Story Time: Losing our second family home & my brother's arrest on my wedding day!

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  • @LillianLadu
    @LillianLadu 4 роки тому +79

    But really Nozi has a talent for story telling! I can't be the only one who felt like they were there too hahah

    • @boitumelomotaung9898
      @boitumelomotaung9898 4 роки тому +1

      She told the story about Brian, Sam and her mom like she was there in person.
      She such a good storyteller

  • @noluthandosibanda3852
    @noluthandosibanda3852 4 роки тому +50

    Lol the way you speak ngathi you speaking directly to us and not a camera. You’re a natural. Very insightful

  • @zandilemasinga9376
    @zandilemasinga9376 4 роки тому +92

    Who likes before watching the video 🎉💃

  • @snayezulu7251
    @snayezulu7251 4 роки тому +36

    Brian is trash. He wanted to ruin your wedding, that’s why he waited days to report your brother to the police.
    We must make your R200k back here on UA-cam. I’m already looking forward to your next video. I lit up in the morning when I got a notification for this video. You’re quite the story teller. 😄

  • @mntmblalela
    @mntmblalela 4 роки тому +27

    I never comment but really like your content, it's so insightful. I sometimes think I'm just gonna listen for few minutes because I watch your channel before bed time, but end up finishing the whole thing. Reason being you're such a breath of fresh air, so adorable & so genuine. May God continue to bless you and enlarge your territory. Much love.

  • @DiaryofTravelingAfricanWoman
    @DiaryofTravelingAfricanWoman 3 роки тому +4

    The renovation piece hit home! I have the same intentions to fix my grans house (now family home) and you reminded me of legal complexities. I realized it’s easier to get my own stand and build my own home eMakhaya. Avoids all the drama. Thank you 🙏🏽 love your channel ❤️

  • @asemahleayandamboxela4597
    @asemahleayandamboxela4597 4 роки тому +13

    "Imiratata"😂😂😂...the drama!!!!
    On a serious note,thank you Nozi...this is eye opening!!!

  • @babalwagunu2561
    @babalwagunu2561 4 роки тому +17

    You've been through a lot sis but God has been faithful to you and your family. Thank you for telling your to us.

    • @phiwamakatana8857
      @phiwamakatana8857 4 роки тому +5

      There is nothing important as forgiving and trusting God with your life, Nozi is the proof

  • @angelangobe4563
    @angelangobe4563 4 роки тому +28

    Brian is a snake. Him and his wife are horrible people. Anyway thank you for sharing Nozi. Your stories are very relevant

  • @sharonjumba4648
    @sharonjumba4648 4 роки тому +18

    Thank you for highlighting this reality in some African homes.
    My family has experienced this, misappropriation of resources, violence and discrimination against women (disinheritance).

  • @MsKaduki
    @MsKaduki 4 роки тому +55

    My favorite UA-camr❤️

  • @xoxomacx2539
    @xoxomacx2539 4 роки тому +12

    Your a good story teller 👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾

  • @livhuwanik6685
    @livhuwanik6685 4 роки тому +9

    Yhuuu sis Nozi this was very insightful. Its unfortunate that black parents don't prioritize this especially the ones that have more than one child. These things happen in our communities, we see how even extended families sometimes fight for their sister's child's house

  • @nomnikelomayongo241
    @nomnikelomayongo241 4 роки тому +13

    I was introduced to this channel by my daughter , I enjoy listening to your stories they are always having something interesting to learn about ,life experiences.

  • @sesetumatoti4865
    @sesetumatoti4865 4 роки тому +19

    Yhooo that morning of your wedding🏃‍♀️ I was there and wamtshela indaba zakhe elapolisa sisi and he was totally RUDE he things yibhoza kanti she came to the wrong lady(Nozi) 😂.
    All in all it was a great and blessed day 😘❤️

  • @MhlongoNomsa
    @MhlongoNomsa 4 роки тому +4

    Omg! You’re so real and authentic.😫😍 Not to mention funny🤣

  • @thandoengwenya6458
    @thandoengwenya6458 4 роки тому +82

    Your cousin and his wife are so greedy. They want to reap where they did not sow.

  • @NThando
    @NThando 4 роки тому +12

    Yazi, you are an amazing storyteller Sisi, I connected this video on to my tv with my popcorn 🍿and I literally felt like I was watching a movie. However, on a serious note, this is a Godsend because I have been contemplating renovating the family home where my mum raised us and I believe this is God confirming my doubts. Thank you for sharing and letting us know we are not alone.

  • @simaniwa1021
    @simaniwa1021 3 роки тому +2

    You're a brilliant story teller Mkhaya, ndiyayibona yonke lento like I'm watching a movie 👍

  • @oratilechaoka3859
    @oratilechaoka3859 4 роки тому +6

    You're such a good storyteller!

  • @elizabethgilbert3011
    @elizabethgilbert3011 4 роки тому +7

    Good advice. Listening from England

  • @sbonzama7013
    @sbonzama7013 Рік тому

    We also need to start thinking about trusts!

  • @boiketlomongoato8387
    @boiketlomongoato8387 4 роки тому +11

    Enjoyed the video, you're a great storyteller. Brian is VERY dangerous!

  • @qapelabeadwork
    @qapelabeadwork 4 роки тому +5

    Wooow Sisi you have actually opened my eyes, in app we always watch stupid storytimes about umJaivo this is actually what we need❤

  • @thokozanimkhize7617
    @thokozanimkhize7617 4 роки тому +6

    I'm amazed at how you survived this without cutting anyone😂

  • @elle22pr3
    @elle22pr3 4 роки тому +2

    I wish there was an option to love!!! I am so inlove with your videos!!! You are simply so amazing and powerful!!! Young girls should look up to woman like you

  • @afikiletunzi1823
    @afikiletunzi1823 4 роки тому +18

    Uyandihlekisa usaqala uvula umlomo ndithanda leDrama yakho.❤😍😘

  • @intellectfree
    @intellectfree 4 роки тому +1

    I so relate to the house stories. In the neighborhood that scheme was popular & so many families were left broken. Also the fam house we experienced that, everyone contributed to renovations & later on found out that our parent wasn't included.
    You're great story teller & this is NB

  • @thanandlovu5107
    @thanandlovu5107 4 роки тому +5

    Haibo we still have family members who are greedy over family houses 💔. Hai no Brian

  • @everythingbeautifulalways6118
    @everythingbeautifulalways6118 4 роки тому +1

    Wow,I will always say it u are the smartest person, always opening our eyes not leaving anything to chance.Thank u again.

  • @tashatee1389
    @tashatee1389 4 роки тому +8

    Love your energy sana! 😂 You're a good storyteller 👌😍

  • @kerilengmofokeng3927
    @kerilengmofokeng3927 4 роки тому +4

    Please do story time more often
    I love everything about you Nozi❤️

  • @motlatsilinamohlamonyane4398
    @motlatsilinamohlamonyane4398 4 роки тому +3

    Yoh Brain and wife they are greedy walking Devils. Incukuthu ngesiXhosa. This is eye opening story we need to be very careful with ownership of houses. Our family we 3 too one boy. I did realized the law things first hand and had a family meeting and said no one is owing the house as siblings. Luckily we all had our houses and agreed not even our kids needs to stay there to avoid all the mess. The house has a caretaker and we renting other rooms. We all free to go back home to do rituals. 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

  • @mamatonamawela4553
    @mamatonamawela4553 4 роки тому +2

    😂 Just discovered this channel today, I love you already Sis' Nozi

  • @abatetsiangela4523
    @abatetsiangela4523 4 роки тому +3

    Nozi, you are a genius and just know I love you soooooooooo much! Always a fighter and coming out victorious!!!! Missing Sku??????

  • @naledilillygqibela3652
    @naledilillygqibela3652 4 роки тому +22

    I'm sorry but uBrian ligqwirha jhoo😭😭.
    Sis is going to Hit 40k in a few. Congratulations Nozi💃💃💃👏👏👏

    • @NozibeleQamngana
      @NozibeleQamngana  4 роки тому +4

      ❤️❤️❤️Thank you so much for always supporting me 😭😭

    • @gertrudegichaba3913
      @gertrudegichaba3913 4 роки тому +4

      @@NozibeleQamngana I love you Nozi and I'm in my 50s. Your stories are relatable and narrated by a pro. in story telling - you. Love from USA/Kenya.

  • @kelebetsemogale6736
    @kelebetsemogale6736 3 роки тому

    You are brutally honest. I love you

  • @SuzetteKhiba
    @SuzetteKhiba 4 роки тому +15

    Firstly wow we already on 30k and almost 40k congratulations. 😍🎊🎉
    Eish you've been through the most Nozi. But we thank God that we really learn so much from your experiences. Much love❤️❤️
    #suzettekeybah

  • @claudiamela4040
    @claudiamela4040 4 роки тому +5

    Brian is beyond repair, he goes after everyone. Malathisi umushaye kancane Maan. I agree with you so loud like I'm sitting with you yuh 🤭

  • @gofa.matembe4761
    @gofa.matembe4761 4 роки тому +4

    Food for thought...thank you so much

  • @tarrynprinsloo9111
    @tarrynprinsloo9111 4 роки тому +21

    Hey nozi, im so happy to see you so happy, God Bless

    • @NozibeleQamngana
      @NozibeleQamngana  4 роки тому +2

      God bless Tarryn ❤️

    • @tarrynprinsloo9111
      @tarrynprinsloo9111 4 роки тому +2

      Thank you nozi, u r a inspiration,

    • @thabethenobuhle3020
      @thabethenobuhle3020 4 роки тому +1

      Yoo sisi thank you I have been thinking of making my mom to get a will before she passes... I forsee this happening in my family

  • @mpumitwala2614
    @mpumitwala2614 4 роки тому +16

    Got married at 25, I didn't have many assets, even our pastor recommended an antinuptial contract. It was the best R3000 we spent on a lawyer and it was quick. Still happily married. As people we need to rid this idea that antinuptials are you pre-planning for a divorce.

    • @lebonhlapo2607
      @lebonhlapo2607 4 роки тому +7

      Wow, I'm 25 and don't have any assets to my name bae has investments. Honestly I understand why people opt for in COP but in these economical times we really need to be open-minded and realistic tuu😢😢😢 and not be ignorant nor in comprising financial situations.
      P.S. Apology for the long comment.

    • @ncisept5900
      @ncisept5900 4 роки тому +4

      My (new) partner (lawyer 😂) said he wants one and I also want one..... Without accrual.

    • @mpumitwala2614
      @mpumitwala2614 4 роки тому +2

      @@ncisept5900 yhoooo I can't remember the difference between the two. And do you agree with it?
      My husbands friend wants to get one but his fiancé doesn't even worse bathi the church the go to doesn't support getting married out of community of property. Can you imagine that nonsense. Apparently guy now has cold feet

    • @mpumitwala2614
      @mpumitwala2614 4 роки тому +3

      For me it was protection against debt, I didn't want to be inheriting debt down the line and not having some financial freedom down the line and we both agreed to that.
      When we met the lawyer she made us list out assets to see the value of the things we're coming into the marriage with. A whole me ended up having a larger balance than him. I didn't expect it shem and I don't think they asked us about investment policies and what not ngoba he would have outweighed me.
      I saw a Twitter thread from someone called your sister in law or something like that and it was really informative shem.
      Now. I'm sorry about the long response

    • @lebonhlapo2607
      @lebonhlapo2607 4 роки тому +1

      Nthabiseng Monareng School of Relationships FB group has some disheartening stories regarding marriage and divorce stories just MIND BLOGGING AT IT'S FINEST🖐 And if the church doesn't want to officiate their marriage then there's also home affairs you know😂😂😂 as long as God knows the purity of our ❤ then I think you need human "validation" for God's way of marriage.

  • @sinovuyonontshiza7759
    @sinovuyonontshiza7759 4 роки тому

    Yhooo Nozi so many people need to hear this. We really don't think of these things and we don't talk about them as families.

  • @phumlanomdebevana5998
    @phumlanomdebevana5998 3 роки тому

    Its in how u you say u"Brayen"for me. You're such a vibe

  • @sindisiwerudymoloi3146
    @sindisiwerudymoloi3146 4 роки тому +3

    Love you're videos especially when you're mom amazes you tjo Lady. You're a whole vibe nje.

  • @tamarandziweni8862
    @tamarandziweni8862 4 роки тому +3

    Ooh I loove you for being brutally honest...mna I learnt something as a single mom of 2...Iyaxoxisa ifamily house sana...ndiyazela kweyaku lomamam...and issue is still unresolve...thank you my love Ane🤣🤣

  • @cindyn8915
    @cindyn8915 4 роки тому +4

    Lol it's crazy that I've known you for 2 weeks now. Lol i have this habit of stalking people 🤣 i came across you and loved you from the spot on. I've watched all your videos and it's easy to say I'm a biggest fan

  • @onikagantsho6652
    @onikagantsho6652 4 роки тому +3

    God really has your back! Yho

  • @pt9183
    @pt9183 4 роки тому +1

    You are great at storytelling 🙂

  • @mercuryletshwiti9528
    @mercuryletshwiti9528 4 роки тому +4

    So getting myself that kinda t-shirt, Nozi even my unborn is kicking like crazy to your voice 🤣🤣🤣🤣 it's people such family members that we need to cut off.

  • @thutycrossbee3694
    @thutycrossbee3694 4 роки тому

    U ku lunga kwakho is something beyond being human.... Yhuhhh hayi you are something else. Thanking you for your aunthenticity and honesty, you are touching lives sis

  • @tshegofatsoletsoalo6383
    @tshegofatsoletsoalo6383 4 роки тому +13

    Sis Nozi your life is a movie.. 😂😂 I love it though. I am learning so much from your experiences. Thank you for sharing 🙏

  • @lucymutondo7773
    @lucymutondo7773 4 роки тому +2

    I love you ....I can relate to your experiences ...love from Kenya

  • @neliswanoah7663
    @neliswanoah7663 4 роки тому +2

    You such a great story teller 🌺

  • @joycelinbenjamin1492
    @joycelinbenjamin1492 4 роки тому +2

    Good morning you touch on some very important topics, thanks for sharing. 🤔 👍.

  • @zimbinimqamelo4648
    @zimbinimqamelo4648 4 роки тому +1

    Yhu the Police man barging in part made me so angry!😡🤬 looking beautiful as always♥️

  • @siphokazigqamlana2877
    @siphokazigqamlana2877 4 роки тому +1

    I love your truth and I miss 🙂🙂🙂🙂You are opening our mind

  • @briellab3864
    @briellab3864 4 роки тому +3

    Love your channel, it informative and educative, Weldon and thank you for sharing 🙏🌻💓

  • @bongiwemotloung3074
    @bongiwemotloung3074 4 роки тому

    Yhoo Babe ukhuluma kamnandi ngathi ufunda phansi. You're a good storyteller. Ngyanithanda Nozi noSkhu

  • @thanandlovu5107
    @thanandlovu5107 4 роки тому +6

    The way she said "Brian"😂😂🤣🤣

  • @okuhlezongola5577
    @okuhlezongola5577 4 роки тому +4

    This is very educational thank you Nozi ♥️♥️♥️

  • @lungisamnyalatyho426
    @lungisamnyalatyho426 4 роки тому +2

    Thank you sisi Nozi, this was very informative really. People are so greedy out there family or no family kunzima bethu.

  • @marjoriemuchena6031
    @marjoriemuchena6031 4 роки тому +1

    Hello Nozi, im new here and all i can say is im inspired! This is so profound 🙏🙏🙏 and an eyeopener to many of us. Hey you narration is out of this world 💕💕

  • @londilemsomi2048
    @londilemsomi2048 4 роки тому

    You are great story teller babes

  • @ayanda.g2433
    @ayanda.g2433 4 роки тому +9

    Thank you for sharing your experience as painful& heartbreaking as it was (to say the least),Hmmm... It's quite sad that you had to go trough what you went trough- life neh!
    Some people can really allow their hearts to be consumed by evil !!! As for "Brian" unesbindi esinefutha eceleni iyhoooo!!! the condition of his heart wooooo😪... it's very unfortunate that there are so many people like that on this earth. May we all learn from your experience and be wiser,kinder & more considerate people, there's honestly a lot that one needs to discuss think about in order to plan for the future ahead.Thank
    A blessed Sunday &week ahead🤗

  • @pedrosibara7763
    @pedrosibara7763 4 роки тому +1

    Imirantanta 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 yhu I can't recall when last I heard elogama... Every family needs a Malathisi to sort out greedy relatives...

  • @buhlemathenjwa3102
    @buhlemathenjwa3102 Рік тому

    Lol just watched this. Yoh ha.a ukhohlakele uBrian😭😭

  • @locatedbygrace6936
    @locatedbygrace6936 3 роки тому +1

    Yhooo sana I even forgot ba wawu ngekho ubaliselwe ❤️❤️❤️😂😂😂

  • @lesedilucymotloung
    @lesedilucymotloung 4 роки тому

    Yhoo thank you for this, the family dynamics when it comes to money. Very scary

  • @mayephulakaje7091
    @mayephulakaje7091 4 роки тому

    Thanks...this was an awakening call for me

  • @anelisamoya3429
    @anelisamoya3429 4 роки тому +6

    blessing us so early in the morning, loving the hair ntombi ❤❤❤❤

  • @pererwvdsfsdf5844
    @pererwvdsfsdf5844 2 роки тому

    Thank you for this advice Nozi....

  • @masivuyenodali8622
    @masivuyenodali8622 4 роки тому +23

    Love the T-shirt 👌

  • @buyisileelvisdyantyi7765
    @buyisileelvisdyantyi7765 4 роки тому +3

    I m always looking forward to learn from you. Thank you for sharing.

  • @lwandiesahleesahmrszungu6353
    @lwandiesahleesahmrszungu6353 3 роки тому +2

    Tjoooooooo thats what happened on my dad's estate, the wife took everything for herself. Its sad how things are these days kubi.

  • @namhlazimasa7446
    @namhlazimasa7446 4 роки тому +4

    My favorite youtuber ♡♡ happy sunday

  • @lihlendlovu260
    @lihlendlovu260 4 роки тому +5

    I love you Nozi I wish to meet you in person one day.❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @mayephulakaje7091
    @mayephulakaje7091 4 роки тому

    I am listening to you and Sbosiso on SAfm...Congratulations guys

  • @nosiphiwontanga930
    @nosiphiwontanga930 4 роки тому +5

    So ready gorgeous 💖❤️happy bless Sunday 🙏

  • @Maureen_Malgas
    @Maureen_Malgas 3 роки тому

    Damn! NOZI ❤️ Can tell a story.

  • @nobubelephuza5045
    @nobubelephuza5045 3 роки тому

    I want to meet your brother....new on your channel, currently binging your videos hoping to bump into him somewhere. Please don't get too busy for us Nozi (funny enough I am Nobu, people mistake me for a Nozi because Nozibele is more common than Nobubele)...where was i...agh anyways the core of the comment is that I love the channel, loving your work, will go follow you on social media as well to stay connected to your work. sending love and light!!

  • @nosiphiwosojola1953
    @nosiphiwosojola1953 4 роки тому +1

    Thank you Nosi, your content is so informative. Sana uCousin brother and wife😖 they literally wanted Malatisi to be in jail on your wedding day. God favored you guys 🙌🏽

  • @joey9876
    @joey9876 4 роки тому +31

    I don't know Brian and his wife and I don't like them already

  • @thokozanimkhize7617
    @thokozanimkhize7617 4 роки тому +9

    Also, i feel like Brian's wife is behind this stuff lol she's a lady macbeth😂

  • @nompilomadaza5053
    @nompilomadaza5053 3 роки тому

    Very educational, thank you Nozi.💪👌

  • @elizabethletsoso2558
    @elizabethletsoso2558 4 роки тому +3

    Just want to say I love you 💕 and your T-shirt Nozi

  • @thandazanisnegugu3857
    @thandazanisnegugu3857 7 місяців тому +1

    Saze samnandi istory time😂❤

  • @mbalenhlekhoza720
    @mbalenhlekhoza720 4 роки тому +6

    Thina sicommenta kuqala bese siyobuka ke💃💃💃

  • @TheNtombi
    @TheNtombi 4 роки тому +1

    Yhuuu ngaba ndisaquleka nangoku🙆‍♀️🙆‍♀️🙆‍♀️imali engaka yama renovations. Yilento usazoba blessed sana. As for Brian yena he will get what's coming his way.
    Thanks wethu for inspiring us we gain a lot from your life stories ❤❤❤❤

    • @phiwamakatana8857
      @phiwamakatana8857 4 роки тому

      he will definitely get it and when he gets it his wife will also leave him

  • @nolusizodlalisa5573
    @nolusizodlalisa5573 4 роки тому +17

    Awu kodwa nkos yam! I haven't even started the video, but second home??? I'm convinced the same cousin or his family is involved once again

    • @NozibeleQamngana
      @NozibeleQamngana  4 роки тому +4

      Same person!!!!

    • @nolusizodlalisa5573
      @nolusizodlalisa5573 4 роки тому +1

      @@NozibeleQamngana it's comforting to know the rest of the family are good people. I had put them all in the same box.

  • @salmamohmed222
    @salmamohmed222 4 роки тому +1

    Yohhhhh this is deep 😭😭😭😭 I hope you're okay babes ❤❤❤

  • @kinacab6327
    @kinacab6327 3 роки тому

    Yoh😲🤔ansayoyiki le part ye renovation,anfuni noythetha.

  • @prudencemadubula2279
    @prudencemadubula2279 4 роки тому +3

    Thanks sis Nozi for the advice ❤️

  • @lebogangmzondi567
    @lebogangmzondi567 4 роки тому +2

    Yhuu i have been waiting for this video since last night.Enkosi sis Noz

  • @khethiwengubo8035
    @khethiwengubo8035 4 роки тому

    such struggles makes us strong....

  • @immaculatekemihingo262
    @immaculatekemihingo262 4 роки тому +3

    Hi Beautiful, thanks for sharing your story. LOVE U.

  • @lisomagwentshu8264
    @lisomagwentshu8264 Рік тому

    Good!! Wabethwa kancinci la Brian 😡

  • @nomfundoludziya8858
    @nomfundoludziya8858 4 роки тому +2

    Your video is very informative Nozi, thank you for this.

  • @simenyiweshabangu9509
    @simenyiweshabangu9509 4 роки тому +20

    Brian's wife ngiyamsola...your cousin is being manipulated here.

  • @zikhonamatsolo5207
    @zikhonamatsolo5207 4 роки тому +4

    ❤️❤️ Blessing to you and your family