THIS is a great talk!!!! ALL those things you think "annoy" you right now, the toys, the tears, the late nights....one day, in the not so distant future, you're going to miss EVERY SINGLE ONE OF THEM!!!
The wife died in 2018. My son just turned 12 today... Im not going to lie, the last 3.5 years I have done less and less with him on the weekends.... I watch TV, nap, then cook dinner... This video is an eye opener...
There is a better way. Parental custody of children is actually a very simple matter to solve given the true desire of “What is best for the child”. We need to separate and discard marriage from family law as they no longer seem to be connected and "Marriage makes people treat each other as articles of property and no longer as free human beings. Einstein". We can develop protocols that confer (over time) equal parental rights and responsibilities,…..once parentage is proven. Children’s natural maturation process has 3 essential stages of need. A.The unconditional love of the mother from birth until about 7 years of age. The mother to have “thefinalsay” and to receive child allowance. B.The conditional love of the father, who takes his children out into the world, gives security and teaches social boundaries from 7 until about 13 years of age. The father to have “thefinalsay” and to receive child allowance. C.The friendship and respect of peers from 13 until 18 years of age. The child to have “thefinalsay”. If these 3 stages are not gone through in order, maturation is unlikely to be satisfactorily achieved and mental resilience reduced. This has now become generational. Such a regime of equal parenting rights (over time) would bind parents into a co-operative relationship, because (over time) each will hold the power of “thefinalsay” sequentially when they are best favoured to use it. Such family protocols would be the default position, (allowing love, courtesy and humour to prevail) but could in exceptional cases be varied by the court. Buckminster Fuller said:- “You never change things by fighting the existing reality. To change something, build a new model that makes the existing model obsolete”. To alleviate suffering is worthy. To prevent it is divine, but thankless.
Anybody have a link to info/vids based solely around children of divorce & the lack of their BIOLOGICAL FATHER playing a significant role in their lives?? My ex REALLY needs to see any/all available info.... like . . . YESTERDAY!!🤦🏼♂️
I didn’t skip on my kids, been kidnapped from me by the American bias discriminatory judicial system, all mothers are so good and most fathers are bad, that’s the American mentality unfortunately, they sidelined the dads. In my case for the last six years I haven’t seen my kids because the American bias judicial system doesn’t allow me even phone calls to my kids. My kids been taken hundreds of miles away just because the mother found a new boyfriend. And I don’t pay Ransom.
Understand the idea behind this presentation. Not feasible when I'm a single income household. Working a night shift doesn't present the "father factor" he's proposing. Can't work nights and be available at the same time.
THIS is a great talk!!!! ALL those things you think "annoy" you right now, the toys, the tears, the late nights....one day, in the not so distant future, you're going to miss EVERY SINGLE ONE OF THEM!!!
Love this; great job, Justin. With three kids out of the home and one left, it goes fast!
The wife died in 2018. My son just turned 12 today... Im not going to lie, the last 3.5 years I have done less and less with him on the weekends.... I watch TV, nap, then cook dinner... This video is an eye opener...
Have you started to do more?
Hey Justin... Thanks for this TedX! So GLAD to hear SOMEONE standing UP FOR DADS!!!!! The forgotten Parent!!!
Let’s bring this talk to young people in high school. We have a program called Best Practices of Fatherhood earmarked for high school students.
That was amazing
Hits the nail on the head!
Daniel, I know you and the "Kid Trillionaire" are doing this daily. Keep up the great work!
There is a better way. Parental custody of children is actually a very simple matter to solve given the true desire of “What is best for the child”.
We need to separate and discard marriage from family law as they no longer seem to be connected and "Marriage makes people treat each other as articles of property and no longer as free human beings. Einstein".
We can develop protocols that confer (over time) equal parental rights and responsibilities,…..once parentage is proven.
Children’s natural maturation process has 3 essential stages of need.
A.The unconditional love of the mother from birth until about 7 years of age. The mother to have “thefinalsay” and to receive child allowance.
B.The conditional love of the father, who takes his children out into the world, gives security and teaches social boundaries from 7 until about 13 years of age. The father to have “thefinalsay” and to receive child allowance.
C.The friendship and respect of peers from 13 until 18 years of age. The child to have “thefinalsay”.
If these 3 stages are not gone through in order, maturation is unlikely to be satisfactorily achieved and mental resilience reduced. This has now become generational.
Such a regime of equal parenting rights (over time) would bind parents into a co-operative relationship, because (over time) each will hold the power of “thefinalsay” sequentially when they are best favoured to use it.
Such family protocols would be the default position, (allowing love, courtesy and humour to prevail) but could in exceptional cases be varied by the court.
Buckminster Fuller said:-
“You never change things by fighting the existing reality. To change something, build a new model that makes the existing model obsolete”.
To alleviate suffering is worthy. To prevent it is divine, but thankless.
Fantastic thoughts, well done sir!
Thank you. Join us on the Daddy Saturday movement to impact 10 million fathers in the next 10 years and disrupt the fatherlessness epidemic!
Anybody have a link to info/vids based solely around children of divorce & the lack of their BIOLOGICAL FATHER playing a significant role in their lives??
My ex REALLY needs to see any/all available info....
like . . . YESTERDAY!!🤦🏼♂️
Press your henpecked..
Raise your hand if your father skipped out on you too 🙋🏼♀️
Coco K that’s what she told you
I didn’t skip on my kids, been kidnapped from me by the American bias discriminatory judicial system, all mothers are so good and most fathers are bad, that’s the American mentality unfortunately, they sidelined the dads. In my case for the last six years I haven’t seen my kids because the American bias judicial system doesn’t allow me even phone calls to my kids. My kids been taken hundreds of miles away just because the mother found a new boyfriend. And I don’t pay Ransom.
Raise your hand if you had the worst father in the world
Lol 2017 video 1500 views.
Understand the idea behind this presentation. Not feasible when I'm a single income household. Working a night shift doesn't present the "father factor" he's proposing. Can't work nights and be available at the same time.
Then, plan ahead, do something special at your own time.
Quality time is more important than a lot of non quality time.
@@mastermind0981 Very true. Loads of fathers waste their available time half-ignoring their kids or give the wrong kinds of attention