DATING TIPS FOR MATURE WOMEN AND WHAT TO WATCH OUT FOR : Relationship advice
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Here are the most common Dating Dangers that you need to be aware of:
Scammy on or off line datiting - to swindle
Catfishing - A catfish uses fake photos, and sometimes a false persona, to find friends or romantic partners on the internet.
Sex offenders
Stealing your personal information
Stealing money from you
Exactly. Dating does not include Sex. Stop giving your body to a MAN who has given you nothing.
So true
damn right, you are!
yessss, very true...We must learn from our erroneous errors at least by NOW!!!!...
That Part
Truth
Online dating is full of predators. Sorry, ladies.
Full of grown men who are like children. They expect sex and if they won't get it they won't stick around. A lot of men are not interested in meeting or you meet some real nuts on those sites.
True
A study done years ago found that of the people whose identities could be verified, 70% had felony criminal convictions. Consider that before taking the leap.
I’ve heard some sad stories.
Amen and Amen same here everyday 🙏 🙌 ❤ ♥ 💖 👏
If a man has nothing to give, don't give him anything that belongs to you.
A friend once told me men of a certain age are looking for a nurse or a purse! I will never forget it. You both are smart, smart ladies!
Correct. I’m an older childless widow and got enough of dating older men with their adult moocher children around. The moochers become very jealous, entitled, and afraid of losing the father’s inheritance they arrogantly believe are entitled to. Older men with children? NO THANK YOU! Who needs that drama?
I briefly dated a widower with grown children living on their own, who had a nice home and a decent job. His one daughter would sabotage our planned dates by having all kinds of "emergencies" just prior to us going out. He couldn't say no to her. On another occasion, he announced to me that if we ever got married, he wanted to be buried next to his first wife and not me. That did it for me, relationship was over. 😊
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@@Curlyblondeyou got a lucky escape that time if you ask me.
I learned! He had another one with his x wife at 40. He was MISERABLE with the responsibility in his late 50s. Never again!
Over 50 should not consider themselves over the hill, you are as young as your mind, don't go into a relationship desperate and needy because you will be opening yourself up for hurt.
Great advice, Mrs. Cummings!
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Well said! 💯💯💯💯
It is irritating when people ask why are you not married? I am happily single until I meet the right one- I refuse to settle.
Then ull end up being alone cat lady
@@Tom10288- I do not like cats. I like dogs. Have a great day!!!!
Good one lady
@cynthiawarren9379 😂😂😂
@@Tom10288Did she hit a nerve? We're not as needy and desperate as you think!! 😂
When you see couples out and about, and have a desire to "have what they have" remember that things may be very different behind closed doors. The narc is excellent at putting on a public show and taking off the mask when they get home. What the universe has for you will come to you at the perfect time.
Well said and very true🥰
Amennnnnnnnnn! LG Fisher!
This is the absolute truth!
Miss Faye🙌🏽 My time started when l divorced that Narc 7yrs ago after 33yrs of marriage! After healing from that l will be damn if another man THINKS he coming over here and upset MY peace! Living my BEST life l lost 221lbs. Bettered my health 100% don’t want for anything🙌🏽🙌🏽 lm happy and at 65 sister girl here is living in the overflow of blessings and peace! My grown children treat me like a Queen they saw what l went threw and are happy lm away from their father! I’m so grateful for the life l have now!! Loving ME!!😎❤️🙏🏽💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽
That’s beautiful I am 65 too I understand!
You go girl!I understand.God Bless.❤
it's a shame since 33yrs is quite a long time
@@victors_crypto it's never too late to work on a better life for yourself
@@victors_crypto. I was married 30 & am glad he’s gone. He was lying the whole marriage. Did the same to his first wife.
My mom would tell me, if he doesn’t make your life better, he shouldn’t be in it.
Yup, marriage is about serving not taking.
That's a lucky thing right there! My mother didn't advise me like that. I got more from friends of hers that were easy to talk to.
You are lucky to have a mother to at least give you advice. I grew up as an orphan and had to experiment with life all by myself. A lot of mistakes i found myself into, but God was merciful to me
👸bravo💎💎💎💰💰💰!
@@rafaelw8115 A husband is supposed to serve in return. It's not one sided.
I’m a 50 year old new widow. I’m learning the new world of being alone. But, I wouldn’t mind having a friend of my same status. But I’m not desperate for a man. Period!
Be strong
Been widowed for 7 years. Sending you love, light, healing energy. It's going to be OK. 💖🙏🌹
I’m sorry for your loss
@Gabriel Foreal! That’s hypocritical. 50 n still live with Mom. I hope he had to come back home and not be a Mama Boy!
I am 50 years young. I have never been married or had children. I have decided to remain single and celibate until the Lord takes me home. I am done with dating. I have a Furry Baby at-home and I take care of him. My focus is going to Heaven and having a relationship with Jesus. No man is worth my soul. I am truly sorry for your loss. May God comfort you and your family always!
Miss Faye, we are living in a Society where if a woman does not have a man at a certain
age, she is immediately classified as lonely.
In my younger twenties, I was in college and working getting my life on. I was dating, but suddenly I had this feeling of it's time for me to have a man and baby. What a bunch of foolishness on my end, and that also led me straight into single motherhood with two children.
Low Self Esteem during them years also led to it as well. This is what I am urging you young women.
If YOU HAVE LOW SELF-ESTEEM, Get Therapy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
The younger you are when you get it the better off you will be!
I have not had low self esteem for over 10 years, and I am a Totally different woman.
I am in my fourties now, children are 18 and 19. I did not even think about attracting any type of man when they were little.
Some men feel when a woman has children, and the father is not in the picture they want to sex the woman down. Heck to the no, I was not having that mess!
Ladies take my advice:
DO NOT BE DESPERATE FOR A MAN! DO NOT ALLOW A MAN TO VALIDATE YOU PERIOD!!!!!! Finish College, Live Life, DO NOT LAY UP WITH MEN, RESPECT YOURSELVES!!!!!!!!!! Only hang around women who are going in a positive direction!
If you are a woman who was sexually abused as a child, get Therapy!!!!! It is essential to your life and will prevent promiscuity, etc. I can not stress this enough to you lovely ladies. Do not place yourselves into a Life of struggle, Do all that is necessary in your younger days and when you are older, Life will get GREAT!!!!!!!!!!!!
Self-love is really important. If you act desperate, you will end up losing everything ( valuable time, self-esteem, and money). This can lead to long-term illness.
71, NYC, WIDOW, MOTHER, AND GRANDCHILDREN. I'M SPOILED, LOVE THE THEATER, TRAVEL, FINE DINING AND MORE. 🎉🎉❤🎉🎉
I’m happy to be alone. I have made new girlfriends at my complex and we all get together for lunches and day trips. We all cook and share! Who could ask for more? 😃
Ms. Faye, myself, and other women definitely do appreciate your words of wisdom. Keep doing you work☺️
Thank you, I will
Love your advices Ms Faye!!🎉❤
If only I had found her when I turned 40 and I’m 46. Went through it with men in their 50s and 60s acting like young men.
Agreed
I guy told me straight up in my face, “You know what, you are a good catch, and you know why, because you own your own house!”
I just kept on walking, and then started to run! 😂
One of my friends was sized-up by an interested suitor saying, "Oh wow, you must have at least $200,000 in the bank!! They are announcing it loud & clear that their eyes are on the target. If you don't take heed to this red flag, then Lord help you! 😮
Wow, thankfully he exposed himself sooner rather than later.✨️
Yes a guy told me that he knows being with me “he will go up in life” and I really love cooking and every time I cooked once he said “I will never go hungry with you” it was a pun but I realised I can’t say what it is that he gives of his … not much. Thank you for sharing! Hallelujah we are smarter every day!
Totally agree about online dating sites!
No women of any age should use those sites. At one time, for a hot minute, they may have been a viable option. That window closed long ago now. Super dangerous!
Just imagine that you are missing out on all those Nigerian Millionaire$ who need your financial help getting his money out of his country, so he can split it with you!! 😂
I'm in my mid sixties and told my kids online dating has been infiltrated by gay men in the past 10 years. Their previous life style hasn't worked out now they want a female companion (beard). Also never tell a man that you own your home either. Be safe ladies!
Those site are dangerous because men again are the ones who when on there and mess it up I don't know how god creates them to lead and they are like it
DATING is Investigating!!!!!!!!
Agreed
Stay away from divorced men with children under 18 dependent
A man who has been accomplished and children are grown up !!!!!!
Bingo! Love this!!!!!!!!!! Gonna use this!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I wouldn't mind dating a man that has adult children as I do, and they don't live at home with me or him. I don't want to be anybody nurse unless it's my senior parents. I'm 58 all B.S aside!!
Places to meet men besides bars Include libraries, classes at a community College or community center (such as cooking, painting, pottery, writing) join a book club or have a hobby. I always met people working at restaurants or retail.
Stay OFF dating apps & dating sites!!!! They are FULL of felons, con artists, narcissists, scammers, and married men looking only for "hookups". Church is NO better! (Avoid at all cost!) Always run a background check on a man BEFORE you sleep with him & get emotionally involved. Places to meet men: Car shows, rotary club, volunteer, cooking class, museum, cultural events, sporting events, etc. Also let friends & family know you're single and looking. Date smart, & choose wisely. Good luck.
Thank you again, Miss Faye. I feel you were talking to me. I'm retired and independent and am happy with my life and freedom. I no longer think, "Oooh, he looks good," but sometimes find myself thinking, "He looks healthy for his age." Men are too high-maintenance for me. Blessings!🙏
And check under the bathroom sink for LADY PRODUCTS!
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Good point.
Listen and observe. It comes out eventually just by watching and listening.
Yes they do approach you for a reason. I had an older female boss whose husband divorced her to marry a younger woman. This left her vulnerable and she was approached by this man who swept her off her feet with the most flowers and little gifts and proposed to her in about 6 months. As soon as they were married, he wanted to add his name to her beautiful house in an upscale neighbourhood. Her lawyer sister advised her against this and to put her 2 kids name on the property deed instead. So he manages to get her to "invest" with him in buying an expensive condo which he "rented" to his son who paid no rent after a few months. Needless to say he turned out to be controlling and she found out he cheated on her with a younger woman and she ended up losing a lot financially from the divorce.
oh dear
A lot of times just because you have a man does not make him a good companion or even if you’re married it does not make it him a good companion.
They want maid and cook and care taker
Thank you Ms Faye . I wish there were more people that have your experience and are willing to teach this to save women from these creeps
So true 👍
@@dorothywalker5411 qqqà
Laughing!!!! Loud!!! I think most women have the same experiences with men at times, Ms Faye. A dude came to a date with his suitcase.. not a overnight bag or toothbrush. A freaking suitcase!! 🙄It was our second and LAST date! Didnt even kiss yet. He says " I thought I'd bring some belongings since we will be spending time together". I was horrified!! I was like no no. We dont do that kind of stuff. I had to get a new phone number. He wanted to send me packages with his name on it. Huh? No thks!! My uncle said he was trying to establish a residence at my place👎. No way!!! Lol
Thanks for sharing
LMBO!!!!!!
I've experienced this too and had to call the cops to get him out..
He was a hobosexual 😂
WOW!! You dodged a big bullet coming your way. Sounds like he was a Homeless Shelter Creep. 😮
I'm an older woman and I have been dating off and on, and I do not sleep with anyone ever, I believe that is the wrong thing to do, your videos really help me thank you! keep posting them
Hello, thank you so much for your wisdom. I'm a single woman in my 40s and have no children. Thank you beyond words 💐💞💋
I met a narc when I was 44. He kept trying to triangulate me by telling me one of his female friends told him that a woman my age wants marriage. I was like she don’t know me, so why make assumptions. I didn’t know that he was a narc at the time. I don’t think his friend every said that. He thought I was desperate and wanted marriage. I was like I am not desperate for marriage. I love my peace. Needless to say it last 3 months. I went k no contact and blocked him. I was on an emotional roller coaster with him. I was like life is too short to be miserable.
@@bee12355
Bless you for seeing your worth.💕
I was in my 60's and dated a guy the same age that looked me right in the eyes and told me he was looking for a wife to take care of him. Like that was a plus or something. I broke up with him, I had no desire to be his care giver.
You definitely need to stay by yourself. Don't help is your moral compass.
I just lost my husband iam 67 years old have my own home lonely because children are grown and left but I am not a nurse aid owning your home is a catch to them iam living my life now not interested
Exactly. This guy was looking for a nurse and a home. He told me he wanted someone to take care of him. I finally decided I'm better off on my own. Thank you for your kind comment.
About online dating, I tell men I don't give men money for anything
Hi Faye. Great channel and I'm glad I was directed to you. You are speaking truth and for many they can't or won't hear it. Movies and fairy tales teach girls that their salvation is in a man. Despite the fact that in a lot of cases, the first man we know, our fathers, abuses substances, his wife, and even his children. Yet we still think we Need a man in order to be whole. Online dating is no more dangerous than church for meet a mate. Both are rife with predators, con men, DL brothers, and the pinocchio who can't grow up.
I spent the first 30 years seeking the fantasy, feeling unworthy, insecure etc. The next 30, married. Now I am a widow and there is no way I want some man in here messing up my groove. I am really loving myself, loving my power, enjoying my company.
When you really love yourself you won't have a "need" for place holders, be that people or consumer goods.
Thank you for sharing your views and allowing comments.
No matter if the person you are considering is online or in the church, you should pray about Anybody before going out with them. You shouldn’t be telling info about you to strangers.
TEACH HONEY!!
Wow, sorry to hear that you had to experience abuse from your father. Thank God mine's was loving and kind. Glad that you seem to have found peace ❤
@@deborahjames1822 I was not abused by my father. He was loving and kind to me. He was extremely abusive to my mother.
I dated a man who asked me to marry him, but he always brokeJ. If I bring the turkey, you must bring more than the soda. I have him the ring back and told him thank you, but no thank you
Woow I'm glad I landed on this video this woman is full of wisdom I'm 53 divorced for 3 years born again Christian no sex or a man in my life since we divorced women we also do not Ned toys for sex God sustains until the right person comes. I like what this wonderful woman said about what you want to be. Also, she said don't give men your power, Awesome, do not sell your house even if you get married, take care of yourself that's where we go wrong we spend alot of time taking care of others and neglect ourselves.
Thank you for sharing
Ms. Faye, it is so difficult finding a single decent man, especially if you want a black man these days. There are too many older women who have been alone for many years and they are lonely. Also, finding a man with not even one child is difficult unless he’s under 14.
Lol, damn. 😄 Under 14
If a man has never been married after 50, exit him out immediately,. So true.!
LMBO!!!!! And I have a brother that way,
Absolutely
The ex narc is now 53 yrs old. was never married and he thinks he's a play boy. Lol lol
It needs to be considered but it's not always an indicator that something is wrong with them. I am a woman who is going to be turning 50 and a horrible man made that same judgement about me, and without looking at his own history with women,. Sometimes people get discouraged with the way things are with the opposite sex. Sometimes they think that they are better off being single for life. I know someone who married in her later years and she is happy.
I be thinking tf is wrong with ya 🤔 every time I see one. I say I’ll pass
You are absolutely right!!! Yes, they are looking for someone to take care them. I'm nearly 60. I've been watching you for 2 days. Thank you so much.
Sometimes they just want your soul just for entertainment.
That part!
Amen.
Yep dirty b@stards
Truth
Dam
I would not date an American man I am 69, I get hit on by younger men but my deceased husband raised the ar for me 2006 so it's dauntingly frustrating to replace his shoes for the last 16 years, the dynamics have changed! and unfortunately reaching new lows....
The same thing happened to me my husband died iam 65 years old children are grown and moved on sometimes I do get lonely but my lady my husband spoiled me or in other words he showed me how a woman should be treated now his shoes cannot be filled left me in a lovely home let us live our lives in peace
Queen, please accept my deepest gratitude for your decision to share your infinite wisdom with us...with most of us...some of our mothers didn't know how to explain these treasured gems ...to us...they themselves may have been living afraid to live....Again Thank You....
I don’t give them my number. I give them a card with a QR Code that links to my website/personal brand. I don’t want any man texting me or bothering me lol 😂
This video is a good one. You are sharing reality. Hopefully older women as myself who do not consider the pitfalls you have highlighted will look at them seriously.Thanks for putting yourself out to assist seniors who find interest in dating. Appreciate your selfless effort.
Thanks for liking.
Miss Faye, thank you for all that you do. I am a 42 y/o young woman (😉) and so many things that you talk about is what my instincts tell me but my friends always tell me I’m thinking too deep into things and that I’m too rough on men. I just have standards. I started keeping my thoughts to myself because these ladies are lost.
I 💕 this lady. Thanks you for being that sister loving mother to all of us. Love you 💗 Goat Great One
God bless You have been sharing good eye sight hope the people listening thanks
So true mother❤ speak on it
Men are looking at you differently depending on your age.
Very excellent video!!! Thank you 😊 💓 ❤️ I hope tons of ladies listen to this one, even the young ones because it would be great to know this NOW whether youre young or old.
Thanks for sharing I have been single since 1998 and by myself since 2019. I honestly don't need a man for anything. Sometimes I feel lonely but it quickly passes. I love me some me.
I'm 53,widowed.. Decided to stay celebate. I'm at peace, happy, have fulfilling hobbies. So happy I found yr channel. 🙏🌹💃💕
Hi Miss Faye, I am so thankful for your advice. I am an older woman who hasn't been in a relationship for years, so I feel that I am unprepared. Keep talking we are listening,.
Miss Fay thankyou for passing on your life experiences and knowledge to all of us out here watching. Women need to look after each other.
Look Deep Before You Leap
That's a t shirt 👕
Yes I’m a divorced lady for 5 years and I’ve dated three men in the last two years. It allows me to have a man’s company to functions, a person to conversaré with over dinner out in a nice restaurant ect. But most of all you learn a lot about the person with out commitment and sex. You are spot on🌸
Men have always held me back or taken advantage of me 🤷🏻♀️ I’m done with that. Been celibate and single for 5 years. Before that 5 years of the same. I met a man and he was an abuser. So I’m done unless God brings me the right one.
Im 37, but Ive dated online. However, you have to be strong and tough and understand psychology. I reject and throw away most, but talk to them to test and see. The most pretty ones vanish in 5 minutes when I tell them Im into friendship and/or serious relationship. Most disappear. But people can be real, just have to vet them. Some pretend to be a friend just to attack you so never see them in private. Lol! I did meet a wonderful man who puts in efforts to be with me. Now it doesnt mean its ‘the one’, but maybe!!! We both fell for each other. Unless hes a narc or we are too different from each other but this can happen anywhere. I guess its about being mature and experienced or have the willingness to gain that experience in order to get that broad specter of opportunity! But you have to have tough skin and expect to be tossed to the side all day long after talking because theyre looking to get laid (but its not all of them). It is stressing and a tough environment but Im too lazy to go hunting in real life environments. Tried that as well and its just as stressing..
So wise beyond words! This should be required viewing for every female on the planet. Really needed to hear this. Really boosted my self esteem. Heartfelt thanks to you, Miss Faye. You are a treasure. Love you.
Things we really know, but delude ourselves otherwise.
It had been almost 20 years since I had dated a man and then met this narc when I went out to dinner with some friends. One of my friends is a narcissistic too. I let her go. She hurt me really badly too.
😢😢😢 I legit fell "prey" and trust me... It was draining and exhausting... I had to tell myself the truth and just gave him the needed distance to sort Himself. I agree with everything you said ma'am. Thanks alot for your wise words
I’m busting up at you saying u need to go and SEE if they do have a house and it’s theirs👊🏻! I dated a man for four months and I just let him tell me all about what he had. His two story house with a sauna on the back patio two fire places one in the master bedroom and all his great retirement pay. Well I found out his address. It was not far from where I live. So I went to his house when I knew he wasn’t home. I knocked on his front door to see if anyone else would answer. No one answered but, when I tried to look through the front windows they were blocked from the inside. Why to save on heating. It helped to keep the cold winter weather we were having our😵! That was enough for me. I had seen enough 👊🏻. So when I saw him again I never told him I had gone to his house, but I asked him if his heating bill was high because of the cold weather and keeping a two story home warm must be expensive in the cold weather. He said oh no, I used chopped wood just to warm the master bedroom at night. Then in the daytime I light the fireplace downstairs only😩😵😪!!! I said to myself this is a stingy SOB! That’s exactly why he had the cardboard in his windows to help kee the heat in his home👊🏻. But he had been Bragg to me about he had a good income and retirement to have that big ass house and keep it up. It’s not like he lives in rural Montana and need to heat his home with fireplaces. No, he lives in the sunburn area of SAN DIEGO CA 😱😤!!! Dude was from the old school. Living by himself three years after his wife’s death. He didn’t cook, or clean. A daughter n law bought his groceries and prepared packaged meals for him to heat up! And she cleaned his house every week
I knew right then I had to just be friends with him and not get in any deeper than that.
So yes, check out these men. Make sure they are telling you the TRUTH ✋
I love your comments. I've been the nurse my first questions now are re health I don't want to be a nurse ever again. Until today I wanted companionship and sex. You mentioned one should focus on meditation and self I agree 💯 A woman should not be digging into your pocketbook every time you go out. I'm 69 yo, retired widow the man I'm with now doesn't bring enough to the table other than helping me around the house cutting grass, shoveling snow, etc. we barely have sex it's convenience this is not living. I paid my car, home off last year I'm debt free. I recently decided to seek therapy I need to learn to love myself to figure out how to get the best out of the last chapter of my life. Thank you for your podcast it was very helpful, my mother never shared anything.
OK, so Ms. Faye, first of all, I love your channel and thank you for sharing so much wisdom regarding men. You are so cool about telling your side. My question/concern is regarding your GROWN son still living at home. I've raised two sons and can not even imagine them living with me again, let alone STILL at home... I pray he's healthy. Aside from being disabled, HE needs to GO! I thank God that I know my sons are capable of taking care of themselves, for when my time is up on this side. And more than that I am so thankful they know how to treat a woman for when they choose their bride.
All true Miss Faye. Thank you. When I have a lonely feeling I turn up my music and dance around the house.
Faye I love you too much! You have said it all and those women who have ears should hear. I personally enjoy my own company. Most of these men have sold their birthrights, they often want to be dependent on you and also want to move in with you. I noticed they are homeless and lazy.
So glad I found your channel! Love your content and agree with you. I subscribed and will keep watching. I’m going on 3 yrs out of a 10 year relationship. It’s hard to be willing to start over especially in these times and what’s available.
I’m seeing women flipping homes and living alone., Women are more experienced in design. These women have dogs for company.
Shalom, Miss Faye. Well said. Thanks for sharing your wisdom and knowledge. I'm 55 as of last month - Retired Disabled 7 years ago but officially December 2019. I've found that being alone and living alone, I'm my most satisfied. I've been married and divorced twice....years ago. Independently run my own household about 27 years, so I'm used to being alone and handling my business. I'm now in the companionship stage of an about 6 year relationship. Happily celabent for about three years or so now - I didn't mark the calendar. I'm working towards not counting on his companionship so as to go in the peaceful traveling direction of my own choice in my truck and to let my son with his family oversee my house. I want to be free to see these national parks and waterfalls across our country. It's part of my bucket list. Definitely don't want to marry again because I felt enslaved. All in all, thanks for your insights.
You sound confused 😕
Absolutely correct! I was that kid, along with my brother… Unwanted by him, and got to see him, favoring my step brother. Took a long time to get over that resentment.
My son’s dad had an affair while we were married. And I made up my mind at that time that I would not do the same to my son. I waited until he was grown before I started dating again. Sadly, his dad did not, and he has a stepbrother, and he had to experience that anyway, from his dad and his stepmom with him
He lived with me, however, so thankfully it wasn’t as bad.
I’m 51 now, in a relationship three years now, no sex, and we were friends prior for a year before we decided to take the relationship further.
The expectations, and boundaries have been set from the beginning. I would not have considered it had. He had younger children, it would’ve been a case-by-case thing if he had adult children before I would’ve made that decision. I would have to meet them first otherwise no deal at the first hand of disagreement on my part or theirs.
I I absolutely refuse to do with anybody else’s kids, or a crazy ex. If by chance he would’ve had kids, he would’ve had to been a widowe or no deal.
I was a young mother, and I am enjoying life now, and how would freeze over before I would drop my freedom to raise somebody else’s kids. No way.
I really don’t care what people think, nor if they believe that I am selfish. I did find it as having high standards, and not excepting BS.
Knowledge is power! I am absorbing all the knowledge I can .thank you
Your children's well-being always comes first.
I'm a 62-year-old woman that has never been married because I've become enlightened that marriage. Isn't what it's cracked up to be..
SO VERY TRUE!! I NEEDED TO REALLY HEAR THIS!! THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR SHARING!!! BLESS YOU AND CONTINUE DOING WHAT YOU DO!!
Ms. Faye, you really give good advice. Most women, young and old, want the fantasy of the so-called "good man." There are young girls and women out here who accept anything in a male, they even turn a blind eye to the abuse this male always do to their children. It's men and women who are putting children through HELL, then these children grow up if they live through the abuse.
Ms. Faye, I have never trusted males in the way I hear you speak. If he was not giving me money and advancing my career in some way, I would always get rid of him. The first man I dated was trash, I was young, and I lived with him in his apartment. One day, he came home, and I was gone never to return. I never allowed a man to live with me. I never made this mistake again.
There are very few of women who know we are the prise.
Looking back, did I make some bad decisions yes, however, I would always correct them with the quickness. When I turned 26, I made a decision to stop dating and go forward with my own career. The best decision I ever made in my life. I'm now working on my own business.
I notice when I'm out and about girls and women are approaching men. Little do they know these kind of relationships never work unless they are willing to take care of this male, while he cheat will other women and cheat with other men. A very large portion of males are on the download, so many of the girls and women are ending up with STD's, AIDS and Syphilis. Look into this its happening more among black girls and women. Where do y'all think it's coming from? MEN
Wonderful discussion!
In our community it's even harder to find a mate/companionship when your disabled more so a disability that can be seen like mobility. You will be treated like you have the plague? No one wants a woman on a cane, wheelchair, and on a fixed income.
Thanks Miss Faye🌹 inn
What is your intentions for a man, to help take care of your disability with you? Not going to happy unless your being your best self because Your mind has to be truly your best self to the point that know one sees your disability. but everyone loves you, your mind body and soul. You have to put the work in first on yourself. Any man you get now (Only if you don’t think your disability gets in the way) Thinks that you need them. It’s a price to pay for their so called love. My opinion
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Become Disabled and Answer all Your Questions for yourself and your Life Needs! Then make a comment! Learn as you Live! Who Stated I was Disabled? Don't Make Assumptions about others I suggest first you ask a few questions such as Are you speaking from Personal experience or from another's view point!
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@@sonyaj.6736 I am coming from Mother Nature, Big Momma’s house! , God the Glory and love for you. Just my opinion. Get yourself together how? Go within your heart talk to your spiritual self. Tell them your deepest desires and asked them to show you how to love again. God bless you!
If a men approach you he wants something facts 100
Oh no, they Do. We're 'easier' to take advantage of.....they Think. My disability has protected me from being w/ Any dude 👍
Good Discussion Miss Faye! Great advice! As woman Love is Blind! We need to go into relationships with our eyes wide opened!
You are a treasure. I just came across your platform. Thank you so much for sharing your wisdom and dropping pearls
Exactly 💯
62 and living my best life stress free and peaceful and very thankful I'm loving life too the fullest.
Miss Faye I agree with most of everything you say buuuuut, the day I don't get excited about a good looking man just go head and tho dirt in ma face.😵
A Man of good character
Bible based and spiritual
A man who has short and long term goals
Facts i do not want to date a man with kids nothing but baby mama drama and confusion you are so right
Ha! I know most of those experiences you mentioned Ms. Faye! 😂 I’ve encountered a lot of it over the years.
The bombardment with calls, the lying about having much, the I’m clean and not hanging with no good guys anymore claim, and so on! 😮 It’s weird how guys tout how they don’t want good women when they are young but tries to worm their way in with good women when they get older! 😮
What makes them think they deserve a nice decent woman, that they intend to do nothing but deceive, is really strange male phenomena. But nevertheless is what decent women at any age have to protect themselves from. Intruders trying to enter them.
This is a patriarchal society and men know that women will always desire their Matrix Handler. All they have to be is polite at best to get a woman.
You are a godsend for so many women.. of ALL ages. I thank you! ❤
I love how you keep it so real Ms Faye!!!
My mom is in heaven now she was a pretty looking woman and kind I remember at 45 yrs old she turned to me and said you feel or become invisible to men And it was sad to hear her say this but I feel she was saying that men stop looking at you but also they wont help you like if you need oil changed ect ask a question young they are falling over themselves .ask at 45 they look at you like you are bothering them awful
Miss Faye,
You are so right! When I listen to you, especially on this one, I hear my own enter voice, and I do follow it.
I am a mature woman also!
Love your sharing wisdom, especially for our younger women.
Thanks for your voice of wisdom sharing it with us all.
Love your caps and affirmations on them! Appreciate your channel.
My experience with my situationship of 15 years. His children did not really like me. They used me but would take what was good and then go bad mouth me to their father and his other supply.
Noooo, best to remain single, with your own child or children and have best friends and house pats. You can still be happy this way even at 50!
There are good men out there, but the odds are against it, and don't assume the one you have has beaten the odds.
Ex said he had a beautiful place in the mountains. Reverse image search told me his texted photos were bogus.
You should have told him " And I own ocean front property in Arizona!" 😂
Great video!! Theses young women need to watch theses videos!
Yes they need to because these young men are really messing them up, men that have a child mind, those who will work, have white girls they will treat them right and marry them too, back in my day the closest a black man could get to a white girl was girls whose daddy was white or a mother whose father was white.
You're a Queen and you've earned your crown👑
Miss Faye, with all due respect, your advices may be realistic but I disagree that good things, like a good man, come from "the universe," and "the universe" will grant my desire when the time is right. I believe differently because I believe in the almighty God who loves me and every good and every perfect gift comes from the Father of Lights.
Bless you.
Amen! Pray about it. God is good...
Hello Miss Sunshine! 😁 Narcs are presentable and charming. Looking back, all the men I met in my life wanted to move in with me. I've never met a man that did anything for me or liked me for the right reasons. They are Gigalo's
Thank you I needed to hear this, men are looking for help not love
Miss Faye, you're a trip!! And you speak the truth! I'm 63 and have not dated for a while. I'm coming to realization of what you speak of. Thank you for putting it all into plain English! I cannot find a use for a man at all.
You are telling the truth to the 100th power. I lost my first home when I was married listening to the lies that my husband was telling me.
There's an acquaintance, she is a single mom of 2 adult children. She is almost 50 years old talking about if a man is hot or not.....why is she still thinking like a 20 year old. Unbelievable. How is she not talking about responsibility, security, character qualities. Looks fade. You are right about mature dating.
Golden words: Having a man in your life can be physically and mentally detrimental.
I didn’t date anyone unless I did a background check on them.
Ivana Trump once said that she could choose to be either a babysitter or a nursemaid for a man. She said she chooses to be a babysitter, lol.
She married up big time while she was a nurse maid for The Donald, so she made it worthwhile for herself for a few years until she tripped or was pushed wearing her expensive high heels down her expensive stairs. The moral of the story is that there is sometimes a price to be paid if you are greedy and sell your soul. 😮
I have found your channel and I needed your advice many years ago, and I need it today. Thank you for your advice. I am 62 years old and I still don't understand dating.
Thank you for all your good advice. I have learned a very good lesson from all of my mistakes.
I have been divorced for 2 years and separated for for 41/2 years and I putting my standards up high . No smoking , drinking , unhealthy eating gambling , no religious fanatics, . I B want someone to have fun with , enjoys outdoors, museums, going to plays and antiquing, going in day trips. My ex still making poor choices . He said I will have to take care of you when your older . I said no you won’t . I have our children. They are adults-‘and barely speak to him. In the end he lost everything .men don’t seek me out and that’s a good thing . My mom list my father at the age of 58 due to a long term illness and she never remarried . She said I am not cleaning up and taking care of any man.she is 91 and never remarried . She has us kids and grandkids and she said that’s all she needs . Sending love and positive vibes to everyone