cool this is not the problem of this still but that how many poor girls and women face horrible treastment Change for THEM not for another selfish excuse
I agree, but as an American Black woman I see the decline of morality & rise of entitlement all over the world. The fall of the traditional family standards is a global issue its not just China or the west but a plague spreading across the world. Being average is no longer acceptable...yet the people who are avoiding an average life are average themselves which is just plain ole stupid logic. Humanity has overestimated its worth - everyone is a narcissist demanding unattainable things & outrageous privileges. 😢
I wish I could line this a hundred times. They put no value on women, they aggressively ensured girl babies would either be aborted or killed at birth. This is the result. What this video doesn’t cover is the nightmare that is occurring in rural areas where one girl will move to a village, her family having being paid a bride price for marriage to one of the family’s sons, only to find out she is expected to serve as all the family’s men’s wife. In other words, she will have been sold into s*xual slavery for a family to abuse. It is beyond horrific.
Xi jingping thought that the one child policy is a brilliant idea, but miss out the fact that traditionally, older generations would want more boys than girls, which in practice, it is actually one boy policy
"The new reality in west is: rapes, missing persons, stabbings, killings, murders, shootings and even beheadings are happening all the time. There is a link between these crimes and mass migration. . . . . . . . . . . . .
Your “they” is misused. It implies the same people. They’re not. Government forced terminations. People left to suffer. Same story all through history.
They act like having a wife is a right, not a privilege. None of them seem to understand that a man who only wants you for your womb or getting harassed for marriage from a total stranger online is a massive turn off
Exactly! I will bet that those rural girls who moved to the city 🌆 are scared to go back to the villages to visit their parents. These overly aggressive, desperate men have an entitlement attitude. No man is entitled to a woman just because he wants one.
Nobody is ignoring this fact. Chinese see it as a tragedy, but it is the mistake of their time. Moreover, it is a lesser mistake than preferring birthing girls would have been because the prevalence of women in the society (such as in Russia for example) leads to higher rates of crime amongst men as well as the “quality” of men falling rapidly, which leads to imbalances in the society too because women refuse to marry men because they literally aren’t on the same level. And even though it is awful, it has led to more equality in the society because women there are valued It does go to the extremes, with women being allowed too much in the relationship, but it still is a fact
@@LychhElizlol it's funny how it's always men that cause the problem. You even said so in your comment. Too few females? Men get angry and try to kidnap and/or harass women from other countries. Too many females? Men get angry and increase crime. There's ZERO accountability. And I wonder what's more devastating? An increase in crime because there are fewer men? Or a population crashing because there are fewer women? I'm probably gonna go with a population crashing as being more devastating. But sure, an "increase of crime because of men" and "lower quality men" is a far bigger mistake 😂 whatever you wanna believe. Which country has a higher birth rate btw? Oh yeah, baby boys being preferred in China is farrrrr less of a mistake than baby girls being preferred in Russia. 😂
Yep, what beautiful young woman in her right mind would marry a poor rural man from any background. She would have to put up with rural life, possible domestic violence, childbirth without a robust healthcare system, and put up with in-laws. And I bet these men can’t even give those women an orgasm to deal with all the stress…
Now think about it, if some Western woman went and tried it out, you would be able to the hear the complaining and batching round the World! How backward they are out in rural Redchina.
@DewTime In a globalized world, why would any woman (even AF) want this lifestyle over a better and more modern one? One with a better quality of life, more freedom, more equity, and less expectations.
An if you are marrying a chinese you are marrying the family not the person. You lose your identity if you marry because you're just a slave to the family and a baby maker. Who would want a life like that?
I don’t feel bad for them one bit. They killed all those baby girls thinking that males were more important and STILL haven’t learned their lesson. Maybe these dudes should try and link with the “left-over” women…
The 'leftover women' are educated women with jobs and career in urban areas who would rather be single than linked to these men that have nothing for themselves.
I have a friend who help his chinese bf with everything. They went to China and marry her. He didn't give him money or taking care of her. Instead, he treated her like a housekeeping. And sometimes beating her up. He didnt talk to her but treated his friends better 😢 So be careful..
That’s because Chinese men expect the women to be house wives, so ya I don’t blame the women for demanding that. Especially because Chinese men tend to be abusive.
Right!! Cant afford that dont marry, marriage is srs and esp in a country where raising kids if you have them, are pricey. These women have a point and a logical reason why they need what they need esp since in east asia its very common for women after marriage to just give up careers and become stay and home moms so they need and deserve the financial security.
@@mitchelljames6894 not really, most of east asian women quit their careers to become stay at home wives and mothers who dedicate full time to their family and kids and its logical to want a level of financial security esp when ure gonna be dependent on a single income and kids are expensive asf. Also those passport bros shldve gone therapy to deal with their issues instead of marrying someone else because they can "afford" them. Unlearn the harmful structures and biases of society and choose a more just future.
@@espeon871 No, their expectations are too much and ridiculous. That's why Chinese men will choose Thai women over these ridiculous golddigger women. Raising children is expensive anywhere in the world, it doesn't give people the right to put ridiculous demands on others. Get a real.
@@espeon871 No they don't. What century are you living in ? It's 2024...... not 1824....... women get jobs just like men and the kids go to school..... You can have financial security without demanding so much..... You don't need a $500,000 house.... many people in the world, including in modern countries like USA, live very comfortable lives in $250,000 houses.... So the point is, financial security isn't being a golddigger elitist snob, but rather being a reasonable teammate and working together as a good partner. Passport bros are just getting higher value women that don't have cringe ultra liberal feminazi ideas. Nothing wrong with that.
Except it's very hard to get a house since the median income is 16k USD in China. Most of these women are 30 to 45 years old and want a guy with lot of money, want the guy to match her degrees, have a house too, be tall, and everything under the sun.
@@humansvd3269Well either you get with what they want or you don't get a wife and you die alone. At this point, you can't even be having age preferences. "How dare she have standards and be 30+?!" My guy you'll be lucky if you find a companion at all.
@nessinay1535 The fact you think women don't have unreasonable expectations is laughable. I've been married twice and in 4 relationships. Women in modern society expect everything plus more, with no expectation of anything in return except their presence. Even in China, women expect the men not only match their degrees. High income and houses (that the women themselves own) but to have that and more and be tall and good looking when they aren't that pretty themselves and old. Plus, she won't share anything she's earned, but he's expected to give away what he has for her because she's a woman. That's unreasonable and not sustainable for society. Oh, and she's not expected to give you love or sex, she's just expected to be present. Eventually rights will be taken away.
@@humansvd3269 No one wants their daughters to live in poverty and slave away in poor conditions where the men cannot provide financial security. Men create these societies and yet the gender imbalance has come back to bite them. Partly these aging bachelors parents are partly to blame as they do the matchmaking for their sons. The men need to up their education and move from rural communities if they want a wife.
The number of female children and young girls and women who are kidnapped and sold into rural and mountainous areas is very large. Although there are cameras everywhere, they ignore it. It's a pity for them.
These videos hardly ever mention the reason for the gender imbalance. 30 million more men than women today, all because they preferred to have sons not daughters.
Despite the government's claims, most of China is very poor. That is why women with any amount of beauty leave the countryside to find wealthier men in big cities.
Well not to mention they unalived majority of the baby girls during the 1 child policy, I remember watching a documentary about the back rooms they had in the orphanages where they literally just left the girls in a back room to starve to death. So the government created an in balance in the population by forcing people to only have 1 kid, and people chose boys because they wanted sons to go marry and bring a girl to their home to work on their farm.
"The new reality in west is: rapes, missing persons, stabbings, killings, murders, shootings and even beheadings are happening all the time. There is a link between these crimes and mass migration. . . . . . . . . .
@@krisa990 living destitute isolated in the chinese countryside no house no car (meaning working hard all day to feed in-laws as well in their old house) is a life no one would want, I'd rather not exist
Арабы, турки, таджики, индусы, а теперь ещё и китайцы… Я думаю, в ближайшие годы в ВК появится много новых иностранных профилей😂 Думаю придётся закрывать лс, жалко
Mhm. You're too pretty and good for them anyways. Idk your marital status but if you want a husband I genuinely hope that you end up with a green flag. With money ofc
I remember at the beginning of the Ukraine war, Chinese netizens were celebrating saying that Russia will wreck Ukraine, then young Ukrainian women will no longer have a home, China should ask Putin to send Ukrainian young women to China they can get Ukrainian wives.
@@фийкёbruh there are plenty of women in india for indian men its just some unempolyed mf going for rusiian girls! So sorry for those feks that simped on you😂😂😂! I assure you one thing there are many pakistani and bangladeshi men acting as indian men and tarnishing our name! Plus there are indian men too but please dont stereotype we have our women 😂😂😂
Exactly this is a mess that they created with their patriarchy and misogyny. Every one from the top down aided in this mess. Play stupid games; win stupid prizes. You don't win against the feminine. You will loose every time.
That's the entire reason they did the infanticide thing in the first place. In Chinese culture, a daughter being married off becomes part of the husband's family, and the One Child policy meant that the family line of the bride would end then and there. That's why families killed their infant daughters in the hope of rolling the dice yet again and getting a son, and thus continue their bloodline. Of course, that short sighted thinking has led to the current situation of too many men and not enough women, thus creating the exact same problem via a different method, lol.
@@dasdesu5179it's deeper than that, it goes has far as mindset, there are countless single women there, the women just want a rich man and focus on there career
They do it because they believe they’re out of childbearing age. Meanwhile, there are millions of women around the world who are 30+ who have healthy pregnancies and children. I had my first @ 30,& my second at 32. Theyre going to have to deal with the women there if they can help it. They don’t have a choice at this point.
@tendaoxtails It is not normal nor healthy to have children much later. If it was IVF wouldn't be a thing and it increases chances of down syndrome and health risks for the mother.
Well, The thing that the old Japanese Empire used to do, Now being done by these mainland chinese bastards on their fellow countrywomen and asians! 😅🤣🤣🤣
North Korea and Uyghur ladies are forced to marry Chinese men. As at 2005, Japan's annual loss due to Pirate edition and rights violation is 8 trillion yen. Japan is pioneer and way ahead where as Chinese are only good at copying and creating a rip off of original invention, and also child abduction expert.
When I was the last time in China it was almost annoying to be asked by every unmarried woman if I would marry her, as soon as we knew each other for a few hours. All of them told me when I asked "Why?" that they do not want a Chinese man as much as they do not want a life in China. And those men who get rejected think that any foreign girl would fill the gap? 😂
If even a Chinese woman does not want a chinese man, imagine a Western woman... Once the Chinese lady meet a gentleman outside china, she will never accept to be with a chinese man again.
And you know why they ask that? Because Chinese men expect woman to give up their lives, careers, ect to cater to them and become house wives. (That’s not counting that Chinese men were taught to be abusive to their wives so yaaaa don’t blame the women for not wanting to marry)
@@belaadright? God forbid a woman wants to be taken care of in a good hospital when she gives birth, a good home to recover and house her children, a car to take her children to school without it breaking down, and financial stability so that her kids never go hungry. What gold diggers!
@@humansvd3269 you missed the point of the video. The women have already paid. Paid with their lives. Millions aborted, millions. The parents that chose to keep their girls logically think they deserve the best, supply and demand
Society is messed up in China. Find wife just for the sake of having a wife, find husband because of money and for the sake of having husband in front of the family.
Rural parents find a wife for their son because the young wife becomes their caregiver in their old age. She also becomes a caregiver to the children she bears and does housework for the man. She basically serves the whole family and will never have her own career or money.
@@natashadickson4819 But the man will have to work all the time for the family. It's not a good deal for the man or the woman but if they both don't do this, society dies in 1 generation.
In history when there are surplus male population in a nation, during economic down turn and times of scarcity or political turmoil, the frustration are blamed on the foreign outsiders. Frustrated wifeless childless men are dangerous for the ruling class.
You just described the formula for a man with nothing to lose. It's true though; a man with nothing to lose is one of the most dangerous, impulsive, and unstable individuals.
My best friend married a Chinese man. He was pretty abusive and messed up, but his family and mentors chewed him out and he got lots of therapy. Now they are doing much better, but it was a difficult decade.
Because that term leftover women was made by the government to force single women to marry that guys. The ones who are really leftover in China are guys.
Yeah. No car is understandable but no savings? That's a bit risky to provide/starting a new family. What if the wife have complications during or after birth and also the baby's health
Given all the videos this site has posted, do Chinese men really think foreign women really want to move to China? People don’t want to visit China, let alone move there.
@@AG-iu9lv Yeah and from what I have read they even have a social credit for us as well. Soon as you land in their country and get caught on their CCTV. "oh look that guy has made plenty of ANti CCP comments.. get him boys!"
I find it unbelievable that past Chinese leaders didn’t see this coming when they implemented one child policy. When you mess with the natural course of things, you will pay for it ten fold and it will be ugly.
They implemented the policy because the population was growing too fast and they were worried that it would collapse the country. So they overcorrected, hard.
They never blame the culture of prioritizing sons over daughters. The cruelty endured by girls left to languish in orphan homes, the selective pregnancy terminations. Well, now the chickens come home to roost.
Not with so much generational trauma and built into the culture. No, no such thing in the west either because all relationships are transactional, but at least it tries to be about love.
@@P.90.603 But you're not a first-class person and you're not married to a foreigner, are you? That's not convincing because if you were a first-class person and already married to a foreigner, you wouldn't get this response. In other words, wishful thinking.😂
@@P.90.603 Fair enough. But these men aren’t top tier and culturally they aren’t compatible with other cultures. I can’t imagine parents being happy for their daughters to live in a foreign country in a rural poverty stricken state and treated like cattle.
@@057MU That doesn't matter! Cuz foreign women have never been the first option for Chinese men. Only those rural men who can't get a Chinese wife are seeking alternatives from abroad.
@@057MU Vast majority of Chinese men couldn't even care less. Because Chinese women are always the first option for Chinese men. Only those poor rural guys can't get a Chinese woman are seeking for alternatives.
"The new reality in west is: rapes, missing persons, stabbings, killings, murders, shootings and even beheadings are happening all the time. There is a link between these crimes and mass migration. . . . . . . . . . . . . . .
Facts. Heartbreaking to think about the number of baby girls that were outright killed or aborted because they considered males more valuable. I wonder if they have ever tried to estimate just how many female babies were sacrificed during that period? I doubt a realistic number could be had considering in the poorer areas some may not have ever seen the inside of a hospital, and were just disposed of like trash. 😢
@chasingmoonlight7342 yeah its pretty messed up, i read an article that estimated 20 million baby girls went "missing" between the years 1989 and 2010. If you look at the current population, there are roughly 35 million more men than women. Such imbalances in population dont happen naturally, so they probably "lost" closer to 30 million female babies, how sad is that.
They already doing that. And organ removal, just to make extra money. It's disgustingly horrible out there. Can even trust their own food when using sewage oil to cook with.....
This is why you shouldn't disrespect towards females at any age. Because their past actions forced women stayed away from old traditional beliefs and fear of any abuse.
you are not kind if you do certain things for someONE just to gain something from them You should treat women, girls the SAME as men, boys bcause they ARE THE SAME(we are EQUAL) Wrong mindset makes wrong outcomes. It is nt hard to predict.
I wonder how the young men must feel knowing that all of their wives were killed in infancy by each others parents. I wonder how all those who sacrificed a baby girl feel now seeing the state of things. It’s so sad but we all need to lay In the beds we make I suppose
Well, the idea of the one child policy was to control the population growth. It seems it’s working because these fellows look like being bachelors for life and will produce no offspring.
It was amusing to go from watching a video yesterday about millions of chinese women who can't find husbands to this morning watching a video about millions of chinese men who can't find wives.
Difference is these men never had a chance due to the huge imbalance between the sexes. While the woman only want the very top and chose not to settle for anything less. Same as in the US were woman are flooding all types of media crying about "Where are all the good men at?" while normal men don't get looked at b y normal looking woman because they been taught to never settle.
Can't seem to get the two sides to meet, as both still have unrealistic expectations. Men want young, unmarried (so divorced or even widowed are not an option). While the numerous women still demand men of high quality (wealth, physical features such as height). It's like watching a dog chase its own tail.
@@omfgloley old mindset. you can see the shift with the families that had girls. they are ransoming them off and demanding fortunes for their daughters.
@@omfgloley jokes on them, without girls, there are no wives and so therefore no future children to carry on the name 😅 they really played themselves 😅
I remember one saying: Every living organism will refuse to procreate when the enviroment is out of balance... Man, those words couldnt have hit any harder.
But ... are they good Boyfriends or Husbands? Do they also use weponised incompetence and the woman has to do all the household work alone because he is on the field?
try being a farmer before talking. it's a hard work and the most important job of civilization. You feminists forgot your place. You all think you deserve better than a life in the countryside. You all think you deserve a rich husband in NYC or Paris.
@@lindae7013and then the woman that help on the field needs to Cook and clean, cuz that woman job ... AND then they wonder why rural girls escape that hell
No, they ride women like mules through life making them do backbreaking work in the fields whilst doing all of the cooking, cleaning, and child rearing at home. Mothers will have babies strapped to their backs as they work in the rice fields. That’s why the girls leave the countryside and go to the cities-to escape slavery.
Usual Mainland Chinese Hypocrisy, They said that The old Japanese Empire used to ensl4ve and traffick'd Chinese Women, Which is ironic because TODAY, these jerks are doing the same thing to their fellow country women brethrens 😆
Why would the ccp care about game or the happiness of their citizens. If the politicians stir the pot and anger the people they can do whatever they want.
I know of no government who thought no woman or man good game... You're normally born with it. Maybe try copying from a book, but you can always tell that is fake
Funny enough those very same women who asked two years of middle-class salary in china for dowry can marry those foreigners (even white trash) with 0 down payments. Double standards at its best.
@@LazyBrownWizard Nope, white and black don't need to pay dowry to them, and Chinese women are perfectly fine with these two types of men to pump'n dump them.
I wonder how many of these men actually want a wife , or do they just want the pressure of the family off? Of course everyone wants the perfect idea of a spouse. But having a fulfilling relationship is very hard
Yes, exactly! they are talking about marriage in a such decomplex way, as if it is not the union of two people loving each other, but rather a quick way of ensuring their lineage…
A woman in china is considered property and shes necessary to keep the family going on (birthing kids) and take care of the kids and the husband's elder parents. These men are complaining they cant afford a slave.
I have no sympathy for most of them. I pray for the people that wants to raise a good family, work hard, live a stable life and not about greed to the point your ruining other people's lives.
They're not getting their foreign women from white countries. They're getting them from other Asian countries that are poorer than China like North Korea and Nepal.
why would anyone date a Chinese person at all? you would have to live in China with the CCP. I don't care about Chinese women due to them all being in china and I don't like china.
It's not unknown HERE in Australia that all the rural girls leave to go to the city, and there's PILES of country towns with no millennial women AT ALL. Like zero, not even married ones.
Its pretty simple, In a world where a woman can do asmuch as a man why throw away your job and life and learn to live with someone who earns less/as much as you. Its pretty logical for the women to only go for stable men in a country where layoffs are the new trend.
Same thing seems to be going on in South Korea. I have two nephews on my wife's side of the family who could not find/afford Korean wives. Both went to Matchmaking agencies. One married a Vietnamese and the other married a Philippine. Five years later the Vietnamese wife, after she got her South Korean citizenship, tried blackmailing her husband by demanding $75K for her to stay married to him. The poor guy does not have that kind of money. 😟
In India we have girls who marry, then she go back to her parents house for few days never to return, then comes court notice of her accusing him of dowry harassment or DV. She threatens, pay up or else I will take you to court on false charges and put you in jail. My far off relative working in USA coughed up lots of money when even marriage hadnt taken place. This has become a business due to lopsided laws and feminized judges.
Shame on the Vietnamese woman. People from poorer nations worship money rather see poverty as a curse and a blessing. When you are poor, you simply accept humbleness. If I see that Vietnamese woman, I will say, “Be gone from this place. You shouldn’t live here since you worship money.”
That is what happens when you treat women as subhuman property that can be bought and used. Women hate these men, of course they want money if they are treated as employees.
Nah but the fact they don’t just want to marry but specifically want a attractive woman is outrageous. Literally like giving a homeless guy food and getting flipped off because they don’t like it.
It's not unseemly for these rural guys to court foreign women if they're polite about it... but convincing them to come live in rural China is gonna be a hard sell.
@@MelaniaRose exactly.. imagine a parent sending their daughter to live with a broke man, only for her to earn, cook , clean and raise him and his parents along with her children when she can an amazing life on her own.. That's diabolical.. no parent, even Traditional parents would want that life for their daughters😂😂
@@ithinkiknowme6450 lol, you never know. You go on fan-fiction or any of those types of websites and some girls ramble on about wanting to be "used" that way. They could see that when it's some guy IRL, the fantasy sure turns rather grim.
sounds to me like you are blaming the men that the reason they cant find a wife is cause they have the wrong attitude, there are simply more women then men in china and this means there will be lots of men that cant find a wife no matter what they do or what attitude they have
They consider a wife more like a Trophy because they are so rare; according to their tradition, wealth without offspring is worthless. Not like in the West, where people do not face pressure from their family to stay alone. The one-child policy is definitely the reason. Today Xi is proclaiming that more children should be born and mothers should stay at home, no wonder with the spate of layoffs.
@@kiloabnehmen2592 nope, I'm not, it's just how it is even if they have a bigger surplus of men. Plus most can't even abide by the standard requirements of local women, they would rather marry a foreigner without too many demands, let alone 彩礼 lol
These people are really dim. The excess bachelor issue is due to the one-child policy in the 1990s that resulted in the preference of male babies by most families. Forced abortions and the death of female babies after birth was pretty prevalent during that time.
Yes, because it never occured to them you need girls to have more boys, and they didn't think of their son's futures, how will they get wives. They were only thinking of their name being passed on.
Even for Chinese graduates who acquire a handful of qualifications marriage is still a delusional dream. Social prejudice and men-women discrepancy worsens the terrifying distraught caused by economic woes. This results in the quest for harrassing foreign women which is despicable.
All those people who "preferred" sons during the One Child era have now discovered that they will probably never have grandchildren.
It’s not a problem of culture or individuals, but CCP. Again, blame and hatred is shifted by this CCP- funded propaganda
I think that's why what Chinese government would want., they won't run out of manpower soon.
cool this is not the problem of this still but that how many poor girls and women face horrible treastment
Change for THEM not for another selfish excuse
I agree, but as an American Black woman I see the decline of morality & rise of entitlement all over the world. The fall of the traditional family standards is a global issue its not just China or the west but a plague spreading across the world. Being average is no longer acceptable...yet the people who are avoiding an average life are average themselves which is just plain ole stupid logic. Humanity has overestimated its worth - everyone is a narcissist demanding unattainable things & outrageous privileges. 😢
I wish I could line this a hundred times. They put no value on women, they aggressively ensured girl babies would either be aborted or killed at birth. This is the result. What this video doesn’t cover is the nightmare that is occurring in rural areas where one girl will move to a village, her family having being paid a bride price for marriage to one of the family’s sons, only to find out she is expected to serve as all the family’s men’s wife. In other words, she will have been sold into s*xual slavery for a family to abuse. It is beyond horrific.
They killed their baby girls now their sons have no girls/women to marry.
Xi jingping thought that the one child policy is a brilliant idea, but miss out the fact that traditionally, older generations would want more boys than girls, which in practice, it is actually one boy policy
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@@tanalson The one-child policy goes way back.
Your “they” is misused. It implies the same people. They’re not. Government forced terminations. People left to suffer. Same story all through history.
@@tanalson the OCP was before Xi. Xi actually ended that and started the 3CP
They act like having a wife is a right, not a privilege. None of them seem to understand that a man who only wants you for your womb or getting harassed for marriage from a total stranger online is a massive turn off
Exactly! I will bet that those rural girls who moved to the city 🌆 are scared to go back to the villages to visit their parents. These overly aggressive, desperate men have an entitlement attitude. No man is entitled to a woman just because he wants one.
Most women only want a man to get money or just have a retirement plan.
It is literally an OPPOSITE of a DESIRED partner
Not just their womb, also for farm work 😂
Well, a partner is kind of a must for a human. So it's no suprise its seen as a right
They’re.. completely ignoring the fact their parents dumped their female children
Nobody is ignoring this fact. Chinese see it as a tragedy, but it is the mistake of their time.
Moreover, it is a lesser mistake than preferring birthing girls would have been because the prevalence of women in the society (such as in Russia for example) leads to higher rates of crime amongst men as well as the “quality” of men falling rapidly, which leads to imbalances in the society too because women refuse to marry men because they literally aren’t on the same level.
And even though it is awful, it has led to more equality in the society because women there are valued
It does go to the extremes, with women being allowed too much in the relationship, but it still is a fact
You assume these men know anything about the attrocities their government commited
5:51 Can't bring those children back; now they're addressing the consequences.
@@LychhElizlol it's funny how it's always men that cause the problem. You even said so in your comment. Too few females? Men get angry and try to kidnap and/or harass women from other countries. Too many females? Men get angry and increase crime. There's ZERO accountability. And I wonder what's more devastating? An increase in crime because there are fewer men? Or a population crashing because there are fewer women? I'm probably gonna go with a population crashing as being more devastating. But sure, an "increase of crime because of men" and "lower quality men" is a far bigger mistake 😂 whatever you wanna believe. Which country has a higher birth rate btw? Oh yeah, baby boys being preferred in China is farrrrr less of a mistake than baby girls being preferred in Russia. 😂
I got one of them. So lucky me. ❤
The idea of a poor rural Chinese guy in his 40s "bringing" in a foreign attractive girl from abroad is just laughble, in what universe?
Agreed. In rural areas domestic violence is very high , plus who wants to live in poverty and hard labour
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Yep, what beautiful young woman in her right mind would marry a poor rural man from any background. She would have to put up with rural life, possible domestic violence, childbirth without a robust healthcare system, and put up with in-laws. And I bet these men can’t even give those women an orgasm to deal with all the stress…
They are importing kidnapped girls from neighboring countries.
If they can't afford a woman in china, how can they afford a woman overseas. Makes no sense.
Now think about it, if some Western woman went and tried it out, you would be able to the hear the complaining and batching round the World! How backward they are out in rural Redchina.
China GDP per capita is much higher than the neibour countries. Marring wives aborad is much cheaper than in China
"China Number 1"
Propaganda 😅
Let alone raising children
Y’all forget there are other places in the world that are rural with women who may feel it’s better there. You’d be surprised but what do I know.😅🥴🤣
What rural Chinese men don't realize is that living literally anywhere in the world is better than living with them.
Agree, can’t blame the women in China for avoiding poor rural bachelors
Why do you say that? Trying to learn
@DewTime In a globalized world, why would any woman (even AF) want this lifestyle over a better and more modern one? One with a better quality of life, more freedom, more equity, and less expectations.
@theia1653 yeah, and it being China makes it way worse, maybe they could get people from North Korea at most...
An if you are marrying a chinese you are marrying the family not the person. You lose your identity if you marry because you're just a slave to the family and a baby maker. Who would want a life like that?
I don’t feel bad for them one bit. They killed all those baby girls thinking that males were more important and STILL haven’t learned their lesson. Maybe these dudes should try and link with the “left-over” women…
True! But even those women they call “left-over” don't want them at all,
@@rox-louloucharlie8584 you’re right…they have reaped what they have sown…
@@Blakmagic88 Yup and you can see how they can never be held accountable for it. tons of them on youtube blaming everybody but themselves.
@TT09B5 When it gets called out, they get really quiet in silent disagreement, but can't actually defend it. The behavior is very predictable.
The 'leftover women' are educated women with jobs and career in urban areas who would rather be single than linked to these men that have nothing for themselves.
I have a friend who help his chinese bf with everything. They went to China and marry her. He didn't give him money or taking care of her. Instead, he treated her like a housekeeping. And sometimes beating her up. He didnt talk to her but treated his friends better 😢
So be careful..
All of them are like this. No respect for a womam but are entitled to have one.
All the girls were adopted in America and are now marrying American men and think and feel like Caucasians.
first they hate foreigner, now they come for foreign women. now the rude and broken behaviour will surface even more
That's how Muslims doing and it works
Do is er, do is er, a Österreicher unter anem Chinese observer Video. Kommst aus Wien?
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Some of them were most likely NOT the ones who said that. Stay inr eeality!
Because to them, women aren't full people
I love how Chinese women are requiring the most basic things before getting married… financial stability is a NEED. Not a preference in a husband.
That’s because Chinese men expect the women to be house wives, so ya I don’t blame the women for demanding that. Especially because Chinese men tend to be abusive.
Right!! Cant afford that dont marry, marriage is srs and esp in a country where raising kids if you have them, are pricey. These women have a point and a logical reason why they need what they need esp since in east asia its very common for women after marriage to just give up careers and become stay and home moms so they need and deserve the financial security.
@@mitchelljames6894 not really, most of east asian women quit their careers to become stay at home wives and mothers who dedicate full time to their family and kids and its logical to want a level of financial security esp when ure gonna be dependent on a single income and kids are expensive asf. Also those passport bros shldve gone therapy to deal with their issues instead of marrying someone else because they can "afford" them. Unlearn the harmful structures and biases of society and choose a more just future.
@@espeon871 No, their expectations are too much and ridiculous. That's why Chinese men will choose Thai women over these ridiculous golddigger women. Raising children is expensive anywhere in the world, it doesn't give people the right to put ridiculous demands on others. Get a real.
@@espeon871 No they don't. What century are you living in ? It's 2024...... not 1824....... women get jobs just like men and the kids go to school..... You can have financial security without demanding so much..... You don't need a $500,000 house.... many people in the world, including in modern countries like USA, live very comfortable lives in $250,000 houses.... So the point is, financial security isn't being a golddigger elitist snob, but rather being a reasonable teammate and working together as a good partner.
Passport bros are just getting higher value women that don't have cringe ultra liberal feminazi ideas. Nothing wrong with that.
"Oh no, our decades of mistreating women and getting rid of our daughters is coming back to haunt us."
they are so ignorant, I doubt they'll think this
Facts, they created this problem. The number of baby girls that were aborted or out right killed because they favored males is just sickening.
*surprised pikachu face*
"women have high demands ... they want a house" - yeah these women who don't want to sleep in the street are so high mainteinance
yah how dare they even want the basics of survival like shelter and food. what are they cave women psssshhhh /s
Except it's very hard to get a house since the median income is 16k USD in China. Most of these women are 30 to 45 years old and want a guy with lot of money, want the guy to match her degrees, have a house too, be tall, and everything under the sun.
@@humansvd3269Well either you get with what they want or you don't get a wife and you die alone. At this point, you can't even be having age preferences. "How dare she have standards and be 30+?!" My guy you'll be lucky if you find a companion at all.
@nessinay1535 The fact you think women don't have unreasonable expectations is laughable. I've been married twice and in 4 relationships. Women in modern society expect everything plus more, with no expectation of anything in return except their presence. Even in China, women expect the men not only match their degrees. High income and houses (that the women themselves own) but to have that and more and be tall and good looking when they aren't that pretty themselves and old. Plus, she won't share anything she's earned, but he's expected to give away what he has for her because she's a woman. That's unreasonable and not sustainable for society. Oh, and she's not expected to give you love or sex, she's just expected to be present. Eventually rights will be taken away.
@@humansvd3269 No one wants their daughters to live in poverty and slave away in poor conditions where the men cannot provide financial security. Men create these societies and yet the gender imbalance has come back to bite them. Partly these aging bachelors parents are partly to blame as they do the matchmaking for their sons. The men need to up their education and move from rural communities if they want a wife.
The number of female children and young girls and women who are kidnapped and sold into rural and mountainous areas is very large. Although there are cameras everywhere, they ignore it. It's a pity for them.
they ignore it because they all look the same
They don't care about cameras. Once you get that girl out of the city, you'll never see her again.
North Koreans that escape are often taken as slaves by these people.. its so unfair so sad
... so you're telling me that I'm not safe in China
@@MayaMaya-ye7rlur not safe anywhere if ur a woman. There’s always a chance a man will destroy your entire life
When calling women "leftover" comes back to bite your ass
PREACH!
The women are the ones refusing to marry any man less than Chad with mega bucks.
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Uh....those "left over" are such because they refused to lower their standards. So calling them that affected nothing.
Why no woman wants to marry me? Asks creepy internet stalkers that think of women as a property and not equal human beings.
You should see all the white male foreigners in thailand and phillipines. It's sickening.
but sometimes its skill issues😶
@@APapiStalkingYouFromTheBush That is the skill issue.
The delusion and irony is strong
Buy some women from poor countries, it is great trade.
Blame the cultural mindset that for generations has prioritized male offspring.
These videos hardly ever mention the reason for the gender imbalance. 30 million more men than women today, all because they preferred to have sons not daughters.
Yep… The One Child Rule…Good Job CCP.
@@vmbay2212the CCP thinks that they roll out 'one child policy' but forgot that they actually roll out 'one boy policy'
They will never blame that. Everything but that.
Sons are mandated by law to provide for their aged parents, unlike daughters, who take care their in-laws.
No one wants to have a daughter and now they are scared their sons cant find a wife? Its really funny
Despite the government's claims, most of China is very poor. That is why women with any amount of beauty leave the countryside to find wealthier men in big cities.
Well not to mention they unalived majority of the baby girls during the 1 child policy, I remember watching a documentary about the back rooms they had in the orphanages where they literally just left the girls in a back room to starve to death. So the government created an in balance in the population by forcing people to only have 1 kid, and people chose boys because they wanted sons to go marry and bring a girl to their home to work on their farm.
Its scary that even romance is all about money there...
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@@krisa990 The West is heading there as well. Average women only want men from the top 10%.
@@krisa990 living destitute isolated in the chinese countryside no house no car (meaning working hard all day to feed in-laws as well in their old house) is a life no one would want, I'd rather not exist
As a Belarussian Russian woman, I feel so disgusted 🤮 Would never even look in any of these miserable excuses' direction!
Арабы, турки, таджики, индусы, а теперь ещё и китайцы… Я думаю, в ближайшие годы в ВК появится много новых иностранных профилей😂
Думаю придётся закрывать лс, жалко
Mhm. You're too pretty and good for them anyways. Idk your marital status but if you want a husband I genuinely hope that you end up with a green flag. With money ofc
I remember at the beginning of the Ukraine war, Chinese netizens were celebrating saying that Russia will wreck Ukraine, then young Ukrainian women will no longer have a home, China should ask Putin to send Ukrainian young women to China they can get Ukrainian wives.
@@фийкёbruh there are plenty of women in india for indian men its just some unempolyed mf going for rusiian girls! So sorry for those feks that simped on you😂😂😂! I assure you one thing there are many pakistani and bangladeshi men acting as indian men and tarnishing our name! Plus there are indian men too but please dont stereotype we have our women 😂😂😂
Cool place
When you select for male over female, you end up with not enough female. So, it was a choice that families made.
Families or culture or individuals are scapegoats and distractions.
Exactly this is a mess that they created with their patriarchy and misogyny. Every one from the top down aided in this mess. Play stupid games; win stupid prizes. You don't win against the feminine. You will loose every time.
They're are a lot of single females, the women just want rich men
@@Manhwa-recapped yes, for women themselves, women=goods. Women love being petted.
@@Manhwa-recapped yes, even for women themselves, women=goods. Women love being petted. That’s why your channel is called a globalist channel.
Rural men are making the farm animals nervous
Lol
They are starving and alone also. They might enjoy the company. 🤮
@@TheZeek011 why ,just asking
@@kijo105 Because the comment posted is insinuating Beastiality.
Big weirdchamp
Indian men online: Finally a worthy opponent! our battle will be legendary!
Exactly. They're completely ignoring the fact indian guys try to turn EVERY website into a dating site.
Those are not indian men actually may be pakistanis.
it's like how they sometimes behave online
Trueeee!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
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This is.
What happens when you do not honor women. Karma
Exactly! Previous misgony ruined many mens chances of getting women.
It was the previous generations that deserve the karma but as always happens its the next generations that pay the price for their parents mistakes
These men should just marry each other, real women aren’t going to want them ever
Mao's one child male only policy made all that possible. As the saying goes, "reap what you sow".
This is reaping 40 years of sowing…😂….
Mao was already dead when they policy was created
And still Mao seems to be a respected character to some. What's that say about such people...lol.
@@Ruddermeister Some? He is practically seen as a saint over there.
Deng Xiaoping
western women don't want chinese men, thats a losing battle
Western woman don't want western man also. Unless you are 6 feet and 6 figures
2nd generations popular with white women, does that mean money matters?😅
Both western women and Asian women prefer Black men
True , also huge cultural differences and expectations would be a challenge
I know 2 - he chinese - she north korrean or he chinese - she from the baltic states - living in Germany
Un-filial? To these parents who commited female infanticide decades ago?
That's the entire reason they did the infanticide thing in the first place. In Chinese culture, a daughter being married off becomes part of the husband's family, and the One Child policy meant that the family line of the bride would end then and there. That's why families killed their infant daughters in the hope of rolling the dice yet again and getting a son, and thus continue their bloodline.
Of course, that short sighted thinking has led to the current situation of too many men and not enough women, thus creating the exact same problem via a different method, lol.
@@dasdesu5179short sighted, pretty much wraps up China in a nut shell.
So abortion is only right if it affects boys?
@dasdesu5179 They are always short sighted, it's always what they want in the moment, without thinking of long term consequences.
@@dasdesu5179it's deeper than that, it goes has far as mindset, there are countless single women there, the women just want a rich man and focus on there career
Ah yes, the quick and easy way to developing a life long relationship...online harassment.
Perfectly stated, nice!
Well they also kidnap, for sure will be long- lasting🙄
It's not harassment. It's just cringe. Stop being the reason American men GTOW.
Don't forget about women that were kidnaped and sold in China as a bride...
Chinese media want to pretend that doesnt happen tho ... SEE, they don't SEE women as human beings and the wonder why women there escape to the city
💀tf.....
That is a homemade Chinese problem, 50 years in the making.
God bless America!
It is because of yheone child policy….
Exactly don't nobody feel sorry for them 😂 they created this mess with their sexism, patriarchy, and being anti female.
They can spend their life scamming each other while pretending to be young women online😂
When you word it that way it sounds actually hilarious 😂
Women are not breading Animals ,shame on China ,after the Murder of ther Baby Girls in Coldblood ! No one feels soory for them !!!!
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And yet they denigrate women over 30 as throwaway women.
They do it because they believe they’re out of childbearing age. Meanwhile, there are millions of women around the world who are 30+ who have healthy pregnancies and children. I had my first @ 30,& my second at 32. Theyre going to have to deal with the women there if they can help it. They don’t have a choice at this point.
@tendaoxtails
Our neighbor gave birth at the age of forty
Because they are. Leftover women have unreasonable standards. Have your not heard what they demand?
@tendaoxtails It is not normal nor healthy to have children much later. If it was IVF wouldn't be a thing and it increases chances of down syndrome and health risks for the mother.
@@KhadidjaKhadouj-ur4kethat's awesome
Chinese bachelors have adopted Indian male flirting tactics.
Just own your shit
Hey baby
*harrassment tactics
Nope pakistani and bangladeshi male acting as indian men😂😂😂
Someone has to teach men to honor women
Don't forget the kidnapping of😮 foreign women as brides
Crazy frog
Well, The thing that the old Japanese Empire used to do, Now being done by these mainland chinese bastards on their fellow countrywomen and asians! 😅🤣🤣🤣
I heard they kidnapped or human trafficking north korean women too
They are doing that in Africa
North Korea and Uyghur ladies are forced to marry Chinese men.
As at 2005, Japan's annual loss due to Pirate edition and rights violation is 8 trillion yen. Japan is pioneer and way ahead where as Chinese are only good at copying and creating a rip off of original invention, and also child abduction expert.
When I was the last time in China it was almost annoying to be asked by every unmarried woman if I would marry her, as soon as we knew each other for a few hours. All of them told me when I asked "Why?" that they do not want a Chinese man as much as they do not want a life in China. And those men who get rejected think that any foreign girl would fill the gap? 😂
If even a Chinese woman does not want a chinese man, imagine a Western woman... Once the Chinese lady meet a gentleman outside china, she will never accept to be with a chinese man again.
Stop the cap
they have NO PROBLEMS with ethnicity
It is the HABITS that is the problem
Geschichten aus'm Paulanergarten 🥱
That's got to be weird having women pursue you for marriage.
12:20 "Women have high demands. They want a house, a car, savings and a stable income."
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In other words the "Its safe to have a baby" minimum package.
And you know why they ask that? Because Chinese men expect woman to give up their lives, careers, ect to cater to them and become house wives. (That’s not counting that Chinese men were taught to be abusive to their wives so yaaaa don’t blame the women for not wanting to marry)
@@belaadright? God forbid a woman wants to be taken care of in a good hospital when she gives birth, a good home to recover and house her children, a car to take her children to school without it breaking down, and financial stability so that her kids never go hungry. What gold diggers!
@@belaad No, they want the high status package, with noting in return on their part.
@@humansvd3269 you missed the point of the video. The women have already paid. Paid with their lives. Millions aborted, millions. The parents that chose to keep their girls logically think they deserve the best, supply and demand
The gays in china are eating good
Lol..that made me laugh
India has the same issue with zillions more men than women, they have opened 10,000 gay bars in the last 15 years...
That is funny but true!😂
😂 yes but even them have to fight to find a partner. Too much competition.
Underrated comment 😂
Society is messed up in China. Find wife just for the sake of having a wife, find husband because of money and for the sake of having husband in front of the family.
Rural parents find a wife for their son because the young wife becomes their caregiver in their old age. She also becomes a caregiver to the children she bears and does housework for the man. She basically serves the whole family and will never have her own career or money.
B-BUT WHAT ABOUT GAINING FACE! FACE AND HONOR IS MORE IMPORTANT than practicality!!!
@@natashadickson4819 But the man will have to work all the time for the family. It's not a good deal for the man or the woman but if they both don't do this, society dies in 1 generation.
@@michaeldunn3476 The men outnumber the women. The women can find husbands. Society will not disappear.
@@michaeldunn3476 The women will find husbands. The population will go on.
How many women would sign up, for a life of struggle and poverty? Plus DV?
Yes I’ve been saying this. The blame also falls on the parents being delusional when matchmaking their sons.
And extreme sexism.
DV... digital video?
@@ChickensAndGardeningno domestic violence
And being used as breeding cattle
Leftover men everywhere
The irony of their own practices backfiring on them
In history when there are surplus male population in a nation, during economic down turn and times of scarcity or political turmoil, the frustration are blamed on the foreign outsiders. Frustrated wifeless childless men are dangerous for the ruling class.
Then they send them off to war to reduce the numbers, didn't we have over 30,000 Chinese cross our border illegally?
You just described the formula for a man with nothing to lose. It's true though; a man with nothing to lose is one of the most dangerous, impulsive, and unstable individuals.
Normally the outlet was war also.
Their parents did this to them because they all wanted a boy and for those with a daughter, encourage her to go to the highest bidder.
they're going to be drafted and shipped off to conquer taiwan. just wait and see!
My best friend married a Chinese man. He was pretty abusive and messed up, but his family and mentors chewed him out and he got lots of therapy. Now they are doing much better, but it was a difficult decade.
Why men are bachelors while women are leftover, when in reality it’s the opposite?
Because that term leftover women was made by the government to force single women to marry that guys. The ones who are really leftover in China are guys.
Amazing, isn't it?
35+ no savings, no car, no house? You aren't looking for a wife.
Yeah. No car is understandable but no savings? That's a bit risky to provide/starting a new family.
What if the wife have complications during or after birth and also the baby's health
Is this the condition of all rural Chinese bachelors? I was wondering why he had nothing.
Given all the videos this site has posted, do Chinese men really think foreign women really want to move to China? People don’t want to visit China, let alone move there.
They are delusional. You are right, most people won't even travel to China for tourism now.
Foreign women won't settle for even above average looking guy making okayish salary. What makes them think they are gonna marry some rural jeezer?
If China makes immigration law easier like the US or other Western countries you'll see how many people want to move to China. Mark my words.
This is true. I love to travel the world and I would NEVER consider setting foot in China.
@@AG-iu9lv Yeah and from what I have read they even have a social credit for us as well. Soon as you land in their country and get caught on their CCTV. "oh look that guy has made plenty of ANti CCP comments.. get him boys!"
I find it unbelievable that past Chinese leaders didn’t see this coming when they implemented one child policy. When you mess with the natural course of things, you will pay for it ten fold and it will be ugly.
It's not so predicable. 17 million is no small number either.
Mao was alerted, but once you have a dictator it is up to his will and not educated discourse or debate
Even if they didn't see it coming, they could've stopped it the moment they saw it.
They implemented the policy because the population was growing too fast and they were worried that it would collapse the country. So they overcorrected, hard.
You think they would have cared, if they had seen it coming?
They never blame the culture of prioritizing sons over daughters. The cruelty endured by girls left to languish in orphan homes, the selective pregnancy terminations. Well, now the chickens come home to roost.
They never realized they would create left over men. When you mess with the balance of things this is what happens.
Not easy for them to love when they don't know what it is.
None of us ever truly know what love is. And Western nations aren't doing any better what with the high divorce rates!
@@meilinchan7314 I think in the west they know a lot about it and the definition, definately way more than an atheist nation would do tbh.
Amen@@djgnu
Of course they know love. Love money above all
Not with so much generational trauma and built into the culture. No, no such thing in the west either because all relationships are transactional, but at least it tries to be about love.
It is well known in Asia that Chinese men are not popular with foreign women.
@@P.90.603 But you're not a first-class person and you're not married to a foreigner, are you? That's not convincing because if you were a first-class person and already married to a foreigner, you wouldn't get this response. In other words, wishful thinking.😂
@@P.90.603 It actually does. Cultural expectations play a huge part in the success or failure of a intercultural relationship
@@P.90.603 Fair enough. But these men aren’t top tier and culturally they aren’t compatible with other cultures. I can’t imagine parents being happy for their daughters to live in a foreign country in a rural poverty stricken state and treated like cattle.
@@057MU That doesn't matter! Cuz foreign women have never been the first option for Chinese men. Only those rural men who can't get a Chinese wife are seeking alternatives from abroad.
@@057MU Vast majority of Chinese men couldn't even care less. Because Chinese women are always the first option for Chinese men. Only those poor rural guys can't get a Chinese woman are seeking for alternatives.
I think I've gotten text messages from half of these men, masquerading as foreign women and trying to sell me crypto.
You've met some Chinese in Northern Myanmar, not one of those rural senior men.
Typical scam
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Reckon those are just scammers. 😅
I have no sympathy for a society who murdered their daughters because they only wanted sons. They made their beds
Facts. Heartbreaking to think about the number of baby girls that were outright killed or aborted because they considered males more valuable. I wonder if they have ever tried to estimate just how many female babies were sacrificed during that period? I doubt a realistic number could be had considering in the poorer areas some may not have ever seen the inside of a hospital, and were just disposed of like trash. 😢
@chasingmoonlight7342 yeah its pretty messed up, i read an article that estimated 20 million baby girls went "missing" between the years 1989 and 2010. If you look at the current population, there are roughly 35 million more men than women. Such imbalances in population dont happen naturally, so they probably "lost" closer to 30 million female babies, how sad is that.
I worry the rural bachelors might resort to human smuggling
The farm animals are getting nervous
They already do. Tribal hmong women from Vietnam as well as north Korean refugees are often smuggled as sex slaves
it's surely already happening, what other choices do they have..
They already doing that.
And organ removal, just to make extra money.
It's disgustingly horrible out there.
Can even trust their own food when using sewage oil to cook with.....
They already do from neighboring Asian countries, like Vietnam
This is why you shouldn't disrespect towards females at any age. Because their past actions forced women stayed away from old traditional beliefs and fear of any abuse.
you are not kind if you do certain things for someONE just to gain something from them
You should treat women, girls the SAME as men, boys bcause they ARE THE SAME(we are EQUAL)
Wrong mindset makes wrong outcomes. It is nt hard to predict.
@@cosmicreef5858exactly 👏👏
All this crap about second hand women and throw away women. there are 50 million more men of marriable age then women. Women are a premium in China.
I wonder how the young men must feel knowing that all of their wives were killed in infancy by each others parents. I wonder how all those who sacrificed a baby girl feel now seeing the state of things. It’s so sad but we all need to lay In the beds we make I suppose
Well, the idea of the one child policy was to control the population growth. It seems it’s working because these fellows look like being bachelors for life and will produce no offspring.
They don't have the capacity to think of that
It was amusing to go from watching a video yesterday about millions of chinese women who can't find husbands to this morning watching a video about millions of chinese men who can't find wives.
Difference is these men never had a chance due to the huge imbalance between the sexes. While the woman only want the very top and chose not to settle for anything less. Same as in the US were woman are flooding all types of media crying about "Where are all the good men at?" while normal men don't get looked at b y normal looking woman because they been taught to never settle.
Full circle. Many ladies from rural areas go to the city to find a husband and can't, leaving rural men without a wife.
Hey you can start a match making company and make millions
Can't seem to get the two sides to meet, as both still have unrealistic expectations. Men want young, unmarried (so divorced or even widowed are not an option). While the numerous women still demand men of high quality (wealth, physical features such as height). It's like watching a dog chase its own tail.
@@popcorn6931 That doesn't works... not with these people. Not with these societal pressures.
Poor families who have baby boys are sentencing the boy to a lifetime of misery.
But I has to be a boy first so he can carry the family name 😂
@@omfgloley old mindset. you can see the shift with the families that had girls. they are ransoming them off and demanding fortunes for their daughters.
@@omfgloley YOU GOTTA UNDERSTAND CHYNA!
@@omfgloleySons are mandated by law to provide for their aged parents, unlike daughters, who take care their inlaws.
@@omfgloley jokes on them, without girls, there are no wives and so therefore no future children to carry on the name 😅 they really played themselves 😅
Yet they talk about leftover women 😂
Fr 😂😂
I remember one saying: Every living organism will refuse to procreate when the enviroment is out of balance...
Man, those words couldnt have hit any harder.
But ... are they good Boyfriends or Husbands? Do they also use weponised incompetence and the woman has to do all the household work alone because he is on the field?
No both work very hard in the fields. Check out African country wife in China
try being a farmer before talking. it's a hard work and the most important job of civilization. You feminists forgot your place. You all think you deserve better than a life in the countryside. You all think you deserve a rich husband in NYC or Paris.
@@lindae7013and then the woman that help on the field needs to Cook and clean, cuz that woman job ... AND then they wonder why rural girls escape that hell
No, they ride women like mules through life making them do backbreaking work in the fields whilst doing all of the cooking, cleaning, and child rearing at home. Mothers will have babies strapped to their backs as they work in the rice fields. That’s why the girls leave the countryside and go to the cities-to escape slavery.
exactly, where have all the good men gone? Women are not choosing good men
They think western women are easier? Really?
How many Chinese girls did you date oh great expert? 🙄
I dont even bother with women here! Im flying to Aruba and having fun
They think western women wear victoria secret panties for a private part that's neither secret nor private
Western women are a disaster zone.
LMAO 🤣
Thats why they already traffick women from SEA, RUS and north korea, some of the rural are ok but many treat them like cattle they bought.
Where did you see trafficked women from Russia into China?
@20ilincsh search it up, how lazy is that? Ukrainian children too, CN is truely disgusting, it's the land such low morals gutter oil is still common
@@20ilincsh literally try using search engines, links are blocked in this platform
@@20ilincsh search it, links are being blocked
Usual Mainland Chinese Hypocrisy, They said that The old Japanese Empire used to ensl4ve and traffick'd Chinese Women, Which is ironic because TODAY, these jerks are doing the same thing to their fellow country women brethrens 😆
Who in the right mind would want to be their bride?
They were not poor or thinking about the future when they were in-aliving baby girls 😅
Play stupid games get stupid consequences 😅
As an asian chinese, i can tell you CCCP never taught chinese guys proper game.
the 1st game they have to get is not being poor.
then you can think about women.
Why would the ccp care about game or the happiness of their citizens. If the politicians stir the pot and anger the people they can do whatever they want.
Such a weird comment.
I have to see how the government would teach guys how to get wives😂
I got your point
I know of no government who thought no woman or man good game... You're normally born with it. Maybe try copying from a book, but you can always tell that is fake
It's just not worth it for these women to marry. What do they get out of it exactly? Certainly not kindness, love and respect.
And they have audacity to call chinese women "left over"😂 pitiful
Meanwhile western passport bros are looking for a wife in Asia
Funny enough those very same women who asked two years of middle-class salary in china for dowry can marry those foreigners (even white trash) with 0 down payments. Double standards at its best.
Crazy. I would never marry a Asian woman.
It's easy for them because they have money
@@jerrydunkley8560Nah... it's because they have white skin. A black bro would be having a tough time in China.
@@LazyBrownWizard Nope, white and black don't need to pay dowry to them, and Chinese women are perfectly fine with these two types of men to pump'n dump them.
They can always date each other 🤔🤷🏽♀️
😂😂
😂the gays there are living a good life ig
They can, but China won’t recognize gay marriage.
I wonder how many of these men actually want a wife , or do they just want the pressure of the family off? Of course everyone wants the perfect idea of a spouse. But having a fulfilling relationship is very hard
Yes, exactly! they are talking about marriage in a such decomplex way, as if it is not the union of two people loving each other, but rather a quick way of ensuring their lineage…
A woman in china is considered property and shes necessary to keep the family going on (birthing kids) and take care of the kids and the husband's elder parents.
These men are complaining they cant afford a slave.
@@sonya8240 youre exactly right. I hate this sm
The souls of the baby girls can finally be at peace. What goes around comes around.
ikr? many of these people are criminals
How are these rural men going to find wives if all the women in the village leave to the city? And foreign women don't want broke Chinese farmers.
I have no sympathy for most of them.
I pray for the people that wants to raise a good family, work hard, live a stable life and not about greed to the point your ruining other people's lives.
They're not getting their foreign women from white countries. They're getting them from other Asian countries that are poorer than China like North Korea and Nepal.
There's a reason why there's a shortage of young women over there. These videos don't like to mention the cause of the gender imbalance.
why would anyone date a Chinese person at all? you would have to live in China with the CCP. I don't care about Chinese women due to them all being in china and I don't like china.
It's not unknown HERE in Australia that all the rural girls leave to go to the city, and there's PILES of country towns with no millennial women AT ALL. Like zero, not even married ones.
Misogyny led to this. Women expecting girls literally got "rid" of them.
Or got rid of the born ones, even of older age, if afterwards they had a male descendant.
Its pretty simple, In a world where a woman can do asmuch as a man why throw away your job and life and learn to live with someone who earns less/as much as you. Its pretty logical for the women to only go for stable men in a country where layoffs are the new trend.
Being casually misogynistic and sexist will have that effect 🤷🏾♀️ tell them to pay a SWer!
Exactly 💯 you don't win going against the feminine.
Even chinese women over 30 face problem to find husband coz all men want is younger women , so ????
That!
Kock and money culture
@@swatipriya562 different for Asian women since their sexual market is the opposite of Asian men
Beggars can't be choosers
That is grossly over reported. Things are different now. 30 is young
Same thing seems to be going on in South Korea. I have two nephews on my wife's side of the family who could not find/afford Korean wives. Both went to Matchmaking agencies. One married a Vietnamese and the other married a Philippine. Five years later the Vietnamese wife, after she got her South Korean citizenship, tried blackmailing her husband by demanding $75K for her to stay married to him. The poor guy does not have that kind of money.
😟
In India we have girls who marry, then she go back to her parents house for few days never to return, then comes court notice of her accusing him of dowry harassment or DV. She threatens, pay up or else I will take you to court on false charges and put you in jail. My far off relative working in USA coughed up lots of money when even marriage hadnt taken place. This has become a business due to lopsided laws and feminized judges.
Shame on the Vietnamese woman. People from poorer nations worship money rather see poverty as a curse and a blessing. When you are poor, you simply accept humbleness. If I see that Vietnamese woman, I will say, “Be gone from this place. You shouldn’t live here since you worship money.”
That is sad and everything is about money these days. Your wife’s nephews are not countrymen right? He should just divorce her.
“Afford”? Do they also do this dowry stuff in Korea as well? How is it all so transactional and materialistic?
That is what happens when you treat women as subhuman property that can be bought and used. Women hate these men, of course they want money if they are treated as employees.
That 1 child thing worked out pretty well, 😂.
It single handedly kept the Chicoms from taking over the World through lack of manpower, lol!
I hate the government with all my soul
All those little girls and babies that were killed because of the one ☝🏽 child law, that’s contributed badly in the rural areas 😮
Nah but the fact they don’t just want to marry but specifically want a attractive woman is outrageous.
Literally like giving a homeless guy food and getting flipped off because they don’t like it.
Have you tried not treating them like objects?
The same thing i would to say to any passport bro: if women from your country don't want you what makes you think foreigners will?
"Well well well how turns tables", now having a daughter is better than having a son
They also go to Africa and leave women single unsupported mothers.
Proof that Chinese men aren’t compatible with foreign women.
@@rtothe7068 how sad is that
Wth how dare they go to 💀💀💀eh they must pay for this
Making more Gangis Kahn.
It's not unseemly for these rural guys to court foreign women if they're polite about it... but convincing them to come live in rural China is gonna be a hard sell.
No parents would want that for their daughter
@@MelaniaRose exactly.. imagine a parent sending their daughter to live with a broke man, only for her to earn, cook , clean and raise him and his parents along with her children when she can an amazing life on her own.. That's diabolical.. no parent, even Traditional parents would want that life for their daughters😂😂
@@ithinkiknowme6450 lol, you never know. You go on fan-fiction or any of those types of websites and some girls ramble on about wanting to be "used" that way. They could see that when it's some guy IRL, the fantasy sure turns rather grim.
There are also the incidents of young girls bring kidnapped from the cities & taken to the rural areas to be married off.
To live to see the impact of their history of cruelty towards women and girls backfire is refreshing.
When you leave a generation of girl babies to die , what do they expect
Can we get these men in touch with African catfish scammers? That might give everyone else a little peace for a while.
East Asians really really dont like dark complexion, they dont want to touch/shake their hands, let alone have intercourse with them
Nigerian catfish scammers. Africa is a continent
😂😂😂😂😂
It's been on the algorithm for awhile, and it's embarrassing how desperate they are and thinking of them as prizes rather than humans.
sounds to me like you are blaming the men that the reason they cant find a wife is cause they have the wrong attitude, there are simply more women then men in china and this means there will be lots of men that cant find a wife no matter what they do or what attitude they have
They consider a wife more like a Trophy because they are so rare; according to their tradition, wealth without offspring is worthless. Not like in the West, where people do not face pressure from their family to stay alone.
The one-child policy is definitely the reason. Today Xi is proclaiming that more children should be born and mothers should stay at home, no wonder with the spate of layoffs.
No wounder they cannot find a good wife
@kiloabnehmen2592 the chances are much higher with a good attitude
@@kiloabnehmen2592 nope, I'm not, it's just how it is even if they have a bigger surplus of men. Plus most can't even abide by the standard requirements of local women, they would rather marry a foreigner without too many demands, let alone 彩礼 lol
Who would've thought that treating women like lesser would bite them in the butt?
These people are really dim. The excess bachelor issue is due to the one-child policy in the 1990s that resulted in the preference of male babies by most families. Forced abortions and the death of female babies after birth was pretty prevalent during that time.
Yes, because it never occured to them you need girls to have more boys, and they didn't think of their son's futures, how will they get wives. They were only thinking of their name being passed on.
They should have treated women better, and not given away their female children. Women have been treated as second class citizens forever.
Treating women better is never the solution, look up south Korea
@@ElmachitoSilbateador It's always the solution. The problem is men don't want to change.
@@benjalucian1515 Only a woman/simp/jew could say that
@@ElmachitoSilbateador lol SK man are misogynistic shit
@damianperez7736 "NO GUYS YOU DONT UNDERSTAND!! ONLY MY OPENION IS RIGHT IF YOU DONT THINK SO YOU ARE AN SJW JEW!!!!!!!!
Stfu fr bruh
“I can’t wait to go to rural China and find myself a husband”
- said no one ever.
As you sow, so shall you reap...women should be valued more !
Having a girlfriend or wife is a privilege not a guarantee in life.
Even for Chinese graduates who acquire a handful of qualifications marriage is still a delusional dream. Social prejudice and men-women discrepancy worsens the terrifying distraught caused by economic woes. This results in the quest for harrassing foreign women which is despicable.
I ain't ever getting married, I can barely take care of myself.
Saaame.
That's a shame. I hope you meet the person who will change your mind.
@@n0odles86no one cares about your opinion
@@n0odles86 i hope you meet a surgeon who can give you a brain 😂
@@ithinkiknowme6450 😂😂😂 hilarious. I need a brain for wishing happiness on someone. Yes. Haha.
They've no excuse for the treatment their women suffered during the One Child policy. Let the population plummet