China’s Leftover Women Overwhelming? 1:9 Male-To-Female Ratio in Dating

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  • @brianhusted3909
    @brianhusted3909 3 місяці тому +702

    A young dog chased his tail relentlessly till he was exhausted. As he lay upon the ground panting, a mature dog asked why he was chasing his tail. The young do responded, "I was told happiness was in my tail."So, I am trying to catch happiness." The mature dog said it is true that happiness is in my tail. It always goes with me."

    • @InVinoVeratas
      @InVinoVeratas 3 місяці тому +31

      This is the only original top Comment that survived rhe first purge of comments, will it survive another day? Only the UA-cam algorithm can decide.

    • @sleepinglaffey3886
      @sleepinglaffey3886 3 місяці тому +11

      Patriotism of Xinnie PorkPooh #slopaganda #misery #shillbroth
      - With stimulus and measures, China's debt will be at 400% to 500% of its GDP in the next decade, according to Reuters.
      -Chinese 🇨🇳 property Ponzi sector, which accounts for 30% of GDP, is crashing
      -Tofu Exports and Western imports, accounting for 37% GDP, are down.
      -Foreign investment is falling over 90% compared to it's peak in 2018.
      -Foreign visitors are down 96% compared to the pre-pandemic level in 2019 with less than 200 americans left.
      -Consumer prices and pay are experiencing hyperstagdeflation while necessities are undergoing hyper flation.
      -Youth unemployment hits over 21% (in reality 75%+ after eliminating faked numbers), a record.
      -It's fast shrinking workforce is 10 years old than neighboring countries.
      - During the years 1990-2021, the US printed 6.5 time more money while China printed 147 times.
      - It has printed more money than the US and Japan combined, while it's economy is only half of them.
      - Current Chinese debt-to-gdp is already highest in the world, at 300%, according to Bloomberg.
      - This is a macroeconomic nightmare created by the party going way back in 1994 when they took the Tofu money off the international exchange. Now in 2024, the banks and the average little pink have no idea what is the ACTUAL value of anything within the country. Any stimulus from the Central state. will be meaningless and ineffectual because the Central Bank is a part of the Party. Thereby merging both fiscal Central and monetary private policies into one ongoing disaster. Local province officials were doing stimulus spending for decades in tandem of the "Economic Miracle" which will undermine any Central stimulus during an actual depression/recession or more accurately.. HYPERSTAGDEFLATIONARY NIGHTMARE.
      -- in the future house prices will drop to 10%, youth unemployment will be over 90%+ without streams, and middle class people over 35 will all be laid off with pays trimmed in half.
      How will you do in a country where real estate companies, local governments, and banks across China have crashed or fled? That is your challenge for the future (will you own a trash house with the mortgage?). Pensions will be laundered and your daily pay will be 1-2 dollars while you drink Poop Water and eat gasoline cooking oil while the Party and Porkpooh eat Tegong Special food supplies.
      Mengze harvard daughter: lives in US brother: australian green card daughter in law: british green card sister: canadian citizen brother in law: canadian citizen second sister: australian green card second brother in law: australian green card
      Arctic Catfish Shenzhen: laughs at how Leeks feed her
      Fei Fei Li the AI Spy and stealer-Has ties to the Party with Tsinghua University
      WOW SO GOOD AWESOME Organ Leeks #sloprosperity #theskydontlie

    • @Zane-It
      @Zane-It 3 місяці тому +8

      Sun Tzu art of war

    • @henrycarlson7514
      @henrycarlson7514 3 місяці тому +2

      @@InVinoVeratas So Wise , Thank You . I MUST REMEMBER

    • @CasimiroBukayo
      @CasimiroBukayo 3 місяці тому +4

      Hello, I identify as a tail

  • @sbalogh53
    @sbalogh53 3 місяці тому +1164

    Most men are ordinary. Most women are ordinary.

    • @Peter2k84
      @Peter2k84 3 місяці тому +126

      Yeahhhh, but we told women for decades that they are the most awesome and special -> goes to expactations.
      A woman that really is all that, really is that special,......., just most women are not in truth.

    • @vaguincolombia
      @vaguincolombia 3 місяці тому +29

      Bingo!. You said it all brother.

    • @vaguincolombia
      @vaguincolombia 3 місяці тому +62

      @@os10v311 you mean "WOMEN dont want to settle with ordinary men". Well in that case, cats and wine will be their destiny. 90% of women or even more are looking for that 5% or 1% of men?. Numbers dont lie, many of them will be single forever.

    • @MaskedVigilante-gw4jx
      @MaskedVigilante-gw4jx 3 місяці тому

      And for some reason those `ordinary women` arent even viewed as good for conscription into the army. We make them feel `special` and they start having a skewed view of the world. Their singlehood is the result.

    • @searklarak
      @searklarak 3 місяці тому

      No, modern single women are brainwashed to believe they are 9s and 10s and that they shouldn't settle for anything less than the perfect man. Even a 200lbs woman in her 40s will have her other female friends tell her she's a catch and that men are missing out by not giving her a chance. It isn't until the clock starts ticking that their looks are fading and that dying alone with cats, boxed wine, anti-depressants and a very active TikTok or IG account with her toxic clips becomes part of her passing.

  • @zevil89
    @zevil89 3 місяці тому +464

    I'm Chinese. Getting Chinese women to pay for their share even at a restaurant is like pulling a tooth out of a tiger. This is a bad case of minor league players wanting to play in the major leagues. They aren't taught that a marriage where the guy pays for everything and affords a luxurious secure life is only reserved for the hyper-beautiful 1%. Note "hyper-beautiful" not just someone "pretty" or "cute".
    This is happening not only in China but also among overseas East Asians. The cause is really bad parenting. Parents raise them with the "If you're going to get married make sure you're not getting into a bad bargain" instead of "find someone who you get along with and build a life together". Nothing really wrong by itself, it's just incompatible with modern society where the cost of living has skyrocketed.

    • @jamesviktorovich
      @jamesviktorovich 3 місяці тому +31

      I bet they all own a few Chanel bags though, don’t they?

    • @marcosyy87
      @marcosyy87 3 місяці тому +12

      She shouldn't pay for anything lol. Isn't it better to find a healthy, young and caring person? This is what the lady in the video lacks. Screw her graduation or money

    • @aimless-drifter
      @aimless-drifter 3 місяці тому +17

      I'd pay for all of the expenses, housing, car, food, vacations, except it wouldn't be luxurious. I don't pay luxuries things even for myself out of principal.

    • @zevil89
      @zevil89 3 місяці тому +13

      @@aimless-drifter Sounds good but doesnt work in reality since many of them in the video have been used to lavish lifestyles prior to marriage.

    • @elainapowell5237
      @elainapowell5237 3 місяці тому +17

      To be frank, it is as much bout survival in China as it is anywhere else. You are right, the cost of living has skyrocketed. So jas the cost of raising a child. Telling women to not marry a 1%er is telling her to live in poverty during the marriage. The rest should just remain single for a higher quality of life. If a government cannot provide the bare minimum of a stable economy and affordable quality of life, then the government/country does not deserve another generation to abuse. Period. Almost all cost-of-living issue will be solved by reducing our population by not breeding, think like Eruope post black death.

  • @djm2189
    @djm2189 3 місяці тому +65

    Story time. Im 29, 6'2, earn $120k, no debt. Took friend to SeaWorld, he brought his cousin. She seemed cool enough. Dating came up and i said im just having fun right now. She's 32, divorced with a kid, shes also heavier and 5ft tall. I asked her and she said shes looking and i got her to list her requirements. She said the dude must be 6ft, earn at least 100k, and support her to be a stay at home mom... I calmly said ok cool, now why would that guy choose you over another? She was flabbergasted 🥴🥴🥴🥴

    • @HelenaBoutel
      @HelenaBoutel Місяць тому

      That's hilarious... Why are these women so delusional. I don't understand these requirements or not being able to look at themselves as a comparison

    • @chiangweytan5937
      @chiangweytan5937 Місяць тому +1

      You earn 120k @ 29 and brought a guy friend to SeaWorld? Because.......?? I get the stereotype of bringing the boys for a night out in Vegas or something along those lines but... SeaWorld? It's either for families or couples......or marine animal fanatics...

    • @djm2189
      @djm2189 Місяць тому

      @@chiangweytan5937 had an extra ticket, they have roller coasters. I prefer 6 flags. Everything was "free" since I have a year pass and got him a ticket. Chilled, saw some shows rode roller coasters. It's not crazy. Many people here do that. I literally live 5min from SeaWorld.

    • @Mashiris
      @Mashiris Місяць тому +1

      @@chiangweytan5937 Yeah that sounds weird ngl

    • @nathantowe4148
      @nathantowe4148 14 днів тому +1

      @@chiangweytan5937 seaworld is awesome, I would definitely go to seaworld with the boys. idk about only going with just two other people tho, you got to take the whole gang

  • @canopusstar5157
    @canopusstar5157 3 місяці тому +188

    Marriage is no promise of happiness; it is a hope.

    • @geebee8989
      @geebee8989 3 місяці тому +17

      Marriage is not about happiness at all. Marriage is about creating a stable environment for having children and raising them.
      This is why older women are screwed. A woman getting older is less able to have children.

    • @Firecracker876
      @Firecracker876 3 місяці тому

      @@geebee8989 the quality of sperm decrease with age, a male being older increase risk of child being born with Down syndrome, adhd, mental and behavioral disorders. It’s Scientifically proven if you look it up

    • @whilewaitingforthemothersh5366
      @whilewaitingforthemothersh5366 3 місяці тому +4

      It’s a guaranteed of unhappiness

    • @ThaboW11
      @ThaboW11 3 місяці тому

      @@geebee8989 Yes, it's about duty.

    • @thefoundationagent61
      @thefoundationagent61 2 місяці тому

      More like a crapshoot but aight.

  • @benyomovod6904
    @benyomovod6904 3 місяці тому +239

    Imagine, being a matchmaker and trying to tell them to forget their expectations

    • @Peter2k84
      @Peter2k84 3 місяці тому +33

      that is probably why so many matchmakers quit.

    • @kiaayo33
      @kiaayo33 3 місяці тому +41

      ​@@Peter2k84In America and the UK most matchmakers don't bother with specific groups and ages of women because of how difficult it is to help/match them.
      The funny thing is that most of the Matchmakers are women themselves yet they gave up on High Expectation Clients.

    • @JohnSmith-hv6ks
      @JohnSmith-hv6ks 3 місяці тому +17

      What can you do when no one can meet their client's standards. Even
      if a man does. Does such a rare man not have their own standards?

    • @djm2189
      @djm2189 3 місяці тому +14

      ​@@JohnSmith-hv6ks yup always one sided. These unicorn men exist BUT are they even still single? And do you in turn meet their requirements? Statistics say a big fat NOPE.

    • @pahakuutti
      @pahakuutti 3 місяці тому +12

      Her therapist must be redpilled by now.

  • @Luminousplayer
    @Luminousplayer 3 місяці тому +498

    Women also fail to consider that highly successful men are harder to marry because of all the risk involved with divorce

    • @vaguedreams
      @vaguedreams 3 місяці тому +28

      wrong country mate.

    • @gregparrott
      @gregparrott 3 місяці тому +19

      I don't know if divorce laws in China are as stringent, let alone enforced as they are in western democracies.

    • @anneb3170
      @anneb3170 3 місяці тому

      @@os10v311

    • @fdk7014
      @fdk7014 3 місяці тому +4

      And there are a lot fewer of them around.

    • @zerosam5541
      @zerosam5541 3 місяці тому +3

      More like they have better option

  • @Peter2k84
    @Peter2k84 3 місяці тому +991

    when you are absolutly devastated, but still can not lower your standard from a CEO only

    • @marioxerxescastelancastro8019
      @marioxerxescastelancastro8019 3 місяці тому +44

      I found the incel.

    • @JohnSmith-hv6ks
      @JohnSmith-hv6ks 3 місяці тому

      Right about that. Anyone not a choice or executive is an incel

    • @sebastien1047
      @sebastien1047 3 місяці тому +173

      ​@@marioxerxescastelancastro8019have you not watched the video

    • @idk-ill-figure-smn-out
      @idk-ill-figure-smn-out 3 місяці тому +35

      ​@@marioxerxescastelancastro8019 Don't bother. There's only bitter men in these comments who are mad that women's standards aren't in the gutter. I keep trying to bring up alternative points to combat the narrative of this video, but they keep getting deleted. Either this channel or UA-cam itself clearly has an agenda.

    • @owenb8636
      @owenb8636 3 місяці тому +46

      ​@@idk-ill-figure-smn-out well I can see this comment so obviously something got through lol. What is your issue with the video

  • @Susan-z7m
    @Susan-z7m 3 місяці тому +79

    They are only sad because they are not married to a rich man at age over 30.

    • @ViceCoin
      @ViceCoin Місяць тому

      I'm over 50, single, and American.❤

    • @MsWindWaveSea
      @MsWindWaveSea 15 днів тому

      Life is hard. It's not a fairy tale.

  • @F15ElectricEagle
    @F15ElectricEagle 3 місяці тому +129

    "The difficulties that older single women face in getting married is because they view themselves as luxury goods."
    That plus the fact the market is overflooded with similar goods. Further, most successful men who have a stable high-paying job, owns a house without any mortgage, reasonably good looking and at least 1.8 meter tall are too smart to want any women who regard themselves as luxury goods.

    • @feliciaf8
      @feliciaf8 3 місяці тому +2

      And they are like a unicorn lol

    • @ura9390
      @ura9390 Місяць тому +1

      and why would an exceptionally sought after man go for an over 35 yr old, demanding, self absorbed career woman when he can take his pick and get someone young, devoted and gorgeous?

  • @billc6762
    @billc6762 3 місяці тому +390

    Most men know that can't afford to get married.

    • @89426
      @89426 3 місяці тому +11

      🎯

    • @Rocky-rh3rz
      @Rocky-rh3rz 3 місяці тому +33

      True true..
      But it's more likely that..
      Men 'can' afford to get married, but men can't afford 'fantasy'.

    • @GameFuMaster
      @GameFuMaster 3 місяці тому +14

      @@Rocky-rh3rz men can afford to get married, but can't afford to "stay" married

    • @Rocky-rh3rz
      @Rocky-rh3rz 3 місяці тому +11

      @@GameFuMaster @GameFuMaster about: men can afford "to get" married, and the NOT being able to afford "to stay" married.. I agree with you but only to some degree.
      Generally, these Chinese modern, leftover women at the onset of dating already demand:
      • nice luxurious house
      • car
      • high salary, and that high salary be given (to the would-be wife) without question (which is disrespectful)
      • (would-be) wife's parents to be taken care of and live with them (which is intrusive)
      • (would-be) husband's parents should NOT live with them, nor the wife having any responsibility to ever care for them (which is outrageous)
      • ridiculous dowry 👈👈
      .. that last part alone is already way too expensive.. so generally NO, most men can't afford their demands to get married

    • @GameFuMaster
      @GameFuMaster 3 місяці тому +5

      @@Rocky-rh3rz dowry is like a marriage ceremony, a one off thing that you could get a loan for if necessary.
      But the upkeep of a marriage is the main issue (cashflow)

  • @ericwilliams1659
    @ericwilliams1659 3 місяці тому +199

    Didn't the one child policy make it so there is far more men than women in China?

    • @th6566
      @th6566 3 місяці тому +26

      yes, this is explained in the video...

    • @angrydragon4574
      @angrydragon4574 3 місяці тому +39

      Yes, for YOUNG men. The one-child policy didn't end the whole female population and there simply happens to be an insane amount of old women in China and nobody wants old women.

    • @Peter2k84
      @Peter2k84 3 місяці тому +33

      Yes, but a women 35+ that is looking only for a CEO or better is not the solution.
      Some of the videos (which is funny; in China) are so extremly off what the women is looking for, compared to the man she goes on for a blind date is looking for.
      If a women is indeed succesfull, then she will look for at least same level.
      Even if he is a terrible husband, but at least the income is same or higher.

    • @Ghekko-kw3zz
      @Ghekko-kw3zz 3 місяці тому +21

      ​@@Peter2k84meanwhile the guys they want are either already married or only interested in humble under 30's.

    • @LegendOfShadow1
      @LegendOfShadow1 3 місяці тому

      Yes, but not really. The devil is in the details as they say: Boys were prefered in rural areas where farmers needed more hands, in the cities there was no significant preference for men over women however, there was a slight skew towards women being born I believe (somebody can correct me here). Since women generally marry equal or higher socio-economic status men you are now left with a lot of single , poor men from the country side that no woman wants to marry and most of the city men that have a decent job have lots of options, if they even want to settle down at all. There simply are not enough high-earners that are tall and attractive that women want, there are plenty of the single farmers from the country side though. In the end the ratio pans out to something like 80% of the women in cities chase the top 1-5% of men, so why would those men settle down? they just pick at young woman when they do want to settle down later in life, meanwhile all those other dozens of women are left single and past 30.

  • @vaguincolombia
    @vaguincolombia 3 місяці тому +197

    Women, the key is not find any man to marry with. The key is to find a man WITH VALUES! NOT MONEY!.

    • @jrpark05
      @jrpark05 3 місяці тому +10

      Sir, that is sooooo misogynistic! ;)

    • @jeffreyadams648
      @jeffreyadams648 3 місяці тому +2

      Few and far between.

    • @cao6496
      @cao6496 3 місяці тому

      😮 idiots made tons of these videos to play China women!?

    • @GameFuMaster
      @GameFuMaster 3 місяці тому +4

      @@Ariel-x1x you'll never have enough money if you never stop to question your desires.
      For example, lots of people want a mansion, but why do people want a mansion, and what are they going to do in a 10 bedroom home?

    • @dorjedriftwood2731
      @dorjedriftwood2731 3 місяці тому +3

      I don’t think there are any guarantees and no young person man or woman is a good judge of character that is something that only comes with time. I actually would bet a lot of these women probably had stable relationships with men they were in love with but realized that they weren’t good people.
      More to the point many women I have spoken to that are older and single actually have horror stories about coming to the realization that the man was a complete fraud. One X of mine had a child and got married only for him to leave her flee to a different country and come out as gay. Personally I am a serial monogamist but have soured on every long term relationship because I realize the women is not good for my mental health and yes that absolutely is because I am fundamentally attracted to that kind of person “exciting or dark” are traits I find irresistible in women and it’s not something I can control it’s just my chemistry, stable women just don’t feel attractive to me or aren’t attracted to me, I only say the second part because it does seem to be mutual I tend to notice the girls who are twisted and they seem to gravitate towards me.
      I only say this because I absolutely wish I had healthier taste or when I was younger was more conscious of the ideas I had about what my dream girl would be but I am definitely a Marla from fight club guy. And when I was younger I really didn’t consider how forming those tastes would affect my life.
      Telling people pick a good person when they are young is completely nuts. No young person has the self control to just not be attracted or the insight to try to pick wisely. People say these things because they happen to either been through it and it’s to late for them. Or they were someone who naturally has good taste in a partner but in my experience most young women are just into what they are into in a similar way as me when I was younger. I have never heard a young woman talk about stability or anything of the sort. It all mostly seems to be about chemistry, the few women who I hear talk about money above everything, all I see is guys scam those girls. As someone who used to be very wealthy one thing anyone who has money really really does not want is to be wanted for money. When I had half a million dollars in my bank account I drove a civic for that exact reason. That is when I noticed that men much less successful than me but who made a show of looking rich got much more attention. I was not at all hard on the eyes either but I never once attracted that sort of person because I do definitely feel it’s an image thing. Nobody cared I had money if I didn’t live large, I kinda regret it but only in the sense of missed adventure I never would have been happy settling with someone for money anyway. Plus since I don’t have any of that obviously they would have left do it was wise to look for not that.
      I enjoy giving people dating advice when they ask but the only authentic thing I feel can be said is you can’t choose who you love. The most common thing I hear from young people is express doubts about weather they should stay with someone but I always just ask if I told you “yes, absolutely you should leave them would you” they always say no. And that’s the point people kid themselves into thinking they have a choice. I would almost admire someone who could be with someone just for financial benefit just because it would literally be making life a job. But I don’t think that is what it is about. I don’t think these women want to be unreasonable they just want what they want and have to live with that. Wanting something unreasonable is how you end up single, I am saying that as much about myself as anyone.

  • @SomeDayDreamer
    @SomeDayDreamer 3 місяці тому +73

    Don't feel sorry for them these are crocodile tears.. I am married to a wonderful HK woman for 10 years who didnt' marry for all the stupid crap they hold to here. She just happened to love me as a person. Put everything else secondary and understands that marriage is a partnership, we rise or fall together. But if you fight for your marriage you will rise. These womens can kick rocks lol.

    • @steveportice3560
      @steveportice3560 3 місяці тому

      Melea is an attractive woman, maybe she needs to be looking elsewhere, I would like to find a woman such as her that doesn't act as if she is the prize like the western woman.

  • @FrankHouston-v5e
    @FrankHouston-v5e 3 місяці тому +178

    "My personality isn't great", she realizes she is the problem.

    • @skyak4493
      @skyak4493 3 місяці тому +9

      I thought this video is a waist of time but that line made it worth it.

    • @thelabinschogamer7267
      @thelabinschogamer7267 3 місяці тому +5

      lmao yea

    • @idk-ill-figure-smn-out
      @idk-ill-figure-smn-out 3 місяці тому

      @user-wg3rr9jh9h It sounds like she's *purposefully* trying to keep men away. Think about it, what does she ACTUALLY need a man for? She already has her own money, property, and a stable career. And she probably a healthy social life as well, since she isn't weighed down by kids or marital responsibilities. What's a man gonna offer her at this stage of her life? His sperm? An increased share of domestic labor? A statistically higher likelihood of being abused or unalived? Seriously, she probably agreed to having this video documented in order to get her family off her back about marriage. Additionally, Chinese society is still VERY sexist. It was only 20 years ago that female children were being offed or abandoned on a regular basis. Openly admitting she doesn't want a man could risk her career and draw attention from violent men who feel entitled to her since she's "damaged goods".

    • @idk-ill-figure-smn-out
      @idk-ill-figure-smn-out 3 місяці тому

      It sounds like she's *purposefully* trying to keep men away. Think about it, what does she ACTUALLY need a man for? She already has her own money, property, and a stable career. And she probably a healthy social life as well, since she isn't weighed down by kids or marital responsibilities. What's a man gonna offer her at this stage of her life? His sperm? An increased share of domestic labor? A statistically higher likelihood of being abused or unalived? Seriously, she probably agreed to having this video documented in order to get her family off her back about marriage. Additionally, Chinese society is still VERY sexist. It was only 20 years ago that female children were being offed or abandoned on a regular basis. Openly admitting she doesn't want a man could risk her career and draw attention from violent men who feel entitled to her since she's "damaged goods".

    • @idk-ill-figure-smn-out
      @idk-ill-figure-smn-out 3 місяці тому

      @@FrankHouston-v5e It sounds like she's *purposefully* trying to keep men away. Think about it, what does she ACTUALLY need a man for? She already has her own money, property, and a stable career. And she probably a healthy social life as well, since she isn't weighed down by kids or marital responsibilities. What's a man gonna offer her at this stage of her life? His sp£rm? An increased share of domestic labor? A statistically higher likelihood of being abu$ed or unali>ed? Seriously, she probably agreed to having this video documented in order to get her family off her back about marriage. Additionally, Chinese society is still VER sexis+. It was only 20 years ago that female children were being ○ffed or abandoned on a regular basis. Openly admitting she doesn't want a man could risk her career and draw attention from vi○lent men who feel entitled to her since she's "damaged goods".

  • @krankenhaus1991
    @krankenhaus1991 3 місяці тому +236

    Men just grows smart enough to stop seeking shame on dating market.
    Dating is damn cruel to most men nowadays.

    • @ronnie5329
      @ronnie5329 3 місяці тому +1

      You can find women with healthy attitudes on international dating sites, if you are 1) around avg in looks in a western country 2) has around avg income in a western country.
      I dont know why american women behave the way i see on social media, but I would run away from such a dating scene. Women are feminine and nice elsewhere, even women with high degrees. And many would be interested in dating am avg western man in his 30s.

    • @Npc1488-wc1kf
      @Npc1488-wc1kf 2 місяці тому +15

      Yes
      Lots of low value monsters pretending to be upper tier

    • @huananina
      @huananina 2 місяці тому

      Maybe it wouldn't be as cruel if you stopped talking about women as if they were cattle.​@@Npc1488-wc1kf

    • @ura9390
      @ura9390 Місяць тому +5

      the 9:1 ratio shows exactly that. The men aren't even bothering with the matchmaking, they know that with women like this, with these expectations, there is just no point

  • @Mojaveknight17
    @Mojaveknight17 3 місяці тому +141

    They can't find the perfect man

    • @Peter2k84
      @Peter2k84 3 місяці тому +20

      If the list is as long as a book, no wonder though.

    • @kiaayo33
      @kiaayo33 3 місяці тому +5

      ​@@Peter2k84☝️💯

    • @kazi20011
      @kazi20011 3 місяці тому +6

      What considered perfect? If your going to be picky just stay alone and stop complaining.

    • @SithLordAnakin
      @SithLordAnakin 3 місяці тому

      5:00 like this one needs to STFU an learn to place... she dont bring nothing to the table at all and is asking for alot.

    • @ViperStrikesAgain0160
      @ViperStrikesAgain0160 3 місяці тому +5

      The mythical Asian Chad preferably all women want

  • @user-kg2ez1eg2y
    @user-kg2ez1eg2y 3 місяці тому +110

    They are not looking for a man who will save them from loneliness, they are looking for a walking ATM that will solve all their problems for them. Even rich women don't want happiness with men, but want more money from men. Do you feel lonely, just call the bear. Bears are a great option for women with their high standards and boundaries. Grizzle Grizzle

    • @M_SC
      @M_SC 3 місяці тому +6

      Lol bitter and alone much

    • @Mupyeong
      @Mupyeong 3 місяці тому +15

      ​@@M_SC Have you watched some of these? Now, to be fait, both men and women in China have astronomical expectations.

    • @camichiBichi
      @camichiBichi 3 місяці тому +2

      Spit out that red pill, just try to be happy

    • @user-kg2ez1eg2y
      @user-kg2ez1eg2y 3 місяці тому +10

      @@camichiBichi 1 time is an accident, 2 times is a coincidence, 3 times is a pattern, and 4 times is a system, and 5 times is it?

    • @DiligoBarba
      @DiligoBarba Місяць тому +1

      Oh crybaby these ladies said they are
      looking for a husband educated women
      need love too. The fact that they want a
      man that makes as much as they do is
      not a bad thing. Women in their 30s have kids all the time in the West.
      So what you are saying is they can't
      have their equal just because they
      are getting married as an ADULT
      and NOT a 20 year old that's NOT
      even an adult and can't really make
      a consensual choice about getting
      married in the first place. What's
      wrong with getting married to someone
      your own age? Why do men insist on
      being pedophiles hum? Young girls
      can and do cheat on men all the time
      I guess when I see it I just won't tell the
      husband about it after all he wanted to
      marry a child. When the woman in her
      30s or older is way more likely to be
      faithful.

  • @colemarsh13
    @colemarsh13 3 місяці тому +83

    Men going their own way is worldwide 🌐

    • @PrecursorYang
      @PrecursorYang 3 місяці тому +5

      The original men going their own way talked about philosophy, the meaning of life, the truth of the world. The modern men going their own way today are lost without them guiding them. Sad that most men will never get to hear the wisdom of truth by these men on youtube.

    • @tabithan2978
      @tabithan2978 3 місяці тому

      Nothing the sperm bank can’t solve for women.

    • @YourHineyness
      @YourHineyness 3 місяці тому

      @@tabithan2978 I'm sure being a single mother in China is a real fun time.

    • @colemarsh13
      @colemarsh13 3 місяці тому +4

      @@PrecursorYang I disagree

    • @ReysRants
      @ReysRants 2 місяці тому

      Women are too… worldwide it’s a movement
      I just watched one of these documentaries 50% of Chinese women don’t want to get married lol their govt has launched campaigns to convince them to do so

  • @relaxwithme3266
    @relaxwithme3266 3 місяці тому +74

    My wife is beautiful. The day I met her, I had no job, a 25 year old car, and a bad smoking habit. My language was unclean. But knew the second I met her I could and should change. And she didn’t even ask me to. I worked hard because she was kind and supportive. Now we are married with kids and a house. And I have a good job. Thanks be to God. I feel lucky to have met such a woman after seeing the state of things these days.

    • @frillylily8005
      @frillylily8005 Місяць тому +1

    • @derek400004
      @derek400004 Місяць тому +5

      My man, I'm proud of you!

    • @amanrrajsinhaa
      @amanrrajsinhaa Місяць тому +3

      You are Lucky...bcoz you are good man. Good soul deserved good soul...

  • @Mojaveknight17
    @Mojaveknight17 3 місяці тому +146

    Marriage is a social status in China

    • @DC-wo2yb
      @DC-wo2yb 3 місяці тому +30

      It's a social status everywhere in the world. There's no greater achievement in life than being married with a family that adores you.

    • @davidwestwater2219
      @davidwestwater2219 3 місяці тому

      Very few have that result​@@DC-wo2yb

    • @kiaayo33
      @kiaayo33 3 місяці тому +7

      Facts, in America it's a religious thing and some States even have Common Marriage Laws that forces "Marriage" on paper unless you can prove otherwise.

    • @Chronoic
      @Chronoic 3 місяці тому

      In America it's a scheme to get men to pay more taxes to the government.

    • @TrinhNguyen-sh4fj
      @TrinhNguyen-sh4fj 3 місяці тому +13

      @@DC-wo2ybThat is old school thinking and may be one of the reasons why the divorce rate is so high now.

  • @MrNiko535
    @MrNiko535 3 місяці тому +297

    So sad that these woman don't marry for love ,companionship, and life ,,,,,,but want money houses cars

    • @pendekarlautbiru
      @pendekarlautbiru 3 місяці тому +33

      They know they'll find love in a man's wallet.

    • @rengurenge
      @rengurenge 3 місяці тому

      Man marry for same reason - body, youth, unpaid domestic labor, wealth if she have it, status in other men's eyes. Love as only reason for marriage is poor mans invention, most peoples are calculating and will only want to be with someone who benefits them in some way.

    • @nosphosferaoneeyedcat701
      @nosphosferaoneeyedcat701 3 місяці тому

      So what you're telling me is you want a chick living the homeless life and eating out of the garbage with you?

    • @rightsdontcomewithpermits7073
      @rightsdontcomewithpermits7073 3 місяці тому +2

      I find it funny. 😂

    • @robertcuminale1212
      @robertcuminale1212 3 місяці тому +11

      This is very strange to me. I married at 21 in 1972. My intended was 23. I was in the US Navy. She had graduated with a BS in Physical Therapy. My family was dysfunctional. Her's was very stable.
      I was living out of the country and was her escort while while she was visiting her best friend whose husband was my supervisor. Afterward our entire relationship was through daily letters.
      Neither of us had money She had school debts to pay. I had a well paying job to return to after my enlistment in the Navy. I lost that job after 16 years and started a business.
      We're now retired and have been married for 52 years.
      In the Talmud it is said, "Women have hearts like cash boxes". It describes these women perfectly.

  • @SuperfluousIndividual
    @SuperfluousIndividual 3 місяці тому +192

    "She refers to herself as a high quality, older single woman." - I mean, if you brand yourself high quality, what do you expect? At least she was honest enough to admit her personality isn't great.
    I don't trust anyone who brands or refers to themselves as high quality. If a guy calls himself that, I'll scoff in his face. If a woman says that, to me, that's the equivalent to the connotation of a "bad bitch" or a "boss girl" that women these days love using so much but that, to men, it's the same as wearing a massive flag saying "I'll use you, cheat on you and constantly remind you that you're a piece of shit whom I married because I had no other choice".
    So, by all means, marry a sucker who falls for that crap. 🙃

    • @angrydragon4574
      @angrydragon4574 3 місяці тому +22

      A man who says he is high quality can back it up by his results. If countless women want him then he is high quality whether he calls himself as such or not.
      The same is true for women but in reverse - if she is high quality she would have been married long ago and would be committed to her husband and kids.

    • @artje90
      @artje90 3 місяці тому +24

      It's actually most of the times when people talk like that, actually lack the thing they praise themselfs to be.
      cause if you are what you say you are. you don't actually need to say it ever

    • @cryora
      @cryora 3 місяці тому +15

      Chinese companies that sell on Amazon also refer to their products as high quality.

    • @ilaril
      @ilaril 3 місяці тому +8

      Someone asks and I'm just ordinary. Have my interests, my hobbies, my life and my family. I have no reason to "upsell" myself to anyone. If that's a problem for someone then it's no problem of mine.

    • @angrydragon4574
      @angrydragon4574 3 місяці тому

      @@ilaril Women hate straightforward and boring men. That's literally why there's 1 man for every 9 leftover women in China, women seek grandiosity and abhor the ordinary and the mundane. What's ironic is that these leftover women will be absolutely lucky if they live out the rest of their lives in a mundane and ordinary fashion because once the men get fed up that'll be the end of the CCP and many, many people will lose their lives when that happens.

  • @glenglen6386
    @glenglen6386 3 місяці тому +29

    It's interesting that we see the same phenomenon all across the globe as society develops. Older women viewing themselves as intelligent beauty queens that deserve handsome, tall millionaires.

    • @ronnie5329
      @ronnie5329 3 місяці тому +1

      Social media and dating apps create delusion. That and women not understanding that men have standards too, that are different from what they view as attractive.

    • @CHAOSZEROE
      @CHAOSZEROE 2 місяці тому +3

      They will get them. They just have to keep waiting. One day. I swear. One day. Hahaha!

    • @ronnie5329
      @ronnie5329 2 місяці тому +5

      @@glenglen6386 its social media and dating apps that create this completely detached view of themselves. And what they can get commitment from. So they allow a man, attractive guy, to pump and dump them, and that takes a toll on them over time. It also explains the bitterness towards men from this group. They dont see the ocean of good men.

    • @edhuber3557
      @edhuber3557 Місяць тому +1

      Female hypergamy is globally common, but China seems to have an extra shade on the problem, perhaps due to: 1) An excess feeling of self-worth by some women (born of a period of 1-child-policy induced 'shortage'), and 2) An unusually high transactional view of marriage in China.

    • @ura9390
      @ura9390 Місяць тому

      Those BS perfume adverts "because you're worth it" etc filling their heads materialism and entitlement!!

  • @CatsMeowPaw
    @CatsMeowPaw 3 місяці тому +71

    You can buy a degree. A PHD. A fancy house. A fancy car. Go on the best holidays.
    But you cannot ever buy time. No one can. If a man wants to have a child, there is little point in meeting a 36 year old woman. 35 and above is considered a high risk pregnancy.

    • @BobbyLoo-jr8ys
      @BobbyLoo-jr8ys 3 місяці тому +15

      These women are book smart, BUT NO STREET smart or common sense.

    • @marcosyy87
      @marcosyy87 3 місяці тому +5

      👍

    • @markmoreno7295
      @markmoreno7295 3 місяці тому +9

      A simple concept yet basically true. Even some younger women will still have trouble conceiving particularly if they are into that whole -We are supposed to wait for the right night- thing. "Every night is the right night if you are really wanting to get pregnant." Said my medical school fertility professor in college. "No, you are not wasting it." He added seriously. Still, there are no guarentees. But If a man loves a woman, shouldn't that be good enough? Anyway look at the parents. If mom was having multiple healthy kids after the age of 50, then maybe her 28 year old daughter has a chance. My grandma had her last child (my dad) at age 54, but that is definately unusual, "You gotta marry them young." my grandpa said with a wink, and I am afraid he was right. He only lived to 96, but he had a very hard life.

    • @hazybliss4069
      @hazybliss4069 Місяць тому +2

      So this is an awful statement is is kinda untrue. There are 50 year old women getting pregnant, getting pregnant in your 30s isn't as high risk as you think it is.

    • @BobbyLoo-jr8ys
      @BobbyLoo-jr8ys Місяць тому +2

      @@hazybliss4069 Those women getting pregnant at 50s are and not natural. Think about it.

  • @conqc20
    @conqc20 3 місяці тому +125

    Its unreaslistic high standards, they are chasing men that dont exist. An if they do, they are high value and will date woman in their twenties and not a woman mid 30's.

    • @nicholasrockall7308
      @nicholasrockall7308 3 місяці тому +15

      Ooh that's harsh..! but true 😂

    • @evildrizzt1
      @evildrizzt1 3 місяці тому +1

      But they get impregnated by chad thunderstroke that lives in a trap house.

    • @feliciaf8
      @feliciaf8 3 місяці тому +9

      Thats the reality

    • @Pro-skie
      @Pro-skie 2 місяці тому +4

      Women in their 20s don't want old men unless he's paying for her time.

    • @bibibabibu1
      @bibibabibu1 2 місяці тому +3

      @@Pro-skie That's just what older single women tell themselves to feel better. Many women in their 20s date men in their 30s because of the stability.

  • @brianchu3317
    @brianchu3317 3 місяці тому +363

    Men don’t care about PhDs or Masters degrees. They want a good wife and mother.

    • @guill90
      @guill90 3 місяці тому +45

      Good cook too, love goes trough the stomach ❤

    • @BrendanSchmelter
      @BrendanSchmelter 3 місяці тому

      This 100%. Men will marry a poor woman who'd make a good wife/mother. Women never do this.

    • @kazi20011
      @kazi20011 3 місяці тому

      I'm a man, sounds like you're looking for a servant girl or MOMMY. Marriage is a team effort not a stupid male dominant situation.

    • @HipHopTheme
      @HipHopTheme 3 місяці тому +21

      Exactly. Men should provide and the women just need to be caring

    • @xdrazormon454
      @xdrazormon454 3 місяці тому +13

      And youthful appearance

  • @The9thMonth
    @The9thMonth 3 місяці тому +212

    This is how a society goes extinct.

    • @Fistful2923
      @Fistful2923 3 місяці тому +17

      Not extinct but more to population decline as social and economic engineering takes hold.

    • @InVinoVeratas
      @InVinoVeratas 3 місяці тому +16

      These melodramatic comments seeing the first signs of "fall of society" never take into account how far we can fall before extinction. We haven't even fallen yet, this is just the beginning.

    • @patrickjohnson195
      @patrickjohnson195 3 місяці тому

      Good God then what does the end look like?😢​@InVinoVeratas

    • @InVinoVeratas
      @InVinoVeratas 3 місяці тому

      ​@@patrickjohnson195look up "Behaviour Sink", its depressing and it's the clear indication if where all city dwelling societies are likely to beheading, as we have more and more people, with less and less space, the Behavioural norms that kept our societies steady, will begin to break and fall apart.

    • @baahcusegamer4530
      @baahcusegamer4530 3 місяці тому +5

      As others here put, it won’t be the “end of society” but it will certainly be the end as we know it. There simply won’t be enough young people to care for the old while running civilization. The elderly will often and increasingly die alone, as is seen frequently in Japan. The ones who survive to reproduce will inevitably be those with a value to do so, which their children will see and hopefully emulate. Since it is mostly through religious beliefs that western families have more kids than the average, those who follow such belief systems will grow in proportion to the general, aging population. Time will tell if the society that comes after will learn from any of this.

  • @RashaKahn
    @RashaKahn Місяць тому +28

    Sorry, I’m not a fan of the CCP at all, but didn’t the one child policy mess up the ratio that there were a lot more men than women available?

    • @sylvia470
      @sylvia470 Місяць тому +5

      Perhaps in the cities the ratio changes. More men stay in villages to work, while more girls go to study amd stay in the city.

    • @CommenterTenma
      @CommenterTenma Місяць тому +4

      in major cities like shenzen and shanghai the ratio is 9 women to 1 man. most of them wants CEO or sons of Billionaires who are handsome with muscles, six pack and 6 foot tall haha 😂
      should have told them being a mistress is an option.

    • @mugenmoogle4734
      @mugenmoogle4734 Місяць тому +2

      @@CommenterTenmathat 666 mark, and people tell me women aren’t agents of the devil lol

    • @harmhoeks5996
      @harmhoeks5996 Місяць тому

      ​😈

  • @marka8274
    @marka8274 3 місяці тому +20

    Not only China, this is a common phenomenon across Asia.

    • @Arven8
      @Arven8 2 місяці тому +6

      In the west, too, of course.

    • @SumayaSnaha-ru8zb
      @SumayaSnaha-ru8zb Місяць тому +2

      No you are wrong....I think only in East Asia....We don't have those problems and we have arrange marriages and our society don't seek for branded products!!!

  • @dancedance2866
    @dancedance2866 3 місяці тому +47

    Men have dated down since creation. Women get on Board!!! Plenty of good men keeping your light on, roads constructed, internet, food on tables, planes in air. Women date down and adapt!

    • @InVinoVeratas
      @InVinoVeratas 3 місяці тому +4

      Mainstream society has expectations, and those expectations have been implemented and become social norms for younger generations to emulate from. "Dating down" is akin to social suicide, in the perspectives of those that care what society thinks, which is mainly women

    • @th6566
      @th6566 3 місяці тому +2

      Absolutely. I don´t get their attitude. Maybe it´s a cultural difference when compared to more egalitarian countries? It´s ridiculous assuming that people without a degree are less educated, intelligent or capable of being a good partner. Would also be interesting to know why Chinese women are so much more educated than Chinese men. Maybe there are obstacles for men that could be removed. Still, the women´s requests are ridiculously high. They could just suck it up and be the main bread-winner.
      But then, some men´s egos don´t like dating up, so it might not be totally one-sided. And maybe even harder in a patriarchal society. Would be interesting to know more about that also.

    • @angrydragon4574
      @angrydragon4574 3 місяці тому

      ​@@th6566Men's egos don't like dating up? You must be on cocaine to say something that stupid.

    • @glitzerplastikchichi
      @glitzerplastikchichi 3 місяці тому +5

      @@th6566 Could it be that you see this too much on an individual level?
      Family expectations still play a major role in China; especially when it comes to marriage and the obligations that come with it: for example, taking care of your in-laws, etc.
      In addition, would Chinese men take on these responsibilities such as care work if the woman had a higher education and earned more? Even in Western countries, this is changing only slowly; not to mention China.

    • @th6566
      @th6566 3 місяці тому

      @@glitzerplastikchichi Fair point. Indeed, I was looking into it on a more individual level and through the eyes of a more egalitarian society...in which there are still expectations, but you're not instantly an outcast if you're not fulfilling all of them.

  • @5anjuro
    @5anjuro 3 місяці тому +19

    Physical beauty is passing.
    Money comes and goes like water.
    People who choose each other for the looks and the money are preparing their own disappointment and bitterness. It's mindboggling these women don't understand this simple fact.

    • @TrinhNguyen-sh4fj
      @TrinhNguyen-sh4fj 2 місяці тому +1

      You are so right and very well said! That is why you need to marry for true love, compatibility and other things not for money or physical beauty as those things go fast.

    • @gabrielzinho07_
      @gabrielzinho07_ Місяць тому

      Falling in love isn't a choice, and it's the only thing that really matters. Any other problem can be solved.
      If somebody demands a high salary and a house from a partner, that should mean they already have at least a high salary and a good house, so the money part of the equation would be pretty much solved already.

  • @BobbyLoo-jr8ys
    @BobbyLoo-jr8ys 3 місяці тому +11

    The guy in the video is absolutely right, an economic stable and handsome men are already taken by young and beautiful women. Many leftover women adv more than men in the marriage market.
    Only 40+ and divorce men can fullfill their requirement, yet they don't want divorced men. So I ask you Chinese mature ladies, who is the picky one?

  • @vincecarlton6842
    @vincecarlton6842 3 місяці тому +43

    From here. We see that there is no difference whether the women are from the West or East. Hypergamy exists. Women seek resources, men seek youth.

    • @ronnie5329
      @ronnie5329 3 місяці тому +2

      I will say one thing, the attitude of many chinese women are far better than women from north america, on average. I do not know what you have put in the water in north america, because something went sideways at some point.

    • @Arven8
      @Arven8 2 місяці тому

      Yeah, I was kind of surprised to see the same ideas come out of Chinese womens' mouths that I hear from Western women constantly. But then, I wasn't surprised, either. Part of this is female nature; the other part is that social media (along with feminist values) has infiltrated Chinese culture.

    • @hazybliss4069
      @hazybliss4069 Місяць тому +2

      Men wanting a younger woman is no better than a woman wanting financial security. In fact, financial security is more reasonable than wanting a younger woman yet it's a problem for women to ask for that.

    • @rogerhowell7592
      @rogerhowell7592 Місяць тому

      ​@@hazybliss4069this is human nature. Hard wired into us. We need to live with it not trying and failing to change it.

    • @hazybliss4069
      @hazybliss4069 Місяць тому

      ​​@@rogerhowell7592Which part is human nature? Striving for shelter and a comfortable life of course is human nature.

  • @Astro6655
    @Astro6655 3 місяці тому +130

    Girl below 20 - i don't care about men
    Girl below 30 - I have huge options
    Girl after 30 - please marry me

    • @lovepain7443
      @lovepain7443 2 місяці тому

      Girl after 30 is not girl but Wh*re who is being thrown out of market

    • @Pro-skie
      @Pro-skie 2 місяці тому +43

      Men after 40- ill pay young women to pretend to like me.

    • @TrinhNguyen-sh4fj
      @TrinhNguyen-sh4fj 2 місяці тому +7

      I am over 40 and enjoy being single. But I would not mind marriage to a good guy too. I would take care of him too and I am nothing like these women.

    • @Pro-skie
      @Pro-skie 2 місяці тому +3

      @TrinhNguyen-sh4fj yeah, but they are looking for 20 year Olds to use them, so they can cry about her taking half later.

    • @malbee280
      @malbee280 2 місяці тому +4

      @@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj Go to a church to find a good man, then there's no excuse if you fail.

  • @fialee8
    @fialee8 3 місяці тому +27

    I love the concept of the meat market... you find out your true worth really quickly if no one comes up to you. Those who are in demand have a line... those who don't, just stand there waiting for someone who will never show up.

    • @angrydragon4574
      @angrydragon4574 3 місяці тому +10

      This is true for women. For men we must take a different approach because 80 percent of men (or more) are considered unattractive. Hence why so many women become leftover women, most women would rather stay single than settle.

    • @wasdwasd609
      @wasdwasd609 2 місяці тому

      @@angrydragon4574 Yeah it blows my mind that women rate 80% of all men below average on looks alone... Like that's a real statistic. Now cut that by how many men are actually near them, make enough money, are nice enough, single, and actually wanting to meet, approach, and marry a particular woman. You, like every woman with these standards, have literally zero hope.
      Batshit insane.

  • @jerrywu6337
    @jerrywu6337 3 місяці тому +76

    Rich man can get 18-20 years old girl at any country any race. While woman after 30 is starting to losing their charm. Most of women criteria is a Rich man so only few who are really beautiful will get partner after 30

    • @FADNaR
      @FADNaR 3 місяці тому +16

      Even a man who is not rich can save money in a year or two and go to another country for an accommodating bride.
      And it will be an order of magnitude easier than persuading Westernized women to be more modest.

    • @nicholasrockall7308
      @nicholasrockall7308 3 місяці тому +10

      Not only lose their charm, but they start to become jaded and bitter. Who want's that?!

    • @joebloe4374
      @joebloe4374 3 місяці тому +9

      And for every wealthy single man in the world there are 100 attractive single women

    • @nicholasrockall7308
      @nicholasrockall7308 3 місяці тому +2

      @@Ariel-x1x From my own experience, I can totally agree with you on this 👍

    • @user-yb6tk1ru6x
      @user-yb6tk1ru6x 3 місяці тому +1

      Why don't they just date gold digging young men?

  • @SAMX2007
    @SAMX2007 3 місяці тому +37

    These women mask their intentions with the word love, by love they mean money. They are gonna be buried with their checklist.

    • @halleffect5439
      @halleffect5439 2 місяці тому +3

      As a men, i can smell that kind of women. Thats why social skills are important for men. Not wasting time and energy and love to someone who cant do the same.

  • @Ruth-os4mi
    @Ruth-os4mi 3 місяці тому +141

    Spinsters are nothing new. What's new is the internet allows them to whine for the cameras, instead of crying over the spinning wheel.

    • @linguistengineer588
      @linguistengineer588 3 місяці тому +5

      isolating and relationship-commoditising Technology and developed-world Feminism seems to make more spinsters than there used to be, loneliness awaits more than in the past.

    • @ronnie5329
      @ronnie5329 3 місяці тому +1

      ​@@linguistengineer588 i notice especially north american women seem to have played themselves. They are doing the bulk of complaining. Truth be told, dating has gone international, so an avg looking guy with and avg income, can find a woman with healthier attitudes abroad. Something went seriously wrong with the US culture.

    • @Npc1488-wc1kf
      @Npc1488-wc1kf 2 місяці тому

      Dude, its a blessing
      Ive always know women for what they are
      Raised by women and Im CHAD
      Ive seen their true faces forever
      But ALL guys Ive known are litey devoted simps and always will be

    • @goodnightmyprince6734
      @goodnightmyprince6734 2 місяці тому

      My mother would have been happier "a spinster" now her children inherit her issues. I would repeat her mistakes.

    • @alsparkproductions7849
      @alsparkproductions7849 2 місяці тому

      ​@@goodnightmyprince6734then do not follow on her footsteps.

  • @SerenityMusicOasis
    @SerenityMusicOasis 2 місяці тому +16

    Wow, just wow. In China, relationships are basically business contracts. How sad these people must be. Mind boggling.

    • @tgheretford
      @tgheretford Місяць тому

      Same in the west if you haven't found someone and got married by your mid 20's at the latest. Online dating is the commodification of dating, to treat it in the same way as commerce.

    • @hazybliss4069
      @hazybliss4069 Місяць тому

      In case you didn't know, this is how traditional relationships are. Even in the West women married men for financial safety, the men married for looks. It was transactional, looks in turn for paying cash to be with her along with the status of having a beautiful wife hence the term trophy wife. This is tradition, but modern men have a problem with this because they can not afford tradition right now. So they will have to find traditional men.

    • @HomeslicedVideos
      @HomeslicedVideos Місяць тому

      Marriage and reproduction therein has always been a business and/or political arrangement. Love is entirely optional.

  • @skipperson4077
    @skipperson4077 3 місяці тому +10

    I went from a long-term relationship to a divorce to being single. It was an adjustment going to restaurants and gatherings alone. Not having someone to talk to meant I heard a lot of others peoples conversations and let me say most women conversationally are the aural equivalent of pet pics and 'what I had for lunch', not much to say but that doesn't stop them from talking. Advice to both sexes would be to cultivate yourself, follow your interests, do what you can to help your community and then you will find community.

  • @davidburnett5049
    @davidburnett5049 3 місяці тому +70

    Pre watch guess, they are all trying to date the same ten dudes, meanwhile complaining to every normal dude that there are no single dudes.

    • @angrydragon4574
      @angrydragon4574 3 місяці тому +6

      Hence why it makes sense that the ratios of leftover women to men are 9 leftover women for 1 man. 😂

    • @Goni983
      @Goni983 3 місяці тому +5

      Yeeeaa lol exactly, I’d be willing to bet they’re being real picky and not looking very far

    • @davidburnett5049
      @davidburnett5049 3 місяці тому +5

      @@Goni983 a prince charming under rock, and every one part of the .1% in wealth.

  • @BlythPer-co1ug
    @BlythPer-co1ug 3 місяці тому +12

    Successful and rich men are all taken.

  • @murrowboy
    @murrowboy 3 місяці тому +29

    Whenever beautiful women complain they can't find a man, It's THEM. I don't believe for one second simps won't be lining up no matter how bad their personality is. Either that or they want you to sign up to their only fans. Give me a break.

    • @camichiBichi
      @camichiBichi 3 місяці тому +2

      Are you ok?

    • @ura9390
      @ura9390 Місяць тому

      none of these women were 'beautiful', they were presentable but thats it.They were 6 out of 10 but feel they deserve a 10

  • @bestyet905
    @bestyet905 3 місяці тому +52

    Don't feel sorry for these women they are looking for prince charming. They worked on their career for themselves, not realizing men work on their careers for their families.

    • @makeitcount2985
      @makeitcount2985 3 місяці тому +8

      Strange when men start careers way before marriage

    • @KarynaStoica2008
      @KarynaStoica2008 3 місяці тому

      I feel sorry for them because they received an uselless life education from parents/society. Same goes for men. The expectations are unrealistic on both sides becsuse ... they were rsised that way. Girls are waiting for prince charming, who is supposed to be ABOVE them, but they pusehed themselves so high, there are too few men above them. Also boys expect girls to be BELLOW them, just all girls they know are above them, socially. The education does not allow them to addapt and switch roles.

    • @ura9390
      @ura9390 Місяць тому

      not one of them talk about the joy of being a wife or mother and what they can contribute to the marriage, its all about material gain from mystical prince

  • @CBF2020
    @CBF2020 3 місяці тому +25

    Requirement and expectation is too high. I don’t think they will find anyone

    • @Chainyanker007
      @Chainyanker007 2 місяці тому +1

      If Mr. Right shows up he won’t want to marry her, that’s the irony.

    • @tgheretford
      @tgheretford Місяць тому

      They're chasing the top 0.001% of men worldwide. Men in that calibre can easily date 21 year old women and dump them at 25 with plenty of young women lining up to date him. It's pure delusion.

  • @DevendraMahendraSingh
    @DevendraMahendraSingh 3 місяці тому +123

    Women become lonely.
    Men start off lonely but learn to be alone without being lonely.

    • @nicholasrockall7308
      @nicholasrockall7308 3 місяці тому +16

      Exactly right mate, men learn to be content, women buy cats and wine.

    • @IsaacGravity
      @IsaacGravity 3 місяці тому +10

      This.
      Many of us guys learn early on that a table for one can be fun.

    • @Firecracker876
      @Firecracker876 3 місяці тому +5

      If that were true why are men online complaining about being lonely

    • @bakerdow9884
      @bakerdow9884 2 місяці тому

      Exactly. When you don't give a toss that's when they swarm you like wasps 😂

    • @Npc1488-wc1kf
      @Npc1488-wc1kf 2 місяці тому

      Cuz youre all losers 'raised' by single mommies

  • @miltonsperring5970
    @miltonsperring5970 3 місяці тому +76

    A man pursues education, career and wealth as a means to an end. The end being to attract a mate and support the resulting family. A woman pursues a career and her PhD because she wants to support herself, elevate herself. She buys a purse and shoes that other women envy. But she does not understand men and what attracts them. Instead she thinks of what attracts her and becomes those things.

    • @BobbyLoo-jr8ys
      @BobbyLoo-jr8ys 3 місяці тому

      well said. THey do not understand what man want in a women. THe only thing they are good at is advertising their demands. THey have little to offer, when past 30 yrs old. Chinese men knows EXACTLy want they want.

    • @Redjoker96
      @Redjoker96 3 місяці тому +12

      Honestly women should have been kept largely out of the job market except for those jobs that women are naturally good at like customer service etc. This instability will cause most society to collapse from infighting.

    • @Firecracker876
      @Firecracker876 3 місяці тому

      @@Redjoker96how about lazy males not breed and solve the whole problem of single women all together

    • @BobbyLoo-jr8ys
      @BobbyLoo-jr8ys 3 місяці тому

      @@Redjoker96 Agreed. These Chinese women with their (unless) education, have high demands for their partner, which they beleive is equal to that of their partner. What they fail to understand, that men will always be the head of the family and the main income earner for the family. So their master and PHd degrees works well in the cooporate world, BUT not in a relationship. It is sad that these women beleive their degree grants them equal rights in a relationship. Chinese men want women to bear children and take care of the home. We want them to be simple and let men take care of the income.

    • @drevnikocur54
      @drevnikocur54 2 місяці тому

      Wrong. She buys herself freedom from DV and male BS.

  • @ura9390
    @ura9390 Місяць тому +5

    The 9:1 ratio shows men's view on dating in China. They aren't even bothering with the matchmaking, they know that with the women being like this, with these expectations, there is just no point

  • @rockys7726
    @rockys7726 3 місяці тому +13

    For a country with a huge disproportionate men/women ratio there is no reason why a single woman can't find a partner. The problem is these women are waaay too selective. They feel most men are not good enough for them. I can't believe there are not plenty of men that pursue them. The women are just too picky.

    • @User-ts53698
      @User-ts53698 3 місяці тому

      it's good to have standards otherwise it will lead to unhappy marriage. It's reasonable if they want t

    • @rockys7726
      @rockys7726 3 місяці тому +1

      @@User-ts53698 Well then they will be single... they need to compromise.

    • @alsparkproductions7849
      @alsparkproductions7849 2 місяці тому

      ​@@User-ts53698it's no good for them to be sky high tho. Otherwise you end up single.

    • @jau1976
      @jau1976 Місяць тому

      This is not entirely true. Even if some/most of these women have "too high standards" In China, even with their disproportionate numbers between men and women, the cultural history is still very predominant, and therefore women still also get discarded, if they are much older than 26 years. So it is not always because of their selective nature.

    • @rockys7726
      @rockys7726 Місяць тому

      @@jau1976 So a highly educated, beautiful women with a high paying job will not be able to find a partner? I disagree. I'm sure they have plenty of suitors but they just cannot get themselves to lower their standards. They become overqualified... and single.

  • @ElrondMcBonk
    @ElrondMcBonk 3 місяці тому +120

    Why should a high quality guy go after 30+ if he can get 18+?

    • @Freerider93
      @Freerider93 3 місяці тому +23

      But you're not high quality though.

    • @KappaKiller108
      @KappaKiller108 3 місяці тому +24

      Because he's not creepy?

    • @detectivefischer6396
      @detectivefischer6396 3 місяці тому +16

      ​@@Freerider93neither are you since you're paid 50 cents per comment by daddy xi

    • @iatethecrayons
      @iatethecrayons 3 місяці тому

      yall have expectations that are too high, men and women. Youre not that special. Youre delusional. you have the perceptoin someone will take care of you and want you the way you are. Youre blind to how much youre worth because youre narcissistic by nature now. 18 year olds dont want old men. its not something thats happening everywhere. its a narrative youve fed to your delusional selves. yall are boring, dumb, a mid. get over yourselves. work on yourselves.

    • @Freerider93
      @Freerider93 3 місяці тому +14

      ​@@detectivefischer6396 I live in the US. It's just weird how poor men talk about what high quality men want.

  • @subterragaming836
    @subterragaming836 3 місяці тому +174

    Imagine having an ocean of fish and not able to capture even 1 of those fish .
    Sad women

    • @Nookdashiddole
      @Nookdashiddole 3 місяці тому +29

      But they're high quality women😂

    • @PeterRudesindus
      @PeterRudesindus 3 місяці тому +7

      Based Chinese men.

    • @sunen7129
      @sunen7129 3 місяці тому

      They not interested in fish. they want whales.

    • @larzkruber822
      @larzkruber822 3 місяці тому +57

      All they want is a six foot chinese guy
      with a bachelor degree as CEO
      and 3 lambos
      IS THAT TO MUCH TO ASK?😭😭😭

    • @kiaayo33
      @kiaayo33 3 місяці тому +14

      ​@@larzkruber822Lmao you hit it on the head!

  • @cooltune
    @cooltune 3 місяці тому +34

    That's tough. Women as they grow older raise their expectations because they feel the long wait is supposed to be met with equivalent results. But that's emotional thinking, not logical in the slightest. An aging man would gladly settle for (waaaay) less when choices are diminishing.

    • @hossamhosnimostafa5354
      @hossamhosnimostafa5354 3 місяці тому +11

      It is called the sunk-cost fallacy. Google it and you will be amazed how that affects everyone who uses emotions instead of logic. I completely agree with you.

    • @ThingsfromTaiwan
      @ThingsfromTaiwan 2 місяці тому +1

      This is exactly the correct explanation!

    • @whitefata12
      @whitefata12 2 місяці тому

      I think an aging man has better leverage than an aging woman since they don't have the short time constraint for reproduction unlike girls. As long as he sticks to his growth, his value will eventually go up and he will still be able to reproduce.

  • @bert8373
    @bert8373 3 місяці тому +33

    WTF kind of man are they looking for!?Elon Musk!?😅😂

    • @MonnieJong
      @MonnieJong 3 місяці тому +4

      Even he won’t want them lol😅

    • @jakejoyride
      @jakejoyride 2 місяці тому +5

      someone better as he don't match all the requirement boxes

    • @bastardferret869
      @bastardferret869 2 місяці тому +1

      I doubt he would be attractive enough.

    • @Chainyanker007
      @Chainyanker007 2 місяці тому

      Is he taller than 1.7 meters? Lol

    • @hazybliss4069
      @hazybliss4069 Місяць тому

      ​@@Chainyanker007Women in Asia don't care about height like that you're projecting.

  • @AndrewHadi07
    @AndrewHadi07 3 місяці тому +51

    I am not religious.. But I am starting to see why religion across the board encourages woman to a certain lifestyle.

    • @lookoutforchris
      @lookoutforchris 3 місяці тому +1

      The older you get the more you see that traditional mainline Christianity is 98% correct. Women are not stable on their own and cannot make good choices. Their personalities are imbalanced so that they are balanced properly with a child. Not marrying correctly and not having g children turns them into civilization destroying demons.

    • @xingzheli7431
      @xingzheli7431 3 місяці тому +7

      It's to reinforce the cultural status quo. That is one of the functions of religion.

    • @ciklop4206
      @ciklop4206 3 місяці тому +5

      Form of control yes

    • @ligmasack9038
      @ligmasack9038 3 місяці тому +6

      It's almost like "Gender Roles" exist for a reason.

    • @ligmasack9038
      @ligmasack9038 3 місяці тому

      @@xingzheli7431 Says the CCP Tencent Shill.

  • @sonnybrakes8496
    @sonnybrakes8496 3 місяці тому +23

    Desirable men and women have no shortage of suitors. The bigger question should be, how soon will it be before society disintegrates without there being the family as the centrepiece of our lives?

    • @angrydragon4574
      @angrydragon4574 3 місяці тому +4

      Probably within 50-70 years.

    • @jamesdavis727
      @jamesdavis727 3 місяці тому +6

      it has already begun.

    • @JohnSmith-hv6ks
      @JohnSmith-hv6ks 3 місяці тому

      There are vastly more desirable women. The only thing society can do is legalise polygamy

    • @feliciaf8
      @feliciaf8 3 місяці тому +2

      Family values aleady declining

    • @ronnie5329
      @ronnie5329 3 місяці тому +2

      Just date women in countries where there still is family values. International dating is a possibility many western men should know about. And if you see this shaming of those who go abroad to date, women knows they dont have this opportunity so they will try and shame men instead of becoming nice to be around.

  • @Badmuthaphka
    @Badmuthaphka 3 місяці тому +39

    TOFU women 😂😅😂😅😂

    • @djm2189
      @djm2189 3 місяці тому +5

      Damn you made me cackle 😂

    • @demonslayer9772
      @demonslayer9772 3 місяці тому +7

      Tofu-dreg women

  • @RagnarokGenesis00
    @RagnarokGenesis00 3 місяці тому +9

    Step 1: get off the internet.
    Step 2: be less selfish
    Step 3: get connected with opposite sex
    Step 4: repeat 1-4
    Since I know staying away from the internet and no need to say be discerning since yall naturally discriminating however dont stick to bad quality in people.

  • @user-bz5io6ph8w
    @user-bz5io6ph8w 3 місяці тому +12

    0:50 men don't care about your degree.

    • @thewaydownmachine
      @thewaydownmachine Місяць тому

      Men just want a nice girl. Men do not care about degrees. I don't know when women lost the instruction manual how to get a man.

  • @puddingpoppalpatine-6070
    @puddingpoppalpatine-6070 3 місяці тому +8

    How do disabled men ever find a partner over there? I'm disabled and I understand my chances are pretty bad but at least in the West there are many who understand if not accept disabled people. With such criteria for marriage it is truly a wonder how anyone gets hitched.

    • @rengurenge
      @rengurenge 3 місяці тому +4

      In east disabled "don't exist", they stay at home most of time because infrastructure is not that accommodative to their needs and society is not as understanding like in west. Not that long ago it used to be shame to have such relative or family member.

  • @benyomovod6904
    @benyomovod6904 3 місяці тому +162

    They imitated not just Western goods, but all bad habits of our Karens

    • @spiderjerusalem6887
      @spiderjerusalem6887 3 місяці тому +13

      it's almost like all china can do is attempt to be a poor imitation. in manufacturing, design, politics etc. Sad.

    • @InVinoVeratas
      @InVinoVeratas 3 місяці тому +19

      This is the end result of the one child policy, along side generations of feminism to read from in the west for all to model and replicate from, internationally.

    • @fullmindstorm
      @fullmindstorm 3 місяці тому +7

      ​@@InVinoVeratasThey could of done their university while being married but feminism I dont need no man.

    • @InVinoVeratas
      @InVinoVeratas 3 місяці тому +7

      ​@@fullmindstormapparently you can't find love and get a degree at the same time, despite all signs indicating that spending time with people of similar interests and values should lead to a successful relationship, instead people want thr facades of "the perfect relationship" when in reality said relationships they want to emulate are behind cameras and presented to look that way, without it actually being a "perfect relationship" more like a perfect pair of actors in a play performance for others to clamor over.

    • @456inthemix
      @456inthemix 3 місяці тому

      ​@@spiderjerusalem6887
      Everything is imitation, nothing authentic, even foreign worldviews have adopted communism instead of Daoism.

  • @1HourMartinizing
    @1HourMartinizing 3 місяці тому +7

    "they see themselves as luxury goods" Well golly jeepers where have we seen that before ?

  • @j562gee0hdeewestsdegethemuLa
    @j562gee0hdeewestsdegethemuLa 3 місяці тому +8

    The first girl just wants someone to be miserable with .. wonder why she's single

  • @jiminauburn5073
    @jiminauburn5073 3 місяці тому +25

    My wife was one of those leftover women. We eventually met online, her in China and me in the US. I think her parents thought that she would never get married, she was 33 when we got married.

    • @TheoInTheHouse
      @TheoInTheHouse 3 місяці тому +12

      Sounds like you met her standards.

    • @FadingVitals
      @FadingVitals 3 місяці тому +3

      Sounds like the big love…

    • @ronnie5329
      @ronnie5329 3 місяці тому +1

      ​@@TheoInTheHousethe standards of an avg chinese woman, around 30, is not like in the west at all, or should i say north america. Where it seems to be the worst to date. But sure, you can find these type of women in chinas big cities

    • @espanol9498
      @espanol9498 2 місяці тому +1

      are you white?

    • @jiminauburn5073
      @jiminauburn5073 2 місяці тому +6

      @@espanol9498 Does it matter? Yes, I am.

  • @TheWil888
    @TheWil888 3 місяці тому +18

    A woman in her 30's, highly educated, have good income, owns a home and car, then she doesn't need all these material things from a man, she can lower her standard and find a good, kind man who will love her and start a family with her.

    • @User-ts53698
      @User-ts53698 3 місяці тому +2

      settle for less and end up with unhappy marriage? You know asian guy has high ego and they feel threatened when their wives are smarter or earn more money than them?

    • @TheWil888
      @TheWil888 3 місяці тому +14

      @@User-ts53698 A happy or unhappy outcome in a marriage or relationship depends on the person's character, it has very little to do with status or money.

    • @chithiennguyen1371
      @chithiennguyen1371 3 місяці тому

      ​@@User-ts53698girl, no man in Asia feel threatened by a woman who earn more than him. It's the woman feeling less value of herself married to a man who earns less than her. When a woman earns more than a man, she is more likely to cheat on him because she think she deserves more.

    • @SO-jp6gh
      @SO-jp6gh 2 місяці тому

      @@User-ts53698 Untrue. In fact, most men would find it an added bonus to have a wife who is smarter and earns more money than them. It's the woman who can't handle a man who is dumber and earns less money. You cleverly tried to reverse the true phenomenon.

    • @SO-jp6gh
      @SO-jp6gh 2 місяці тому +2

      @@User-ts53698 In reality, men in general (and especially Asian men, who for whatever reason you've singled out) not only wouldn't mind it, but would find it an awesome added bonus if their own intelligence and money could be supplemented by a wife who has even greater intelligence and money. I consider myself very high in intelligence. I'm smart enough to know that if my intelligence is X and my goal is to have intelligent kids, then a woman with intelligence X+Y increases my chances of having smart kids.

  • @fauxhound5061
    @fauxhound5061 3 місяці тому +8

    A woman who wants a relationship focuses on it,not let herself wither away for a wage

    • @kiaayo33
      @kiaayo33 3 місяці тому +2

      Marry your Partner or your Job, you can't do Both!

    • @FADNaR
      @FADNaR 3 місяці тому +3

      The funny thing is that women consider it normal to please, serve and obey the boss for a salary, but refuse to respect their own husband and men in general.

  • @Nomad-XA
    @Nomad-XA 3 місяці тому +56

    They all charging brand new Bugatti prices for a use Kia with a total title

  • @ElrondMcBonk
    @ElrondMcBonk 3 місяці тому +33

    If men don't make enough money, they don't stand a chance to begin with.
    If a man makes enough money, he doesn't need a woman with a career.
    She wasted her youth getting a degree she wouldn't need anyway if she had gotten a good man.
    At least she has a degree so she isn't lost, just lonely.

    • @angrydragon4574
      @angrydragon4574 3 місяці тому +2

      😂😂😂😂

    • @User-ts53698
      @User-ts53698 3 місяці тому +3

      if she doesn't get a degree, and decide to get married, she will be a house wife and a slave at home e.g. being controlled by the husband and when he dumps her for a younger woman, how can she lives and raises her kids with no education?
      no need to get married as it's not a happy ending

    • @hazybliss4069
      @hazybliss4069 Місяць тому

      ​@@User-ts53698Exactly, the degree is for just in case. Sure she used her years for a backup plan but at least she has something to fall back on if she never ever gets married rather than desperately waiting to be taken care of.

  • @setyobudilimantara4792
    @setyobudilimantara4792 3 місяці тому +32

    Women can just keep crying as men will just carry on their life

  • @bastardferret869
    @bastardferret869 2 місяці тому +16

    "I've become too old because I listened to girl-boss feminism, now I'm desperate. I will marry anyone now, so long as they are Chad." Hahaha. Even in China.

    • @pipsy7316
      @pipsy7316 2 місяці тому +2

      Blackpill! 😂

    • @markaven5249
      @markaven5249 2 місяці тому

      I like ferrets

    • @eggs1312
      @eggs1312 2 місяці тому

      incel alert

    • @hazybliss4069
      @hazybliss4069 Місяць тому

      The fact that you even use the word "chad" to speak on a serious subject makes your opinion invalid.

    • @ura9390
      @ura9390 Місяць тому

      girl-boss feminism has made women more unhappy than anything else could have done. Sold them a cruel lie. These deluded women are left high, dry (shrivelled eggs actually), entitled and at a loss why they cant get what they want (which is the opposite ofwhat feminism told them), they actually crave a man. They really believe being a girl-boss ISNT a massive universal turn off for men, and that Mr Right should come running with his millions and his roses

  • @narcissistinjurygiver2932
    @narcissistinjurygiver2932 3 місяці тому +16

    well these women in their 30's are going to have to look for men in their 50's

  • @morpheus1586
    @morpheus1586 3 місяці тому +12

    Even at a lower/discount price, a mature fruit doesnt sell.

    • @angrydragon4574
      @angrydragon4574 3 місяці тому +6

      That's because the price for these over ripened fruit is still way too high.

    • @morpheus1586
      @morpheus1586 3 місяці тому +2

      @@angrydragon4574 bingo

    • @ura9390
      @ura9390 Місяць тому +1

      and a mature fruit that expects you to provide you with cash and an expensive lifestyle and be a certain height? 🤣 Sells even worse

    • @angrydragon4574
      @angrydragon4574 Місяць тому

      @@ura9390 You almost got it right. That fruit isn't even mature, it's rotting.

  • @alaypatel6050
    @alaypatel6050 3 місяці тому +14

    Fun to see strong wheymen fighting nature, while they cant even fight their emotions 😂😂😂

  • @asiancavemanr7657
    @asiancavemanr7657 3 місяці тому +3

    this is the damaging effect of social media

  • @martinithechobit
    @martinithechobit 3 місяці тому +3

    4:08 100 days?. this is the same problem when I try to date "older" women. they try to SPEED RUN it. I find that weird and uncomfortable- what is your agenda?. Most men don't like that.

  • @xanderlee4733
    @xanderlee4733 3 місяці тому +29

    These women are doomed to loneliness.

    • @importantsomeone153
      @importantsomeone153 3 місяці тому +2

      problem is not loneliness some people dont want to be alone i like to be alone enjoy peace 38 unmarried men not many friends but not unhappy i just lost intrest in meeting people

    • @InVinoVeratas
      @InVinoVeratas 3 місяці тому +5

      I think most people this coming century are doomed to loneliness.

    • @xanderlee4733
      @xanderlee4733 3 місяці тому +2

      @@InVinoVeratas More so women. Men don't wrongfully accuse women for flirting with them.

    • @levisguy53
      @levisguy53 3 місяці тому +1

      as it should be

    • @kazi20011
      @kazi20011 3 місяці тому +1

      I move out of China, move to a country where they have value.

  • @kiaayo33
    @kiaayo33 3 місяці тому +24

    Women want a Grocery List of stuff in a Man inorder to give him a shot while a Man only wants the 3 F's, Feminine, Feral, Fit, but saying that if you don't have what the other side wants then you must lower expectations

    • @lars-erikstrid2278
      @lars-erikstrid2278 3 місяці тому +2

      In sweden we talk about "Kåt,glad och tacksam" or horny, happy and grateful.

    • @hazybliss4069
      @hazybliss4069 Місяць тому

      This woman is only asking for a man with money though, you're projecting hard.

  • @kzarz0219
    @kzarz0219 3 місяці тому +35

    Be optimistic. Buy a cat and invest in catfood.

    • @Magikarp-4ever
      @Magikarp-4ever 2 місяці тому +2

      @kzarz0219 you killed me 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @clynt7452
    @clynt7452 3 місяці тому +20

    they never learn... marriage is not a business transaction.

    • @monilip
      @monilip 2 місяці тому +2

      It has been a business transaction for centuries.

  • @joept333
    @joept333 3 місяці тому +36

    These women can find someone if they settled but they're looking for that 10/10 guy

  • @xDragonInstallx
    @xDragonInstallx 3 місяці тому +35

    It's all about money and status. Love is not something women have for men. They love what we can give them.

    • @camichiBichi
      @camichiBichi 3 місяці тому

      Nah. I don't care about anything you could give me. But I think you meant the women on the video

    • @ChrisWijtmans
      @ChrisWijtmans 3 місяці тому +2

      " They love what we can give them." every single time.

    • @Jimmy-gl8cs
      @Jimmy-gl8cs 3 місяці тому

      @@camichiBichi Why would any man want to give a low quality person like you anything? 🤣

    • @SBGNatureandCoffeeChannel
      @SBGNatureandCoffeeChannel 3 місяці тому

      Women don't "love" men.

    • @ronnie5329
      @ronnie5329 3 місяці тому +1

      That is a bit too simple. Stability sure, that makes sense. But our culture has created many women that put themselves on a piedestal. Couple this with masculine personalities and it becomes even less interesting. It makes sense for avg men who make avg money to look abroad, if these are the type of women in their area

  • @ILovePancakes24
    @ILovePancakes24 3 місяці тому +83

    How are you single when it's 9:1

    • @patrickjohnson195
      @patrickjohnson195 3 місяці тому +23

      Yea imagine how it fells to be a single man in china... or a western society with out money. Seems like people nowadays are just married to the money

    • @reitink7194
      @reitink7194 3 місяці тому +28

      women in china wants rich men

    • @misslen575
      @misslen575 3 місяці тому +52

      It’s only 9:1 for matchmaking events. And that’s the ratio because most guys know they don’t meet the standards to even be at a matchmaking event.
      There are still more single men than women in china, just most of them aren’t looking anymore because they know they will be turned down anyway and older women are looking because they know their time is ticking. Kinda sad but I would rather be single than be in a bad marriage as well

    • @JojoJoget
      @JojoJoget 3 місяці тому +21

      9:1 because they know these women are insufferable, from the way they talk its obvious why no one bothers.

    • @playedit0ut290
      @playedit0ut290 3 місяці тому +24

      90% of women chasing 10% of men. Just like in the West. 😂

  • @369tayaholic5
    @369tayaholic5 Місяць тому +1

    When the table turns, they are angry, desperate and still blame it all on men while never realizing they are the problems themselves.

  • @ccarmean1968
    @ccarmean1968 Місяць тому +1

    300,000 Yuen = 42,000 USD

  • @pauldehart744
    @pauldehart744 3 місяці тому +36

    There we go, they are going the same way as western women on work and dating in their 20s and looking for the same kind of men as western women. It never goes as they think it does.

    • @ms.pirate
      @ms.pirate 3 місяці тому +2

      What's wrong with waiting till your 30?

    • @angrydragon4574
      @angrydragon4574 3 місяці тому +7

      ​@@ms.pirateBecause not only didn't you "wait," YOU ARE OLD! MEN DO NOT WANT OLD WOMEN, HOW MANY TIMES DO WE HAVE TO TELL YOU THIS!!!

    • @torcagenzo560
      @torcagenzo560 3 місяці тому +4

      @@angrydragon4574 correction. YOU do not want an "old" woman. I know plenty of "old" women that is dating and getting married. Most single women I know are single by choice, not looking at all.

    • @JohnSmith-hv6ks
      @JohnSmith-hv6ks 3 місяці тому +4

      The cope is unreal. No man whos ready to settle down will choose a woman who cant give him children.

    • @playedit0ut290
      @playedit0ut290 3 місяці тому +2

      ​@@ms.pirate short answer, women's value is tied to their youth.

  • @dianewebb206
    @dianewebb206 2 місяці тому +3

    There are lots of good single men left in this world. There are also lots of good single women left in this world. Standards are unreasonable on both sides.

    • @tgheretford
      @tgheretford Місяць тому

      I fail to see how "I want someone to acknowledge my existence" is considered too high a standard for a single man to have. Because that's where we are now with a sizeable number of single men.

  • @vipondiu
    @vipondiu 3 місяці тому +16

    Her: "I only have 4 requirements"
    Me: "That's impossible, women have hundreds of requirements"
    Her: Proceeds to list multiple requirements on each point.
    .......Well played my beloved sheng-nü, well played

    • @Gnefitisis
      @Gnefitisis Місяць тому

      How much do you want to bet she'll be lonely AF?

  • @grsmith4905
    @grsmith4905 3 місяці тому +1

    Hang in there. You are the most important person in life! You are an individual person. I see you have so much to offer! Take care!❤

  • @MrMaxeemum
    @MrMaxeemum 3 місяці тому +3

    Dating by numbers, keeping it classy, well done China.

  • @luvr381
    @luvr381 3 місяці тому +18

    Feminism has turned into a loss for everyone.

    • @bastardferret869
      @bastardferret869 2 місяці тому

      It's remarkable. If there was one place that turning every last woman into an entitled princess would have worked out for at least the women, it would have been in a place where they literally murdered a good portion of them and culled competition. But women want chad no matter what. No exceptions.
      I can't see a marriage fair in the west having a different result. It's just we don't have those, and mothers wouldn't physically drag an adult daughter to one even if we did. But essentially the same thing is happening in the west. Just less visible.

  • @rgx420s
    @rgx420s 3 місяці тому +4

    They are looking for men who don't exist with those expectations.

  • @kareliask
    @kareliask 3 місяці тому +14

    They won't settle for second best, this is their problem. Inflated opinion of themselves (always notice how they exaggerate what an amazing catch they are, and how "unfair" it is that they are single--it's all attention-seeking roleplay). Same happens to guys too. Don't be delusional folks, or you'll die alone. Clock's ticking. These ladies will be appalled at who they will have to settle for, or what they will become, when they hit 50.

  • @leonelvelarde4921
    @leonelvelarde4921 3 місяці тому +15

    These women are not looking for a husband/partner, they are looking for a Sugar Daddy that qualifies as a prince. LBV

  • @jamiealexander9450
    @jamiealexander9450 3 місяці тому +25

    I mean, I got a big ass house and lots of land. I can feed about 5 women. Lots of single dudes around here with great jobs.

    • @Peter2k84
      @Peter2k84 3 місяці тому +11

      Sooooo, can not wait to marry, get divorced, and give her half because she shacked up with you for a year or less?
      Under modern day laws -> better to have a regular escort you like.
      Cheaper in the long term too.
      Bonus: she will not come to your home harrassing you, or call your work place/family (that was a lot of fun for me; did not even know us 2 were that far in a "relationship" already).
      or,..., ya know,......, passport bro.

    • @Goni983
      @Goni983 3 місяці тому

      Prenups exist in a lot of countries lol the idea of women being able to leech your wealth now is more caused by really poor planning than anything else

    • @lunkee6972
      @lunkee6972 3 місяці тому +9

      @@Peter2k84have you ever considered that it may be nice to fall in love and have a woman to grow old with, and take care of your kids?
      Stop watching Tate and step outside.

    • @PrecursorYang
      @PrecursorYang 3 місяці тому +2

      It's called being a Chinese farmer.

    • @LegendOfShadow1
      @LegendOfShadow1 3 місяці тому

      @@lunkee6972 Have you considered that its more likely that you'll lose half of your assets after the divorce and the divorce itself will cost roughly $250k (Book of Numbers by Aaron Clarey) plus factor in the time it will take for you to get back to your previous wealth/lifestyle (many years). Its not to say you shouldnt date, but the risks are high these days since its not the 1960s anymore.

  • @mathewphoria7228
    @mathewphoria7228 3 місяці тому +4

    @1:20 she says marriage is a guarantee and foundation for life and that couldnt be more wrong. when half of marriages end in divorce i wouldnt call that a guarantee.

    • @shirogami4224
      @shirogami4224 2 місяці тому +1

      There are other countries besides the US. Get yourself out of the bubble.

    • @TheNapkuchen
      @TheNapkuchen Місяць тому

      ​@@shirogami4224 I've checked the data and the divorce rates in PRoC and the USA are almost identical

  • @GodZax2.0
    @GodZax2.0 3 місяці тому +5

    Why is people so obsessed with marriage its horrible to get married AND DONT HAVE KIDS!!!

    • @guill90
      @guill90 3 місяці тому +2

      Why not the kids?

    • @GodZax2.0
      @GodZax2.0 3 місяці тому +2

      @@guill90 Have you even seen the new clown generation today?

    • @User-ts53698
      @User-ts53698 3 місяці тому

      @@guill90 this world is not good, why bring kids to this fucking world? There are too many wars, pandemics, calamities etc... why do you want kids to suffer? let them stay in paradise

    • @reading6914
      @reading6914 2 місяці тому

      It honestly goes down to how you raise your kid and whether or not you went into marriage appropriately. Most people who did have a higher chance of breaking up and divorcing if I recall.
      Additionally, the part with the kids is just that they aren’t being responsible or do not have enough time, leaving their kids to use their iPads and such to an addictive degree

    • @GodZax2.0
      @GodZax2.0 2 місяці тому +1

      ​@@reading6914 No it doesn't
      the school raises your kid to be a clown what to accept and what not to accept the government controls everything today and they are making every generation into clowns today

  • @TheBigExclusive
    @TheBigExclusive 3 місяці тому +8

    How can you do a video about Chinese leftover women, but then do a video about millions of Chinese men not being able to find wives? They can't both be true. Otherwise they could easily marry eachother.

    • @Suiberis
      @Suiberis 3 місяці тому +8

      Probably because the phenomena for men is largely expected. I know a ton of middle aged and younger men in SEA who have pretty much given up on relationships and focus more on comfort, video games and hobbies.
      The men are resigned to their fate and make the best of it with distractions since the odds of anyone showing them sympathy or interest is fairly low. It's probably harder to gain information on them since most of them learned to shut up about their insecurities and focus their attentions on online gaming, but if you're in one of those groups and get close to them, they'll open up after a while.

    • @Pro-skie
      @Pro-skie 2 місяці тому

      The men want young women but young women want money

    • @alsparkproductions7849
      @alsparkproductions7849 2 місяці тому

      Also lots of those men live in poor rural areas as far as I concerned. Most women don't wanna date a guy like that.

    • @winio437
      @winio437 Місяць тому

      ​@@alsparkproductions7849 Poniewaz nie sa zbyt madre

  • @vesperv.9458
    @vesperv.9458 3 місяці тому +11

    come on, woman don't need man. go independent girls.

    • @bastardferret869
      @bastardferret869 2 місяці тому +1

      Boxed whine and a house that sinks of cat litter. Sounds like a great future.

    • @ura9390
      @ura9390 Місяць тому

      They had that view for years, then found the truth, that in the end all of them were unfulfilled and lonely and craved a man

  • @InVinoVeratas
    @InVinoVeratas 3 місяці тому +7

    Literally 10 minutes after watching thie vid, and most of the top comments are deleted, what is rhe point in commenting on youtube?

    • @Sammasambuddha
      @Sammasambuddha 3 місяці тому

      Anything meaningful is wiped to keep the stupid dumb.
      Oh look, a video about single older Asian woman....

  • @ohenrico17acr92
    @ohenrico17acr92 3 місяці тому +24

    Strong and independent. When the economy in China suffers badly they realize how useful and important a husband is.
    Now image the economy in America is good so it hasn’t hit the American girls as hard. For now.

    • @robl9141
      @robl9141 3 місяці тому +5

      Why? There is no guarantee their spouses will be working.

    • @marley7868
      @marley7868 3 місяці тому

      ehh not really relationships in the us are just better and the population demographics more in our favor as for lacking relationships well it's alot easier and way less of a problem to marry or date a foreigner here than in china
      oh and on the economy there national debt to gdp ratio was worse than ours before there local governments collapsed

    • @ohenrico17acr92
      @ohenrico17acr92 3 місяці тому +3

      @@robl9141 is a husband, a man only useful fork working?

    • @ohenrico17acr92
      @ohenrico17acr92 3 місяці тому

      @@marley7868 relationship - ok. economy - i know. "you have to understand china."

    • @robl9141
      @robl9141 3 місяці тому +2

      @@ohenrico17acr92 The original comment was clearly indicative of financial aspect of a husband.