,know,,,,a,,,great,,,,powerful,,,,man,,,that,,,can,,,help,,,,you,,,,bring,,back,,,your,,,,ex,,,,or,,,,crush,,,,forever,,,,without,,,any,,,,stress,,,,or,,,delay,,,,he,,,,help,,,me,,,,get,,,,my,,,,ex,,,,back,,,,few,,,days,,,,ago,,,,,he,,,can,,,do,,,it,,,within,,,24hrs,,,,he have,,,,solution,,,,to all,,,,Problem,,,,Dr,,,,,David,,,,okoro,,,,Direct,,,,on,,,watsap (+2349052710116

    • @reneewolf1738
      @reneewolf1738 3 роки тому +5

      Don’t look for you in the eyes of others...that is absolutely profound and stopped me in my tracks. This teaching from Eckhart and your phrase really was a moment of pure consciousness for me.

    • @carl8568
      @carl8568 2 роки тому +3

      People go searching for it (unconsciously) in achievements also, to fill the void of lack.

    • @AA-wc3tw
      @AA-wc3tw Рік тому

      It took me almost 40 years to learn this, after being raised by a narcissist.

  • @wigglezbub
    @wigglezbub 3 роки тому +200

    His spiritual Winnie the Pooh-ness is stronger than usual here!

    • @aogm720401
      @aogm720401 3 роки тому +10

      HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA thank you for saying this, this way🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏 This particular feature of his, is what grounds me to be attentive.

    • @marcelaalmeida2382
      @marcelaalmeida2382 3 роки тому +4

      😂😂 perfect comment

    • @hellen5955
      @hellen5955 3 роки тому +1

      Haha, yes, feel it also. So nice to read this. 🤗🙏

    • @livingdoll3445
      @livingdoll3445 3 роки тому +3

      Hi it's Annie thank you Eckhart this is a very good talk. I have been celibate for almost 15yrs as I could not find honesty and faithfulness from a partner always had been with some one who could not be faithful and that has always been important to me in a relationship. We feel closer to God as you say when we stop looking for some one out there.

    • @soulwaves20000
      @soulwaves20000 3 роки тому +2

      Or care bear hahahaha

  • @orin734
    @orin734 3 роки тому +124

    When I feel thirsty and look for some water, only people like Eckhart can quench my thirst..
    Thank you

    • @michellethompson6999
      @michellethompson6999 3 роки тому +1

      true,,,love,,,,never,,,,die,,,don't,,,,give,,,up,,,anything,,,,in,,,life,,,,all,,,,hope,,,,is,,,not,,,gone,,,,i,,,,know,,,,a,,,great,,,,powerful,,,,man,,,that,,,can,,,help,,,,you,,,,bring,,back,,,your,,,,ex,,,,or,,,,crush,,,,forever,,,,without,,,any,,,,stress,,,,or,,,delay,,,,he,,,,help,,,me,,,,get,,,,my,,,,ex,,,,back,,,,few,,,days,,,,ago,,,,,he,,,can,,,do,,,it,,,within,,,24hrs,,,,he have,,,,solution,,,,to all,,,,Problem,,,,Dr,,,,,David,,,,okoro,,,,Direct,,,,on,,,watsap (+2349052710116

  • @eileen945
    @eileen945 3 роки тому +14

    This lesson is coming quite late in life for me... @ 67.
    better late than never though,. It is
    starting to compel me to find the joy in it.
    That is a beautiful thing. I’m learning

  • @AuthenticSelfGrowth
    @AuthenticSelfGrowth 3 роки тому +180

    Relationships are on the level of the physical, emotional and mental. Who you truly are is beyond all these. Enjoy relationships but don't seek you happiness in them 🙏🏽

    • @manojs3728
      @manojs3728 3 роки тому +4

      Superb! Indeed!!

    • @mariameere5807
      @mariameere5807 3 роки тому +13

      Very well said! I no longer feel the need for a relationship of that kind! When you get the relationship right between you and your higher self then all other relationships fall into place! I love being alone now, but we are never really alone when we have access to consciousness! Which is constant!🦋

    • @michellethompson6999
      @michellethompson6999 3 роки тому +1

      true,,,love,,,,never,,,,die,,,don't,,,,give,,,up,,,anything,,,,in,,,life,,,,all,,,,hope,,,,is,,,not,,,gone,,,,i,,,,know,,,,a,,,great,,,,powerful,,,,man,,,that,,,can,,,help,,,,you,,,,bring,,back,,,your,,,,ex,,,,or,,,,crush,,,,forever,,,,without,,,any,,,,stress,,,,or,,,delay,,,,he,,,,help,,,me,,,,get,,,,my,,,,ex,,,,back,,,,few,,,days,,,,ago,,,,,he,,,can,,,do,,,it,,,within,,,24hrs,,,,he have,,,,solution,,,,to all,,,,Problem,,,,Dr,,,,,David,,,,okoro,,,,Direct,,,,on,,,watsap (+2349052710116

    • @michellethompson6999
      @michellethompson6999 3 роки тому

      @@mariameere5807 true,,,love,,,,never,,,,die,,,don't,,,,give,,,up,,,anything,,,,in,,,life,,,,all,,,,hope,,,,is,,,not,,,gone,,,,i,,,,know,,,,a,,,great,,,,powerful,,,,man,,,that,,,can,,,help,,,,you,,,,bring,,back,,,your,,,,ex,,,,or,,,,crush,,,,forever,,,,without,,,any,,,,stress,,,,or,,,delay,,,,he,,,,help,,,me,,,,get,,,,my,,,,ex,,,,back,,,,few,,,days,,,,ago,,,,,he,,,can,,,do,,,it,,,within,,,24hrs,,,,he have,,,,solution,,,,to all,,,,Problem,,,,Dr,,,,,David,,,,okoro,,,,Direct,,,,on,,,watsap (+2349052710116

    • @mariameere5807
      @mariameere5807 3 роки тому +2

      @@michellethompson6999 You’ve tried this on so many people when are you going to give up the con??? The people of this channel are way too intuitive and not at all as vulnerable as you think spiritual people are to have hit this community looking for victims! My ego is not responding or reacting I’m simply saying that I know what you’re up to without negative emotion.

  • @forlifeandoceans
    @forlifeandoceans 3 роки тому +311

    Was actually sobbing, asking God for an answer to this exact question, opened UA-cam to look for A new Earth snippets, and found this new video on the channel. So grateful

    • @YaTut169
      @YaTut169 3 роки тому +13

      The only thing that is appearing to stop you from enlightenment/self-realization/eternal life/knowing yourself to be unconditional love is identification with thoughts, emotions, sensations, perceptions and experiences instead of being aware of being aware and knowing yourself to be that unconditional love pure consciousness in which all thoughts, emotions, sensations, perceptions and experiences appear but are not inherently one with you; they are an expression of unconditional love; you are that infinite that is expressing itself as suffering/pleasure but inherently you are neither; you are that nothing/unconditional love/pure consciousness in which they are appear and by which they are perceived;
      Suffering/pleasure comes and goes; there is an awareness that is aware of them coming and going; that you are; remember and know what you are; never identify with anything that is appearing within you; since it appears within you; it can't be you; you are that in which it appears. When you abide as that in which it appears instead of identifying; nothing has a grip on you; if anything comes; it quickly goes; like clouds passing; only if you identify as a cloud then it will appear as if the cloud is here for longer than it is originally supposed to; if you simply rest as the awareness and do not identify; it will quickly dissolve; be unconditional love by being aware of being aware; this is the highest; this is what you are seeking in absolutely everything else; you are seeking yourself; you are seeking unconditional love; but you are looking outside of yourself; instead of being aware that you already are unconditional love. Love love

    • @correctioneffected4319
      @correctioneffected4319 3 роки тому +5

      They always seem to show up for me as an answer when no other outer thing seems able

    • @realshanedejongh8455
      @realshanedejongh8455 3 роки тому

      ​@@YaTut169 Thank you for Enlightening us alll here , very much appreciated Brother. It's Pleasing to stumble upon another Eckart Tolle ​ @Sebastian Key - Truth, Consciousness, Bliss . Take care My SON

    • @UrAWizard
      @UrAWizard 3 роки тому

      Amazing

    • @correctioneffected4319
      @correctioneffected4319 3 роки тому

      @@YaTut169 I especially like the part where the cloud stays for longer than it was origionally supppsed to ... Bad cloud lol

  • @MrJmuno
    @MrJmuno 3 роки тому +13

    What I gather form this teachings is we we can only work inwardly for that completion and to look at a partner who compliments your journey.

  • @TheDhammaHub
    @TheDhammaHub 3 роки тому +75

    A caring partner and noble friend can certainly assist a lot in a spiritual practice!

    • @mahakala
      @mahakala 3 роки тому +16

      it is better to walk the path alone than walking with a fool.

    • @elizabethpiela7389
      @elizabethpiela7389 3 роки тому +7

      A good friend can be so helpful with spiritual growth! A spouse can be helpful as well, as long as the spouse is not being used to augment one's form. Hollywood kinda does a mind-f in this regard, IMHO..

    • @TheDhammaHub
      @TheDhammaHub 3 роки тому +7

      @@elizabethpiela7389 It does, but luckily we all have the choice to consume less media =)

    • @Blonde111
      @Blonde111 3 роки тому +5

      The point of this talk is what do you do when you have no good friend or partner? People don’t really care unless you can do something to help them...

    • @TheDhammaHub
      @TheDhammaHub 3 роки тому +9

      @@Blonde111 Well... and old Buddhist saying is: to get a noble friend, become a noble friend...

  • @feelflowfree
    @feelflowfree 3 роки тому +44

    Wow, look at the young Eckhart. So cute!!

    • @wzupppp
      @wzupppp 3 роки тому +13

      @Present Davie he looks very young for his age. I guess thats because of the peace of his mind

    • @georgiec8643
      @georgiec8643 3 роки тому +4

      I’d like a doll of him and I’d put him on my fireplace x

    • @michellethompson6999
      @michellethompson6999 3 роки тому

      true,,,love,,,,never,,,,die,,,don't,,,,give,,,up,,,anything,,,,in,,,life,,,,all,,,,hope,,,,is,,,not,,,gone,,,,i,,,,know,,,,a,,,great,,,,powerful,,,,man,,,that,,,can,,,help,,,,you,,,,bring,,back,,,your,,,,ex,,,,or,,,,crush,,,,forever,,,,without,,,any,,,,stress,,,,or,,,delay,,,,he,,,,help,,,me,,,,get,,,,my,,,,ex,,,,back,,,,few,,,days,,,,ago,,,,,he,,,can,,,do,,,it,,,within,,,24hrs,,,,he have,,,,solution,,,,to all,,,,Problem,,,,Dr,,,,,David,,,,okoro,,,,Direct,,,,on,,,watsap (+2349052710116

  • @RuthGarner
    @RuthGarner 3 роки тому +55

    We all want to be loved, knowing, accepting and loving yourself you will be able to love others and connect with others in a nourishing healing way

    • @BbizoCoUk
      @BbizoCoUk 3 роки тому +3

      Very true

    • @michellethompson6999
      @michellethompson6999 3 роки тому

      true,,,love,,,,never,,,,die,,,don't,,,,give,,,up,,,anything,,,,in,,,life,,,,all,,,,hope,,,,is,,,not,,,gone,,,,i,,,,know,,,,a,,,great,,,,powerful,,,,man,,,that,,,can,,,help,,,,you,,,,bring,,back,,,your,,,,ex,,,,or,,,,crush,,,,forever,,,,without,,,any,,,,stress,,,,or,,,delay,,,,he,,,,help,,,me,,,,get,,,,my,,,,ex,,,,back,,,,few,,,days,,,,ago,,,,,he,,,can,,,do,,,it,,,within,,,24hrs,,,,he have,,,,solution,,,,to all,,,,Problem,,,,Dr,,,,,David,,,,okoro,,,,Direct,,,,on,,,watsap (+2349052710116

  • @aliiscott1346
    @aliiscott1346 2 роки тому +1

    eckhart at his most wondrous. Great good fortune to be listening at the feet of You.

  • @muhlenstedt
    @muhlenstedt 3 роки тому +9

    Wonderful, deep and freeing! Thank you!

  • @molyvan3
    @molyvan3 3 роки тому +15

    Love the ways he talk so calm..
    Always helpful 🙏🙏🙏

    • @michellethompson6999
      @michellethompson6999 3 роки тому

      true,,,love,,,,never,,,,die,,,don't,,,,give,,,up,,,anything,,,,in,,,life,,,,all,,,,hope,,,,is,,,not,,,gone,,,,i,,,,know,,,,a,,,great,,,,powerful,,,,man,,,that,,,can,,,help,,,,you,,,,bring,,back,,,your,,,,ex,,,,or,,,,crush,,,,forever,,,,without,,,any,,,,stress,,,,or,,,delay,,,,he,,,,help,,,me,,,,get,,,,my,,,,ex,,,,back,,,,few,,,days,,,,ago,,,,,he,,,can,,,do,,,it,,,within,,,24hrs,,,,he have,,,,solution,,,,to all,,,,Problem,,,,Dr,,,,,David,,,,okoro,,,,Direct,,,,on,,,watsap (+2349052710116

  • @shhhh_tell_no_one
    @shhhh_tell_no_one 3 роки тому +7

    14:14 "Beautiful" 14:25 🧘 thanks for this teachings. God bless you🙏

  • @deepthir503
    @deepthir503 3 роки тому +6

    Thank you so much for sharing this 🙏 Thank you so much for your presence 🙏 Thank you so much for your teaching 🙏

  • @Sahasrara1008
    @Sahasrara1008 3 роки тому +34

    A successful man is one who can lay a firm foundation with the bricks others have thrown at him.
    - David Brinkley.

    • @michellethompson6999
      @michellethompson6999 3 роки тому

      true,,,love,,,,never,,,,die,,,don't,,,,give,,,up,,,anything,,,,in,,,life,,,,all,,,,hope,,,,is,,,not,,,gone,,,,i,,,,know,,,,a,,,great,,,,powerful,,,,man,,,that,,,can,,,help,,,,you,,,,bring,,back,,,your,,,,ex,,,,or,,,,crush,,,,forever,,,,without,,,any,,,,stress,,,,or,,,delay,,,,he,,,,help,,,me,,,,get,,,,my,,,,ex,,,,back,,,,few,,,days,,,,ago,,,,,he,,,can,,,do,,,it,,,within,,,24hrs,,,,he have,,,,solution,,,,to all,,,,Problem,,,,Dr,,,,,David,,,,okoro,,,,Direct,,,,on,,,watsap (+2349052710116

    • @johnathanholman3600
      @johnathanholman3600 3 роки тому

      🔥🔥🔥

    • @johnathanholman3600
      @johnathanholman3600 3 роки тому +1

      @@michellethompson6999 💜💜💜

    • @golondriz3
      @golondriz3 3 роки тому

      Dear Spontaneous, Can you explain this quote to me. Thank you.

    • @gabardjean-paul3779
      @gabardjean-paul3779 2 роки тому +1

      life is life - There is no success nor fail - just be it !

  • @claudioortiz5830
    @claudioortiz5830 26 днів тому

    This guy is a real teacher.

  • @Gerkola
    @Gerkola 3 роки тому +20

    This question I've had myself for a long time, thank you for the amazing response. ❤️

    • @michellethompson6999
      @michellethompson6999 3 роки тому

      true,,,love,,,,never,,,,die,,,don't,,,,give,,,up,,,anything,,,,in,,,life,,,,all,,,,hope,,,,is,,,not,,,gone,,,,i,,,,know,,,,a,,,great,,,,powerful,,,,man,,,that,,,can,,,help,,,,you,,,,bring,,back,,,your,,,,ex,,,,or,,,,crush,,,,forever,,,,without,,,any,,,,stress,,,,or,,,delay,,,,he,,,,help,,,me,,,,get,,,,my,,,,ex,,,,back,,,,few,,,days,,,,ago,,,,,he,,,can,,,do,,,it,,,within,,,24hrs,,,,he have,,,,solution,,,,to all,,,,Problem,,,,Dr,,,,,David,,,,okoro,,,,Direct,,,,on,,,watsap (+2349052710116

  • @clownworld-honk410
    @clownworld-honk410 3 роки тому +8

    Most people simply cannot be alone. Social stigma also plays a role. I love Eckhart's philosophy on relationships. It's not one I expect you'd hear from on-line dating agencies, though!

  • @bcvc3365
    @bcvc3365 3 роки тому +2

    Happy Valentine’s Day 💕

  • @elizabethplane9868
    @elizabethplane9868 11 місяців тому

    This is life saving. I’m 74 I have had horrible going wrong relationships that destroyed me. After 30 years single I’ve come across ET talking and he actually answered what was happening.

  • @lindakoch9524
    @lindakoch9524 3 роки тому +6

    This is amazing!!
    I’ve just been dealing with this issue….thank you God for leading me to this video….dear Eckhart ❤️❤️❤️

  • @mohorplenicar3597
    @mohorplenicar3597 3 роки тому +16

    Tolle has really given me the answer and the right method for dealing with loneliness. Thank you, I didn't know before have this can greatly affect my life.

    • @michellethompson6999
      @michellethompson6999 3 роки тому

      true,,,love,,,,never,,,,die,,,don't,,,,give,,,up,,,anything,,,,in,,,life,,,,all,,,,hope,,,,is,,,not,,,gone,,,,i,,,,know,,,,a,,,great,,,,powerful,,,,man,,,that,,,can,,,help,,,,you,,,,bring,,back,,,your,,,,ex,,,,or,,,,crush,,,,forever,,,,without,,,any,,,,stress,,,,or,,,delay,,,,he,,,,help,,,me,,,,get,,,,my,,,,ex,,,,back,,,,few,,,days,,,,ago,,,,,he,,,can,,,do,,,it,,,within,,,24hrs,,,,he have,,,,solution,,,,to all,,,,Problem,,,,Dr,,,,,David,,,,okoro,,,,Direct,,,,on,,,watsap (+2349052710116

  • @tabaradiagne3739
    @tabaradiagne3739 3 роки тому +21

    I'm only 20 but I've been on the spiritual journey for a little bit more than a yeaars and a half...
    I just wanted to say that I feel so glad to have seen Eckhart's videos and teachings at such a young age...I feels amazing

  • @suzanneadamson1306
    @suzanneadamson1306 3 роки тому +12

    Happy is the person who's @ home w/ himself. The pair-bonding trend is peddled to us thru marketing/media, anyhow.

  • @MybabyboyIra
    @MybabyboyIra Рік тому

    Sir Eckhart Tolle, I hope you can see all these comments on your videos.
    THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR YOUR WORK!! You have helped so many many many people including me!! Especially this video specifically. Sending you love! 💓

  • @SilverEye168
    @SilverEye168 2 роки тому +1

    Nothing external can complete the soul, but sometimes it can be reminded of it's existing perfection.

  • @shoonyah
    @shoonyah 3 роки тому +28

    Incompleteness cannot complete incompletenes. Be whole, let the neediness go and the one who compliments you will show up.

  • @agnieszkag.5170
    @agnieszkag.5170 3 роки тому +1

    This is true what he says here. I know it is. Lately I am experiencing beautiful nothingness, seeing life as it is, and then bum I suffer, becase I use to love some guy who treated me really bad and this is very hard for me to understand how can someone be so cruel and I think about traumatic past over and over again and I cannot free myself. I wish I could forget all this and him. This is such a waste of my youth. Bad relationship are wasting in us incredible gift that life is. They bring only death and sorrow. On the other hand, if I wouldn't suffer so much in my life, I could not appreciate so much silence, being alive, seeing life.

  • @mousumidas6607
    @mousumidas6607 3 роки тому +18

    Everyday I watch his videos and each time A breeze of freshness touches me..🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @leliu5thelement448
    @leliu5thelement448 3 роки тому +20

    I am my true whole self, I am already complete. I do not long for another. I do converse in social settings, I enjoy my own company. If I should connect with another whole being that would be wonderful, if not then I still have my true whole self. Love comes from within, not from another. No one can complete you, as you are already complete. look within yourself for answers. If you do not LOVE your true self, you cannot give to another what you do not already have from within. Just my thoughts.

    • @seemranhoro
      @seemranhoro 3 роки тому +1

    • @salronmumbai
      @salronmumbai 2 роки тому +1

      Bravo! Perfect! I'll add when you are loving something, anything, an object too, in That moment you don't need Love, you are actually overflowing it.

  • @angelinaperfumes
    @angelinaperfumes 3 роки тому +3

    A masterpiece, such a beautiful blessing. Thank you Eckhart!

  • @ReynaSingh
    @ReynaSingh 3 роки тому +36

    Eckhart has such a calm and wonderful presence 🙏🕉 thank you for these videos

    • @alphadraconian3483
      @alphadraconian3483 3 роки тому +2

      Yes absolutely that is exactly what I was thinking too : I love his book and his videos are awesome

    • @RuthGarner
      @RuthGarner 3 роки тому +2

      He really does!!

    • @rahuleducationalacademy8356
      @rahuleducationalacademy8356 3 роки тому +1

      Om namah shivay

    • @michellethompson6999
      @michellethompson6999 3 роки тому

      true,,,love,,,,never,,,,die,,,don't,,,,give,,,up,,,anything,,,,in,,,life,,,,all,,,,hope,,,,is,,,not,,,gone,,,,i,,,,know,,,,a,,,great,,,,powerful,,,,man,,,that,,,can,,,help,,,,you,,,,bring,,back,,,your,,,,ex,,,,or,,,,crush,,,,forever,,,,without,,,any,,,,stress,,,,or,,,delay,,,,he,,,,help,,,me,,,,get,,,,my,,,,ex,,,,back,,,,few,,,days,,,,ago,,,,,he,,,can,,,do,,,it,,,within,,,24hrs,,,,he have,,,,solution,,,,to all,,,,Problem,,,,Dr,,,,,David,,,,okoro,,,,Direct,,,,on,,,watsap (+2349052710116

  • @elodieleaf
    @elodieleaf Рік тому +19

    Being single is a very powerful experience. I was married, but when I was admitted into palliative care I divorced. I find that being single intensifies my life in a beautiful way. Grateful for your videos🙏🏼

    • @peaceandlove4620
      @peaceandlove4620 7 місяців тому +1

      I can TOTALLY relate to what you said!! BEAUTIFUL experience for me as well. 😊

    • @elodieleaf
      @elodieleaf 7 місяців тому

      @@peaceandlove4620 🎉🎉🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟

  • @kuri190
    @kuri190 3 роки тому +11

    God is already complete. The only one who can suffer from incompletion is the separate self (ego).

  • @wzupppp
    @wzupppp 3 роки тому +30

    This man is like a prophet to me. My life changed after reading the "power of now"

    • @Gaurav.P0
      @Gaurav.P0 2 роки тому

      How is your life now ?

    • @joewallace9030
      @joewallace9030 Рік тому +3

      His life is more now than ever.
      Four months later?: Still now.

  • @PhyllisMoon
    @PhyllisMoon 3 роки тому

    Surrender & acceptance will spare us from much suffering. I experience this continually, having followed Eckhart's teachings. THANK YOU, you are such a blessing. Ich bin so Dankbar. Viele liebe Grüße aus DE. 🙌💖🌈🌎

  • @raquelcohen7137
    @raquelcohen7137 3 роки тому

    Eckhart I am so grateful for your presence. Your response make me cry b’cause of happiness.
    Thank you again. I follow you from the DISTANCE I live in Mexico but I am close to you🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🌺🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🌺🌺🌺

  • @ek4172
    @ek4172 3 роки тому +19

    You must become the person you are meant to be before you can be in a relationship successfully, a deep harmonious relationship, a greater partnership. You bring to that what you have discovered within yourself. ( Love and Relationships by *Marshall Vian Summers* )
    You see, if your life is about contribution, you do not have a problem finding people to be with you. Your problem now is choosing the right people to be with. You do not have to worry about a good career. Your problem is choosing the right career. Life bends itself to you who give, so thirsty for giving is life here. If the Presence is with you, people will come to you like magnetism. (Wisdom from The Greater Community Volume I, Chapter 15: Giving, by *Marshall Vian Summers* )

    • @Jac0bIAm
      @Jac0bIAm 3 роки тому +2

      Beautiful quotes, thank you!

    • @shielanunn3484
      @shielanunn3484 3 роки тому +3

      First know Yourself!

  • @anandakumarsanthinathan4740
    @anandakumarsanthinathan4740 3 роки тому +63

    Eckhart is just as beautiful, innocent, majestic and aware as the tulips behind him.

    • @debbietodd8547
      @debbietodd8547 3 роки тому +15

      I think those tulips are gladiolas but, yes, he is :-)

    • @peterjohnson8935
      @peterjohnson8935 3 роки тому

      ??

    • @annekoenig9414
      @annekoenig9414 3 роки тому +3

      Adore your description. I love his pauses follow by a cute hiccup of a giggle.

    • @michellethompson6999
      @michellethompson6999 3 роки тому

      true,,,love,,,,never,,,,die,,,don't,,,,give,,,up,,,anything,,,,in,,,life,,,,all,,,,hope,,,,is,,,not,,,gone,,,,i,,,,know,,,,a,,,great,,,,powerful,,,,man,,,that,,,can,,,help,,,,you,,,,bring,,back,,,your,,,,ex,,,,or,,,,crush,,,,forever,,,,without,,,any,,,,stress,,,,or,,,delay,,,,he,,,,help,,,me,,,,get,,,,my,,,,ex,,,,back,,,,few,,,days,,,,ago,,,,,he,,,can,,,do,,,it,,,within,,,24hrs,,,,he have,,,,solution,,,,to all,,,,Problem,,,,Dr,,,,,David,,,,okoro,,,,Direct,,,,on,,,watsap (+2349052710116

    • @jaggi1973
      @jaggi1973 2 роки тому +2

      Beautifully said 😊!!

  • @carpenterfamily6198
    @carpenterfamily6198 3 роки тому +45

    Longing is separation from what you already have.

    • @bobstover1336
      @bobstover1336 3 роки тому +2

      Good point

    • @michellethompson6999
      @michellethompson6999 3 роки тому

      true,,,love,,,,never,,,,die,,,don't,,,,give,,,up,,,anything,,,,in,,,life,,,,all,,,,hope,,,,is,,,not,,,gone,,,,i,,,,know,,,,a,,,great,,,,powerful,,,,man,,,that,,,can,,,help,,,,you,,,,bring,,back,,,your,,,,ex,,,,or,,,,crush,,,,forever,,,,without,,,any,,,,stress,,,,or,,,delay,,,,he,,,,help,,,me,,,,get,,,,my,,,,ex,,,,back,,,,few,,,days,,,,ago,,,,,he,,,can,,,do,,,it,,,within,,,24hrs,,,,he have,,,,solution,,,,to all,,,,Problem,,,,Dr,,,,,David,,,,okoro,,,,Direct,,,,on,,,watsap (+2349052710116

    • @veraintuizione6497
      @veraintuizione6497 3 роки тому +1

      @@michellethompson6999 Sorry but what are you doing?

    • @michellethompson6999
      @michellethompson6999 3 роки тому

      @@veraintuizione6497???

    • @veraintuizione6497
      @veraintuizione6497 3 роки тому

      @@michellethompson6999 Ok I got it.👋

  • @youlong1234
    @youlong1234 3 роки тому +4

    Important teachings!

  • @defjusteman629
    @defjusteman629 3 місяці тому

    Probably the best answer I’m going to get on this topic.

  • @theotherway1639
    @theotherway1639 3 роки тому +2

    Listening to this while doing mindfulness exercises from that book "30 Days to Reduce Anxiety" by Harper Daniels.

  • @mountainserenity
    @mountainserenity 3 роки тому +33

    Oh, the wisdom of Eckhart Tolle!

    • @michellethompson6999
      @michellethompson6999 3 роки тому

      true,,,love,,,,never,,,,die,,,don't,,,,give,,,up,,,anything,,,,in,,,life,,,,all,,,,hope,,,,is,,,not,,,gone,,,,i,,,,know,,,,a,,,great,,,,powerful,,,,man,,,that,,,can,,,help,,,,you,,,,bring,,back,,,your,,,,ex,,,,or,,,,crush,,,,forever,,,,without,,,any,,,,stress,,,,or,,,delay,,,,he,,,,help,,,me,,,,get,,,,my,,,,ex,,,,back,,,,few,,,days,,,,ago,,,,,he,,,can,,,do,,,it,,,within,,,24hrs,,,,he have,,,,solution,,,,to all,,,,Problem,,,,Dr,,,,,David,,,,okoro,,,,Direct,,,,on,,,watsap (+2349052710116

  • @TerriblePerfection
    @TerriblePerfection 3 роки тому +7

    Hello, beautiful souls! Whether you are single, married, or anything in between, your atoms are part of everything else. You don't need another one person, or children, or anything else that has been paraded before you like a Disney movie. The sun and the stars and the truly astonishing diversity of life is yours to enjoy. Peace and good health to all. 🌍

    • @waggytail289
      @waggytail289 Місяць тому

      I love this message. Thank you.

  • @nemakhellaf2321
    @nemakhellaf2321 3 роки тому +2

    Amazing, thank you 🙏 Eckhart tolle

  • @fabiolalimpias394
    @fabiolalimpias394 Рік тому

    This video is my spiritual practice. Thank you Eckhart 💗🙏

  • @venuswashername2261
    @venuswashername2261 3 роки тому +1

    learning so much thank you

  • @varshamuzik2149
    @varshamuzik2149 3 роки тому +44

    Whoever is reading this
    May all your dreams come true 🤗

    • @lighthousea4655
      @lighthousea4655 3 роки тому

      What about your own dreams?

    • @ZaberBiest
      @ZaberBiest 3 роки тому

      What if you dont have dreams?

    • @GMILES-hy5fg
      @GMILES-hy5fg 3 роки тому

      @@ZaberBiest even better!

    • @ishikachakraborty4019
      @ishikachakraborty4019 3 роки тому

      May yours too ❤️

    • @guillermochavez2515
      @guillermochavez2515 3 роки тому +2

      Same to you thank you! At the end of the day we must make a great effort to be in the present whether our dreams come true or not.

  • @Gliss_Bliss
    @Gliss_Bliss 3 роки тому +19

    Solitude is beautiful. 💗🙏🏼

  • @julianau5907
    @julianau5907 3 роки тому +3

    Thank you!! God bless you ❤️

  • @BandiGetOffTheRoof
    @BandiGetOffTheRoof 2 роки тому +1

    I've been on some dating websites...and reading the women's profiles... at least reading between the lines...there is so much loneliness out their. I'm sure for men too. But I wish all those people could hear Eckhart's message

  • @gracemcnamara4470
    @gracemcnamara4470 3 роки тому +2

    Powerful thankyou xx

  • @mikeeight5819
    @mikeeight5819 3 роки тому

    This guy’s a legend

  • @marykrone5652
    @marykrone5652 3 роки тому +15

    Embrace loneliness.. surrender into it. Grateful for this lesson. Thank you

    • @michellethompson6999
      @michellethompson6999 3 роки тому

      true,,,love,,,,never,,,,die,,,don't,,,,give,,,up,,,anything,,,,in,,,life,,,,all,,,,hope,,,,is,,,not,,,gone,,,,i,,,,know,,,,a,,,great,,,,powerful,,,,man,,,that,,,can,,,help,,,,you,,,,bring,,back,,,your,,,,ex,,,,or,,,,crush,,,,forever,,,,without,,,any,,,,stress,,,,or,,,delay,,,,he,,,,help,,,me,,,,get,,,,my,,,,ex,,,,back,,,,few,,,days,,,,ago,,,,,he,,,can,,,do,,,it,,,within,,,24hrs,,,,he have,,,,solution,,,,to all,,,,Problem,,,,Dr,,,,,David,,,,okoro,,,,Direct,,,,on,,,watsap (+2349052710116

    • @lindakoch9524
      @lindakoch9524 3 роки тому

      What steps to take exactly??

  • @tanya4485
    @tanya4485 3 роки тому +12

    I just want to say thank you Eckhart for the beautiful, thoughtful way in which you address this woman's question. I have heard others explain similar longings only to be torn apart from some so called awakened people and it breaks my heart. What you offer is such kind insight towards how one can tune into that wholeness within -- it's very freeing. I've learned so much from your kind and open approach. My heart went out to this woman, just so glad you handled this with such care.

  • @carolyn6689
    @carolyn6689 3 роки тому +12

    I used to search and look always for someone to love me ..because it would take away my loneliness ,I thought but truly ..you can still be lonely in a relationship ,esp if you have a strong attatchment.There is nothing wrong with being alone ,it means you get to know yourself more and work on being a better person .

    • @manojs3728
      @manojs3728 3 роки тому +2

      I completely agree with you This video of Eckhart makes tremendous sense.

    • @michellethompson6999
      @michellethompson6999 3 роки тому

      true,,,love,,,,never,,,,die,,,don't,,,,give,,,up,,,anything,,,,in,,,life,,,,all,,,,hope,,,,is,,,not,,,gone,,,,i,,,,know,,,,a,,,great,,,,powerful,,,,man,,,that,,,can,,,help,,,,you,,,,bring,,back,,,your,,,,ex,,,,or,,,,crush,,,,forever,,,,without,,,any,,,,stress,,,,or,,,delay,,,,he,,,,help,,,me,,,,get,,,,my,,,,ex,,,,back,,,,few,,,days,,,,ago,,,,,he,,,can,,,do,,,it,,,within,,,24hrs,,,,he have,,,,solution,,,,to all,,,,Problem,,,,Dr,,,,,David,,,,okoro,,,,Direct,,,,on,,,watsap (+2349052710116

  • @carface100
    @carface100 3 роки тому +1

    Thank you

  • @jamief.g
    @jamief.g 3 роки тому +11

    I needed this. Thank you eckhart

  • @rjagger1395
    @rjagger1395 Рік тому

    People don’t realize how much they live there lives through other people ,,,until they find them selves alone,,,,

  • @Ushamurthy8831
    @Ushamurthy8831 Рік тому

    Thank you so much for this video. Really needed this. Thank you 💞 for the grace🙏

  • @shahilagh
    @shahilagh 3 роки тому +2

    Before listening based on what he said before: I think relationships challenge us to be present

    • @michellethompson6999
      @michellethompson6999 3 роки тому

      true,,,love,,,,never,,,,die,,,don't,,,,give,,,up,,,anything,,,,in,,,life,,,,all,,,,hope,,,,is,,,not,,,gone,,,,i,,,,know,,,,a,,,great,,,,powerful,,,,man,,,that,,,can,,,help,,,,you,,,,bring,,back,,,your,,,,ex,,,,or,,,,crush,,,,forever,,,,without,,,any,,,,stress,,,,or,,,delay,,,,he,,,,help,,,me,,,,get,,,,my,,,,ex,,,,back,,,,few,,,days,,,,ago,,,,,he,,,can,,,do,,,it,,,within,,,24hrs,,,,he have,,,,solution,,,,to all,,,,Problem,,,,Dr,,,,,David,,,,okoro,,,,Direct,,,,on,,,watsap (+2349052710116

  • @humancumalienhumancumalien3947
    @humancumalienhumancumalien3947 3 роки тому +3

    One can only find oneself in the mirror of relationship.

    • @allenchinn1961
      @allenchinn1961 3 роки тому +1

      That’s the opposite of what he is saying.

  • @prkzoomin6994
    @prkzoomin6994 3 роки тому +7

    A Good Quote, Today is the Perfect Day to be Happy

  • @douglashagan65
    @douglashagan65 2 роки тому

    Right we live in the present time we forgive the past we accept

  • @mazoobkhan9310
    @mazoobkhan9310 3 роки тому +4

    Great, thanks 👍👌🙏

  • @aju1923
    @aju1923 3 роки тому +3

    thank u

  • @sylvietran4956
    @sylvietran4956 3 роки тому +10

    I really love the ending soundtrack! Especially after such a beautiful and enlightening talk. Anybody knows where I can find it? Love to you all, my dear souls 🌸💫

    • @sylvietran4956
      @sylvietran4956 3 роки тому +11

      Actually I just found it by using Shazam app! It’s called “Wave of Emotions” by Beneath the Mountain! Go support the artist(s)! Amazing music!

  • @UnlicensedThinker
    @UnlicensedThinker 3 роки тому +3

    I just ask what another person provides that I am unable to provide to myself. 💖🌞
    Then, why do I think I am unable to provide that to myself. 💪😸

  • @heartofhawaii8232
    @heartofhawaii8232 2 роки тому +5

    WHAT a remarkable, deep and thorough look at this eternal "quest" for a soul mate/twin flame. The real understanding that we all need to become aware of. THANK you Eckhart!

  • @danieljimenezgradilla2246
    @danieljimenezgradilla2246 3 роки тому +6

    Eckhart has changed my life, every time I listen to him I learn more and more that helps me reassure that I am awareness, and that has made me realize that this is what it is and I am enjoying every minute of it, and if I ever react, (not enjoying) I can become aware of that, and become conscious, so my life has changed, thank you so much Eckhart, I have being spreding your words and I know that that is part of the evolution of the Universe, where I am totally aware of it, thank you!

  • @PsychedelicActualization
    @PsychedelicActualization 3 роки тому +12

    You are already wholeness itself ❤️🙏🏽

    • @michellethompson6999
      @michellethompson6999 3 роки тому

      true,,,love,,,,never,,,,die,,,don't,,,,give,,,up,,,anything,,,,in,,,life,,,,all,,,,hope,,,,is,,,not,,,gone,,,,i,,,,know,,,,a,,,great,,,,powerful,,,,man,,,that,,,can,,,help,,,,you,,,,bring,,back,,,your,,,,ex,,,,or,,,,crush,,,,forever,,,,without,,,any,,,,stress,,,,or,,,delay,,,,he,,,,help,,,me,,,,get,,,,my,,,,ex,,,,back,,,,few,,,days,,,,ago,,,,,he,,,can,,,do,,,it,,,within,,,24hrs,,,,he have,,,,solution,,,,to all,,,,Problem,,,,Dr,,,,,David,,,,okoro,,,,Direct,,,,on,,,watsap (+2349052710116

  • @pco2004
    @pco2004 Рік тому

    I needed this. thank you Eckhart

  • @Ismail-Assalih
    @Ismail-Assalih 2 роки тому

    Thank you 🙏

  • @Evolveyouawakened
    @Evolveyouawakened 2 роки тому +3

    This is the most precious answer for handling desire of any kind...love money acceptance whatever desire that brings suffering.
    Eckhart Tolle thank you

  • @ClaudiaPereira-jj5ir
    @ClaudiaPereira-jj5ir 2 роки тому

    You are amazing ✨❤️ Thank you so much 🙏✨
    I needed to listen to this ✨

  • @angeloiodice9304
    @angeloiodice9304 3 роки тому +7

    A great blessing to mankind such a man is.

  • @carpenterfamily6198
    @carpenterfamily6198 3 роки тому +3

    You don’t complete yourself through anything external.

  • @tomegelandsa7364
    @tomegelandsa7364 2 роки тому

    Thanks.

  • @Valerie-mn5ic
    @Valerie-mn5ic 3 роки тому +8

    Exactly what I needed to hear. Yah lead me to this page. Yah bless Eckert.

    • @michellethompson6999
      @michellethompson6999 3 роки тому

      true,,,love,,,,never,,,,die,,,don't,,,,give,,,up,,,anything,,,,in,,,life,,,,all,,,,hope,,,,is,,,not,,,gone,,,,i,,,,know,,,,a,,,great,,,,powerful,,,,man,,,that,,,can,,,help,,,,you,,,,bring,,back,,,your,,,,ex,,,,or,,,,crush,,,,forever,,,,without,,,any,,,,stress,,,,or,,,delay,,,,he,,,,help,,,me,,,,get,,,,my,,,,ex,,,,back,,,,few,,,days,,,,ago,,,,,he,,,can,,,do,,,it,,,within,,,24hrs,,,,he have,,,,solution,,,,to all,,,,Problem,,,,Dr,,,,,David,,,,okoro,,,,Direct,,,,on,,,watsap (+2349052710116

  • @lukeparnell742
    @lukeparnell742 3 роки тому +5

    I dont know if soul mates exist but I do know when I look into ones eyes rarely instant soul connection almost communication

  • @IWouldChange
    @IWouldChange 3 роки тому +5

    As I'm listening to this and gaining greater realisations about my own patterns in my relationship, my wife is singing 'You Can Make Me Whole Again' downstairs!

  • @RelightwithKat
    @RelightwithKat 3 роки тому +12

    Relationships exist to help us become conscious, and more accepting of other people for exactly who they are! That's a very freeing kind of love.

    • @seemranhoro
      @seemranhoro 3 роки тому +2

      Yes❤

    • @onreact
      @onreact 3 роки тому +2

      Good point. Yet most relationships are somewhat dysfunctional. It does not have to be that way. When you're aware together true love can blossom.

    • @RelightwithKat
      @RelightwithKat 3 роки тому

      @@onreact of course. from that dysfunction it can turn into a vehicle for healing even if only one person is willing (which in turn affects the energy dynamic with the other!)

    • @onreact
      @onreact 3 роки тому

      @@RelightwithKat Yeah, sure, been there LOL. It's not a prerequisite though. You can start a relationship with another aware person and omit the ego-driven needy ones.

    • @RelightwithKat
      @RelightwithKat 3 роки тому

      @@onreact hahaha no biggie it's all in the name of growth right;) as we grow more aware i feel like those more unconscious / energy vampires no longer resonate anyway

  • @aristonkhleonarcturus
    @aristonkhleonarcturus 3 роки тому

    I have seven for life path number, it's starting to make sense

  • @rexjohnson5802
    @rexjohnson5802 3 роки тому +5

    One of your best!! Thank you!

  • @bcvc3365
    @bcvc3365 3 роки тому +1

    Divine Counterparts (aka Twin Flames) do complete each other since it’s a soul split into two bodies.

    • @tigertalks1567
      @tigertalks1567 3 роки тому

      Nope. I'm a professional intuitive. Twin flames are the live, laugh, love of the psychic world. The truth is so called twin flames usually relate on similar traumas they agree on.

  • @ms7HD
    @ms7HD 3 роки тому +3

    It's not about being single or in relationship , it's not about being rich or not rich , it's not about being successful or unknown .
    It's just about not seeking happiness in any of those things , which implies that without anything you are not happy . Lack is state of mind not reality , see how huge need becomes to escape nothingness to escape doing nothing having nothing being nothing.
    Being nothing doing nothing is simplest thing in world but there is so much resistance towards it , obviously nothing will happen if we are nothing yet we so scared of that . Real question is why ?

    • @bobstover1336
      @bobstover1336 3 роки тому

      Ekharts ,Power of Now book can help w/ this answer.

  • @spacesushi.
    @spacesushi. 3 роки тому +10

    “You welcome loneliness
    🧘‍♀️
    and then THAT
    💫
    turns into something else”

  • @amin_abdollahi_369
    @amin_abdollahi_369 19 днів тому

    Thankyou😊🙏❤

  • @ObiNovi
    @ObiNovi 3 роки тому +6

    "The road to Heaven is through relationships. It is a road of relationships. You may try your hardest to feel whole and joined with life, and you will have experiences of this now and then, but until you can be joined to another, give yourself and dedicate your resources in conjunction with another’s dedication, you are only flirting with reality." Living The Way of Knowledge, Chapter 8: Building Spiritual Community

    • @SS-md8uj
      @SS-md8uj 3 роки тому +1

      Thank you for your comment.

  • @williamcitan
    @williamcitan 3 роки тому +6

    Beautiful.... Thank you Eckhart 🙏

    • @michellethompson6999
      @michellethompson6999 3 роки тому

      true,,,love,,,,never,,,,die,,,don't,,,,give,,,up,,,anything,,,,in,,,life,,,,all,,,,hope,,,,is,,,not,,,gone,,,,i,,,,know,,,,a,,,great,,,,powerful,,,,man,,,that,,,can,,,help,,,,you,,,,bring,,back,,,your,,,,ex,,,,or,,,,crush,,,,forever,,,,without,,,any,,,,stress,,,,or,,,delay,,,,he,,,,help,,,me,,,,get,,,,my,,,,ex,,,,back,,,,few,,,days,,,,ago,,,,,he,,,can,,,do,,,it,,,within,,,24hrs,,,,he have,,,,solution,,,,to all,,,,Problem,,,,Dr,,,,,David,,,,okoro,,,,Direct,,,,on,,,watsap (+2349052710116

  • @111infinity5
    @111infinity5 2 роки тому

    It helped 💗💗💗😭thnks

  • @naturenurture6507
    @naturenurture6507 3 роки тому +3

    "You have been looking for God through someone else, but it is only through surrender you find the BEING within"

  • @Jewelmind
    @Jewelmind 3 роки тому +6

    Love this! So beautifully put.

  • @jlpsinde
    @jlpsinde 3 роки тому +9

    This is amazing.

  • @patriciarosetimmers7730
    @patriciarosetimmers7730 3 роки тому +3

    Aloneness is not Lonelyness
    Being alone is not feeling lonely

  • @D_Isness
    @D_Isness Рік тому

    ❤thank you.

  • @Tori_4
    @Tori_4 3 роки тому +3

    I'm so thankful for Eckhart Tolle 🙏🏾
    so much wisdom ❤️

    • @michellethompson6999
      @michellethompson6999 3 роки тому

      true,,,love,,,,never,,,,die,,,don't,,,,give,,,up,,,anything,,,,in,,,life,,,,all,,,,hope,,,,is,,,not,,,gone,,,,i,,,,know,,,,a,,,great,,,,powerful,,,,man,,,that,,,can,,,help,,,,you,,,,bring,,back,,,your,,,,ex,,,,or,,,,crush,,,,forever,,,,without,,,any,,,,stress,,,,or,,,delay,,,,he,,,,help,,,me,,,,get,,,,my,,,,ex,,,,back,,,,few,,,days,,,,ago,,,,,he,,,can,,,do,,,it,,,within,,,24hrs,,,,he have,,,,solution,,,,to all,,,,Problem,,,,Dr,,,,,David,,,,okoro,,,,Direct,,,,on,,,watsap (+2349052710116?

  • @desmondehoppie4758
    @desmondehoppie4758 3 роки тому +4

    Enlightening. Thank You for taking the time to make this video.