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  • @MindfulAttraction2.0
    @MindfulAttraction2.0  8 місяців тому

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  • @KaylaNoelle1
    @KaylaNoelle1 8 місяців тому +62

    "Prehistoric Loser" is such a good band name lol but the body language bit is so true! My ex used to make fun of me for "walking like a cheetah on the hunt" fast and a bit menacingly yet I went from constant catcalls, because I look about 15 even though I'm an adult, to barely any. I'm skinny and only average height BUT I look like I will put up a big fight, and predatory men don't want to deal with that. I also WAS attacked when I was 14 and I got away by pulling out his eye, I have no regrets about that and would do it again if I had to even though it was disgusting and traumatic, being raped is infinitely more traumatic so I did what I had to do. Confident and even intimidating body language is so important and has improved my life a lot. Plus the men who approach me are less likely to be predatory themselves they are more likely to be confident and just appreciating that I am confident too!

    • @Xianne027
      @Xianne027 8 місяців тому +2

      You go girl! Sounds like me back then at your age. 😉

  • @Tnc874
    @Tnc874 8 місяців тому +33

    I just started the video, but my daughter was an easy target for bullies. She was sensitive and nice and wanted everyone 2 be her friend. I put her in boxing and she learned how to throw them hands. And i told her dont start fights and when someone fucs wit u, u let them know you aren't the one to fuc wit. Drag her ass was my advice lol

    • @sweet2sourr
      @sweet2sourr 8 місяців тому +5

      I like you a lot 🥲

  • @AD-hh6dd
    @AD-hh6dd 8 місяців тому +20

    You may have thought the mean girl was the boss, but you’re ignoring the fact that the friendly lady was in fact the one who successfully got the job. Maybe she listens to Robert Green and pulled one in you by keeping you off guard. That’s a different kind of tactic. Love your vids btw

  • @Zzz-tu3es
    @Zzz-tu3es 8 місяців тому +7

    😹😹 your cat theory is cute. I am a woman but I’ve always adored cats on a level of us understanding each other. All of my cats have protected me in the past and I’ve never had to win them over because we always had an immediate bond. but maybe I’m just an animal person

  • @cheekytitaable
    @cheekytitaable 8 місяців тому +7

    Excellent advice..this promotes self care, self worth, introspection and growth !! People are opportunistic, being a people pleaser puts you at risk of abuse

  • @PrissyLadyVenom
    @PrissyLadyVenom 8 місяців тому +9

    It’s true.
    You can tell who is prey… and who is not to be effed with

  • @Princessnikkixoxo
    @Princessnikkixoxo 8 місяців тому +17

    This was a gem of a video that I found today thank you so much for posting this ✨ sending love and kindness to everyone 😊

  • @vaishuvj2712
    @vaishuvj2712 2 місяці тому

    I love the soft music playing in the back... therapeutic...Great advice...

  • @Pinkgirlyyyy
    @Pinkgirlyyyy 8 місяців тому +10

    I love how you explain everything! I always learn something new with you!

  • @jasminesaez4878
    @jasminesaez4878 8 місяців тому +5

    I been trying all these tactics I am telling you 😅 its been freaking hard I didn’t how needy I can be and tho it’s been hard and sometimes I fall back into old ways and get pissed off at myself. But it’s been working thank you Zaddy Alex ❤❤❤

  • @catherineclark8407
    @catherineclark8407 8 місяців тому +2

    Great video, father Alex! I love the insight you share. You bless us to move forward with our lives.❤

  • @c.uni2370
    @c.uni2370 8 місяців тому +7

    My toxic bestie hates cats soo much and tried so hard to convince me why they r so evil but it never worked… 😂

  • @PUXXYCAT
    @PUXXYCAT 2 місяці тому

    I wish you had more videos about how to handle relationships that are more established. Once you've moved in together and already been courted.

  • @lynnmataz221
    @lynnmataz221 8 місяців тому +3

    Wooow u were a Social Worker 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 that’s impressive. You are multi talented 👏🏼👏🏼♥️

  • @junewade6859
    @junewade6859 8 місяців тому +4

    You’re an absolute gem! Always enjoy your videos

  • @gonzaless94
    @gonzaless94 8 місяців тому +6

    Needed this. Thank you.♥️

  • @basshunter9018
    @basshunter9018 8 місяців тому +1

    i;ve a boss like that - he chats n laughs with many of the others in the office...wen it comes to me, he doesnt acknowledge me - never says hello. makes me so frustrated!

  • @katolang1161
    @katolang1161 8 місяців тому +5

    Greetings from Toronto 🇨🇦 Father Alex,
    I’ve been a subby for the past 4 years and I just wanted to say thank you for your content. It’s been a pleasure to watch you grow into such an amazing content creator. It’s really top tier 🙏🏽💞✨
    I
    I do have a question. Can you do a video for how a woman who has an avoidant attachment style naturally, can be more warm towards their partner (man). If that makes sense.
    I’ve been told my whole life that I’m naturally cold, and I do care about other people. But I guess it doesn’t manifest the way I think it does.
    Thank you 🙏🏽 so much for reading this 💞

    • @MindfulAttraction2.0
      @MindfulAttraction2.0  8 місяців тому +2

      Meditation helps A LOT.

    • @brandyfritz1587
      @brandyfritz1587 8 місяців тому +4

      ​@MindfulAttraction2.0 I agree and believe it's helpful to know different ways of meditating because some can be more helpful than others. For me personally, I find simply observing which thoughts naturally come into awareness without any attachment or judgement is the easiest way to become aware of where I'm at mentally and emotionally. It can take a little practice to not judge but it helps so much and trains one to be less judgemental of others. Self awareness is a great place to start when trying to see what others have told you about yourself. You may even find that some people aren't really seeing you for who you actually are and that is okay. Many people will project their own stuff onto you and if you are self aware, it can help you to avoid buying into their vision of you.

  • @LisaCaseyComedy
    @LisaCaseyComedy 8 місяців тому +2

    Hey Dalexis, I would love to hear your opinion on Passive men, men who are generally passive

  • @oceejay5148
    @oceejay5148 8 місяців тому +1

    Phew !!! Alexis my personal coach ! Thank you for this gem per usual. I respect and appreciate you a lot. You have no idea 🙌🏾

  • @DhahabuAO
    @DhahabuAO 8 місяців тому +3

    Father Alex, could you do a topic of what a man you were with is thinking when he sees you with another guy "When you post on your socials" when he has not been reaching out aka wants to be friends

  • @shinebabyshine.
    @shinebabyshine. 7 місяців тому

    i will probably never do another vipassana retreat due to covid so "the power of now" it is. "a good natured strength" is the ultimate goal and i think im close. thanks cousin alex

  • @mmommo-hx4dx
    @mmommo-hx4dx 8 місяців тому

    came to hear about men, but the BULLY info was extremely helpful because I get it a lot.

  • @nicolachilds-adams2064
    @nicolachilds-adams2064 8 місяців тому

    Whoah! What a GREAT video on self-respect!

  • @Livinglovegoddess
    @Livinglovegoddess 8 місяців тому

    Love it, I'm
    The king of the mountain, wait im the Queen, respect or back off! 😂

  • @ElizabethSeiden-lg6mj
    @ElizabethSeiden-lg6mj Місяць тому

    Hi Dalexis! Amazing video! Can you please tell me if you think this guy is really an actor or is he Cat fishing? Whenever I notice that I’m validating someone, I tell myself to stop. I don’t want to be the nice girl who gets bullied.

  • @lec9077
    @lec9077 7 місяців тому

    Your videos have helped me so much. Thank you.

  • @mizBTW
    @mizBTW 4 місяці тому

    I like Dogs, BIG DOGS
    .. BUT I HEART YOU lol

  • @Jules-740
    @Jules-740 8 місяців тому +3

    I need examples of the behaviors when it comes to dating men.

  • @meepaleep
    @meepaleep 8 місяців тому

    Alex we need some better tips than just walking away. Maybe try studying sales next, because I know theres more techniques than just this.

  • @msplintal1318
    @msplintal1318 8 місяців тому

    Great topic and video. Thanks

  • @sharonqui74
    @sharonqui74 3 місяці тому

    Hahahahahahahha how are your chakras today ?😂😂😂

  • @sweet2sourr
    @sweet2sourr 8 місяців тому

    Great video. A gem

  • @Amylynnklh900
    @Amylynnklh900 8 місяців тому +2

    Can someone answer me. I get what he’s saying, for me at work I’m having an issue. I feel like people just don’t like me in general so I don’t even try… I keep to myself. What should I do? I work with a bunch of guys and I can’t stand how all they do is gossip about people and clown around

  • @jajarounette95
    @jajarounette95 8 місяців тому

    Thank you for this video

  • @firebird3639
    @firebird3639 8 місяців тому +1

    Thats not true multiple people stopped contacting me after i did not reply or only answered im well and did not ask how they were.

  • @mmxmiranda
    @mmxmiranda 8 місяців тому

    great video daddy Alex

  • @Xianne027
    @Xianne027 8 місяців тому +9

    No, noo noooo, Aleeeex!!!! You're slipping back into your sloppy-Alex mode from a couple of years ago!!
    Stop that, boy!!
    Get outta bed, get dressed up (all fine like you do so well), don't show up the least bit stoned (yes, your eyes are a bit squinty and I can smell it from here) and get your act back together!
    Otherwise your (unofficial) image coach, Momma Xianne, is gonna have to jump on a plane and find you and slap some sense into you!!

    • @FleurRebelle
      @FleurRebelle 8 місяців тому +2

      Get a life... listen to the message instead of trying to control his movements

    • @Xianne027
      @Xianne027 8 місяців тому

      @@FleurRebelle Sorry, but people over 30 do expect professionalism, otherwise it'll stay as just a student and teenager channel.
      And yes, Alex did take my advice a couple of years ago. Said so himself.

  • @jasminesaez4878
    @jasminesaez4878 8 місяців тому

    Great video ❤

  • @farhatmohammadi7224
    @farhatmohammadi7224 6 місяців тому

    Yo your videos are getting better and better

  • @eveheart2876
    @eveheart2876 8 місяців тому

    I’m watching this video 😂 ur mindset is mysterious

  • @MelisJoy
    @MelisJoy 8 місяців тому

    THANK YOU for still making full length feature films in a world where everyone makes minute long videos 😂
    Btw, the thumbnail pic of you is 🔥🔥

  • @LonjeMarie7
    @LonjeMarie7 7 місяців тому

    I honestly did not hear the description of someone that some men would assault I believe it’s the woman who is looking down she looks vulnerable, weak and not paying attention.She does NOT look confident

  • @angel33333333
    @angel33333333 8 місяців тому

    I like this sitting in bedroom in my pajamas look 😅😊

  • @shantelclark5840
    @shantelclark5840 8 місяців тому

    Thank you ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @LokahSamastahSukhinoBhavantu23
    @LokahSamastahSukhinoBhavantu23 8 місяців тому +2

    😢 oh noo, yeah hurt ppl hurt ppl , i guess 😅 , Well you never seem aggresive to me in the videos, just passionate
    It’s funny how we believed that being attractive is only skin deep when we were younger. then understood how that it is minute , how you look
    i’m not sure i’m trying to win ppl over, i think i’m just projecting my own past struggles and loneliness and you know, trying my best to put myself in their shoes, perhaps, i could help them… or just be friendly once or twice, or trying to make others feels included cause i know how it feels to be alone, helpless, perhaps lonely, or rejected… & i don’t want to be another person in their life to add into that -.- I guess that’s annoying too… haha the only people i try to please the most is my close family, cause i ain’t got no one else haha
    I will pull away though, it’s always nice to be alone… Not everyone needs to be social, learned my lesson, rather than god forbid, annoy them 😂 :) I dont think im afraid to be hated though, maybe just loved, because sometimes i dont know the difference 🤦🏽‍♀️
    I thought that sign said be broke 😅 btw 😭

  • @kyraharvey6609
    @kyraharvey6609 8 місяців тому +1

    Thank u

  • @annieillis4604
    @annieillis4604 8 місяців тому +1

    Cats are great companions, not feelin that analogy.

  • @raziahzaman996
    @raziahzaman996 4 місяці тому

    Can you do review with Meghan and Prince Harry?

  • @eveheart2876
    @eveheart2876 8 місяців тому

    You are true mvp 😅 👏

  • @shinebabyshine.
    @shinebabyshine. 7 місяців тому

    not your prehistoric buddies lol

  • @whatsyourbae4092
    @whatsyourbae4092 8 місяців тому +5

    Can you talk about marriage and not dating

    • @bettydamalis
      @bettydamalis 8 місяців тому

      i dont think hes a dating coach

    • @whatsyourbae4092
      @whatsyourbae4092 8 місяців тому +1

      @@bettydamalishe’s mine 😂

    • @enchantedzx
      @enchantedzx 8 місяців тому

      agreed would fit the demographic more

  • @bebop504
    @bebop504 8 місяців тому

    Came to the United States? Where are you originally from?

  • @nurseannesinspirationalwellnes
    @nurseannesinspirationalwellnes 8 місяців тому

    ❤❤

  • @user-yk9sk7pg6v
    @user-yk9sk7pg6v 8 місяців тому

    *

  • @cooks44
    @cooks44 8 місяців тому

    😊

  • @amberanderson528
    @amberanderson528 7 місяців тому

    Women like men. Which means we like dogs. 😸

  • @sweet2sourr
    @sweet2sourr 8 місяців тому

    Raymonds scary arse

  • @VarshaThapa
    @VarshaThapa 8 місяців тому

    Not a cat person at all!!!